How To Build A STRONGER Relationship During DIFFICULT TIMES! | Radhi Devlukia Shetty & Jay Shetty

This week, Jay Shetty speaks with his wife, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty, to talk about the challenges
and successes of their relationship on this very special 2-year anniversary episode of On
Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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Both Jay and Radhi dance to the beat of their own drum, but building a lasting love takes
patience and collaboration--even during extreme circumstances.
This week, Jay Shetty speaks with his wife, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty, to talk about the challenges
and successes of their relationship on this very special 2-year anniversary episode of On
Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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[@ebonymoore5763]

I hope one day I can talk to my partner in this way. The emotional intelligence is just immaculate.

[@wealthlibrary]

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[@nazariamarte7973]

My hope 💜

[@sun_rose123]

❤️

[@AndreaS0766]

Me too! They are so awesome together.

[@deepikareddi7526]

🤧😭not crying

[@TheSunshinefee]

I'm so jealous of women who find their love in their 20s. they got many years to build good memories and grow together.

[@nicolepapaiordanou5177]

Trust lifes' timing

[@bklyn2014]

I feel you have to trust your own journey and timing. If it didn't happen in your 20s, it's hopefully for the better.

[@lydiawilkss]

hopefully the time spent apart will be made up for when you find each other! and i hope you’re finding happiness regardless 💞💞

[@ManjuManju-vk4uk]

it is ok, if you can find latter.

[@sussannekeith5676]

Yeah instead of having that all in the beginning and they don’t notice you’re around

[@khanyisileqha]

My heart is in shreds. I got betrayed by someone I least expected to. I'm binge watching Jay's channel because I'm trying to heal and the idea that real genuine love exists makes me feel hopeful... I guess. Please pray for me y'all. I'm in a very dark space.

[@shalinis2362]

As someone who's been in the same place, I can only tell you that you will heal and come back stronger. In some time, you'll wonder why you even gave the person so much energy and thought.. Key : Focus on yourself and not the other person or the betrayal..

[@sidharthasatapathy3491]

Forgive that person .. everything that happens happens for good.. be grateful for everything in your life..what you have, what you have achieved,And keep watching Jay Shetty videos you will feel happy and you will be healed..I am wishing you well ...stay positive stay strong stay blessed

[@SaycoPworrell]

🙏 for you and me. Same boat. Must focus on me and my kids

[@dove0211]

Do the work on yourself, because that's really what will get you out of your funk. Looking within yourself might feel uncomfortable and unfamiliar, but the ability to sit with yourself and feel your feelings and take responsibility for your wellbeing is what will heal you and make you feel more whole than you felt with that person. Feel the sadness, mourn the loss of that relationship, then when the sadness subsides enough start looking back at what that person brought to your life that you didn't have and seek to understand 1) why you felt that lack in the first place 2) how to fill that need by yourself for yourself. All the best finding your way back to your well-being. Also, check out Sadhguru and the Inner Engineering program

[@poonamarora2514]

God bless you with the power and warmth of love 💕

[@sherinadaryanani4392]

I love how natural and authentic Radhi is, please do more interviews together❤️

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn_Lk6hrhpVonNk 💚💚💚💚💚

[@prafulghadge6660]

❤️❤️❤️

[@binapatel1118]

She's sweet! 🌺

[@ninabenenachri7973]

Yes me too I love to see them together

[@relindeceline]

Radhi has such a sparkling energy! And she is also funny, especially when she looks into the camera!

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn_Lk6hrhpVonNk 💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@nehainthebay]

“Amplifying strengths” is such a strong point. It is so easy to see differences instead of noting how the differences create balance.✨

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn_Lk6hrhpVonNk 💚💚💚💚💚

[@96manya]

Radhi's question at 11:00 and Jay's answer to it is just so heartwarming and can literally save relationships

[@joanna2496]

totally

[@poonamarora2514]

You saved me time by mentioning the timeline

[@margaretsalter7276]

I just sent that to my boyfriend because I feel like we do this! ❤ I took me a while to find it, guess I should have read the comment first, lol.

[@faseegahdavids7978]

The way they supportive in their answering each other's questions >>>

[@luchiayoung]

She: “How many years have we been married...3? 4?..” He: “5”

[@ColdSpices]

Lol

[@cassandra.rose.]

I know I shouldn’t say this, but this is how I’m able to live and speak with friends… It blows my mind seeing actual proof of an emotionally intelligent male partner. Amazing.

[@queendeej463]

Can I just say.. the way Jay look at her is just full of love, respect and adoration… that’s when you know how pure and genuine they love each other.

[@JasenomadeTV]

"You want to be loved in that way", I never saw it that way... Amazing. Thanks Jay!

[@sarahinwonderland]

"I know you're not asking me because you're trying to make my life difficult, you're doing it because you want to be loved that way..." Brilliant. Such a beautiful interview. Thank you for sharing this and the energy you put into this video. Sending you many blessings!

[@harindersingh637]

😊

[@floraaoriakhi4358]

You guys make me never want to settle! The Effort you put into the relationship and understanding you’ve of each other is just amazing and admiring

[@alicelee5045]

Jay Shetty and Ravi Devlukia-Shetty are beautiful, inspiring and real. They clearly have a strong and healthy connection to each other and themselves. I wouldn't be surprised if they collaborate on a show or book jointly about how to have a strong relationship. I know that they are human beings and are not perfect but they sure seem to have it more together than most people. I am uplifted and inspired when I hear them speak.

[@user-vt3dc8rw4u]

The way she makes fun of Jay is priceless, this chemistry must be present in every healthy relationship 🤗

[@sapna319]

2:22 = What do you find hardest about love ? 10:58 = What are your thoughts when you go fetch something for someone ? 14:57 = About a time where you have made a compromise ? How did it work out ? 20:17 = How do you find time alone, and with each other (with both your busy schedules) ?

[@TakeBackYourMind997]

I love his point on compromise. Another perspective i heard is that doing those occasional things you think you don't want to do actually serves your deeper want to have a close, solid relationship. So if you change your perspective, you actually do want to do those things because you understand the deep intention behind them. There's definitely room to take that idea too far, but I think it's great for the smaller things.

[@MysticMegan888]

You literally found the perfect wife. She compliments you so well (-*-) It brings out a playful side and you bring out even more of her depth. You can tell she values you too and how amazing of a husband you are to her. I feel like you would do really great to teach men how to be really great husbands and how to respond to their wives needs lovingly and with patience, willingness, and positive energy- also teachings on how to remain calm, I’m learning that’s a masculine gift (it can be feminine too, but I think of a masculine counter part being the pillar/the rock/the stabilizing force) and her feminine energy being what decorated the space in magic, joy, fun, connection, purpose, meaning, warmth, safety, and love. So inspiring seeing you two talk like this. Blessings. Namaste

[@persephrotisv.2655]

Jay has a way of trimming the fat so to speak when explaining something. There’s a lot of entrepreneurs, celebs, motivation coaches etc. but I don’t think anyone hits the point in such an articulate way as he does ❤️

[@Sun-soilproductions]

Jordan Peterson is very articulate as well if you wanna check him out

[@sunshineandbs1263]

Ikr!

[@dk1828]

Ok...I was smiling and laughing the whole episode! Relationship goals, right there 💯🙏💕

[@floraaoriakhi4358]

Loved this soooo much! You guys are amazing ❤️

[@armenaa9729]

"You actually end up moving further away, by forcing yourselves to be together" - such a great point, sometimes you need to give eachother space so that you can maintain/build a stronger connection within any relationship

[@jonesfamily4465]

Omg I love Radhi she reminds me of myself so bubbly and I love the fact that Jay embrace her ❤❤❤❤

[@kansae77]

Thank you so much for this! I freaking needed to hear this! 🙏🏼❤️🤗

[@Manchestergirl54]

Love,when you two do these very HONEST and REAL discussions.

[@milenia__s]

just love listening to you both! we can learn so much and it's so enjoyable

[@janetmcnish-counsellor3712]

What a beautifully authentic couple. Thank you for being so inspiring.

[@leannesilvernail2924]

Radhi’s snack is the equivalent of Jays cut fruit. She feels loved when Jay brings snacks, jay associates that love with cut fruit.. She seemed somewhat annoyed by it maybe more in a joking way, but they’re the same request for love.

[@Bianca-333]

Dude I love watching them together!

[@priyankamudaliar6147]

3 mins in - - Radhi ❤️❤️❤️ Jay - - its a request for love, please show up for me, love me, see me 😭😭😭

[@wealthlibrary]

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[@annesingh8221]

I love them both so much.

[@meenak5792]

You two are awesome, thank you for this! ❤️

[@zanasimmons1570]

I love yalls connection. It is beautiful.

[@gaurisharma331]

Really needed it Radhi! I'm just in that phase that you were

[@jrenee76]

Love her energy! ❤️

[@sairasarwar1424]

This was lovely thanks for this

[@lauraioanachitescu433]

Love your energy SO SO MUCH!!! You guys are the best

[@lauraohio]

Amazing video!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼!!! Soo inspirational! And REAL!!!! ❤️

[@SADEKELLY_]

This was so great! I learned so much

[@mritunjaysharma7753]

It is very good to see both together.

[@bridgette4102]

Loved this sooooooo much 💕 Beautiful couple

[@patwilliams676]

You two are a beautiful couple ❤

[@NallahBrown]

"Let the other person know what is valuable to you."

[@cbkbeats5298]

Jay you are really changing my life thank you so much

[@VivianadeJesusLivinMyPassion]

Very insightful. Love it. 💘🧚🏾‍♀️

[@madhurikale5577]

This is really a nice episode! Love to u both!♥️

[@minamovasseli]

Absolutely, loved this! Best relationship advice I've heard on a podcast🙌 The point on Compromise was 🙏

[@kristinagogova274]

this talk came to me at the right moment. Thank you ^_^

[@khll422]

It is that time of year jay and Rad hang out with us ♥️

[@ishitamalik8638]

love you both SO much!

[@carlashipman1778]

Dropping gems!💖

[@amantekle127]

Your communication is something I will definitely have with my future wife. Love you always!

[@aaronsbestlife]

This was incredibly insightful! Thank you

[@anniematthews5040]

The two of you are so exceptional, its beyond comparison. Keep on doing these podcasts, its inspirational to like minded people. Lots of love goes out to you guys.

[@HBossOnline]

Thank you for this example. We appreciate you both 💯

[@binapatel1118]

So true! Need to breathe!👌 Great that you allow each other to grow.

[@abrahamgarza9686]

Jay, you guys bring balance to each other.

[@CM-wb2ed]

So powerful message

[@vihret0]

This was so insightful! You're such a great example for a healthy and loving relationship! Love you both! Xxx

[@HealthglowsNet]

I just love listening to you two, thank you! 🤗♥

[@nataliecroughton2548]

Iv watched this 3 times, love both of your energy's xx

[@saintejean-baptiste4195]

OMG, when you said "This is Us", my heart sunk!!!! This is my absolute favorite show!!!!

[@yagradio8655]

Beautiful conversation ❤

[@maymunakhawaja413]

@51:20 love what they said about what commitment means.

[@susanjaderberg690]

This is us is one of the best relationships series! I love it!

[@saratabrizi7003]

How amazing, thank you so much for who you both are😊

[@dhirjasingh6250]

This hit the spot

[@mildredgaines8320]

Love them, they are so authentic which leads to a genuinely loving relationship. Both have self-love too!

[@jordanmcdaniel1398]

Such a beautiful convo, would love more of you together.

[@priyankamudaliar6147]

36:33 Radhi, Thank you for sharing your journey, so honest, relatable. You'll are so realistic. Love you both ♥️ love how Radhi mentions fear of taking the next step. 😭😭❤️❤️🙋‍♀️

[@Gambling07]

He is so Honest..i loved it

[@olgadaneliuk6141]

I keep falling in love with you guys again and again. Every time I look at you both, every time I listen the way how you communicate with each other!! That's just amazing ❤️ thank you for giving others an example about a healthy relationship and a hope, that they do exist!!!

[@nabihayousuf]

VER INTERESTING JAI AND RADHI !!! GOD BLESS BOTH OF YOU & YOUR RELATIONSHIP ....LET YOUR LOVE BLOSSOM FOREVER :)

[@jbn9029]

So helpful. Thank you

[@raneezeller7475]

I’m so looking forward to hearing your conversation in 2022. I’ve downloaded both and love them.

[@boontakkochitta6731]

Thanks for sharing your personal experiences. Bring me a smile 😊. I love how you 2 loving each other. You both are a great example to me

[@floraaoriakhi4358]

I just LOVE Radhi😩😂😂 She’s hilarious

[@shakhzodad3865]

Just wow 👏 how beautiful mindset it is that u guys both have

[@carlashipman1778]

You both are amazing.

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

My favorite speaker Jay

[@sap7992]

Lovely couple, great discussion

[@pamelavillaluna5493]

This is just what I needed.

[@stessieegouy]

I have been in a relationship for 2 months and this is so inspiring

[@viviA259]

This interview exceeded my expectations. She's so fun and cool and they have such a special connection 💕

[@fatmatasesay7467]

Great couple, smiling all through.

[@yellowisme]

This was pure bliss. Im going to watch again a refresher because so many jewels were dropped.. he is so supportive of her journey and her growth and I love it

[@chitsu4000]

You guys are the best💙

[@geishas5248]

That's how every couple should try to be..perfect for each other.❤️

[@qurantranslations89]

Rhadi casually not wearing any shoes ! Love it 😊 love your relationship and all the advice❤

[@blenatkilt9847]

Shout out to u radhi🙌🙌i love "this is us"too...i was thinking the exact tv show wen he asked u the quetion

[@thrishnamuppavarapu6517]

I just love them both. Like. Really.❤

[@loveanimals4eternity]

This is just amazing

[@ila3273]

Woowwwww...that was the best relationship advice i ever heard... thankyou both😊

[@shraddhamishra4952]

Such depth ♥♥♥♥♥

[@ravifuture-i]

Beautiful couples. God bless you both with long loving relationship with long life.

[@MarcellaM-zi8sb]

Goshhh this is so true. its beautiful

[@ayanamadrone]

This is exactly how I have been feeling Radhi. Like I must have a purpose, but there is so much fear holding me back from putting myself out there. I’m shocked that you had doubts in yourself! You are so beautiful inside and out, smart, funny, and spontaneous. I absolutely love who you have chosen to be and to put yourself out there for the world. The only thing that I wish is that you had more videos up!

[@evelynmead598]

You both are awesome! You will help a lot of people’s in general to appreciate each and every individualities and life be much more happier ❤

[@sheylacherryholmes2092]

His definition for the word comprising and couples 🤯I love it 🥰