How to find a man that will spoil you

[@ashleyy8724]

I realized I was scared to ask for things, not because I liked him more than he liked me but because deep down I felt unworthy.

[@Cute_Stuffs]

predictable & boring = good men

[@ashleybrittany7633]

“Predictable & boring” if he’s not predictable he’s not the one.

[@marah3298]

Amen.

[@edytamichalska4655]

Happy to see that there are some smart girls out there! Most women is aroused by unpredictability! I learned my lessons!

[@melanierobinson4566]

As a single mom, you shouldn't go off of love alone. That's why I'm a single mom. It's no fun. This is great advice hun!❤

[@caffeinated_pisces9429]

Again, Thank you for your advice and straight up bluntness. The TRUTH is not always beautiful and you say it how it is. I have been putting all your advice into practice and I will say it's definitely a learning process. I have made my mistakes but it's all about practice, practice, practice. A big problem I am dealing with is knowing how to act with older men. I just started dating dating men 10+ years older and it is going wonderful because they definitely enjoy the idea of having a young girl next to them, and I LOVE that power and getting spoiled. But I would definitely like your advice on this. If you could make a video on this, I would so much appreciate it!

[@Munchkinbaby777]

OMG same, I have my starter man 15 years older. He's sweet and helpful, definitely more masculine and more attractive than some of the guys i dated before. He only bought me flowers once tho and keeps a simple life. I wonder how to trigger him into that provider energy- not only a great boyfriend material,but also a great partner material. I love the fun dates and him helping me out,but I need to know that if I have a guy willing to support me.

[@__crystalle]

“He’s useless “🤣

[@thawongakamanga8569]

I swear I love her!😂

[@tammya5403]

Hilarious how many salty males are in the comment section 🤣

[@kujop1]

-sociopath

[@deejames1st]

Part 2. :) And a video on how arrogance could have led to the women from tinder swindler being duped. So many women are duped by their own arrogance.

[@onyekachi9662]

You are a Genius sweetheart.

[@flyfly5172]

Thank you so much. Please part 2 ❤🙏

[@joannaswiatczak3861]

Amazing video, a lot of knowledge thanks a lot! Could you make also a video how not to get involved too quickly, or how to play without falling in love?

[@xoxobutterfly]

He didn't even take me to lunch after the movies...😢 ND he isn't even my type

[@Alexcatchh]

I love your videos safe my life

[@goddessglow6996]

No reaction after cheating but he took it as a green light to be more indiscreet about it so eventually divorced for lack of respect vis a vis society.

[@liocapra1625]

Agree !

[@sanasuleman5408]

What if you find a man who matches this list but is not attracted to him or feel anything for him? been trying alot to like him

[@frenkozilaza6398]

It's not worth it. If you tried to make it work and you still don't feel it, you'll end up feeling disgusted towards him. Neither one of both of you deserve it.

[@sanasuleman5408]

@@frenkozilaza6398 so true! Thankyouu for your wisdom

[@amarie2240]

I love this channel

[@Flo.sandoval]

well this makes sense

[@uhohotdog3483]

Sound Advice keep going 👍

[@blahblah40694]

I’m here cause I need help lol . I’m 40 and I need to pick better men .

[@careforjusticealways]

thank you❤

[@yeraldyramos5248]

If you like this channel I recommend MilouDivyne & Sheraseven1

[@jinhub2175]

Thankyou so much!!

[@juliennthere]

We love dusty ❤️

[@JosieReacts]

Why does this sound like @Bye dusty

[@Lanainvestor]

u are so smart

[@ezy78667]

The title is misleading...

[@BashaerB-h2c]

But how can you have a long term relationship with a man if you don't respect him? If he's not a turn-on and the only benefit I get out of him is his money, that kinda sucks cause I won't be able to respect him. Hence, making it difficult to be his wife and mother of his children in the future. I am assuming these tactics work perfectly well with women who don't care about personality and looks.. Just living the best materialistic lifestyle there is.

[@seduce_and_destroy]

If a man treats you well / spoils you and that’s still not enough for you to respect him then I’m scared to see what type of man you’ll end up with 🙁

[@seduce_and_destroy]

I can’t speak for everyone but when I meet a man that does those things for me I learn to love him, everyday I like him more & more because of what he’s willing do for me , I have a hard time understanding what woman wouldn’t fall in love with a man that provides and makes her life easier

[@BashaerB-h2c]

@@seduce_and_destroy Of course I want a man who treats me well! I'm not the type to tolerate abusive and toxic relationships. It seems that your love language ( I'm assuming receiving gifts/ acts of service) is different than mine and some women out there (such as quality time & physical affection). I couldn't care less if he spoiled me with gifts If he ISN'T intelligent and at least above average in looks and body type, I can't see him as a man and no amount of gifts will change that 🤷‍♀️ . It goes back to personal taste but nevertheless, your insights are still beneficial and can be tailored to suit different type of needs for women.

[@michaelmoise2660]

@@seduce_and_destroy be honest and tell these women your sugar baby that gets tossed aside when men are done with you

[@chrisharris2367]

@@BashaerB-h2c I used to be like you too I love attractive muscular men that dress decent and have groomed hair and other women are like wow he’s handsome But if he isn’t a provider I begin losing respect and after a while he doesn’t turn me on Women want to be adored We want the man to cherish us, not the other way around

[@julijakeit]

💯‼

[@johnobannon2291]

Lmao, what did I, stumble onto? Are you teaching people how to wind up alone in life?

[@Nikkisowner0]

Why do you deserve the nice guy tho? You are literally manipulative and played these games your whole life yet you think you deserve the best. This is perfect advice for woman navigating through life from the bottom of the barrel yet but yearn to be at the top

[@JustLIkerapunzel]

Let's be realistic. Why do you jump to the conclusion that she wouldn't have anything going for her and offering? Because if you look at statistics, 50% of marriages end up in divorce and 80% of them initiated by the wifes. So clearly they are the ones being unsatisfied in their relationships. Why is that? Well let's look at statistics of physical and mental health in regards to that! Women who are married die sooner while men who are married (heterosexuals) live longer on average. Many studies show that since the emancipation of the women we are handed the shorter stick in regards to the burden of marriages. We now work lile men, get payed less as women also still are the ones sacrificin career opportunities more often than men to have their kids. And then they still don't just do more than 50% of the household chores and when men do it's called "helping" (my ass he also "helps" getting shit dirty pff) AND the full emotional load of having to manage a household. If you don't know what that is look it up. So I'm not gonna pretend like it's all mens fault! WE PLAY A PART IN THESE DYNAMICS. And a part of trying to even things our would be to AT LEAST decide to either go for a man who would happily spoil you and be able to financially support you and / or decide to become more of a career women and simply avoid all the mess by not having kids.

[@winning3329]

Why do you men play manipulative games with women to ruin them for their future husband's? You don't deserve the good women.