How to Find Mr. or Ms. Perfect with Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche

[@kirstinbell7274]

I love how logical and practical Buddhism is, it really teaches you to slow down and think about things before working yourself up about something or repressing things. You feel, you evaluate, you conclude, you carry on. I’m happy I finally found a practice that is beneficial not only for me but for others around me. Thank you for making these videos to teach us.

[@oAgL214]

I found him. The connection we have goes beyond words, a glance, a touch, we're able to "connect" on a spiritual level. Sometimes we pop on each others minds and we get a call seconds later. It's like we communicate before the incoming call. This man is so intune with his emotions, is able to fulfill all my needs. We're about to celebrate 19 years of marriage.

[@matcollins6503]

Be careful, he can die. When my mom died, my father had a deep deppression.

[@oAgL214]

@@matcollins6503 I'm aware we can all die any second.

[@rnb250]

@@matcollins6503not “may”, will.

[@AnyaAquareluda]

😂

[@danmcdaid]

Congrats on finding Mr OK!

[@nickochioneantony9288]

I never thought that Rinpoche will deliver this kind of topic, but it's kinda insightful really; not forcing anything and accept imperfection with a light heart. Thankyou for this 🙏

[@eSKAone-]

"Don't expect to much. Mind don't fix to much." 💟🌌☮️

[@eSKAone-]

He still surprises me with new wisdom 💟🌌☮️

[@arzumardalieva3874]

100 percent true! This is not only about relationships but also about everything else that we do in our lives, no expectations - freedom, love, miracles and surprises from life! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! Blessings 🙏🏻

[@beonlife3283]

Mr Okay, Mrs Okay You made my day!

[@abhisektamang454]

Not married yet but will definitely practice this if I ever get married thank you Rinpoche still looking forward to meeting you not so far away still its like I am a thousand years away

[@contempl8ive]

Ahhh perfection… always sneaking up on me. But how can we meet anyone sitting on our meditation cushions at home? 😂 …no, seriously, I need that video.😊

[@professor.marcioseno8628]

I don’t know Rinpoche… You look like Perfect for me and I try to see other people like you. I think about you and I feel joy instantly. 🙏🙏🙏

[@jacquelineireland2273]

You open people's eyes with your words. Your teachings are so simple and clear. Most people wouldn't think to do these things on their own so we are blessed to have you to lead the way through problems. Thank you Rinponche. You are much loved and respected.

[@sanjibbordoloi]

So well taught! In such simple language! You are a blessing for anyone who listens to you dear Rinpoche🙏

[@ommanipadmehum4975]

What a great smile can do in this world ! Only wise know after a full life of dedication .. a profound meaning that beyond words yet embodies a full time life experience feeling ! This is the Smile You Can SEE in movies or theaters when the character a legend who he/she story was told from birth he/she, till the end of existence, thus before death smiles that way (with all the experiences has been through it is now time to leave this world knowing what it is exactly and what has to be done, bringing deep joy calm and peace for others ultimate goal), smiling the way with that meaning very special very powerful very profound ! Inspiring smile mysterious in some aspects, smile is an amazing capacity, a vast and open power!

[@prakarshpathak1285]

I was having a fight with my partner very frequently and now I know why. Thanks a lot : )

[@ahheng6402]

Understand & Accepting the total baggage comes in a relationship is important fundamental. once a while of ego & emotional is fine as long having the fundamental to support. thank you for your kind sharing.

[@seval9777]

I love your talking❤

[@saurabh8618]

Understanding each other is the backbone of every beautiful relationship Sir you gave an example of a couple who approached you, both of them agreed each other on approaching you together for your suggestion i think there's a good understanding between them but I don't know why couldn't they both understand eachother for other things as well else they would have been living peacefully

[@reginamuller6871]

Thank you Rinpoche for this great advice. There is a lot of wisdom in it.

[@TruthHumble3220]

Thank you Minghur Rinpoche for your kind teachings🙏🌹Your words taste like a good sweet🙏🌹🕊️😊

[@mariamaiso376]

La soledad iluminadora, es un privilegio...

[@rogeriokurek985]

Friend Rinpoche! I did not know where to ask you some questions, so I'm doing it here: Can you make a video explaning about the significance of each color on your robes? Why these colors are used? There are colors for each hierarchic grade in Tibetan Buddhism? There are special significance for the rainbow colors? P.S.: I've called you 'Friend', because is that what I feel coming from your words. Learning how to meditate. Thank you, God bless!

[@irischeng9946]

Thank you Rinpoche for such a great sharing🙏 A very good sharing and advice on how to accept each other's weakeness as we all have room for improvement. By doing so we will be able to minimize conflicts and leverage on each other strength and weakness and become a better person and live in harmony🙏🙏🙏

[@soarecristian7293]

Thank you you are a wise man ❤

[@holden.a]

Wonderful teaching and advices, thank You!

[@Deepak94]

Thank you, it came at the right time for us. Very much grateful for that, om shanti🙏🏾

[@joschajustinski14]

Wonderful advice, thank you very much!

[@AndrewRevkin]

So much fun here.

[@jalajamenon8664]

Thank you Master🙏🙏🙏

[@narendran_s_nair]

funny dose of life saving advice in 3..2..1 ❤

[@rebecaluque5610]

Gracias maravillosa enseñanza🙏🙏🙏

[@dilipaweeratunga]

Some people get this wrong. It is not that you should look at everything with a screwed eye. It is being aware of the reality❤

[@jeremycranford2732]

Thanks for pointing out the simple truth of relationships.

[@simplylife8878]

Very nice talk!!❤

[@ShirleyWang-up1rx]

look fwd to learning from u!

[@mariac6986]

Maravilha!❤

[@simonspiller592]

Pure comedy from start to finish!

[@sunitamalakar9016]

नमस्ते गुरु । हजुर को प्रवचन नेपाली मा पनि सुन्न पाएको भए, म जस्ता अन्य व्यक्तिहरूले पनि बुद्ध भगवानले दिनुभएको ज्ञान र ध्यान का कुराहरु आफ्नो जीवनमा उतार्न सक्थे। मलाई English को त्यति ज्ञान छैन तै पनि हजुर को प्रवचन सुन्ने गर्छु।

[@sonamtopdenpekhang5133]

Thank so much 🙏🙏🙏

[@spirituallearning_en]

Oh 😮 Good lecture, thanks 🙏 🙏🙏

[@stevenl378]

Been waiting for this video thank you for everything rinpoche 💪

[@TokimaruTV]

Namo Buddha❤❤❤

[@christinaramonaandjelkovic8909]

I am happy if I find myself, that's enough for me

[@StimParavane]

You will never find the self. It is an illusion. This is the subject of a koan between Bodhidharma and the second patriarch of Zen in China.

[@christinaramonaandjelkovic8909]

@@StimParavane 🤣👍

[@Aisha-bb8mt2bi4w]

شكرا لك كلام رائع جدا بالفعل التقبل اهم شيء

[@Rihito_itagaki_love]

Hello master its so good to see you again your videos helps me so much ❤

[@Himmelskratzerin]

🙏 Thank you very much!

[@三三有院·花满蹊]

Open your eyes before married , close one eye after married.

[@oscartravis5740]

I never even found Mrs Ok. Love is a feast to which I'm obviously not invited.

[@gigiesparza396]

I think most of it if not all is just self improvement and self awaneess. 99 percent of it. Work on your body and what you can control. On your conversation skills. The other part is just stepping outside of your house and into a bar or third place. Now if you live in a very small town or a city where everyone works most of their life that’s another story. It’s hard finding people who just aren’t there.

[@atiyogini]

I found it!

[@viaesta]

Love you Rinpoche! 😂

[@susaschneider6594]

❤😊

[@AA86420]

Well, of course the more expectations the more problems, imagine having "no expectations" going into surgery, we know how that's gonna end. The higher your expectations, the more you gotta learn skills and overcome obstacles. I heard this "expectation" thing among spiritual people and i think they mean it's a bad thing, and I hate that idea. I'd like to hear your opinion on it and why

[@StimParavane]

Western women expect perfection when they are FAR from perfect themselves. Their sense of entitlement is extraordinary.

[@interdimensionalsailboat]

I want to emphasize "eachother" as for some this video may be used as an excuse to give more of themselves to someone who does not care about working on the relationship with you. You can "accept that". But what that really means is that it is time to move on from the relationship. Im projecting because i used to be that person.

[@kingofwesteros9868]

I understand this in a way that we should accept people for who they are in the moment we meet, not for who they remain to be. I saw that with my closest friends to this day: we grew spiritually and emotionally together throughout years, we fought, we reconciled, but we were changing. And people who didn't - I just tossed them aside. I will not allow in my life people, who want to remain who they are, when they don't want to change bad habits.

[@orestboychuck]

What to do if you fall in love like crazy, loose your mind, and become not yourself? It is not healthy? Is there a need to fight that?

[@andrewyam7938]

Expectations = craving = suffering

[@RocLobo358]

That's an extremely cute story about Mr and Mrs. control and worry freak

[@davidpiccioni262]

What happens when acceptance (of the differences in another) , means accepting the emotional abuse of someone else? Is there not a limit to acceptance?

[@johnb8854]

*"LIFE The Real Self" is Neither the human body nor the human spirit !* Ref. Quote; we can learn to appreciate the good qualities in ourselves and others while also holding space for mistakes and challenges. Doing so allows for healthier and longer-lasting relationships... End Quote... *Why do many referring to ourselves and others are referring to the human species, when the human Anatomy is NOT "AWARE" of anything ??? Only "AWARENESS" can be "AWARE" of anything ! Discover and Understand The DIFFERENCE, between the human body, and "LIFE The Real Self" an Offspring, and Child of "The LIGHT", "The LIFE of GOD"...*

[@dxyy9946]

i wonder if he will talk about anxiety in relationships

[@Spillers72]

Do seek to find Mr Perfect or Ms Perfect, seek to be Mr or Ms Perfect.

[@Yangzom-y1u]

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[@InternetMediaShorts]

How often do you meditate in 1 week I'm just curious?

[@Yash-Gaikwad]

Anyone ❤?

[@annamariab6983]

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please pray for me ☺❤

[@Songmu_82]

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[@deepalama2710]

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[@dheerendraawasthi2639]

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[@emdee8840]

Acceptance is a two way street. I found it impossible to love someone who liked me because he was abusive. Then the other fellow who liked me, I had no interest in. Then the next fellow had no interest in commitment to me, he was waiting for what might be around the next corner. I was a filler or place holder for him. Meanwhile I had to make a living, get an education...... I've been the friend, the successful matchmaker, for others, the girl who is easy to talk to and why cant my girlfriend be like you (the dreaded friend zone). I was good friends with a gay guy who frankly said I was a great person but the wrong sex. He said he wanted to marry me if only I was a guy. Sweet but kind of a moot point. At one of my jobs I was the shoulder to cry on for a trans transitioning who was a sad and lonely soul. But in all that, I never got to say yes to the dress and get the picket fence dream. No 2.5 kids, no hubby in my corner, no shoulder for me to cry on. Women friends are fickle and unreliable. Relatives are mercurial, controlling, judgemental, and unreliable. And now I'm too old and have lost all my youth, looks, and marketability. Guys still think I'm good to talk to, but they don't even want to meet for coffee, dinner, or a movie. So I end up feeling used. I'm just on the conveyor belt of time moving through the warehouse of life to eventually be shipped out. Destination: unknown.

[@alexeykulikov2739]

Well, finding someone who doesn’t smell bad is hard enough.

[@misskongiii7141]

"and there's a lot of long stories" 😂😂

[@tsheringbhutia9470]

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[@Rahulsingh-pu4wr]

HH can you tell why you did not get married?

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[@alienallen2983]

🙏>>>💚

[@sharadkumar123]

Sir US is struggling with finding if they themselves are Mr. Or Ms. ...you are talking very high level for them

[@Klaus_Schwab_777]

Dont search one

[@salvofailla3400]

I am Mr perfect but nobody recognise me as that could you help me? 🤣

[@dheerendraawasthi2639]

How to find Mr and Mrs perfect after marriage 😂

[@suadsuad835]

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[@mestanzinni]

Clickbite eh? 😅❤

[@waiataaroha]

What a cheesy title

[@wellwisher9817]

You must be single

[@HarishKumar-sv7bu]

Yes what a pizzaaa title

[@prashilbison7038]

WARNING!!! Not for people with low Lactose Intolerance.

[@johnnirmalraj2164]

God created this universe including our earth purposefully imperfect to be balanced on it's perfection! by it's own for each and every living species including humans like us

[@Himmelskratzerin]

🙏 Thank you very much!

[@Belfagor962]

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[@suadsuad835]

Segnalo puntualmente questo canale, dato che l'ho già bloccato in quanto ripetitivo e invasivo, ma che continua a ripresentarsi incessantemente, pure con nuove pubblicazioni. La conferma che KZbin è un social inutilizzabile e del tutto privo di funzionalità di base.

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