How To Flirt Like A Brazilian (Kissing, Friends with Benefits)

We talk flirting, kissing and contatinhos (friends with benefits) with Cariocas on a beach in Ipanema, Rio de Janeiro.
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Filmed in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

Hope you guys enjoyed! Watch until the end to see the bloopers of the day! :)

[@criptufu9213]

1:38 his shirt: "night, parties, booze and hangover" What he says: Well, i'm actually shy

[@nicolasliberatori1021]

Shy to Rio standarts.

[@395leandro]

I'm carioca and I consider myself pretty shy by Rio standards, but my Ukrainian wife tells me I'm naughty and flirtatious which I understand considering the culture she comes from. We are very sexual by nature, even me, a relatively shy person.

[@matheusoliveira-tl2zr]

Hahhaa i'm Brazilian, and sometimes we buy shirt with english words and we don't even know the meaning hahha we buy Just because it's cool

[@Jonathan-gl3tf]

@@matheusoliveira-tl2zr ele tava falando inglês kkk

[@matheuscypriano3771]

Normal here. He probably don't care about the message on the shirt. It's a sunny day, than he picked the white shirt to walk on the beach.

[@thiphanecarneiro6534]

"i already have the no" coisa mais brasileira que isso? kk

[@danni3822]

Ai a gente parte para humilhação!

[@lostsketchbook7406]

"Now I'll go after the humiliation" 😂

[@nicollasrodrigues148]

Pqp, mttt brasileiro memo

[@f.wallacerodrigues5642]

😂😂😂😂

[@alcinei_m]

He said: Caiu na rede é peixe Tranlation: "if she's a woman, I'll take it" UAT kkkk

[@renansilva5418]

COCONUT TO UNDERSTAND

[@deividemoreira7548]

Pq é uma expressão regional do Brasil, eles n iam entender. Então traduz pra algo q faça o mesmo sentido ou próximo. Tradução n literal. Igual "isso é mamão com açúcar", a expressão equivalente seria "it's a piece of cake".

[@aureliomoreira3860]

mas faz sentido... qualquer coisa que cai na rede ele pega, ou seja, se for mulher, ele tá pegando qualquer uma

[@senhorlazy6708]

@Alex Taylor cala boca merda

[@FernandesRafael1]

Quem ignora buraco é prefeitura kkkk dá no mesmo

[@superrmrcool]

I love this video, They exude such relaxed approach and easiness. The accent and language is so beautiful and melodic

[@natural2047]

I find the Brazilian accent in English awful... But I guess it's because I'm Brazilian 😅

[@alovioanidio9770]

@@natural2047 Cause you haven't listen to some asians. In this video it's not even bad

[@richardschiffman7657]

@@alovioanidio9770 Nope I agree with Ana. Brazilian women are sexy as hell when they speak in Portuguese and Portuguese is a very charming language in general. But when they speak in English, it's so cringy and awkward.

[@mocbellini]

@@natural2047 ele diz q o portugues é bonito e melódico, nao os brasileiros falando em ingles

[@nickdavidelijah]

Ana Barata me too Im not a big fan of Brazilian accent it’s a bit nasal. I like sometimes the accent but other peoples not so much, depends on the speaker hehe

[@Deyahu]

"Tudo no sigilo" NÃO MAIS

[@CM-zi4so]

Deyahu hahahahaha

[@adriellyamorim6982]

Né... kakkaka que louco.

[@imbecca8100]

-hey gorgeous, date me and I'll make you forget about Ana -What Ana? -See, you already forgot That's pretty Brazilian flirting (never works with me :c)

[@piotrmigas6706]

NiceTry

[@davijardim1211]

maybe...kkk

[@EliasGomeswelemusico]

I did the same with a girl and she had a boyfriend with the name that I chose kkkkkkkk, she was impressed and confused... how was it possible that i knew

[@imbecca8100]

@@EliasGomeswelemusico KKKKKKKKKKKK NOW YOU MESSED UP EVERYTHING BRO

[@jonathankantunes2198]

@@imbecca8100 e Elias Gomes são brasileiros, provavelmente 👀😂 uma vez mandei "kkkkk" em um grupo de conversa gringo e me expulsaram por achar que eu estava fazendo algum comentário racista 😂🤦🏻‍♂️😅

[@duncanb.a.s2886]

I cant deal nor resist brazilians hahaha, oh my goodness. I think flirting should be the national sport and not football. Much love from France.

[@Wilson-PT]

Dun Barc damn...I feel you brother 😜

[@ossnix5370]

Maybe it is not the national sport, but for sure is the most played sport here around ;] Hahahaha merci par votre menssage mon pot, venez visiter nos pays...

[@TheLunaKeat]

Haha thanks, funny comming from a french person cause I think Brazil and France are tied in first place when people from other countries think of flirtness haha.

[@duncanb.a.s2886]

@@TheLunaKeat Might be the reason we are so attracted to each other as nations

[@TheLunaKeat]

@@duncanb.a.s2886 Indeed. Also I believe that both cultures teach to live for your own passions not so much for others, money or fame. Maybe that is why we are considered flirty too? Cause comes natural to go after fellings and things we like? haha

[@aureliomoreira3860]

"Carioca é foda, bicho" tradução: "Carioca is another level" hahaha

[@JonathanS.441]

Oto patamar kkkkkk

[@gvilherme2709]

carioca is fuck, beast!

[@pedroduarte2003]

estamos em oto patamar

[@alvarojunior3078]

Conheçer um nordestino então kk

[@ricardogiovanni]

3:16 pensando no sofrimento do editor para traduzir o que este rapaz quis falar. PQP a gente só entende mesmo porque sabe sobre o que ele ta falando.

[@slkoeu4499]

Carioca eu TB preciso de um tradutor kkk

[@david_contente]

Pois é, se o Sotaque já é feio e falam de jeito difícil de entender, imagina quando o cara fala errado.

[@ricardogiovanni]

@@david_contente Todo sotaque carregado demais e com muitos erros para mim se torna ridículo. Particularmente, eu gosto do sotaque carioca.

[@guilhermesantosdasilva5930]

É pq n foi na bahia

[@lean6034]

@@david_contente inveja? Todo os gringos falam que o sotaque Carioca é o mais bonito e charmoso ✌️

[@wildfireintexas]

Brazilian with a Carioca accent is the most beautiful language, like a song.

[@FernandesRafael1]

Thank you

[@wildfireintexas]

@@FernandesRafael1 You're welcome.

[@ninapitta]

Thank you!🤩

[@mrcarioca8046]

Thanks :)

[@pandora9814]

time stamp?

[@YouAwakeYet]

Ainda estou aprendendo O português mas estou achando dificuldade entendendo quando os homens falam, talvez porque falam muito rápido e não entendo as gírias, as mulheres falam um pouco mais lento.... Abraços desde Nova Iorque

[@pedroduarte2003]

the cariocas men frequently use slangs in conversations

[@ricardomac9]

Carioca fala mais girias do que palavras normal kkkkkkk

[@henriquenascimento7052]

@@ricardomac9 pior kkkkk

[@Matheus-th3gw]

Sim temos muitas gírias, e são diferentes umas das outras em lugar do Brasil, de vez em quando falamos errados por querer apenas por nós falarmos no dia a dia sem de preocupar por conta da área que vivemos

[@bea3guima]

É porque as mulheres não são cariocas

[@gomes2151]

1:18 _''You are not Maria da Paz, but when are you going to take me to your place to eat a cake?''_ This is a pun related to Brazilian soap-opera ''A Dona do Pedaço'' where protagonist Maria da Paz Sobral (played by Juliana Paes) is owner (''dona'') of a bakery company - in the plot she is a kind of '' self-made woman''. In Brazilian Portuguese if is said that someone is ''dona do pedaço'' (big boss) means that this person has great influence in local community as politician or as entrepreneur, or as artist of great success, etc, and the pun comes from ''pedaço'' that means ''piece (of cake) '', but also means ''district'', ''zone'', ''region'', an delimited area. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Dona_do_Peda%C3%A7o

[@karltorento3358]

Gomes21 what exactly does he say here?

[@mocbellini]

@@karltorento3358 a pick up line based on a soap opera

[@gomes2151]

@@karltorento3358 it's something like that song: ''You don't have to be a star, baby, to be in my show'', or ''I am down to earth and all you do makes me happy''

[@MsB..]

Gomes21 Brigada por explicar, eu não tinha entendido essa parte 😅

[@beeeeeeeee]

O melhor do vídeo é a legenda das gírias cariocas kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

[@joaoisaacmarques8276]

Aahahahah... Mereciam todas um glossário à parte com as respectivas etimologias. Ahahah...

[@pietrasureda2036]

Im from rio and honestly the contatinho culture is SO accurate. It gets annoying some times actually because a good 90% of people are only interested in having you as a contatinho but thats ok as long as u keep the “caiu na rede é peixe” (if its a woman/man I’ll take it) mindset 🤪🤪

[@costa97vm]

I don't understand that phrase very well what do you mean by saying "if it's a woman/man I'll take", what does it mean? Is something like " as long as it is a sexual partner of my preference I am ok? Something like they just want to fuck they don't care much about the person just having possible sexual partners?

[@fernandaempartes]

@@costa97vm yes, you got it!

[@flashfps5152]

@@costa97vm The caption is totally wrong. In the entire video the Brazilians use some expressions and in the caption it is something totally different. What he said is: if the fish entered the net it is a success.

[@briinahkriid]

@@flashfps5152 That's the literal translation, but not a good way to translate a local idiom. The expression means exactly what Santiago understood. It's basically "doesn't matter, had sex", though not necessarily only about sexual partners.

[@flashfps5152]

@@briinahkriid nah, I'm brazilian and I know

[@awesomenezzz]

This video was incredible. I spent 2 months in Rio earlier last year, and I felt like people were so carefree and open to approach anyone. But in my opinion also girls were approaching men/women. I went to Carneval and more than five GIRLS came to talk to me and wanted to kiss me (I’m a girl as well) 😂 but then guys at the beach/on the streets... so damn annoying! Cat-calling is a real thing and huge problem there. In another hand if we talk about relationships, Cariocas and brazilians in general are super jealous and possessive, maybe it’s because of the flirting culture. Also very much conservative. I still love Cariocas and I miss Rio. But wouldn’t want a boyfriend from there, maybe contatinho 😏 Valeuuu

[@pietropavel7125]

maybe from another state of brazil,cause we are like different tribes ,we have different accents and and different behavior in every state,but yeah in general we are jealous and very flirtatious

[@Antos425]

Don't get upset about it. This flirtatious nature of the cariocas is developed by practice and wouldn't exist if it weren't by it.

[@FernandesRafael1]

next time youre here you will be my contatinho then hah

[@TheLunaKeat]

The catcall part is more in Rio, we still can be very conservative and sexist that is for sure true, but now is not the norm anymore. Deppends a lot of where and when you are, carnaval in Rio is normally the place and time people go to do ...well... things they wouldn't do in front of their parents haha. I live in the capital Brasília, here catcall is really rare. Also in Brazil catcalling is against the law, we have several strong laws made in the last 20 years against sexist behaviors, I think that is why decreased a lot this too.

[@soul741xD]

It's because you're foreigner sweety, this is like the biggest candy a girl can get here

[@ConorClyneTsarExperience]

Saudades do Brasil! ❤️Great to hear that lyrical Carioca accent again and exactly the way they are ... 'todos safados' ... lol

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

hehe Hey Conor!

[@chaccostan]

3:17 I WISH we could translate everything this guy says cause he’s HILARIOUS LMAOOOO

[@umayradurgo]

Meu Deus, o vendedor da praia hahahahahaha sensacional

[@iconicedits2980]

So you are telling me that I was born in the wrong country..🤦‍♀️ I hope one day I will get to visit Brazil❤🇧🇷

[@paulinaalarcon1237]

Omg please go, people are so friendly and guys are lovely girls as well

[@fofao3078]

Where are you from

[@kawhileonard9082]

All the best parties I've been were in Brazil.

[@user-tw5do1el8z]

Big shit.

[@skylight0656]

@@user-tw5do1el8z no envy

[@doiwannaknow-9901]

@@user-tw5do1el8z fds?

[@rae8161]

I'm living for that bi girl being so honest. You go girl.

[@melinavdw342]

I dated a Carioca, best thing and worst thing ever!! Beijo grande da Grecia

[@melinavdw342]

Because they are very beautiful and charming, they can make you feel amazing (and literally, if you know what I mean), but... They will do the same thing with next woman that they will come across... P. S. O sotaque carioca é muito sexy tbm né

[@soskika419]

@@melinavdw342 that is absolutely true. As a Brazilian girl, I admit it is the awful truth.

[@melinavdw342]

@@soskika419 I guess we can not have it all in life, can we? 😂

[@natural2047]

@The Tribal Funkster Bring em!! Because many Brazilians don't use them (( not all schools here have sex Ed. , so many people here just think condoms are just for birth control))

[@layanadomingos9246]

Melina Vdw that’s so true 😂

[@papijuancho2455]

Brazilian Portuguese is beautiful. Especially the way it sounds with females🤤. I love the way it sounds. I am Mexican, I can speak Spanish, English and Brazilian Portuguese. There is all kinds of hot women out there but in my opinion, Mexican, Colombian and Brazilian girls are the hottest of all.🇧🇷🇲🇽🇨🇴❤️

[@user-tw5do1el8z]

Mexican??? Hot??? 😆😆😆😆😆😆 Never ...

[@kingc1198]

Dating in Rio is better than in the US I've been to Rio dating over there is much simpler and fit my style I had 2 contatinos during my visit

[@along1298]

Did you use condoms or went raw?

[@kingc1198]

@@along1298 both

[@along1298]

@@kingc1198 And no STDs?

[@kingc1198]

@@along1298 nope

[@along1298]

@@kingc1198 Damn you lucky guy!

[@juliannagarbo]

Haha As a Brazilian I can testify that this is SPOT ON! I lived in Rio for 4 years and although adjusting to the carioca-way-of-life was hard (contatinhos is a thing), it turned into the MOST AMAZING place I have ever lived. Being able to easily meet people - either to make friends or to flirt/date - is priceless and the cariocas definitely know how to have fun! In addition, meeting people at the beach makes conversations flow easily and everybody is just more relaxed, chill and good vibes. As far as the actual flirting goes though, cariocas are not that good at that (people from the Northeast of Brazil are steps aheadI!). Still a great place. I live in LA now but I miss Rio EVERY SINGLE DAY. S2 ¨

[@ericktwelve11]

Which part of brazil that men are good at flirting?

[@SarahLovestravelling]

Agreed

[@juliannagarbo]

@@user-jy7yn1ro8j I don't think those two things go necessarily together

[@juliannagarbo]

@@user-jy7yn1ro8j aaahhh, ok. I would say anywhere in Brazil, including Rio. Profile might change from one city to another, like Sao Paulo and Rio (somewhat similar to NY and LA, for instance), but you can still find loyal women seeking a relationship anywhere in the country. The advantage of the Brazilian culture is that people are generally more open with people they don't know so well, so it is easier to meet people and, consequently, find a relationship or someone who is one the same page as you. The US has always been much harder for me on that sense. If you have to pick a region or city, I would still recommend Rio, Sao Paulo, Recife, Belo Horizonte, Porto Alegre and Florianópolis.

[@juliannagarbo]

@@user-jy7yn1ro8j Salvador is another city worth a try.

[@anacarolinaar7434]

7:16 "no because he is just a contatinho" Alguém dá um prêmio para essa menina kkkkkkkkkk eu rachei demais

[@malumello17]

Pq?

[@sunnysammy3944]

I’m a Brazilian living in America and this is funny as hell 😂 I can relate #Contatinhos 😂😂😂

[@samreplete1842]

What's contatinoes?

[@dlrdn7145]

@@samreplete1842 somthing like "date numbers", people that you call when you are single.

[@skippyg.5450]

Sam Replete like a booty call

[@Rafael-jn6iv]

@@dlrdn7145 not at all

[@Rafael-jn6iv]

It's actually a number of someone u wanna kiss

[@GD-jc3wx]

Na Colômbia, a gente também tem contatinhos, mas não chamamos eles de “arrocitos en bajo”, ou "arroz a fogo lento". Também chamamos do ganado: todas as possibilidades que você teve e ainda tem.

[@malumello17]

Sim, muitas similaridades. Mas supostamente na Colombia há uma cultura mais livre de "one night stand", enquanto no Brasil ainda julgam mal mulheres que fazem isso.

[@julianajurema9513]

eu AMEI essa expressão! ❤

[@pstaina]

@@malumello17 not true!

[@wellingtnv7551]

5:14 "caiu na rede é peixe!" Kkkkkkj mano, os gringos devem estranhar esse tipo de atitude!

[@mariliafaria6534]

Kkkkkkk

[@pl2305]

My boyfriend is carioca by italian/portuguese genes..but he is not flirty..im the flirty one😅😂 most fun is im from 🇫🇮🇷🇺 ..and my boyfriend behaving more stereotypical finnish/russian and i behave more like stereotypical italian/brazilian😅😂

[@karensc6747]

Hahahaha that happens a lot! Brazil is a mix of many cultures! I’m Brazilian but German/north Italian/Austrian by genes. And that explains a lot the way I am. Rio’s lifestyle scares me a little bit. XD

[@Chewbaccalotexv]

@@karensc6747 your european genes doesn't mean anything about that. It's just your personality and your social background like where do you live, how was your family and friends.

[@karensc6747]

Victor de Lyra of course it means. If it is my culture, then is part of my identity. And if it’s part of my identity, is part of my personality as well.

[@ramon1930]

@@karensc6747 No we have many ethnicities but only one culture.

[@jonatasmendonca2079]

When it comes to temperament, people may act diffrent...

[@isabellanagel7539]

Nossa gente, carioca se acha a última bolacha do pacote né 😆😆😆 socorro

[@yuricalorsoundtrack]

E somos.

[@andreycunha4479]

M Come to Amazonas state, there are respectable and beautiful women.

[@Negrelly]

Bolacha não, biscoito.

[@henriquepimentel9684]

Vocês gostam... hahahaha

[@noturnoreturn]

@@yuricalorsoundtrack *Somos Mexxxmo, e elas perdem a linha quando vem aqui...* *Paulista, Mineira, Gaucha, Nordestina, Pior é quando vamos pros estados delas* *É só aulas*

[@EC___]

I went to Rio in 2016, its beautiful as you can see... wow I miss this beach so much.

[@GNaito-hd8ft]

o cara me solta um "carioca é foda" e os mano põe de legenda "carioca os another level" vsf mano kkkkkkkkk

[@mrpeacemm]

Carioca is fucking awesome seria mto melhor

[@mathemer24]

Eles não gostas de usar palavrão em legendas nem de falar muito .. especialmente Americans

[@itachihomem]

É a mesma merda bixo.

[@davivictor9640]

nós brasileiros sabemos os palavrões quase todos dos gringos. acho que ''carioca is badass'' encaixaria melhor. falaram sobre palavrão mas conversa informal é que mais rola aqui no brasil não sem em todos estados mas

[@pedroduarte2003]

oto patamar

[@calliemcclanahan7095]

Omgg where is the shy guys @ he was so adorable!!

[@fernandalara6207]

"Tudo no sigilo" kkkkk.

[@MariaLaura-jg4vd]

Come to Brazil more often Marina! ❤️

[@mimachele]

8:32 i volunteer myself 😌

[@leticiamelo1335]

😳😳😳

[@jacobmaldonado6406]

BRAZILIAN WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL!

[@v.watson4179]

"Eu gosto dos 2, entendeu? Mas eu não chego em homem, eu gosto de chegar mais em menina" mt eu

[@randomnegro704]

I need to go to brazil

[@PsicoPato-]

But u should not

[@gomes2151]

You should go.

[@raved2885]

Alan Cristian yes Alan he should

[@natural2047]

It's awesome!! I live here and super recommend!! There's a lot of beautiful scenery and some awesome places to go. Just be sure to pay attention to your surroundings cause there's a lot of pickpockets, but everything else is cool.

[@randomnegro704]

Ana Barata the views look amazing. Since u do live there is it true about the friends with benefits lol?

[@shakanice4435]

Another great video. Happy New Year

[@periclesjames]

Its been a very long time since I was in Rio de Janeiro but the energy there just breathes sensuality . The language , the bossa nova , the waves on the beach , the mountains , the lush forests its a visually stunning city that is a assault on the senses . I know all of Latin America well and Rio is definetely the most sensual city of Latin America . Buenos Aires is also a huge surprise as it comes across as conservative but is very wild once you break down the barriers . If you live in the right neighbourhood of Buenos Aires its a very romantic city as well .

[@SocialGames7]

We LOVE it! We have this youtube channel cause we`re the biggest dating company in Brazil and we're gonna make a video reacting to this video. CONGRATS! Next time you come, let us know!

[@christinakks98]

Ahah great video . wow Brazil is such a fascinating place. One day I will visit it🤞💛

[@FernandesRafael1]

you won't regret it

[@viniciusbrito3132]

Welcome to Brazil 🇧🇷 some places to visit: Natal Rio grande do norte; Fernando de Noronha; Jericoacuara; Arraial do Cabo; Maragogi; Marau Bahia; lençóis maranhenses; Ubatuba; cataratas do Iguaçu; Chapada dos veadeiros; Chapada das mesas; chapada da diamantina; Bonito Mato Grosso do Sul; Jalapão; pantanal; Amazonas

[@christinakks98]

@@viniciusbrito3132 Great to know . thanks

[@fofao3078]

Where are you from?

[@saraiva407]

So now the world knows how things work here in Rio, and can feel bad for us!! Thank you for the initiative, Dating Beyond Borders!! :D

[@lili-et5mc]

The guy: Carioca é foda fi The subtitle: Carioca is another level KKKKKKKKKKKK

[@celsofrederico6622]

são uns manés,..kkkk

[@anacarolinasallesrodrigues7821]

Ai gente Brasil é mt meu país mesmo viu

[@puxaograuevrau]

Lógico, tu e brasileira doida

[@johngonzalez4298]

Hope you had a great Christmas Marina ❤💚

[@xime5890]

I was in Rio like 3/4 months and I like how carioca's men flirt, but I have experienced been flirt for girls too 🤭

[@martidavia477]

Nice & funny video about how people is and act in different parts of the world. Going to Scandinavia this weekend!! Let's see what's is going out about dating and meet new people!

[@julibrj]

I loved it. Miss my Rio

[@escasso28]

"he's just a contatinho" haha

[@anasol6910]

KKKKK EU AMEI

[@Scanlan5]

Love the vibe! I live in Northwest USA where it is cold rainy and grey all winter, and I am really longing to be on a beach like this.. looks amazing!

[@pedroduarte2003]

JoelAmbrose you are welcome here in Rio

[@Scanlan5]

Pedro Duarte thank you. I have $35,000 USD, saved. Is that enough for a down payment on a house in Rio?

[@ramon1930]

@@Scanlan5 more than enough. I suggest you an apartment or an hostel. I know one wonderful close to copacabana. I think at total you are gonna pay 4 bucks (airplane tickets and Rio at the general). But the best way of you visiting there, it is with someone that knows the place, because there are many things and attractions.

[@paivacomercial]

@@Scanlan5 tu compra o Brasil com isso. Agora, sendo sincero, talvez você compre uma casa na Tijuca (norte da cidade, cerca de uns 30 minutos da praia.), mas acho muito difícil na zona sul (onde o vídeo foi gravado), sou carioca e me mudei para o nordeste do país, o apartamento que tínhamos (Vila Isabel, bairro da zona Norte) foi vendido por cerca de 40.000 dólares, então, acho difícil, até porque pagamos muitos impostos, um único litro de gasolina está batendo 7 reais (1.15 dólar). Mas lhe recomendo uma viagem para cá, irá amar nosso povo. Please translate this...

[@12moonwolf]

This is awesome

[@sploucha123]

Aww 🥺 the guy at 3:09 who said he’s ugly, he’s a cutie omg

[@pedrocortez197]

I love Brazil and Brazilians :)

[@mariafernandaalvesmiranda7511]

i'm carioca and the most important thing to understand about the brazilian way of flirting or dating is you may have kissed or had sex but that doesn't mean you are dating or you can only kiss only one person and the most obvious: we kiss even those we don’t know the name of and will never see again in life

[@LUKx8138]

up

[@j.c.n9718]

Going from the hint of a moustache in your picture, you were born male?

[@sircharleston2712]

Brazil is awesome!

[@Brunowerther]

the subtitles was so different, not wrong, but different hahahah

[@clarim.5949]

I'm carioca but everytime I watch something about Brazil I see that I can't relate to the date culture and maybe that's why dating seriously is hard for me

[@clarim.5949]

@@luannesantana5642 Thanks for being so kind. Also thanks for the church tip, I'm more consertative on dating yes, but I'm not religious. I wouldn't like to date a religious person because our world view would be quite diverse. I'll just live my life, maybe I'll meet someone less "dating-ish" sometime...

[@MishaElRusito]

Hard to find a woman these days who would be willing to not have sex for many months... sad

[@CesarAugusto-tq5gm]

Explaining : Carioca is the nickname of who born in Rio de Janeiro.

[@gomes2151]

''Carioca'' is not a nickname, is a toponymical designation to everyone born in City of Rio de Janeiro.

[@CB0408]

Those born in Brasilia are named cabrasiliaca?

[@CesarAugusto-tq5gm]

@@gomes2151 thanks. O wasn't shure about it.

[@pedriinhosilva]

@@CB0408 no, "brasiliense" or "candango".

[@gpsantos1]

@@CB0408 haha I see what you did there.

[@andraslang96]

I have just learnt a new word: contatinho. obrigado

[@markbigelow2608]

Great video. Nice beach and bottoms. Very interesting info

[@sophia1851]

I’m from Rio and, even though what they said is very true, I have to say it’s not like that with everyone. There are guys who will want to date you exclusively from the moment they meet you, there are guys who will say they love you within a week of talking to you and they’ll SUFFOCATE you, texting you all day. Also, my “contatinhos” usually become my friends and I’ll continue talking to them even after we are done with the fun stuff hahaha and one of your contatinhos usually will want something more or you’ll want something more, so that’s not that black and white. we usually take at least a month of going out with someone to make it exclusive, if we like them. Once I was going out with a guy for a month and he was already acting like my boyfriend, when I was just having fun, so it’s easier to make it clear lol

[@katrin6388]

conheceu ele aonde?

[@edbabine]

Is Brazillian women's body count High. That Contatinhos lifestyle seems really nice for women but not really for guys. THOSE 2 ladies seem like they are running through men lol

[@GhostSamaritan]

Sounds like you're for the streets.

[@gabrielfloreso4552]

Gosto do sotaque carioca 😏 saudações de Costa Rica

[@armenarmen2743]

Interesting and happy New Year

[@lapharmacie98]

damn these people are so beautiful like wth

[@mocbellini]

you are beautiful too

[@ramon1930]

Thanks by the compliments lady. You are welcome.

[@scottharrison4628]

hmm.... there are many sides to Brazil... many girls are still quite traditional and dont do the contantinhos thing

[@sabrynatenorio]

True

[@luizacarinci1647]

If you are still here come to the south!! Rio Grande do Sul! Is amazing here :))

[@Megan_Sax]

Am I the only Brasilian living in American soil that is very homesick so is looking up videos about her country to make her feel better but it is just making her more homesick?

[@pallomaandrade5617]

"Caiu na rede é peixe" means "If it came to me, let's enjoy/have/do it"

[@calaiart]

Ou significa exatamente o que é dito em inglês: "if the net catches it, is a fish"

[@karabella456]

coming from a more laid back country in the south east asia, i find this culture a bit of a eureka moment! not shock, anymore, but more of “aaaahhhhh” because i have a crush with this hot brazilian dude (i hope he’ll never see my comment here ever lol), and almost everything just fits like a puzzle in my head. i mean, you see, i wasn’t raise in a culture with sleeping with anyone or kissing someone u just met is a thing... nor am i so exposed with people like that lol and for many months, i kept pondering why this dude keeps on calling his ex f buddies (cantatinhos) as friends... like, who does thaaatt???? and he keeps them too in his contacts! lol i just couldn’t take that... like, i felt like it’s disrespectful for anyone he’s trying ro get to know at the moment... but oh well, now i think things got more sense bc apparently, it is not just a personal thing, but a cultural thing too. :(((

[@FirstLast-tj4eh]

updateee?

[@TieRo69]

Yeah.. Its pretty common here, in general. But, You know, its a very big country... There is all kind of people and ways of thinking.

[@wanderbedits]

It's more the 'party people' that are like that. My husband and I, for example, will never think about that, the most conservative/christian brazilians will have different relationships with their couple. In my opinion, I think this is a bad habit.

[@Leguinan]

Brazilians, even cariocas, do have monogamic relationships, steady and faithful. The thing is that for cariocas It is not unusual for a contatinho to become a friend, and you Will not add him/her to the dating pool. I have friends, plain friends, who are former contatinhos. If the relationship progresses It becomes a commitment. Brazilians are iffy in general, I reckon. You might fall in love exactly with that bright and bright eccentric way of demonstrating love, and our atitude towards sex, that might hurt you given your culture.

[@EvgeniyaJZ]

I don't know but this makes me sad. These are fake relationships. Easy come, easy go is the right description for those. But I prefer a relationship where you fall in love with each other slowly and deeply. Where you have a meaningful connection, when your souls connect. Because I don't see sex as the goal of the relationship. I see a long term, hopefully permanent intimate bond with someone as the goal. I think it brings you the most satisfaction. Sex is nothing in comparison...

[@calaiart]

You sound like an uninteresting person

[@Despond]

And some people at a certain stage in their lives don't want every relationship to be some full emotional ride.

[@EvgeniyaJZ]

Looks like the crowd in this comment section is totally different type of people that I can never understand..

[@calaiart]

@@EvgeniyaJZ Yeah, like you are bitter and cynical and the crowd is not

[@gwoptalk1268]

Evgeniya JZ no I understand you. Most people that have flings or contatinhos it’s usually a phase but for these people it seems more like a lifestyle and seems vague. At least to me nothing fun abt it

[@charlesderosas5577]

I'm a Filipino American but learning Portuguese is my priority.

[@maryocecilyo3372]

Boa!

[@Acteaon]

Man. I miss rio.

[@Ok-hb8ev]

" mas quem quiser, tamo aí" KKKK MDS

[@malumello17]

The shy guy who say he is ugly is actually hot as fuck.

[@Chandasouk]

I should really get back to studying Portuguese again

[@adolphalvarez4745]

Absolutely love this video, sou Americano, o meu sonho e ir a conhecer o brasil um dia

[@werickeri2717]

Você é estadunidense.

[@AyeeeItsCam]

I love the diversity of Brazil ✊🏾💯💯

[@mariaantoniasantos1504]

in Australia, if you are a mixed race Australian ( me for example) you are not considered to be Australian or taken seriously. Wish I was in Brazil right now.

[@AyeeeItsCam]

@Alimac The US and Brazil are so much more similar than we all think. But Brazil did what the US was trying to do WAY better! Everybody is Brazilian, period. Regardless. No hyphens for ethnic minorities. Brazil has it's issues but I love that country so much. Wish I could live there again

[@AyeeeItsCam]

@@mariaantoniasantos1504 Really? I thought there were A LOT of half white/half Aboriginal people in Australia

[@AyeeeItsCam]

@Alimac as someone who's lived in both the US and Brazil, I have to disagree. Both are the largest countries in their continents. Both countries were colonized by greedy Europeans and had extremely large amounts of slavery and indentured servitude. Both countries were founded on the mixing of cultures of Africans, Amerinidans, and Europeans. With large amounts of immigrants from other places of the world coming later. Making them both incredibly racially and ethnically diverse countries. The US is a salad bowl while Brazil is a melting pot.

[@AyeeeItsCam]

@Alimac In Brazil, more than half of the country is of African descent. But Brazil's past has convinced an entire group of people into identifying as 'Pardo'.. Some ACTUALLY are Pardo, but others are 70/80 percent African talking about "im mixed, not Black" like people like Neymar. But in most of the world those "pardos" would still be Black. And a lot of people in Brazil who identify as white are not white. They're Pardos and wouldn't pass for white anywhere else. So Brazil's ideas of race are just as crazy as the US's, just in a different way.

[@bladmoreno]

I am here in RIO!!

[@brunnasilva6604]

amei!!!

[@LuckasMuringa]

Show padrin! 🔥

[@user-kq3tg4nn9j]

Eu sou carioca e tenho vergonha até de troca de olhares mano KKKKKKKK

[@dessalima3090]

“ he is just a contatinho “ HAHAHAHA

[@beatrizmontenario5123]

As a carioca I assume this is very accuraaaate

[@bh-tf1ro]

Haha that was so funny I like the guy with the hat 😂😂

[@Tbone1492]

Brazilian advice to add to the Great Video. Never try dating Brazilians in Tourist destinations like Rio! Learn some Portuguese!🇧🇷 Obrigada Mae Amor...😎👏👏

[@natural2047]

@T-Bone MMA Because in Rio the majority it's people are not interested in "dating" per se... they are more into hanging out AND making out (friends with benefits = contatinhos) and if it turns out you guys develop feelings than maybe it can turn into something more serious ( if both want it). In resume... If you wanna "go all out" it's easier but if you want something serious you need to take your sweet time to connect.

[@wulanrachmaniah9584]

More content like this please. Social interview is interesting content to see 😉

[@noturnoreturn]

*Caralho que vídeo fodaaaaaa* *Gostei muito, Like*

[@gloriousmdma]

Ahhhhhh 💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜 I love this

[@mari0164]

In Argentina the kiss thing happens too lol

[@evlysian7670]

now thinking back on what I readed about latvians that we are hella cold looking how Brazilians are im starting to think its true

[@AceHardy]

Good deeds 🙌💯

[@joncena3028]

3:01 I only came here for this

[@anacarolinasallesrodrigues7821]

Brazil really is my country

[@Barbara-wv9xn]

Entrevistas com nordestinos também seria uma ótima opção!!!!

[@user-tw5do1el8z]

Deus me livre!😱

[@andreia0000]

@@user-tw5do1el8z porque, que merda de racismo e esse? Vai te lascar macho

[@andreia0000]

Excelente opção.

[@andreia0000]

Brasil naone só a poha do Rio ou SP

[@yugen7147]

Yes it's true.

[@tumblebee5269]

fabio be hittin different when you miss brasil ne kkkkkkk