I started pole about 3 months ago, and at 53, it has taken all my "growth mindset" mentality not to quit. Everyone is half my age and seems to do everything I can't do effortlessly. I watched your video over and over, visualized the movements before going to sleep, and even dreamed I was doing an inversion. In class tonight, I visualized them again, grasped the pole, and before I knew it, I was upside down in my first inversion. I could hardly believe it. I did it again, and again, and again. It's not pretty and very far from perfect but thanks to you, I did it.
@strawberrypoptarts9532 Жыл бұрын
Girl thank u!!
@heidinicklaus738710 ай бұрын
Amazing!!! I just started pole a few weeks ago and have a hard time focusing on how I’m definitely a larger body size than everyone else in class. It seems so easy for everyone to flip upside even on their first couple attempts. It’s hard for me to not take it personally since I’m heavier. Honestly, I was in tears after my last class. But watching this video and reading your comments have made me feel more motivated to keep trying.
@RebeccaTownrow8 ай бұрын
I’m 43 and I’ve had 2 lessons! I’m not strong at all and I hate the thought of being upside down but I will try my hardest to eventually do it! Well done 👍 🎉
@Wildwoods12125 ай бұрын
56 and it took me over a year to get an invert and I still struggle with it even though can do other advanced moves. Stick with it and you will get stronger!
@sarahw5374 ай бұрын
I’m 51! And just started! It’s sooooo hard! And so fun!
@bellat6889 Жыл бұрын
This is crazy I was under the impression I couldn’t invert at all but ur directions literally made me invert perfectly I’m in shock right now. Thank you queen legend
@bellat6889 Жыл бұрын
What helped me the most was that first step where you pull yourself up before you lift your legs, and then remembering to tilt my whole body back ❤️
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Жыл бұрын
@@bellat6889 No worries, gal! Sometimes you don't realise you already have the strength and flex to get into a move, then it's just a matter of learning the technique for it and voila! 😉
@sarahseguin83742 жыл бұрын
Ive had my pole for 7 months now and been too scared to invert until now. Right after finishing this video I FINALLY got it!!!! Thank you so much :)
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Well done, Sarah! I simply guided you however, you would have had the strength required to make it possible 😉👏Were you able to do all the progressions or did you go straight into an invert?
@koldheartedqueen_2 жыл бұрын
Yes she got me up there and less fear more confidence and control😊😊
@nojerama7886 ай бұрын
It took me a total of seven months to get my invert, but I finally managed it yesterday and I was riding the high for the entire evening 😂
@shizukagozen777Ай бұрын
That's understandable ! 😂😂😂👏
@patchu6425 Жыл бұрын
I'm a mum, 38. I have fybro and chronic fatigue. I've just bought a pole. Used to do pole 9 years ago. Thanks for your videos. They have inspired me to get bk on the horse and start training again. ❤
@briannadau Жыл бұрын
Ive had such an issues with not being able to get my hips high enough, this video is so helpful thank you!
@KelseyHontz2 жыл бұрын
Okay I am EXHAUSTED watching you do so many inverts in this video but this is a wonderful tutorial!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Omg thanks for realising 😂 I WAS tired 😭 it’s all for the greater good to get the word out about this very important move 😂 Thanks for your kind words 🥰😘
@lakebabrooklyn7142 жыл бұрын
Awesome video as usual ❤️ I love how your videos break things down & you give new polers & non polers a realistic look into this form of aerial arts. Some think it’s always a flashy, pretty IG move when 90% of the time it’s not pretty , we’re grunting , hurting & 😂 sweating. We work extremely hard to make it look easy lol.
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lakeba!! 😘 I’m learning just as much as you guys and I like to show that on here. It is hardddd!! The hard work makes it satisfying when we get it, that’s for sure!
@lakebabrooklyn7142 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Yw! 🙂❤️ for sureeeee!! I agree 1000%
@Gypsy099902 жыл бұрын
Yeah it seems like a real workout. That's what im here 4
@sophiamarshall11682 жыл бұрын
You give the best instructions I’ve ever found when it comes to learning pole. Even when I took a pole class it wasn’t as good as these videos. Keep up the good work 💝
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sophia!! I hope you continue to get a lot out of these videos! 💕
@Holistichottietee2 жыл бұрын
I was finally able to spin upside down this week and it was because I decided to randomly take the risk. I’m so excited at my progress from practicing!!! Thank u for your classes!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
I'm so excited for you!! Congrats girl 💗 It's such a good feeling to progress. Your efforts will be rewarded 😊
@kikkobaby2 жыл бұрын
i recently took a beginner pole course, fell in love and got a pole for home. so blessed to have found your channel! thank you for all the effort and detail put into each video!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Cool! Was this an in-person course? So glad to have you here 💕
@abelle52 жыл бұрын
I followed the instructions and I DID IT! I’ve been trying to invert for 7 months. Thank you so much! New subscriber!❤
@MsVeniceBeachTV2 жыл бұрын
you are the TRUTH. Ive learned so much in 3 days. Thank you so much. Your environment is so calm and. ..makess it even better
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
hahaha I love this saying, I've never been called the 'truth' before 😁 I'm happy you've learnt a lot! I will aim to continue to keep this environment calm too 😌 Did you start pole recently?
@bellag98342 жыл бұрын
I am working on pole conditioning now, preparing to invert. I’m excited! However, developing the strength is taking some time as you stated. Thank you!!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Good luck!! It can be a long time before one can invert! It's a worthwhile pursuit though 😄
@Oatmilllk2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’ve had 3 years off pole so I’m starting from scratch strength wise. This is a great video
@WFHSuccessByJess9 ай бұрын
I can’t believe this you are heaven sent I’ve been pole dancing for months and never could invert until today thank you so so much
@BLONDIANN942 жыл бұрын
I found you today and I’m already binge-watching everything, love your tips and energy.
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Yasss! Thanks for binge watching me! Let me know if there's a certain video you'd like to see 😀
@aatika7942 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so encouraging and compassionate! I love how you break everything down :)
@JWLroar2 жыл бұрын
So clear and helpful! Can you do a video on general milestone suggestions? Im a beginner poler and i feel everytime i take beginner classes, they tend to teach the same thing repeatedly because it's usually a different group of people
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 💖 Milestones is a very interesting topic indeed! I'm planning on speaking in general about things beginner pole dancers might like to know and I can include this topic in that video. It's hard to say when you should be able to do a specific move because everybody goes at different paces. And every move has their own set of progressions. I reckon it's best to listen to your body when you feel you are strong and consistently able to do certain move, then you can probably progress to something slightly more challenging. I believe milestones are not a matter of when but a matter of what should come first and what should come next. I do think there is a general order to moves you should learn before going onto harder moves. A big milestone move is the invert. The studio I go to considers it the move you must be able to do to go from beginner to intermediate level. I do agree you should be strong in your upside down crucifix and invert before moving into the world of upside down tricks from leg hangs. In terms of doing beginner moves, I feel it focuses a lot on the upper body. I didn't stay in beginner class for a long time and I feel that I didn't strengthen my arms enough and could avoid using my arms in intermediate class because the moves use a lot of legs for holding upside down tricks. So personally, I think there's no harm spending time building good strength doing upper body beginner moves (mostly spins). I hope this all makes sense! Can you give me an example of the 'hardest' move you are able to do at the moment?
@minniedabaddie571 Жыл бұрын
Can I tell u I love u ..😢 I’m a beginner and you’re the ONLY one who describes each move the way I need it to be described !❤
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Жыл бұрын
Naw! Thank you ☺
@bobcat.8372 Жыл бұрын
I've been dealing with wrist pain after 2 or 3 Inverts for over a week now. Seeing your video helped me understand that there is a tiiiny hand "sliding" moment right at tilting backwards!!!!! This allows the wrists to be straight when holding the invert💡 It's a mind blowing moment for me 🤯🤣 as I held my hands completely rigid in place and bend my wrists too much that way. Thank you sooo much for this detailed and wonderful video💐💎
@MrsRawr948 ай бұрын
Great video 🎉 I’ll try your tips and tricks 😊 Do you have any recommendation for conditioning exercices without pole? I struggle with core strenght and can’t seem to lift my hips high enough so I just kick the air and can’t invert
@chibk44582 жыл бұрын
Excellent tutorial. Thank you. I haven't tried but feel confident because of your detailed explanation!!!
@BereniceAllanPoe2 жыл бұрын
I've just started pole gym, I'm like six lessons in, but I've bought a pole and I like practicing at home a little bit. You girl were a soldier lol doing all of that all together using the same muscles over and over, must have been tiring af, but you are such a great and kind teacher!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
I'm excited for you that you have found pole 😁 Pole gym sounds interesting! What is that like? I truly was tired by the end of it! Though, I did replay the same invert again and again so it looks like I did more inverts than I actually did 😂 Thank you for your kind words 💗
@BereniceAllanPoe2 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer pole gym is basically pole dance, without the dance lol it's like a step before that, we just work out like hell and learn the basic poses :) I hope next year I can step up in the course's difficulty and keep practicing! And you're welcome, you did a great job at explaining everything and clearing up any possible questions 💜
@rebeccab55242 жыл бұрын
Yes! Even just squeezing my elbows together made a difference. Love this vid ❤
@jennyh83922 жыл бұрын
Your voice is very calming. I am definitely going to practice and let you know how it goes! Wish me luck😁
@OjaioFansub2 жыл бұрын
Right now I do a hybrid of kick and "controlled", more kick than control tho, never had issues with my ribs, nor hooking my legs but I'm unable to keep my legs on a V, I will keep the in mind the hands placement next time I go to class.
@PeachPlastic2 жыл бұрын
Huh, interesting. The way we learned it in class is to start with an anchor grip on the back side of the pole, using the hip hold on the side. Then lift legs in a controlled manner, straightening the arms to lean back as one foot rises to latch/hook onto the back of the pole. I wonder what difference it makes to squeeze the pole against the bicep instead? Sadly, I can't install a pole in my apartment (due to the way the ceiling is constructed), so I have to wait for my next class, haha. The kick up "method" honestly looks like it's asking for injury, and I imagine it would be way scarier than going up the hard but slow way. 😅
@mxxie313310 ай бұрын
This is some great tips. I'm just learning my invert. It's harder then it looks
@kelley06015 ай бұрын
Do you have a beginners class that you videoed I really like your style of teaching
@misscoccinell9659 Жыл бұрын
Awesome tutorials love the troubleshooting section at the end 👌👏
@fionasmal50662 жыл бұрын
You are a very good teacher. Subscribed!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fiona!! 💘 So glad to have you here 😀
@sheniselue93708 ай бұрын
aye i acutally got upside for the very first time using these video thanks so much beautiful
@aCycleofSelfcontrol2 жыл бұрын
Ikkk I'm watching early, but I can't help it. I've had my pole for coming up on 4 months and I've accomplished so much. My most recent pole moves I've gotten the hang of is the Jasmine and Martini. I've also nailed the figure for layback and can do it from a climb on a good day. But I can't help but look forward to when I can give this a go.
@zachettemartell13112 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu really helpful, since im a begginer, loved it 😍🥰 keep doing more
@ZeldaLocke2 жыл бұрын
you just taught me !!! as a pole beginner i am so happy
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
YESS! You're killing it Zelda! 👏👏👏😍
@KelseyHontz2 жыл бұрын
I already know this is going to be another banger Poletato Jem video!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
oh wow! what did I do to deserve 2 comments from the famous Kelsey Hontz? 😁💖
@sixiesixer92502 жыл бұрын
Thank you so profoundly it's been like 25 years yeah actually since I've been on a pole and I've had some serious head traumas since thin my biggest because I wouldnt perform for my father and his friends at their party nights my father broke my leg and shoulder as well hit me in the skull with each because he found out I was training and gaining a fake ID for my 14th birthday to run away and while I've regained these moves all of these through these videos my last trauma of 2020 was really hard on and I'm so greatful for your help. I still to this day have insain love for this dance I really don't care much on the sitting on guys laps even though lap dances are fun but the pole it was always my freedom even though it's been ripped away from me every time I gotten up or in to get on, so I'm gonna set one up at home that I finally have through years of fighting in all directions.
@noneness Жыл бұрын
your tips are so amazing! cant wait to try
@soothingsounds8385 ай бұрын
Great tips thank you!
@melissahubbard21952 жыл бұрын
So much great information here, and so well presented! Thank you!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Hope you found it helped your invert! Are you new to the invert? 😊
@melissahubbard21952 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Yes, I am just starting to learn them. Getting to the point at which I can do them without kicking is a major goal for me, so I really appreciated these progressions!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
@@melissahubbard2195 That's perfect! You are the exact person I was targeting for this video then :D Let me know how you go with the progressions!
@adriennepilon56342 жыл бұрын
Hi, I was wondering what is the name/brand of your pole? It’s really cute. 😊
@tingting91502 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaaaas I needed this
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
YASSSS!! To hear just 1 Poletato say this is all I could ask for 😋 I can't wait to hear all about your inverting journey 😍
@jayaa23212 жыл бұрын
This is amazing technique, may I ask, during these movements, is your Pole Static or Spin Mode to help you move around the pole?
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jayaa! My pole is spinning! You can definitely do inverts on a static pole just as easily but it wont help you move around the pole.
@muminavan2 жыл бұрын
this was soooo helpful thank you so much
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Yay! How are your inverts going?
@sixiesixer92502 жыл бұрын
He took a belt buckle to my shoulder blade and feimer. And fluffed me in the skull the second I'm with one hit the first time a dual fist one to each side and a hit with belt to the back of my head. I was in colmas from both times. I have epilepsy now because of it I was about to be 13 and had been practicing for 2.5 years.
@sofiepetersen-bs4md Жыл бұрын
When i try stretch my legs to the sides my whole body just flip back to where i started 😢 what can i do to not flop back down but stay upside down?
@mishka.a2 жыл бұрын
Hi, could you make a video abour spinning invert? When you are up the pole and you want to do v-invert in a spin (not from the ground)? :)
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Yeah! I'd love to at some point! Have you tried it yet?
@sophiemusicrose2 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer I'd love to know your tips for aerial and spin inverts! I'm just starting to work towards aerial inverts and the first baby steps to a shoulder mount. I've just managed to do the first invert aerially from a figurehead/hood ornament. This video helped me so much when I was learning to invert. Thank you!
@lesheawhite1870 Жыл бұрын
Hi. I have a question. I do lyra. I am going to start pole soon. Can lyra help me?
@AfiniDwinastary2 жыл бұрын
Hello... Thank you for your wonderful tutorial.. May I know your pole diameter?is it 45mm or 42mm?
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
40mm actually!
@teebak6202 жыл бұрын
where do you get your shorts from? I love them!
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Hey Teeba! I do love them too and recommend them because they are comfy and great quality! They are from a dance store called Bloch. I’m not sure of the exact type but I found very similar options below for you to look at: US Store bit.ly/3Eun1mS (looks a tad bit shorter than mine) AUS Store (free international shipping on orders over $100) bit.ly/3Ev8eYT AUS Store (only ships to AUS or NZ) bit.ly/3lDsyjk bit.ly/3DuEE4B (shorter version)
@KweenTAC2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video! Than you x
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! How are your inverts going so far?
@Abyssoblivion862 жыл бұрын
this is the perfect invert tutorial!! so helpful, thank you!! 🤍
@ikanbyjazzy2 жыл бұрын
love this thank you
@sillesilencio66249 ай бұрын
Thank You!!!
@Dinero_reina012 жыл бұрын
I just learned how to I just started dancing pole up in my house 🏡
@TishTravels9 ай бұрын
Is there anything I can do about my fingertips BURNNIING!? Omg it prevents me from staying in any position
@mayapapaya61472 жыл бұрын
What do I do when my whole torso doesn’t following my head when I tilt also when I try to tilt I just fall 😭😭
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Are you able to pull up your body and tuck in your legs? It might be core strength and/or using the muscles on the top of your thighs to lift your legs back as you tilt too! Have you tried the progressions? let me know which one you get stuck at and it might give us more clues why this is happening 😂
@misscindy_diaries2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had this before I started pole😍😅
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Ahhh! Oh man, I’m late 🤦🏻♀️ sorry I couldn’t have made it a year ago 😂
@iancdris7 ай бұрын
I’m 56 and started in 2024. I did have a lifting background but stick with it.
@pawpurrtraitor Жыл бұрын
Ily pole jem
@ellipticdreamer9735 Жыл бұрын
I just got my pole I’m sad I can’t do it but I can throw my body upside down lol .. I just feel like a real rookie.
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Жыл бұрын
It can take a long time to be able to invert! Sometimes we have to do the progressions over and over for weeks/months to build that foundational strength so we don't to use too much momentum! If you take classes, a teacher can help you get a feel for the end position which my students have found helpful!
@maejanee20652 жыл бұрын
Is your outside hand in this video your right hand?
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
It is the left when my right bicep is curled around the pole :)
@sixiesixer92502 жыл бұрын
I've had xrays galor we've watched them seal and I pretty much over dose on calcium and cartridges most of my life he since I was 5 he used to like to smash my head into beams and brick walls often actually.
@0anitra2 жыл бұрын
My arms won’t stay bent 🙄😂
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Is this when doing the progression exercises too? It sounds like you are still developing the invert specific strength and that's very common and completely okay starting out with inverts!
@0anitra2 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer it’s with anything using my upper body lol I thought I was automatically suppose to at least hold my body weight up. It’s so difficult I’ve given up so bad on this. Do you know what that one pole trick is called when you get the pole between your legs and lean all the way back and hold the pole upside down? Can you teach that?
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
@@0anitra I know! There's no shortcut with the invert, it really is developing your upper body strength ... and your core and hip flexors too! Then to put it altogether using good timing! So it's a lot in just one move. Hopefully you can revisit again when you have built more strength to try it again :) Do you mean a layback?
@0anitra2 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer thank you so much for responding! Yes I’ll be working on it for sure have a great weekend!
@vannesasuarez61942 жыл бұрын
@TheVargasShow2 жыл бұрын
This is easier said than done. 🥴
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
oh yes 😂 Isn't it always in pole? 😅
@slemailsl Жыл бұрын
ITS THE FACT I DID THIS AFTER 4 DAYS OF POLE DANCING
@playerpro55212 жыл бұрын
Could you speak Chinese?
@PoletatoJemPoleDancer2 жыл бұрын
Sadly not ☹️ I wish I could! Do you know how?
@playerpro55212 жыл бұрын
@@PoletatoJemPoleDancer Is your parent Chinese-Indigenous?I see you are Asian for sure =).
@serrafinaloveless90372 жыл бұрын
Yea, not as easy as it sounds.. you don't just lean back and put your legs up and automatically go into an invert . It's not that easy