how to know if you're bisexual

[@MsDickerz]

Hi angels!! I hope this helps some of you if you’re questioning atm 💗💗

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

u missed ur own video girll😂

[@MsDickerz]

@@chaoticdemonpunk ngl I was definitely asleep hahaha ahhh

[@thatthingwithglasses8588]

hi i am 13 and came out today to my friends as bi, im going to tell parents by replacing the flag outside on june7th i havent known what i was but i had liked girls before and i told my om that and she is a ok w that and so is my dad so its cool. anyways, i love your videos so much!

[@lillyhulsey8016]

@@thatthingwithglasses8588 Congrats girly! Welcome to the fam!

[@ashleey1236]

This helped me thx I have been so confused lately and just scared but I think I'm ready to come out

[@chairmanJackie]

"3rd Tip: Take notice of who you get nervous around" Me, with social anxiety: "Welp looks like I am a confirmed pansexual."

[@MsDickerz]

hahah awww

[@Racso-oscaR]

@@MsDickerz just came out as pan

[@erikaurias5331]

Lol same

[@selmathorell3553]

@@Racso-oscaR nice pfp

[@ilovecucumbers15]

Lol same

[@sian6309]

this is really late but sometimes i feel like im pretending to be bi for attention and dont really like girls but then i remember that i fantasize about kissing them and stuff. I also never really had a girl crush and only actually learnt about the lgbtq+ community a few years back since my family doesnt really talk about that stuff.

[@Mono-bj7lq]

I came out as bi a month ago and before that I had the same feeling. I was always thinking about it and I've felt like a complete shit. In my case I just wanted to lie to myself bc I was scared of not being straight. So don't worry, you are not the only one thinking about this stuff. You don't need to know you sexuality right away, just take your time and if you are comfortable, talk about it with someone who you can trust. It really helps😌

[@fluffy530]

I feel you, i'm feeling exactly the same x'D

[@leanisastay3781]

Im questioning and um going through this like I DONT KNOW IF THIS FEELING IS REAL

[@Plottoberry]

@@leanisastay3781 Can be internalized biphobia. I had this too. I thought I was doing it for attention, somehow. Then realized that I get really pissed when guys comment on me making out with girls. That I get nervous around pretty girls. That I get teary eyed when thinking about holding a girl. That I can really crave that. My heart fluttering etc. Yeah.

[@agathasena552]

Same feeling here. Actually I know that I am attracted to women, I also fantasize and I already went out with girls too...but I've never falled in love to one..so, I am always questioning myself... I'm not pretend, but sometimes I'm not 100% sure that I am bi. P.S: Sorry my English.

[@iPLAYtheSTATION]

I came out to my best friend today as bisexual. He accepted me and said it didn't matter to him. I'm still shaking off the moment, but I feel so relieved.

[@MsDickerz]

Bless, that’s great! Proud of you!

[@wren8423]

Congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you!🥳

[@lillyhulsey8016]

I came out as bi to my best friend in McDonald’s lol

[@purvajakaruppasamy2373]

I came out to by best friend in school 😂😂she accepted and OK with it but still kinda not into it 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻

[@sophiea7]

@@lillyhulsey8016 good idea

[@xenios5037]

I don't know if I'm straight or bi because i kind of feel some sexual attraction to women (I'm a woman) but never romantic attraction. I know that i can be bisexual and heteroromantic, but I'm still so confused cause i don't see myself in a relationship with a woman, I broke my brain with it sorry English is not my mother tongue

[@teadrinker44]

Such a mood. Like honestly girls are pretty, but is it platonic or maybe not??????? Confusion. So much confusion.

[@SweetHeart05]

I know exactly how you feel. It’s super confusing, especially when you realize that you’re romantic and sexual orientation can differ from eachother.

[@urfas.1225]

I'm the same. I find some women sexually attractive, but I never had any romantic feelings for women. I also consider myself heteroromantic bisexual but damnnnn, it's confusing hahaha 🤣

[@tsholofelojonas3044]

Are you in SA?

[@valsen5356]

I feel the same way lol

[@kaminaransod2235]

Me watching just to make sure: 🤠 (Edit: tysm for the likes, make sure to take care of ur selves )

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗💗

[@phoebecochrane2940]

Same tho 🤠

[@molli_moo]

SAME KSKSKS

[@beachbomb]

Y'all quirky and different AFF FR SKSKSKAK 🤠🤠🤣🤣😂

[@ShadySunflower]

sameee

[@gabbyt5069]

Ok so I’m going to rant right now: Im confused and I’ve been thinking I’m bi for a little under a year. The term bi feels more right than straight does for me. I’ve never really had a crush on any girl I’ve met but I do think about being in a relationship with one quite a lot. I’m thinking of my sexuality almost 24/7. I started off as a really protective ally and then I was like “maybe I’m part of the LGBTQ+ community” I just can’t tell whether I live the idea of bisexuality or if I actually am bisexual, if that makes sense.

[@mizu114]

i feel exactly the same tbh and im confused aswell

[@spicybill]

Kinda same! I have seen a few boys I thought were cute, but most boys i dont like. I guess that already makes be bi. Also the thought of a cuddling pretty femmy boy makes me so happy right now. But other days i feel completly straight. And that makes me so confused and thats why im thinking about it so much.

[@kellygxoxo]

I feel the exact same way!!!! I’ve never had a crush on a girl, but I feel like i completely could if I met the right person. I know that I really like a lot of guys and guy celebrities, and then when I think abt girls or girl celebrities, i don’t know if I want to BE them or BE WITH them. I’m just trusting the fact that I’m young and that I can figure it out eventually. Try not to stress to much, u don’t need to make a definite decision right away. 💕💕💕

[@rileysmrz]

@@mizu114 what u said

[@daisygrange6877]

This just described the exact way im feeling and tbh it’s so confusing and overwhelming

[@mytube821]

Old lady here. So wonderful that young people are able to talk and share their thoughts. I still have a crush on my bestest childhood friend. That has been for 52 years. I’ll never tell her as I’d hate to lose our friendship. Watching your video answers many of my life’s questions and feelings. As a wife and mother I’ll stay in the closet as I couldn’t bare loosing my family. ( my mum included who sadly is very homophobic ) My daughter who came to me a couple of years ago to say she was Bi, I’m so proud of her for living her true self and being who she is. ( oddly she says she got it from me, she told me “mum I know your Bi and it’s Ok I’ll keep your secret” ) For all who are out or not, who ever you are I wish you well.

[@SuperMytouch]

wow thank you for sharing

[@jeffoneto278xd]

Awwww, thank you for sharing!

[@THE_END.ヽ]

Ok so sorry but I'll be posting this same text on every comment I see because I really want someone to give me tips or something. 😭😭😭 So, the thing is, I'm really questioning myself if I'm bi/pan. Because I remember having a childhood crush on a fictional character who was a girl, I even made a self-insert kind of thing so I could ship myself with her lmao (ik very cringy and embarrassing). But I really never had a real life crush with a girl, however if I imagine myself with a girl that matches my idea of a partner, I indeed have that "feeling" of when you're in love with someone or idk how to explain it agh. But I also kinda doubt if I'm bi/pan because of the fact that I sometimes think "what if I'm doing it for attention and just faking it?" "What if I just want to have this feeling of belonging in a group like, in this case, LGBTQ people?" Also the fact that I'm kinda insecure of myself (working on it) and I've never ever been in a relationship I think like "what if I'm so desperate for someone to love me that I would even date a girl?" So idk this is so confusing for me PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME LMAO. 😭😭😭

[@sejutii8367]

I have seen my mother checking out girls...is she bi??

[@SydneyDavis-qy4xh]

Aww I wish you well in life! Stay happy and healthy!

[@CM-hz6sh]

I feel like maybe I can’t picture myself dating a girl but I think it’s because my family has always told me that I’ll have a husband one day and have kids But idk, one thing I do know is I’m attracted to boys & girls so I guess that’s all that matters?

[@natalie2726]

I still don’t even know if i like girls. I’m still so confused😭 and i agree with maybe not picturing dating a girl Bc of family. But i just don’t knowww! 😪

[@anikag7198]

@@natalie2726 ugh same cause I know I would like to visualize a family I made with a husband but if only I feel like I’m not “sinning” or obligated to be “straight” I feel like one of the things that makes me think I could be Demi or something is that I wanted to be with my best friend who is a girl always, like I was always looking at her and loved everything about her but when I was upset because I know she won’t be with me forever because I feel like I can’t meet a standard that deserves to be with her as a person, I told her I loved her and my other best friend but she told me in a half jokingly way, “Sorry but I don’t swing that way… (something)” and I felt a deep pang in my heart like a bullet hit me that I didn’t know was coming. And I was like “But.. why would she think that? Im not gay? Do I seem gay? Is it what I said? But why do I feel rejected and disappointed even though I know she’s straight and I’m also straight?” And also with loads of things like being attracted to androgynous women and their femininity and strength in body and mind and intelligence especially, I don’t know if it’s because I like being that too so I’m not sure ahhh!!!

[@THE_END.ヽ]

Ok so sorry but I'll be posting this same text on every comment I see because I really want someone to give me tips or something. 😭😭😭 So, the thing is, I'm really questioning myself if I'm bi/pan. Because I remember having a childhood crush on a fictional character who was a girl, I even made a self-insert kind of thing so I could ship myself with her lmao (ik very cringy and embarrassing). But I really never had a real life crush with a girl, however if I imagine myself with a girl that matches my idea of a partner, I indeed have that "feeling" of when you're in love with someone or idk how to explain it agh. But I also kinda doubt if I'm bi/pan because of the fact that I sometimes think "what if I'm doing it for attention and just faking it?" "What if I just want to have this feeling of belonging in a group like, in this case, LGBTQ people?" Also the fact that I'm kinda insecure of myself (working on it) and I've never ever been in a relationship I think like "what if I'm so desperate for someone to love me that I would even date a girl?" So idk this is so confusing for me PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME LMAO. 😭😭😭

[@yourresidentanon4169]

Thank you for making this. I came out to my parents recently and my mom didn’t think I was actually bisexual and I was pressuring myself to be that way because of my friend group. This was the reinforcement I needed.

[@winterrdarden8147]

Mine too

[@THE_END.ヽ]

Ok so sorry but I'll be posting this same text on every comment I see because I really want someone to give me tips or something. 😭😭😭 So, the thing is, I'm really questioning myself if I'm bi/pan. Because I remember having a childhood crush on a fictional character who was a girl, I even made a self-insert kind of thing so I could ship myself with her lmao (ik very cringy and embarrassing). But I really never had a real life crush with a girl, however if I imagine myself with a girl that matches my idea of a partner, I indeed have that "feeling" of when you're in love with someone or idk how to explain it agh. But I also kinda doubt if I'm bi/pan because of the fact that I sometimes think "what if I'm doing it for attention and just faking it?" "What if I just want to have this feeling of belonging in a group like, in this case, LGBTQ people?" Also the fact that I'm kinda insecure of myself (working on it) and I've never ever been in a relationship I think like "what if I'm so desperate for someone to love me that I would even date a girl?" So idk this is so confusing for me PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME LMAO. 😭😭😭

[@justjulia1720]

Attractive girl: "Hey so...guess we're the only girls around, huh?" Me: "AAAAAAAAAAAAA"

[@roro6320]

My dream is literally to get a wife/ girlfriend (im a girl btw) , buy a cottage, and live there. On summers we would rent an old school bus and ride around the United States as nomads. We would kiss at the top of Farris wheels and play a bunch of rigged games. We would go on walks in the forests and during fall we would go pumpkin picking. We would snuggle up on cold nights with fuzzy socks under blankets and binge stranger things. We would vibe to girl in red together. Our cottage would be cottagecore (ofc) and we would witchy stuff together. We would have long conversations about how we feel and what we are stressed out about. *you can tell I’ve thought this through a lot*

[@theteatree2457]

This is my dream too. Hopefully one day we both get it. ❤️

[@beefairy8620]

This is exactly my plan! After high school I’m planning to take a gap year to travel around the Midwest and explore my interests (+get better at math) and then after college settle down in the woods by a lake, hopefully with a gf/wife and just kinda chill out

[@olivelene8315]

@@theteatree2457 omg maybe you are the mystery girl!

[@miles8402]

I'M A GIRL 😭😭BUT I WANT TO LOVE A GIRL (wife) SO BAD AND HAVE A FAMILY 💔😟

[@manshamishra]

When non-sexual fantasies came up, I was having a hard time picturing something with women. But after reading your comment... OMG- THIS. I WANT THIS IN MY LIFE TOO. Thank you so much for describing something so sweet!!

[@ImTheNewFruit]

My sexual orientation is just confused right know😀. I'm started to lose interested in men and slowly more interested in women... But I have never been with a women. I feel like virgin again 😀😳.

[@AirGoddess1087]

I'm really confused myself. I feel like my situation is even weirder though. Ever since i was around 10 i was always interested in only guys, but now i often find myself checking out other girls and I often dream about kissing them or doing more. Whats so werid about this is that i'm in my 30s now and this just started happening all of a sudden recently and I REALLY don't get it

[@ez9367]

I feel exactly the same, I feel like I'm not bi, and I'm not a lesbian, I don't feel a thing about men in this moment, but about girls, well, I do.

[@jackiepigeon69]

@@ez9367 There is a sexuality called Omnisexual. Like girls and guys but yu have a preferance. Research it a little bit and just take your time. Hope this helps i guess lol.

[@ez9367]

@@jackiepigeon69 thanks a lot! It was really helpful, turns out I identify as bi but searching has helped me a lot. I appreciate your comment :D

[@wallacerangel616]

I’m somewhat confused myself. Part of me feels like I’m bisexual but the half feels like I’m more straight than bisexual. I’m just really upset and it’s hurting me deeply

[@makiidrafts]

Thank you so much! I identified myself as bisexual a few months ago, and with this video it was confirmed that i was bi. I haven't got out of the closet yet because i'm too shy but with your video of how to show bi vibes i'm trying to get to people to know that i'm bi. Your channel has really helped me, it has made me more secure about myself, thank you Dutchy :)

[@se7vin77]

Hi dutchy, you probably don't remember me but a few weeks/months (I completely lost track of time) ago I commented that I wasnt out to anyone, and so I am coming out in the comments section. I have decided that today I am ready to come out to some friends. Thank you for the content that you make and all that you do, you have no idea how many people you have helped.

[@toreym.6608]

I’m so proud of you omg!!

[@nickixiusdangelolunala7779]

I'm proud of you!!

[@ShiningStar396]

I'm proud of you!

[@loganpalpatine5189]

Good for you

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so proud of you!!!!

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

I already know I'm pan but imma watch this anyway just to support megan✌️

[@annie_sourcandy3934]

Ayeeeeee hey again lol

[@MsDickerz]

Bless thank you 💗💗

[@pwestfall80]

Ye I’m pan too but I love Megan so much

[@julial6189]

Omg I actually fell out of my chair after reading ur username. PURE. GENIUS. I COULDNT STOP LAUGHING

[@vaidehi_n]

Me already out to parents & besties, watching to confirm & validate myself more 🌈🤠

[@InternetLoreTruth]

Same

[@Kiviyt312]

How old are you, sir? I am from India and I am like 80% confirmed but I am scared of coming out.

[@phoebecochrane2940]

I still need 2 tell my family but I ain't gonna do it yet I'm scared of there reactions

[@Belufan88]

@@phoebecochrane2940 i'm muslim and i'm scared tk tell them i am asexual🌚🌚🌚

[@ari_butterze1703]

3: I get nervous around girls and guys but I don’t know if it’s attractive or just insecure about myself compared To them especially for the girls

[@thechaoseclectic]

As someone who's gone my entire 42yrs believing myself to be straight...this has been a pretty shocking revelation to me. I've watched some of your videos and want to thank you helping to feel ok with it. I never thought of being bi as a big deal at all, until I found myself really crushing on a friend. This may take me sometime to process, but thanks for doing what you do.

[@ryankramer8779]

It's instances like this that make me glad that I figured mine out almost 2 years ago at 21. Still salty that it took me that long, but at least I know now. Also, I'm glad you could figure out yours even if it unfortunately took you twice as long, but it's better than never for both of us, among others 😁🔵🟣🔴

[@chazzabfc]

I have a coming out story. I was playing lgbtq+ hangout on roblox. And I forgot to sign out of my account with all my school friends on. And now they all know. But they are all supporting! Even the one that I like

[@JizzardWizzard6969]

for mine i was doing "its the ----- for me" and my friend said its the being straight for me and i kinda just gave her a look and she started crying and hugging me soooooo

[@shtary]

I started playing that too on like a alt account lol I have made some friends

[@chazzabfc]

It got taken down recently 😔

[@annie_sourcandy3934]

That’s GREATTTTTT

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so glad they’re all supportive 💗💗

[@love.him.forever]

I've been suppressing my bi part for so long because everyone around me keeps telling me how much they hate lqbtq+ and how wrong it supposedly is. But i can't get over what i feel .. ! I'm pretty sure I'm bi and it pains me to live in such a disapproving society , it just makes me deny my feelings and keep pretending I only like guys.. 💔 Over here, being with the same gender is considered a huge atrocity , my family would literally kick me out if they found out !

[@elinbird00]

I’m so sorry that ur family isnt supportive 😒 good luck

[@lenamvic9931]

I really think I‘m bi because I kissed my friend last week just to see how it feels and I really liked it. I‘m not attracted to her, but I met a girl a few weeks ago and I really like her… But it‘s just so hard to figure it out weather I‘m bisexual or just bicurious😮‍💨

[@CyanPotato]

Bicurious simply means you want to try out with being bi. You are in that stage of inner searching. Sometimes bicuriousity leads to homosexuality or pansexuality or even heterosexuality depending. Bisexual is the definitive term of labelling yourself as Bi. There may be a chance you're heteroflexible as well, meaning you're bi but lean more towards those of the opposite gender attractively, or homoflexibility if you lean more towards same gender attractively.

[@CyanPotato]

This is coming from a biromantic demisexual btw. I know how it feels to be kind of lost. Bisexuality is notorious for being more or less unseen by many, even others in the LGBTQ community. I'm a proud bisexual, don't be afraid of exploring youraelf and finding who you are

[@winterrdarden8147]

I think I might be bi. I think about my best friend a lot. She is pan but I don't know if I'm just thinking about her because we're close or because I like her.

[@adayinthelifeofgeorgia3844]

I think I’m by as well but I’m Christian so I’m kind of trying to hide it and I’m scared to come out

[@winterrdarden8147]

@@adayinthelifeofgeorgia3844 I'm christian too. I have come out as bi and have been accepted by most if my peers. If they don't support you then they are not ment to be around you.

[@adayinthelifeofgeorgia3844]

@@winterrdarden8147 that’s true

[@winterrdarden8147]

@@thelifeofpablo6289 I would say so. If they identify as male or female. Or if you say you only like male or they/them or female or they/them. Bi is not only liking male and female. It is any 2 or more genders.

[@elinbird00]

I think I’m also bi

[@RaeLarz]

I thought I was straight til I was 21. Then I thought I was Bi. But I realized I'm a lesbian when I was 22. I'm now 27, and recently been questioning if I'm actually bi. But here's the thing... I can't picture myself with a man. I'm SUPER attracted to masculine women (and I think this is why I was confused early in life, because I'm attracted to masculinity.) I just can't stand penises. They scare me. Lol. So I think it comes back to the idea that the IDEA of being with a man is intriguing, but I'm not attracted enough to men to have sex or be in a relationship with men. But I have had little crushes on men. But that's as far as I could see it going. So I suppose what I'm getting to is, even though I know deep down I'm a lesbian (like 95% at least)... some part of me is still grieving the fact that it would be so much easier if I was just able to like men. There's still so much judgement and misinformation about being gay. Yes, even in 2024. It can feel super frustrating at times. BUT... I still would never change who I am. Being a gay ass femme lesbian who loves gay masc women is the best thing in the world, truly. I hope this comment helps someone else

[@justanotheremonotsatanic4541]

Hi, I don't know if you will see this comment? But I recently came out to my parents a few months ago. They are fully supportive, which I'm very thankful for. I just wanted to thank you for all the help and confidence your videos have given me. 💗💜💙

[@EmmaRiddle543]

Hello, I’m a little confused at the moment but I’m only 13. Please don’t judge me because in young, I’m more grown up than most of my age but please remember, don’t lose that bit of craziness that we are all born with ☺️.

[@unicorntomboy9736]

You'll find out what you are in a few years time, like when you're 17 or 18 That's how it was for myself

[@miathekindofnicehufflepuff508]

@@unicorntomboy9736 but like that’s 5 years and ummm. Internal turmoil for that long is really harmful

[@MsDickerz]

Zero judgment zone here lovely! 💗💗

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@miathekindofnicehufflepuff508 It is, but things do get better once you get though the worst of it

[@wren8423]

I was 13 when I first started to realize i was bi, so i get how you feel. Just remember you are normal, you are valid, you are beautiful, and you are loved, and everything will be okay. Take time to think and figure out what exactly you are and get comfortable with yourself, no rush no pressure:) 💖

[@taeluvfx154]

I am so confused because I've always been wondering about getting into a relationship with a boy, but the other day I went to a party and I just met this girl, I don't know if I like how she was, how she treated me and just that, or if those actions towards me made me realize I like her in a romantically way. I've been wondering about this scenario with her and it won't get off my mind, this is like the first time I've ever felt this way with a girl before and right now I am doubting so much about my sexuality 😭

[@fortnite_qu33n54]

My worry is if I do come out as bi then I'm gonna be screwed because my mum has been giving some signs that she is homophobic I'm so scared

[@keyaroy8472]

lmao same my parents would kick me out and disown me if i told them i was bi (i’m questioning btw) but i don’t think i’ll ever tell them

[@iiluvgy04]

I would say to just not say anything right now to be safe and to be sure they won’t physically harm you or mentally harm you! Stay safe and remember come out when YOU are ready

[@alyssawong5125]

Hey I’m questioning and my situation is very different from yours I’m sure (I’ve told my parents I’m questioning and they don’t really get it, but we’ve joked about it and they’re accepting) but if you really want to come out to your parents and are still scared, don’t make them the first people you come out to. Come out to a trusted friend, or a couple friends, and then when you’re want to come out to your parents, maybe tell your friends beforehand. Maybe they can help you prepare, mentally or otherwise, and in case something goes wrong, your friends will know to come to your defense. Some good friends could help extract you from the situation or talk you through it if things go badly, or in the really bad scenario, call for help. If things go well, then your friends will be there to celebrate your success.

[@nova4294]

Your safety is the number one priority. If you think coming out could put you in danger, emotionally or physically, it’s best to stay closeted until you have an out Incase things don’t go well. I’m so sorry for your mom. Parents should support you no matter what. Remember that blood doesn’t make family. If she can’t support you, there are plenty of people who will. Remember you are valued and beautiful. Good luck! 💕

[@Someone-wu2ul]

First of all(dont want scare u)pack bag before coming out bc better be ready than later crying cuz u dont have that bag

[@Moonlight-gs7pm]

Is it okay just being romantically involved and not having a sexual relationship? I do feel like that sometimes but idk.

[@sayori692]

Of course it's okay!

[@diyasingh5019]

Yeah maybe because you cud be asexual

[@RandomDragonEXE]

Yes, that's okay! You don't need to have sex with your partner, it can be totally 100% romantic. You might also want to look into asexuality

[@BunnyBrushStrokes]

Love this video! I'm not entirely sure if I am a bi woman yet, but all I know is that I fall in love with people's souls first wether it's a girl or a guy and sexual actraction becomes a secondary thing, but still a very important thing. I do find women sexy, just as much as I find guys sexy. But If I had to choose who I want to have a long lasting relationship with I'll probably choose a guy because that is just what I'm used to, but if the right girl came along, I may be tempted. Still figuring myself out though.

[@manuelakramer423]

I dont know if im bi or not. I have never been in a relationship but i've always liked boys. A month ago i decided to cut my hair really short bc i needed a change and thats what i wanted, since then people that dont know have asked if im gay or something and i've heard rumours that people think im gay or at least not straight. And i've never thought about it but then i began to wonder, is my short hair a sign that i might not be straight? I just kept thinking and thinking and somehow i began to wonder if i maybe liked my best friend more than just my best friend. Of course i love her bc shes my best friend, but now i cant stop thinking about her and i want to kiss her. I dont know where this came from but does this mean im bi?

[@tillyyy6994]

Sammeeee I have always felt like I liked boys, but I have been questioning

[@Someone-wu2ul]

Same😩

[@nidhitamhane]

omg i can realte to you. I really want my hair to be short now bc i want a change and thought that it will suit me and when i thought this i didnt knew that this is a phase when u start feeling that u r bisexual. Also i want to hold my bestfrnd😭AM I BI?This is so frustrating i hate it

[@dane2313198]

Do u get antiexy from the thoughts when you want to kiss her? Sounds a bit like SOCD kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYiXnmhmoZx9rbM Like to think about even u dont want to think about it? Good luck

[@dane2313198]

@@nidhitamhane kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYiXnmhmoZx9rbM its also a spectrum and only a label. You don't really need to find out. If u meet someone u want to date regardless of gender date that person

[@hownice4856]

So... I'm like 90ish% sure I'm bisexual or anything along those lines but I keep having thoughts that come up, telling myself that "it's all in my head", "I'm making it up", "I just want to be 'different' or apart of the community so I'm 'faking' it" stuff like that. but I've had so many factors that basically confirms I'm bi but I haven't had a relationship or 'real' feelings toward the opposite gender so that makes me second guess myself... I just needed to have a small rant I guess but if anyone could help? If it's not too much trouble. I don't know what you'd be helping with but, anything would help I guess. Thanks :)

[@hownice4856]

@@boredboring thank you :) sorry that you have those thoughts to because they tend to be really annoying but I hope you overcome them and stuff like that :)

[@ailen6210]

I also feel that way tbh and it sucks to be constantly doubting yourself, it's tiring af. But I hope you can little by little get more comfortable with your own feelings, and that you'll be able to validate them. Don't put too much pressure on yourself though, it's not necessary, take your time. ^^

[@hownice4856]

@@ailen6210 thank you so much for that, it means a lot. It's been getting better and since I've posted that comment a lot has changed which has allowed me to accept everything that I've needed to. At times, and especially as of late, those negative thoughts are slowly creeping back in but seeing those sorts of messages helps me keep a positive attitude. I hope everything is going well with you too and remember to use your own advice making sure to validate your feelings and all

[@ailen6210]

@@hownice4856 That's really nice from you, thanks!! And yeah, little by little I'm starting to be a bit more confident about my feelings and stuff. I'm glad that you're more comfortable and less worried about it, that's awesome!

[@kingzecromatic]

I recently came out as bi, I can totally see myself dating guys (I'm cis male) , and really want to try it. Most of my sexual fantasies are about men. For some reason I can only think about getting married to a woman, but ending up with a man has become more possible in my mind, and it's mostly bcuz I've just always thought I was straight and I've only recently discovered my true sexuality.

[@m.k.9572]

"If you're at a party..." Haha funny

[@sienna230]

I love ur pfp😏

[@m.k.9572]

@@sienna230 hey sista💙

[@_chiara_travel]

same reaction

[@ellanielsen7005]

wait is your pfp to do with louis Tomlinson? my friend's obsessed with him and she always draws that on her hand lol

[@m.k.9572]

@@ellanielsen7005 haha yes, I'm a huge fan of him too🥰

[@nadia.1177]

Every little helps, thanks Dutchy! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@MsDickerz]

Love you 💗💗

[@khileyjeaner]

I'm scared to come out to my mom cause one time she said while we were shopping somewhere I mentioned there was a LGBTQ+ event and she said, "Well, we're defientely not part of that." I just might as well be closted. :/

[@tomodaphne]

I absolutely love your eye shadow. Or should I call it…BI SHADOW?

[@postlov3]

I see myself dating a girl I just don't *REALLY* know my type or can't see what the girl looks like in my fantasies so it's really confusing for me

[@emilio2430]

Hey Dutchy, I just wanted to say thank you! You have helped me so much and gave me the confidence to come out to my friend! I told her i was bi today and she was very supportive! You are amazing! 💗💜💙

[@kitcat7807]

Me feeling relieved when all these things are 100% relatable for me and then having a huge bi panic and having a mini mental breakdown in that order before subscribing to your channel-TwT BTW Thanks that was really helpful now I'm even more sure I'm bi lol

[@Onyx516]

Thank you for discussing about who ur attracted to bc I've always been boy crazy during like kindergarten to 6th grade and even during my beginning of 7th grade, I had a crush on a boy, but this one girl i felt really nervous around her and wanted to be with her (and I still really like her 😅😅)

[@mi-wz3nq]

Oh that is prob a sign

[@wendytestaburger5787]

I was questioning my sexuality for a while. As of recent I've to the conclusion that I'm straight. But it was something I was very confused about.

[@blahblahblah1267]

omg early again! can’t wait! love your videos

[@MsDickerz]

Yayayayya

[@turtleby]

ive mostly had crushes on boys but ive had some crushes on girls before. i feel like because of comp heterosexuality i am more nervous around boys because i know what a boy/girl pairing implies, but not as nervous around girls since i've been friends with them for my whole life and society doesn't see us as a romantic pair. sometimes i have spicy dreams and it has happened with both boys and girls. i think i am mostly bi but sometimes im aroace

[@cherylleon2668]

!!same!!

[@llcooljsfollowers9958]

The thing is, I know I’m attracted to the opposite gender but like I’m not opposed to being with the same gender either and sometimes I even fantasize about being with the same gender so I’m hella confused. But I’m scared to really call myself bi because what if I’m not?

[@flowerfennecfox]

I feel the same way

[@Mika-xsc4]

how are u now? :)

[@thelitmasternl9508]

OMG SAME

[@irenicsystem3433]

so this is ✨mega late✨ but i’ve been requestioning my sexuality. i was confident that i was bisexual for about 4 years now, but now i’m starting to think i’m not. i honestly think i’m straight. this video (even though it’s not the final deciding factor) kinda helped me realize that i don’t exactly like girls in that way. don’t gemme wrong, i think girls are gorgeous and amazing and lovely, but i don’t think i’m attracted to them anymore. i can really only see myself being with a guy now. and please don’t take this as me feeding into the “it’s just a phase” ignorance. it is not that. but yeah! i think i experimented during those 4 years, and i’m proud of myself for it, but it’s just not for me :)) anyways, luv ya!!

[@mr.cupcakes873]

That happened exactly to me sis 😭 I'm glad someone understands me, this video and a lot of thinking during the last months made me realize I'm straight, I was never attracted to girls, I just had a aesthetic attraction, I enjoy looking makeup videos or outfit videos but bc I wanna look like her. But with men it's just different. But we'll I guess it was good for me that I experimented before haha.

[@Belufan88]

idk maybe i like grils as a friend and boys 99% i like them

[@FollowerofDuck]

ive been out as bi for three years now, but sometimes i still feel like im faking it?? and that my attraction to women is just a phase, even though i relate to most of this and can only see myself ending up w a woman

[@nin06]

Found out I was bi when my toxic lesbian friend forced me to date her best friend because she asked me if I liked girls and I said “I’m not sure.” Then she outed me to the whole school when I told her to keep it private. A lot more stuff went down but I usually don’t talk about this because she used to call me homophobic if I said these things.

[@helenawulff1132]

i like that she talk about all things and her personality is open . and this video helps me very much

[@Boris8930]

I have starting coming out as bisexual to my friends, and the reactions have been so good and great so far. They said they was friend with me, and they ofcause accepted i was bisexual and they was friends with me because who i am as a person. And thats makes me so happy.

[@idontloveyou]

So something that worried me was a few years ago (3 years ago I think) I had a crush on my best friend (female) but I lost feelings for her. And then a few weeks ago, I was looking up a picture of Hermione and i just felt attracted to her for no reason. And I already know I already feel attracted to males, so I’m feel like I’m questioning so yeah-

[@McdonaldsworkerPenguin]

I know I'm late to see this but thank you for posting this I needed it so much

[@jennyisa_moa]

I always thought I need to see a professional because I can't "self-diagnose" but with sexuality

[@baz1975]

I’m confused about my sexuality cause I’m to young to date and I don’t really get nervous feelings about people but I feel like i have this ongoing feeling I’m bi does this make sense at all? I’m going to talk to one of my friends about my feelings tomorrow idk I feel like it will make me feel better not exactly coming out tho.

[@strawberrype6799]

3:27 Okay yeah this is exactly the situation I’m in right now. Always have liked guys but there’s this one girl, she’s one of my best friends, and I think I might like her. But also at the same time we’re in a friendship trio with another one of our best friends and I don’t wanna ruin that especially because our friendship trio is amazing and I don’t want it to be ruined because of my feelings

[@debanjanade2204]

How do you know you like that girl? Like how is special than your other girl friends? Am jst confused...I don't know if I like her jst a friend and bcoz we r so close or the other like like

[@goosebumps7097]

wow, this is EXACTLY me! I’ve always assumed I was straight because I’ve never felt the same way towards “hot” women as other bi did.

[@kymber1yy]

so there's this girl on instagram and i think she's REALLY pretty. when she likes my comments on her posts i get really really happy. She's always on my mind and I'm always telling my family and friends about her. does that mean something?

[@chabadrien441]

Bruh you gay af

[@kymber1yy]

@@chabadrien441 i knowww i forgot i commented this looking back at this im so stupid how did i not know 😭😭

[@Scarlettt343]

THANK YOU I've been getting nervous around girls who I find cute or pretty, same with some guys, but couldn't tell if it was social anxiety or what. (But I'm mostly fine with talking to others) I couldn't figure it out, so thank you for this :) I might come out to my best friend, sometime soon. I know she'll be accepting. It's my parents I'm more nervous about. My dad is homophobic, my mom isn't.

[@Miss_Maddie1283]

Thank you for this!!!! I’m struggling to find myself rn! I’m a girl and I can 100% attracted to females and my whole life I was attracted to men and now im struggling to find my level of attraction to men the question about a man or woman asking me out helped so much!!! I think I’m gonna take my time figuring myself out I’m rather young and when I come out I want it to be the real me not just me forcing myself to come out thank you again!!!

[@bluebird6883]

Hi! Really appreciate the video. Just wanted to say it felt a little exclusive of non-binary people so just wanted to add that bisexuals can be attracted to anyone that’s not their “opposite” gender within the gender spectrum :) not just guys and girls

[@unicorntomboy9736]

It's more of an unspoken thing that is implied most of the time. The definition of bisexuality does not exclude non-binary people

[@katjabrunsgaard416]

I love your eyeshadow/eyeliner😍😍

[@sophie-id4ze]

im so confused. i've been somewhat questioning since i was 11 (im 13) but i didn't start seriously questioning until the end of 7th grade. i knew i was sexually attracted to girls, but i thought that all straight girls were. i've only liked one person my entire life, and it was a man, but since it's only happened once i don't wanna say i have no romantic attraction to females. i thought i was bi so i came out to my close friends and i've never been happier than i was in that moment. but after i did it, i started invalidating myself more than i did before and i felt like i was faking it even tho i know i have sexual attraction to women. it's honestly really making me feel bad, so if anyone can help i'd appreciate it!

[@ailen6210]

Dw, u are not the only one, that's literally how I feel. I have been liking guys all my life but I have been like 3 years defining myself as bi-curious cause I kissed one of my best friends and really enjoyed it. I recently came out as bisexual to my friends, they weren't surprised hahahaha, but I also find myself doubting if I am just straight, even if I like kissing woman bc it's kinda hard for me depicting myself in a relationship with another woman, tho I don't dislike the idea at all. But anyways, do keep in mind that you don't have to be 100% sure of what you are, you can still use a label that somewhat defines you meanwhile you are still experiencing stuff and knowing yourself. You don't owe anything to anyone and just do you, okay? All of us are still valid even if we don't have it all figured out -^^-

[@karolgarcia850]

That is how I feel (I'm 13) and I've only liked one person and it was a boy. And it only happened to me once. There is this girl and I find her really pretty. Sometimes I smile like an idiot when I look/think of her. I only dreamed of her once but I don't feel butterflies when i'm around her. It's confusing

[@moonenuu5549]

What you’re saying is so relatable to me. I’ve only looked at boys in ”that way” since I was a little kid but after I found out about lgbtq+ I started questoning my sexuality. I do like girls too but it feels like I’m faking it since I only started to notice girls in that way after I found out about lgbtq. There’s a girl in my class that is really pretty and I love being around her, for a while I thought it was a crush but now I’m just confused because it feels like I just ”want to have a crush on a girl”. I tell myself to stop thinking about her but I just can’t. She’s in my mind all the time. I even dream about her. It’s really overwhelming to not know if you’re faking something that feels like you.

[@sophie-id4ze]

@@moonenuu5549 heyyy. tbh it sounds like u prolly have a crush. i'm almost 15 now, and i've still never had another crush but i'm on the aro spectrum so it's kinda normal. dreaming about a girl, thinking shes really pretty, wanting to be around her, telltale crush signs. just kinda think, if you had those same thoughts about a boy, would you think you had a crush on him? it's really hard and scary to accept your sexuality at first, and it's gonna still be hard. this is a step in the right direction though, and i think you might have to accept you aren't straight. i hope you're okay

[@moonenuu5549]

@@sophie-id4ze thank you so much, i’m almost tearing up :(

[@Newmoonbyelliott]

After watching hundreds of these types of videos I’m almost 100% that I’m a bisexual. Tysm these videos help a lot

[@sabcash9644]

This helped so much! I love your videos!

[@MsDickerz]

Thank you!! 💗💗

[@for_real_swiftie]

HI! Your video's are super helpful, it's kinda strange for me because I always saw myself living with a girl but not romantically just like as friends but now I like a girl in my class and it completely threw me off because I always thought that boys were cool and never even considered being with a girl. Thanks Dutchy!!!

[@JizzardWizzard6969]

idk if you've said this before but i need to know where you get your dad shirts

[@MsDickerz]

usually thrifted!!

[@emberwolf7727]

I actually just came out as bi a few days ago so this video really helped 😊❤

[@C-White-88]

Hows it going

[@g.k8573]

Thank you so much for your help!💓

[@MsDickerz]

You’re so welcome 💗💗

[@g.k8573]

@@MsDickerz OMG! I've only been watching you for a few weeks but you have helped me on my journey. You are a great support system to me and I'm very thankful for advice. Love you😙❤

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I've always been a prettyboy and always have been bisexual. I like both genders and don't want to stop feeling that way. I am very alpha male and masculine in my normal life but I have a soft feminine side and it's nice to share it with girls and also other guys. The first guy I ever had sex with was really sweet and was gentle and intimate with me and I had more than just sexual feelings for him.

[@mizu114]

tbh im kinda confused if im bi because sometimes i feel like im just pretending to be because of some ppl around? idk but then i started questioning myself if i could ever see myself be with a girl in a romantic or a sexual way and i like the idea of it and can see myself dating a girl because i've never rlly had a crush on a girl before so i was confused and making myself convince that im straight. im still in the process of figuring it out tho

[@rueliaju4115]

I'm literally in the same position and I'll just say, worry bout it when you actually crush on a girl, that's what I've decided I'll do

[@whatcanidooo]

I feel like the "what would you say if someone asked you out" is definitely the one I'm gonna try to think about, because with fantasies and stuff I feel like people always say it doesn't necessarily mean anything, but knowing what you'd say if someone asks you out is the actual reason you need to know your sexually in the first place. It makes questioning more practical and less wishy-washy, which I'd never thought about before

[@sophiachacon2957]

I’ve been battling if I really am bi or not like all my relationships have been straight including my current one. I have started to really try and be open minded about my feelings when I’m scrolling through TikTok or KZbin when I see anyone that could spark my interest and a lot comes from women as well as men…my sister is lesbian and just got married I’m happy for her but my mom isn’t and idk if I’m just scared because I don’t want that same disapproval from my mother or not. Good Lord there is a LOT to this holy crap I’m just realizing and freaking out even more idk what to do someone plz help!

[@roxynano]

Now I’m questioning if I’m just a lesbian and not pansexual because girls mainly popped up in my head after those questions were asked, not really men.

[@DRsunshine13]

I did an oppsie mistake yesterday and told my mom I think I like girls...bad idea. She said that because Ive never really dated anyone that I cant know that yet and talked about getting me a boyfriend the rest of the night. The problem is Ive been craving a Girlfriend for months, I dont know why I just have been.

[@iiluvgy04]

This is showing me different ways of thinking to be honest 😭 mostly because I know that I have a sexual attraction towards females buttt I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with them. Which confuses me more:( and I was answering and using and thinking about the tips in my head and now it’s a lil clearer but I’m still confused. I kinda came out to my parents, to kinda just let them know what I was thinking and my mom wasn’t judging(Yay) she was just like you don’t have to worry about it :) just love life until your ready! Then I slipped up and told my dad and he was saying don’t let someone like convince you, know who you are! And he said either way I will LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT ! honestly I was really happy with their answers. So maybe I’ll figure it out now maybe I won’t 😩. But I’ll figure it out sometime 😌 OOPS SORRY FOR THE PARAGRAPH 😭

[@iiluvgy04]

Live life*

[@avanthika5355]

heyy dutchy!! i first want to say that i absolutely love love love your videos and they've definitely helped me in realising my own identity. although i'm feeling a bit different lately and i was just wondering if it is fine to first identify as bi, then as pan, then bi again?? love you loads hunnnn

[@f1amedrift174]

I watched this at first and didn’t resonate with a lot but now I resonated a lot

[@1twistedcpl6575]

I knew I was bi curious..as in fantasy situations etc. But I never thought I was truly bi. Then I met a man 21 yrs ago (now my husband) who I knew that his previous gf, actually fiancee, (she cheated on him with another man so he left her) was bisexual. I knew of their "experiences" together because he told me when I asked him about them and how he was ok with it etc etc. I never admitted my own bi curiosity to him but I lived vicariously thru them when we had sex or in places/situations/environments they had been in, parties, concerts, vacations and such. Then after we had been together about 3 yrs...we ran into his ex at a music festival. He had told me her name before, so ofc when he introduced us I knew it was HER! You'd think I would be jealous, or insecure or whatever...but I was excited, turned on by her...she was very pretty, and sexy as hell! And I was also sooooo confused by what I was feeling. And then we said good bye to her and got on with our night. When we had sex that night all I could think of was us...and being with her, all together! And I liked it 😂. Not necessarily his being with her but our being with another woman...she was just the face I saw. A few weeks later...I took the plunge and told him about it. And I admitted it turned me on. And over the next few months of talking etc...we started to explore my curiosity. First just talking to women at a bar or whatever, then going home and dirty talking during sex. Then going to upscale strip clubs. Until we decided to meet another woman with the intent to "go all the way." That was almost 20 yrs ago. We've been married 15 years now. I'm definitely bisexual but Im heteroromantic...and my husband and I still "enjoy" our dynamics! 😂

[@moved768]

okay so this is why i think i’m bi i always felt like the label fits me and i relate to it lots, i’ve noticed myself fantasizing being with a girl and holding her hand and being there for her… and i have gotten pretty nervous around pretty girls and when i was a little bit younger than now we did this game in gym class where you gotta chain up and hold hands and my heart fluttered sort of, i can’t really tell if i was exhausted from darting around or if it was the girl who was holding hands with me but i don’t know, everytime someone brings up or teases me about me maybe being with a girl kinda makes me feel better for some odd reason i really don’t know why this happens to me but eh, also the lgbtq community feels like home to me and i feel safer, i honestly don’t know if i’m just faking something or what but it feels safe. i always have been curious about kissing a girl.

[@alessiamaria165]

hi pls answer ! so i think i have hocd which is when u obsess over your sexuality even though u know your straight + something triggers u. It’s pretty much a fear of being gay , which sounds bad but it’s not that’s just the reality of it. For weeks at a time i will be freaking out over my sexuality but then it will get better and i won’t even worry abt it at all, and during that point i know i’m straight. This is why i think i am not bi because if your bi these feelings never go away. Also i’m not attracted to girls like i think there pretty but not hot. And i have never thought abt dating a girl bc i only want to date men but my hocd thinks otherwise. I could never imagine myself kissing a girl and i only have had dreams abt kissing guys. But when u said do u get nervous around guys or girls and ik i get nervous around guys but infront of girls i try and fit in with them. I think i just have hocd but these thoughts are like killing me mentally :( pls tell me what you think

[@kyleigh4025]

It's my bday 😁 Also I love you Dutchy ❤️😛

[@annie_sourcandy3934]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎈🎁🎂🎉

[@annie_sourcandy3934]

I hope you have a great day/night!!!!

[@MsDickerz]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUTIE!!

[@kyleigh4025]

@@MsDickerz thank you 😁❤️🥳

[@esther_6]

Happy birthdayyyyyy

[@cole.j02]

I love this channel so much! I wish this video was here when I was trying to figure out my sexual (I identify as bisexual, and I'm attracted to all genders). I found the video you did over your coming-out story comforting because I didn't know I was bi until I was 17 and all the stories I'd heard until that point, the person knew they were LGBTQ+ when they were a lot younger. I defiantly can relate to a lot of these tips. I actually started to question my sexuality after reading a LGBTQ+ book (I highly recommend it: Camp, by L.C. Rosen). I related to a lot of the characters in the book, and after that, it took me two years of questioning my sexuality until I decided I was bi.

[@bubba283]

I've questioned for years in secret. I think I know but don't say much to friends

[@celinafoghtpetersen7579]

Thank you so much, Dutchy🥺💞

[@Mally1396]

I like 80/90% prefer guys (I'm a guy) but the only attraction to women I have I feel like is just because I'm a man so I think a woman is attractive even though I am not practically attracted to her idk if this just makes me gay or what but these vids are veryyyy helpful

[@angellene4556]

Hello to all bisexual people here, I am currently questioning my sexuality (yet again). Recently, I have accepted the fact that I am bisexual. I have felt butterflies and fantasize about being in a relationship with both men and women. Since there is a pandemic and I am currently not interested in anyone, am I just invalidating myself whenever I find myself imaging more scenarios with guys and liking a lot of guys in my fyp. Don't get me wrong, I still want to date girls and I do often find myself liking a girl but still, it's all so confusing when I like a girl for a while then suddenly I like guys a lot more now, then I like no one then I like girls again, thus the cycle of confusion begins. Is this normal? I feel like I'm invalidating one side of the gender I'm attracted to whenever I'm attracted to another gender. This is all so confusing. Please help me T-T

[@kyleesorrell2697]

I love ur eyeshadow!

[@ethedog1178]

I RELATE TO 90% OF EVERYTHING YOU JUST SAID AND DUDE THIS EXPLAINS EVERYTHING I FEEL TO THE SAME GENDER AS ME!!! THANK U :>

[@MAC_156]

I’m having a crisis rn so could you help explain how you were so sure so I can understand more? ❤

[@C-White-88]

​@@MAC_156yeah me too

[@liv8811]

Hi! Could you do a video about how to differentiate between ‘do I want to be her or be with her?’

[@henryhartwell1815]

I can't help who I'm attracted to, I've known it all my life, I'm attracted to both genders and I feel like both genders inside me. It's a very hard journey to find acceptance and answers. Growing up in a religious family during the 90s there was alot of discrimination and it hurt me, and I hid, I have loved men, been attracted to men but I know that I'm romantically attracted to women. When I'm with a guy I want him to be the one to save me, But when I'm with a girl I want to be the one to save her ❤ You are who you are, you love who you love and I really admire everyone who has the courage to do so.

[@MAC_156]

This helped me and I bet others get through alot ❤

[@ellenshorts3019]

I never been in love with a girl, but I rlly can see me with a girl. So Idk if I’m bi but I have been interested in a girl! When I see ppl on yt doing vids with their gf I just “I want that to!” Do u think I’m bisexual?? Please answer:3

[@miaphoenix6490]

Love this point of view and information. Since coming out as trans been questioning who I really attracted to. Definitely curious just don't know how to explore these aspects. Due to some fear related conditioning.

[@Shae29]

Such a great video!! Thank you :))

[@anastasiaszafranski7660]

When I need emotional support what I do is I take 2 of my ocs I shipped and make a super intricate backstory and love story.

[@carmentarajano2514]

U were saying things abt fantasizing. I write stories that revolve around gxg relationships on Wattpad. Does that count as fantasizing? (I’m a girl btw)

[@Mirgatsu]

@Dutchy Hi! One thing you don't touch in video and I think it's crucial was about "what if someone is curious about sexual things with same/other sex but is not rlly into dating, building relationship, romance and other intimicy? But feels comfortable to do it all with same/other sex?"

[@Ed-oo5dk]

I’m really confused rn, I feel sexual attraction to girls but I don’t feel sexual attraction to boys. My first kiss was with a girl in kindergarten and I’ve never kissed a boy before. I’ve never had a crush on a girl before though, I’ve had crushes on boys but only in like elementary school. Also, I see myself more with a girl then a man cause i don’t feel that comfortable around boys that much.

[@edwardelric3574]

Maybe you're a biromantic and homosexual? i don't know much about these things but I thought what I just typed out and a little research may help

[@edwardelric3574]

also it sounds like you just have a girl preference over boys

[@bhea156]

I'm literally denying I'm bi because, I know that it is bad, and thought if it's just my brain pretending to be like one, and I'm Christian, and idk why I felt this way in girls, and boys but, obviously more to girls but, my brain tells me it's just my brain, and I'm more into guys definitely if your bi your attracted to two different genders both male, and female but no matter how hard I tried I feel like loving a guy is useless, and the feeling that I love him is weak like idk I have a boyfriend, and I felt like this is useless but, I really love my boyfriend though not that much, and I also wanted like to have a girlfriend like girlfriend/best friend because, I feel like satisfied when I'm with them, just watching this to make sure, and if your wondering I'm not lesbian though, I also like girly stuff but, not too girly I hate girls like that

[@Heyyyyy.08]

Hey, I’m 13 and questioning my sexuality. I know I like guys, but I think I like girls too. This has been going on for two years now, and I’m really confused. I think I had crushes on girls in the past, but they didn’t feel the same as my crushes on guys. I feel like when crushing on a girl, I’m less attracted physically and more emotionally, if that makes sense. I can easily say when I think a guy is my type, but for girls it’s harder. I can imagine myself with both male and female, but I’m not sure it’s enough to say I’m really bi. I don’t want to come out if I’m not fully sure I’m bi. I think I have a crush on my friend right now, but I’m not sure. Since I feel like people here are probably queer or questioning their sexuality, does someone have any tips for me to know if I’m really bi??

[@missalxrdz]

I knew the moment I noticed my heart fluttering like crazy whenever I was near someone I liked, no matter if they were a guy or a girl 😌 I've been in love with girls before but I can't be on a formal relationship with them since it would be a risk for my physical and emotional integrity as people where I live are nowhere near as accepting as I'd like them to be. Still, even though I'd probably never come out, I'm proud of who I am and would never regret my feelings towards the ones I had/have them for.

[@StepUpMedia039]

I always knew I was bisexual and always felt like it was a gift and a beautiful part of me.

[@Crystal-rj6lt]

My best friend is bi ( I think) so am I, she has been dropping hints like CRAZY, I’m talking to her about it. Just to let her know I will always support her. 💖💜💙

[@morisshageorge4105]

Nice