how to: LEAVE A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP!

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

*When they don't treat you with respect. Respect yourself and leave.*

[@theelegantstylist]

100 per cent 👍🏽

[@maddiemover5894]

😏

[@KeiChante]

This comment just changed my life.

[@gracejane5397]

If you have a child with someone.... It becomes difficult especially if you are financilly dependent on the guy.... Its soooo hard because you dnt want your child to lack or live a worse life than you actually did

[@Dark19488]

​@@gracejane5397I understand. How's everything going?

[@ekowkumasi1178]

"if you feel like you can't be yourself you're being controlled... that's abuse."

[@tashabuffalo9028]

Ekow Kumasi Deep one for me I always felt like that with my ex, yet I would still try be with him smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@shutit4024]

Grand Inquisitor 👀 I agree with you but that’s the case in her situation

[@flower_bombb1414]

That part!!

[@simphiwendlovu7516]

I love this woman. Everything she utters makes me a whole different and better person.

[@babyfly4652]

Simphiwe Ndlovu honestly 💯

[@KeiChante]

Omg! SAME!

[@nikki0mg123]

Exactly. She has a good given talent of explaining things well and giving advice.

[@gunesibeklerken5242]

For me too. You are our angel Breeny.

[@kabiratalaka9058]

❤️

[@natalieherdman9862]

Imagine... she’s giving this to us for free 👏🏽

[@Ducky190]

Yes 👏

[@isisoconnor7816]

Ikr...I love u breeny..you've made me into a better Human..MUCH LOVE💓

[@Pre0115]

Yes so let’s watch all her ads!

[@BLohr707]

Natalie Herdman Yes! Thank you! And yes to A. William’s. She is an amazing soul for putting this all out here! No doubt inspiring, like her video shaving her head. Much respect!🙌🏻

[@ashatasaidi6481]

God bless you Breeny

[@dvoracsordas9344]

"Repeat after me: I deserve more"

[@tessa4181]

For people who stay in relationships because they’ve been in it for x years... Steve Harvey said “would you want to do another x amount of years with that person? If no, leave now and stop wasting more years”.

[@lesacharna8987]

Ladies, pay attention closely to the type of man you are attracted to! Especially if you are suffering from childhood trauma and unhealed emotional wounds. I can relate to this video firsthand and when I took the time to actually sit and evaluate why I kept attracting men who didn't want commitment and only used me for sex, I realized that I was the common denominator! I had low self esteem/self worth and I used men and sex to feel validated. I was scared to have boundaries because I didn't want to be rejected so I accepted anything that was given to me. I guess my purpose for this comment is to urge you to do the self work, consider therapy and healing, and maybe take a break from dating for a while until you have healed and truly understand your worth. Hope this helped someone. Absolutely loved this video!

[@joniajohn4716]

More than a help. Stay blessed

[@lesacharna8987]

JONIA JOHN I’m so glad, praying for you ❤️

[@joniajohn4716]

@@lesacharna8987 Amen lovely sis

[@tamco92]

Made my exit last Friday. Best choice I made this year. Hurts at the moment, but it'll pass. Good luck people!

[@misspersonalityme6292]

Tamara Lichele I’m making my exit today

[@tamco92]

Misspersonality Me you got this! ❤️

[@ulricka2131]

You are the prize darling. You deserve a real man 💛

[@Ruskaya789]

2019 is really removing toxic shit from people. Made my exit 3 weeks ago. Definitely tough at times, but I keep reminding myself that I would rather be on my own, doing my thing, being happy, living life; than be with someone who never valued me or truly loved me. They didn't deserve me and those men don't deserve you ladies. Remember we are QUEENS. No time to waste on mediocre bullshit. Better things are coming and we need to get rid of toxic people to allow the greats ones to come in. Wishing everyone the best. Proud of you all who made the tough decision to walk away and for choosing yourself.

[@gracejane5397]

Did you have a child with him?

[@MyKeturah]

She's saving lives. Toxic relationships can and do cause s×icidal ideations sometimes. Praying that everyone who needs this channel finds it. I don't have many friends, so this is my friend in my head and I'm so broken but she reminds me that as long as I have breath, there is time to learn to love myself.

[@BLohr707]

The Hood Goddess Right there with you queen! As a man relating. And don’t say your broken, whatever happen happened! Made you who you are. Perfectly imperfect like everyone else. Enjoy the journey

[@MyKeturah]

@@BLohr707 you're right. Thank you so much

[@BLohr707]

Just found out This fact, us being born is around 1 and 400 Trillion! Damn!😳🤔🙌🏻

[@MyKeturah]

@@BLohr707 may as well make it beautiful huh.

[@BLohr707]

The Hood Goddess Yes! And focus on that person in the mirror! Make them happy.

[@shamika8055]

If I decide I'm done done with you, it's because I've already given you a second chance or 500 chances. I don't give up easily on people. It's takes quite a while for me to finally decide I'm done with a person. So after I've tried over and over again, and they continue to let me down or don't show any change, and that they're just all words and no action, then I will have my last straw. If I continue to show you my perspective and be open minded and understanding and try to work things out, and you don't try to accommodate for our relationship consistently, then there's no point for me to keep putting myself and my energy out there. At some point it becomes about my well being and staying a healthy individual and not sacrificing myself for someone that doesn't show the same amount of effort.

[@KelemKelem]

Am similar to you.

[@abia4509]

I was in the same place like you and the funny thing is that he ended it.

[@jey7169]

Girl! This is exactly how im feeling. Word by word. I just had to end it because for the same reasons.

[@ladyfay7777]

Yall was dealing with engergy vampires. You feel the drain. And good for yall for finally putting yourselves first. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@mounnalogue1215]

We have the same sentiments. And yet people who have been a martyr of their relationships kinda disagree when I tell these to them. They say I dont love hard or I just look at love and relationships in a practical way. That this way of thinking might not be able for me to find the right one. Well they can't blame me. That despite having some trust issues I still did my best in giving my trust and, yet failed to keep it.

[@rebeccajohnston1734]

Arguing is abnormal when it’s regular ugh finally someone agrees!!

[@l.obinduka6791]

🙌🏾

[@blckqueen6002]

Yes so true I was throwing up for 3 months not missing a day

[@ekowkumasi1178]

"if that person isn't loving you correctly they don't know how to."

[@ekowkumasi1178]

"broken girls have the deepest love" - r.h. sin ~ "it is virtually impossible to get love from a broken source." this is freeing... "they are incapable of loving you the way you need and deserve to be loved."

[@corianderfish1999]

‘Only when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired will you leave the toxic relationship.’ Wow. This really hits home . 💜thank you Breeny

[@la-shays4030]

This definitely hits home. I had abandonment/daddy issues which lead to 7 years of an emotionally abusive relationship with an older man. Last month made a year since I ended the relationship and this month made 10 months of therapy. I’m still a work in progress but it definitely get better.

[@cynthiaurugutia736]

Girlie Im a at that point right now. Although I didn't spend years with him its been 10 months of situationship and he never game and still hasn't gave me a gf title. This guy is also way older than me....15yr age difference. It so hard to walk away because like you I had daddy issues. My father left me when I was young and then my step dad came in the pic but the relationship between my stepdad and I is not the very best and never has been. Maybe that's the reason I seek validation or happiness with this older guy. The idea of "what if he decides to change his mind and ask me to be his gf" when I walk away is what sets me back from taking that decision and calling it quits once and for all. This guy also mentioned to me a few days ago "what if I told you I want to a serious relationship at this point"...dont know if its a tactic to get me to sleep with him since I havent slept with him or if he's trying to play mind games to make me emotionally dependent and not walk away. Im so lost and confused at this point. :(

[@ariah457]

Cynthia Urugutia the way you’re feeling is the answer to your question no guy who loves and respects you would want you to feel this way! No relationships or even dating is prefect but it should never have to be this draining and confusing what is his intention? Is he just with you for the time being is what you want not falling in line with his wants? YOU are worth everything and more your time which can never be brought back is too valuable to be wasted, wishing you all the best

[@ashatasaidi6481]

Good Luck Shay C. Keep strong, the clouds usually pass and warm sunny weather that will make your heart sing.... Is JUST around the corner....Much love from a sister in Kenya..

[@ashatasaidi6481]

@@cynthiaurugutia736 The best thing you've done Cynthia is V A L U I N G your cookie and not giving it to him. In that way he also values it and will never throw derogatory comments your way Coz he thinks he got you cheaply. No, that will not happen to you. As for now YOU are one holding the most valuable and winning card in your hand. Signs of cracks in his shield have started showing, as he is now considering making you an official girlfriend. Stay put. Stay strong. The winner has it all....!

[@14jasminedel]

I cried because I am trying to save myself and everything you said is true. Thank you ❤️

[@iman123ify]

life changing, what she said about wanting affirmation from men even though they are broken or toxic for you, sooo relatable :'(

[@basicinfo2022]

Validation*

[@MatildaZuria]

*“I’m not sitting at home crying” THAT PART!*

[@degraciangubane480]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@MatildaZuria]

De greezy 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@TheeMatriarch]

@Grand Inquisitor stfu

[@Bee7.3]

"" Until your sick and tired of being sick and tired you will remain where you are"" That spoke volume💯💯

[@ladykhustle]

"You have normalized dysfunction" 😞 When you married and your Christian mother says to stay no matter what.....Emotional abuse is disgusting.

[@spartalane13]

“At your big age” 😅😅🤣😅 but seriously I agree with you, no need for fights. A mature couple should be able to attain a standard of communication that does not resort to fighting.

[@siying]

I just had the craziest fight with my ex last night, he was insanely aggressive and manipulative, didn’t respect my boundaries when I asked him to leave. But I realised that the problem lies with me; in that my boundaries should have been placed at ‘absolutely zero contact’ instead of ‘please leave my house when I ask you to’

[@uniquematthews3679]

We live and we learn.. you will get through it.. it took me 3 years to heal and every second was worth it

[@elodiedezetter9242]

'' I deserve better '' thank you.!!!

[@nataliamadejska2008]

Breeny, you can't even imagine how much you've helped me. I found you 6 months ago, driving in a bus to work, literally moments after both my ex-partner of 4 years of a relationship and I decided to separate. Lost, confused, devastating but longing for a deeper connection with myself. I remember exactly you describing my pain, you showing me the pieces of paper sticking to each other and what happens, if you tear them apart. I remember your Bible quotes, God words. I was so grateful to be able to hear your wise words, to this day I am. I survived the most difficult weeks with your help. Learning how to become strong, confident, happy again, how to take care of my relationship with God. Learning how to trust and how to have faith. I just wanted to tell you that I truly love your content. Your voice is so soothing, so relaxing and I always feel so safe watching your videos. Still fighting, still trying to figure it all out. But you have taught me so many great lessons and been such an inspiration and motivation for me, for real. Thank you again from the bottom of my healing heart.

[@BreenyLee]

Na Mad - Lots of love sis ♥️🙏🏾

[@simone6822]

Hit home for me. It took everything in me to leave after 7 years 😭... It's only been a month and I feel drained and traumatized from some of the events that took place. Time for some real emotional healing and therapy.

[@BeccahJoy]

You are amazing, Simone. I'm proud of you! Praying that God gives you the strength you need. And the wisdom to stay gone. God loves you in the purest form. And wants to treasure your heart. ♡

[@uniquematthews3679]

It took me 3 years to heal.. every second was worth it. Your journey will be amazing blessings to you Queen

[@simone6822]

@@uniquematthews3679 I am glad you've made it through that difficult journey! 💛 Thank you for your inapiring words

[@simone6822]

@@BeccahJoy Thank you!💛 I took a while to see my worth. But I am grateful for the strength of God, who has been holding me up and speking to me.

[@uniquematthews3679]

You’re welcome I’m happy that you’ve remained strong and got through it too. The journey definitely molded me for sure.

[@joy-lopes]

A couple of months ago I was in one of those relationships (the inability to communicate, the endless fights, the crying all the time... I was there). And I found your channel at the time.. watched your videos like crazy and felt SO strong that it didn't take me long for me to break up that miserable situation. It was hard but I made it and today I'm over a month into a trip around Asia, I'm where I wanted to be, doing what I wanted to do, figuring myself out (so that I stop attracting this kind of relationship to my life), and I'm full of hope. Great things are happening and I thank you for your videos. They were, together with other factors, so important to me. THANK YOUUU SO MUCH!!! you're amazing!

[@2012dannii]

Happy for you ❤

[@sbusisomukhisha8624]

I'm at the library and I'm listening to this😥😔 it hit home sis. Even shared a tear. I should start taking myself serious.

[@MissGlamazon]

Breeeeeeeena! Dont i just love you!! You changed my life. You made me realise i can still be classy, intelligent & love God. The wisdom you've impacted in my life, i never heard it anywhere else or perhaps its how you deliver it...idk All i do know is you are doing a phenomenal job & i really hope i grow up to be like you & better! Love you so much & keep doing things in your own special way. You're truly a gem from heaven ♥♥♥ [Waiting for the video...]

[@thatgirl5630]

“It is satisfying an itch in you” bruh...my eyes literally widened, it’s so true

[@mary_y2k]

Noemi Rodriguez right. I showed my mom

[@misskankalin]

How can you always come at the perfect time? I was just being sad because of a toxic relationship but then I saw the notification

[@itme1213]

PLEASE DO a video about childhood trauma

[@niawooden650]

This helped me, I’m trying to get out of dysfunctional relationship now. You give me strength to understand I deserve better.

[@faithfitness735]

Your videos really bring awareness to issues we didnt think existed but are so important.... I feel wise after watching your videos I watch your videos almost immediately you post 💕😊

[@3112sol]

I highly recommend everyone to look up emotional abuse and narcissism. I was sexually abused as a kid and ended up in an emotionally abusive relationship for almost 10 years ! Listen to your gut guys!

[@Sarah-zq6tp]

me too :( do you have any reccomendations?

[@Usedtobeabandalore]

@@Sarah-zq6tp therapy was the only thing that helped me

[@ladyfay7777]

Its plenty of videos on here on youtube. Better than therapy IMO

[@3112sol]

Sarah N are you still with this person ? Depending on your situation you need to find an exit plan. If you are staying at his house, but you have family/friends etc. I would pack all my stuff and then break up so I can leave in one go. I can’t do that because we own a house together. So I broke up with him. Said that I could take it anymore etc. I have tried in the past to be honest and tell him that I thought he was a narc, that was a big mistake, he tried to turn it back on me, and in the end we ended up back together. And whatever happens DO NOT take this person back ! He will NEVER change! He will make promises and twist and turn the truth ! Get a journal and write down everything. Whenever you miss him or feel bad for him READ and remind yourself why you made your decision.

[@abbie_bour]

Self love!! Self esteem!! Self worth!! 💯❤️

[@yawanalove2925]

Self-love and healthy relationships💜

[@imexplode]

What I really love about you Breeny is that you point your finger on yourself, you ultimately show us how to take responsibility for ourselves.💯 There are lots of channels out there, that focus only on how Narcissists act. You are a breath of fresh air and a wonderful role model!❤️

[@JannaNiki]

I agree, I don't think arguing is part of a healthy relationship

[@tyolaa7125]

Yeesss talk about a childhood trauma. It's something that most of us can relate to.

[@fatouma1744]

" YOU WILL NOT DIEOOOOOOooooo", even if it feels like your comin close to it and that change from feeling trapped to being free is something so sweet..only God can describe it to you.

[@smiles83ish]

She’s baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaacccccckkkkkkk!!! I’m so happy! We missed you girl.

[@BB-xe7uz]

amazing, guuuuurl.... i knew, deep down inside, i knew that "mh mh shaa, this ain't good for you" after 3 years of going back and forth hoping he would change, i fiiiiinaaaally got sick and tired of being sic and tired. i have never been so happy. i feel liberated really. I am happy, a thorn has been removed from my side. breeny you is outchea building people and building dreams. salute.

[@kekeondemand9933]

I have never ever ever ever ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Heard anything or things or words or advice like yours!!! No influencer no life coach NOOOO ONE SPEAK WHAT U SPEAK!!!! You are helping me so much I wanna cry words cannot cannot cannot explain what you’re doing for me!! My gosh I’m out out words!! You are SOOOOOOOOOO SPECIALL!!!

[@lovejimin7612]

Breeny, please do a video how childhood trauma affects us. Thank you for everything! Im trying so hard to move on and heal. Its really hard, but im getting there because of you. Love you!

[@honeymilk06]

Breeny please tell us how to recover from emotional neglect from parents, and how to be wholesome. Missed you very very much ❤️

[@lolawaldorf5653]

Pink Forest oh yes!

[@theonlydesides]

This is exactly where I am, and where I’ve been, in life. I’m at my happiest now knowing what I want & will not except from my partner. Unfortunately I still have friends who are in these toxic relationships but as I did, they will have to learn first hand. Thank you gorgeous for this confirmation, I must be doing something right 😊

[@ssaliormoon15]

Can you do a video on forgiving yourself for pass mistakes I still feel guilty about allowing people to treat me the way they did it feels really embarrassing

[@marijkatilton3054]

Thank you for this beautiful, genuine, honest video. I remember watching ur first pep talk vid in a hotel room in Boston. I think it was divine intervention that made me click on that video; changed my life and it just keeps getting better. There is no love for me on the horizon with any man right now, but I'm falling more and more in love with God, my creator and savior. Thank you for the guidance and wisdom you share with us Breeny, love you dear ❤️❤️❤️

[@Coparentingwithanarcissist101]

When you are tired of being sick and you start morphing into somebody you don't recognise is time to go, you have nothing else to give to this toxic person 🚶‍♀️

[@rubyelizabethhh]

I’ve been treated really badly for years by a narcissist who constantly makes everything my fault and has just dragged me down and down. I’ve been scared to rip the plaster off and leave, absolutely petrified. This video has just given me a completely different outlook, and also some hard truths to swallow. You’ve opened my eyes to things I’ve never realised previously. Growing up watching my mum and dad in dysfunctional relationship and begging her to leave him, and now she’s begging me to leave my boyfriend. Wow.. thank you..

[@Tata-nsg]

This made me cry...❤️ after whitenessing my parents and understanding my sisters ways. I will not put myself through what my mom goes through. Love you B 🥺💗

[@dri-dri6303]

I agree arguing is toxic it takes a lot of energy out of you . ❤️ this vid !!

[@bkbeautii93]

Self awareness and childhood trauma. Thank you. I literally prayed about my relationship and then this video came up.

[@kenyanahopkins8579]

Don’t stop encouraging us sis ! 🥰 Praise The Most High for the wisdom he’s given you to help us.

[@reinaafricana6423]

Oh my gosh! You are such a blessing. I did like a guy that was so awful to me people begged me not to have anything to do with him. They told me I deserve to be with someone that treated me well. I realized my feelings had to do with me seeking love from a male that was like my father. Thank God that I never went with him. I realized it years later. I looked at him day, and I realized "what the heck was I thinking". He was not a good guy for me. I pray he finds love for himself and a great woman to love him, too.

[@esraa5429]

The 11 people who disliked are guys who got rejected by Breeny 🌚

[@BreenyLee]

Esra A 😂😂😂😂

[@jbreal06]

@breeny Lee do you think it's possible for the two people to get therapy and help with there internal issues and then come back together and have a healthy relationship?

[@soniaushie1641]

They are!😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@linnette6493]

Just found your video. Now sitting in Publix parking lot crying my eyes out. I have been feeling like I'm holding my breath in my dysfunctional relationship...I just took a deep breath! THANK YOU ma'am. I realized I need the help of the good Lord to help me leave. I'm afraid of being lonely. Thank God for you queen.

[@AsianParisian]

I’m French in a dysfunctional relationship with Japanese husband so that part about one speakingJapanese and the other French is on point 😂

[@tabithasantos9809]

AMEN! I even cried when I said "I deserve better", thank you Breeny!

[@kelleburke9803]

I'm going through really hard time and your heart to heart story is very similar to mine. I have been with my partner for 5 years and I'm so attached but I know I have to leave. Youve given me the courage to tell myself I need to do this. Please bring out more videos because I really need this right now I just think I may go back to them and I really don't want too but it's hard when you have created a life with that person and I feel I'm so dependent on them and I'm aware I shouldn't do this and I need to make myself happy. Your honesty the most honest person and most open person I have seen on KZbin and I applaud you because you've made me realise Im not the only person who has or who is going through this.

[@chantiera5810]

Love this. My last relationship wasn’t abusive in anyway but we did argue a lot almost everyday. Toxic also means unsuitable for you right now and if you stay in it eventually it will be detrimental to your wellbeing. I just couldn’t see myself living like that any longer. It’s been 7 months since we went our separate ways and I have been flourishing ever since.

[@lifeofthebeautifulalchemis1288]

OMG!! i FELT EVERY WORD IN MY BODY! TEARS CAME TO MY EYES! I LOVE YOU! THANK YOU! YES! WE WILL BREAK THIS GENERATIONAL CURSE! WE WILL NOT PASS DYSFUNCTION DOWN TO OUR KIDS! PERIOD!!

[@dolledbyruthx5064]

Can I just say I can’t wait for baby breenys to be running around 😭😭❤️

[@BeccahJoy]

And how powerful and confident those babies will be! Thank God.

[@dolledbyruthx5064]

Becky for real 😭😍

[@rockellarose37]

i feel like crying listening to her voice i know i deserve better but yet I'm here day after day this toxic relationship just holding me back. ill speak it and believe it. i deserve more!! thank you breeny. (I know its an old video but the advice isn't tarnished)

[@jacquelinegolden974]

"This relationship should not have gone past 'Hello'"

[@queenofsuccess]

Amen girl I broke the generational curse of leaving a narcissist in marriage with 3 young boys. I had to do this as I’m raising kings not abusers. So had to sacrifice so they know how to be real men! Amazing video please do more. I’m I’m helping women who has gone through narcissistic abuse!🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@xjgd967]

hey breeny i’m so happy you said you’d bring up the topic of self awareness, i feel like it’s a video i need the most at this point please make one

[@BreenyLee]

jag - It’s out tonight! X

[@kathrinadunkley1197]

I love Breeny, such a wise woman dropping gems to improve generation after generation 🙌🏾 ❤

[@monaamouur]

damn, thank you. trying to get out of a toxic relationship, had like so many break ups with him, hope this time i will be strong enough to not go back.

[@MelAfile225]

You have no idea how much you help us. The way God puts the right words in your mouth is crazy. I love how what you say is not just comforting it actually pushes people to work towards being able to feel comforted by themselves. Your videos are very useful :) God bless you Breeny

[@mariamakoroma7097]

Close to a year ago I left the most toxic relationship one could find themselves in. This guy did nothing valuable for me, in fact, I was giving and all he did was take and take without any sort of remorse, he eventually got someone else pregnant and that was the end for me. I could not see myself being a step-mom to a child I dislike or even taking care of someone else's child. I was already taking care of him, I could not take care of his offspring as well. Sometimes we are s afraid to be alone, that we tolerate toxicity, I'll never put myself through that ish again.

[@yoyoyo5621]

I love how you get personal I think that's what really makes your content special..Not a lot of youtubers do that

[@her_majesty7_]

“You are the common denominator “😭😭😭😭 my soul felt that !!!

[@crisseiemma6978]

Your amazing sis, hands down. You are young with an old soul, a massive self confidence, in awe of your beauty, selflessness and just overall concern for all of us. Your helping me so much through quarantine 🥰🥰🥰

[@rayanncharlery8836]

Please this needs to be taught in school! 😩

[@876tisha]

When you press like before you watch the video because you know your favorite KZbinr influencer will always bring great content!!! 😊😊😊

[@aliceromer222]

Please make a vid on childhood trauma! I love the knowledge you have and you’re so good at articulating it. Much love for you, your videos have been opening up my eyes to my reality and even tho I’m scared I’m ready for more change. I’m so glad you exist 💗

[@taylorhenry2567]

I’ve missed you glad you’re back 💗

[@gugulethunkosi9890]

I thank you so much for this video on toxic relationships, Not only do i think that some romantic relationships can be toxic some of us grew up in dysfunctional & toxic family relationships and realized that only when we got older and worked on ourselves and figured out what we want out of life and not carry the dysfunction and toxicity to the next generation. You are a GOD sent. Love all the way from South africa.

[@daniellemcpherson1274]

I wish KZbin made it possible to record voice comments instead of just typing. I have a mouthful to say to you Breeny, I found your channel by coincidence back in 2015 I believe, one of your greatest videos was the one you spoke on your celibacy journey and what made you decide to change your life to that, I was soo inspired. After which I lost your channel and for months to years I tried finding you back. I typed in relatable words to some of the content I got from that specific video until the Lord brought me right back to you. I was soooo happy to finally find you again, to avoid losing you again I decided to subscribe to your channel. From then on I've been watching your videos where I witnessed somewhat of your own growth as a person and although I do not know you personally, I am truly happy for the strength you found. I am happy you found your love as well, I wish you nothing but the best Ms Lee, God bless you. -Nuff love from Jamaica :) D. McPherson.

[@zahraosman3570]

Love you so much Breeny, you always make me realise how much I'm worth and my peace is soooo much more important than anyone else's. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love from South Africa 😊🇿🇦

[@kimiatothecagedbirds]

My god! Finally a new video ! I am so excited, the reminder is on, popcorn’s ready and let me get a notepad and a pencil 😎👌

[@nitas1473]

I am so happy I found this beautiful women. She is so real, loving and shares so many good things to be a better version of ourselves. Thank you for your service 🙏 ❤ A man who ignores me I am not interested at all. I put up with other unhealthy patterns way too much. I am never arguing with a grown person for respect, proper love, and having to express my boundaries over & over, if we can't see eye tl eye they gotta go➡️🚮 So over it!!!!!!

[@alexisblack4898]

I absolutely love love love this video. Breeny for therapy I vote YES 😩😩. Everything she just spoke on gives me so much hope for my current situation.. which I now feel 10x better on pursuing .

[@sheilamarferrero2812]

It is amazing to hear that you grew up in a disfuntional situation and you were able to work on yourself and understand that you dont want the same for your life, it shows us that it is possible, it take work but it is possible to heal those wounds and that is something I want to do. I want to let go of the problems I grew up in and I dont want that for my life, so thank you for sharing the very personal thing about you

[@lucylnreallife5163]

This video came the exact moment I needed. I bawled like a baby at every point she made as it was exactly what I’ve been going through for the last few months. I was able to build up my strength to walk away with the help of Breeny’s videos. Took me a min but I think that was the last last time I’m bothering to try. I’m done with that toxic relationship. It’s time for me.

[@daniellevarner172]

I love you Breeny, this is feeding my spirit. God bless you for doing the work and helping others. Generational curses WILL be broken.

[@victoriasmith2813]

Thank you so much for this video. Got out of a relationship not too long ago and I'm slowly realising how dysfunctional it was. Had me complaining over things that could easily have been corrected. I'm grateful for this. Making a commitment to taking at least a year off dating to work on me. Looking forward to the video on childhood trauma. I'm down for that xx!

[@victoriasmith2813]

zumzy u Wow I’m sorry about your wife. Hope you’re healing. And thank you for the email 😊.

[@maguiedossantos2925]

My sister God used your mouth to bless me with this message. May God bless you 1000 times more❤❤

[@hodsh1]

i feel a similar way about my dad.. he was and is still spineless and never protected me from anything. you're awesome, explaining childhood trauma in such a relatable way so ppl who can't afford therapy have access to this info and can make the realisations they need to themselves.

[@katherinemcbride154]

Please please please do the childhood trauma video and how to not let it affect you in a negative way as an adult. I’m so so happy that you’re back by the way.❤️

[@cheyondraweston7423]

My favorite thing to do is read your title, think of my personal opinion, guess YOUR opinions, then see if im right and what I can learn. Missed you, girl. 😁

[@cameliaburuiana6076]

OMG, you spoke to mee, you are so ON TIME!! I’m speechless, I got teary eyes..

[@dachater1]

I agree arguing and drama is NOT normal!! As mature adults yes you may have disagreements but you should both know how to communicate properly, otherwise it's a red flag!

[@VICHIE88]

While you were gone, I did it, but now I regret it and it's hard because we work together, I see him everyday and seems impossible to me to get over it. If you feel like doing a vlog about that, that would be so good. Please. Thanks for everything you transmitted me😘

[@sofiyab.]

Wish I had this advice a few years prior. I was in a really toxic relationship for 2 years and he literally broke my core. He'd hit me, verbally abuse me, call me all sorts of names, constantly break up with me, check my phone, trigger me on purpose and in the end paint me as the bad guy. We broke up 6 months ago and I'm still dealing with trauma in therapy, while he's out there living his best life like nothing ever happened. Nonetheless I've never been happier than I am right now.

[@susiegalvan5028]

Toffee currently going through this

[@debbyluxe]

My relationship used to be this toxic. It’s getting healthier now though but I still feel damaged & like he’s not the one but I don’t know how to leave

[@DrinkwaterMindurbznz]

This video was so on point! I'm looking forward to the dating series.

[@friendlyneighborhoodathies5229]

This video dropped a bomb on my life this held so much value for me

[@ekowkumasi1178]

"control is witchcraft..."

[@ekowkumasi1178]

control is not love.

[@Pr_20]

I needed this. It is so hard as you get so comfortable however I envision my life without him and how happy I can be alone!

[@tyolaa7125]

I love you!!! Please do more level up videos, maybe something about self improvement, motovation or going after what you want! Kisses