How to Reach Your Goals | Why You Can't Accomplish Your Goal

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What's happening champions? Today we find out what the biggest obstacle is between you and your goal…
So if you're anything like any normal person you'll have a tendency that when things go wrong when things don't quite go your way, when there's a gap between where you are and where you want to be and you don’t quite live up to your own standard or somebody else's standard estimates set for you. You tend to shove off the blame and the responsibility to the environment or to the people around you and to everything else.
But if you have spent any amount of time and energy into personal development then you'll know that one of the key principles is to always take responsibility for everything that happens in your life and of course this helps you take control of your destiny and move towards your passion, and your path. The fight the fight to live your dream and do what you're supposed to do each and every day in spite of everything that's happening around you.
However there's one fundamental flaw with both of these philosophies of course if you are on the brink of suicide or deep depression, or that you’re experiencing anxiety you will find that blaming yourself and taking self responsibility is not really going to help much at all because you're just going to feel even worse about yourself. Whereas on the other hand when you're working hard and you're pushing to live your dream and doing what you're supposed to do, taking less responsibility and shoving off the blame to somebody else doesn’t really help you make any progress either but the real truth somewhere in the middle. The real truth is that it's a little bit of both, in fact of the beliefs that you have and the values, the story that you're telling yourself each and every single day which affects your performance and also effects what you're able to achieve, and where you get stopped in your tracks when you feel like you can't move forward. It's really determined largely by the environment that you're brought up in, by some of the experiences that you go through, by the people that you hang around with, by the job that you stay in for 15 years or even by some of the friends hat you just spend time with on a daily basis, it could be family or anybody that really is part of your life in the large context is very likely to influence the way that you see yourself and also in the way that you see the world. So of course it's very, very important to take a look at the people around you and really examine whether or not they're positive and helping you move towards where you want to go or whether you need to find some new people, a crowd to hang with but even more important than that you check out the story you're telling yourself this is the obstacle between you and your goal. You have some pattern that’s running in there it could be “I'm not good enough, I'm not capable, I don't have it in me. I’m too short or too tall, I’m too fat or too skinny. I don't have the qualifications, I'm overqualified” It could be anything but when you have a goal and you're struggling to reach it, it's always going to be some limiting beliefs or some limiting story that's been create by you that is stopping you from making that breakthrough and taking your progress to the kind of level that you really want to experience. So your job is to find that story, hunt it down to figure out what's going on in your head that's stopping you, that's blocking you, that's keeping you from living up to your potential and doing what you really want in your life.
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[@roseh1132]

I love how you balance self empowerment with empathy in this video.

[@growandprosper8463]

Great work, loving it!

[@keithcarter2693]

Great video man. Great channel. Look forward to future uploads

[@jeffy4326]

this was great!

[@mariareid2726]

when things get tough you need to think about were you want to be and make things right in your world

[@gerardogarcia2081]

I need to change my story..👏👏 nice video bro.

[@dominiqueames4842]

That if I go after music dreams bad things like failure, death, betrayal will follow but you've help a lot thanks man

[@TheMymusic777]

I feel down when I dont reach my goal. And more down when I see Im already left behind

[@ChristinaProtic]

Thank You for your videos! They are very inspiring and motivating! :)

[@saad_vlogs54]

I being watching all of your amazing videos.

[@chabelda9159]

I was so touched. thank u so much. God bless you :)

[@hellothurr738]

amazing

[@regamtz]

I am so inspired by your motivation advises. God bless you...

[@MultiSamSami]

Goosebumps!

[@shubhampaul6559]

We have the power to change our pasts into a history. Because people just read about pasts but understand the history. People.

[@SommerEliassen]

You need to change your story towards your dreams because you can make anything that you want happen.

[@LukasSchwekendiek]

Awesome Rafael :D Love this video! My personal favorite so far ;)

[@saad_vlogs54]

I need you help Rafael.. All my life I have been going through a lot of hard times and I lost my peace.

[@mustafamohamed6197]

you know Mr.Rafeal ... I had a problem but i cant fix ... and this problem that i surrounded myself with average and less average ppl .. but those ppl are my friends .. my close friends ... but they always drag me down inspite of helping me to reach my dreams....and i cant break up with them .. .' so what should i do???

[@AnubhavSingh259]

I did'nt know you are Russian!....I thought you're american...By the way I love Russians and so do the other Indians! We have great relations with Russians.