How To Stop Chasing Men and Master Detachment

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Ismael Gomez III

Ismael Gomez III

Күн бұрын

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@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
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@KarenHenry-l8h
@KarenHenry-l8h 2 ай бұрын
Love this spiritual approach..we can't really be fully in love until we embrace self love and our higher self connection to the universe..that is when we are authentic and unconditional!! I love your advise ..and your authenticity ..thank you!❤
@MuntahaRiaz-n1l
@MuntahaRiaz-n1l 2 ай бұрын
bro i wanna disscuss something that deeply make me feel depressed and am in a deep trouma please help me out of this i am unable to do this
@MuntahaRiaz-n1l
@MuntahaRiaz-n1l 2 ай бұрын
but i am not comfortable to disscuss anything here
@janewasson4845
@janewasson4845 3 ай бұрын
My g ma told me to never chase men, or worry about them, when you can bet they're not worrying about you. Don't obsess about him. If he's worth your love and time, you won't have to worry or obsess. Don't be needy-a major turn off- or rush a relationship. Ever heard of love bombing? Keep your dignity, self respect, be busy, and a little distant. Men love the chase, but don't value an easily won prize. He'll show you who he is or isn't. Date long enough so you'll know how he'll act in any given situation. This is for gals of all ages. Times change, but people don't. And ladies: keep adding to that run fund l told you about, and SHUT UP about it. Be captain of your own ship! (With only your name on the deed!!) ❤️
@michelle5448
@michelle5448 3 ай бұрын
@@janewasson4845 all of this is accurate, especially having your own money. It means freedom, freedom to choose.
@Love_light629
@Love_light629 3 ай бұрын
Wow I needed this
@ellebelle3812
@ellebelle3812 3 ай бұрын
Very wise grandma!!! 🙏
@lorraineolivera24
@lorraineolivera24 3 ай бұрын
Well said LOL LUV IT! I AGREE COMPLETELY!
@luispaula6419
@luispaula6419 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very good advices❤
@CarolSteinfeld
@CarolSteinfeld 3 ай бұрын
"No one is inherently special. Only your mind makes it so." Brilliant
@firstlast1603
@firstlast1603 Ай бұрын
Same related to women. Never chase a woman ♀️ just skip it and go to the NEXT one. Peace 😅
@warriorprincess5795
@warriorprincess5795 2 ай бұрын
"You are here to experience life and not to control it" so wise.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. It’s a valuable perspective to remember. Enjoying the journey can make all the difference.
@mamaecha-n6w
@mamaecha-n6w 3 ай бұрын
love the quote " you're here to experience life, not to control it"
@SunriseAspirant
@SunriseAspirant 22 күн бұрын
The best video that I found on KZbin "The love that you notice in other people is the mirror of the love that you hold within yourself" Best line ❤
@lsp1950
@lsp1950 3 ай бұрын
I am currently learning this very lesson! I get soooo obsessed and attached to certain men I have met online. I am 74 and just getting this! You are a great mentor, thank you. Better to learn it now than never. I have been married 3 times! I now know I will never be “anxiously attached” again. How freeing is that ! ❤
@gabrielnadia1085
@gabrielnadia1085 3 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful Madame. I tap into your youthful appearance. Have you considered having a few more inches of hair and some layers framing your face? (You'd be even more astounding, in my own unsollicited opinion 😂).
@joannjeri4402
@joannjeri4402 3 ай бұрын
I am 27, and it happens when you do that they ghost, I feel bad somehow but we learn everyday
@nonkululekomdlovu1965
@nonkululekomdlovu1965 2 ай бұрын
Yeah we learn everyday. I love the quote "No one is special, only the mind make them so".❤
@pullepuniveditha5543
@pullepuniveditha5543 2 ай бұрын
​@@nonkululekomdlovu1965 yes, I too loved this line ❤
@ptyh27
@ptyh27 3 ай бұрын
He is right. That's the only thing I focus on when I broke up with my ex boyfriend. It was very hard but I made it through by emotionally detaching myself from him and stopped thinking about the past with him. Told myself I could be happy without him. Attachment is our worst enemy in relationship. I also have learned you can't control or change anyone but yourself
@Supriya_pal_
@Supriya_pal_ 2 ай бұрын
How you managed all this i want to broke up cause i found him flirting with girls again and again...i am depressed..
@NarcissistAbuseCoach
@NarcissistAbuseCoach Ай бұрын
@levlynx
@levlynx Ай бұрын
@@Supriya_pal_girl same he keeps talking to girls so i broke up today don’t know if this can work again but its clearly toxic and im trying to prepare mysekf mentally.
@nk1154-h2c
@nk1154-h2c 19 күн бұрын
So hard for me , now I can't see any other man with that feeling, it made me myself worthless
@genxx2724
@genxx2724 15 күн бұрын
But we’re supposed to get attached!
@krissyaguilar1814
@krissyaguilar1814 18 күн бұрын
The first man I ever chased made me feel so much pain, but it was a great lesson to never ever beg anyone to stay in my life
@shahana_sachu2609
@shahana_sachu2609 3 ай бұрын
No one is inherently special.only your Mind make them so.The light you see in him that sense of uniqueness is really your own qualities being reflected back at you I Love this ❤️
@hilolinka
@hilolinka 3 ай бұрын
Me too❤
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
Daily reminder 🙏
@artsybluecat
@artsybluecat 3 ай бұрын
@@SaveTheMessengerreally enjoyed your video. You have an arabic name..are you muslim?
@cristianerodriguesneves5762
@cristianerodriguesneves5762 3 ай бұрын
Me too❤
@farwahbatool6247
@farwahbatool6247 3 ай бұрын
@@artsybluecat no, he's not Muslim. He is Christian, though, he doesn't practice Christianity. Ismael is common historical character for Christians and Muslims.
@Jacobet-e5n
@Jacobet-e5n Ай бұрын
My elder sister once told me not to chase a man and not to attract his attention ,because the more I chase him the more he play around with my feelings😢
@deec411
@deec411 3 ай бұрын
I was looking for love for years and settled for poor treatment until I worked on myself, my traumas and finally learned to love myself, good and bad. we are only human. Only God is perfect. When I met my boyfriend, I didn't need anyone to make me happy. I am happy with or without him and he knows that. he treats me like wonderfully and we're very happy. I wish you the same. Peace and God Bless ✨🙏🏻✨
@NarcissistAbuseCoach
@NarcissistAbuseCoach Ай бұрын
May you recover sooner and better. ❤
@sidranaseem4273
@sidranaseem4273 Ай бұрын
How u work on ur trauma?
@deec411
@deec411 Ай бұрын
@@sidranaseem4273 meditation and counseling.
@trinityp8575
@trinityp8575 22 күн бұрын
@mimifineliving2022
@mimifineliving2022 3 ай бұрын
I have never sat down with notebook and pen before this is so far the best advice i have come across on the Internet
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
I'm so humbled by your comment. Thank you.
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 3 ай бұрын
I'm 61 and every man that I thought was God's honest gift ended up disappointing, devastating or almost destroying me. But I finally realized, it was my choice to put them on the pedestals. The most recent one, a famous inspiring leader in my country, ended up just annoying me though until I thought, "Jeez, if his followers only knew how childishly ridiculous he can be in person..." ...and I walked around this hole and started down another street. And I don't think I'm going to fall in any holes again.
@colap3848
@colap3848 2 ай бұрын
As a deeply spiritual woman, myself, not religious, I very much appreciated this video as it was the first one I’ve seen from this creator I have now subscribed
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
Welcome to my channel. Glad to have you here.
@komalshah9944
@komalshah9944 3 ай бұрын
God wanted to solve my problem so this video popped up in front of me … thank you god and thank you sir … it’s must needed video for me …..
@animetsystudio9841
@animetsystudio9841 2 ай бұрын
Yes, even this video popped up, when I'm dealing with rejection stress that was very manipulative.
@komalshah9944
@komalshah9944 2 ай бұрын
@@animetsystudio9841 And my husband cheated on me with my best friend…. Dealing with unbearable pain and trauma ….cant explain my situation
@NarcissistAbuseCoach
@NarcissistAbuseCoach Ай бұрын
May you recover sooner ❤
@suesanders8061
@suesanders8061 Ай бұрын
Yes He spoke to me tru this video too:-)
@millievanillie9700
@millievanillie9700 3 ай бұрын
easier said than done! when you been starving for love your whole life and rejected in all aspects .... then you become undesired even more. It's The sad irony in life. At least the dogs seems to like to hang out with me. Thank God for that 💖
@luispaula6419
@luispaula6419 3 ай бұрын
I totaly understand you ....but whe need to do it good luck❤
@amirahamid8675
@amirahamid8675 3 ай бұрын
May Allah give your heart and soul peace ❤
@millievanillie9700
@millievanillie9700 3 ай бұрын
@@amirahamid8675 you too my friend
@millievanillie9700
@millievanillie9700 3 ай бұрын
@@luispaula6419
@obimdikekosisochukwu775
@obimdikekosisochukwu775 3 ай бұрын
Nothing is easy
@kimbednar2362
@kimbednar2362 3 күн бұрын
You understand men, but you also understand there is a journey and life out there which is the purpose of life. I am 64 years old and newly widowed. Instead of looking for a relationship your videos encourage me to enjoy life like a child again. Become whole within myself instead of desperately finding a replacement for my dead mate. You are a sweet little booger! Keep up the good work!❤
@taniyakashyap0508
@taniyakashyap0508 2 ай бұрын
When we find someone who love us with full heart...who give peace to our soul
@marcelacasas2187
@marcelacasas2187 3 ай бұрын
Never again will I let myself get obsessed or anxiously attached to a man. I made that mistake in my last relationship. Was in love together five years.He was 67 I was 64 . After a year or less he changed and become on and off hot and cold. When he went silent treatments and block me I had so much anxiety. He cheated a few yrs later and pleaded with tears to stay with him just for him to repeat his cycle finally this June he ghosted me fo a month and popped up on July 28 to talk. By then I didn't have a desire go talk and left, walked away. I had always accepted him back but this yime I didn't feel the same for him and will never reconcile. He put me through much misery insomnia anxiety. I enjoyed your videy just now. Will take your insights go heart. Lesson learned. Waiting on a healing and not interested in dating at this time.
@MiraX871
@MiraX871 3 ай бұрын
I never chased men (since I was younger), but recently I realized that I was giving too much attention and care to windmills who subsequently got other girlfriends. I told myself I wouldn't waste my time like that again if I didn't see a response from the other side-never.
@perez881
@perez881 3 ай бұрын
So true. Power of now. Enjoy life. Love yourself, and you will attract the right people. ❤
@Cckelly
@Cckelly 3 ай бұрын
This is immensely helpful and summarized everything I’ve learned about relationships in this past few years. I’m 33 and I’ve been wrestling with this very issue for years. My long term boyfriend leaving me when I was 30 scared me deeply and forced me to face my attachment issues head on. I had spent many restless nights wondering how I wasn’t good enough and later got trapped in anxiety and jealousy-inducing situationships that robbed me of my peace. Not until this year I restored the love I always had for myself. I let go of the eager to control life and goals around marriage and family. I embraced what life has for me and trust the process. I start to learn from my experiences with true humility. I’m still dating, but I no longer give men the power to wreck my life and I’m no longer fixated on outcomes. Once I master detachment, I can truly begin to enjoy life and love myself
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
"No longer fixated on outcomes." Best mindset.
@cha9165
@cha9165 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful!
@zoebrooksmnjhuiolmko1508
@zoebrooksmnjhuiolmko1508 3 ай бұрын
I loved this video! And, the poem was so powerful! I'm 65 and have been married 3 times. I'm currently single & not dating. Life is quite peaceful and stress free. At times I miss the companionship of a male friend, but am also happy with my own company. Your videos keep me grounded. Thank you!
@kissed_by_sunshine_10
@kissed_by_sunshine_10 3 ай бұрын
This video is not just informative for women. It's good practice for men , as well, or anyone who wants to find love.
@milala6891
@milala6891 3 ай бұрын
I started my spiritual journey in 2020, and so much of what you discuss in this video resonates with me. It is very refreshing to see a male love coach talk about romantic connections from a spiritual perspective. Thank you! Have a nice day!
@tobibesse1272
@tobibesse1272 Ай бұрын
I need to learn to back off and stop worrying about the guy not loving me and enjoying my life without worrying if I am okay. If I am good enough, if I am loved, if my boyfriend really loves me because I know if I don’t stop this neediness he will leave… I wouldn’t blame him. I am acting like a pain in the butt. Why can’t I stop this? I know better.😢
@ChildofGod98765
@ChildofGod98765 3 ай бұрын
Lord hear my prayers. I’m holding on to my faith, however as a single parent things are extremely hard on me both of my sons are special needs and I’m constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them. God hear my prayers.🙏🏾❤️
@Harshita-w1r
@Harshita-w1r 2 ай бұрын
This is the best video i have saw in my life. In a very concise way you have explained everything.thank you so much. God bless you
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the lovely compliment Harshita.
@Lavender843
@Lavender843 2 ай бұрын
The love that you notice in other people is the mirror of the love that you hold within yourself..... Best.....❤
@clo1190
@clo1190 3 ай бұрын
Hello Ismael, I am being honest when I say I never comment on videos so I hope my words reach you. The only reason I decided to share my thoughts is because you truly are someone who gives such great advice for relationships. I loved this video and the fact that it was more abstract helped create more depth to what advice you are sharing. I respect you greatly for sharing your perspective from the male standpoint because it gives me more insight on how I would like to move forward nowadays with dating. Thank you for your words, they have always hit deep and helped. ❤
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
That’s very sweet of you. Thanks for taking the time to let me know.
@shakilamalki8510
@shakilamalki8510 3 ай бұрын
​@@SaveTheMessengerYou are the best as always ❤ coach im from 🇱🇰 srilanka
@SMtWalkerS
@SMtWalkerS 3 ай бұрын
I like the more philosophical/attitude towards life content. It is not merely helpful with relationships, but with approaching life overall. Getting to know ourselves and being OK with our own company is key to handling all relationships kindly and rationally. I enjoy your videos, and I often get some wisdom that I can incorporate into my life.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
I feel the same way 💯
@DivyaSingh-mm1pk
@DivyaSingh-mm1pk 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful poem 👍💐😊 That's true ....one of the biggest mistake we do that we are not learning from our past experiences. Before accepting and having exception from others we need to understand that not everyone is same like you.. I learnt that think many times before make someone priority of your life....people change like weather.... Even Chameleons are better than them.(atleast they know their real nature) Chase what you want in your life , surely a rght and real one will meet you. Thank you dear 😊❤
@kira.2804
@kira.2804 2 күн бұрын
Thank you dear young man. Iam literally crying while watching this. From last 8 months iam having anxiety attack,low self esteem,self doubt and many more beacuse I put him on the higher position than me.But in your video you cleared all the things. Thank you for this eye opener massage.😇🥰♥️
@cassandra5463
@cassandra5463 Ай бұрын
I feel that I will refer back to this video anytime I feel myself reverting back to thoughts of him after the breakup. All the love I had for him should be directed back at me.
@tiffanycruse8577
@tiffanycruse8577 3 ай бұрын
AMAZING!!!! So powerful. As women we must love ourselves enough to KNOW and beleive we are enough. We must also realize when we get hurt its sometimes because we walked into a hurtful situation knowing it was bad but we felt we needed it or we do it out of fear of being alone or out of habit. When we learn who we are and we realize our power and sit with it be with ourselves we realize once we've integrated with ourself and we become our own best friend we realize we are never alone! Walking into negative chronic cycles hirts us and causes us to be alone because we are alienating our true self from ourself hoping someone else can give us only what we can give to ourself. Such an amazing video and poem! I totaly related and was taken back to when i was going down the same street hittin up that same damn hole! So happy to be walking down a different street in love with myself and enjoying the journey of my spirituality and singlehood Everything that is supposed to happen does in Divine Timing so lets enjoy the journey not control or fear it! To those who are down beaten and bruised and you feel no one understands or loves you... I understand! Ive been there! Im still healing! And I LOVE YOU❤🎉
@copyrightsdown
@copyrightsdown 2 ай бұрын
Love you too dear. We have to be strong.
@janjasreckar3963
@janjasreckar3963 3 ай бұрын
Ismael, you may be the first coach not to reek of ego. Your advice is really grounded, your talking is calm and your presence is charismatic, yet peaceful. I have never came across a youtuber, who wouldn't try to do his best to sound as smart as possible. But with you there is this feeling of NATURAL comunication - I love it! And also, I love the spiritual part - that is the fundaments, after all. I have just one little opinion that isn't praise: you'd probably look better without a mascara. Unless you have actually so many eyelashes that it just looks like makeup. 😉
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for such a lovely comment. And believe it or not, those are my eyelashes. All the men in my family have them.
@sidneanderson6657
@sidneanderson6657 3 ай бұрын
We are spirit beings so the spiritual insights are helpful. Thank you for sharing this poem!!! For me, it’s about awareness, accountability, options & better choices. I love it!!!! 💜
@elainedivya2773
@elainedivya2773 3 ай бұрын
Ismael, this was exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much more than I can say. Wow. I’ve watched it so many times already to catch every word. Please talk much more about mastering detaching. I really need to get this once and for all. Thank you so much for your kind approach.
@joagera
@joagera 3 ай бұрын
No. 2 really has my jaw dropped… it’s so simple yet so profound. Thank you.
@hilolinka
@hilolinka 3 ай бұрын
The wisest video I watched so far about my situation right now Many thanks These things means a lot to me ❤
@ros_na
@ros_na 3 ай бұрын
I second this
@tenor9471
@tenor9471 3 ай бұрын
Ismael ... I am psychotherapist from Poland.... I am so glad I foujd your Channel... as a woman and as a specialist. Your videos are so wonderful and wise... this one just amazed me. Thank U! I tell my patients to watch U❤🎉
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
That made me smile. I appreciate your comment.
@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 20 күн бұрын
The art of detachment is a beautiful thing with TOXIC men/women, jobs, family members, friends and lifestyle (risky sex, recreational drugs, alcohol, partying etc) it’s not just about romantic relationships.. once I learned to art I started to be treated better with respect from men, mangers/bosses, job entities, co workers, family members and even a crazy neighbor
@Honey16112
@Honey16112 2 ай бұрын
Actually just one line in your video was enough to spark my head was " we are here to experience life not to control it" and trust me i felt like something heavy from my head just slideaway, thanks
@vidhiarora4995
@vidhiarora4995 Ай бұрын
that poem hits me personally....first time on your channel and i felt ur ideas realistic ....thank u so much ismael
@CeciledeLuire
@CeciledeLuire 3 ай бұрын
Yes it is about peace and i am pretty conscious about that. And yes, detachment is good. But also, sometimes boundaries are as important.
@duskanddawndiaries
@duskanddawndiaries 3 ай бұрын
your videos are therapy Ismael . Thank youuu.
@andreiamendes9116
@andreiamendes9116 3 ай бұрын
I loved the whole video, the poem, the deeper spiritual level 💫 Fantastic! I may suggest you make these kind of videos now and then (they're precious) and also continue with the more practical content. They are all very useful to us 💯🙏
@sunshineetim
@sunshineetim 2 ай бұрын
I have mastered the art of detachment and I am loving it. I love this video
@YESENIAGOMEZ-p9t
@YESENIAGOMEZ-p9t Ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear this because I no longer feel the need to follow a man especially if he doesn’t show interest. I’m not waiting to receive a text from anyone I’m happy and busy throughout the day with family and friends who I love being around and giving my attention to. For a man to have that in my life he would need to show interest
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 3 ай бұрын
Wow, Ismael! This is your most moving talks! I appreciate the depth and spirituality. That's exactly what I needed. I get it now! It's starting to sink in. And I'm not going to fall into that hole on that street again! 🙏
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
I’m genuinely touched by your words, they made me so happy.
@katherinepolido108
@katherinepolido108 Ай бұрын
I am scrolling videos on youtube and this video of yours caught my attention. I don't usually comment on a certain video unless I find it interesting and helpful. Upon watching this I made up my mind to subscribe on your channel. You are so eloquent and you are an inspiration to many. "YOU ARE HERE TO EXPERIENCE LIFE AND NOT TO CONTROL IT." This quote really hit me. I am happy that I am now moving forward and enjoying the beauty of life with my precious daughter after ending an unhealthy relationship.
@renaereadings3600
@renaereadings3600 20 күн бұрын
chapter 6 (in my deep voice)....i stop walking and get a ride !!! in the car i deserve to be in oh how lovely !!!! have a great day everyone esp you Ismael
@deja925
@deja925 3 ай бұрын
I catch myself being captured more by the abstract, since it makes you think deeper which I feel is more meaningful. Thank you for the insightful information🕯️
@StayFlowForTheSoul
@StayFlowForTheSoul 8 күн бұрын
"society and the people around you start to install these beliefs in your mind" This video was very helpful sometimes its so difficult to overcome the mind that tends to play games! now every time these repetitive thoughts occur I sit with myself and ask questions.
@abhisiktabandyopadhyay7287
@abhisiktabandyopadhyay7287 Ай бұрын
I was in very need to listen to this video Sir. Thanks for sharing this.
@theologyofthesoul
@theologyofthesoul 10 күн бұрын
From my experiences, out of all his videos, this is the most important video that Ismael has made. Portia Nelson's poem (at the end of the video) is an old favorite, thank you Ismael for the reminder! Last week I began living "Chapter 4" with male relationships...and I'm looking forward to moving into "Chapter 5"! What Truths and Virtuousness does The Divine Creator want us to learn through each of the people that we interact with during our life? I thank Our Lord for bringing Ismael into my life through his informative helpful videos in order to make it faster, easier and more enjoyable to learn how to stop all the ways I have been harming myself in my relationships with men. After 53 years, I'm excited to finally walk down a different street!
@Melissa-eh5xl
@Melissa-eh5xl 3 ай бұрын
Powerful poem "I walk down a different street...". I will remember it and willingly choose the different street😊. Thank you!🙏🏽❤
@adeebatariq6200
@adeebatariq6200 2 ай бұрын
Everything you create is amazing. Do what you feel is best
@carolinewanjiku1433
@carolinewanjiku1433 3 ай бұрын
The best poem ever...OMG how I wish I had someone to tell me these things earlier. Tanks Ismael, you are the best.
@Jasminepsalms
@Jasminepsalms Ай бұрын
I really appreciate your transparency and the way you open up, it creates a safe space and breaks down barriers, making it easy to connect on a deeper level. Your vulnerability is refreshing and needed. Thank you for being real and fostering this kind of environment
@dvash6231
@dvash6231 Ай бұрын
I really liked this video, more than the step by step ones. Thank you.
@JessicaHallam21
@JessicaHallam21 3 ай бұрын
Yes...I love the poem. It really is the essence f you and dont be afraid to bring in content like this. I am at chapter 4. Almost there! Thank you
@KivijoCutiePie
@KivijoCutiePie 3 ай бұрын
I’m in a long distance relationship. I get obsessed when my desire for him builds up like after not seeing each other for 2-3 weeks. I think sexual desire and obsession are deeply related. Would love another spiritual video on this topic!
@DivestedConfessions
@DivestedConfessions 3 ай бұрын
Find a man in your district
@octaviawilson9155
@octaviawilson9155 2 ай бұрын
If your a woman move on find someone closer to you...
@tinamcbey3569
@tinamcbey3569 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely love this video. Especially the part about how what I'm really seeking through a relationship is peace. And now it makes me have to ask myself, how can I find peace, right now, without him necessarily being in my life?
@1trueloveforever
@1trueloveforever 3 ай бұрын
I appreciate both approaches and think that they bring equal value to your content and can also lend a balance to the journey as individuals receive and process information differently. As always I appreciate you. 🧡
@charade9971
@charade9971 2 ай бұрын
OMG I needed to see and hear this. Please make more such videos because being aligned makes attracting easier as that is the true nature of attraction.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Check out my last one on self-love. You'll enjoy it as well.
@S_Nayana
@S_Nayana 3 ай бұрын
We actually loved this content! Rather than the typical dating videos which are same like other youtubers.. this was truly unique and resonating!
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I’m really happy to hear that the content stood out and resonated with you. Your feedback is much appreciated.
@thobilemshayedwatembe235
@thobilemshayedwatembe235 Ай бұрын
Oh how I needed to hear this from now on I will never waste my time running after a man
@Srishti122
@Srishti122 Ай бұрын
Best video i just saw today, thankyou so much
@angelaschnettler5013
@angelaschnettler5013 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙂 This is a very inspiring video, great content. I can only agree ... life has taught me these lessons, often the hard way. Mindful detachment really does help to cope and to be present in the here and now of life. There is only so much you have influence over, so often we deceive ourselves and either engage in wishful thinking or, much worse, we worry to much. This useless worry steals your peace and energy and serves no purpose at all. Always trust yourself to find peace within ...it is never to late in life for that lesson 🎉
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
"Always trust yourself to find peace within." I love that.
@MsGuthrie16
@MsGuthrie16 3 ай бұрын
This poem was a punch in my face 😂Loved it, that’s it.
@francesdonald969
@francesdonald969 3 ай бұрын
LMAO! You made my morning :)
@Rreynu
@Rreynu Ай бұрын
“I walk down a different street” powerful🔥
@sara_intheworld
@sara_intheworld 19 күн бұрын
As a spiritual person, I adore this spiritual video and I subscribe because of you and what you share! This words contain truths, that need to be experienced :) Life teaches, always! ✨
@MissJJoan
@MissJJoan 27 күн бұрын
This really speaks to me. I feel like you’re probably right about guys and bad KZbin advice preying on insecurities.
@sharyngodwin6813
@sharyngodwin6813 3 ай бұрын
Yes the fear is I will lose what I ‘have’ .. & what I have is harming me
@NarcissistAbuseCoach
@NarcissistAbuseCoach Ай бұрын
You'll recover sooner ❤
@Divineix23
@Divineix23 2 ай бұрын
That poem from the end…has a lot to say.thank you for sharing,it was very helpful and eye opening for other situations too!love and light!❤
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
I'm glad the poem resonated with you and was helpful. Thank you for your support and kind words. Love and light to you as well.
@myrtillesm3532
@myrtillesm3532 10 күн бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger thanks for your replies.
@amandahope7384
@amandahope7384 3 ай бұрын
Love it. You make me laugh when you say stop multi tasking :) you know us to well :)
@otana-awajibill2453
@otana-awajibill2453 2 ай бұрын
Got to me 😂 Had to focus 💯
@rashmibobde9797
@rashmibobde9797 3 ай бұрын
Very Well Said... Beautifully explained...I do believe that we are experiencing life in a human form, upheavals are the greatest teacher and until and unless we get all the lessons, the universe doesn't leave our hands..😊
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 ай бұрын
Yes, you are right. Very well said
@karenwu5450
@karenwu5450 2 ай бұрын
The poem is truly thought-provoking!👍🏻🌟
@StarEssences
@StarEssences 3 ай бұрын
Family of both members are an additional problem if and when a pair are dating. I often tell some; Remember that if and when you marry you partner, you are not solely married to him alone, but to everyone else that is part of him.
@dianasternspeaks
@dianasternspeaks 3 ай бұрын
I love it Ismael! the poem is so true, it takes time to learn, but the most important after all is taking the different street, thanks so much!
@FengCanupin
@FengCanupin 13 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this 😭🤗😇🙏
@carolinew9964
@carolinew9964 17 күн бұрын
Never got married at any time was not ready, liked the poem made sense and so does your helpful advice.
@HerHaitian
@HerHaitian 16 күн бұрын
I love this as someone who is more spiritual I need to practice this more
@suxannagajere9573
@suxannagajere9573 3 ай бұрын
This poem is deep. Thank you. The step by step guide will be good too. I look forward to seeing it. I really need to accept myself.
@Nash_Aurora
@Nash_Aurora Ай бұрын
This video is so magnetic to me like giving me all ideas to take care of myself
@alexandranoelhowlett8331
@alexandranoelhowlett8331 14 күн бұрын
I loved the spiritual side you brought into this video! Thank you for sharing the poem as well ♡
@andressaalexandrino8689
@andressaalexandrino8689 15 күн бұрын
I saw a few of your videos and I enjoy all of them but I can honestly say that that was the best one. Thank you 😊
@TarisKit
@TarisKit Ай бұрын
Wow the poem hits me hard, I just realized I'm in chapter 2 and it does take me so long to get out because I dont believe it was my fault
@Mindfulliving342
@Mindfulliving342 26 күн бұрын
Thank you Mr Gomez ❤❤❤
@prakritisandilya3885
@prakritisandilya3885 2 ай бұрын
Hey @Ismael Gomez III...Thank you so much for making this vedios. Since past 2 days I was obsessing with a boy who has moved on with another girl without letting me know and acting to love me....He is enjoying his life and I like a dumb asshole thinking why he left me and devaluing myself that I may not be so beautiful or worth it. I was getting panic attacks since last 2 days and there was no one I could share my feeling with (not even to my family). He told me that his gf is hot and he even had spent nights with her and his words was roming around my head and asking me question that "why me??" If you had a gf than why were you hitting me...I am sharing this here so that no one can judge me ....but your words gave me strength and now I know what I have to do.❤ Thank You❤
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 2 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. I'm glad my words could provide some strength and clarity for you. Remember, you deserve someone who values and respects you for who you are.
@Siarayestie
@Siarayestie Ай бұрын
You deserve millions of subscribers! Thank you for these lessons.
@sanaahmad3894
@sanaahmad3894 Ай бұрын
Listen again and again makes me feeling so good. Thank you so much for the tips and advises u gave to us who are stuck in this situation.
@jirinaketnerova8869
@jirinaketnerova8869 Ай бұрын
Greetings Mr.Gomez, I've recently discovered your channel and I wanted to say thank you for what you do! I hope more women get to see it! Hopefully, more of us will also get it! I find this video spot on! It's been quite a journey for me to become who I am now and this video just made me realize how much I've grown. I understand now!!! Love the Quote: "Life Is to be experienced, not controlled! In case of Love, it's the same! I wanna watch this video again... it's pricess! Thank you very much 🙏
@priyankabose9207
@priyankabose9207 Ай бұрын
I was born with the power of detachment
@monafelixb
@monafelixb 13 күн бұрын
Love the poem. ❤ Been listening to you for 3 months now. Learn a lot. Thanks Ismael🙏🏻🥰
@ashimasingh7578
@ashimasingh7578 Ай бұрын
I truly appreciate it; this was something I have been eager to hear for quite some time.
@fembot521
@fembot521 Ай бұрын
One of the best videos I’ve ever seen on this topic! Thank you! ❤
@myrtillesm3532
@myrtillesm3532 10 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for your wisdom and kindness. Even the way you teach is a lesson in itself. Thank you for your teaching and the way you do it
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