"How to Stop Divorce When She Refuses to Talk/Listen" - Live Q&A Highlight

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

Will you be doing another one of these Q&A sessions?

[@livewithinthedream]

When you spoke about the work situation, I just spoke about that with my ex yesterday. She said she didn't even think I wanted custody of our daughter. I didn't even need her to explain, and I realized I put so much into work and earning money that I pushed aside my family. Immediately the conversation dove into so many more hard truths, but it is never the thing; it is the thing behind the thing that's behind the thing.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Takes courage for her to share. A lot of men facing this respond badly, and makes their partner think "Well, this is the reason why I never told him these stuff before. he cannot handle it!"

[@gavinconlon869]

Then what is campaigns,pre tell?

[@leta8796]

hey again Geoffrey, I really appreciate your incredible videos and effort in making them so concise and baluable. Your content is changing my life. I saw the videos about internal shifts but can you create a more detailed video about how to perform the auto-suggestions? and examples about looms and Amos?? I'm not sure I understand these yet.. THANK YOU AGAIN, man

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

We already have this in the internal shift playlist? :)

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

Check out Geoff's internal shifts playlist. You'll learn a lot there. Then, I suggest watching some of his client interviews. There you will hear how these things work. The interviews are almost lessons in and of themselves m

[@leta8796]

@@GeoffreySetiawanyes I saw them. You explained well the structure of autosuggestion but I did not see any concrete example . Thank you again. These videos should be on the list of psychologists

[@jasonnetten4281]

i feel like in my situation they really aren't actual boundaries she's putting up. It seems more like controlling what i can and cannot do regarding her world. For example, it is a boundary that i can't go over her mother's house without her knowing about it or she'll feel her boundaries were disrespected. Same with me seeing her animals that live over her mother's house. Those are her animals and i don't have a right to see them or else i'm "entitled" and i feel i can do what i want. I don't see those as boundaries. I see that as controlling another person's actions underneath the guise of boundaries. They were never discussed either. I don't know I disrespected a boundary until it happened. When I bring this up it turns into "well if you were a considerate person you'd think to do / not to do that and I wouldn't need to tell you not to do or do something"

[@leta8796]

Hey Geoffrey, I could listen to you for hours! Since you don’t accept everyone in your program, I’m curious-do you believe some people simply can’t change? I ask because so many wives endure abusive treatment (sometimes physical but mostly emotional), and I often wonder-if they put in the effort to change, what if their husbands never do? I know it is still worth it for these wives to do the work, but is there any way this could be dangerous (husband's resistance abusive???) Did you mention licensing? Any link to read more about it?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

We believe everyone can be helped. We only refuse to help when the person decides they do not want to be helped/has a different definition of what "help" means. e.g. When someone comes to us and tries to convince us it is their partner's faults, or that they have already changed, etc... For these people, their ego will make it impossible to absorb any new information, and their definition of "help" is not to grow the self, it is to blame, whine and change other people.

[@leta8796]

@@GeoffreySetiawanI think this is what I mean they can not change.. because they are not willing to accept that they are doing something wrong. Now what about if a woman follow your program and changes and her man feels wonderful about it but he still do no want to change for her (thinking that everything is already perfect) while the woman makes him feel safe, he continues not to reciprocate ? Is that something you see in some of marriages you work with?