How to use ‘flow state’ to do the impossible | Steven Kotler

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@coznow
@coznow Жыл бұрын
I don't know if anyone will see this, but this happened to me in 10th grade. It was the first time I played guitar on stage. We were sort of a makeshift band of awkward high school students lol. We practiced before, obviously, and it sounded good, but nothing compared to the night we performed. It was like we all knew exactly what we were doing on an atomic level. Every decision I made on the guitar worked out perfectly. It was honestly amazing...it felt like every single neuron in my brain was firing at once if that makes sense. This was 9 years ago and I can still remember it in such vivid detail. We were beyond ecstatic.
@nolife7165
@nolife7165 Жыл бұрын
That’s so cool
@pushparahi5681
@pushparahi5681 Жыл бұрын
Would you say you were not consciously playing tye guitar and your hands were moving naturally and you were amazed as a reaction?
@kni9ght
@kni9ght Жыл бұрын
That’s awesome, you hit that deep flow where the actions are the right one s and cascades into a great performance
@soumikmondal3855
@soumikmondal3855 Жыл бұрын
I have also experienced similar stuff at table tennis finals of my organisation. I sometimes literally forgot that I was playing a match but still played my best that day
@gyromm3094
@gyromm3094 Жыл бұрын
Mine was playing volleyball. Every second, it felt like I had full control over every last atom in my body. It felt like I owned the court then. Every hit, I could feel the ball as if it was my own body part.
@haseeb7274
@haseeb7274 2 жыл бұрын
I started improving significantly during the covid lockdown, I was isolated, my mental health was declining, was addicted to a couple of bad things and I completely antisocial, that's when it all started, it's like the phrase 'the harder you fall the greater you rise up'. That's when I knew what my addictions were doing to me, that's when I got rid of it all(took about 6 months ig) and I subconsciously started doing things that were more productive. Prolly the biggest thing I learnt was 'you don't need to do something everyday to improve yourself, sometimes it's all about not doing something everyday to see a change in your life'.
@phillylarkin.s1930
@phillylarkin.s1930 2 жыл бұрын
Great speaker great salesman = send him your money 💰
@kylenope8048
@kylenope8048 2 жыл бұрын
wow
@Littlewhite69
@Littlewhite69 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your feelings 🙏🙏
@Solar_P
@Solar_P Жыл бұрын
Holy shit so true
@ceodasala3297
@ceodasala3297 Жыл бұрын
Didnt understand lol
@dickyboy5344
@dickyboy5344 2 жыл бұрын
This was literally the state of mind I used to have back in the time when I was in high school. I always told myself "If those smart kids can do it, definitely I can do it to." This phrase which I was constantly being played in a loop in my mind gave me all the motivation I ever needed and my progress of learning was faster than ever. But unfortunately, I got hit by a serious depression after experiencing some traumatic moments. My ability to think and to perform in school deteriorates drastically. So in my opinion, once we start experiencing the "Flow" we shouldn't take them as granted. We also must learn how to strengthen our mental and have the ability to make our peak cognitive performance to persist forever. Cus once we start experiencing smtg traumatic or smtg which affects our state of mind, we might not be able to get back on track with our optimum "flow". And thanks to Big Think for posting this video. I'll always rewatch this video along my healing journey and remind myself who I truly am whenever I'm feeling demotivated. P.s. sorry for my bad English
@krishanSharma.69.69f
@krishanSharma.69.69f 2 жыл бұрын
Follow Islam ☪️ the only true path.
@Ankan963
@Ankan963 2 жыл бұрын
@@krishanSharma.69.69f 😂😂😂😂😂💩💩💩💩💩🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🖕
@imnotlazy
@imnotlazy 2 жыл бұрын
@@krishanSharma.69.69f what does Islam teach about flow?
@createasyougo4787
@createasyougo4787 2 жыл бұрын
Your English is perfect and you're completely right! For the longest time i thought I "couldn't focus" (hence couldn't get into flow) until I began more of a self healing journey and realized "I can't focus because I don't feel safe in my body (PTSD)" The day I realized that I was able to sit down and paint uninterrupted for 90mins. It felt like the greatest accomplishment. It's forever a work in progress
@fritzdeuces
@fritzdeuces 2 жыл бұрын
Depression isn't real.
@MsMarln
@MsMarln 2 жыл бұрын
It happens when you don’t think , just doing what makes you happy, you don’t care about the results, clean heart, no bad intentions, you do it because it makes you happy no force , it happens when you do the unconventional, not for the money nor fame, Just being grateful that’s the secret =).
@Sunsets_aresad
@Sunsets_aresad Жыл бұрын
I think there should be a purpose behind doing anything like you can't do things just because they make you happy....happiness shouldn't be the goal
@MsMarln
@MsMarln Жыл бұрын
@@Sunsets_aresad I don't get your point but searching for purpuse is only for dead spirit there is no purpose by the way I don't want to argue just beleive want you want to believe
@Sunsets_aresad
@Sunsets_aresad Жыл бұрын
@@MsMarln Fine. But there's always a purpose...
@felixonyeoma5604
@felixonyeoma5604 Жыл бұрын
Yeah flow happened when we give all to the task at hand, and is the thing that makes us greater than the environment and outer seconstances .
@fajriputrarudisukmawan7294
@fajriputrarudisukmawan7294 Жыл бұрын
@@Sunsets_aresad yeah, there is a purpose, the purpose is to have "fun" :)
@amazmik
@amazmik 2 жыл бұрын
Some pro skateboarders talk about “blacking out” during a trick from focusing so much. They don’t remember doing the trick but they performed it perfectly.
@smthwesson666
@smthwesson666 2 жыл бұрын
That is so hard
@waxcomb
@waxcomb Жыл бұрын
Brad cromer did this on a kickflip
@stacyevans4438
@stacyevans4438 Жыл бұрын
When you start to "feel good" then whatever task you do who become successful in it. Either pretend to FEEL GOOD, practice until you actually start to feel good, when we start to feel good then we get into a state of "FLOW" which makes any task that feels impossible actually very very much possible. For example, you wanna study so repeat a phrase or an affirmation or just visualizing study as a great thing and everything feels interesting when you are studying and this boosts your confidence that you feel like studying and you know that you can do your best in it then when you ACTUALLY start to feel good you get in this state of FLOW and studying feels very good and as your mindset changed about studying after positive affirmations and creative visualization to see studying very interesting (like imagine yourself being Rory Gilmore). To make any impossible task possible the secret is to start seeing that stuff as a good thing and to "FEEL GOOD" about it before doing that task.
@Mtq1498
@Mtq1498 Жыл бұрын
This is called deep acting and it works for actors or actresses to imitate an emotion during a scene
@1tubax
@1tubax Жыл бұрын
i think you're onto something. You have to feel good to get into flow state, not the reverse. Set the mood, eat well, make sure you're not sleepy, don't leave any lingering thoughts in your head, and prepare to JUST enjoy the task ahead. Once you get into it and you're feeling amazing, only then you should produce more ambitious thoughts as goals to work towards. This is a silly example, but I am trying to get good at this competitive game. I practice before playing and always try to keep calm and think about what I'm doing (and learn from my mistakes). I made really decent progress in 2 months. One CRAZY day I got into, what I'm sure is, flow state. I won almost 15 games in a row, and made leaps in my rank. I thought that something clicked for me, but next day, I lost 6 games in a row. I stopped playing there, just thought it was a bad day. Next day, same thing; lost more than I won - repeat for 5 days until today. I got better at playing without flow, and ultimately I'm still beyond the rank I had BEFORE I got into that crazy day. After reading this comment, I realize that I've actually never felt good in any of these days past that crazy day. I was thinking clearly, I knew my mistakes, but I was just slow and hesitant; I did not feel good and it didn't feel right playing. I'll take a break from the game and focus on finding what triggers "feeling good" in me. Sure, you can always grind every day without ever needing to be in flow or feeling good until it really matters, but why? Why can't you appreciate what you've worked hard for, by putting it into use at maximum performance while feeling awesome? David Goggins said that the separator between those who will achieve great things and those who won't, is that the one's who will achieve great things will still go out and grind even on the days they don't feel good. But what if every day is a day where you don't feel good? You'll breakdown and lose your creativity; thus steering yourself in a terrible direction.
@justinm2434
@justinm2434 5 ай бұрын
Well said. Amen
@32jvelde
@32jvelde Жыл бұрын
I remember entering the flow state for the first time at basketball practice in fifth grade. I played so beautifully and easily. I was present without fear or concern, able to make decisions without worry. No problem was bigger in my mind than it needed to be. It was so... spiritual, almost? especially for a normally self conscious and shy kid.
@pentingberhasil633
@pentingberhasil633 Жыл бұрын
I think thats the key, to see a problem not bigger than you or should i say "the self". No wonder its gave kind of spritual feeling to experience. The question now, how can we enter this state of not seeing a problem bigger than "the self", interesting thing to reflect on. Sorry for the bad english😅
@pirds102010
@pirds102010 10 ай бұрын
@@pentingberhasil633 1. stop being identified with your "I", "Ego", "Mind", whatever you wanna call it. 2. No matter how big the goal or task is, be aware that it is possible with step by step goals But you can use flow triggers and lots of other kinds of preparation for getting into flow easier and everyday
@c.galindo9639
@c.galindo9639 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing. I remember a state of flow on several occasions and it really is indescribable but also breathtaking and new. It’s like a whole new level of awareness and adaptability
@treytheriot
@treytheriot Жыл бұрын
Happened to me in a workout one time everything was just happening every set every rep was fluid almost like I turned into a waterfall of energy finished my workout and I realized how focused I was will never forget that workout
@akshatrastogi4969
@akshatrastogi4969 Жыл бұрын
so i am preparing for the engineering exam ( jee), and while i am solving mathematics, more so of algebra, i just get into that state where, i am able to do it so properly that it just feel soo simple. And honestly, i love it. Its the best feeling out there
@blazy590
@blazy590 Жыл бұрын
This is me, like its a real super power, Accessing it more would change my life.
@goelayushi09
@goelayushi09 2 жыл бұрын
I have sever multiple scoliosis. I was affected since birth which worsen later. I am living, breathing, thinking, working its cure for myself. I know i ll be fine soon as i can see incredible changes in my body. Im in constant flow of haveing a healthy body. When someone is in flow state i can bet on the fact that one is bound to see magical things happening and make impossible as possible
@ECHunter-tn3mv
@ECHunter-tn3mv 2 жыл бұрын
Have you heard of Dr. Joe Dispenza? His research is discovering some incredible connections between divergent and convergent focus/awareness, and energy’s effects on matter, particularly when it comes to health
@mcpexnemesis4953
@mcpexnemesis4953 Жыл бұрын
When in flow, we actually are "doing" less. The key is doing less that leads to more. The prefrontal cortex actually diminishes substantially, which is responsible for the inner critic voice you may have. You're not focused on any of your limited capabilities, but are fully immersed just on the task.
@brucewalters8635
@brucewalters8635 11 ай бұрын
I spent 10 straight hours writing a college paper. I stopped only the eat a sandwich and urinate. When I finished it was getting dark out which startled me until I realized 10 hours flew by like what seemed like 2 hours. I felt very satified with my paper and intellectually enegized. I knew I'd get an A and I did.
@darkfire8547
@darkfire8547 2 жыл бұрын
It happened to me more than once while gaming. My aim turned into aimbot (almost all hits were headshots with perfect tracking) and I played in a very smart way and you won't realize it until the flow state finishes. Definitely something to try.
@TheSonSet
@TheSonSet Жыл бұрын
Literally! it feels amazing and i am trying to learn to get more into it as it makes me amazing at this platform fighter (Brawlhalla) I know i could be amazing if i can just master it
@darkfire8547
@darkfire8547 Жыл бұрын
@@TheSonSet it happened to me while playing fortnite (unluckily it was the last time it happened that was some years ago). I learned the skill I was using in the flow state one year later. If only I had thought to learn something from that game I could've been better at the game.
@arcyine
@arcyine Жыл бұрын
​@@TheSonSet brawlhalla and platformers defo need that flow state more than any other game
@jesushurtado2111
@jesushurtado2111 Жыл бұрын
It happened to me playing ranked in rainbow six siege. Being 1v5 and getting the clutch
@sleshhsh
@sleshhsh Жыл бұрын
the question is "how td do u enter a flow" the title misleadimg
@riyanr5432
@riyanr5432 Жыл бұрын
after reading blue lock manga and then they mention "Flow" i came here and found this was awesome
@Aryankumar-px2pc
@Aryankumar-px2pc Жыл бұрын
and i also just entered the flow state and just experience the state of flow and i really love it Actually i just entered the state of flow means i mean to say that i was being in the flow tstate while reading your all experiences smjheeeeee......... And thakyou very much for your own experiences that you'll experienced thats a very good to see thankyou somuch yrr mai bta nhi skta ki kitna acha lg rha hai mujhe abhi thank you somuch you all now i am gong to do my work in about thirty minuts and i know i ll complete it into that time my do you all want to listen that is to be crate a mind map of chapter thermodynamics full .THankyou
@GSheltonJr
@GSheltonJr 2 жыл бұрын
When I was a basketball player I had gotten in the zone before that’s what ball players call it and it is a surreal feeling you don’t want it to ever stop.
@Victor-tl4dk
@Victor-tl4dk 6 ай бұрын
This is very true. I have a calc II exam in two days that I know nothing for. I normally do 28 push ups and feel completely tired after it, it was a stretch after 26. Then yesterday to try and show myself what is possible I told myself to do 35 and I did- 35. What we think is possible is very important. Reality is too. Where is the balance? I have no idea.
@ApAcVideoWatcher
@ApAcVideoWatcher 2 жыл бұрын
I think one of the cruelest things we do to ourselves and our children is place shackles on what is possible. The brain's ability to believe is dynamic. The ability to keep believing after getting knocked down is extraordinary. The ability to continue to believe but factor in needed information is critical. Then again, maybe the later isn't really necessary. I do think critical thinking can sometimes cripple possibility in a person. I kind of bounce back and forth between the two mindsets and I do think that hinders me in some ways. I hold myself back where I didn't when I was younger because I didn't "know better". Does intense belief amplify "flow " or the possibility of it? Maybe sometimes. I think I'm more questioning of describing too much as being in that particular state of flow than what really is. I don't know. I find our need to name and define so much of what is normal behavior as something extraordinary to be both a drag, boring, demotivating, and more than a little droll. Our societal obsessions are humorous to say the least. Don't get me wrong, I love witnessing some incredible flow. I just think we're kind of turning a mole hill into a mountain possibly. I'd certainly not call it "superhuman flow".
@pirds102010
@pirds102010 10 ай бұрын
Yes, it does. Believe amplifies or destroys flow. Depending on the belief you have. If you THINK about if something is possible or not, you lost. You have to stop thinking and focusing with increased awareness and there are many tricks you could use in your everyday life to get into flow consistently.
@magicstick9922
@magicstick9922 Жыл бұрын
I've experienced this during running (it's my first year or racing cross/track), and I have really tried to focus on this; it's something I like to call "the zone." Where I'm so into my race that I feel a state of ascension, all the pain disappears, everything becomes one, and I feel I could go as fast as I want. I was able to repeat this at my last race by repeating the phrase: "It doesn't hurt" over again in my head. I guess I started to believe it cause I almost passed out, I was going way beyond what would have normally been possible. It is pretty crazy what the human body is capable of once you get out of your own head.
@adistyacnugroho7583
@adistyacnugroho7583 Жыл бұрын
The term Zone just made me remember about basketball anime dude. Now, we got that too in football anime called Blue Lock with the same term.
@magicstick9922
@magicstick9922 Жыл бұрын
Oh nice 😆
@revih3390
@revih3390 Жыл бұрын
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@1tubax
@1tubax Жыл бұрын
yeah this happened to me while running 3 miles at like 30% of my top speed. It started getting comfortable to breathe slowly, but I knew I might pass out if I kept breathing slowly, so I forced myself to breathe harder. It really felt like my lungs were being pushed to their limit. It's truly amazing that you can discover who you REALLY are while running.
@NDETV316
@NDETV316 Жыл бұрын
I enter flow when speaking about my Near Death Experiences. Flow can turn to glow ,you feel you are levitating. Observers feel it and see your light. Sometimes a light cloud forms and only those in it can see it but observers notice it and stay back in honor if it. You can feel high after a glow ,feeling flow for hours,a bliss state you enjoy as long as it lasts. Your feet are barely touching the ground. There is a containment to it. It's a reserved energy field for you but those close to you sense it. It's letting go and offering yourself , being free to be you in all it's glory in a performance of a lifetime.
@ceodasala3297
@ceodasala3297 Жыл бұрын
Explain ?
@NDETV316
@NDETV316 Жыл бұрын
@CEO da sala It's hard to explain. I am an NDE author and speaker, and I have a podcast/KZbin channel - NDE TV. When I share my story of my NDE, Near Death Experience, when I recall hovering over the pond during my 5 year old drowning and then 20 years later when I hovered in the bright white light in Heaven,I start to feel like I am hovering again. My body wasn't there but it is now as I recall it,and my body feels an energetic tingle,a weightlessness, sometimes to the point as I stand talking or walking as I'm telling it, I loose feeling in my feet and legs so it feels like I'm floating or gliding. I have had reoccurring dreams that I am learning to fly around the ceiling and teach others how to do it I think now, through my podcast, I am teaching others the magic of loving God, and knowing there is a Heaven and it is so blissfully freeing that one can learn how to feel it too by letting go of fear,doubt and the heaviness of life on earth, knowing where we will go when free of these bodies and knowledge Hean is real.
@ceodasala3297
@ceodasala3297 Жыл бұрын
@@NDETV316 do you have any advice on how not to feel anxious, ? it is because sometimes im really anxious and this days too im feeling kind of sick and i just got into a new school (yes im very young) and i because im sick im a little gassy and you know i cannot ask the teacher to go to the bathroom all the time, and i know it sounds silly but it feels like hell, also does your conscience have any effects on your body? sickness for example ?
@NDETV316
@NDETV316 Жыл бұрын
@@ceodasala3297 Anxiety is a part of life. Start writing letters to yourself about why you are feeling anxious to help work through it.
@sleshhsh
@sleshhsh Жыл бұрын
@@ceodasala3297 bro is literally me 💀
@paraschivmarius9315
@paraschivmarius9315 Жыл бұрын
I've been in the flow state a few times and it's a wonderful thing, a feeling I can't describe in words
@pirds102010
@pirds102010 10 ай бұрын
then try to do it everyday
@dbsk06
@dbsk06 Жыл бұрын
I was in a flow state when I wrote my thesis in college and it ended up getting published and I got awards for it. It’s still continuing to be cited but when I was writing it I just enjoyed the process and saw it as a homework assignment that I wanted to do well in but had basically minimal pressure 😊
@pirds102010
@pirds102010 10 ай бұрын
autonomy and mastery were the flow triggers here. You can increase it even more if you put creativity, autotelicity and purpose in there as well
@Jeyxero
@Jeyxero Жыл бұрын
The editing on this video went seamless with his words, it was done so masterfully 👌🏼
@MrDogonjon
@MrDogonjon Жыл бұрын
My job is to get people to find that flow state. It is a fragile assembly of explanation, demonstration, attempt and feedback. People don't know what they can do until they do it. A good eye and kindness when giving feedback make even unusual attempts productive steps towards achievements. It is fun to functionally understand nature. Human nature is to fear the unknown and resist things that look impossible. Good demonstrations make every thing look easy and people will try them discovering it's not easy but with practice and feedback results improve.
@agit-prop8193
@agit-prop8193 2 жыл бұрын
Good video. These notions are new to 'Western' civilization but 'flow' has been known and techniques have been taught to achieve this state in Asian cultures for thousands of years.
@daMacadamBlob
@daMacadamBlob 3 ай бұрын
Could you please tell us more?
@rushiaskinnerwallace6175
@rushiaskinnerwallace6175 2 жыл бұрын
Many people on the spectrum or with other neurological diversities are phenomenal at entering flow states. In fact, I propose that this state is more essential to optimal well beingness for those with neuro diverse brains than the time and resources dedicated to them learning to blend and appear “typical”. Space and accommodations for flow states should be prioritized. Flow state in anyone can and does lead to innovation and novel solutions. If someone has a neuro-divergent brain though and there’s a lot of support for them to be in a flow state, there could be a great deal of benefit to all sentient beings. But regardless of whether anyone else ever benefitted from it or not, who looses if a human being is in a state of timeless, bodiless, thoughtless, painless flow? It’s a beautiful juxtaposition of being both dispossessed of oneself and in an expanded state of awareness AND totally self contained and present with pin-point focus. This always serves the individual and inevitably all around them.
@basicallyjustcoolstuff
@basicallyjustcoolstuff Жыл бұрын
ADHD and possible autism here, I agree. Over the last couple years I've slowly been prioritizing flow state more and more, and it's insane the stuff I've been able to do because of it, and I've had a lot of people say things that lead me to believe that when I chase flow, I help those around me without even trying. It's really awesome
@Lowkey6169
@Lowkey6169 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, I know what he is saying is true because I’ve had experiences with getting into flow. In the past when I was trying to do something but could barely do it, I kept doing it & I held onto faith that one day I’d be able to do it & now I’m doing it effortlessly ❤️❤️❤️
@Somebody782
@Somebody782 2 жыл бұрын
the art of impossible "get our nervous system as our ally not enemy" bannister effect - believe its possible to make it possible making impossible possible pattern matching - flow fight or flee? or getting creative get flow
@ceodasala3297
@ceodasala3297 Жыл бұрын
The flow happens when you dont think and jyst act believing yourself with no doubts just because it is like that. I believe i have entered the flow state some times by rorcint myself to not think and just act, it also helps very much when im listening to music because it makes me feel good and not think, It may be true that thinking is not truly beneficial at all times since all doubts come from mind and there is a misterious sense of magic in just act without thinking just by believing you are capable of doing it
@rebel__54
@rebel__54 Жыл бұрын
True!
@anthonybaransky137
@anthonybaransky137 11 ай бұрын
Imagine flow as intunement with activity. Now imagine intuitive intunement. That is the mastery of flow
@rajitharanvijayasekaram5862
@rajitharanvijayasekaram5862 Жыл бұрын
I too had the same experience. A few years back, for a not so avid reader, I got so hooked into a non-fiction book that images of characters started popping into my head and was not conscious of the flow of time. Something in me wanted me to keep reading and I missed a few meals during that day.
@davidanthony6408
@davidanthony6408 2 жыл бұрын
The idea I have about flow? Pure confidence! Confidence might not be the core component but I believe it's a required state/mode of self-reliance that becomes necessary to achieve flow.
@imnotlazy
@imnotlazy 2 жыл бұрын
Confidence in flow state what do u mean?
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
It’s more so grit and a sense of control to get the ball rolling. Most people rely on their past for confidence which becomes anti-flow, it’s best to access your confidence through presence and feeling alive in the moment.
@jamesrosenberg1612
@jamesrosenberg1612 Жыл бұрын
@@imnotlazy like doing something with 100% confidence in your mind that you will succeed, I've felt that in skiing before, like this relaxed but perfectly fluid riding where my body just makes it happen and I just focus on where I want to end up.
@innsaeimaster
@innsaeimaster 11 ай бұрын
Flow State is absolutely amazing, indeed. I use it often in Writing & Programming. It helps you do things that u didn’t knew before. Aloha
@mustbejoken
@mustbejoken 4 ай бұрын
how to enter in that state of flow? Thanks
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
May the Flow be with you ⚜️🙏🏽🌊
@artophile7777
@artophile7777 2 жыл бұрын
Do you believe in gravity?
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
@@artophile7777 why such a random question?
@AIDebateLab
@AIDebateLab 2 жыл бұрын
@@artophile7777 you are that person who believe the moon exist?
@tadeolho3634
@tadeolho3634 2 жыл бұрын
@@artophile7777 Você acredita que você è real?
@Handeit1626
@Handeit1626 11 ай бұрын
This has happened to me a few times. The first time was when I was 4 and my sisters friend asked me to tie her shoes. I didn’t know how so I jokingly grabbed the laces and started scrambling them all over. In under 3 seconds I tied the knot. I will always remember the look on her face. The second time was when I was at a swim meet in 8th grade. I was up for the 25 meter freestyle. Once I dove in I felt some kind of force. Once I resurfaced I can only describe it as my body being dragged kinda like how a boat pulls you while tubing or water skiing. I was amazed and started looking to my side to see if anyone was reacting to this. I heard a kid on the other team yell out “he’s floating on water”. I distinctly remember I wasn’t kicking my legs until I heard this. After I finished and got out a kid asked me how I did that, but I ignored him because I really couldn’t explain it. Afterwards I heard the parents were talking about it. I don’t know how it happened but it was an experience I’ll never forget.
@secret2654
@secret2654 Жыл бұрын
The last time I experienced flow was last year this season. When I was drawing a portrait of my girlfriend to gift her on her birthday. I was average at drawings and I was able to draw diagrams in biology notebook better than some. But I didn't expect that I would achieve such a befitting beautiful potrait of my girlfriend. My friend appreciated that it looked so real. I really loved those 3 months.
@cronoszeitumbra9129
@cronoszeitumbra9129 11 ай бұрын
I once saw a guy drive me in a 1969 Camero. The car was a perfect street rod, the engine sounded like an angry powerful animal and when he took off he smoked the back tires so bad you could not see the rims. At that moment I knew I had to live that experience, and I did! I remember seeing myself in the faces of the kids I pass and see them look at me as if they want to live this experience.
@MartinH81
@MartinH81 2 жыл бұрын
Four years ago I hiked the Pacific Crest Trail and after 4-5 weeks of hiking day in day out I noticed I experienced flow again since childhood. The best thing about the state is that I barely felt my body and the exercise. There's no pain, no fatigue, no excessive breathing. Only pure expansive relaxedness. I wasn't aware of the surrounding sounds and my vision was as if I was watching a POV video of someone hiking. Except it was me. Thoughts were barely there or at least I was very unaware of them. The only thing I felt or was aware of, besides insane relaxedness, was the strong drive for "next step! next step! next step!..." It was an amazing experience and I was truly happy to have had it experienced about a handful of times. I strongly believe for in order to get into the state it needs to be a task/thing you're doing often and/or for a long time. Also, I did not hike with any earbuds/music. Only my thoughts, feelings and surroundings as sensory input. Besides that I also noticed that stress is a strong inhibitor for getting into the flow state. The last 2 times I experienced it I could trigger it myself by purely focusing on the frequency of my breathing and footsteps and slowly trying to go faster. It also helped to stop looking around, a gaze at the horizon would allow for better focus on the task. Kind of hypnotizing and before you realize you're miles further and you'll have to wait half an hour for your buddies to catch up with you. The awesome thing is that it doesn't come at a price. First time it happened I thought I would physically crash later that day, but that turned out to be absolutely not the case at all. Interestingly, once in flow state for a little while thougths, feelings or your surroundings are allowed a bit more and not distracting or breaking the mental flow state, but it's a balancing act and certainly goes wrong the moment you sense you're actually trying to balance it.
@raghar3546
@raghar3546 2 жыл бұрын
Damn the pov of someone hiking is fascinating
@jurassicthunder
@jurassicthunder 2 жыл бұрын
I'm an artist and I practice almost daily and when I'm making music, writing and producing became so much faster and better because it's so easy for me to get into flow state. Once I sit on the computer, start my vocal exercises etc. with the intention of music; my brain initiates the flow state then. I might call this the the flow cue. Also same can be said when I'm writing music videos, screenwriting, drawing, and surprisingly writing my diary
@bbuuttercupp
@bbuuttercupp 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I experienced when I used to go hiking a lot. It's such a beautiful and fantastic feeling that used to fuel me for days, and got me out of a very bad depression. There's just your body and nature, almost working together as one. It's almost like one long meditation without any huge effort to keep up the mindfulness. It's a beautiful feeling - your comment reminded me I need to get back to hiking!
@joycommunication9570
@joycommunication9570 11 ай бұрын
I practiced flow after searching about it a lot and my test scores went from 500/720 to 669/720 in significantly shorter time with the same "No. Of hours" i used to give before
@metasamsara
@metasamsara 2 жыл бұрын
It's easy to say how it works, harder to explain how to achieve it. I do line up with the flow in the sense of Wuwei and not resisting resistance in order to make life easier and more manageable, but when it comes to the emotional state of consciousness itself it is harder to attain it in difficult situations (ie: not meditation) where we are instinctively distracted and affected by the outside world. I think there is a component of it that works like muscle memory, but it is also a branch of cognitive psychology that has been mainly ignored until recently. When you don't know, you don't know. If no one can teach you, it sucks big time. We need like a proper scientifically accurate guide on mindset and cognitive filtering.
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
Do you know how to use Herbert Bensons Flow cycle?
@imnotlazy
@imnotlazy 2 жыл бұрын
@@Primalsutra what is that and does it work?
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
@@imnotlazy It’s a biological process, just understanding it pretty much helps to consciously hack the flow state. Struggle phase, release phase, flow and recovery. Then struggle again. Message me on iG if you want to know more @flozoneacademy
@swatijain9241
@swatijain9241 Жыл бұрын
Haha just trip on psychedelics with correct setting and purpose once, you will find your flow :P
@aftermath7
@aftermath7 Жыл бұрын
@@swatijain9241 i agree
@GothGuy885
@GothGuy885 11 ай бұрын
I have had several experiences with flow the first time it happened, I went to a large Hotel for a job interview, and there was a grand piano in the lobby, I was just standing there, looking at it and admiring its beauty , and another guy who worked there asked if I play, and I said No not at all. and he said I could try on this piano if I want, and Lo and behold I played an Elton John song and sang. I swear on my life, I have never played Piano before, and then the guy said "i thought you said you don't play" and it snapped me out of the zone and I suddenly looked up, and all these people are watching and listening, I freaked TFO at what I had done and realized I was late for my interview,and quickly left I was visibly shaken. it was so freaky!
@MolefeBobHermanus
@MolefeBobHermanus Жыл бұрын
This is the best thing I’ve seen all year. Thank You.
@auser2721
@auser2721 Жыл бұрын
I came to it when I was 14. I felt that the heights like sciences discovers, fame and flying to space were the hardest thing and like almost impossible. And then I understood that everything that seems impossible - our potential. We can do everything, just try.
@FugoPN
@FugoPN Жыл бұрын
The fact nobody’s made a blue lock joke yet is crazy.
@ivanrowe2880
@ivanrowe2880 11 ай бұрын
Loosing track of time , makes PERFECT sense when you think about living forever - time would not be an issue
@Czar684
@Czar684 11 ай бұрын
I do not know if it would be considered as a flow state but during highschool I have this "If they can do it, then I can do it" mentality that would boost my confidence, I would always practice things at my best so that during any school performances it is almost like I am in a trance, it is just so easy and fun. However, reality hits you hard, negativity and sadness took that confidence away, hoping that I can still recover from my current state.
@graciegracie
@graciegracie 2 ай бұрын
Study importance of animal fat in your diet. Good luck to your endeavor!
@kenzoxstar22
@kenzoxstar22 Жыл бұрын
It happend to me in a match while playing soccer I did some crazy moves without realizing that I was doing it then I started giving instructions to my teammates for me to score the goal myself last 30 secs play, I scored and we did a draw . My team captain said I was amazing out there he barely recognized me. I said that I was probably fired to win this match. So that was my flow state
@shikiwyd
@shikiwyd Жыл бұрын
same I enter flow state and somehow got meta vision, I feel like a god, I could track everyone movement on the field and every step they takes. It’s crazy
@justinm2434
@justinm2434 5 ай бұрын
I dont know one other video, or any other example for that matter, that could explain so much knowledge in 6.5 minutes that makes so much sense. I have 2 thumbs, wish i could give 2 likes
@technomage6736
@technomage6736 2 жыл бұрын
"I do not hit, it hits all by itself" - Bruce Lee
@dmtdreamz7706
@dmtdreamz7706 Жыл бұрын
On a certain level, we have a drug store in our brain, the neurochemicals that show up in flow: so dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. If you were to try to cocktail the street drug version of that, right, you're trying to blend like heroin and speed and coke and acid and weed- and point is, you can't do it. It turns out the brain can cocktail all of 'em at once, which is why people will prefer flow to almost any experience on Earth. It's our favorite experience. It's the most addictive experience on Earth. Why? 'Cause it cocktails five or six of the largest pleasure drugs the brain can produce. We're all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. And one of the big reasons is we're all hardwired for flow, and flow is a massive amplification of what's possible for ourselves.
@abhishalsharma1628
@abhishalsharma1628 Жыл бұрын
*_Key -_** Explore within yourself how you come to the state where your consciousness becomes flowy*
@alfonsogutierrez1392
@alfonsogutierrez1392 2 жыл бұрын
Taoist Wu wei, "doing nothing", emptying the mind, Zen 's "mushing" no mind, joe dispenza has his way of talking about something related
@perialis2970
@perialis2970 Жыл бұрын
i once did kendo, a martial art that depends heavily on technique over strength (although in my opinion strength is also a point to improve) I practiced many techniques, some just "fit" my style, it felt "right" to do these techniques. and since i liked them I practiced them alot, one being a counter-defensive technique where you use the opponent's strike to swing your sword back at him, for those who wanna see its "kote kaishi men". and i had a prefecture/state tournament. In the semi finals, i was loosing bad, the opponent had better pressure, striking. But then i decided to let go, thats where i just let my body "do", and before i knew it, i did it unconsciously. It felt like an unconscious reflex, where if you touched a hot stove you would instantly pull your finger away instinctively. For me it was my eyes perceived a small cue, then do. and i managed to keep it a tie, against someone who's significantly superior to me.
@NDETV316
@NDETV316 Жыл бұрын
Freddie Mercury's during Live Aid, was in flow and the crowd joined his flow as did all of us watching.
@chasesosa8961
@chasesosa8961 Жыл бұрын
On the regular. Glad there's a explanation
@gptprofessional
@gptprofessional Жыл бұрын
Maverick was once said "Don't think, just do" By stop thinking, you will let your subconscious take control of your action, so the electricity flow in your brain is just flowing without being restricted by the "process" of thinking. Thinking = slowing. Ever heard "Beginner's luck"? This moment was caused because of the lack of thinking. Most beginners don't think, they just do.
@Mickey-k4v
@Mickey-k4v Жыл бұрын
Man this is so good keep up the great work!
@richella2029
@richella2029 4 ай бұрын
Dang I love this channel. All ideas are delivered in such interesting way
@ali_nafih
@ali_nafih Жыл бұрын
The editing of the video is so smooth! Perhaps, someone did it while in the 'flow' :)
@KoPianoBeautiful
@KoPianoBeautiful Жыл бұрын
One story for the passerby: This was just two years ago, peak of COVID and I was gaining a lot of weight. After 50 pounds, I decided to work out, but it was hard because I was bloated in all places. One night, after a tab, I went to a park and decided to picture myself lift my body up with just my wrist and upper arm strength (two gymnastic rings). I weighed 220 pounds and haven't hit the gym but somehow, the tab allowed me to picture myself, go into a meditation state, a flow state where all my strength went into my arms. somehow the brain directed all force and attention into the neuron activation regarding my hidden, unworked muscles in my arms and I lifted myself up three times in a row. Funny to say, I tried the rings few times after this night, but I could hardly succeed one. I also ripped my muscles and had humongous bruises on my arms. But this flow state was a miracle induced by meditation, serendipity, control of everything and accepting control by nature -> impossible becoming possible
@DigSamurai
@DigSamurai Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Your video triggered an epiphany of absolute joy and beauty in the moment. Again! I was truly in the Vortex, the zone, in flow. 😎Prodigious
@alessandrosamueleslavu6987
@alessandrosamueleslavu6987 Жыл бұрын
i like the part where he actually explained how to use the flow state
@HighAltitudeInvesting
@HighAltitudeInvesting 11 ай бұрын
Great video thank you! when I play guitar flow comes easily. but frankly I am in flow all the time!
@PrashanthBalaji
@PrashanthBalaji Жыл бұрын
Words cannot represent accurately the flow state . Its very personal and a happy exprience .
@joevalentin2450
@joevalentin2450 2 ай бұрын
Okay that is what flow is. The better thing to discuss is how people should do their task so that it would be done in a state of flow. Why is it that not everyone is attaining the state of flow in their studies or in their work? There must be a reason why a few had attained excellence through flow. What is that underlying factor? What made people excel and what made people not excel? To attain a state of flow, what must a person do?
@Mohamed-ek6cv
@Mohamed-ek6cv 2 жыл бұрын
I miss the old videos when guests talked with no music or scenes that are quite distracting. I don't need some music to make me feel motivated, I need to listen and concentrate on the subject and evaluate the speach without any emotional element. I don't mind sound or visual effects in general, but I think they should be limited so I don't get distracted, and not feel certain feelings or to get motivated just because of the music, or an image of someone looking at the sky and thinking about doing the impossible.
@yomnamabrouk3717
@yomnamabrouk3717 6 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you
@user62413
@user62413 4 ай бұрын
Really amazing video. Thank you.
@josephwanjiku6853
@josephwanjiku6853 Жыл бұрын
We are spiritual beings having a human experience
@blazy590
@blazy590 Жыл бұрын
I have accessed flow and it exists, where i can take in info and immediately analyse it without going through twice, like i normally do, like i wish i could do this all the time.
@dexterlecter7289
@dexterlecter7289 11 ай бұрын
For decades I’ve said “if you can visualize it you can actualize it”. Problem is when one encounters a lack of will …
@trulyhuman6227
@trulyhuman6227 11 ай бұрын
The art of doing not doing. ❤
@GrandAncientOak
@GrandAncientOak 11 ай бұрын
That can simply be experienced by sprinting through a dense forest. You enter a state where no thought is needed but your feet move exactly where they need to go.
@yoandyvm704
@yoandyvm704 Жыл бұрын
This video is brilliant!!!
@iamwint3r_brr662
@iamwint3r_brr662 Жыл бұрын
I just got to flow this evening match at last 5 min playing football i felt it once when i was playing dota 2 5 years ago never thought i will get to it again with Different Sports at that too and this video show up
@lesleyM84
@lesleyM84 Жыл бұрын
This is completely cool…like the boat on the stream, flowing, merrily along as if in a dream🥰🥰🥰surrender to flow and….just….let…..go….. 💕💕💕
@rhondamathis1323
@rhondamathis1323 Жыл бұрын
When athletes 'In zone.' You can feel their energy when they step on field.
@johnshields6852
@johnshields6852 Жыл бұрын
It's funny how we grow, in my case I had natural ability that made me really good in sports, but I also had self-destructive side, I'm 62 now and it's like I've kept the peace somewhat of my destructive side.
@Everosa314z
@Everosa314z 11 ай бұрын
Based on my flow state experience, don't focus too much on listening the cheers
@beppo2077
@beppo2077 2 жыл бұрын
I've entered the flow state so many times but right when I'm about to peak i remember that I'm in a flow state and it throws me off alot
@JeremyHansPatrick
@JeremyHansPatrick 2 жыл бұрын
I used to do the same, but now I carry myself with more confidence. Instead of "Oh shit i just hit that shot, that is absolutely crazy" you change your inner dialogue to "okay next one", and this goes on and on until you don't really think about it anymore.
@Rckdng
@Rckdng Жыл бұрын
one time i was about to go to bed and i blinked for one second and next thing i know it was daytime, i guess i was in the flow state while sleeping. interesting thing is i felt completely relieved of my fatigue when i woke up and looked around all confused. This was when i was around 11 years old.
@iqadvancement
@iqadvancement Жыл бұрын
It happened to me so many time like once playing Cricket I was not missing a single ball and sending every ball for 6 and once while doing a english exam I just felt something else and began solving like I never did.
@emwhaibee
@emwhaibee Жыл бұрын
Mark of Seriousness: flip flops; subtle cue that says "I'm here to do business but I also want to be comfortable so as not to take away focus from what is required of me to do". At least in my headscape that's what it means.
@abhishekanshuwali3808
@abhishekanshuwali3808 Жыл бұрын
We are all hardwired for flow through Evolution
@charlesbrightman4237
@charlesbrightman4237 2 жыл бұрын
FLOW: Consider the following: FOR ME: 'Space' is energy itself. Wherever space is, energy is. Wherever energy is, space is. They are one and the same thing. And for me, the 'gem' photon is the energy unit of this universe that makes up everything in existence in this universe. 'Space' is most probably energy itself in the form of gravitational fields, electrical fields and magnetic fields, varying possibly only in density and energy frequency. 'Time' is the flow of energy. 'Time' (flow of energy) cannot exist unless 'space' (energy itself) exists. And 'space' (energy itself) that does not flow (no flow of time / energy) is basically useless. An entity cannot even think a thought without a flow of energy. If all the energy in the universe stopped flowing, wouldn't we say that 'time stood still'? Time itself would still exist, it would just not be flowing, (basically 'time' stopped). But then also, how space and time are linked in what is called 'space time', (energy and it's flow). * And everything in existence currently appears to be eternally existent energy interacting with itself. There is truly only 1 single 'eternal day', the day of eternally existent ever flowing energy.
@charlesbrightman4237
@charlesbrightman4237 2 жыл бұрын
So for me: 'Faster Flow' is energy moving faster.
@ShadowbladeZZ
@ShadowbladeZZ 2 жыл бұрын
And what evidence do you have for any of this word salad
@arkroyal93
@arkroyal93 2 жыл бұрын
This actually is Lao Tzu's thesis.
@Tzalive
@Tzalive 2 жыл бұрын
nice!
@charlesbrightman4237
@charlesbrightman4237 2 жыл бұрын
@Jeff Bezos Hi 'Jeff Bezos'. If you cannot make the connection, then maybe you are not as smart as I believe you to be. The video talked about 'flow', and for me 'time' is the flow of energy. Get it? Also, do my gravity test, and 'if' true, and it does not literally wipe out this entire Earth and all on it, then potentially have the literal theory of everything for this universe. I did a lot of my work with the 'flow' of my mind. GRAVITY: (copy and paste from my files): Here is the test for the 'gravity' portion of my TOE idea. I do not have the necessary resources to do the test but maybe you or someone else reading this does, will do the test, then tell the world what is found out either way. a. Imagine a 12 hour clock. b. Put a magnetic field across from the 3 to 9 o'clock positions. c. Put an electric field across from the 6 to 12 o'clock positions. (The magnetic field and electric field would be 90 degrees to each other and should be polarized so as to complement each other.) d. Direct a high powered laser through the center of the clock at 90 degrees to the em fields. e. Do this with the em fields on and off. (The em fields could be varied in size, strength, density and depth. The intent would be to energy frequency match the laser and em fields for optimal results, cancelling out the em modalities of the laser, thereby leaving behind the gravity modality.) f. Look for any gravitational / anti-gravitational effects. (Including the utilization of ferro cells so as to be able to actually see the energy field movements.) (And note: if done right, it's possible a mini gravitational black hole might form. Be ready for it. In addition, it's possible a neutrino might be formed before the black hole stage, the neutrino being a substance with a very high gravitational modality with very low 'em' modalities.) (An alternative to the above would be to direct 3 high powered lasers, or a single high powered laser split into 3 beams, each adjustable to achieve the above set up, all focused upon a single point in space.) 'If' effects are noted, 'then' further research could be done. 'If' effects are not noted, 'then' my latest TOE idea is wrong. But still, we would know what 'gravity' was not, which is still something in the scientific world. This test can speak for itself. It will either be true, partly true, or not true at all. It will either show what gravity truly is, might be, or is not. Science still wins either way and moves forward. * And note: Whether my gravity test or another's, a gravitational black hole would have to be formed to prove the concept as being really true. A gravitational black hole that 'if' self fed itself, could literally wipe out this Earth and all on it, possibly this solar system, possibly put a black hole in this section of our galaxy, and potentially even causing a ripple effect in this galaxy and surrounding universe. But hey, if it does, no worries. Nobody would be left to prosecute those who did so. (Possibly famous last words: "Hey, it worked. Ooooppppssss.................) But as NASA has already proven that low gravity conditions over a prolonged period of time is harmful to the human species, and large rotating space ships won't really work for space bases on planets and moons, those space bases probably being needed somewhere along the way out of this solar system and galaxy, we need to figure out what gravity truly is and see if we can generate artificial gravity so as to have smaller space ships and proper gravity conditions for space bases on planets and moons. Otherwise, at least all human life will most probably die and go extinct one day. Currently, no exceptions. ** Added note: Just trying to save at least 1 single species from this Earth to exist beyond this Earth so that life itself from this Earth has continued meaning and purpose to. Gives me something to do while I exist, otherwise, what is it all and everything for? Even if my TOE idea were correct, but if it did not help species survive beyond this Earth, what good would it ultimately be? So, are you feeling lucky? Doing nothing and at least the entire human species eventually dies and goes extinct with a high degree of certainty. Doing a gravity test, (mine and/or another's), and there is at least a slim chance of literally wiping out this entire Earth and all on it, and possibly more. Do you and other's truly want me to prove my TOE idea as being really true? (Since all of life itself is ultimately meaningless in the grand of scheme of things anyway, do the gravity test and see what occurs?)
@FlaminggMoe
@FlaminggMoe Жыл бұрын
If it's possible at any stage, that means it was never impossible
@7PhigMind
@7PhigMind 11 ай бұрын
So one time.. in mexico.. at a church.. the pastor dude was saying how gods moves thru us.. so he had all the kids come to the stage and he played a song... and i remember looking over at the kid next to me and we both started doing the exact same dance moves... everyone was in sync for the whole song.. like if we practiced the dance... and then they called the moms to go up and i watched my mom laughing while dancing cause she couldnt stop😂😂😭😭
@IcitteMontreal
@IcitteMontreal Жыл бұрын
Flow state is the future of productivity. If you're not tapping into it, you're missing out
@ze-gustavo
@ze-gustavo 2 жыл бұрын
Our history is proof that we can render the impossible possible. Glory to our quest for true vibration.
@Primalsutra
@Primalsutra 2 жыл бұрын
When macroflow becomes our new normal 😎🙏🏽‼️
@paulstieler4468
@paulstieler4468 Жыл бұрын
Question / The Helicopter Medevac / Every One Hit Hard / Remembers in Detail / Why ? / Charlie Mike
@sobreaver
@sobreaver Жыл бұрын
Flow = peak of efficiency
@realmenarzo7720
@realmenarzo7720 Жыл бұрын
Think always great 👍
@svetlanaradovic4220
@svetlanaradovic4220 Жыл бұрын
Novak Đoković practice flow for almost two decades and shares his knowledge and he is the greatest athlete in the world
@kite4water967
@kite4water967 Жыл бұрын
Surfing 20 years. Find your flow. Confidence. Don't feed the ego
@CHERUBIM517
@CHERUBIM517 11 ай бұрын
GREAT VIDEO
@ivplay.lifestyle
@ivplay.lifestyle Жыл бұрын
Interest. As always. I call it 'Confidence' (or elements of). But yeah, I would like the term, 'Flow', better. There are so many videos to uncover. Nice.
@noblethoughts1898
@noblethoughts1898 Жыл бұрын
Awesome Video. Human mind has infinite possibilities. Thanks :)
@Jycivan
@Jycivan 11 ай бұрын
In short, what this video is saying is to be in the flow state, you need to believe in what you are doing is possible. Then that is where is ends. The remaining video is sharing how flow state is beneficial to human beings and that it is possible, citing researches and other evidences.
@mukuruagurooaru6930
@mukuruagurooaru6930 2 жыл бұрын
the flow this guy talking about is an much older practice. Search for wu-wei, a taoist practice and the way taught by lao-tzu.
@ineedslim9265
@ineedslim9265 Жыл бұрын
Blue Lock is Real
@kool4209
@kool4209 5 ай бұрын
Yes. The zone. Is real. All your sports animes are inspired by real life.
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