Huge Entourage Ruins Bride's Wedding Dress Shopping Day | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

Bride Donnetta brought twelve friends and family members to help her find a dress. But the day is ruined when they brutally express their opinions.
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[@jenniferi.4385]

I like how she thanked them for ruining her day & walked off with her head held high. Then they all looked shocked. She'll find the perfect dress without them.

[@ashleyhammond1112]

That moment was amazing! Good for her. She looked gorgeous in that dress and in the others as well.

[@Balyakaj]

And it shut all them up.

[@christiescorner8472]

Now that’s a bride with some gumption! After putting them first the least they could do was consider her feelings in the matter. They didn’t act like friends or family and should be ashamed of themselves. This is why I took ONE friend and NO family shopping when I went looking for my dress. She was engaged as well, so we had duel appointments and had the best time. I narrowed it down to two dresses then took my family to model them for them. Easy peasy, and I don’t regret doing it that way.

[@min_nad]

A true queen honestly

[@teal3af49]

She deserves a crown 👑 She has so much confidence and she deserves to have HER day. Even with that amount of people she knew they were spittin’ bullshit.

[@elsandstorm8997]

They need to learn the difference between honesty and cruelty. They were laughing at her. Disgusting.

[@roxyglitterqueen6339]

Totally agree with you there I was even yelling at my laptop screen in disgust

[@CaroleHaddon]

They fricking yelled BOO like a bunch of spoiled brats?? Wtf are these people???

[@duffy898]

@@roxyglitterqueen6339 I was looking at my phone in disgust!

[@sophianoblejas7374]

@@CaroleHaddon simple their bunch of amateurs and self centered, selfish spoiled brats

[@AshaniSinha]

for real they made her feel like she was ugly not the dress

[@my4pac7m]

The fact that her own daughter was shaming her like that. Absolutely disgusting.

[@kemistri666]

like O was expecting her to at least lift her own ip and tell the rest to shut the hell up smh

[@valeriejones9592]

Daughter wouldn't be invited to my wedding

[@user-cu3ts8of8x]

ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING INDEED

[@Corinabs]

They usually learn that from the grandma and or dad that’s why I refuse to keep people who walk all over me around my kids

[@Jahkaya101]

The fact that even her own daughter wouldn’t support her and was rude and insulting to her own mother is crazy…

[@mel...s]

Birds of a feather.. the bride is probably just as loud and mean.

[@diamond852]

​@@mel...sYou've said a lot about yourself with your comment.

[@sp4cegrl27]

@@mel...sthe bride was the kindest one there, she most likely got that attitude from her father or from what we’ve seen other members of the family.

[@originalritny]

The rose color compliments her skin so well. Everyone was acting so fucking disrespectful. Shes so sweet you can tell and everyone just wore her down so bad were she cried almost everytime she walked out. Shes a lovely person. Just horrible friends and family...

[@queensheem3337]

exactly I cant stand her family especially when they all said no

[@bezawitadmasu9854]

Ikrrr I felt so bad she looks so nice

[@qtaro-7097]

they just booed her while she was excited to show them the dress like wtf

[@chocolatebaby852]

That rose dress was so beautiful 🥺but watching them disrespect her was so hard to watch

[@gwendolinehall1386]

I loved the rose dress on her. It was stunning. Not my usual preference with the skirt but ooh she glowed in it and rocked it and that waist accent did her so right. She seemed so so sweet, putting everyone else first. She deserved all the support in the world, not that booing!

[@kaylawilliford-jones8486]

what kind of woman let’s others make her MOTHER cry and feel humiliated like that t

[@bo2720]

Shameful!! Anyone talk to my mother like that you will be sorry. And by the way I absolutely loved that pink dress on her. Was beautiful. Shameful behavior

[@Flinabin]

Not me !!

[@amyness3452]

Yeah, where I come from we'd be hiding bodies.

[@ashleyt6840]

Ikr! Her daughter was the worst of them

[@scottwoodcock3542]

Well, you don’t need to bring a whole mob with you either, just a recipe for utter chaos.

[@pamelaflirtyskunk7698]

I bet they weren't even ashamed of themselves. They probably had a watch party when this episode aired and laughed and acted like the childish fools they are again then. That's what's most sad... They didn't even learn from treating her like trash. I'd be looking for new family members. Family can be chosen, family doesn't mean you have to share DNA.

[@freyjairis103]

Amen 10000000%!

[@abbynormal4740]

Agreed, simply sharing DNA doesn't necessarily make a *real* family!

[@BruinPhD2009]

You are so right. People who are that mean have no sense of self-awareness, and for sure they don’t care about how they hurt other people. How did such a nice woman end up surrounded by this big gaggle of assholes?

[@elena3476]

Blood is thicker than water, if your own blood, the child you ve raised, treat you like that what are the chances you d get so close to someone who doesnt even share that connection with you, its sad truly, but ig she could disown herself

[@abba9265]

@@elena3476the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb

[@grettam.1218]

They didn’t realize this video will never go away and they will forever see how stupid they looked and how they ruined that beautiful queen’s day!!! Shame on all of them😡

[@ccnapoleone110]

Her daughter was probably the meanest of them all... I can’t imagine saying those things to my mom

[@MimiTheHamster]

Ya she’s so ugly too, looks like a man

[@kimberlypreston6204]

I think the daughter was jealous.

[@MTetzke]

You know I wonder if it was a mob mentality. If you got each person alone and asked their opinion would they All be so hurtful, rude and negative about every dress she liked? I don't think all of them would have thought the same if separate. If one of them would have supported the bride it would be like a pack of Wild animals out for blood attacked her or him. Yokes!

[@meimei5458]

My mom would *slap* the sense into me

[@angelaliu3470]

my mom woulda brought out the belt 😳

[@magdelineadler4284]

They're all a lot of bullies. She devoted her time, money, energy, and love to an entire group of cackling, ungrateful women. Her daughter is a spoiled brat. This mother deserves so much more.

[@queensheem3337]

exactly!!!

[@hopendream2364]

Y

[@_riri94]

Exactly

[@kecym.4808]

hope everything worked out for her

[@Tes7000]

Yeah, her entourage was pretty obnoxious, but she refused to even show several of the dresses they wanted her to try on. The bride looked good in all of the dresses she tried on, but none of them were the showstopper that she said she wanted. I don't think the consultants served her well that day, because there are lots of dresses to choose from in that store. There is no way she couldn't find something that really suited her, and I think her entourage was keenly aware of that. Also, the entourage was remarkably consistent. They did not like any of the dresses the bride showed, but they were not in disagreement with each other.

[@laneuvillehelena]

She is the most sane participant on this show. She realized her entourage was crap and decided to come back on her own and think about what SHE likes instead of pleasing everyone else

[@karinababs9200]

“Thank you all, for ruining my day” GIRRRRRLLL THE WAY I SMILED AT THE ENTOURAGE’S REACTION IT WAS PEAK KARMA

[@yuliam1756]

This is, hands down, the worst entourage in the entire series.

[@LC-se8pw]

I've seen some one off people be downright nasty, but as a whole group??? Yeah, their the worst. Not ONE kind word from the lot of them. Alllll these clowns would be walking home after this if it were me.

[@nickyhersh6952]

Tina Burton What’s typical?

[@iwasalllikeomg]

They're even worse than the people in the bridesmaids' version of the show!

[@AJD7233]

Tina Burton ...?? Explain please

[@skylarkgrl3486]

@@AJD7233, typical black folks! This would be my family because I have a huge black family. You don't have to be loud and rude!

[@user-th7us1fl9x]

She's prettier than her own daughter, "not gonna sugar coat it".

[@suns2027]

LOOOOOOOL

[@lpsgirlygirl7501]

Say it louder! LOL

[@Pika-Chu64]

Damn 😂

[@micheal4819]

I legit thought the daughter was her older friend✋🏻💀

[@pennypillow4445]

her daughter looks so old and bitter, i thought she was one of her mums friends

[@Your.Local.Mexican.]

5:05 “I didn’t even feel bad for her” made me so mad like, idc if you don’t feel bad, I won’t feel bad for you when your not invited

[@austinsmith6014]

I believe she said that she did feel bad for her mom and that she shouldn’t have brought a large crowd. That said, she was one of the worst of the bunch and saying she felt bad is just hypocritical.

[@latoshaadams3828]

I no I don't feel bad for her either I mean it's your wedding you pick the dress you want . I'm like speak up say something

[@jsophiamm]

The consultant behind her when she thanked them for ruining her day 😂 I would’ve been smiling as big as her if I was in her shoes!! They are real professionals to not be pissed at all those people bullying the bride.

[@polinaznobina7752]

Her family needs to shut up. She cried. They are horrible. That's not straight forward, that's disgusting. I'm pretty blunt but I am never like this. There is a line and they crossed it. Esp on such a special day. Horrible

[@ethelindamorte921]

Polina Znobina Right, on a family members special day I’d never cross that line. I’m rudely blunt to the point where I can make people cry but I know when to stop especially when it’s someone else’s time to shine

[@redbirddesigns_6610]

“Thank you all for ruining my day.” Even through it all she had class! Amazing.

[@Kas_Styles]

100%

[@RHathemoment]

Exactly. The day should be more sensitively and profoundly approached than the tone they put behind it. It was aggressively cavalier and innapropriate for such a special day.

[@RHathemoment]

@@ethelindamorte921 Well said.

[@emilyk2244]

This show has convinced me im shopping alone.

[@balqees591]

Yup

[@stupidfunny1635]

Same xx

[@a697ag]

I worked in a bridal salon years ago. The lone bride or a bride that came in with 1 person were my favorite and my best customers. I loved being able to really connect with the bride and listen to what she wanted and what was best for her. Every woman should be the star of her own wedding.

[@nicolemcleod1032]

Yes, it’s the best idea or bring 1 person.

[@djdomingo1008]

I would definitely bring at least 1 or 2 for mine

[@cecilylent95]

"Thank you all for ruining my day." That certainly shut every single one of them up. You go girl!! I hope you found your dress without them.

[@dldavi]

I hope they all look at this episode and feel ashamed. She is literally in tears. “Thank you for ruining my day.” was an understatement. Elope!!!

[@annamarielewis7078]

Never.

[@jennalikeswdw9725]

“thank you all for ruining my day” YASS GURL GO OFF

[@moth9117]

And they looked so mad when she said it like they didn’t understand how they ruined her day XD

[@amandalupacchino6728]

That totally made the entire episode!!!

[@dryice469]

A true goddess always sticks up for herself

[@joybeale3039]

Best part of the episode!!! I would have said the same thing if my family treated me that way!

[@jessiealexander3515]

Poor girl. I don’t think she knew what she was getting into by bringing so many people. I’m happy that she’s gonna try again later by herself

[@betzy_butterfly]

Can we talk about how she made sure everyone was going to look great at her wedding?!?!? Then when it comes to herself, her friends are cruel, selfish and rude. THEY 👏DONT 👏EVEN👏 DESERVE👏 TO👏 GO👏 TO👏 THE 👏WEDDING!!

[@bo2720]

She is a lovely person and it honestly broke my heart. I am glad at least monty spoke up because no one else did. I feel terrible for this woman. And the worst part is she actually did look beautiful in ALL the dresses !

[@Thebes17]

Same!! I wanted to slap the daughter the most!!

[@courtneyscockpit3409]

Yaaaasssssss

[@ostyne5523]

WTF?!!! I thought black women are supposed to support each other and be all about body positivity or something!!!😳

[@Sweetjunglequeen]

🎯

[@traseyferguson1759]

She was 100% selfless. She made sure everyone else looked good at her wedding but put her down when it comes to her looking amazing on her big day is just disgusting. But the way she walked away after thanking them for ruining her day yes queen

[@yareliz3906]

The fact the family at the end said “oh she did not just say that” when they all where saying so much disrespectful things. 🤦‍♀️

[@yuliam1756]

This lady is such a queen and NO ONE in her entourage deserves her.

[@mirapatel9495]

Yulia M || fax no printer 🖨

[@OutdoorGril31]

Exactly!

[@LC-se8pw]

Just terrible. Dress shopping was a really emotional experience for me but for all the right reasons. Every bride should have that. Honesty doesn't have to be cruel. HER opinion should have been asked for before these hyenas started screeching, but none of them were really there for her. So so sad.

[@mrsspanner14]

IKR! She was so sweet and wanted everyone to be happy - shame they didn’t want her to be happy. I felt so sad for her.

[@colleennikstenas4921]

And the queen found her crown in the end. 👑

[@missspell4897]

They’re so embarrassing. They went there to make a fool of themselves and make a scene, not to help her find a dress. I hope they enjoyed their 15 minutes of fame.

[@ceramicvases]

EXACTLY

[@meganfoster6131]

They obviously didn’t get 15 minutes of fame since everyone is angry with them. They got shame and looked dumb as hell

[@noahjameson8155]

7 minutes 41 seconds

[@sophiapryor7006]

i was the 1K like 😁

[@queensheem3337]

they should feel awful

[@shirleysackitt3714]

I'm glad that she told them that they had ruined her shopping experience and that she was going back to try and get the dress that she likes.

[@anyways..8779]

That girl with the glasses would’ve been uninvited immediately trying to embarrass THE BRIDE on national television

[@starmarie5444]

"thank you for ruining my day" "Oh no she didn't" Istg I went "YES TF SHE DID!!! AS SHE SHOULD!!!”

[@lyubaebbs706]

I’m saying right they were so rude

[@Lunasent]

Yep, I said the same!

[@alysonc1769]

ⓎⒺⓈⓈⓈⓈ

[@Rainbow-gc6kh]

Her sass when she walked back to the dressing room tho. 👌

[@regretd3156]

I literally said that out loud 😂

[@susandemetry7158]

The worst part for me was how they laughed at her. How cruel.

[@BossLady8891S]

Very I was like… throw all they asses out

[@hopeknight9911]

They sound like a bunch of cackling hyenas it was horrible

[@eleanoraquitaine2966]

@@hopeknight9911 And her son was no better.

[@eugeniaboone5602]

@@hopeknight9911 lol 🤣😂😆

[@xuriexylo101_2]

Ikr it made me so triggered

[@dstreets17]

QUEEN FOR STANDING UP FOR HERSELF🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@neldajackson360]

That was so rude, they were hideous and then they wanna look all butt hurt when she didn't sugar coat anything for them. I am glad the bride stood up to them but I'm sad that she didn't get to say yes to a dress at this appointment. She's right to say she will leave them at home and get the dress that she wants. They totally ruined her day and good for Monte for standing up to them too

[@toriap601]

the way Monte literally screamed "QUIET" to them shows how disrespectful they were all being. like yeS pop off king 👑

[@novastarburst3939]

And the way they kept acting like that even after he tried to shut them up was disgusting, they really need to learn how to behave properly.

[@alexiagiannopoulos5018]

And respectfully with dignity

[@sincerelyrayuna]

periodtttt.

[@ImJustShayeB]

That was the first time I've seen rage in Monte's face. He was pissed!

[@pasadena8546]

That's what you get if you're immature enough to need 10 people to choose your bridal dress. /// She had it coming.

[@tylerwinchester2975]

The daughter Should be ashamed, I could never hurt my moms feelings like that. If your mom liked a certain dress, let her wear it. She's the one wearing it.

[@redzoom7857]

Right, very protective of my mom, but her daughter bullied her

[@kiana_bon_vivant]

no seriously, i was APPALLED at the way she was treating and talking to her mom. just so disgusting and disrespectful. she straight up bullied her own mom. my mom and i have our issues but she’s my everything, i could NEVER talk like that to her. she raised me too well and i have some sense left to be KIND and RESPECTFUL. good on donnetta for putting all of them in their place tho and walking off with dignity.

[@zahara5472]

This is facts

[@nicoletteamourdesigns3601]

There’s a difference between telling your mom something looks bad on her or that she can do better verses putting down everything just for the sake of raining on her parade. I want people to be truthful but there’s a right way verses a wrong way

[@ladennayoung2939]

Her daughter was obviously jealous of her mom. Her mom looked better then her. Sorry not sorry. Smh. And you can tell they really liked the last dress the way they looked at her. They just didn't want to admit, because they wanted to make her feel bad about herself. Because they were jealous of her getting married and her happiness. Smh.

[@jowar8772]

She’s so beautiful inside and out ❤️ I hope she found her perfect dress & lives happily ever after

[@essencekimbrough4257]

She really hit the “you did a really good job at really fucking up my day”

[@xylasnemi]

“Don’t bring too many people” more like BRING THE RIGHT PEOPLE

[@t.matthies3049]

So true! There's an episode with an Ethiopian woman, she brought like 20 people, and they were all supportive. Some of the comments were what could be termed as "brutally honest", but they were still constructive, not destructive. The bride found a gorgeous dress, and everyone was just happy for her.

[@snowbird1381]

Idk maybe I’m just antisocial, But I wouldn’t bring more than three people. Just that crowd alone can be a lot of pressure to work with.

[@azshadow32]

@@snowbird1381 same. My bff knew her sisters would behave that way so she nixed the whole Familia and mad me the only bridesmaid and the only one who went with her to find her dress, decorations, requirdos and to get hair and nails done. It should be fun and light and happy, uplifting not upsetting.

[@debrajean5359]

She needs a whole new set of people

[@Paola-jf2qf]

Nemesis Pelaez Its funny how people out you in dresses that they like, not what you like. When I went everyone wanted me to wear a mermaid or trumpet style dress, when all my life I wanted a princess or a line. That is how I always saw myself on my wedding day. I on the other hand, would never ask a bride to try on an a line dress or ballgown if I know that is not her. We are their to support the bride.

[@teal3af49]

“This is why she shouldn’t have brought so many people.” hun, YOU were the one making it worse. YOU were her breaking point.

[@salmahm7822]

Exactly! but it was Her own daughter!

[@kecym.4808]

yea

[@Tes7000]

But honestly, it wasn't the size of her entourage. The entourage was pretty consistent in their opinions about the dresses. Plus, the bride refused to even show several of the dresses the entourage wanted to see. I think the bride looked nice in all of the dresses, but I thought the pink dress showed the best silhouette. I wasn't crazy about the color, but I thought the dress would have been perfect without the feathery skirt.

[@sophien5416]

@@Tes7000 it don't matter if the bride didn't want to show some dresses. Those ladies became a bunch of mean girls. They didn't have to laugh at her, they didn't have to make terrible comparisons like big bird...its like rude people always find excuses except for their own selves.

[@Tes7000]

@@sophien5416 I hear what you are saying, but were they really _that_ bad? I mean, these are friends and family that she brought to give honest opinions, and they were criticizing the dresses and not the bride. At any rate, I Googled the bride and found a picture of her in her actual wedding dress. Her dress was very similar to the pink dress, but it was in white and the skirt was ruffles instead of the feathery affect. She looked beautiful.

[@riri12566]

The entourage did their level best to tear her down and make her feel small, but in the end she chose herself, and that's incredible ❤️

[@That_gloss_boss]

When she said that she neglected herself and her dress, i was like “no no no sweetheart, focus on urself first. Everybody else’s outfits and accessories can wait. Put urself first, bride comes first, bridesmaids come later.” I am SO glad she had her confidence bcuz her family was immature fr. Tearin her down. U GO GIRL!!💙💜 SONT LET NOBODY NOR UR FAMILY BREAK U DOWN!!

[@bennya.9983]

she slayed that walk after she said "thank you all for ruining my day"

[@toxic_bunny_9828]

Fr

[@missladyhaha]

With the smile too

[@MalzVhelks]

That was BEAUTIFUL to watch

[@corichin2156]

That must have took incredible strength to say

[@amberwilliams3605]

That she did

[@purpleheart6158]

“This is why she shouldn’t have brought so many people” No she shouldn’t have brought people like you bye 👋🏾

[@tammyg8659]

Right her own daughter I would never be that way with my mommy I would want to support and celebrate her in every way

[@redzoom7857]

Exactly! I would never tear my mom down like that nor stand by while others did so either!

[@yamaguchis_fruity6945]

She should be ashamed it was her who brought her to this world if my kid ever talks to me like that you best belive i will take them out this world

[@sexycat6705]

Honestly I feel like she brought them bc she trusts in them to encourage her and make her feel special on her special day, but that’s not what they did they were only being loud toddlers

[@yamaguchis_fruity6945]

@@sexycat6705 well the toddlers at my old school weren't that loud

[@SandraHof]

They totally had that coming. Their behavior was more suited for a Chippendale’s show than a bridal dress shop. I am glad she made the wise decision to go back to the shop by herself the next day.

[@Kara-kx1lb]

I'm glad the end, as she was walking out. Thanked them all for ruining HER day. It's NEVER a good idea to bring that many people, to pick out a wedding dress....

[@seankirkham3488]

The fact her daughter was so rude to her mum and kept putting her down, I couldnt fathom doing that to my mother.

[@kuntarinirahsilawati920]

I wonder whether they teach manner in their big family, looking at other family members have the same manner.

[@rockdefdiva]

I'd be dead if I even THOUGHT about talking to my mother that way

[@veerle227]

It’s not just because my mom wants respect, but she’s earned it. She raised me, I couldn’t even fathom talking about her that way. It’s so disrespectful. I could never put her down like that, I’ll tell her when I don’t like it but then you look for something else, a solution. This family did nothing like that, wouldn’t even listen to the bride’s thoughts. Doing that in general is rude, but a day that is supposed to be all about her, the bride should’ve dropped them all and uninvited them.

[@Naidagoat1]

Right when my mother was getting married for the second time I was her biggest support

[@PamCunninghamMissesP10]

My mom would had not said a word & swung on me.

[@beccawheeliebin]

“being honest” and “keeping it real” is not the same as flat out insulting

[@ophilianecr]

Saying you're "being honest" and "keeping it real", is an excuse everyone who is horrible says to behave like disrespectful swine. What they mean is: _"I don't care about you, i just care about putting you down in the worst way I can get away with."_

[@itsjustmaddisen]

Brutally honest is just a nice way to say “bullying it but I get away with it.”

[@Vic82toire]

@@ophilianecr Yes! You can be honest without being hurtful. How you say something is important too. Not just what you say.

[@FMmantis]

Exactly! They went the extra mile to be insulting and cruel and should be ashamed of themselves.

[@mel...s]

Birds of a feather... 100% guarantee the bride is probably just as mean. Hope the groom is ok

[@averymarie_2124]

“Thank you all for ruining my day.” “She did not just say that.” And they literally say that like they weren’t just talking horrible about her when she has such a big heart that she put them first!

[@remi8019]

I hate how everytime she walks out with a dress it sounds like for a second they're cheering her on and then they start booing

[@bellissimaluna]

Her daughter with that deep ass voice has some nerve. They are so rude.

[@SkyChristi]

What did her deep voice have to do with anything lmao

[@jamjamjam13]

@@SkyChristi she had 2 daughters so it's to differentiate them

[@SkyChristi]

@@jamjamjam13 No she didn't. She only had one and I'm pretty sure the intention of the original comment was to say that as if it was an insult

[@eventerkeira]

@@SkyChristi she had two. Lanice and Desandra

[@SkyChristi]

@@eventerkeira It was only Lanice

[@megandaniels8323]

Honestly, how did they see that they made her cry and not try to comfort her at all? It's one thing to be immature and socially stupid but another to SEE how you're affecting someone and still choosing to be nasty.

[@MTetzke]

👍

[@valerielinares2068]

I agree. There is a way to offer constructive criticism without being cruel.

[@dejalynnsaili968]

They were all just trying to get their 15 seconds of fame

[@rrrjjj5572]

Yes, they were trying to be cruel, making fun of her, having a laugh at her expense.

[@SimranKaur-wn3to]

You said it perfectly.

[@user-ez9le4sg6m]

Her whole entourage was TOTALLY disrespectful to her on HER day!! So glad she said something.....I hope she returned to the salon by herself.

[@samanthaweston5749]

Good for her calling them out! They treated her dreadfully, friends and family are supposed to build you up NOT tear you down.

[@Mai-uo5kg]

The fact her own daughter was talking all that smack is just disappointing

[@katelynderbidge3166]

I really wonder if the daughter was being bitter because her mom isn’t with her dad, possibly they don’t know who her dad is, maybe they do know but the mom choose someone toxic originally and she’s mad at the mom for finding someone better when she’s already an adult and missing a father figure. Not an excuse just a speculation

[@kristinlake715]

Yea her daughter was really rude

[@sylviaking8866]

That is because she has been allowed to be disrespectful as she turned into a teen. Mothers out there, it is not a phase and they do not outgrow out of it. You need to teach them to be respectful, or they turn into total bitchy brats.

[@MakeupGenie21]

@@katelynderbidge3166 they don't know who their dad is... This sounds so stereotypical and racist.

[@somebodyyoudontknow3980]

@@MakeupGenie21 how? They said nothing about race

[@arealhughes4738]

Their behavior was ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING! You can see the pain in her eyes as they boo her and laugh at her. I'm EXTREMELY disappointed in how her day was snatched up by their constant display of maliciousness!

[@jb6712]

It's easy to imagine that they did that to her at her wedding, too, the disgusting bunch of wretches.

[@raenfairy]

You know somethings seriously wrong when the only people being nice to the bride are the staff in the shop.

[@MzVagabond]

Seriously. She was clearly hurt and they didn't even care

[@animebaby3426]

I felt her on a spiritual level. I near cryed too and I'm not even standing there. It's a giant reason I'm not included my own family to plan anything for my day. They can come too the dress picking if they ask but imma let them know from the beginning that I'd kick em out if they try me.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

She was crying at 1 point but noone noticed or cared! Feel so bad for her! Whatever she picks will be beatiful cuz it's what she wants what she's comfortable in !

[@cuteprettynailsshop9591]

I'm glad she told them that they ruined her day. They were TERRIBLE ! Is there an update on the bride?

[@cousinsister69]

I have a family member who's excuse for rudeness is "just being honest. I don't care if they are honest or not, there is rarely an excuse for bullying and insulting.

[@saisaivipa]

“Being honest” does NOT mean a license to be rude or mean. Crikey, constructive criticism is not mutually exclusive to kindness!!!

[@shoshanathorpe4606]

Your missing the point. The way her group attacked and laughed and ganged up on her was a bully tactic because it was about what they wanted. They did not even hear what she wanted and they didnt care to. It was about them.

[@jaylahallen4326]

I agree but that was in no way constructive.

[@blendingwitch6206]

People who describe themselves as "brutally honest" are often more interested in the brutality than the honesty

[@lumiere7216]

@@blendingwitch6206 YES! They was rude to the staff and the bride! They were terrible, horrible awful people

[@EuleMarija]

Yeah, it is just like when my mother in law had a cancer and still went to work doesn't matter how crappy she felt. Sure she lost her haur during the chemo and when it started growing back, she left her wig home and went to work with a brand new hairstyle - just short hair. So what do you think??? There comes a post curier and that b**ch tells my mother in law her hair looks ugly! My mother in law was like"wtf? Who are you to tell me things like that?". The answer of that "lady" was : she has gotten the right to have and tell her own opinion by law! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ You stupid cow, to have the right to express your opinion doesn't allow you to be rude and insult people.

[@chuwieanjela]

“Thank you all for ruining my day.” QUEEN YOU DROPPED THIS 👑

[@danacaro-herman3530]

I thought she was a very beautiful, thoughtful, selfless woman taking care of the bridal party first. I believe no matter what dress she picked, she looked gorgeous 😊

[@mayapegues7666]

@@danacaro-herman3530 I second that and I would have told all them to kiss my ass

[@jaisweet525]

Well put! 👸🏾

[@zay-zay3]

No she had it on her head already

[@mosthated7520]

ur basic

[@IrishGirlBragh]

How disrespectful the daughter is. I wouldn't dare and couldn't ever hurt my mother like that. The lady trying on the dresses is so sweet, she doesn't deserve the hate her 'family' brought to her.

[@bozoord8845]

I feel so sorry for this lovely lady ……………..people are so cruel, This is her special day…….

[@catherinehoffman1711]

That pink dress was absolutely gorgeous on her. Just the right amount of bling and not everyone can pull off a skirt like that but damned if she did!

[@plumsparkles945]

The pink dress was my favorite too!

[@vields2352]

I agree

[@Clownboyvomit]

Omg right she looked gorgeous!

[@ghostturtle5516]

Yes

[@Alicein_Wakieland]

Yess, I feel so bad for her..she made a good decision to leave them away the next time

[@jenifergarcia327]

"tHiS iS wHy sHe ShOuLdN't HaVe BrOuGhT sO mAnY pEoPlE" as if she wasnt with them bullying her own mother omlll

[@giggle_snort]

Exactly. And poor Donnetta probably wondering, "Where did I go wrong? How did i fail as a mother?" She didn't. Her daughter must have picked that up from her aunts. Because clearly, Donnetta is the cream of that crop.

[@bryannaholiday8682]

Exactly she was the main one sayin stuff 🙄

[@misak_ying8127]

@@giggle_snort true, she disgusting. I don't even dare to do this to my mother

[@krakoomkk2319]

Right if I did that to my mom she would’ve beat my a** right then and there in the store😒🙄

[@alexiagiannopoulos5018]

The entourage is so aggravating. They act like they should get what they want when in reality it’s the BRIDE’S day. Also, I loved Monte’s pick personally - she looked like a beautiful queen.

[@susanfraser6371]

I hope she did find the dress of her dreams, and I hope her wedding day was beautiful.

[@twinkiee_]

They remind me of the seagulls from "Finding Nemo" were they all go "mine mine mine".

[@its_cheska04]

HAHAHA this comment made my day

[@gradowskifam1529]

So funny!

[@MTetzke]

YEEEESSS!!! Exactly!

[@lisahansen850]

🤣🤣

[@theglobglogabalab5074]

-i JAIL

[@crossingvalley9947]

This was the only woman who ever talked back to her family all the other ones just cried

[@peacheskong2245]

she cried too but she also took that moment to look out for herself. How can you have that many people and not 1 person speaks up for her! All of them need to see the scissors, cut cut away!

[@giggle_snort]

Maybe they did off camera. We don't know. I like to think so. Either way, so proud of Donnetta for showing her strength!

[@vintaqe_vibez5978]

No I've seen a couple of others go off.

[@until.davis.]

this is a kinda rude comment

[@paulaunger3061]

Can't believe how cruel her entourage were. No wonder she had everyone except herself sorted - selfish, grasping, over-entitled, spoilt little sods! After the wedding maybe she needs a rethink on how many of those people she continues to allow to swallow up her time and energy. Wanna give her a huge hug.... She looked brilliant in all those dresses.

[@orvillaheck8994]

I am so happy she said “I’m coming back tomorrow & leaving everyone else at home”! You go girl👍👍👍 They were all so rude & mean!! Shame on them all🤬🤬🤬

[@ahurricaneofjacarandas4921]

I wanted to cry when she said she forgot about herself and was worried about everyone else then they had the nerve to put her down

[@lyubaebbs706]

I felt so bad for her she deserves better

[@madibawayne6314]

Thank God She Realized That!

[@sharajanetomongtong4767]

Lesson learn: DO NOT BRING a lot of people when shopping for your wedding dress. This is so cringe to watch. They're acting like a kid 😒

[@dietotaku]

seriously, i'm a minute and a half into this and wondering why the consultant wasn't immediately like "no i'm not having a baker's dozen all screaming their opinions over each other in this appointment, bride needs to pick 3 people and the rest of you wait outside."

[@Fyralynn]

This lady was/is a push over. She's too nice. Literally said in the show that she wants to make them happy. But she deserved SO much better than this. You can bring a lot of people, but make sure you bring real supporters instead of these... harpies.

[@e_G_o_05]

As a long time fan of this show, that’s the one important thing I learned. My first shopping experience I went with just my cousin/MoH. When I got down to 2-4 dresses in one bridal salon after doing extensive searching, that’s when I brought my mom, grandma, and my bff/bridesmaid. That’s it. I didn’t wanna drag myself and other people around from store to store, knowing having too many choices will overwhelm me.

[@TheCrys528]

Wow. Absolutely disappointing to watch this. I felt heartbroken for the bride as she valued her friends and family’s opinion. The fact that one of her friend’s said she doesn’t feel bad, is selfish. Getting married is a huge stepping stone in life and getting rid of this entourage was the best decision the bride made for herself. Get it girl, it’s your day!

[@HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman]

@@TheCrys528 She needs to cut some of these people out of her life once she's married

[@somewhrntm]

My thoughts exactly lady! You do you! You’re the one who should be happy! It’s YOUR day! I’m glad you spoke up!

[@kathyrice7931]

When someone said oh no you didn't say that, she should've said I did, and I meant it! Loved her walk back! You go girl!

[@aliciaa.5275]

“This is why she shouldn’t have brought so many people” that shouldn’t matter, put away your own taste and realize this ain’t your day. Be respectful.

[@Sam_Jayd2]

didn't even realise that she was her daughter. If I talked to my mum like that I would have been slapped till I've seen my ancestors.😂😂 But on a serious note, when the daughter said that her mum deserved that for bringing a large group of people I was about to throw hands.

[@payme_monroe5682]

@@Sam_Jayd2 EXACTLY!!!!!! the whole time watching this I was like isn’t she your mother and your talking to her like this

[@snowbird1381]

That whole crowd screams attitude. Like sit down and behave. Five year olds can do better. 😒

[@aoifekennedy9004]

“Everybody said they didn’t like it so get off the stage go to back into the back and get another dress” I just froze

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@Onyi Kasai I know like so rude and disrespectful

[@samanthalawson6663]

@@aoifekennedy9004 an after that I would have kicked them out the wedding and any other family function I hade.

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@@samanthalawson6663 same

[@ImJustShayeB]

And at that response I would have been like, "Bitch, you can definitely go! Bye!"

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@@ImJustShayeB I agree

[@user-ez9le4sg6m]

Thank you for finally standing up for yourself Donnetta!! Your entourage went way too far by not supporting YOU in your big day finding YOUR DRESS!!

[@rr9071]

This makes me so sad. They are ruining this experience for her and I'm glad she told them off. She is beautiful and I hope she found a dress

[@tunnjessica]

The problem isn't how many they are.. The problem is they are rude, noisy and can't behave. Like a bunch of kids seriously....

[@armymydaycaratnctzenatinyaroha]

Exactly, 12 respectful ppl is great. These are 12 rude horrible ladies

[@lenab.m.3708]

find 12 "respectful" people sitting in a jury

[@sandrabast7080]

Bullies in a school yard.

[@debsterling3928]

They acted like a bunch of assholes. All of them. I hope she disinvites them all to her wedding. Would serve them right.

[@unikkorns]

Acting like that in a bridal dress shop. Not classy.

[@VanillaflavoredSora]

I was a wedding consultant years ago and I ran into a party like this. Beautiful woman around the same size as this bride with a large party and they were so cruel to her. Every dress she put on she was told she was fat and ugly. I stayed with her in the dressing room for 13 minutes as she cried. My manager tried to talk to the party but they were awful people. The bride left her appointment early :( I felt terrible and disgusted.

[@prlegal411]

It’s like people just show up to these fittings so they can be nasty to the bride.

[@fictionalmenarehot23]

Wow. That poor girl. Makes me cry. Why do people have to be so cruel? Especially on something important like their wedding day.

[@EH23831]

Y’all need bouncers in your store... bounce them outta there!!

[@auntiem873]

@@fictionalmenarehot23 - they did that to her cause they were mad she was getting married. Maybe before them or to someone they wanted.

[@edenofori6352]

@@prlegal411 Ikr it's not their day

[@slidaverage6]

She walks with such sass and attitude!! I love it

[@yuonesbnvl1247]

I like her Walk after telling theme that they ruined her day like super confident 😍

[@mayomuslim5855]

This group is just hating for the sake of hating. That rose dress looked beautiful on her, her skin compliments the color very well. The dress doesn't make the bride, the bride makes the dress

[@Kwalplillal]

Frfr!! The dress was absolutely gorgeous and it looked amazing on her

[@nanaa428]

bro your name😭😭

[@chelsear9483]

I know I wish she chose that dress coz it looked so amazing on her. They are just jealous and envious. How vile after she took care of them.

[@mehardaudi-naeem2359]

I think it might also be because she didn't walk out in the dress they picked out. I think from then on it was a wrap. They legit were hating and making fun of her as some kind of payback. Hope she dumped this crew or at least got a sincere apology from them.

[@GameChanger597]

I can't believe how TACKY those grown women were. UN. FREAKIN. BELIEVABLE.

[@litziu7577]

Her daughter is so rude like the way she brought her down was so upsetting ! He character is so ugly

[@christine3941]

She even had an attitude and she’s not supportive of her mom! These ladies showed how ugly they were!!

[@litziu7577]

Christine everyone there ! She deserves better

Those ignorant fool's just wanted to be on TV , Embarrassing and I am a Black Woman saying this . SMDH🤔

[@themr3487]

@ I was just saying the same thing in the comments a few minutes ago! They heffas set us back 2 whole centuries!!

[@xenafrostine]

I loved her confident walk at the end she deserves to be happy and shes strong!

[@sorrynotsorry4myopinions590]

" Thank you all for ruining my day " best walk off.

[@nicolechase3234]

I can’t lie. She looked BEAUTIFUL in all those dresses. Especially the last one and one with the pink tint to it

[@chitchat3156]

I wasn't about a pink wedding dress until I saw it on her. She was absolutely radiant! She didn't look like Big Bird WTF

[@Tes7000]

I really liked the silhouette of the pink dress on the bride, but I wasn't crazy about the dress itself. I think it would have been perfect in white and without the feathers all over the skirt.

[@isiswilliams7208]

And did

[@Tes7000]

@@isiswilliams7208 I Googled her. She ultimately got married in a dress very similar to the pink one, except that it was white and the skirt had ruffles. Beautiful and a perfect choice for her.

[@denisesydor1003]

Absolutely AGREE

[@DeidresStuff]

If I owned that place I would have kicked everyone but the bride out.

[@twins4ever686]

Same

[@BarestTruths]

I thought he was going to!! So shocked they weren’t kicked out.

[@towsonmoma875]

Definitely

[@LeightonStHale]

Im sure he wanted to but didn’t want to ruin her day even more

[@brendacarter48]

Amen....and I was waiting g for their was to be kicked out!

[@charlenegray9526]

Yooooooo!!!! If I EVER shop for a dress, please believe my party is no more than 2 recipients!!! Idgaf about nothing but me!❤

[@sabrinawinkel1603]

"I'm gonna come back tomorrow and leave everyone at home." That's right Donnetta you tell em!

[@caitydid86]

Member of entourage: "We cannot say yes to this dress." Me: "Well then it's a good thing that YOU don't need to say yes to this dress. The ONLY person who needs to say yes is the BRIDE!!"

[@CaroleHaddon]

I wish Miss D would have said "BUT... I can, and I AM!!" EDIT: she got married in the last dress!!🤩

[@sabby.wasabi]

she looked gorgeous even at the very first dress but damn her entourage is mean

[@FairyQueen02]

Amen

[@towsonmoma875]

Definitely, kick those people out of the shop.

[@hpmoody]

@@sabby.wasabi I actually liked her in the first and the blush dress. They're so mean.

[@thisismissdark5106]

So I Googled it and it looks like she did eventually find her dress and she looked so pretty in it. You can honestly see HER shine in the dress and not the dress overpowering her. Her smile is so beautiful and you can tell she was genuinely happy.

[@stephgoldhenritze]

So happy to hear that. She deserved it. Thanks for the update!!

[@peacheskong2245]

Thanks for the update❤️

[@panicoutbytheromancepilotb513]

Oh my God she did look gorgeous!!!

[@tawanahawkins7855]

She looked absolutely gorgeous and I loved the dress!!!

[@WeirdGirl101070531]

@@tawanahawkins7855 send the link I wanna see too

[@janetdill9599]

She walked away like a queen!!!!!

[@bryanakelley741]

I love Monte so much and how easy it was for him to put everyone in there place in a split second❤😂

[@PARIS-ARCANA]

Daughter- "i feel bad for her, she shouldn't have brought this many people" Then HELP SUPPORT YOUR MOM rather than putting more wood into the fire

[@juliav8159]

I think she actually said "I didn't feel bad for her"

[@draalien]

@@juliav8159 oh gosh that's so much worse 😣

[@user-jc7bc7qw2w]

@@juliav8159 now that you hear the pause more it sounds like they edited out the ‘didnt’

[@slenderman-tz6tm]

If she was my child I would of regret her damn words. Take away that lil girls dress and pick the dresses I want even if she looks ugly

[@PARIS-ARCANA]

@@slenderman-tz6tm if she was mine i would've regretted bringing her into this world

[@kanyongoropa9537]

They are so toxic. You could tell she liked the first dress but they didn't even care and they dismissed her opinion. They kept on sending her back so she could wear but what they wanted but didn't care what SHE wanted.

[@sophia_violetsforroses1989]

IKR!

[@prettygurlChrissyD]

It was so sad to watch. I think they all need a lesson in sensitivity towards others.

[@BasicYTHandle]

@@prettygurlChrissyD I get that the producers want drama, but this is over-the-top mean, bitchy behavior by her entire entourage. That bride should've rescheduled her appointment and just walked outta there.

[@kaylapetrey5333]

Once she walked out in the pink dress I had to stop watching. I’m speechless. It was wrong to do that and I hope all those girls read these comments

[@catherinegarcia07]

The chanting/stunt they were pulling off was so barbaric. I'm glad the bride said what she said in the end. That was badass. Lol

[@leisongivangomo4478]

You go! Please yourself and not all of them!!!!! Way to go Monty!!!!

[@juniorgates5762]

I'm glad the bride stood up for her own beliefs and morals and ended the drama like a pro. I hope there is a update on her

[@applesauce7360]

Her confidence and strut in the last few seconds is the attitude I need at certain situations .

[@littlelexi3907]

AGREED

[@atomickilljoy66]

You can achieve that walk to, you're beautiful royalty, walk like it! 👑

[@The_Moving_finger_writes]

Ya agreed

[@LC-se8pw]

Hell yes. Just wish someone could have been that FOR her so maybe this pack of hyenas might have piped down. How are you gonna scream and yell cruel things about a woman who so obviously loves you? Waaay too much.

[@llchapman1234]

When she walked with her head high back to the dressing room, I cheered!

[@ameonna.13]

Daughter be like: This is why she shouldnt have brought so many people Me: girl, sHE SHOULDNT HAVE BROUGHT YOU TO THE STORE, AND INTO THIS WORLD

[@shanney45]

😂😂😂😂

[@marylynnneill1958]

Daughter needs to stay away.

[@anfaali7949]

And that’s on what?!!

[@toniiblack7014]

Right like you're the number one person that shouldn't have been brought

[@marylynnneill1958]

Right...no Lonise.

[@juneblogger22]

You thought I (sele) was to die for - thank you! Now I will praise you forever more!

[@kiralink4141]

I’d have sent them out and said “your invitation is under review. I’ll let you know if you’re still invited by next week”