Mum Steals Spotlight And Tries On Wedding Dress Too! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

This bride wants to find her perfect dress in a day where the spotlight is on her but with her mum getting engaged too it seems the bride’s mother is more interested in stealing the spotlight and finding herself a wedding dress than supporting her daughter.
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[@yvettefernandez722]

She's the type of mom to tell her daughter that the dress doesn't look good, then go behind her back and buy that exact same dress for her own wedding.

[@ViceCityExtra]

”Cause it looks good on her due to having better shapes’

[@jubileelinee]

RIGHT

[@taliatumbles2591]

I thought that what she would do on first dress

[@jelly4129]

Spot on lmao

[@sunflowerbarbiii]

I think she's jealous of her own daughter

[@abiforbes4964]

She also seems like the type of mom to wear a white dress to her kid's wedding.

[@hmghmg8125]

My “mother in law” threatened to wear white to my wedding. Her sister had to severely scold her and tell her it would be in very poor taste to wear white to the wedding. Furthermore, her son , my husband would be pissed 😤 for eternity.

[@guddikumari3505]

Is anything wrong with that.... Sorry if it's sounds stupid because in our country we were red colour in marriage... And it's ok if some other women were red too

[@avacadotoast5571]

@@guddikumari3505 It's considered really disrespectful.

[@d.is.4.dasia_]

@@guddikumari3505 in American culture as well as European and other cultures the bride wears white. It’s just about not wearing the same thing as the bride. Some people would show up to a wedding wearing something bride-like to draw attention to themselves away from the bride.

[@simondeinema4265]

no, not a white dress. one of those who could even go wild with her daughter's fiancé .. if that fiancé doesn't have enough common sense ..

[@CinderellaRaptured]

There needs to be a store rule. Only ONE person in the appointment is able to try on dresses. If someone else in the appointment wants to try one on, she’ll have to make her own appointment for try-ons.

[@RR-on4sk]

Yup don't even let it go there. If it's 2 brides, then fine, they can tell them that. One bride? Only one trying dresses on.

[@TEWMUCH]

Exactly. Like they shouldn't have let this happen. But hey, it's tv.

[@Norahpaws]

It's all scripted

[@frankinsaneandmyrrh1202]

I agree. but then they would have less crazy material for episodes lol

[@kurlykayla9013]

@@Norahpaws those tears weren't fake.

[@kuro.hitsuji]

"I felt like a villain" congratulations, the internet collectively agrees that you certainly were

[@ella7225]

You can tell the mother has been pulling shit like this all of her daughter’s life!

[@reenie85churchin]

I WANTED TO CRACK THE SMILE OFF OF HER MOM'S FACE! HOW DARE SHE HURT HER BABY GIRL LIKE THAT🤦🏾

[@desireehayles9353]

Yesh she's fake asf

[@essencemylyfe]

It amazes me that women like her mom can actually find someone to marry them. SMDH

[@kecym.4808]

that must be sooooo suffocating 😟

[@carlamichelle46]

ALLLLLLLLLL her life...🥴🥴🥴

[@moonbear5929]

Mom: "I don't really know what my daughter wants..." Me: You don't care what your daughter wants.

[@taranur698]

Fr

[@_shreya_9795]

Yeah ...

[@Zanityrey]

AGREED

[@denzcromacky8013]

Oop-

[@Zanityrey]

@Sina😫💗 YES IKR 🤨

[@Raz0rblade-romance]

The fact the mom had the AUDACITY to say that she didn't think her daughter would be upset is just so narcissistic

[@emilygooner9697]

Correction “didn’t think you’d be that upset” so she was fine w her being upset just not as upset as she got. Which is worse omg how awful can you be you can go back on another day. This mum has been doing crap like this ALL her life

[@Kezia.G]

The friend rolling her eyes is such a mood 😂

[@pinkeyreme]

Already saw red flags when the mom invited HER OWN FRIENDS to her daughters dress consultation. Seems like she was planning this from the beginning 😒

[@user-xe1nr6er5q]

It could of been the moms freinds are close and love the bride and the bride could have wanted them there

[@marionsellman7517]

Absolutely ...

[@linzyc4696]

@@user-xe1nr6er5q yeah but with the given info you can guess that’s not the case … her mom is pathetic

[@XenaAndKin]

I would not want my parents’ friends there, just feels extra uncomfortable where they are close like aunts or uncles but way off because they are my parents’ friends and not mine

[@user-xe1nr6er5q]

@@XenaAndKin if you grew up with your parents friends as your own with there kids too you wouldn't understand.

[@hannahadams5343]

The mom knew what she was doing when she put that dress on. She’s a horrible mother/person. Period.

[@beanicole2156]

Yeah for sure

[@jadenicole4494]

Yeen lyin bruh❤

[@bemylily]

When you say period and im on my period lol

[@JP-sg1xb]

Alot of mother's treat their daughters like crap but idolize their sons.

[@bemylily]

@Nurah Sayed hah what day are you on im on day 4

[@notpotatoz]

6:12 “Does anybody like this on me?” Please no your ruining the moment stop 😭

[@KaitoKiara]

No, you look like a narcissistic evil Disney villain.

[@Breatheintomeandmakemereal]

When her Mom walked out and said, “Hi, Chas!” was so creepy! She knew exactly what she was doing!

[@milkimoon6784]

the mom was smiling and everything like she expected the whole room to clap for her.

[@Janary08]

I was thinking that she wanted to start drama or something lol

[@colossalcow7855]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

[@ChantelLaventure]

Someone should have told her the dress looks better on her daughter.

[@Asterix_Angel33]

Nobody wants to clap for a clown 🙄

[@SweetLolita8]

I never thought a mom could be so cruel to her daughter. For her to come out smiling and expecting feedback from everyone then she’s definitely the villen

[@Rogersgirl11]

if you ever wondered what a narcissist looks like... this mother is it.

[@davidconnor4610]

Helloo How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

[@roxiewatters1161]

I was just going to comment this but I’ll just thumb up yours 😄 👍🏽 my mother is the same exact way 😖

[@kay-yd8we]

@@roxiewatters1161 im so sorry for you

[@lizzygreene5023]

As for someone with a narcissistic personality disorder, this hurts.

[@Rogersgirl11]

@@lizzygreene5023 If you have narcissistic personality disorder you are constantly making it about yourself anyways so why should I care

[@katharina...]

Chassidy is so gorgeous. Everything looks perfect on her. I hope she is living a very happy life.

[@OneandonlyFaye-bb7dx]

Same

[@sarahjamiesonn]

When Lori said "i wonder what she wanted her to look like" after the mom said she looks like a virgin in that dress is exactly what i was thinking...like who tf says that to anyone let alone your daughter....

[@jolene7744]

Exactly my point! That woman knew her daughter looked good in that dress and wanted to say something that would make her feel bad. She just wanted to spite her😭

[@bxblover4ever]

And the irony that she literally named her daughter ‘Chasity’ and uses ‘virgin’ as an insult. 🙄

[@alanamarie7114]

Bride: “I want my mom’s approval” I bet she’s been trying get that all her life!

[@bleechrcreechrr]

It amazes me that pretty much all of them say that. The mom seems like an awful person, and they're still looking for the approval! I never understand compromised on this show, you don't have to compromise with your mom, the day is about YOU. Im glad this bride got the dress she wanted

[@attyart4785]

@@bleechrcreechrr it's difficult when you live in this type of abuse... i grew up in pretty much similar shit family my whole life and i must tell you, im pretty fucked up and i know it, but still my brain seeks my mother's approvel, which will never come and i know it and still i cant stop seeking for it....

[@bleechrcreechrr]

@@attyart4785 I'm sorry I hope you are able to break the cycle. My mom was verbally and emotionally abusive, but it had the complete opposite effect on me. I didn't care what she wanted, didn't even care to talk to her. Now I feel guilty about that because she's passed, but it is what it is

[@attyart4785]

@@bleechrcreechrr sorry to hear that... but at least you didn't stuck in the circle you know... you were able to hold on to you life... it's sad when people have children and don't take care of them properly or streight abuse them.... Also the circle of seeking the approval is mostly caused when the parent acts sometimes good and sometimes bad... like when you have a bad day, they are gonna get you even deeper by harsh words, then next day they ask you how the problem is getting solved. And when you are able to work it out, it's ok and you feel for a while they care, until next time when you get too happy or problems again and they get into their psychological war with you again.... it's like constantly trying to prove them wrong and hoping they will finally stop with guilttriping you and finally start praising you for once.... some fucked up stockholm syndrom

[@alexaelliott2598]

Poor Chastity.. I hope her time away from her mother, in another country, gives her the space to see her mother’s behaviour is competitive and toxic.

[@stephanielim5544]

Yikes, she's a certified narcissist. Can't even give the day to her child.

[@user-mc9rr3qs8c]

Χδ she reminds me mine mothers 😂

[@vonniecao3991]

I cant imagine when she gave birth to her daughter. Imagine her stealing the attention back then when the attention is supposed to be on the baby and welcoming the baby to the world.

[@jemimahshekinah-shalom9758]

Sad that she could do that. It can't be taken back.

[@noname-xx9vq]

ong

[@sharonkutz8272]

Wow my mom and I went shopping alone for my wedding dress. What a mom that lady is. Its her daughter's day.very rude 😒 😑 😤 🙄

[@pbg624]

The most insincere apology I have ever heard from a mother. She knew exactly why her daughter was crying and she knew exactly what she was doing. Personally if it were me I wouldn’t invite her to the wedding.

[@engineeringontop]

0:20 bruh the mom’s face when she said IT WAS HER DAY definitely reflected what kind of person she is.

[@lisa_rue]

The mother seems like one of those people who announces they are pregnant or engaged at someone else’s wedding, or just wears white at someone’s wedding.

[@ghost_cities]

how about all three? She’d be the person who found a white dress and decides to announce that she’s pregnant and engaged.

[@tracy9492]

Girl this sounds so true 💀 she seems like the type to make everything about her

[@swetharam905]

Rachel from friends

[@nala7658]

@@swetharam905 who is?

[@swetharam905]

@@nala7658 there's a tv show called 'FRIENDS' and there was a seen where one of the character(Rachel) found out that she is pregnant when her best friend's wedding was going on

[@InTheCornerAgain]

The friend going quiet and then holding chasity telling her it’s okay is such a real one

[@erikahunter652]

bro you could see the RAGE in her eyes but she kept her cool for her girl ❤️

[@yasmine_00]

@@erikahunter652 yesss exactly

[@Jadoreeee]

Cause those were her moms friends .

[@eps678]

@@Jadoreeee no? It was her friends and her mums

[@DianaMirelly]

Ikr right. And ayyy I’m the 3 thousandth like

[@morganwilson2168]

The dress she chose is literally so perfect for her I was hoping she picked it no matter what was going on. Gorgeous

[@pandapusheen5153]

I just love how the friend was supportive and calming her when she was crying about her mom wearing a dress. That friend is was so nice to her.

[@Smiley-fv8zi]

Mom- “I felt like a villain...!” Everyone watching- “Um, maybe bc you are?!”

[@sukano1600]

Even evil people have standars

[@NAZRULISLAM-kz6yc]

@@sukano1600 indeed they do

[@mcdanielwright9172]

Wow nice comment you comment so good tell me where are you from?

[@DuchessTrinity]

I’d probably feel like a villain too if my narcissistic behavior was recorded on camera for the whole world to see and criticize me about.

[@glc7488]

Not even

[@Kookiexlicious]

“The mom needs to stop seeing her daughter as a mannequin and start seeing her as a bride” Preach girl👏🏻

[@Ari-xz9en]

Right

[@suheilealmonte1426]

army

[@gmcfarland4341]

This is not the first time the mother has attempted to upstage her daughter and try to be coy about it. The mother doesn't see her daughter as a mannequin but as competition. I know that feeling first hand. Every opportunity the mother gets to hurt and humiliate her beautiful daughter she will. It gives her pleasure causing her loving daughter pain. IMHO

[@ttee6990]

@@gmcfarland4341 the apology was not sincere. she has a body of grown woman but a persoanlity of a sick person. that doesnt love her own child. or doesnt have the capacity to love her own children

[@BriaLoveElias]

Yassss 🤗🥰

[@angeln7969]

"I felt like a villian" u are indeed 😊

[@tammykinstrue9849]

Aww! 🥺 My eyes watered when the bride started crying. The mother marred what should have been a beautiful appointment. Kudos to the staff for saving that appointment!

[@plushy2865]

Chassidy's friend who consoled her and didn't smile and actually shot a few dirty looks at her mother is a real one

[@jacquimaclennan3254]

I would have given “mom” such a bollocking. I would probably have landed up in jail. It’s bad enough when so-called friends try and steal a bride’s spotlight but when their own mother does it 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@smileymctrashbag]

I thought the same thing. The friend didn’t egg her mother on at all. She was there for her friend, and only her friend.

[@justinpullin98]

@@smileymctrashbag CYLI LOSPTI GIRLFRIEND MELISSA OILER MOTHER-IN-LAW

[@MelC0530]

Why is it always the mum

[@Deltagirl74]

@@jacquimaclennan3254 bollocking ?

[@Mia_Alise]

Then asks her “WHATS THE MATTER?” Then wonder why their kids don’t contact them anymore

[@lianavillar3881]

I lovr your profile pic

[@oceaneo4603]

@@lianavillar3881 I've noticed it after reading your comment. Glade I did !

[@oceaneo4603]

Absolutely !

[@izthistle6196]

“I feel like a villain” even at that point it’s still about HER feelings

[@calliedaly1940]

This must be the tip of the iceberg with her and her mom. How many other days have been over shadowed by her mom’s selfish behavior. I pray she had a beautiful wedding and a happy marriage

[@MusedDiaries]

2:33The first dress couldn’t be more perfect ❤ 6:02God, her face here breaks my heart. She did a great job keeping her composure until her mother left the room.

[@hollyess9281]

That first dress is insane on her. She looks SO beautiful. Don’t get me started on her toxic mum

[@kiyaelizabeth7588]

I thought the exact same thing! I dont think I've ever seen a dress look so good on someone on this show!

[@jessicajohnson5817]

Yesssss, I was stunned by it. Absolutely Gorgeous 🤗

[@provrr]

Her mom is still 21 in her mind, disgusting really, trying to compete with her daughter.

[@candlegal10311]

I didn't like it. It was that tie in the front. Not my style, BUT take that off and she would rock that dress. Oh and her mom would have walked out wearing a black eye if she tried that on me.

[@notavailable1174]

i agree, it was absolutely gorgeous and that vintage style she wanted

[@makennashuter6606]

Who wants to bet as soon as she heard her daughter was engaged the mom went out and did everything possible to get engaged?

[@Yanniee.]

She could possibly even fake the engagement just to get the attention🥴

[@simplysheronda]

Oh goodness I said the same thing.. lol

[@ipshitakanungo3025]

I am betting

[@brandiwainwright5754]

My husbands mom to a T. She was never married, and had just broken up with a borderline abusive man two days before we got engaged. When we announced our engagement she took us out to a movie to announce her own engagement to that same guy and they got married the next day. She even said in her own wedding she couldn't let her son be the first one down the aisle.

[@deekswarner7283]

I thought it was fishy that the moms friends were there , even though it's not her day

[@Magarni326]

Her mom defines the word “disgusting.”

[@Finn_nl]

That mom makes me so mad, like, it’s your daughter, YOUR DAUGHTER. COME ON MAN-she looked beautiful

[@naseemajalal6782]

The mother's behavior was awful. The bride's friends who came to comfort her was so sweet and caring. We all need a friend like her

[@lifeofneacy3891]

Where's her grandmother at ?? ( her mother's mother ) ??? she would have say something bad to her mom ( the daughter ) bc it's bout ur baby girl getting married NOT about you mother just because you're engage as well

[@Blackmagix411]

I bet she is the kind of person that only got pregnant for attention

[@ericaadams2183]

It’s like they expected the mother’s behavior

[@ananya1666]

@@lifeofneacy3891 not everyones granny lives that long or maybe she isnt present there? who knows

[@Jtorie]

I'm your 1k like

[@piamishelle]

her mother seems like the type of mother who has been manipulating and gaslighting her daughter out of jealousy her entire life

[@sarahalbers5555]

I know that feeling. It's very upsetting and eats away at any confidence you might have. My mom is extremely manipulative, usually with an ulterior motive.

[@dotnb]

Agreed

[@katkay9923]

@@sarahalbers5555 just how she was talking about herself the entire time was so tone dead

[@PhoeNix-sz4kl]

I know the feeling quite well.

[@gypsyhermitishtarot]

PERIOD

[@pamelajackson6730]

It was heartbreaking to see the pain the mom caused. I'm glad her daughter was happy in the end.

[@GodChangeMeBetter4HisKingdom]

The mom wants it all about her, that's crazy. She knew it would hurt it....She looks stunning in #1.

[@shannansmith2188]

Am I the only one who heard Mom say, "I didn't think it would bother you THIS MUCH".. wow

[@bunnyslippers191]

Right there is her admission that she knew it would bother her daughter. She just didn't know it would "bother her this much."

[@allisond5669]

I know like if it hurt a little mom would be ok with that.

[@tashah7437]

Nope, I heard her. The lies

[@kuuipo823]

If my mom did this to me she would've said "get a grip its not that deep stop crying." And I'd cry more because knowing her,she wouldn't care how upset id be. She would think I'm overreacting and it's not a big deal.

[@victoriaevans8074]

The mom was Totally Wrong! She Was Jealous and Intentionally Inflicted Emotional Pain on Her Daughter. Mom Went Way To Far!!! She Forever Left a Permanent Stain on The Beautiful Brides, Emotional Memory Book. I Am Sure That The Bride Will Be Very Happy Living Away From Her Jealous, Controlling, Intentionally Inflicting Emotional Pain, Immature Mother..Smh

[@felipeadventures1138]

“I felt like a villain” LADY YOU ARE A VILLAIN

[@Augiegrl12]

Good! Someone said it

[@eileenmcdonald1599]

You are much kinder with your wording then i would be

[@Umeshukitsune]

Notice how it's "I felt like a villain" and not "I felt ashamed I hurt my daughter." She only cares how she's percieved.

[@mskinalenee]

That part!! Her mother could have made a separate appointment so that she could have her moment and let her daughter enjoy her moment trying on dresses and sharing that with her.

[@emilyriley6029]

With that third dress I was like “nah” UNTIL I saw her walk out. Chassidy really does makes everything look amazing on her!

[@emilyriley6029]

Yo the bride looks so beautiful! And that first dress was STUNNING. I LOVE vintage/vintage wedding dresses so she’s got great taste! There’s nothing wrong with taking a step back in time to find inspiration for your wedding dress

[@MusedDiaries]

I agree, it’s beautiful. I would love it with long sleeves, but that’s just me.

[@jessaflores7591]

It’s ironic that the mom used the word virgin as an insult, yet named her daughter Chasity. 😂

[@dupinderdhindsa4331]

What's the meaning of chasity ?

[@jessaflores7591]

@@dupinderdhindsa4331 purity

[@raina2319]

@@dupinderdhindsa4331 its chastity. Sorry i am a bit of a grammar nazi I just saw that they spell it as chassidy

[@joliearanda6481]

@@raina2319 tf is chase"tity" Lmao you really saw & pronounced that word and thought that was her name

[@joliearanda6481]

@@raina2319 why would tity be in her name lmaoo

[@meganswistak1144]

I love how she named her daughter Chastity and then virgin-shamed her

[@LadyofDragonstone]

her name is Chassidy but i get your point

[@natalieeubank4533]

She is already married, so not that big of a deal

[@amirabelhafsi4712]

What does it mean that she named her Chastity ? I don't understand

[@meganswistak1144]

@@amirabelhafsi4712chastity is when you abstain from sex

[@Gisella16]

@@meganswistak1144 oh

[@JosephineOliver-qh1te]

I was fuming, I was boiling over, how dare she do that to her daughter, she's a witch! It's like she got a knife and stuck it into her daughter's heart! I hope she has a beautiful wedding day 🤗💗 💐

[@grayb7420]

Mom is selfish, this is a moment to remember, have separate appointments.

[@micaiahshepherds8890]

When she walked in an said "hi Chass" that was very sadistic

[@cassidykelner3520]

it reminded me of a horror movie, just how she said it

[@micaiahshepherds8890]

@@villalbapatinomariamilagro7351 ikr...cringe

[@JustD402]

reminded me of a tik tok sound 😭🤚 “Hi chass...”

[@dancingfirefly7761]

How was that sadistic?

[@micaiahshepherds8890]

@@dancingfirefly7761 maybe you should consult your dictionary.

[@xoyouaremysunshinexo]

Her daughters friends GET it. They didn't react to the mom at all and seemed annoyed that she was even there. I'm sure they've heard it ALL about that woman, cause if she did THIS, she's been doing shit her whole life.

[@xoyouaremysunshinexo]

@Adelita Verdonck ​ A loving mother would NEVER try on wedding dresses on her daughters fitting day UNLESS the daughter okay'd it whether she's also engaged or not. Dress shopping is supposed to be all about the BRIDE, it's a super special moment, finding THE dress. The mom was sneaky and made the DAUGHTERS day about HER which is incredibly inappropriate. She clearly was trying to upstage her daughter. The fact that everyone in the comments and the damn owner/employees understood how inappropriate this should tell you that you're missing something. The mom IS a villain, she's a narcissist, self-centered, and mean to do that to her own damn daughter.

[@orleans-bourbon4500]

@Adelita Verdonck bruh, her mother is narcisstic asf🤦🏻‍♀

[@magzjay2458]

@Adelita Verdonck If you do not get why this is inappropriate and sad...please do not have children. The mom has every opportunity after that day to make her own appt and try on dresses. You want the spotlight on you as a bride with your mom being supportive and lifting the weight of preparing for wedding off of your shoulders, not embarrassing you and making it all about her. She is self-absorb and you can see it in the daughters eyes

[@rollingblade7582]

@Adelita Verdonck on which era did you exist before this one?

[@christinearcher441]

@Adelita Verdonck di

[@cosmos-cat]

When the mum said “I didn’t think it would bother you THAT much” like she though oh it’ll hurt her but only a bit like whattt

[@Not_anna12343]

This is how you ruin a relationship with your daughter.

[@sadde_s5386]

Her mother is a narcissist, she didn't feel no remorse, guilt or no nothing except seeing how disapproved her behavior was and then proceeds to act like she care.

[@queenjada7856]

The most unexcusable behavior I've ever seen in this show mother and fathers needs to know their place cuz it's not there wedding

[@tink6225]

idk who would engage someone like thst

[@elainedrinksmatcha]

unrelated but i love your pfp

[@trishasubin8611]

I mean it’s just one dress. I’m sure the mother did so much for the daughter and one dress she puts on she can’t handle it?

[@otakuweeb8557]

@Adelita Verdonck I see you a lot going above and beyond defending her. You’re both wrong , goodbye

[@chaffin1013]

The mother is hateful, selfish, egotistical, and vain. Frankly if that were my mother acting that way, she'd have lost her chance to be at the wedding. No excuse for it.

[@nutellacelery8830]

I don't think she is? She came off more as an ignorant mother to me. I think the dress trying was staged(the timing was too perfect). And the rest was selfish, I agree but it was selfish in a way where she was thinking of herself as a friend(a bad one) rather than a mother. She made self-centered and uncalled for comments but it wasn't meant to hurt anyone and once she realized her mistake she corrected her behavior. She was being terrible but she isn't as bad as you put her out to be.

[@gisellesinclair6811]

It’s all scripted.

[@a.a131]

You wanted to say Narcissist? Because yes

[@dilpickle3012]

Same bro. OUT I SAY, OUT

[@dairyqueendropout8173]

@@nutellacelery8830 agreed. i also feel like considering it's tv, none of us actually know her or how she is most of the time. i feel like people like to make statements describing how someone on tv is as a whole based on one portrayal of them. a lot of the times it just feels kinda exaggerated or kinda shallow because it's as if you actually know that person, ya know? i'm also not sure how many people would completely ban their mothers from coming to their wedding because of something like this, i guess it would depend on the relationship

[@christinemohr8788]

Omg. These brides and their families approvals. Are they wearing the dress? You know you can love your family and wear a dress you love at the same time

[@AddieBeasock]

i love how they always stand up for the bride

[@marywrenn5262]

I think I appreciate how quiet they all remained when her mum walked out in that dress. They weren't going to give her a single word of their attention. Perfect response to such awful behaviour.

[@aishabenyahmin2777]

Exactly. You ignore narcs. Their only food in life is attention and approval. Actually very weak.

[@melrobertson2743]

Does anyone like this on me??? I would have said something but most of it would have beeped out. Nope ugly will always look ugly no matter what dress you have on

[@ericag5346]

@@melrobertson2743 geez ugly isn't just outside, it's words too and saying mean things although you think they deserve it isn't pretty either... just ignore them. They handled it the best way by ignoring her, not being uneducated and cussing her out 😒🙄

[@snesquiks]

@@ericag5346 how does cussing someone out make you look uneducated?

[@ericag5346]

@@snesquiks I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you

[@catherinebrown9300]

“Want my mom’s approval”...”least I can do for my mom”...lemme just say, these are sayings that come from the psychological conditioning of an emotionally abusive mother.

[@ravishing2810]

its HER DAY SHES A GROWN ADULT she can choose what she wants

[@user-eq2tp1gz1r]

same my heart broke when I heard those

[@jademartinez2199]

It makes me so sad when I hear almost all the brides on this show say that.

[@Ananya-cl6wh]

In her case, sure. But not every child who wants his parents' approval comes from an emotionally abusive fam.

[@jademartinez2199]

@@Ananya-cl6wh Yes, that's true. But having abusive parents in one way or another is mostly the case nowadays

[@Natsunoyo2]

This mother is outrageous...

[@lenastorm6280]

The first dress the bride put on was so gorgeous!

[@AnnMarieKing]

This mother's emotional immaturity is absolutely stunning.

[@sataniccat-girlwithagun3300]

THIS 👏😭

[@ZeeBug15]

I DIdNT ThInk It WOulD BothER yOu ThaT mUCh

[@ingrid_inthesky]

The mom's a complete clown. I bet she's engaged to a 20 something year old.

[@user-rn4yo7et1m]

@@ZeeBug15 she really said THAT much so she already knew it was gonna both her smh 🤦‍♀️

[@CamilleXCavelle]

Aaht!!!! 😂😂😂🤣

[@lyric5422]

Just from how the daughter talks, you can tell she has been a victim of narcissistic abuse. “The least I can do for my mom is try it on” “I don’t like the embellishment, but I know my mom would love it. I can compromise”. She doesn’t feel like she can have her own moment. She has to share it with her mother because she knows how much her mother hates not having something be about her.

[@axelblaze6950]

As a victim of a narassistic mother, I definitely relate...

[@cotton7507]

@@axelblaze6950 same :/

[@axelblaze6950]

@@cotton7507 it's a struggle aha

[@cotton7507]

@@axelblaze6950 it rlly is ;/

[@tiffanyjones8853]

I bet she's overjoyed that she'll be moving oversees, away from her mom. I hope she finds happiness.

[@salishawheeler76]

She looked very beautiful in her chosen dress. It was made for her. Her mom was wrong for what she did, but am glad they made up. ❤

[@christinefarrell6333]

Sadly, I know what the pain of feeling betrayed by your mom’s words feels like. It had nothing to do with a wedding dress but the punch in the gut felt the same. Mom’s be gone for almost 17 years but I felt the same pain watching this as that day 29 years ago.😢

[@christinagonzales4701]

If the mom wanted to see how the dress looked on her, she could’ve just stayed in the dressing room... like why come out and RUIN your daughters appointment.

[@rizwanarahman4078]

That evil lady didn't want to see!.... actually she wanted to show!

[@weltonvillegal6258]

Because she’s a narcissist. The type that should never give birth.

[@canned_can_chan4590]

I personally never get why american brides always want all the attention on them. But if thats what makes them happy then pop off!! And noone should take it away from them and hurt their feelings

[@elizabethg2062]

If she wanted to try that very dress on, she should have booked her own appointment. Her 1 job was to sit there and smile when her beautiful daughter showed off the dresses.

[@uh6805]

@@elizabethg2062 exactly

[@angelrivers3910]

The mother was Extremely Wrong in what she did to her daughter.

[@sndlady.]

Thats not a mother, she acts like a bad friend.

[@theeye2702]

She was “sorry” ONLY after breaking her spirit… typical emotionally abusive mom

[@brooklynforever1990]

Exactly right

[@ladennayoung2939]

My mom is so toxic. She don't even express that she is sorry then. She still make it about her, and act like I'm the one that is wrong. Because I became agitated.

[@koalasaw]

“I didn’t think it would bother you that much”, so you knew what you were doing was wrong. Total emotional abuse

[@St0nedMothbb]

Exactly.

[@boppyie]

my mom doesnt even say sorry, she goes sarcastically "I'm ALWAYS the villain, you will look back at this when I'm dead and regret it"

[@degenerateteen2770]

I feel so bad for her bruh, she should never have to “compromise” for a wedding dress to make her mom happy. And then her momma trying one on her day??? What in the hell?

[@TJ-086]

Lamo right

[@pudding2310]

Ikr

[@notadvertised5089]

@Sophie L seriously, I mean it’s one of the MOST IMPORTANT day of her life, not her mothers. If her mother wants her special day well, she can wait after her daughters day.

[@coquillepeace]

thats a "love from a distance" type of momma

[@iisiimplycuteirisii3259]

Idk how the mom isnt even embarrassed or sorry or knows why her daughter is sad, it's so obvious. Actually the mom does know what she's doing.

[@dhw3216]

How that daughter turned out to be such a kind soul, with a mother like that, is beyond me.

[@Kyndall_Marie25]

I think kids with mean/abusive/narcissistic parents know what its like to be treated that way and treat people the other way cause they know how horrible it is

[@prettyhandsomegang5227]

@@Kyndall_Marie25 facts but some also pick up them ways you ever met someone horrible and then you meet there parents lol

[@amanituelle]

@@prettyhandsomegang5227 this is so true my grandmother is like that sadly

[@destinygardner474]

Sometimes that happens.

[@MiaGrace2348]

The graphic said “Step Mother” so maybe she didn’t actually raise her Actually never mind I misread it

[@Kumahachi8]

Welcome to the next episode of It’s Not Your Bloody Wedding.

[@dahlia8608]

Lol

[@kerrystone7375]

Lol. Judging by the amount of interfering mothers, they'd have plenty of content to start a new series 🤣

[@iamdokyeommysterymystery9555]

@@kerrystone7375 🤣🤣

[@mctheobeymebunny190]

They shoukdve called it that

[@marybowesobrien7185]

This is a brilliant comment and sadly so true .👎😱

[@bibishibal]

SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL

[@starrr-rb8ep]

4:27 i would've gave her that exact sam side eye cus girl wdym you wanna see it on you now...like you're NOT the center of attention.. it's your daughters day not you and your daughter, like girl please. And can we appreciate how they were dead silent when she walked out in that dress? AS THEY SHOULDDDD and how the girl comforted her immediately awww

[@selenalemiec2549]

I am so glad she ended up with the first one, because the moment she put it on, I was like, "GET. THAT. ONE." it's like it was made for her. Stunning.

[@kristinaterry152]

100% first dress. So beautiful

[@spectral_boi239]

That dress literally took my breath away shes STUNNING in it

[@kiralink4141]

So rare for that to happen, but holy shit it was made for her.

[@catsrus-es9eu]

It was perfect 🥰

[@LyricalXilence]

I liked #3 to be honest. But there's too much drama attached to it now.

[@BumblerBee]

I love how mom acts like she didn't know she was hurting her daughter, then to lie to the camera and say she was remorseful when she clearly wasn't is so gross.

[@ash5764]

I know😭

[@sailorathena17]

That was down right LOW and MOM KNEW THAT! It’s your DAUGHTER’s Appointment! If I were the daughter I’d tell her “You broke my trust, get out of my dressing room and out of my appointment! Now!”

[@aquariusrising7019]

Narc

[@Cheddar_Shred]

That's my mom in a nutshell

[@ash5764]

@@Cheddar_Shred Damn. I'm sorry man. Im only 11 and parents sure can be that way. :(

[@koshkascornerarts]

She looks so stunning in her dress!! I hope her wedding was wonderful !!

[@MAI_CHAN69]

I absolutely love how people are so supportive towards the daughter & realizing how evil the mother is 😌

[@beeziebubs2756]

She didn’t even apologize. “I didn’t think it would bother you that much,” and, “I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings,” aren’t apologies. She’s putting all of the blame on Chassidy for reacting and being upset, and only straightened out when people made her feel like the villain.

[@beeziebubs2756]

@Twicexxiii It wasn’t an apology. Her, “Sorry,” was laced with phrases like, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much,” and, “I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings,” which actively works against any apology she would’ve given. It places the blame on the person who was hurt over the person who caused the pain, and, honestly, I don’t think her mom believes she did anything wrong. An apology is meaningless when you follow it up with, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much.”

[@nala7658]

Typical narcissistic behaviour all round

[@brooklyn.d2390]

She said “I’m sorry I did that”

[@kianmcbeth6018]

@Twicexxiii the mom was gaslighting her

[@ionabab7274]

I think that they definitely can be used in an apology. In my opinion the main issue with her apology wasn’t what she said, but how she said it. It just came off as quite insincere and not genuine.

[@zay73]

The mom would definitely be the type of person to announce she’s pregnant during someone’s wedding.

[@vibes4123]

She would

[@mauricewilliams1110]

Exactly

[@fumikmiu4258]

And without telling the bride and the other ( I don't have the English word for this srry)

[@joeholmes142]

Groom

[@mayarcher5832]

You made me lol. That hardly ever happens, thank you. Also, yes. That prolly happened at the reception. 🤣

[@SpringTrap-4ever]

Unfortunately I know how she feels... My mother is my bestfriend but I have yet to have that moment where she is my best friend AND my mom.

[@samanthapina877]

There’s so much I can say about that woman. Yes you’re engaged as well but it wasn’t your appointment. She knew why nobody said anything when she came out in the dress. That’s why she said oh maybe I should take it off

[@mj-rg9kp]

Chassidy’s mom: “I feel like a villain” Me: “After trying to ruin your daughter’s moment, yes you are!!”

[@taydemecho8413]

She looks like one too… no offense haha

[@garnet9788]

Right! Like why go if you’re going to act like this

[@Zera223]

Yeah bitch Maleficent.

[@virginiahall4030]

Why even bring her cause paying where the support and love.

[@serayahdirani7971]

Yes

[@zacedwardxox]

I don’t understand why people have kids just to treat them like this. Poor girl

[@istanacrackheadcommunity-h572]

Ugh ikr

[@dianebalch5369]

What a comment! Did you think mothers and daughters don't have momentary, small disagreements??

[@summerbuck2136]

@@dianebalch5369 she STOLE her day, the day was about the daughter finding her dress not her mum

[@sleeplesssongbird7625]

@@dianebalch5369 This is not a small disagreement though-- this is a mother whom clearly is the child in the mother-daughter relationship taking over an appointment that clearly meant a lot to the bride, and not only that, but rather than using constructive criticism or explaining her dislike of the initial dress the bride chose for herself, tearing her self-esteem down, and this behavior has likely gone on for years. If the mother wanted an appointment, she could have made her own following her daughter's or at a different time. She's so entitled and self-absorbed she didn't even have remorse for her choice to steal the dress and the appointment until she realized by everyone's disapproval how her image looked. The daughter should stand up and kick her out of the wedding, in my opinion at least.

[@bellerain381]

@@dianebalch5369 everyone has small arguments...this is the mother crossing the line and not thinking about her daughter!!

[@chanipapupan4337]

The first dress is so gorgeous on her!

[@teresawhite4913]

She wins the Most Selfish Mother award. I would not have my mother attend.

[@shototodoroki3292]

Stop talking about the mom, she’s gonna start thinking she’s a celebrity or some shit.

[@yumnmohamedniyaz6893]

Lmaaooo ngl thats prob whats gonna happen

[@rosemarydudley9954]

Shoto Dodoroki --- The mother is certainly no celebrity but she IS some SHIT. I would hate a mother like her.

[@haileygrove.]

she probably already does -also stan Todoroki

[@greenbean1535]

😐😐😐😐

[@taetaes_teacup1810]

LMAO

[@laudashra]

The first dress was absolutely beautiful on her!! I can’t believe how crazy her mom was

[@semajjphilly88]

GORGEOUS

[@shannettethompson686]

I agree with everything you said

[@Dimez05]

Yesss her first dress was stunning

[@occasionalgamer8092]

@@semajjphilly88 p

[@dmm7736]

Literally, who wouldn’t want to look pure and innocent and radiate joy on their wedding? For her mom to say looking like a virgin is a bad thing… ugh. It almost felt as if she was shaming her daughter in a “I can’t believe you’re wanting to project a fake image of yourself.” To say my blood boiled is an understatement.

[@queenbee-fz5yn]

I cried the first dress is gorgeous

[@cassaundraturner7302]

I have NO words! This poor girl ... probably been dealing with her Mom's behavior all her life 🥺

[@lolitadanylchuk463]

This is the type of mom that would hook up with her daughter's boyfriend and say I'm not sorry for hooking up with your boyfriend.

[@eh2881]

Omg yes

[@wdyd_masterattwitch4956]

Or, "I'm sorry he found me more attractive."

[@nayeligonzalez13]

@@wdyd_masterattwitch4956 yes, somehow I totally heard that phrase in her voice

[@adorekiz]

Theres a comment just like this- 👁👄👁

[@warjdani]

Omg yes definitely get vibes like that.

[@audreypennington9314]

*“I felt like a villain”* Gurl…you are. There is no “felt” it just “am” cuz you are..

[@prettyhandsomegang5227]

Facts she knows she the villain and loves it

[@amorrissey9264]

I love how everyone pretended to not know that the mom was putting on a dress to come out with...

[@Unknown-ew8vl]

@@amorrissey9264 ikk that was honestly a good thing, just ignoring the mom

[@czarinajohnson6074]

Her name is Harlene… she’s probably marrying the damn Joker

[@amorrissey9264]

@@czarinajohnson6074 I was thinking Harlene....uhh harlot lol BUT only because of the virginity thing and her daughter's name. It's probably derived from her dad being named Harry/Harold or something. I met a lady named FredAnn once 😅

[@444Billie]

As a mom of 4 daughters, this is unimaginable. If you MUST try something on, do it after. This is terrible. This poor girl. She is beautiful and I'm glad she found the dress she loves.

[@kuro.hitsuji]

Make your own appointment MOM! My god, what a narcissist. Chas was thinking of both herself and her mom and mom was only thinking of herself! What a selfish woman! She should have never been invited!

[@justarandomrat3235]

Mom: "It makes you look like a virgin" *Wait isn't that a good thing?*

[@unofficialbeautyqueen6624]

That’s why it’s good to just do what makes you happy because society is always going to be unhappy with what you do. People insult virgins for being virgins and insult non virgins for not being virgins, it’s crazy.

[@mahnoorahmad1690]

@@unofficialbeautyqueen6624 ikr? it’s so weird how guys are made fun of if they’re virgins, and girls are called sluts if they have sex. I wish people would just leave others alone and let them live their own lives.

[@maryjane2217]

At the end of the day let's all just be happy with ourselves and not care about what society expects us to be we're all beautiful as who we are 🥰💕😍💗☺️

[@jemmajens9583]

It really shouldn’t be an insult or a compliment

[@R.S.G615]

@@mahnoorahmad1690 patriarchy

[@elenaarango3003]

The sad thing is that the mother doesn't understand why it was bad. She just adjusted her behavior after seen everybodys disapproval and seen she was playing the "villian". No remorse, no shame, no guilt at all. She didn't regret hurt her daughters feelings but having a bad image on tv.

[@shrgh1876]

Narcissists don't..if you tell them there are other people on this planet and that they have feelings too, they stare at you like you're joking

[@MLMLW]

@@shrgh1876 - Exactly! This mother is definitely narcissistic.

[@patsyspry6248]

Of course she does! The Mother knows and DOESN’T CARE!

[@luciechapello1008]

@@shrgh1876 You are right on this mother!

[@Rosewolf29]

The mom is the definition of an entitled narcissist. like hi hello, mother, I'm the one getting married, let's make today about me. your engaged too, but we're here for me. sit yo ass down.

[@elizabethmcandrew4985]

Good to see the daughter is so sensible and sees right through her mother. Probably used to mommy coming first all her life.

[@goodvibesstation7835]

I watch some of the parents on these shows and I’m glad I have the parents I have.

[@mkbXD]

the first dress literally took my breath away. she looked STUNNING in it

[@crazysusanaita619]

Agree

[@emmalovesyourdog]

and with a cute veil and a blingly necklace!!!

[@annettemumford2128]

Here mother is horrible ignorant doesn't really care She need to tell her to leave Is she going to tell her how to take care of her man

[@kateangaluafe1577]

RIGHT!!!

[@britneyhouston-escajeda7246]

Agreed