I'm 21, single and happier than I've ever been....

For the men out there who may have had it rough, this one is for you, ladies you are also welcome.
We live in a world where we get to choose how we live our lives, when bad things happen we cry, when good things happen we smile. Breakups are normal, as men it is how we learn. It is a great motivator to keep pushing on. To wake up to reality.
It's tough going through emotional roller coasters as a man, but mostly we pretend it isn't real. That's because we don't see the bigger picture. The world was meant for us to grow.
I have never spoken about my past relationships but now I am well on the path to bettering myself I am finally happy to talk about it.
Also for the blokes who
did have a breakup, have this (It might help)
www.benjaminjwhittaker.com.au/

[@afonsosampaio5043]

I'm 27 now, when I was exactly 21 I had a breakup which turned my life upside down, probably the lowest point I've ever been in, this was in late 2018. I agree with pretty much everything you've gone through in the video, that breakup was a huge catalyst in my life, 6 years after and I can say that without that I would be nowhere near where I am now, they say you have to know hell in order to get to heaven and heaven is fucking beautiful bro, I hope your journey is as wonderful and priceless as mine was 6 years ago, peace from Portugal.

[@BenjaminJWhittaker]

Wow Portugal 🔥🌎 thanks brother, everything you said is 100%. We definitely have that in common. Well done getting through it too ❤️

[@adamkuklych6672]

If a person cannot accept you for who you are, then it is they who have the problem. As long as you are a good person, then that statement holds true always. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you Ben. There is absolutely nothing wrong with most of us who watch this video too. We are all different. That's what helps make the world to be such a dynamic place to be in.

[@BenjaminJWhittaker]

Its all part of learning, I am in a position where I felt talking about how I delt with it might help someone 🙃

[@Nate_dew]

Definitely subbing thanks for the video dude

[@BenjaminJWhittaker]

Thanks for the sub! You are most welcome 🔥🔥

[@nataliamrowiec1384]

I loved that video, I think that a lot of guys tend to think that they are not good enough/not in the right place right now so they shouldnt be in a relationship and thats alright! But if you want to thats not a right reason. Thinking like that you will never be „good enough”. Improving yourself is the best but remember that you already are the best version of you at the moment. There is noone like you, you are special :) And i dont think that she was better than you, you were just thinking badly of yourself. Dont let your thoughts drag yourself down - they are just thoughts after all :D Anyway love your honesty Sorry for bad grammar or anything. English is not my native language :)

[@BenjaminJWhittaker]

Wow thanks so much for this, yeah I agree. I think there are moments in every mans life where he has a major learning point. For me I dont think it was her being better but at the time she was definitely more intellectually gifted. Thank you ❤️

[@edsonrodrigues8140]

Não tenha pressa pelas coisas futuras , viva um dia de cada vez. A felicidade está nas coisas simples da vida. Tudo tem seu tempo certo pra acontecer. Você é uma pessoa simples e verdadeira. Gosto muito do seu bom humor. Seja sempre assim.

[@BenjaminJWhittaker]

Just being myself ☺️🌎