I slipped up and now his behavior has changed | Talks with Tony

[@Nel164]

Honestly if a man sets out to make you confused he’s not interested. A man who truly likes you will make it known. Don’t waste your time

[@ButterCookie1984]

Good point

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

Soooo true! It’s so frustrating!!!

[@thekimberlynproject]

💯

[@MS-ns4ki]

A man into me should not be looking or talking to anyone else. I feel awful.

[@zuum-sx7ke]

True! The ones not interested will confuse you. They never say a yes or no. They talk in riddles. 😶😑

[@LaurenRosetta00]

Anytime a guy is "constantly on his phone" you must do what Tony always says, put on your track shoes! "ghat tah go!"

[@ambermarie8554]

What does that mean when that is going on?

[@roshandaturner681]

😭😂

[@misshappily3387]

Gone bout yo business!! 🤣🤣😂

[@robinyoung555]

After 5 years I went back to spend sometimes with him. The reason I left him alone for that lone is the same reasons I see now. I called him out about texting out women while in my presence. Him receiving phone calls from other women while I am in his presence. I was placed in “the friend zone”. He is not for me. He got made cause I called him out. I told him that he is a player. He was to good to be true. Rich, professional soccer player and had everything together but yet not married yet. Red flags! “Friend zone”

[@LaurenRosetta00]

​@@ambermarie8554 All funny business aside, the phone is an addictive device. Some people have an addictive personality and really enjoy spending time on their phones. A lot of people even work from their phones. This innocent behavior can still be a sign of disrespect/lack of interest when the intention is to spend quality time together. It isn't fair and it isn't quality time if one person is distracted, on their phone not paying attention. On the more negative side of things, it could mean he is distracted by other women. It is called quality time and attention, which is vital to a healthy relationship. The phone gives access to the outside world. Keep an eye out for this particular red flag but never go through a guy's phone without his permission. If he doesn't grant permission, give him the side-eye and "put on your track shoes." Never argue and fight with a guy over his phone. Sometimes an iPhone is the only prized possession people (men) have and it is sad.

[@justmayson1498]

Girl .... go and be a doctor. Be successful and move on.

[@fabulousmdb7927]

One thing I've learned by listening to Tony's videos is that some, if not most women are out here doing the absolute most. She said SHE decided to shake things up and SHE assumed he was bored. He never initiated anything and he knew he didn't have to. He just planted the seed. These men don't have to do a thing to win our attention or affection. They just sit back and watch us fall all over ourselves. And it's sad.

[@BeautyWithinKakra]

I think women ( maybe l should make it about me -old me- feel kinda Unstable/lost stable when we feel a man will no longer get excited about us. And I’m attempt to “get the magic back” we compromise. I agree with you wholeheartedly that it was my insecure playing in me rather. Had I held those standards that I set beforehand, I would’ve had a different ending 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@deliteful1991]

This was a word!

[@christineporter9914]

Amen, so true

[@DawneMega]

Good point.... Imagine she bowed out gracefully instead of doing this. Well, when you know better you do better.

[@sweetolives2467]

So true

[@bsalifu82]

Hear this from someone who learned the hard way. Let him go. You are better than what he think of you.

[@mmxw2294]

A men that is interested in you will show you just that if they don’t then let it go

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

YOU GOT THAT RIGHT !!!!👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

[@nikkyshamz2696]

when a man is all about you, you'll never have to wonder....all his actions will show you how he feels about you

[@trinasworld9377]

I believe these women need to stop commiting themselves emotionally with men who genuinely just not that invested in them.

[@nicoleb9047]

I made that mistake on my first “love” (lasted 8 years), although he is physically out of my life, emotionally I haven’t been able to let go yet. The thoughts of him moving on with someone else still haunt me. Do you have any tips for how to let go?

[@Isa-Amor]

@@nicoleb9047 day by day it gets better. Time does heal. Keep busy. Remember why you left

[@phoenixrising2759]

@A BCD Be careful with your judgement of others. Your strength may be her weakness, just as your weakness may be another's strength. Healing is a lifelong journey for all of us.⚘

[@phoenixrising2759]

@@nicoleb9047 yes, give the unconditional love that you have for him back to yourself. Make yourself happy, become the person you hope to attract. It's time to practice self love. Continue on your healing journey and you will soon lose interest in anyone who does not love you in the same way.⚘

[@nessparadis6948]

@@nicoleb9047 , you need to do the work to get over him. I believe Tony Gaskins has a few free courses to help. You have to be watching him daily. Focus on the three Bs: brain, body, and body. Focus on you and being a better you. It helped me heal.

[@InspiredUno]

She’s needs to focus on medicine and her career. Forgive and move on from him!

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

Great Advice.

[@LadyAngela678]

He lost respect for her when she got down on her knees for him. He might sexualize those kind of women but that doesnt mean he wants to be with them.

[@JoannA-sweetly]

yeah, sad....

[@lesj.7046]

People always start their emails with "I listen to all your videos" then go on to list everything that goes against what Tony says in all his videos. That's why they're in the situations.

[@lesj.7046]

@@LA-wv7gf yup. Then that they had sex

[@lekeshial418]

Never do something you're uncomfortable with, to appease someone else. PERIOD.She wanted to be abstinent, she should've stayed abstinent.(with no alternatives)Had she stuck to that, He would've revealed himself, and she could move on with ease. She's struggling because she compromised her morals. Also stuck because she's intelligent and thought she was smarter than falling for the "okie doke".

[@lekeshial418]

@@LA-wv7gf Right! There's no way he saw her the same, after that.

[@Stormy867]

You are so right 💯

[@Banana-lk7tf]

@@LA-wv7gf I really think it depends on the woman, though. I was a virgin til the age of 25, almost 26, but was able to give/receive oral from the age of 21, without feeling attachment towards the guy. Now, when I first attempted to have intercourse, at 24, (we were not able to physically do it), I got my heartbroken afterwards. We had attempted to "make love" only once, but then, broke up a few days later. It took me forever to get over the guy, like several years. The only reason I even had sex at 25 was because I had spiraled into self destructive behaviour, which included drinking and lots of guys, to try and get over the first guy. I was a mess. I really think sex is a whole different beast, compared to oral. But, that's my opinion.

[@teishawoods3830]

💯

[@susanntillzxo3626]

Boy, I remember when my ex said Tony is a fake who gives false advice and that I had to stop watching his videos. Lol I just know he mad mad right now, that I’ve applied Tony’s teachings to everything I do today. Super blessed to have insight from our brother in Christ, without these videos I’d probably still be compromising my values and body to that clown 🤡

[@aneshrathomas]

Can’t put nothing past no man but The quiet ones you gotta watch out for most definitely

[@honeywest39j95]

Agreed.. I gotta admit that the quiet ones are intriguing and pull me in. I had a child with the quiet type; so I know that you are telling the truth.

[@KrystleLaughter]

He's no longer interested in you. Time to move on.

[@jewelsafire6844]

Time wasters are here to stay. Be your own BFF and snatch yourself out of the mess. You tried it & it didn't work. Move on. Time is too precious to be wasting on dead-end relationships.✌🏽👌🏽

[@nikkyshamz2696]

facts

[@escalatinghope]

Honestly, I truly believe we women, spend so much time on a man that does not value us. I was once a victim of this, NO MORE. We really have to understand the concept of "HEALTHY " self-love. I wish the Queen the best and hope she has moved on to a King that truly values her and respects her values. Thanks again, Tony.

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

When you said the doctor looked at your wife’s ultrasound then looked at your head and said “well it might not change” 😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard

[@UniversoulLady]

I spent several years with an abusive man who would get jealous if I was friendly with his friends. After leaving that relationship, I noticed myself being unfriendly to other men, thinking I was doing the right thing for the man I was dating. But over time I realized that was a trauma response and started feeling comfortable to speak again. A confident and healthy man would never be angry about me being kind nor cordial to his friends.

[@shan4145]

Happen to me to and he was a decade older than me. Thank goodness I got myself out of it . He was a cheater, abusive in every way, a habitual liar, he pretends to be nice to other people only to gain something from them and had a white bible . He loved the fact that his daughter and son that are born on the 6 , because it’s 666 including him. He smirks when telling people that . He is a hostile diabolical nefarious , satanic thing

[@14kurtismiller]

It sounds like your ex was worried about one of his friends informing you on something that he didn't tell you.

[@susanntillzxo3626]

Yes, I agree. I went through the same thing. This one time my ex was so jealous that his best mate cracked my neck (chiropractor stuff). Mind you, his best mate was also doing other people. Next day I get told off “wow, you let another man touch you” 🤦🏽‍♀️ I was so baffled by his comment, I literally started to not talk or even make eye contact with his friends incase he pulled that card out on me again. I look back and think how stupid I was to even think like that.

[@shan4145]

@@susanntillzxo3626 I hope you don’t blame yourself anymore. I, too was afraid of talking to guys he knows because when I talk to a guy I knew before him in public my ex after grabbed my neck but he could talk to girls in front my face n behind my back. I look back and think wtf was I thinking dating this “looks challenge guy”(lol) and has a satanic personality and soul . I call him a thing .

[@UniversoulLady]

@@shan4145 lmaoo at looks challenged. I'm glad you got out lol 😝

[@nellonmine]

I am crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 about the big head...

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

Hella funny 😂😂

[@zaniellowery6926]

In the doctor's office tho😂😂😂

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

I hollered😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@zaniellowery6926]

@@mymakersdaughter6041 it's the way he play it out for me😂

[@Maggs3]

So funny omg😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jlynn9575]

I work in Oncology and can’t tell you the number of patients that have been diagnosed with tongue cancers as a result of oral sex. Sadly we barely hear or talk about the consequences of oral sex…

[@PullthaleverKronk]

I hadn’t ever heard of this. Could you explain how it causes it?

[@whitepearls20]

@@PullthaleverKronkit’s because of the human papillomavirus (HPV) which is a common sexually transmitted infection.

[@gloriakuhn8670]

Lil wayne is not fine. Lol I can say that I have felt extremely attracted to a man that I wouldn't normally find attractive. It had nothing to do with money, but more to do with personality.

[@CoachLove]

I remember this game that I first experienced in high school. I wish that I could go back to that teen and tell her to keep her purity because I didn't stop making these kind of degrading errors until my early 40's. 🤢🥺You're early, sis. Take the warning not to fall into a repeated cycle. Save yourself from unnecessary memories, trauma, and demonic pressure/games. Thankfully at 43, I switched "stupid" for "single" and been in peace for nearly four years. 😷(Sidebars: The Maxwell note helps me laugh at my former stupidity.🤗 The lighter breaking is kind of symbolic of how us single ladies need to be with that karaoke...)

[@jenniferthompson5146]

Stupid to single 😄 I'm in stupidity recovery right now but still find myself tempted to lower my standards. I never want to repeat that heartbreak and self degradation again though, so it feels easier to be strong. So much peace

[@mdclkc911]

Same here😢

[@kaylah714]

Thanks for your transparency❤️

[@mz.renaissance6092]

I’m in single mode as well I have been so so stupid.

[@Averyveryy]

The devil is a liar and a deceiver, he can come around nice, sweet, good looking, gentle on the surface (lies) Watch out! (Deception ) Sister move on, don’t even look back, Ask god for forgiveness, forgive yourself, repent and feed your faith, daily with the word of God. Alignment is a blessing, it protects us from many things, that’s the power of the lord Jesus.

[@gloriakuhn8670]

My intuition is that he is playing games and was probably using her from the beginning. His family seems to be a part of it too.

[@lillianwisdom8298]

He is too funny talking about his head. When I need a laugh I can always turn to Tony 🤣

[@jesuslovesyou916]

My sisters, Back in the day some woman thought having a child would keep a man, most women today thinks sex will keep a man. Nothing will keep a man unless he wants to be with you. Heal from your inner hurt, watch these videos to educate your mind to spot a grown boy from a mile away. Also, love yourself and you'll not put up with toxic man. A man will always be around, don't do NOTHING to hold him. If he's for you, he'll prove it. Pray and ask the Lord for discernment and have Him reveal your kingdom ordained husband to you. No matter what temptation comes, the Lord will make away for you to escape. Keep your legs close Be Bless!

[@mpch6298]

I love this sentence "A man will always be around,etc.", wow, yes, I believe that too.

[@UhRealLife]

Tony has his own sign language! 🤣

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“She made me be who I said I was.” TG

[@iscelaarias3957]

Oh my god!!! I can’t stop laughing... when I got divorced, my son was sad and I decided to buy a golden retriever dog to helping going through rough time...dog was 2 month old, as the dog grew up his body kept staying small and his head was big. I kept telling my kids, this dog is defected... now mason ( dog ) is beautiful and normal...gets everyone attention. He is my dog since my kids move out and I stay with my old mason. Thank you Tony for taking time from your family to help us be better

[@iscelaarias3957]

@@blueseptember2174 continue doing things as family. Many women as soon they get divorce believe “ its time to enjoy life and baby themselves “ baby themselves equivalent to go out with men… I truly believe a woman who has kids and divorce specially younger babies should stay single …..they have no business going out with a man instead try to teach your kids family can be build with or without a husband. If your kids are 7-16 constantly do family activities… building their present it’s important for them to have a beautiful future.

[@Azizajewelry]

Lol. I’ve also never watched the WAP video. I tried to see what it was about and couldn’t get past 45 seconds 😷🤧

[@missybella9046]

Agree. As a female its disheartening what some females view as empowering and sexual expression.

[@Kellergirl]

@@missybella9046 I have a Facebook friend who actually posted on her page that the WAP video is "sexually empowering women." I cannot believe she actually thinks that. Unreal.

[@britshanesmom]

I don't like the song or the video. That song came on in the bar and my friend was soooo hype dancing like "Come on Brit, put ya hands on ya knees ". It is not that serious to me lol.

[@By_Aleeya]

Oh my goodness I need to hear Tony’s British accent (fellow Brit here)! That sister needs to focus on completing her studies and training to be a doctor/whatever other role she hopes to assume. Men will come and go at her (I’m assuming young age) but her faith in God and a worthy and fulfilling career won’t. Also love how Tony isn’t too humble to admit when he doesn’t know the meaning of a word. A lesson to us all: stay humble, stay fly 👊🏼

[@phoenixrising2759]

Block. Delete...Next.

[@deliteful1991]

🗣In that order

[@laurenlocd3180]

Yup

[@Daniii27]

When you found out about the word "pensive" 😂😂💀💀💀

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Tony is a whole trip ouchea ,i was just smiling

[@onevenus6040]

Tony cray 😜🤪

[@tlashai]

Tony after watching your videos, and applying everything I learned, I pretty much would rather be by myself for the time being. I’m 28 years young, and want to enjoy my life without the nonsense.

[@michelletiaraharris]

As he was reading the letter, I was already saying "sis, do what Tony always says and gone bout ya business". Go pursue your career as a doctor and let him go! You deserve better babygirl.

[@ysmithriley]

Sis, GONE BOUT YOUR BIZNESS. He is NOT CONFUSED about you or the OTHER WOMAN!

[@trinasworld9377]

When you compromise your values wasting time

[@vchild]

Gone bout ya business is what I'm feeling. She's young and she'll bounce back.

[@jenniferthompson5146]

I definitely act a little standoffish/ flirty rude/ high maintenance when I notice a guy likes me and I like him back. Not completely but I find myself going between soft and hard. Maybe I should work on that...

[@supersizedbeauty6824]

Is this a typo😩🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️?? Gotta love TG. He's so himself its refreshing.

[@noirfit9721]

Tony could legit be a Christian comedian. This man be having me rolling

[@ashleywatkins1380]

Rolling! You hear me 😂😂😂

[@TT-mn8vl]

Ti agree. One video had me in tears

[@jordansalters5575]

YESSS!! I be on the flo 🤣🤣

[@tonyam8417]

When you broke that lighter and almost stapled your finger, I rewinded that part about four times laughing at you 😂😂😂😂

[@Banana-lk7tf]

I love how you combine brilliant advice with (almost) slapstick comedy, without even trying! Tony, you're truly a gem.

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Shalom Blessed Tribe Family!!

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

She abstained until she felt like she was loosing him. And she felt like he was more attractive than her so her insecurities kicked in so she gave him A lil sumthin cuz she thought that would keep him

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

Tony acting out the parentheses and calling out the different colors of her writing style killed me 😂. This boy is a closet freak and his family members is helping him get girls. She serviced him for no reason because he wasn't that very interested beforehand. She should take the L, learn from this and do better next time.

[@Ashley_Banks]

I love your profile picture 😍

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

@@Ashley_Banks thanks!

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

Such an awesome ministry !!

[@IamKarryanne]

Tony is breaking it ALL the way down.. some women like that fast cooked microwave food but this is the slowed cooked taste good food lol. I don’t mind the long videos because I blast it while doing everything...rather listen to this than WAP 🤧🤧

[@DawnOfKelly]

ANOTHER ONE! I feel like this is an example of what happens when we stop teaching right from wrong. We as parents have to understand this ourselves, then be present for our children and say more instead of less and/or nothing about these things. Thanks for bringing it home as usual!!!

[@Godsonechild]

Mo head then body lol I can't wit these stories 😭😂🤣🤣🤣 I love it!

[@crystaljRDH]

Big head, big brain! We luv’ya anyway, Tony! Keep us laughing! 🤣❤️

[@mrsBieLamb]

"ya'll on that microphone winning Grammys ,karaoke " dead 😂😂😂

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Don’t say u luv me and then treat me like crap .... PERIOD

[@lauralei4445]

Handsome and games aren't worth it. Real love doesn't make you question it's worth or your own. You seem to have a lot going on, as far as a bright future. God bless and enjoy you!

[@empress2646]

You take me out with those hand gestures when describing intimate relations.✌🏾👋🏽🤞🏽🤙🏽✌🏾 😂😂😂

[@deborahndagire4243]

See how they messed with Tony😢 not knowing that he already had the Helmet of Salvation 💯

[@jkrystal11]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nessparadis6948]

😭😭🤣😂🤣😆😆

[@ms.butterlove9394]

That Head Report Got Me Crying...🙊🙉🙈

[@trinasworld9377]

Also women need to make the distinction between gown playboy moves and grown man moves. Okay Tony do you agree.

[@trinasworld9377]

This is true these types of men do juggle multiple women.

[@bizzywizzy1341]

Goes to show education is not equivalent to common sense.

[@noirfit9721]

Everybody has played the fool for “love”. Doesn’t mean she’s stupid, she just made a poor decision

[@inprogress5210]

Showed up in my recommendations and I clicked real quick. Blessings people. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@stargoldqueen5894]

Always look at his actions, speaking from experiences anytime a man trying you like a "baser".

[@ROYALTY12572]

This was the funniest video ever! And no Tony, Lil Wayne is NOT good looking AT ALL! I don't care how much money he has! You are such a blessing. Thank you.

[@nessparadis6948]

He said white women think that way 🤣🤣🤣.

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

Coach breaking that down like this was beyond valuable - thank you for taking the time.

[@reginastevens7673]

Good evening.. present ready for the lesson✋🏼

[@ZfenProductions]

Tony hit that note! That microfoon 🎤 note 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@photina78]

"Human Physics" doesn't work on me. I never pursue a man, period. If they back off, I let them go. Even if a man tries to get me to chase him by asking me to text or call him sometimes, I won't do it. If I need to cancel a date, or there's an emergency, something urgent, something I need to tell him, then I'll contact him. But that's it.

[@GabyDee7]

This is such a great lesson for women. Thank you TG.

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

The karaoke 🎤 move is a power move by men. That woman with the 30 men at the door is very 💔. I pray The Most High heals her soul. Hearing that almost brings tears to my eyes.

[@tatyana3579]

“Lord cover your eyes” 😂

[@Tia__minu]

He said “lil Wayne handsome ? 🥴” LMFAOO

[@aprylclark3796]

I have learned so much watching your videos, omg 😱 I pray that God sends me a good husband like you! Keep doing what your doing! Your wife is a lucky woman and you’re a lucky man to have her!

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

Don’t know about anyone else but the packing up of the stuff gets me every time. 😩😂

[@cathycollins1705]

Tony you are truly fulfilling.your destiny. You teach with ease; clarity, humor, and more importantly truth. Love your jokes... Thank you.

[@Dominiquebroom]

Lets get this lesson tonight!!

[@mitz1919]

Everytime u sing maxwell.. hilarious 😆 I appreciate the humor with the lesson!

[@meghanmarshall6687]

I’m here for it

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

That's right Uncle Tony! Keep reminding these folks that's waiting for a mistake. 👏🏾

[@CourtneyB]

Perfect way to end the night!

[@dn-cp6sh]

Yes..so happy!!

[@iscelaarias3957]

Yessss!!!

[@astrojolie6535]

He said if you waiting on him to fail don’t hold yo breath lmao cause period 💪🏾💪🏾

[@nikkirowland]

😂😂Tony’s big head story had me in tears 😭 😂😂😂

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

I hollered!

[@nikkirowland]

@@FeelingFitFabFun 🤣🤣

[@growinwoman2290]

Girl I had to pause, I was laughing so hard. The doctor part took me out 😂😂

[@DanielleStarr]

Preach Brother Tony G 💯💯💯 So true We women will lower our standards thinking we being nice trying to be chose by a man.

[@tinajones1932]

Listening.

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

@55:38 - @55:46 I promise you I just hollered!!!!!! This just gave me the best laugh of my week. Ommgggg I'm crying!!! Thank you TG for laughter you instilled in my life on today.

[@destineypayne2788]

I am sorry but the helmet from Texas has be DYINNGG SCREAMMING LAUGHING lol love your videos Tony! God Bless.

[@jacquallagreen6077]

powerful message i love it . but that lighter & stapler took me clean out at work 😂😂😂

[@mzlove4121]

😂 😂 🎤 It was the Maxwell Woman's Worth 🎶 for me! 😂 😂 TONY NEVER FAILS ME FOR A LOL!!

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

His cousin was wrong for that! 🙏😔😩

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Yes he was!!!

[@patriciawilliams5519]

Submission and Worship of anything other than the creator is deceptive. No love, just games. He needs too much attention. She hopefully has dropped the clown and working on herself.

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you're so hilarious and I be at work laughing my head off and my coworkers are asking me who you listening to . I have to stay focus so I want get behind with my work but ,Bro Tony you just something serious 😂😂😂 not only am I learning from others story am taking notes not go down the path am hearing others having to go through.and to catch the red flags early in the game.

[@attorneymom35]

Gotta level the playing field. Ty Tony Gaskins.

[@ShyBabyxoxo]

Tony! “You down there sangin’ all on that microphone.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@Karim.711]

Amazing. I wish every girl would listen to you!

[@RubyRoxxie]

I can’t stop laughing about the helmet story!!!! Brother Tony, you are hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@stilljocelyn4166]

Every time Tony says “medicine school”... 😂😂

[@sherrytee2962]

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...seriously, but if we stay Holy we'll have a fighting chance 🙈 still loads of listening required!

[@lynniepoo6206]

Wooooo! I am picking up what you putting down with the code words Tony! Keep telling it like it is! I am catching on, and growing stronger because of it. The Truth is setting me free. :)

[@ibcandy]

“That was unfortunate...?” And then that long smug look following-🤣😂🤣☠️☠️☠️ I’m deaddd-uhhh!!!

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

This is definitely been one of the funniest videos to date. We had all these hands gestures and we had a Grammys mention. I’m crying 😭😭😭😭

[@soothingtemples9393]

Ready! "Coach Francesca"

[@soothingtemples9393]

@@egyptnz27 Hello, I am Coach Francesca. Nice to meet you. 👋🏽