I Struggle, Do YOU?

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Today's Video is my recent thought process that happened while I was making Pt 2 of my Scrappy Patches: The NeedleBook
You may be surprised.
I was struggling with the last part, the insertion of the pages. You see I was struck with a new thought and I had to try it, but I was having an off day and things went south. It spiraled from there and I realized I had to share my struggles with you.
After all, my primary purpose for my channel is to show you that while you may be getting older you can still have purpose and be creative.
You can Age Gratefully and find joy in every day things.
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[@JeriBellini]

I just wanted to THANK EVERYONE here for your lovely, thoughtful comments on this video. I am EVER SO GRATEFUL for all of you! I can't tell you how much you lifted my spirts and made me realize just how much we need an Aging Creatively and Gratefully community. I'm super glad I came back! 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 Sending you ALL a BIG hug!

[@marijkeschellenbach2680]

Oh my gosh, I can so relate and am so glad that you shared this beautiful insight to your thoughts and feelings. I think it was serendipity that I just found your channel at the ripe age of 83 and struggling with similar feelings. I seem to want to create and learn more and more and am grateful that my hands and eyes are still able to do my quilting and slow stitching, sashiko, knitting and playing around with fabrics and threads. You have helped me open up about my struggles and I thank you.....

[@JeriBellini]

I'm sure you could educate me on many things, with age comes wisdom. Thank you for taking the time to comment! And enjoy your creativity! 🩷

[@randomjournalbitsdawnboss]

I want to thank you Jeri for coming back to KZbin and sharing growing older creatively. I was struggling when you came back and you have really inspired me. I don’t know how I can express enough how much your channel means to me. Thank you, Jeri.

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Dawn, I'm so happy that I'm inspiring you! Thank you so much for being here! 🩷 I have some fun things planned to get us all moving again, I can't wait! I'm going to post a video about my Patreon this week... sending hugs

[@cosmiccoyotedog-doreenb9605]

Me Too! ! (I'm 70)

[@annrubino6252]

Gratitude is indeed a great thing. Finding who you really are explains so much and aren't we fortunate to be creative makers! Just a little thing I have figured out, at 82 - don't laugh, but every time there is a full moon, my "peculiarity" goes on overdrive. It used to cause me a great deal of stress, now I am grateful for all of my interests to support me.

[@JeriBellini]

And that is a GRATEFUL attitude Ann! 🩷

[@lizryan6289]

I am a 77 year old quilter and embroiderer. In my younger days I made my own garments, did crochet, and did smocking. I struggle some days too. Your stitches are exquisite - like my mom's handwork. My mom made her own clothing by hand as a girl and young woman (she could not afford a sewing machine at that time.) I lost her treadle Singer in Hurricane Katrina which was a heartbreak. I enjoy your videos and appreciate your sharing.

[@JeriBellini]

Oh that would break my heart too... My mom made me take sewing lessons when I was 11. I've sewn, knitted and crochet my whole life. My mom made over 5000 hats for the homeless the last years of her life and she lived to 98. Amazing woman. Thanks for being here! 🩷

[@windsongcraft175]

I am 72 year old from west Michigan and I struggle everyday too. It is so nice to hear honesty. Thank you for doing your videos and don't lose sleep over the critics. Some people have nothing better to do.....

[@JeriBellini]

Isn't that the truth! I'm busy creating and trying to inspire others to do the same! Thank you for being here! ♥️

[@anitataylor5739]

Thankyou Jerri. What you spoke about resonates with me so much. On my bad days sewing anything is what keeps me sane❤

[@JeriBellini]

Oh isn't that the TRUTH! Amen to stitching to relieve stress and keep us sane! 🩷

[@brendadeveau8852]

Who are these terrible people to leave such hurtful comments☹️😡. I am Very sure those people are certainally not perfect. I absolutely love your videos😍😍. Early last year I was diagnosed with Multiple System Atrophy (MSA) and you have been a god send to my life. You have shown me that it is ok to make things that are not perfect and have a great time doing it. Thank You from the bottom of my heart for all your videos💞💞💞🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@JeriBellini]

I'll give you their address Brenda and you can go scold them for me! LOL Sidebar... I'm glad you're here and that you can create with abandon! sending healing hugs! 🩷

[@barbibarnum]

So about those people that leave rude comments. Just pretend they’re an elderly auntie that said that to you in person. I had several aunties that were just crotchety old busybodies. When they would criticize me I would say Oh, ok… and wait for their back to turn to roll my eyes and do it my way. Usually people that leave negative comments are not your tribe. Just roll your eyes and go on.

[@JeriBellini]

WAIT! I'm going to say that when I respond now! I love that! "Oh Ok"... that will confuse people don't you think?! LOLOLOL you made me giggle, thank you! sending hugs.🤗🩷

[@MsBrickman1]

I believe your video went right to my heart. 59 years ago today my father died. I was alone in the house when I found him. My mom had died 8 months earlier. I had to do everything. I called our priest,our funeral director, our doctor, my married brothers, and the family members. They all came in and no one gave me hug or asked if I was ok. After all these years I don’t understand why it affected me so much today. To top it all off I had to make a million calls to get financial aid for my medications. I have APF where the lungs close slowly making it difficult to breathe. My assistance fund, which had been giving me free meds ran out of money so I had to find another place. Luckily I found a place that will give me my meds for $60 a month. Sure beats $3000 a month. I also take 12 more meds. I found your video today and I just felt so much better. I love that wall hanging behind you. I contacted the woman and asked about it but she didn’t remember which one it was Today she started one very similar and easy. Keep up the good work, you are such an inspiration. Sidebar-- I got to go and pee. lol. Hugs

[@JeriBellini]

Ms Brickman... you are a delight! My heart goes out to you too, with all your struggles you are still stitching. I'm glad you're here! 🩷 Sidebar... big hugs

[@rhondadownes207]

You do you! Your videos are wonderful and you are very inspiring! I really think sometimes that the people who leave negative comments are unhappy with themselves and feel the need to hurt others to make themselves feel better. Don’t let them change you or how you do things. I love the aging gratefully comment, by the way! I’d never heard that before. Have a great weekend. ☺️

[@JeriBellini]

I agree with you! And let's just keep going, gratefully! 🩷

[@christinesmith5368]

Thank you for your comments. I am struggling in my life now. I found your channel while hiding from like on utube. I am truly grateful for your sharing and encouragement. I have started collecting fabrics and supplies to make some Dots after previously downsizing and giving all of my sewing paraphernalia away. I can’t seem to sit myself down to begin a project. I am not going to walk away from a Dot! I will share it with you when I get there! Thans again 😢

[@JeriBellini]

Oh I hope you do make some dots, they are simple and very satisfying to make! I'm sorry that you are struggling, and glad you found my video helpful. Sending hugs, ox 💜

[@helenjones2447]

I want to thank you for turning up on my computer every day, I, like you have the same diagnosis and find that when things get in my way and I get irritated I turn to sewing, gardening,quilting, crocheting or a mass cleaning, but I always find that someone is ready to criticise … it’s a shame their negativity is all they have to give I rather watch you now, you slow me down some what and I realise your voice has such a calming effect, it’s just like sitting with a friend sharing a cuppa I appreciate you every day and adore your stitching

[@JeriBellini]

Oh Helen, thank you so much for saying.... We have to live in the moment and find joy in each day. I'm so glad you are enjoying my videos! 💜💜💜

[@lesliereid5147]

Jeri, I have never seen your Channel, but your byline caught my eye....do you struggle....I admire your bravery to be so open. I am a recovered alcoholic and do still have fears of being so open and wish I could be as brave as you. You are an inspiration for sure! ❤

[@JeriBellini]

I was hoping I would appeal to some people in need of some inspiration. I hope you stay for awhile, I'm glad you're here! 🩷

[@wendyroberts7909]

You have been brave and open here. You are amazingly brave to quit alcohol. X

[@Moondapplemixedmedia]

Jeri, I am grateful for you and these vids that you share. I am turning 67 in a couple of days, I do a lot of different crafts, including mixed media, collage, knitting and the occasional sewing project. I was going into the nail salon yesterday for a pedicure as I am going on a trip this weekend. I absolutely could not find my words to say that I had an appointment for a pedicure and ended up gesturing to my feet. The receptionist thankfully figured out what I was attempting to communicate. So yes I identify with some of the struggles you describe. I am happy to watch your vids every week, your whole concept of aging gratefully and creatively is wonderful and I appreciate your encouraging words, let’s keep going and have a little chuckle at ourselves when we can 😊

[@JeriBellini]

That's GREAT! I'm chuckling now as I'm sitting in my pjs answering all these lovely comments when I should be dressed and out the door.... who cares, this is more important! Thank you, I'm grateful for everyone here! Leaving a comment takes time and I appreciate it! 🩷

[@estrelaverde]

I recently started making junk journals and got back into sewing. That was my way to overcome a bad moment in my life. And it does help me. Sometimes, I create something really nice, and sometimes it doesn't come out right. But I get joy from the process, so I keep doing it. I said all that to explain how touched I felt by your words. So much that it made me emotional. Thank you for your videos. Thank you for the motivation. Thank you for the inspiration. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Ohhh, you made me so happy, that was my intention for sharing such personal stuff. If I can touch others, I'm going to keep doing it. Bless your heart! 🩷

[@RingvoriRengard]

I just happend to see your video when scrolling through KZbin. I stopped and listend to your words and realized that we have a lot in common. I recognize my own life and struggeling with adapting to aging and changing residence. Thank you so much för being you! I will definitely follow your videos from my small place i North of Sweden. Good luck with your creation.

[@JeriBellini]

Oh how exciting to know someone like me is in another country! I'm glad you found your way here! 🩷

[@barbclark69]

Jeri, you're great. I love this video. Yes, I struggle finding words sometimes. I notice as I rewatch my videos before uploading, wondering how much I want to edit out, half a second here, 30 seconds there. But, I don't do it . Leaving it in, warts and all. I do have to say I have 12 years on you. I turned 80 last summer, and what I can say about that is that each day in every way I am more and more grateful for this life and my loving wife and for the time I have and for the art I make and the art that she makes -- and especially for the times when my own art pieces absolutely delight me. Aging gratefully. My mom seemed old at 80, but I don't feel how she seemed. Also, I do also have to say that I completely envied you your tiny stitches. I loved that video of the seven different ways of joining fabrics and saved it to my slow-stitching playlist. You keep rockin' it out, girl. I'm so glad you're making videos again. -- Barbara Clark

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you SO much Barbara! And you're GREAT TOO! I'm so glad you enjoyed my stitching video, if you make something tag me!! Sending hugs! 🩷

[@deborahmeyer-y4m]

The trolls walk among us. I feel the more we understand about ourselves and accept our limitations and build on them the better off we are. I'm 69 and finally am learning to just accept myself for who am and the heck with the trolls. I'm a loving, creative woman who just wants to bring joy to others. You bring me joy in your creativity and I am so grateful I found you and can just hang our here and find peace. Keep doing what you do best, Jeri and that is bringing joy to others. Wishing you many creative blessings. 💞💝💞

[@JeriBellini]

You said it so well! Why do we have to get old before we know this? Wisdom I guess from living a full life! Thank you for being here! 💜💜💜

[@JenniferMMee]

Gosh! I am looking forward to all the videos you make and I love your idea of future content as well! Aging is something we all do ….but, seems like now (70 yrs old) things are noticeably changing both physically, emotionally, and memory wise. I agree…keep on moving! It’s nice to hear a fellow creative talk about this!

[@JeriBellini]

Welcome! I'm so glad you're here and we'll forge ahead together! 💜

[@theresaakin2284]

I have just recently found your channel and find it very liberating. Yours reminds me of Jude hill. I was once told I wasn't making correct stitches that would never make it to a quilt convention. I told the ignoramous that I had no intentions of competing with anyone as I do that enough with myself. I'm getting better at not competing. I vowed not to go to another retreat nor will I join a guild. Too persnickety for my blood. I don't make many things but only for my grands and family who appreciate my thought and love for them. I have always said, I'm perfectly imperfect. I really like your work. People who make comments like tat are just plain rude and probably belong to the stitch (aka)quilt police. just block and delete.

[@JeriBellini]

Hhahaahha, YES! And I have a new saying.... Keep Moving, Just Play, NO RULES, and find something to be grateful for today. We all make mistakes and who cares, are you stitching and enjoying life? Then keep moving! 🩵 Thank you!!!

[@karenbearden6198]

I am a fairly new subscriber. You are a delight to me and I love you just the way you are. Your words are kind and soothing, and your projects are right up my alley. Thanks for being here and sharing the joy of living life and creating. P.S. I need side bar frequently. :)

[@JeriBellini]

Uhhh, Karen, I can't think of what I want to say... Sidebar... I'm Grateful that you are here! 😂 🩷🩷🩷

[@trudiboelee3039]

I love your honesty, wisdom, creativity and approache to become older. As a woman of exactly the same age in The Netherlands I feel very inspired by you! Thank you for your video's

[@JeriBellini]

And thank you for being here and leaving a comment! We can do this together. 🩵

[@MsAmberSunshine]

Thank you for sharing. I’m so grateful for you. I’m grateful that you articulate what I have difficulty articulating. I think I feel the way you do sometimes why you said it so very well said. Most days I wake up I’m happy try to find the joy. I dear sweet husband is older by a little bit and he’s a little bit crabby sometimes and we have a teenage granddaughter that lives with us, and sometimes they can both be very demanding, but I do love them both, even though I sometimes get overwhelmed by them. And I have to say I agree with you. I don’t know why so many people think that they have to share ill feelings rude remarks. Sorry if this isn’t coming up very well I’m using dictation because I have fumbling fingers. Thank you so very much and I’m so glad I watched this video and now I’ll watch the other video while I’m waiting for my granddaughter to get out of work that should be get off work, thank you dear sweet lady for your kindness. And yes you can pray for me. I will try and remember to pray for you and all your other people too.😊

[@JeriBellini]

You know what I find interesting... speaking about articulating... I made this video sitting at my desk. I used my phone which I usually use my video camera. Something about the set up made me feel like I was sitting there talking to friends. I'm going to do that again. The camera is good for how to's but the talking one needs that phone! Why did I just share this, because I have ADHD likely and my brain went there after reading your comment! LOLOLOLOL 🩷🩷🩷 Thank you!

[@pollyk3328]

Thank you for sharing your struggles. You have given me the courage to go well adhd is part of me and my girls life. Yes it gives us creativity no-one else has. I feel that now I can tackle anything, and if I don't quite get there, at least I have tried. Maybe I will finish it later.😅 I also have fybromyalgia and phyoriatric arthritis to battle with. A battle I won't win, but I will learn ways to get around it and develop my own style. Keep sharing girl be real. Love your work

[@JeriBellini]

Yes, I think you got it... If I listed my issues now I'd take up a lot of space in the comment. 😂 I ignore them as best I can and just keep moving. Maybe that's the ADHD? 🤣 It's balancing me out, keeping me from being a slug. I'm trying to be amusing, but I know you get it. Thanks for being here! 🩷

[@lalagamma4452]

Jeri I'm sorry you've had some Negative Nancy's comments. I suggest you give them the boot. Just ignore them your loyal followers are here to hangout and be inspired. I have ADHD and found out in my 40's. When i had to take our then 12yr old to be tested for it. She has ADD. Her counselor told me i needed to be tested. Most of my favorite Utube Family is ADD or ADHA. We all have several issues. Huge HUGS! Namesta 🐞🐞🐞

[@JeriBellini]

I swear that it is the reason I'm so creative, my mind is always on high alert and I love it! Thanks Lala! 🩷

[@theresasuttle711]

You are not alone. Thank you for sharing. Acceptance is key. I am learning that other people’s criticism says more about THEM than of what (or whom) they are critical. I’m trying to wish them well and let it go! Life is too short!

[@JeriBellini]

You are spot on... I think we should just let outside criticisms wash right over us and we should go ahead and make another messy thing! 🩷

[@mandybridger4630]

Some people just have to be negative,ignore them,your work is lovely,and your videos are inspiring, thank you for sharing,take care xx ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you for watching, I will Mandy! 🩷

[@pauladickenson106]

I try to ignore negative comments. We all have bad days but I find you inspirational. Keep going and keep laughing. Love you and K3n.

[@JeriBellini]

I have resigned myself that there will always be negative people in this world and I am not going to let them get to me! I have SOOO many wonderful people in my community, I am very grateful! 💜

[@teriwhidden9178]

Hi Jeri and I am so happy that have you returned to KZbin! You are inspiring and fun to watch and listen to and that is why I joined your channel! I missed your sunny smile and disposition. Each person is unique and growing older is sometimes a struggle as you mentioned. Hopefully you can let those rude comments pass and think of all the positive ones we leave you!!!

[@JeriBellini]

What rude comments? I have forgotten them already... How could I not with all these wonderful people here?! Thank you Teri! You are so appreciated, I am grateful that you joined my community! 🩷

[@LSI.]

I hear you about the challenges in aging. I will be 70 this year and noticed I have slowed down a lot. I am not as motivated to learn and try new things. I like to keep my crafting simple, not start complicated projects,, and I lose track of my supplies, or even what I have in my stash. Thank you for your videos. It is heartwarming to hear that I am not the only one confused, surprised and saddened about the changes that come with aging. In other videos you have mentioned Jude Hill and K3N. I love their work too.

[@JeriBellini]

Keep it as simple as you can. Most of my projects are easy, not overcomplicated, and use what you have on hand. Gather supplies and put them in a basket this way everything is ready when you sit down. Some evenings I'm just so overwhelmed from the day but I know if I just pick up the needle for a few minutes I'll feel better. Give it a try, please. Sending hugs, 💜 If you're not on my newsletter, please consider it. I'm going to have a few get-togethers on zoom.

[@lauragrolla5916]

I loved your title and am glad I found this video. Such permission. I feel gratitude to have found this. Thank you.

[@JeriBellini]

I love that, already I've inspired you! Sending hugs! 🩵 I'm glad you found us!

[@jhinton129]

Just came on your video and post. Thank you for your honesty and your willingness to open up. I’m a 75 yr old woman and I’m in poor health. I hope you’ll continue with these videos. There are many of us who need to hear what you have to say. Let me know where I can buy you a glass of wine sometime! 😂

[@JeriBellini]

I love that! Wouldn't it be fun to meet some like minded people and sit and stitch something! 🩵 Thank you... 🩵

[@sharonparks8144]

I think your videos are wonderful - thank you for being so honest and transparent - you are a beautiful soul - Blessings ❤️❤️

[@JeriBellini]

I can't help myself, stay tuned for more "Aging Gratefully". Have an amazing weekend! 🩷

[@catherinehipolito501]

We all struggle. No one has perfect behavior or perfect days all of the time, including these people leaving you unkind comments. Were all human and to be human is to err. Please try not to give these comments too much thought. We appreciate you. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Hey Catherine, thank you for saying this, it's SO true! And sidebar... what negative comments? LOLOLOLOL they are already forgotten thanks to everyones beautiful comments. 🩷

[@artfulyama9071]

I think you do a great job in your videos. Talk the way you talk and do what you do! Who cares if you forget a word, which is fairly common, BTW. Your creativity speaks HUGELY! Your videos are wonderful. ❤❤❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you Artful! I needed to hear this! 🩷

[@kirstencook1439]

Hear you can relate with health issues all my life still do just got new ones add yet l keep Rocking 🤙 the good stuff 👍 as you are beautiful person 🤗. You are not alone lots of the KZbin & TikTok creative folk channels l view all came on in last few months end of last year to voice a troll nasty comments yet they have time to view you & leave unnecessary fed back if not their cup of 🍵☕ 🫖 move on. It is the view they have from their streaky inner 🪞 if not cleansed in daily routine then the 🤬🧠🤯time to text you it shows how they are feeling💩 😡yet if ti ask why you take small stitches if it is helpful then ask to get some constructive feedback from you so they who may be stuck can had to their creative journey see if helps them in their artistic journey 😊 Enjoy channels be it art reselling goods mudlarking bird eating homesteading travels cars car truck bike remodeling shows animal rescue plants food books museum zen what ever it is l take something from it useful or not if not move on for my is too litimit to waste on nonsense..Live your style l throw no scrape fabrics threads out unless composting before my 👀 lots of recollecting of rusty bits among other stuff l collect textile paper mixed media arts . I watch Embroidery 🪡 artist /Writer has a group of creatives if mix bag yet to encourage each to block the trolls & encourage other like minded creative folk to 😊 calm & create For it is official your awesome & Admit Life Be Boring Without Me Enjoy your Journey it is our🙏given right to care for one self & connect with our 🌎🌍 Epic Soar 🪶 04🖖 🕊️🥰🐦2024🪵🐉❤ 🗽🇺🇲🦅🌤️ Go to the Bee Hive KZbin channel nice chat yet she is creating yet mind all over the place Donna blessed thank her followers .😉

[@JeriBellini]

Kirsten, you said it all girl. I thank you for being here! Let's create together! 🩷

[@k3n.clothtales]

I knew which comment before you said it... It punched me a little in the gut too on your behalf. I don't think people realise sometimes how much we are sharing of ourselves and how vulnerable we are making ourselves. The huge majority of people are lovely and supportive happily but those occasional negative comments, wish I could just ignore them but... ❤❤❤ So brave and beautiful of you to share many warm hugs 🤗

[@JeriBellini]

I think going forward I will delete things that make me uncomfortable if I can't find a nice way to respond to them and just move on. I have a saying I've used as far back as I can remember... "I only have time for those that wish me well". My community is the BEST and I am so grateful that they came back to me after my 4 year break from the internet. Just loving what I do now and hope to continue for awhile until I just can't. LOVE your videos, especially your "wittering"! 🩷

[@k3n.clothtales]

Another KZbinr I follow, the Unexpected Gypsy, once said that she leaves negative comments up unless they might offend others because then they improve your views 😂 thought that was a good way to look at it 😉

[@JeriBellini]

@@k3n.clothtales I LOVE Wendy!!! She is super kind and sweet! I read that even the thumbs down improves your ratings. I wonder if the negative nellies know that! LOLOLOL hehehehe

[@k3n.clothtales]

😂 shhh don't tell them 😁

[@jerilane2063]

From one Jeri to another, I want to say that I appreciate the inspiration you’ve given me. I’ve sort of lost my mojo in the last year. Time to get things done and get back to what makes me happy.

[@JeriBellini]

Oh I'm so glad to hear it Jeri! I look forward to getting to know you better. 💜

[@invisible4445]

Please don’t lose the sidebars! I love them. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

I will NOT! I think they are in my DNA! LOLOLOL 🩷

[@conniecarletello8]

Hey Sweetie..just caught this vid and you moved me..we all have a growth history just by living and experiencing the things we have..I find myself spending more time in my “studio” because that has truly become my “happy place”! We creative minds NEED to create..thank you yet again for being so real! We ain’t got time for anything else!😁❤️luv u girl

[@JeriBellini]

We sure don't!!! I'm in my room most of the day! I only come out to eat and feed Brian! Luv you back! 🩷

[@debbiestrang7774]

Thank you ☺️ I can relate!

[@JeriBellini]

YES!!! You are welcome! 🩷

[@cre8tivelycreated26]

Life is too short to stop doing what we love. Just keep being real and enjoy being creative! Our Heavenly Father created us to be creative, if others don't like what we create or how we do it, just move along!! 😃

[@JeriBellini]

He SURE did and I'm glad you said that. It's what keeps me going, my faith, knowing that He's in control, not me. Have a joy filled day! 🩷

[@gsxjinvxet]

Sidebar you’re the best!

[@JeriBellini]

LOVE THAT!!!! 🩷

[@ladylee8364]

Hello there I just loved this video what you were talking about I have a new saying these days and it goes like this people should stay in their own lane I appreciate anyone I see on their channels if there is something I don’t like I keep it to my self and just enjoy what people are doing to teach us a new craft or just getting inspired isn’t that why we surf channels and stop and watch I get so many ideas and I love it and you are a very lovely soul thank you 🙏🏻

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you LadyLee, I agree totally! 🩷 Thanks for being here.

[@kittybaxter2228]

This is an excellent video. I’m glad you kept going. Best wishes

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks so much! I'm glad I kept going too! 🩷

[@kjrobinsontelusnet]

I just found you today. You are a delight. And love your down to earth comments. We need to keep a sense of humour and always have an ability to laugh at yourself. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Welcome!!! That's the truth, Stay Grateful! 🩷

[@NeverHopelessbyElizabeth]

Girl…I am so glad you are back!! I’ve missed you so much 💕 Yes, I have those days as well. It’s important to remember that everyone is going through something we know nothing about and we need to be willing to give grace. I can’t tell you how often I leave my viewers hanging because I can’t finish a thought before something else pops into my head and I’m off on a tangent; it’s all part of how I’ve been fearfully and wonderfully created 🕊️ We shall keep plugging along together 😅 Much love to you 💗

[@JeriBellini]

Oh I'm so glad to see you here and please forgive me for not calling... I got tied up with the kids. We have to connect soon! I want to hear all about your house plans! 🩷

[@juliannphillips8695]

I love making scrappy patches and this little chat really struck me. 68 going on 69 and living gratefully and creatively is such a beautiful outlook! Looks like you are speaking goodness into a lot of folks.

[@JeriBellini]

Yes to Scrappy Patches and to more creativity and joy in the coming months! 🩷

[@benitaferreira7946]

You are beautiful. Thank you so so much for all your inspiration, love and care. I'm a new subscriber and I'm so so Blessed to follow your channel. You are a brave Diva and we love you. Please continue the good work ❤😊

[@JeriBellini]

I love that you called me a Diva.. heheheheehaaaahahaha... I've received so many great comments from this video I can't tell you how it warms my heart. Thank you! 🩷

[@pennidudley1632]

Thank you Jeri. You're an inspiration to me and many others. Love you❤️

[@JeriBellini]

Sending LOVE back at you Penni! 🩷

[@kathyhaynes6818]

I'm so glad I found your channel. I'm 70 and can totally relate to this video. I think as artists, it's just how we are. I find myself focused on one thing then a new idea pops into my mind and I'm off down the creative rabbit hole. The beauty of it is, as long a we have our heath, we enjoy being busy seniors.

[@JeriBellini]

This is so true! Brian says, Slow Down, Go Down! Thanks for being here! 💜

[@carolynp934]

You are a lovely lady !!!❤

[@JeriBellini]

And you are a dear to say so! Thanks for being here! 🩷

[@giuliafavaccio2116]

10:40 ciao Gery, it is a pleasure listening your voice and i try to understand wath you say.here is a sunny day,cool but sunny and it is unusual being still in winter! I send a big kiss.

[@JeriBellini]

Good morning, I appreciate you being here! Did you know, you can use the translate in settings to activate subtitles that you can read in your own language? You can find it in the little gear under the video. If you need help, let me know. 🩷

[@giuliafavaccio2116]

@@JeriBellini thanks. I will try! It is afternoon here, it is 2 p.m at the moment. I will go out with my dog. It is heautiful to read wath others ladies write to you. You have many friends all over the world! Ciao!

[@KoolKookyKreatures]

Oh my gosh do I have days like that too Jeri ❤. Also I completely understand about the strange and sometimes harsh comments that people choose to type up. I get them too on my channel - about my hands, about music, about how I should do something and I also don’t get why they feel the need to do that. Also - it’s generally from people who have no channel, no videos and therefore no experience as to what it’s like to create content. Much love to you ❤

[@JeriBellini]

It is a strange world we live in. Since I made this video I decided to delete negative comments. I don't want bad energy on my channel! Thanks for watching! I'm going to head over to your channel and watch a few of your videos. 💛

[@KoolKookyKreatures]

I also do that Jeri - negative vibes are not welcome ❤

[@michellesmixedmediamadness]

Me thinks someone who gave you that comment about small stitches commented on my video! Or maybe they are just the same kind of person. My highest viewed video is the only time someone left me a mean comment. She said "I'd die if someone saw my messy stitches" or something like that! I mean, who does that? They don't understand our art and it affected me way longer than it should have. We need to just shake it off and keep going, like you are doing. I'm looking forward to watching the bonus video.

[@JeriBellini]

I love your book, BTW... and the meany.... well, I'm a lady so I won't say more. Sending you hugs, you keep going girl! Go visit Michelles channel people and give her a hug. 🩷

[@michellesmixedmediamadness]

Thanks I really appreciate it

[@Judith-wq2jp]

Hey, it's not easy making uneven stitching. I was showing a sewing-friend some Boro stitching in a magazine that I admired, and she looked right at me and said, "Oh, you could NEVER do that." She'd watched me do a lot of precision hand-piecing on my son's wedding quilt, so she was basing her observation on that. And, yes, I can do that (the uneven stitching), but I have to work at it!

[@JeriBellini]

@@Judith-wq2jp I was a serious hand quilter back in the day, even won ribbons for my tiny stitches... But now, it's all about just stitching away and I do not use a hoop anymore. it's awfully hard to get them straight and even without the tension of a hoop or frame. So I'm having at it and LOVING the process. Thanks for your comment! 🩷

[@ruthblount4964]

I just discovered your channel, and I am so thankful for it! I am 73 and finding that creativity with fiber arts brings me such joy. Thank you for your inspiration and encouragement! I just finished my first Kawandi-inspired lap quilt for our son who is getting married next week. I am going to do my next one with raw edges! I am excited to be part of this community. Blessings...

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Ruth, Welcome, and glad you found us! This is the most wonderful community, everyone here is so supportive and encouraging... Thanks for leaving a comment and letting me know youre here! 💛💛💛

[@c.kallman127]

I am so THRILLED i found ur videos...I find I am inspired by you. THANKS! I am grateful to be here too💖 Came down with gullian-barre, from my flu immunization!?? Was paralyzed for a time and still hv a long road ahead. I try to be positive everday. Thanks for sharing that you also struggle to get thru. Could it be our AGE???😂😱 NO WAY! Be GRATEFUL!!XOXO

[@JeriBellini]

I don't know why some of us have struggles and others don't I gave up trying to figure all that out years ago.... I'm here, doing the best I can and I love to share. I figure if my videos can touch someone in a special way, I'm all about it! And I'm tickled that I inspire you! 🩷

[@Yes2joy]

I watched this BEAUTIFUL, loving, honest video after I watched the Pt. 3 needle book (which I totally loved). Your bright light is shining all over us aging, creatives. I feel hugged and inspired watching you, I am excited by your projects, and your mission -“aging creatively and gratefully” is so encouraging ❤. Thank you Jeri! Jena

[@JeriBellini]

Wow, thank you Jena! It's comments like yours that keep me going on this path and bring tears of joy to my eyes. Sappy I know, but it's my truth! I know I am here to encourage others! Thank you for the tip! 💜

[@SandyProuty]

I just stumbled on you this morning and have watched 4 videos. Honey don't apologize....just know you bring joy and inspiration....thank yoy

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Sandy, ahhh, thank you so much! Glad you found me, welcome!!! 💜

[@katiecoleman9847]

I, too, have come to realize that I have ADHD. It sure answers many questions about my childhood. Ohhh, and people are rude. If you don't like it, then STOP stopping by. I appreciate your candor and sticking it out!! Much love!❤

[@JeriBellini]

LOL, I love what you say and how you say it! Thanks for being here! 🩷

[@lindaclark710]

I recently discovered your channel and really appreciate you and your approach to creativity, aging, (I'm 73) and life. I watch many KZbinrs and many are so apologetic about noises, interruptions, lapses in memory, mistakes etc. probably because they've experienced negative comments like you've had. My reaction to those negative people is 'get a life!'. You content creators don't have a director, producer, cameraman, or stage manager. You take the leap, put yourselves out there, and of course all your videos are not going to be perfect. I enjoy the reality of your creativity, small stitches, big stitches, sidebars and distractions. It makes me think as I stitch along with you, that we're creating together. As another wonderful KZbin creator, k3n, says: you do you! Hugs❤️

[@JeriBellini]

Do you LOVE K3N!!!!! She is the best, keeping it real! You left me a great comment, thank you for taking the. time! 🩷

[@BettsiLedesma]

Thank you for this video, Jeri. I am grateful for every birthday I am blessed with... even if some of my components are wearing out! I always think of Dory from Finding Nemo... "just keep swimming, just keep swimming...." Onward and upward, my friend!

[@JeriBellini]

That's wonderful, we'll swim together! Thank you! 🩵

[@sallyal5266]

Hi Jeri, I Love you, I love your style! You dont have any shortcomings, youre quirky, unique, innovative, in short you're a sewing Einstein. You've really inspired me to sit quietly in the evening after a busy day, and unpick that day using your slow stitching methods, Kawandi I have yet to try, but im buzzing at the thought if it ...atm im about to start your needle book today, and those slow stitches help me to process my thoughts, and make sense of things again. So I thank you from the bottom of my heart, because I've had a lot going on in my life, both recent past and historically, as too have most of us. I originally was flicking through KZbin Jeri, and I saw your Bisconnu video, I've seen them before and i loved the shape, but you made it look so enjoyable and so achievable, so I started it and completed it in no time, but most importantly I enjoyed the process! My stitches were irregular, but I love that it looks home made, my daughter was looking at it and she said "sell that"! I'm making things for a craft fair at Easter so we were looking at what I could take. But I'll never sell that. It's far too precious. You see before i met you, I only related slow stitching to English Paper piecing, which is fine, but a little too (by the book) for me, and a bit time consuming before you see an end result. With your projects, they take shape quicker, and the pieces are more unique, the process is more interesting. I'm now making things and gaining inspiration to share these with my granddaughter! So thank you for giving me Jeri, what an older sister would've given to me, or an aunt, or mother, grandmother, the greater worldwide adage of sisterhood 🤗💕I hope you accept my hug to you, I feel blessed to have found you and I hope truly that you'll have many more projects to share with us all. Sending love and hugs from the UK, please ignore the haters, the negativity, I've been bullied and harassed and am a DV survivor, and have come to realise that you only need to listen to yourself Jeri! The inner beatings of your heart, and the loving memories that you're creating and remembering are all that matters. I look forward to all your videos! Take care of you hon please ❤👏🏼🤗

[@JeriBellini]

That was so very kind of you to take the time to write me such a lovely comment. I'm so glad you are taking time for you at night and sitting quietly to wind down the day. Thank you for being here and you take care as well! 🩷

[@wendyroberts7909]

You inspire me greatly, Jeri. I can’t believe some people are so rude. That’s interested to hear about your ADHD. I met my now husband when he was 43. After we’d been together for a few years, I suggested to him that he could have Asperger’s. Cut a long story short, he has and he has embraced. Giving it a label has helped our relationship - I can see where he’s coming from now. I can’t stick to one project for long- I call myself a creative butterfly! Flitting from one thing to another. You should see my craft room - it started with a sewing m/c and now I’ve got every creative product under the sun. Currently into card making and hand sewing (when I’m watching tv). I think we’re all on the spectrum in some way. Who decided what’s normal anyway??!!! I think you’re amazing - carry on sidebaring!!!! X

[@JeriBellini]

Oh Wendy, I could write you a book! Yes we need to know these things about ourselves, and also figure out how to live our best life and not be confined to the constraints of the labels. Looks like you figured that out and I'm so happy for you. You know (I have lots of these (different personalities lets call it) in our family. Along with them come so many wonderful qualities, like creativity, brilliance, sensitivities and so on... we are who we are. Lets just figure out to make our life work and be the best we can be. Sending you hugs!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for being here!

[@artycraftyhealing1646]

Hi Jerri ... Ive just found you recently through K3n and am so grateful for you!!!! Imagine a world without Courageous, creative, squirrel brain, quirky people like us... (not for me thanks :) We Will do us and they can do them :) I feel that people have forgotten that we are all connected and what we do to ourselves affects others and what we do to others affects ourselves. Thanks for your bravery lovely lady xx

[@JeriBellini]

Good morning ArtyCrafty! Thank you so much for your wonderful comment! I totally agree, the world would be pretty boring! 💜

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Just found your channel. And I’m 62. My daughter also told me I have ADHD and as you stated your symptoms of ADHD, I am the same. I get frustrated with myself when I feel overwhelmed and struggle with managing my thoughts. I also didn’t know until recently. I stopped all processed sugar and I think that is helping in more ways than just ADHD. I also started a KZbin channel a few months ago, My Cozy Retirement, and I love it but wow learning curve for tech stuff. I am retired now. I have my degree in Social work as a therapist 😊.

[@JeriBellini]

Yes! Huge learning curve for any social media, but Yay you! Glad you are here! ❤️❤️❤️

[@anitaluellen4157]

I'm grateful to have found you this morning. Someone like me. Older, struggling, finding some successes and sharing the journey. I will be 64 in March. Have been a caregiver all my adult life, very stressed, mentally and physically exhausted, used up and burned out. I lose my train of thought, miss-use words and in back pain 24-7. Doing my best though to use the arts as a tool to healing. Appreciate when others share life skills in the arts, something new to keep my mind active. Glad you keep going!

[@JeriBellini]

To you Anita, I want to say... Ditto. I've been a caregiver my WHOLE life. I'm an empath so it comes by me naturally. It can be draining so remember to take care of yourself! Setting a few boundaries is key and save yourself for the important stuff. Sending Love, prayers and healing hugs... 🩷

[@ljshaw8516]

Being 62 a ESP, ADHD, multi chronic diseases and addicted to the needle (and paint brushes, calligraphy, crazy quilt, etc) I struggle with my body disappointing me. With that being said, when I first found you a few weeks back - I knew I found an angel on earth. Thank you for being on KZbin to bring joy, creativeness, a kind and gentle voice, etc. to listen to and watch. Anyone that could possibly bark on you in the comments for "short comings" is totally a very unhappy individual. Don't you worry Jeri about anything - you just keep on keeping on and your angels will be right with you on your shoulder as you go throughout your day doing the things that make you happy!!! x's lj

[@JeriBellini]

Oh I totally love the thought of angels on my shoulders! Thank you so much for your kind words! 🩷

[@mariejosemathot756]

ADHD is also a gift, I enjoy mine, so much ideas, so much creativity. I wouldn’t want to have a quit brain. And I love yours

[@JeriBellini]

I agree, I am constantly flooded with ideas! 💜💜💜

[@loraineeverard9760]

Jeri, what a thought provoking ,and honest video! You could have been talking about me!, and I am sure we are not alone! I never understand why people leave stupid and hurtful comments, what does it even mean, your stitches are too small? Says who? Keep going, you are doing a great job.! Some days , I struggle with the simplest sewing tasks, other days , I feel in control, mainly! Just like life in general, really.xxxx

[@JeriBellini]

YES, that's how it goes, Up and Down... but look for joy and be grateful anyhow each day! Thank you! 🩷

[@kathiekarancz964]

❤️❤️❤️ thank you for all you do. 👍🐢

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you for being here! 🩷

[@SharliMcLachlan]

Oh Jeri, I am so grateful for you. Thank you for inspiring me, i live in Queensland Australia and i enjoy your energy and creativity. You give permission to be me❤sharli's

[@JeriBellini]

Sending hugs! 💜

[@kellytaylor4000]

I just found your videos a couple days ago and I am so grateful that I have! I turned 60 this year and it’s really thrown me into a spin. I had lost my creative mojo for a while because I thought that I didn’t matter anymore because I was old. You have inspired me you pick up a needle again! Thank you! I have days when my mind, my hands, my body doesn’t seem to want to do what I’m telling it to do. I’m trying to accept these changes with grace but damn it can be hard! And…sidebar (ha!)…I was diagnosed with ADHD about 5 years ago and everything about myself just seemed to click into place with that diagnosis! It all makes sense now! And I believe ADHD is the reason I can think outside the box and why I am a creative down to my very soul.

[@JeriBellini]

Welcome!!! So glad you found me! I appreciate your comment and agree totally with thinking outside the box, i do believe ADHD adds creativity to our lives. sending my new friend some hugs! 💜

[@DebQuartz]

I'm so glad I found your channel. At 68, I can easily lose my train of thought, my mind wanders often and some days my tongue gets in my way when I search for a word. As creative and artistic people we have so many ideas running through our mind it's hard not to be a little scattered. Small stitches, large stitches, ugh who's to say what is the right size, as I see it if I am stitching it the stitch is the right size. I love the quote 'You do You' from Kathyrn from K3n.clothtales, those 3 short words speak volumes. I enjoyed the video in it's entirety, it was like sitting across from a friend and stitching and chatting together.

[@JeriBellini]

I almost used her phrase a few times during some of my videos! LOL I love her too! Side bar... I'm glad you're here! 🩷

[@juliapace2845]

Lovely woman that you are, never mind the negative people. They're really struggling, and maybe don't know it. Wonderful video. Thank you.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you! I have gotten better at it since this video! hugs, ❤️

[@karenfielder8022]

I saw you for the first time today and enjoyed your topics, techniques and instructions. First let me say you look very lovely and “with it” in this intro, as well as years younger than you claim. Secondly, I empathize completely with you and respect your zest for life despite your fears for the future. I’m your fun house mirror image..creative, fabric lover, and diagnosed with ADD at age 50. Now I’m 72 and can see my decline more often, though I usually rally at times every day. Focusing is always easiest when sewing, planning projects, or writing stories. I admire how you kept your composure in the intro; I cried a bit for both of us. Also, Sidebar is the perfect interjection during your videos. I knew at once what you were doing and appreciated knowing something more was coming, I should just wait a bit and you would clarify. Finally, the dismal state of life today seems to give licence to cruel, unthinking comments from every strata. Are most people really kind? Maybe fewer❤ than we imagine. I think your stitches are the perfect size. Bless your heart.

[@JeriBellini]

Well, Bless yours!!! And I mean that from the bottom of mine! Funny how some days you do just feel like you're 100 and others like 30! hahaha, I embrace it and do what I can when I can! Thank you so much for your beautiful comment! 🩵

[@das813]

I am 65 and have ADHD. Loved this video. My grandmother taught me how to embroider when I was 6 and it keeps me from the pharmaceutical aisle. I found you on Facebook and so glad I did. I applied to join your group. And can’t wait to watch more videos.

[@JeriBellini]

Love the way you phrased that! And make sure you answer the questions to get in to the FB group! Thank you for being here! 💜💜💜

[@gordonbrowne8068]

Message from Shari B. Bless you for your honesty. Yes, we all have bad days. Our brains are often overloaded it's not surprising! You keep doing what you're doing, be yourself. After all everyone else is already taken!❤❤

[@JeriBellini]

LOL I like that saying! Thank you for your comment! 🩷

[@Bubbawork]

Just found you on KZbin and really enjoyed your video. I have a lot of empathy (and understanding!) for what you say and look forward to seeing more from you. I’m struggling with stitching an EPP quilt, hand stitching has not been my thing in the past. I have some days when none of the points match … but when they do it’s a good day. I will not be defeated by this! Hang on in there, we all struggle with very similar things. Best wishes to you from the UK x

[@JeriBellini]

Welcome. I'm so glad you enjoyed my blathering... and it touched you in some small way. Thank you for being here! 🩷

[@JudyKostesky]

I am grateful for you! You talked about exactly what I am going through. You have inspired me to keep going! Thank you!

[@JeriBellini]

You got this! I'm so glad you found me! 💜

[@suehorn4182]

Aging gracefully is a daily struggle. I turned 74 in December. Yesterday I took my sister to rehab, she is 88. I love quilting, hand stitching but days it’s so difficult to focus on what I want to do. I think your stitches are the perfect size……because they belong to you. Thank you for your videos.

[@JeriBellini]

I'm so sorry about your sister and yes caring for our family can be so hard. I cared for my mom and I wouldn't trade that time for anything in the world. Life is so short Sue, enjoy the time you have with her. Sending prayers up for you and your sister. 🩷 And thank you for your comment!

[@joannhiebert9258]

I can totally relate to your issues. I am in a period where I can hardly think at all I'm just so tired. I still want to stitch, but am too tired to even figure out what to stitch. I was so happy to find your channel. I can just do what you do, cuz you keep it fairly simple. I joined Marion from Marion's World for her 2024 stitchalong, but she VERY quickly got way past what I wanted to do. Then I found K3n and started with her current series, and have been enjoying it, but some weeks she does something I have no interest in doing. I am getting things ready to join with your series on different stitches, and am really looking forward to it. But instead of circles I am gonna do hexies. So you are definitely an inspiration to/for me, and I am very grateful for you and what you do. Thank you for all your encouragement.

[@JeriBellini]

Lots of people are doing the hexies, just enjoy the process.... and if you're really tired, try to prep some work so you can just sit and stitch. It keeps me awake on nights that I'm just exhausted but dont' want to go to bed yet. 💜

[@annagray4208]

I guess when you make videos, you become open to the thoughtless, inconsiderate comments. But you don't need to justify yourself. You really do an amazing job. So thank you.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much! I really do appreciate when people leave positive comments!!! Sending hugs to you. 💜

[@enzasicuri8310]

Very inspiring and touching. Thank you for sharing, we all have some problem but who cares about perfection! Let’s enjoy life!

[@JeriBellini]

Well SAID! Thank YOU! 🩷

[@jo-annevandermey2704]

I dont know if you will see this comment. But I so get this video. Yes I have many of the characteristics of what you mention. And i am trying to deal with ageing, children (always a mom) grandkids, and elderly fiesty mom. I am a creative. Still trying to figure out my place in life at 61. Reflecting on mortality. Maybe my place is just to create good moments in the lives of those who deserve a place in my inner circle. Make stuff for the sake of making. Gifting kindness. And thanking those who have been kind. Your kindness today made a difference. To those who criticize or leave such comments to you is a lack of something in their lives. The need to be better, right or somesuch need. If you read this know you made a difference in my world today.

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Joanne, I read every comment and I really appreciate yours today. Thank you for being here! 💜

[@EvaVilla-pm5mv]

People are weird. Slow stitch is an interpretation of your own. There is no right or wrong. Jeri God bless your daughter. My grandson is super smart for his age. He just turned 7. The teacher he has this year has no business being a teacher. The assistant principal either. He’s just stated on meds and helps him focus. And has a math teacher that is working ahead with him. My struggle is I’m dealing with grief. 4 yr anniversary of loosing my mom and coming up in April will be the one yr anniversary of loosing my son to an ex girlfriend. He was found deceased in his apt. The only thing I’ve been able to be creative with is crocheting. It helps me slow my mind down. Your daughter will be so good because she knows the feeling. God bless

[@JeriBellini]

Oh Eva, I can relate to loosing mom but not to loosing a child, that has to be the hardest struggle ever and my heart goes out to you. 🩷 I tell Brian, he struggles with anxiety, just keep moving, just keep moving Eva. It's all you can do and one minute after another all of a sudden you are thinking about what you're doing and not your grief. I don't pretend to be an expert on this but it has worked for me with my chronic pain and my grief. Sending you lots of love and healing hugs today. 🩷🩷🩷

[@christinegilmour6420]

Hi there, I’m almost 61 and live in the north-east of England. I came across your KZbin videos from a lady who had been making spot bags And I’m wondering whether she got her inspiration from you. She mentioned your name on her KZbin channel, and so therefore I thought I would take a look. I was amazed at all of your projects and lifestyle that you have. I have a small corner in my spare bedroom that I use for my crafting. I would love what you call a tiny house, and like you say in your videos you are so blessed and grateful for this. I love all of your up cycling projects, And I tried to do a little bit of up-cycling myself. There is a place in England called Kendall and it has a shop called CoolCrafting. I believe the owner is called Sarah Peel. She has the most amazing books called “Luna Lapin and friends “. She makes these characters, who all have their own clothes, and they are such a joy to make. 10:40 They are made from felt, And whilst they come in kit form, I like to use a Thrifted or charity shop wool coat. You get such a great results from this.Anyway, I just thought I would mention this as like you I get such great satisfaction from trying new things and it really does help with our mental health As we get older. I just wish the time would slow down a little it seems to pass so quickly these days. Keep going with your videos please, you really are an inspiration to us all. I love all your little stitches and tricks that you share with us. And I really want to give the spot quilt ago. I’ve got a few things on at the moment and once they are done I’m going to give it a try. So thank you so Much for sharing this with us. You are such a positive person I admire that in you as I’m sure so many other people on here do. When I’m in my little craft corner I now pop on your little videos, and listen to what you have to say whilst I’m doing my little bit of crafting. I live alone with my little Maltese dog, and Your videos keep me company whilst I stitch. So thank you for this. With every good wish. Christine

[@JeriBellini]

Christine, Welcome!!! I'm so happy you found me! Whoever it was talking about me and the dots, Thank you to them too! I dont always know who's mentioning me but I so appreciate it! ❤️❤️❤️ Many blessings to you!

[@cnmjmm416]

Hi Jeri, I just stumbled across your videos tonight. I’ve watched several, and will continue to keep watching. I subscribed to your page. I enjoy your conversation and your work. You have such a relaxing demeanor. Just keep doing you and ignore the rude people.

[@JeriBellini]

Hi there, I'm so glad you found me and you're enjoying my community! Thanks for subbing and we are ignoring anyone that is rude! 😂 🩵

[@LisaMyEclecticLife]

So good to see your pretty face again after so long. I just found out you are making videos again. So happy to subscribe. I remember my grandmother and her quilting buddies and how important small stitches were to them. The more stitches in an inch the better. I remember when she got to where she could not make such small stitches anymore and how this affected her feelings about her capabilities as a quilter. So, it was very funny to me to hear that someone was complaining that your stitches are too small. LOL I also agree that while the "thing" makes some things harder it also brings ideas in abundance. My daughter also has this, but as you said it also makes her so creative, and she is amazing. Since I lost my husband, everything is a more of a struggle. I am still struggling to find my creative flow and right now even the time to try. Hannah is getting married and moving to NM in June, so between helping her with that and helping my parents as they are aging and have been needing quite a bit of help for about the last 6 months, I have been just in "get through the day" mode. Things are a bit easier now and I am hoping to start streaming and making videos regularly again. Creative endeavors have definitely taken a back seat to getting the necessary things done each day. You know how hard it is when your body won't let you do the things you need to do as easily or as fast as you would like. I am living there, but I am able with the Lords help to get the important things done to an acceptable level. Blessings my sweet friend.

[@JeriBellini]

Oh Lisa, I did not know you lost your husband, I am so very sorry for your loss. It is wonderful to hear from you and I am so happy to get this newsy note. Please do create as you are able, it has saved me in so many ways. I'm glad for your daughter, I do remember her being extremely creative! and also sad she will be moving away from you but maybe trips to visit will be super fun! I have to make time to visit my kids or I will never see them, they are so busy with all kinds of things. It is a blessing that they have full lives but we do miss being around them on a regular day to day basis. Yes, praising Jesus, for the strength to go on!!! Sending hugs... 🩵

[@jessicaphelps6715]

We all have a “thing” or more, 53 here so dealing with aging and realizing both I and my 20 year old daughter both have ADHD among other names for other things, not going to stop us from being creative, after all, that’s the thing that we are good at! Thank you for your honesty and sharing this video ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Honestly, I think it's what makes us SO creative! My brian is always going!! Thanks for watching! ♥️

[@heatherparry3159]

This was very inspiring. And aging gracefully is exactly what I’m trying to do - not always successfully, but I know how lucky and blessed I have been in my life, even when I struggle sometimes. And your thoughts and comments reminded me of many things that I sometimes forget. Thank you so much.

[@JeriBellini]

Yes, it's quite normal to slip back, that's why we need to stay united as a group, to keep each other uplifted and moving forward! Hugs 🩷

[@debbiesjournals4550]

There are already 139 comments so I’m sure I’m not going to say anything that hasn’t already been said. I’m so glad I watched this today. Thank you for being honest and caring with sharing your struggles. No one is perfect and art is about YOUR expression of it, in whatever you want or can. Some people can only feel good when they put down someone else and they should just move on, like you said. I love listening to your rambling conversation. I find it interesting, informative and usually witty and fun. Pooh on the hater’s. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

And the comments NEVER get old! I love reading them and writing back so keep it up! Thanks for your input and for being here.... I'm likely to keep rambling! 🩷

[@mcdowell1953]

Oh yes, I struggle, my 60 year old sister struggles and many others have shared this with me. We have too much going on in our brains, there is too much going on in the world. We are also have to remember how all of theses electronics operate. It’s very confusing. You don t worry about your circles so don t worry about your memory❤️❤️❤️✝️. Also if you put your hope in Christ life will matter more

[@JeriBellini]

Well said! AMEN! ♥️♥️♥️ Thanks for being here!

[@birdietherecycledhippychic642]

Okay I have to stop your video and comment before I forget what I needed to say and then I will continue on watching. First of all thank you so much because to those of us who are aging we are just now noticing and realizing things about ourselves that we wish we would have noticed years ago. This community is truly in this together and I appreciate it. Also I see you as inspiration not as someone I need to follow exactly but someone to get the idea from so that my own creative juices can flow. Saying that your stitches are too small it's just flat critical. Small stitches are your thing if it's not someone else's thing then they need to do what makes them feel good period, End of story.

[@JeriBellini]

Birdie... Keep talking to me. I appreciate how you see things. ❤️

[@dorsethillbeads]

I am also 68 and have the same brain issues. So much and so little time. Then I freeze, and don’t do anything. Thank you for your videos. I find you very inspirational.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you, we all have something to deal with! 💜

[@Pooky-Cat]

I'm looking for my tribe, could I have found it? I will set up just a little way away from the campfire and observe awhile. Thank you, namaste 🙏

[@JeriBellini]

😂 I LOVE that! You sound like my sister, she does the same thing, she wants to make sure it's safe before she goes there! Please check in again, so I know if you're still here! 🩵

[@cynthiatalbott-nelson7530]

Jeri, thanks so much for sharing such a difficult topic to talk about. I too didn't know that I had ADD until my son was diagnosed and he informed me sometime later that he recognized I had it too. It explained so much about my life. It helped me realize that my struggles made perfect sense. You and I are perfect just the way we are and who we've become as a result of our experiences. Judgement on stitch length? and the way you do anything is a reflection of them not you or me or anyone else. It's art there is no right or wrong there is just your art the way you see it. Keep moving forward I'm the same age as you and face your struggles daily as well. And we are just fine the way we are. Hugs for you. 😙

[@JeriBellini]

We are creatively made humans and just the way God intended us to be. Hugs to you too! Enjoy your weekend! 🩷🩷🩷

[@janekrut2799]

Thanks, sometimes that's all I can post. I love your videos and the grateful. I'm 72 and am considering the eyball roll as my thing.

[@JeriBellini]

I'm glad you're here! If I'm reading your comment correctly, you are funny! 💜

[@jshepard56]

We are leading parallel lives my friend! I’m thrilled with your videos as I feel I’m chatting with a friend and this is how conversations go. Thanks for keeping on going and please let any stray comments roll off, like water off a ducks back.

[@JeriBellini]

I feel the same way about my community! Thank you for watching! 💜