'If I Could, I Would Have 20 Kids' - Patrick Bet-David On The Importance Of Having Kids

In this short clip, Patrick Bet-David and Graham Stephan discuss the importance of having kids.
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[@Rafaelnewyorkcity]

My partner and I just had our first this morning. I am incredibly blessed. We are so happy.

[@virjoshi4958]

congratulations

[@ErrythingPhroze]

having my first in 3-4 weeks. Cant wait. Congratulations brother and much love to your family!

[@prhasn]

Congrats.

[@Mike-bs5xi]

God bless you.

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

A message society needs to embrace. The service to your family makes you a better person.

[@jbevolve2024]

here we go with ego-investments

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

@@jbevolve2024 I don’t know if that is supportive of my comment or negative because it was rather vague, but either way I personally don’t care. And I can say God Bless in whichever scenario your comment fell under.

[@samtavoosian3059]

Basically playing the odds game. Out of 3-5 kids one will be just like him business oriented and high achiever. Patrick’s brain works

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

@@samtavoosian3059 agreed. And if properly raised those kids all help one another. They are a team, family is a partnership. And if you don’t think his family isn’t better off because of his success you are crazy. Lift one another up

[@samtavoosian3059]

@@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087 no I actually think he is an amazing father and his kids will be healthy and successful. I want 20 kids but I’m still single lol

[@DanielJahn]

Completely agree. My primary motivation for wanting to make a lot of money is so we can have lots of children. I live a very simple life myself and don’t need much but I do want a large family.

[@em4227]

Yeah but people that have kids never talk about how egocentric that is you're just trying to reproduce your own ego. It's just like Pat said plant a tree write a book and have kids it's all for your ego. We're human beings we want to live forever😏

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

@@em4227 If he said that it’s wrong. I didn’t necessarily want to have kids, but I know that they aren’t extensions of me while still being a part of me. It’s not ego or self promotion. It is love. The most sacrificial love a person can give to another person.

[@jiggy7108]

@@em4227 what's wrong with ego?

[@alqoshgirl]

Kids don’t have to be expensive at all. Remember that time is important too. And try to pick a job/field that allows you to have lots of free time while also make a decent income. We have 4 kids under 7 currently and doing it on my one income. My husband is an engineer so a decent income while working only 40 hrs a week. I stay home and we live pretty modest. I might not bring in money but I save a ton. Make food from scratch, look for the best deals and sales. We don’t go out much to restaurants or vacations, but there is so much to do for free or very low price. The immense joy that our little family brings is incredible!

[@alexacosta2140]

God bless you. May you have as many children as you want. We need more people like you.

[@sagarlimbu9025]

Finally Finally we got to see you both on same podcast. Very very happy. The amount of education you guys had given to me is like I had done a Ph.D personal finance. Love you both guys

[@joeanne9626]

Love this. I didn’t want kids before but will be having my 4th soon and can’t imagine my life without them. I agree with the money part too so prepare as much financially as possible to give the family more options.

[@mrskrobs]

same here! and I just had my 4th too 😆 it gets easier with more kids...just not too many!

[@kagors4491]

A good man works hard to give his family a great life.

[@silvief1]

I appreciate Patrick encouraging people to have children. Bravo!

[@nicenslow45]

He obviously need workers to come work for him and his family.. don’t be fool.. it is absolutely no benefit to having a child.. they are brought here w/o there permission into a world of suffering, illnesses, violence, chaos, etc.. and some turn out to be highly disrespectful to their parents and killers.. good luck with that

[@WhiteBoardFinance]

Children are the greatest wealth

[@jeradkiester698]

I dunno bro, my pokemon NFTs are gonna pop one of these days, I just know it.

[@nicenslow45]

Naw.. your health is your greatest wealth. And it’s selfish to bring a whole human into this world that didn’t ask to be here. This life is shitty and bringing a kid into it with the dangers of medical conditions, violence, drugs, bullying, abuse, rape, poverty, etc.. it’s not worth it and especially if the child is disrespectful, ungrateful oh and a HS serial killer.. leave that baby making bs alone and enjoy your life

[@kennymccannYT]

Love my boys!! Children are tough to raise but they bring much joy!!

[@brent4073]

Make sure your boys read the 'Unplugged Alpha' and 'A Rationale Male' by the ages of 16. Could honestly save their lives some day!

[@ferndog1461]

Do me a favor. Ask your friends, that have children, a question. Phrase it like this, " my sister(brother) is undecided if they are going to put their kids on prescription medication for mental issues. Do you know if they work ? " Parents may share with you. Kids today are having mental issues to a greater degree. Like a third of kids/teenagers are some sort of mental Rx medications. The more kids you have, the more the chances of producing a doctor/engineer/entrepreneur. But also more chances of producing an adult child that can't function in society and will be a dependent for your whole life.

[@kennymccannYT]

@@brent4073 ok, will be also introduce to them the wisdom of the western world including the Catholic Faith and the witness of saints.

[@kennymccannYT]

@@ferndog1461 They will be out of the house before they become a "forever dependent". If they become ill or sick that is a different story.

[@em4227]

I find people funny when they talk about how wonderful it is to have kids and nowadays people are only have one or two kids if it's so wonderful have more. And I'm not saying people shouldn't have kids we have to promote the species to have kids but they're tough to raise especially today

[@Brandon-ex8ui]

How your kid grows up is a reflection of the time you put into that kid. Now, just because they’re not successful financially, or don’t have huge aspirations doesn’t make them any less of a person. The goal should be to raise good, caring, moral people who are loving. The rest is irrelevant in the end.

[@rubenlaracuente8991]

MY PARENTS HAD 14 OF US GROWING UP IN A BIG FAMILY IS SO MUCH FUN

[@mendymeer3613]

Having kids is extremely challenging but is the the greatest way a human being bring light and change to the world! Forget money and private schools good healthy parents have the greatest impact on there children and they are the ones who untimely transmitted there values here by creating another source of light in the world with each child you bring and then it multiplies with... grandchildren

[@stevenalvarado-doc7334]

Adopt. Our son is 23 and our adopted daughter is 12 we got her at 45 and she is keeping us happy and busy.

[@orthodoxboxing9159]

Loser’s mentality. I refuse to raise another man’s seed. I’ll raise my own seed.

[@r4ym1n13]

I am 35 and wife is 34 and we just had our 1st child born in June. Its definitely a huge change in your lifestyle that requires a ton of work but feels rewarding too. Having your own "circle" or family feels special. With sky high inflation and cost of living, I don't blame anyone not wanting to deal with the stress of raising a child. That's why we are one and done moving forward

[@JT0007]

The best gift you can give a kid is a sibling 🇺🇸

[@r4ym1n13]

@@JT0007 I think the best gift a child can have is 2 loving and supportive parents. We just can't afford another child in this environment today. We are happy with our beautiful & healthy daughter.

[@JT0007]

@@r4ym1n13 For sure. If it’s a $ thing I get it. But no, nothing better than a sibling. (Good parents was a given.)

[@r4ym1n13]

@Tony G We can't afford it Tony. Our daughter will get all the love, support and attention from us. Besides my wife had a horrible experience in labor at the hospital that scarred her, I was there for it trust me it was not fun. My wife does not want to go through that again.

[@YummyFoodOnlyPlz]

Inflation is not forever. You can change hospitals. Don't jump to conclusions too quickly. Make hard decisions one at a time.

[@jesusmercado275]

Great message Pat. Graham and you in the same room is a slam dunk. Keep them coming.

[@JT0007]

Respectfully disagree. Pat crushed it but Graham looked lost. We now know Graham is much better when reading a script than he is without one. PBD don’t need no script. 🇺🇸

[@LNGops]

We have 7, haven’t made plans to stop. We can afford it. We homeschool them as well as include them in our real estate investing ventures. It’s work, but it’s worth it.

[@KD400_]

I'm guessing ur a religious family that's great u can afford to have a large family

[@jimj2683]

Could I ask what kind of jobs you have? I need to make more money haha

[@LNGops]

@@jimj2683 I’m a plant operator at an LNG facility in south Louisiana. I work 7 days on and 7 days off. We started flipping and renting houses a few years ago, my wife got her real estate license to support that and pick up a few clients here and there. Cost of living isn’t the highest where we live and it’s hot, humid and full of mosquitoes. My kids are young so we arnt hustling our hardest now but we make between 200k and 300k depending on the year.

[@padilijamesmikomangwa519]

Your comment is both stupid and interesting. You have 7 kids, yet you can't afford them. But, at the same time you say - they are worth it, for what?

[@mjjumps]

I’ve spent 20+ years of my life working with kids. Pediatrics, Disabled, Autism, Down syndrome, Behavioral and it had its great moments. But I have no kids myself and I have no desire to have any. They are a blessing for some people but kids aren’t for everyone.

[@sean4060]

You’ll regret it when you’re older. You’ll see

[@mjjumps]

@@sean4060 I am older and I don’t regret it. Take care

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

@@mjjumps priests and others vow to never have children and they support children and their growth. As long as you recognize they are a blessing and give them love then you have done your part.

[@mjjumps]

@@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087 kids just aren’t for me. I’m not a fan of them anymore. But I see how they are a blessing to others and that’s amazing. Just not for me. ✌️

[@nicenslow45]

Better to regret not having them then regret having them.. I’m convinced that only highly intelligent people made the choice not to have kids. This world is full of chaos, and these kids didn’t ask to come here.. Pain and suffering is what you giving these kids when they get here. You are very selfish to have children for your own pleasure; it’s sick!

[@lescoburandun1457]

Almost 39 and sometimes feel bad I don’t have any but then I just get on KZbin and watch a couple videos and I’m completely relieved that I never brought a child into this circus!! They have no future unless you’re rich. I’d feel so guilty bringing a child into this mess.

[@charzanboo9940]

Meanwhile immigrants come into the US and Canada with less than $10,000, 3-5 kids in tow, and make it lol.

[@timtalks8292]

You’re so wrong. You’ll regret it more as you get older. There’s never a right time & you cannot control the world but you can control your household.

[@jbak87]

@@charzanboo9940 While living in poverty.

[@-whackd]

@@charzanboo9940 Their daughters are on birth control by 14 and getting banged out in middle school. They learn nothing in school and end up being regular fat Americans. By the way, immigrants to Canada need a bigger financial guarantee than that. They have to be able to support themselves without welfare. It is a false belief that poor immigrants are legally coming here. Most people come through family reunification or because they pursued graduate degrees here.

[@mohamedadan6678]

that's a bad mindset

[@jenmolly8794]

I agree. No … you don’t know what life is until you have kids. Your heart is now on your arm. NOW you care about the future and how your great great great Grandchildren will live

[@adrianplayer-propertyinvest]

12 months into trying and still nothing. Hopeful we start our family over the next year!

[@SIMSNYC]

Patrick would love to see you sit down with alex i think it could be one of the best podcasts on the internet

[@yannick4044]

can't wait to see Alex on your podcast so you guys can go deeper in this

[@kurts3252]

People that have more than one kid deserve medals. I have one and that’s a handful. How people can do it is beyond me

[@karlstrauss2330]

If having kids truly changes your life to make you less selfish, why are so many fathers abandoning their families and not paying child support?

[@ILOVESTEAK10]

Only have kids if you are rich. Simple.

[@KD400_]

1 they r irresponsible 2 they just don't like the marriage laws

[@OfficerPapi]

Imagine if his kid would of answered “why are you assuming I’m marrying a girl?” Now they gotta have a whole new debate lmao.

[@christendenise220]

Narcissists sure know how to stay selfish when they have kids...😔 I wish more parents could see it as you do.

[@rogeliodelacruz1556]

Thank you Patrick!!

[@wanderingdoc5075]

The reality is most people with a net worth under $10 million cannot relate to this. Anyone who has kids with lower than this net worth is going to take a significant cut to their quality of life and will struggle. It's easy for Graham or Alex hermosi to have a few kids and they won't even notice.

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

“Cut to their quality of life”. You need to redefine what quality of life means. If it means a trailer park and food stamps it is better than jet setting in the end. Easy guarantee.

[@wanderingdoc5075]

@@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087 I don't get what you said. What do you mean by trailer park and food stamps it is better than jet setting in the end. What end? Jet setting?

[@wanderingdoc5075]

@@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087 the point is someone like these guys can hire full-time maids and housekeepers which will significantly decrease burden of having children. Even multi-millionaires aren't going to be able to afford this and are going to lose some of their own health and quality of life if they have children.

[@ferndog1461]

Have as many kids that you can support. I promised myself to not have kids till I can financially support them... Then I had self-discovery in my thirties. I discovered that my average IQ + poor networking skills + mediocre self discipline = welcome to 50 hour a week and live in apartment in the bad side of town. No, I don't have a ETOH nor drug problem. I have a very good punctuality/work attendance record in most of my jobs. .

[@KT-sv6jx]

I Love When You Give LIFE Advice ❤️ So Many People Need It. I Agree Money 💰💵 Is An Important Factor In Having Children 🚸. I Also Think 💬🤔 It Takes A Village To Raise A Child. The SUPPORT You Have Is Important. If Parents Who Send Their Children To A Public School Would Come To An Agreement That They Will Look Out For The Well Being Of Each Others Children. A Change In Mindset Has To Happen. Parents Need To Be Aware Of What's Happening In School And Tell The School What They Will Accept And Not Accept. WORK TOGETHER VILLAGE

[@easygamingwwiigamingchanne729]

And Patrick should have 20 kids because he is honorable good man.

[@simonscowled9925]

Ain't nothing stopping you

[@charleedoessolarmaintenain9149]

Love bet Patrick David for this one

[@tcgtpl]

There are some guys that have already taken PBD’s take on having lots of kids. Baby Mommas & Baby Daddies have been terms for awhile now.

[@bighands69]

Very few people have that set up though. Most families in America which is about 85% are a family singular unit they are not spread out.

[@funkspinna]

Not really. Many fatherless children out there.

[@funkspinna]

With today's epidemic of fatherless children, this is so refreshing.

[@dcc9345]

Now, you clearly see why they adore this guy Patrick

[@abrahamflores2566]

Thank you Patrick! Children and marriages are far too demonized in today's society.

[@andyko6457]

very well agreed PBD

[@michelbisson6645]

Kid is for life important decision and respondability

[@1dagmawi]

I am still on "who is better, Marvel or Avenger"?

[@coolerpro2024]

This was enlightening

[@SenorJuan2023]

I had a crappy childhood. I'm not about to have kids until I get to have MY childhood.

[@midsummerstation3345]

Deep

[@SenorJuan2023]

@@midsummerstation3345 Glad you approve. My life is complete now.

[@Thiiink]

what a pantsy

[@jimj2683]

@@hablabamosa Get rich and sleep with lots of hot women. Get friends that are in similar situations and do lots of fun stuff.

[@SenorJuan2023]

I like the questions Patrick asks his kids to have them think.

[@IvanTerreroDDS]

Agree, if we did start late I would love have 5 kids

[@AlexMcDaniels]

That's why you have 5 kids, in case one of them end up not like you wanted. Pat got me cracking with that haha

[@Morgamera]

Woah Graham Stefan on Valuetainment? No wonder why he hasn’t been putting out as many videos this past week.

[@UNDFTDGordon]

Same. It’s funny to me when people say that kids are so expensive yet the birth rates in richer countries is far lower than in places like Africa. It’s a mindset. The urban, secular culture destroys bloodlines. Family is wealth and money is debt but in cities, a lot of people see kids as as a burden. The city life is a burden on your children.

[@NickKravitz]

Alex says what if your kids didn't turn out the way you expect? My son is special needs and doesn't share any of my interests. You adapt. Still working on the book.

[@Jd-eq3ul]

Absolutely I wish I had 10 kids kids are the greatest thing given to man!!

[@HeartLatic]

Agreed 💯

[@anikkeinspired]

Hope Patrick has Alex and Laila Hormozi on his channel

[@andresgreene4913]

Everything is a risk is not a good argument for getting married or having kids, because the type of risk and the level of risk are different from anything else. Losing expendable income on an investment, for example, is not the same thing as having your wife cheat on you, take your children, and take at least half your money. For the overwhelming majority of people, being married and having a family can be more fulfilling than anything else you can experience, but it can also completely and irreversibly ruin your life. It requires a massive amount of preparation and constant maintenance. It's dishonest, dismissive, and dangerous to tell men to "Just do it bro, everything in life is a gamble."

[@pmh1nic]

I think you’re taking his comment simplistically. The point he was trying to make was there are no guarantees in life. Every decision you make has risk. You can mitigate some of that risk with preparation but when it comes to raising kids all the preparation in the world may not guarantee the desired result.

[@andresgreene4913]

@@pmh1nic TL;DR My argument isn't simplistic, on this issue, PBD's is, because it doesn't take into account the extent of the possible damage, or the necessary preventative measures and maintenance that are required specifically to have a good family life as an American man in the 21st century. --Divorce rates are around 50%. No fault divorce makes it very easy to get divorced, and women initiate 2/3 of divorces. A woman with bad intentions is actually incentivized to end a marriage. --Primary custody is given to mothers 85% of the time, which means child support is also paid to them. In some states, even if there's 50/50 custody, a man will still have to pay child support. Child support payments are not based on demonstrated or pre-established numbers, but by a statutory (at the state level) income-based calculator. You can also have a child support rate based on a salary you don't make, but based on the "prevailing wage". The idea was to prevent a parent from quitting a job or leaving an industry to avoid payment, but if you lose a job or you work in a non-traditional job with varying pay rates, an estimate will be made based on the average for someone in that industry and occupation with similar qualifications, or based on you prior earnings. The use of child support payments is also almost never monitored, which means they can be spent on anything. -You can have your professional licenses revoked for not paying child support. You can have your passport suspended for not paying child support. You can have your checks garnished as back pay for child support. You can be put in jail for not paying child support. - Because of the legal presumption of paternity of a child born in wedlock, a man can be forced to pay child support for a child that isn't his. It also means a man who does want rights for his child who was conceived before or a marriage, or perhaps during a legal separation, but born during a marriage has to have a judge legally designate him as the father, and a DNA test doesn't guarantee legal paternity if it's not in the "best interest" of the child. -Unmarried mothers can also just list a random man's name on a birth certificate, and a judge can legally determine paternity without the listed man even being present in court. The man could be in another state or a even different country, but as soon as goes to that state, BOOM. He has to now prove he's not the father. -Alimony is paid to women in 97% of cases. Some states will take cheating into account when determining the amount if any. You don't even have to be married to have make regular payments either, "palimony" can be awarded to women you lived with. Women have also been paid for engagements being broken off. --It's possible for a man to have to make child support payments into the 20s of a child that was conceived from infidelity, while he makes lifelong payment to his ex-wife, that pay for her and HER child's bio-father to live in his house because she refuses to get remarried. For many men "lifelong" isn't very long under those circumstances. So no, my argument is not simplistic PBD's argument about the risk of marriage and kids, which is what I was referring to, is simplistic. He made the same argument when he spoke to Fresh and Fit. Financial investment was actually one of the examples he gave in that discussion. The specific risk profile of a particular action or decision is what matters. "Nothing in life is guaranteed" is excruciatingly inadequate in even beginning to address the comprehensive destruction of a man's welfare, up to and including his very life, that can result from becoming a victim of a malevolent woman and or the family court system, and the legal system generally to be honest.

[@wanderingdoc5075]

Kind of reminds me of the PFS and anti-finasteride forums that tell you "Just shave it bro!" Terrible advice. Crabs in a bucket mentality. Those guys hate themselves for not doing the responsible thing and taking finasteride, and they want to bring others down with them.

[@pmh1nic]

@@andresgreene4913 Actually if you listened to the whole interview he does discuss the risk and some of the things he and his wife have incorporated into their marriage to minimize the risk. He never minimize the complications of relationships whether it’s business or personal relationships.

[@andresgreene4913]

@@pmh1nic That doesn't happen in the Fresh and Fit video or this clip, but if he gave that crucial context somewhere else in the full video, then I withdraw my previous statements. (I'm leaving them up though). Take it easy bro. 🤙🏾

[@neuromancer9k]

Some good points raised here, although I will maintain that there are no unselfish reasons for having kids. That aside, maybe we should first look at all of the caveats involved with having just one child, especially for those who stand the most to lose in family court (which I'm not supposed to say, but I will anyway).

[@bighands69]

You can have a weak mind and worry about things that may never happen such as losing a kid.

[@neuromancer9k]

@@bighands69 I think that the statistics say otherwise, so no need for name calling. I don't wish that on anyone.

[@anthonyelwick3600]

I only have one kid and I regret not having more.

[@braxtonmills1235]

Why not help abused children instead of bringing more children into a messed up world?

[@Bitachon]

*Biggest risk is not taking a risk*

[@jesserodriguez7523]

2 out of 4 kids!!! Future looks bright

[@michaelyoung5707]

It’s called IVF David. You can have as many kids you want.

[@SledgeHammer99]

Way too expensive to have a bunch of kids. Unless you’re wealthy.

[@icecoldchilipreppers]

Lol, I guarantee this dude does like 10% of the parenting. Every dude I know who has to do 50%+ of the parenting tells me it's fine to not have them. I'm a millenial. If I have children I won't be able to afford to do anything else. The wife and I have decided to trade the experience of being a parent for ALL the other experiences that being poor parent stops you from having. Perhaps when BTC goes to a million we will adopt.

[@bighands69]

You are part of that damaged generation that does not understand the world. When you start a family it is your legacy and it is also your support network especially as you get older. You may love your nieces and nephews but they are not going to be the same as your own children.

[@VistaLakesTV]

@@bighands69 Na, who are you to say that’s what a persons legacy is?? So one could have kids that become unproductive members of society and that’s their legacy? As opposed to a talent/skill and work one does to leave behind their mark on the world that enables other humans to be better. Kids may not be for everyone. I believe many just follow the narrative society has set for them and then try to justify their decisions as opposed to others who actually take time to think through their decisions and make their own way through the world.

[@KD400_]

@@bighands69 as a man u can get away with not having kids however as a lady u really can't. But in today's age there r many single parents around and many lonely men

[@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087]

@@VistaLakesTV you are wrong. Kids born in the worst circumstances can do as well or better than those from the most affluent parents. Love and care. That is all you need.

[@VistaLakesTV]

@@miguelalonsociervoquijano6087 First....How can I be wrong about ones personal decision to have kids or not? It's a PERSONAL Decision! Second...I said nothing about kids born in terrible circumstances. I said kids who become unproductive members of society. That has nothing to do with their socio economic status.

[@JLLJR]

Agree agree agree

[@ericrobinson8864]

Everything in life is not about money

[@Twestliw]

I wonder if men would feel like this if they had to carry them -- they would fucking NOT

[@A_Muzik]

Knowing what women deal with and risk during pregnancy (fatigue, teeth loss, back problems, gestational diabetes, back problems, hypertension, pre-eclampsia, vaginal tears, shattered pelvic floor), I wouldn't want to get a woman pregnant because I wouldn't want to be pregnant. It doesn’t matter that humans have done it for eons. I wouldn't want to undergo that kind of torture and I wouldn't want to put a woman through that kind of torture.

[@dcc9345]

Laughable argument from Patrick: "if you have the money, then have kids, if not, have at least FIVE to play the odds..." Interesting that the video discusses "having kids" as for the sake reproduction, but he does not discuss FATHERING. What about FATHERING these same five, ten, twenty kids?? It is clear to see his "reproduce irresponsibly" agenda.

[@OhohohTST]

Typical “bro” thinking like all these podcasters… who are they? They’re just putting an act.

[@minaso81307]

As much as I love Patrick, I disagree 100% with the selfishness theory. Plenty of shitty parents out there who can't even give up their beer to feed their kids.

[@Bitachon]

Shaq never drank beer again yeah right

[@rosies8476]

Surely you need money to keep having more. Or else they will suffer

[@Bitachon]

Play the odds game with kids OMG 😲

[@darkhumphrey]

I can only afford two... lol

[@martinjacket2637]

kids are over rated. Too expensive also. Behind the scenes my married friends with kids wish they were single and traveling

[@twistedspine7300]

That makes them awful human beings

[@omarsantos929]

I never want to have kids because of my childhood and my biological parents

[@yamoto1833]

You can give a human What you didnt had and Give you the opportunity that you never had one of the most gratefull thing you cand do in life

[@briankhall9963]

I have 2 sets of Twins

[@ericrobinson8864]

How about you home school. Don't have to pay for private school

[@katielowen]

Graham looks like he's 44 🥵

[@poofbah431]

Alex is saying that because his wife is a trans man (sorry if this offends anyone)

[@pubear7514]

Most of America cannot afford good private schools.

[@cynthiaa3359]

Lol it’s easy for all these men to say-they aren’t the ones who have to have the child

[@rpdbu8250]

Michelle Duggar, she got 19 of them

[@slipdipwaterypoo5420]

Except you didn't. Patrick you're extravagantly rich and you can definitely afford children. Stay in your lane.

[@Crukren89]

🤣👍🏾 preach it

[@AK-qg7mp]

It's 99% genetics bro... kings will always be kings and losers will always be losers.

[@stomper2888]

Your the loser

[@roseagain2]

I don't get it. One is enough for me.

[@Bitachon]

*Adopt 16 kids*

[@JT0007]

Adults without kids aren’t adults. Sorry, you don’t get it until you have kids. 🇺🇸

[@VistaLakesTV]

You’re speaking nonsense. Who are you to say to other men out there that they aren’t adults unless they have kids? I would argue many men are more responsible and more of an adult when they choose not to have a child instead of the ones who do and run away.

[@JT0007]

@@VistaLakesTV You can’t understand the love a parent has for their kids until you have kids. You don’t get the world the same until you do. Sorry you don’t have kids, but you’re not the same type of adult as those who have kids. That might make you upset, but facts don’t care about opinions.

[@VistaLakesTV]

@@JT0007 Lol!! As if your word was fact. You word is an OPINION. That's all! Happy for you to feel that for your children. But that doesn't mean your feelings are the facts! You have no idea what other men know, feel, think and love. Sure, one could say there is not love like the love a parent feel for a child. However, your original comment was "Adults without kids aren't adults." and I would argue (As I did in my original reply) that's false. Lastly, so what kind of adults are those that have children but abuse them, molest them, traffic them, give them away and resent them?? Which "Adults" are those?

[@JT0007]

@@VistaLakesTV Fair. I’ll rephrase. The highest form of adulthood is adults with kids. You simply don’t get it the same without kids.

[@VistaLakesTV]

@@JT0007 😂😂😂 Sure….Ok!

[@kasparovthegodofwar]

Get rich Have kids With multiple chicks It's all about that good 🧬🧬🧬 DNA

[@TheRichie213]

Have fun paying child support while your ex collects and screws other men.

[@kevinc2821]

I want a wife but no kids

[@michelbisson6645]

I was 23 then at 26 had 3

[@IndigoAiReviews]

More respect for Pat. This other guy tricked ppl into buying a shit coin and rug pulled everyone when he took the profits. No respect.

[@bighands69]

That did not make much sense. Do you want to try again.

[@IndigoAiReviews]

@@bighands69 grant ran a pump and dump scheme on his audience along with his other rich friends for a shit dog coin and pulled the rug from under them and cashed in on their ignorance. Shit like that I personally never forget.

[@ericjames7819]

Your wife isn't comfortable having more kids? Seriously, man up. If you want 20 kids you.can have them. You just need to have them with a few more women.

[@davidtejeda4323]

Pat always overspeaks and takes over conversations where it’s like why even have a panel when this guy never shuts up RT but whatever it’s his channel I guess.

[@OnPoint88]

Imagine the 😺 of a woman who had 20 kids 😬🤢

[@gtathletics912]

Yeahhhhhhhhh no

[@yamoto1833]

🤦🏻‍♂️

[@stevend481]

I cant stand kids

[@BossChronicles]

💯

[@leshernandez8577]

Not with you on this one Patrick. Are you kidding me, bring a kid/kids into this hellhole of a Planet filled with caos, and the ever present danger of a WW3. Not for me man I've wouldn't bring a human into this Planet... All this misery, litany of problems facing humanity, To me that would be cruel furthermore I don't think life is not all that people make it out to be... Overrated and then some, and it's not really all about having more financial freedom, overall not impressed by the way life is super hyped. For one good thing that happens to you there are so many more crappy ones that come your way. Another human bull crap about all this I hear life's short, it goes by so quickly and buddy I'm 53 and I feel that I've been around for much, much more than my age. It's being an Eternity for me. Overrated, nothing espectacular about it and make another human through this chaotic world no way, no how. Convince me of why life it's so gran, what's so fabulous about it. The more I live the more I feel this way. Not the big shit people make it out to be. But try me, convince me PBD, or anyone for that matter.

[@patlevv7382]

Nothing STOPPING u🐴‼️😵‍💫🥵😱

[@scottsimon769]

Last 🤬 💩

[@RiteshKumar-h3m]

Verbal diarrhoea

[@braxtonmills1235]

This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

[@NickatYouTubeSucksJK]

Interestingly and borderline brutal ending to the video!

[@padilijamesmikomangwa519]

It is easy for BetDavid with $350 million net worth - to have more than 5 kids in this economy. If you have less than $1 million net worth never ever, even think about having kids past 1.