Is it appropriate “to look out for” your Ex BEHIND your current significant other’s back 👀

They don't have boundaries

[@calvinmack7124]

My ex and I have kids together... My responsibility is the kids.. nothing more....that ship has sailed and sunk like the Titanic.

[@Arilovelybby]

Exactly, and thats how it should be. Should be wayyyyyy over your ex before even talking to anybody else. I made a mistake of talking to someone with an ex wife who has been so disrespectful (both of them) i dont think ill ever date someone who has an ex wife because now a days that shows more love than having kids, ppl make mistakes and get pregnant but u gotta love someone to commit the rest of your life to them.

[@calvinmack7124]

@@Arilovelybby I am married again... My wife knows my ex and they are cool. It's called "pimp game"... Not every man has this talent😛..... If people would act like adults... It could be this way. Our divorce was cordial and life moved on.... Simple

[@BLESZZZZ5807]

@@calvinmack7124question for anyone’s who’s reading if your ex whom you share a child or children with gets sick are you obligated to be by there side ? Not communicating with the person your now with ?

[@calvinmack7124]

@@BLESZZZZ5807 for me.... No.. I don't wish her any harm but that's not my responsibility if something bad happens. Hopefully, whomever you speak of has family or a new significant other.

[@Slim_Charles]

“Two year relationship” “Know since I was 18” She already knew she was wrong. Her attempt at justification was included in the question.

[@righteousmasculine]

Nope it’s not ok. First off my exes don’t have access to me and 2nd if I ever help an ex with anything my current lady will know and will be present when I do it. You have to have boundaries in a relationship and keeping secrets will put a huge dent in that

[@madant22]

She might as well go back and remarry her ex husband if that she case. especially if he treating him like e husband.

[@BLESZZZZ5807]

question for anyone’s who’s reading if your ex whom you share a child or children with gets sick are you obligated to be by there side ? Not communicating with the person your now with ?

[@lwinston5950]

Baby and got no edges but got two men . Jesus it's me again

[@DoTheMath777]

😄

[@haineskarly]

😂😂😂😂

[@deshawnthomas9023]

Oh no. 🤣😂

[@nathalieduverna6963]

You're wrong 😂😂

[@amanda4realsosoa]

I’m glad you pointed it out and not me 😂😂😂😂

[@nathalieduverna6963]

We have children together and I'm STILL not looking out for him. He is a grown man. Co-parenting and looking out for him are two different thinga

[@alexistaylor7483]

She is so correct. This is a very deep soul tie. To be married to that person.... people take soul ties to lightly. It's serious when you can't leave a failed connection. Or realize a situation is not fixable at the moment. Now she want to drag other people into this mess. Smh. She need to be more focused on her healing. On her relationship with God and Jesus. Because that is the only way she will be free from devils way of love. God's love is healthy. So are his children. The devil is unhealthy and so are those who follow him. I'm praying for her. In the mighty name of Jesus..🙏🏼✝️✝️❤️🙌🏼

[@Latonuga.Lonberger]

He's a lazy narcissistic man. He knows her like a book and uses her weakness. You can look at her and see there is no self-esteem there. She's not worried and 2yr man, she's worried about the one who sweet talks here. But men's her no good.

[@charleeceejay8543]

"You have no boundaries...you're an enabler."

[@HumbleBeauty679]

No, not ok by a long shot

[@derrickgentryhumbleblessed8772]

Speak the truth sista 💯👏🏾👏🏾

[@jhenrymusic7588]

That accountability is a mofo aint it.

[@tousainthart-yc1tr]

True

[@NotYomama13]

she needs to look out for that hairline.

[@latoshastanfield5523]

FACTS🤡🙄

[@gmshadowtraders]

It's a situationship!

[@bgrego88]

She gets it

[@Latonuga.Lonberger]

My exhusband told me, we will still be connected. The first time his wife came for me i checked her, and checked myself, because you not going to have me fighting over you with a woman i don't know because of her insecurities with me. We were married for 30 yrs, divorced 14 now and that line has remained that way. I have not seen his face for that long. Our kids are 35,33,19,17. To this day he still didn't see my face. Boundaries are needed.

[@vsamoht2254]

Very good advice

[@hereforit2347]

1) “Looking out for him how? 2) Anything you’re doing behind your man’s back is *wrong.* Why be sneaky? 🤔

[@konsyansnou8623]

"How do I tell my 2 years ex about my ex-husband/ co-parenting I m own since 18 years old [...]? Me: to the left ...😑⬅️⬅️⬅️

[@notesFromTheSource]

Women will simultaneously have emotionally and physically charged relationships with people that are not their ex. I don’t care ex or not every relationship needs to be evaluated by the merits of the relationship.

[@Sandra-jo1lj]

I use to always wonder why my ex or should say kids dad would act funny when sending money to help with his kids. All of a sudden he couldn't send money it had to be packages 😂😂😂 just love to keep shyt going 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@whyyousucha904]

Kittie gon hit it in the head EVERYTIME

[@user-ul5uh4xp2q]

This is a ghetto show that I have no respect for, but this lady in the green speaking right here has all of my respect.

[@MrClutch1]

Can someone help me find the full video?

[@capri_sunflower8496]

The full video is on their app called Tonight's Conversation, you gotta pay for a subscription tho, idk how much

[@BolitaDeKetica]

as we often say at the barbershop: “…BabyDaddy OWNS them guts, forever.” 0 accountability!

[@nathalieduverna6963]

Ew

[@barnyard4068]

🔥🔥🔥

[@tyestadams8867]

it's probably just me but some of her responses to the questions seem to come from a place where she is triggered.--just a general observation from other things I hear her respond to. 🤨

[@_ducky_625]

Where is the video to this?

[@LumixGang]

Me and my ex wife are cool...I helped her and she has helped me. I wouldn't disrespect her husband and we also have a good relationship. If they needed help I would help and vice versa.

[@rohanlawrence]

I can Bet MONEY that 3 things are True here: 1. Her Ex-husband (still )has a key 2. He been knee-deep in her at some point in the last 2 years 3. She don't Love that boyfriend..she on a Full-Court Rebound and that's on some Real ish. To Be Out here playing with people when you're broken is the cruelest, most Narcissistic thing.

[@BANI_KaNTONDO]

hundreds

[@mjunior1413]

If a man was up there asking that question the results would be different.

[@tyestadams8867]

facts

[@aprilclover2429]

I’m close friends with one of my exes who is now married. We just went to lunch to celebrate my birthday. And, I was treated to a wonderful meal and also received a monetary gift!

[@deejacks1]

Dud hs wife join you? Was she aware if your lunch date and gift?

[@aprilclover2429]

@@deejacks1, no, but she was definitely aware of our annual lunch and probably the gift. Their relationship is based on 100% trust; no secrets.

[@evaabdullahi5240]

Well next time tell him to bring his wife along too.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@evaabdullahi5240, no, because the wife and I are congenial but we’re not friends. She Is cool with not inserting herself into our friendship because their relationship is based on rock-solid trust and mutual respect.

[@dsg3053]

Get off his top and move onto another friend

[@deborahbrown8570]

Now if your ex needs you to look out for him. Tell him let's try this marriage thing again.