LIFETIME RELATIONSHIPS - The R Spot Episode 1

[@BestHBCU]

I've been meditating about relationships for a long time, now. Yesterday, I received a clear understanding about relationship goals. (The goal of a relationship is to share experiences with mutual appreciation. Everything that happens is the journey to reaching that goal.) That is what I understood yesterday. I am also keeping in mind that the journey is not the destination. We may never reach the destination so it is the journey that makes things worth while. Iyanla, thank you for doing this series. It is an answer to prayers. Peace, Light, Love, and Blessings.

[@Chasiraw]

Pamela Hamilton yaaaasss sister! Preach! and yes to meditation.

[@BestHBCU]

Thank You and Be Blessed.

[@dovetales3]

OUR LOVE HAS CONDITIONS! We have to learn to love people for who they are and not who we want them to be.

[@strethy]

13:15 - we see them as the people they have always been but expect them to see us for who we are now! This just struck me, it is so true for my life

[@AmillionRays]

omg.... this message touched my soul. Lord knows Im the queen of holding grudges.

[@moirosalina]

hahah me too

[@winnie122271]

me three

[@ladytee3249]

Thank you Iyanla! I'm dealing with a sister/niece issue and I appreciate this very much. I forgive myself for believing that this should not be the way. I forgive myself for every unloving, unkind word or thought I had about them. I AM FORGIVEN!

[@aztecshaytwitch4224]

Thank you! Spot on. I expect others to see change in me while I keep them in the same positions by judgment.

[@MsLadyP-nf9zt]

I tend to feel inspired when I listen to her.

[@onekatodd7480]

The R spot. I enjoyed this episode 1 of lifetime relationships. I am needing this for my marriage. I wrote down my forgiveness for myself for believing that things should be different from the way they are. Forgiveness and acceptance, I am embracing those words. Sometimes I just don't know if I should let go. But this was very powerful, GOD knows I want to do what I should do. Praying for discernment to know when God is speaking to me!! Thank you again for this lesson Ms. Iyanla

[@eubuda]

Iyanla, you've saved my soul here and there in the past couple of years. Thank you those moments. May you enjoy and benefit from all your efforts towards contributing to our lives.

[@LINDISIMAHeredia]

MAN, that is a HARD pill to swallow! You always know what to say, Iyanla! I am so thankful for you! 🙏🏽

[@MaliakaBryceTV]

IYANLAAAAAA!!! IM SCREAMING... THANK YOUUU right now. You're saving my life. Thank you sister. I love you!

[@lynnettebond]

Look at the Process of Life in motion! I literally just prayed and asked God for confirmation to reach out to a "lifer." After finishing "TRUST" last night I subscribed to Inner Visions and today while preparing to listen to "Breakdown to the Breakthrough" I found your YourTube channel. Thank you for this word, it provided clarity!

[@1sava]

Oh my goodness, you are back mama Iyanla! Soooooo happy! I really missed you uploading here! Welcome back mama! Love you sooooo much! Hugs!

[@lydee0981]

I really need this today. it helped me accept one of my principle lifetime relationships decision without judgment or expectation.I feel so much lighter. I am glad to learn these lessons through this challenge.I am grateful

[@danar6950]

Loving this series. Please keep them coming.

[@makeupbycandy1018]

This was so right on time!!! Thanks so much .... I just had a big falling out with my daughter yesterday....

[@winnie122271]

I need to watch this one daily! I struggle here and I am having several lifetime relationships that are breaking down...

[@MsOba11]

Love the theme song!!! Love u, Iyanla & all ur wisdom & knowledge!! TEACH!!

[@MsLadyP-nf9zt]

I need Iyanla in my life. I need to just sit with her.

[@aliciawesley1663]

i love it

[@jojogolding8892]

Right at this moment I need her..

[@labell5689]

i would feel bless if I could sit with her. She has a 6 week course but its 200.00. i wish

[@madonnar8424]

La Bell where can we apply for this

[@RioroseAsh]

Excellent message!! Looking forward to more videos! Going to watch this again

[@Meoli55]

Thank you Iyanla for your work and sharing of your wisdom, thank you for making it available to us here. I am very grateful to you and for you.

[@surbhisanklecha1764]

U ARE A BEAUTIFUL HEALER. LOVE YOU FOR SO PRODUCTIVE VIDEO. THANK YOU IYANLA

[@mdiga515]

love these videos. keep the good info coming.

[@misspitters2766]

Thank you for this series, I'am listening!!

[@dorcasidowu6027]

WOW!!!! You Betta Say it Miss V!!! CHANGED MY LIFE IN SECONDS💯💯💯

[@eye2eye33]

This was so uplifting. Thank you.

[@GOP7100]

I love "acts of faith" I understand so much better. Love you. I hope to send you a praise report one day

[@Maryam7580]

She went through so many openings - that’s so funny. I love it

[@Meoli55]

OMG, Iyanla, I wanted to ask you the exact same thing, I am sooo amazed that this message came through for me in perfect timing!

[@29mathclass]

I need more from Iyanla! lol Thanks a lot

[@marivelramos4640]

Thank you Iyanla. That was on time and on target!!♥

[@1980LeaMarie]

I just love her and her wisdom. Greetings from Germany 😘 🙌🏻

[@mars1783]

Thank you!!! I've kept in my mind what Iyanla said years ago, on Oprah, to listen with Love n speak with Love... I don't accomplish that all the time, haha... but, I am working towards that goal. Sending ether hugs to the families n friends experiencing strife!!! I also, feel some of my friends have distanced themselves from me lately n it hurts, but I understand. Thanks Iyanla n readers 4 being my example of excellence. God Bless

[@chloec8531]

Just found your channel and im so thankful i need this thank you jesus

[@galelynsullivan3802]

Thank you Iyanla Vanzant for sharing your gifts.

[@azucarmorena5000]

You should put these in a playlist so that when we miss we can watch them back to back

[@ginsweet6042]

I am so grateful and thankful that the answers I seek show up and come to me.. Thank you Ms. Iyanla Vanzant for allowing The Light to shine in and through you; thereby bringing us closer to our higher abundant selves.

[@BAP4FMTSU]

Thank you so much this is confirmation of what I need to fix and grow in myself

[@PraiseMedusa]

Wow: I finally understand forgiveness as you explain it. I was already onto acceptance, but could not understand forgiveness till now. Thank You - no wonder OWN gave you an opportunity to have a show!

[@Unikadanceevents]

love this! love you Iyanla - the new theme song - its a NO! lol still LOVE you and LOVE your content xxxxxxxxxxx

[@btheobsous4619]

Iyanla God bless u. U speak to my soul. My spiritual teacher from distance. Great Video. keep up the good work -God's Work"

[@brioche8123]

I give them a chance to be different and they slide back into their old ways. I feel like she doesn't even deserve a place in my life.

[@Vdz33]

Iyanla you are a blessing. Thanks for your message.

[@mantronixtube]

thank you for this channel. how exciting and generous of you! :)

[@993sps]

what a great video! Thank you, Iyanla. :)

[@reflectionprojection]

Excellent- I like the song Pertinent- I am having massive lifetime relationship issues Sorry to hear about your sisters passing

[@evodiaketsise601]

You are such a blessing.Thank you so much❤

[@RiahjaysReality]

I had to come back. W my ears wide open yan yan #Loveyoubeloved 💕💕

[@AngelWarrior_1]

Thank you my Spiritual Mother Iyanla. I know this is for me! I emailed you and this definitely answers my questions. I'm going through my process of healing and you mam have definitely been a blessing 😘

[@wyzeguyz44]

Hi Teisha, whatever you are going through I know "forgiving" is somewhere in your healing process. To learn more please visit us at www.fabslife.com

[@minafanelli8931]

Thank you sweet and lovely lady, as always🌈🌺

[@soulfullanguage5435]

Amazing insight.... thank you.. brilliant... thank you... great for me... and great message to spread healing onto the universe ... I am so grateful for you on so many levels..

[@minaciabattoni2065]

💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗Thank you beautiful lady!

[@wandalipscomb-lee736]

I thank you Iyanla Im working on myself and this is a great tool for Selffull healing At The Appointed time Confirmation

[@evodiaketsise601]

You are such a blessing to the world❤

[@madonnar8424]

Madonna from Toronto Canada I have been following you and bought your books your amazing women and you have helped me in my life so much, thank you for you being you.

[@dolsydabs]

Very enlightening... Thanks a lot...

[@madiselbeato9806]

THANK YOU SOO MUCH. YOU ARE A LOVING SOUL. GOD BLESS YOU

[@tishaslade5711]

Thank you for this!

[@GlennKramer]

Excellent...First time watching 👌

[@an-g6919]

Hello with positive energies, to all. Although some of the advice given on this episode, is insightful, it doesn't apply to all life-long relationships. I do have much respect for Ms. Iyanla Vanzant & I'll continue to listen to her teachings.

[@truthspeaker5834]

AN- G You begin your rant with positive energies but make a negative comment about Sister Iyanla not commenting on post and not having a focused discussion. Actually, the R spot is commenting on questions individuals write in to her. I believe to her address. Maybe you should post a video and give us the correct information instead of criticizing and critiquing. Sister Iyanla was nice enough to do a You- tube page that I am enjoying so please don't piss her off with your negative comments. You did say you respected her and you continue to listen. Now do just that... Listen RESPECT

[@jujubee90275]

she is a great teacher!!?.❤👍

[@belindakae724]

awesome truths 🙏 thank you

[@talking.to.my.selfie.]

Reason, Season, Lifetime. Got it. Currently loving my sister from a distance.

[@shaz1121]

Great message!!

[@Divinelites1]

Your message came with perfect timing!!!! Namaste....Iris

[@NeleKirsipuu]

Thank you Iyanla! 🙏

[@cmontgomery0339]

An Eye Opener Thanks Iyanla

[@Miztammik]

im not holding a grudge, well i dont think i am anymore. At the end of the day ive chose to keep my distance with no hate in my heart. if she wants to reach out to me then ill communicate but im not doing it first. our dad doesnt even care,just keeps us all seperate.

[@ayandandzobongo1]

So happy to see this

[@sihleboqwana8306]

Powerful!!

[@vincenttennell]

Theme song got to go

[@BrianaTheOriginal]

Lol

[@sheekorganics8417]

exactly lol love Iyanla though

[@Prioritizeme222]

LMAO

[@pinkgypsytees]

LOL...

[@byoutifulmusic]

yea I hate to say it but why this look poor quality? it's Ms. 'Yanla.. I don't understand.

[@aefofie]

Thank you Miss Iyanla

[@Spexsavvy]

So healing.

[@rosemariepowell-williams8680]

Enlightening

[@Hebrewsistah7]

Very good advice! 10/3/19

[@Prissilla]

woooow i love you!!

[@fatimagabriel7120]

I have learnt so many things about relationship here

[@ilovecindy8261]

Hi This Was a very good episode I'm working so hard on excepting others as they are and being excepted as I am, Allowing others without living in judgement.. Forgiveness always come into play.. I've had Iyanla Forgiveness Ecorse for SERVERAL months and still haven't stared it yet.. I'm not sure why I'm in Fear.....I'm a work in progress

[@geoffsoper596]

You're awesome and great! You're way better than Oprah! Said from New Zealand. My names Naomi not Geoff, just using my Broz phone because my screen is broken. You're a real life living Angel\Enlightened One. Nice to meet you.

[@phenomenal_woman]

I tried to send a question to the gmail at the end of the show and got an automatic response about some kind of closed registration. Can we still ask questions?

[@tsovka]

Thank you! Just in time! :-*

[@derrickbarber9958]

Omg!! My exact problem is with my SISTER she hit it right on the head.

[@gregniceify368]

me and my sister wasn't alway on the same page, and tell money change. us when kids came along, we had to do thing in spite of our differences. to keep our family together. we don't talk as much as we you too. the brownies are ready. can anybody can spare a little change of some milk, is that really what it is.

[@JDKelleherMusic]

Thank you.

[@sarahw6231]

Mrs. Iyanla, I NEED YOUR HELP....PLEASE!

[@Niemanntv]

Why is it so hard to forgive one's self?

[@wyzeguyz44]

Not going to sugar coat anything Nichole, forgiving is probably the most difficult act one must do. Honestly forgiving a person regardless of what they have done is really not for "them per say" but for you. Forgiving frees you from the jail cell you've been guarding. To learn more visit us at www.fabslife.com

[@tobiastaurus6434]

How do i do ? And who am i if i dont have any lifetime relationship ... ont one and dont Want any ... ? U scars me ...

[@aliciawesley1663]

do you feel this way? i always watch this one.

[@deepalin2481]

She is the best

[@Shesirie]

Love this but I don't know how to forgive and leave it there

[@kimberleyalexa3116]

then u need to work on forgiving yourself...

[@lidumama23]

Shushana Bella I don't either! I cut my sister and mother off more than a yr ago.

[@elemintefordyce3955]

love it

[@frenchydude00]

What on earth is that intro ? Your show deserves something much better.

[@moirosalina]

It's different in her next video :)

[@jesussaves4396]

I have for the most part disconnected from all my lifetime relationships because the relationships seem worthless i dont talk with my parents or children i dont know how to resolve the many problems that we have does this mean my soul is stuck?

[@serenityhorsecoaching9709]

I hear you...but what about in the case of a child not talking to a parent because of parental alienation by the other parent?

[@sharenward3478]

Keep it real

[@an-g6919]

I noticed Ms. Iyanla Vanzant is not responding to the posts......

[@sirsirensong]

I love 99% of what Iyanla has to say, but I don't necessarily agree with the implication that the only lifetime relationships available are blood related. Those aren't even guaranteed due to individual circumstances/life.

[@SheIsWisdom7]

Amen❤

[@diamantidioro]

merci.

[@rosaviolet5164]

I have forgiven. However, I don't know if staying in contact with a person who has inflicted abuse on me should stay in my life. For emotional and physical safety.