How to stop feeling jealous of others' success | Jamila Musayeva

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@lanslarrazabaldemartinez6829]

For some reason.. I teared up while watching this video... I was born the least and poorest of a noble family so I had all the envy and jealousy... thanks to this video, thats all going to change. See you in the bright future 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for sharing and good luck to you in this new chapter ✨

[@altercatdraw6921]

I am trying to cut off social media because, thanks to your video I just realized that I was in a mood of pitty myself each time I was watching a reel in which somebody is showing how happy is while I am just watching it and not being part of it at least not being able to live it by myself. That is like punch in the face to myself and all the effort that I put daily in what I do and my loved ones. Thank you Jamila ❤

[@qed456]

I think envy is natural and the positive thing from it is to then try harder to better oneself. Either through more elegant behaviour , more income, better company or a better house

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Of course ☺️

[@AdenikeBabalola]

Yes! I agree 👌My life changed at the end of 2020 when I turned jealousy into FUEL. I unlocked my creative powers, and my life has been a beautiful ride since then. Admire others! Learn! Grow! And be compassionate to yourself. Thank you for your honest and kind words, ma’am. ❤❤❤ A brilliant video. 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wonderful

[@kendall2004]

But how?

[@AdenikeBabalola]

@@kendall2004 I had someone on social media that I admired a lot. I soon realized I was jealous of her success, audacity, and authenticity. 😊 God was good to me, and he sent me a book (via a random email), “The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron. That book showed me how powerful I am. And I discovered the source of energy behind many things she (the woman on social media) did. That jealousy led me to find myself, my creativity, my power. And everything Mrs Musayeva said in this video is valid 💯! I hope my response helped. Best wishes always.

[@kendall2004]

@@AdenikeBabalola Thank you for answering,keep shining queen 👑

[@NegotiableHemingway]

I think once you get into the mindset that other peoples lives just don’t matter to you, you’ll find it easier to not care about other peoples successes and luck in life. It’s how I live my life and it’s very easy once you let go of caring about others.

[@jille3027]

I’m almost afraid to say this should it jinx it & make it stop, but I Love that you’ve been able to give us more, & more frequent, videos recently!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Aww thank you! 🙏🏻

[@antoinette4729]

I never experience envy or jealousy and am happy for others. I also admire them. They motivate me to improve so I am grateful

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Keep it up!

[@dineshalove2902]

I can totally relate, when I see people succeed I am often overwhelmed with joy and want to push them on further. Simply cheering them on and saying oh you can do it you’ve got this. But it hurts when you are succeeding and it seems like people grind their teeth and wait for you to fail so they can rejoice 😢.

[@jasppt]

You always speak with politely ❤️ 👍🏻

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks ☺️

[@christineoziemkiewicz19]

Thank you for covering this topic in such a positive way❤

[@artasetayesh9299]

Dear Jamila, as a girl in her early 20s I highly appreciate your content and the effort you put into it. I believe the knowledge you share is very essential in life and also very rare nowadays, given the fact that the majority of creators use social media to produce fleeting entertainment, which is of course not a bad thing but I deem that it has replaced its place with more important topics. This is why I value your videos a lot. Also I would be thankful if you could add the tips on the screen to these kinds of videos. Like for example: number 10 " One believer is enough" and start explaining what you mean by that. Once you're done with the tips appear all of them together at the end of your speech to summarize what you said, I think it lasts longer on the viewer's mind.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted!

[@a.williams.scorpiopower]

Wonderful advice on this topic. Love your outfits and that dress compliments beautifully your silhouette. Thank you so much, Jamila 🤍

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@mansoor3159]

Omg!! Jamila what a perfect timing and I really really needed this video you are my inspiration😀💫💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you ❤️

[@n.d8001]

I don t experience envyness which is a hot emotion. I experience a sense of lack, loss in my life for not having what I crave for. Often I cry, it leads me to sadness and depression

[@Kaymitlit]

Exactly I have never felt that before in my life but now even little thing triggers me to a sense of lack as you perfectly said and felling behind in life

[@evaneviel9908]

I recomend you to explore your thoughts about it, maybe the thoughts you have when envious are pretty hurtful, listen why your emotions turn so troubling can help you get throught it, understand to change.

[@n.d8001]

@evaneviel9908 thank you for helping

[@Uni-u1r]

Draga moja. Jamila, ti si najlepša i kulturnija zena , takvu do sad nisam video, mnogo te te voli i pozdravlja , Radomir Eric , Beograd.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lucial.3958]

So important acknowledging this topic nowadays. Thank you 🙏

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@devnoorkaur651]

It is off the topic, but, for some reason, I feel in this particular video you seem to be in a really good mood and I am loving your fresh energy.😅

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you ❤️

[@Sofia-fy2lg]

Thank you so much for this video, for a long time I searched for an advice to deal with this emotions, not even psychologist helped me. So then I tried to find the answer in myself and found out a way to deal with this. 1. understand that it comes from a place of wanting that thing or trait 2. thanking the person for being who they are because they are beautiful and unique, and that way so am I, my place is taken by me and im honored and grateful for what I have. Thank you for your knowledge master

[@decemberclouds]

Thanks for this video! I'm the kind of person who doesn't get jealous (neither does my mother), but I still wanted to watch this to get a greater understanding in general. **UK watchers who want to order the book** Use regular shipping and select "United Kingdom." When I tried to use EMS and selected "Great Britain" none of the cities appeared, but this may be fixed later.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad you enjoyed it! I will look into it ☺️

[@gunnandersen7412]

Success is not important at all. Be motivated and to focus of a goal instead ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely!!

[@xeilentynhiazekairva]

I Love the Horse Analogy ❤ Thank you for this advice, this is also one of my struggle, envy. 😢 But learn a lot, learning slowly to shift my mindset and be better person for myself.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You got this!

[@Carmen0777]

Hahaha, I loved the first 1-7 seconds of this video. Your cameraman is funny Jamila. Loved this topic by the way.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@Carmen0777]

@@JamilaMusayeva you’re welcome.

[@camilac.]

Thanks, this video came just in time. That happens to me sometimes in college, but I'm learning to handle this better. ❤😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I'm so glad!

[@firelunamoon]

What is even more powerful is if instead of asking "What can I do to achieve the same thing", you all "What can we do as a society to make this thing more accessible to more people, and make it more equitable for all of us." Feeling envious in an unjust situation is not only natural, it's motivation that we can use to make society better and fairer.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

well said!

[@lepcha2442]

Thank you for bringing up this topic and sharing your learning from horse riding!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure!

[@sonaxanmcfrova8330]

One more awesome video thanks you God bless you 🙏❤️🥰

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you too

[@NoirLune8]

This is definitely one of the healthiest video on jealousy I've seen. As far as I enjoyed the feeling of really cozy and comfortable conversation, it would be really great if you would highlight the main points of the topic on the screen as well. I think it would help to grasp the subject much better for the visual learners. Thanks for making the video and considering this idea. Congratulations on publishing your 3d book tho!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you! 🤗

[@amritakesh]

This was really very well timed ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks

[@Believeinyourself-fz1ox]

Thank you, Jamila❤

[@irinahristova_]

Thank you for the amazing video Jamila! Can you also do a video explaining how to deal with the opposite - people being jealous of us? It can be very complicated when these people are part of your friends and family☺

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Great suggestion!

[@komalgupta8528]

How fantastic contents you are bringing ✨ Amezing Ma'am ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@selfcarevoyage]

Great video. But if I may, I really love how the Bible distinguishes Jealousy from Envy. For example, if someone's spouse is cheating, then the person who is not cheating will not accept that, they will be angry, etc, which is quite acceptable; that is a case of jealousy. In the case of Envy, for example, if I see my friend purchase a fancy house and I hate that they could afford it and it wasn't me, I want to do everything to get that house just because the friend has it. Now, I would do anything to get it, and I may even begin to dislike that friend because they have a better house. Envy is dangerous, and the Bible was right in warning of the dangers of this negative emotion. In life we must learn to be grateful for what we have and stop crying and worrying and focusing on everything we don't have. You will not feel complete if you get that thing you were dying to have. It is human nature to always want more and desire what someone else has. It's no wonder so many people suffer from mental health issues; they never learn to be content, not covet be thankful for what they have.

[@kumabear5061]

You’re really amazing! I truly look up to you

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you!

[@nigarmaharramova5170]

Loved the analogy with horses being guided by humans 😍❤️ Question: what to do when you are interested in a lot of things and not sure where to start at?

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! I will consider it for a video topic ☺️

[@qendresashillova]

Loved this. You look lovely Jamila ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@paulbk7810]

Jealous is 3. Envy is 2. The word you should have used is "envy."

[@ady4051]

Thank you for the information ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome

[@escreverparaamar2406]

I love your videos dear Jamila

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@audreyc3078]

I admire people who are successful. They work hard to achieve it ^_^. However, I have been on the receiving end of jealousy and envy. My girlfriend couldn't stop insulting me and mocking me every time I saw her. Note that I use past tense, because I stopped seeing her.

[@si.2110]

I love the introoo

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you

[@JESUSWONTHEWAR]

I have a friend that copies me non stop. I'm flattered she thinks I'm worth emulating. Ps I ❤ you Jamila 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🤗

[@eilruan]

I never experience jealousy and envy because I feel grateful of what allah gives me. I focus on my power to achieve more instead of paying attention to others ☺️

[@maxwellutter3885]

What if you are not meeting your responsibilities? Our household expenses can't be paid on my income alone because my wife is in a more lucrative industry. It's easy to conquer jealousy when you are already doing "enough", but when you are doing less than the acceptable minimum, it's much harder.

[@avinashmuraleedhar]

it costs nothing to be a hater💫

[@JamilaMusayeva]

It costs the person hating only

[@laylamaria1457]

I believe your colouring is warm and delicate, also known as warm and muted, muted warm colours. I would love to see you in a muted peach outfit.

[@manishadahanwal6934]

i dont envy anyone but ppl i see ppl envy me so much 😅😊

[@Looksmaxxer16]

Hmm... That means you're pretty extraordinary yourself.... ❤

[@kashishnagpal6715]

You are looking gorgeous

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊

[@AnkitaSharma1111.]

❤❤

[@ilaha712]

Azərbaycanlısınız?

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Bəli ☺️

[@ameliemarie22]

Great video, it was very inspiring to watch. 🩷 I would love a video about values and principles of an elegant woman from you. Best wishes from Germany

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Great suggestion!