Trans Guy Problems: Top Surgery Recovery

[@DemiBoyDistaster]

“You can’t shower for like 10-14 days” So like a normal depressive episode

[@IAmAnItalianPizza]

so like i dont usually shower, and i onky shower like once in 3 months. lol

[@mutationsensation1179]

@@IAmAnItalianPizza ngl thats vile

[@liam_er]

@@IAmAnItalianPizza hope u got some dry shampoo or smth

[@GaySatanicClowns]

@@IAmAnItalianPizza Yeah, I get that sometimes. Make sure to shower the night before your surgery.

[@BorisLev]

when I'm in a depressed/paranoid episode shower too much tbh

[@off-brandjedi6251]

"I think my nipple fell off."

[@lightning2367]

"I think my nipple just fell off"* ;)

[@MarkieFan200]

Rachel Anderson what's your damage holy shit

[@palmtree1958]

Shut up, Heather.

[@emirrart]

Sorry, heather

[@LivLaughGrace]

Tamar Mack I FOUND MA PEOPLE

[@youngblossom]

My surgery is in 45 days. I'm nervous but ready!

[@Jammidodger]

Good luck! :D

[@youngblossom]

Jammidodger Thank you so much!! :-)

[@mychemicalrmancetrash412]

youngblossom Congrats!💕

[@raymondclark3625]

youngblossom GOOD LUCK HOPE IT GOES WELL!!!! 😘👌👍❤️❤️❤️

[@lucialamelas609]

How did it goo?????

[@thaiseathaydesantos]

I'm a cis woman but I need a similar surgery, breast reduction, for back issues. The recovery from what I've seen is very similar. The showering part here in Brazil is going to be a nightmare, my poor fiance who lives with me is going to deal with it. I'm loving your videos.

[@Peppar_Mimadarr_RTX_on]

Finalmente algum comentário brasileiro 🎉

[@yamiyugicrumpets4603]

3:22 and here we see the rare jammisaurus trying his very best to feast with restricted arm movement

[@cabbagetheif]

My husband is about to get his surgery in a month and I’m trying to prep myself for care and maintenance of Husband 2.0, now streamlined This video was very helpful!

[@aud7593]

streamlined husband!!! hahaha wow, hope everything went well for him!!

[@marshaltaylor482]

I hope he is alll recovering

[@RoundSeal]

I frickin love how light-heartedly you address this stuff! I've got one hell of a fear of pretty much anything medical but I desperately want top surgery eventually, this kind of video makes thinking about it so much more bearable. Thank you! ♥

[@Jammidodger]

Thank you, I'm really glad it helps! :) I was super scared about getting surgery, and even about travelling to the hospital (I didn't do well with long car journeys back then), but the closer it got to my surgery date the more the excitement blocked out the fear. It was just something I needed to do, so I went through the motions and concentrated on the outcome rather than what I had to go through to get there. All the best with everything! :)

[@5sosidc915]

Monochrome Hyena hope u get what u want :)

[@tazsei8834]

I watched this video in 2016 when I was just a kid and knew I was trans, I was curious about surgeries and such. Now my top surgery is in 10 days.

[@clovalley5875]

Hey, how'd it go? How are things?

[@GaySatanicClowns]

How was it?

[@matty_fressshhh]

SAME BROTHER 🫡

[@ΡΙΖΟΣΚΡΑΒΒΑΡΙΤΗΣ]

Yo!! How'd it go!!

[@Zaiden-on-pawz]

I’m still young but I cannot wait to be able to medically transition

[@trevorsharp460]

thanks for normalizing all of this. My town and community are not . . . friendly towards Trans people, and the mundane normality of your situation is so refreshing. You shatter my old world just joking around and being open. I don't mean to make you a representative or anything, but really. Thank you.

[@ahhhhsavenya482]

The ralsei pfp 🤝🏽

[@sometimeseverythingsucks8196]

I hope you are in a better situation now! Also love your pfp

[@Gremlin_Goods]

I tend to use my feet to grab things and my mother always berated me for it, jokes on her though coz it's gonna come in handy now.

[@hotlinepeep57]

oop-

[@ealbanart]

mood

[@nefarioussatanas2998]

Same my dude

[@jasperj.d.g.4147]

Handy, ha

[@rickyli0n568]

U have the best profile pic

[@hannahgoodman5443]

When I get top surgery all I'm gonna wear is my T. rex onsie.

[@staticsign9714]

Hannah Goodman Same. I'll buy a dinosaur onesie just for top surgery in order to pretend I'm a T-Rex, 😂

[@finnp5132]

Did you ever get top surgery? I’m curious, this is 2 years old.

[@laner.845]

I've been wondering when I was going to be able to wear mine again. Now I know!!!

[@helloimarabbit4083]

@@staticsign9714 same.

[@hprew2082]

*buys a t-rex onesie. Rah*

[@iron1471]

00:00-00:40 - Introduction 00:40-01:47 - getting comfortable and getting up (sketch at 01:18) 01:47-2:37 - wiping one's bum (sketch at 02:20) 2:37-3:37 - T-Rex arms (sketch at 3:09) 3:37-4:26 - unknown location of nipples (sketch at 4:09) 4:26-5:26 - smelling bad (sketch at 5:15) 5:26 - conclusion

[@adrianmccallister2252]

you are genuinely such a helpful person i love things like this ! especially since some may not want to see certain bits (wiping ur butt is a bit gross but i imagine its worse with bottom surgery)

[@ErikMaasArt]

My surgery is in 2 wks. I'm so glad you posted this!

[@Jammidodger]

Ah good luck, I hope it goes well!! :D

[@glamrockbard]

twenty one eriks good luck omg! im so proud, hope you have a speedy recovery

[@HAdams-bw4bq]

So it's been a while, how did it go? :D and how are you doing now? Do you feel more comfortable? ^^

[@rosalemön]

@devilishweeaboo haha I'm even later 😂

[@libby4657]

Congratulations!! I know I wayyyy late but I hope ur doing great 🥰🥰🥰

[@rloach067]

i'm really scared of the recovery... only because i can't stand smelling bad or not showering for more than 2 days (i usually shower everyday). I don't know if i will resist the temptation of changing the bandages and cleaning myself up deeply TAT

[@markgeneroso9976]

Can’t you use those face wipe things to clean yourself?

[@vampbat]

Did you end up getting top surgery? How did it go?

[@seventhtype777]

I'm saving up for surgery right now and I can 100% say with confidence that my boyfriend is not looking forward to having a stinky bf for a week and a half/two weeks when it's all said and done lol

[@JamesLikesDonuts]

You can always get a rag/small bath towel and have him wet it and wipe you. That's what I did and I didn't smell as bad besides not being able to wash my hair

[@ashtonmcmullen6799]

M LA you can typically shower after a week...

[@samjones9821]

I just informed my own bf about this fact 😂

[@knekki.]

I'm having top surgery in 7 hours, woooo!

[@knekki.]

Thanks fam, all is well😊❤️

[@AlteredState7]

Damn, how did it go?

[@Plant_.Overlord]

Heyyyy a year post op! How is everything

[@knekki.]

@@Plant_.Overlord ayy, I detransitioned a year ago lmao

[@jasperj.d.g.4147]

@@knekki. how do you feel about your chest now? Are you still happy with it or is it a regret?

[@BraleyHome]

From a mom of a 17 year old FTM who is wanting Top Surgery, thank you so much for this video. Humor is always a comfort, and your honesty is very appreciated. You covered some serious questions I had as a mom who of course will worry about any surgery on her child, and how to help him through recovery. Sounds like it's going to be sink bathes, wiping his bum again, and a lot of air freshener. o.O ..Now I have to go google up 'dying nipples' and let me tell you, if this kid's nippy turns black and falls off.. I will scream and run the other direction. That or super glue it back on. :D

[@todosauce]

this comment is so sweet. i hope you and your son are doing good

[@eduardofernandes4211]

I'm having top surgery in january. This video makes me very happy because it's so important to be represented. thank you, sending love from brazil

[@boogiemanbumblebee]

Eduardo Fernandes I'm having top surgery in January too! Kinda nervous about the showering part.

[@criscorrea9654]

Eduardo Fernandes Eita, boa sorte! Espero que tudo ocorra bem e que o verão não seja malvado com você!

[@eduardofernandes4211]

Cris Corrêa hahah obg! :))

[@lightning2367]

I wish you luck on your surgery and hope you have a great recovery!

[@eduardofernandes4211]

thank you, guys :p

[@gpigsrock]

My top surgery was just yesterday! A lot of this stuff is so true already; getting comfy is damn near impossible, but I'll (luckily) be able to shower after only a week. For me another thing that's troublesome is the two drains on my sides and having to empty them, especially when I get incredibly nauseous and almost faint at the sight of my own blood in tubes (IVs, blood draws, etc). Looking away doesn't help either since I know they're there and being emptied lol. One thing that's kinda helped is one of my pets is sick and needs to be monitored closely, so it's gotten my mind off of me a bit since I'm worried about him. Plus, we can recover together!

[@JO3YSworld]

I had top surgery 12 days ago and I got my drains out 2 days ago and I thought I was the only person in the world that was paranoid that my nipples were dead or that I could have somehow “pulled them off”?!?!? The entire time because my chest was all wrapped up so much. They’re still under dressings now but at least I know they were alive two days ago so we should be ok! 😂 I do however have a constant fear of lifting/stretching my arms in case I totally ruin my surgery or “tear myself open”?!?!? Thus fear feels very lonely. I’m still so thankful, I was on a waiting list 3 years and my surgery also got cancelled 3 times over two years due to the pandemic so it was 4TH TIME lucky. I never in my life thought I’d be able to transition let alone get top surgery but at the age of 17 finally began my transition after knowing since the age of 6 and never being believed or being allowed to transition. I started my medical transition (HRT) around 3 years ago and my mum is really good about it. People, please never loose hope.

[@oneheckinchonkerthiccboidu9761]

Wow Well done mate I’m a 13 year old closeted trans masc and one day I want to get top surgery aswell but I have a big fear of needles. Is there much needles and drains and if so how much do they hurt?

[@turntechgodhead4107]

I'm always so happy when you upload!

[@boopboopb]

Same :)

[@tylerruffino5819]

My op date is April 13 and I'm soooooo nervous so this helps a bit c:

[@alecdineen2927]

Tyler Ruffino Good Luck! I hope it goes well! :)

[@Breadcrum.b]

My Chemical Rømance Trash ayyy fam

[@fairyfanatic12]

Tyler Ruffino good luck!!!!

[@raymondclark3625]

Tyler Ruffino Good Luck Mate!

[@horseloverforever157]

Tyler Ruffino holy cow, good luck dude! Hope everything goes well!

[@kaylee9282]

I’m not transgender, but I still like to watch these videos, I have zero idea why but it’s probably because I like to support the people who are.

[@annagiuliani4469]

Did you figure it out yet?

[@tylernicholas4560]

How’s being lgbt going for you??

[@Ari_C]

that's how i was until i realized i actually was trans, lmao. I'm curious if the same turned out to be true for you?

[@yumemitai612]

Commenting here so I get notified with an update too lol

[@ZeroxfishZain9047]

Heyyy how are you now?

[@curiousdormouse757]

I'm getting my top surgery in about a month and I'm equal parts excited and anxious about it (mostly because I have never had any sort of surgery before and the thought of going under really scares me, but watching these types of videos (I've been a fan of yours for many years and I feel like your content have really helped me lot) helps me focus on the positives. Thank you for all that you do!

[@teddyb600]

I’m getting my hair cut today!!!!!! It’s currently halfway down my thighs without straightening it; and I’m getting curtains (a boys cut!!!!!!) I’m so excited, but also very nervous! I can’t wait! (I’m also dyeing it bright green!) It’s not top surgery but it’s a step in the right direction. (I got my first binder a few weeks ago, after wanting one for 3 years, I’ve wanted a boys haircut for 4.)

[@EnderLark]

Hi Jamie, I have my top surgery in a month, and I just want to say thank you. You've been a huge inspiration and help on my trans masc non-binary journey. Your videos of positivity and your own journey have made me not feel alone. For so many years I have felt that I was lost and the odd one out, but now I am able to see myself as who I'm meant to be. Thank you so much for being you, and for sharing and educating people on the trans experience. I guarantee you have saved so many lives including my own. Thank you.

[@__idfk__]

I just had top surgery yesterday. I'm still in the hospital trying to get my pain med situation figured out. I'm hoping I'll recover quickly. I'm glad you made these videos so I could know what to expect. I really appreciate what you do and have done for the trans/LGBT community and all the lovely videos you make!

[@caelanoldacc]

Im having top surgery next week and I've never been so happy in all of my life, it's just such an amazing feeling of relief. Luckily I have a very high pain tolerance, so really it's just not being able to do things for myself I'm not looking forward to lol Thanks for this video man, it's super helpful!!

[@searchingforwhatever]

Hilarious! I'm 2 weeks post-op and agree with everything you said - although I must say that I had (and still have...) a greater range of movement than I would have expected. Cool that you mentioned the inability to wipe your own butt. That was really tough during the first days. ;-) It's still impossible for me to cut things like bread or some vegetables. And if you usually sleep on your side or stomach - bye-bye quiet sleep...

[@laner.845]

Oh no, I'm exclusively a side sleeper. :(

[@thisistobyturner]

I love you so much Jamie, youre a HUGE inspiration for me :D I plan on getting top surgery when I move out of my house after high school

[@sunev1024]

Tobesanity me too

[@absoluteunit8027]

Me too, fam

[@Breadcrum.b]

I'm not even Trans why an I watching this 😂😂 oh wait it's because you're adorable :)

[@lightpiercer6160]

Panic! At The Twenty One Chemical Pilots I am trans and I still liked this comment

[@vuhicktor]

I know things, Remember? YZoUR NAME NOOOOOOOO

[@erinnn4217]

I know things, Remember? OMFG OFF YOUR PROFILE PICTURE 😱❤❤❤

[@horriblehowell]

your username omg haha

[@w0rmfr1end28]

this makes me look forward to fully transitioning,, seeing you transition has really helped and im just- its so nice it gives me hope for the future, tysm

[@danielblair5970]

It may have been years since you posted this, but this was reassuring for me. It's Tuesday today, and my procedure is on Friday. I am so scared, yet so excited, and also so not prepared. 😂

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

Update?

[@icy0568]

My surgery was almost 2 weeks ago and I can proudly say it was the best decision of my life. Getting to that surgery was hard , and the first 2-3 days after it were absolutely hell but it thankfully got better and now it almost doesn’t hurt at all anymore!

[@vesperastraea]

ugggggh im so fucking broke so ill never be able to afford to pay for top surgery. sigh.

[@beccastrang]

sansyboiii you could start a fundraiser! also i've seen instagram accounts dedicated to raising money for guys' surgery

[@vesperastraea]

maybe someday. not anytime soon though. the 'rents are transphobic and would never let me get surgery. maybe when i'm finally living away from home.

[@thetransboy9437]

sansyboiii you could move to a country where health insurance covers it like germany

[@efesgirl999]

German health care isn't FREE! I live within bicycling distance from the border: www.1averbraucherportal.de/versicherung/krankenversicherung/en#

[@haymitchabernathy5958]

Yeah but the heath insurance doesnt't cost NEARLY as much as the surgery.

[@KleineKassiopeia]

I'm a trans-girl and had bottom surgery 6 years ago. For me the most annoying thing was that I could neither sit or stand or properly lie down. And I couldn't walk. So if I needed anything from a grocery store I'd had to ask my flatmates or friends for several months. I also couldn't ride a bike for close to half a year (and after a year I had the second bottom surgery which lead to 1 year of not being able to sit on a bike). I once rode to university on my bike and it got sooo bad that I barely reached it and then had to ask a friend on the way back to get home by car. A while later my flatmate was kind enough to ride my bike back from school. By that time the tires were all flat and he drove close to an hour instead of 20 minutes. I was sooooo embarrased by that ...

[@mylifeisslow959]

I just love how you go and tell your life to help others who go through what you had to go through. you can't believe how many of my friends you made fell better about who they think they are as a person. thank you so so much

[@ParkerJPark]

I'm 6 days post op, getting my post op binder removed tomorrow and omfg j cannot wait to get it off. I've been so itchy and constricted for almost a weeks and I'm ready to have it off now

[@maggielarsen523]

Hi Jamie! I recently found you channel, I'm not trans myself so I can't really relate to much of your content but I find it so interesting and I learn new things everytime I watch a video. I feel like trans people are sometimes not represented so I can't really learn about them. and some things you just don't ask people. your content is great, educational and you are funny and seem like an awesome guy. please continue all the good work ( it must be so hard to edit videos all the time 😥)! have an awesome day! xxx

[@imarrywhales]

They took my gall bladder out last year. I now have stomach scars. I quite liked the feeling of recovery. Once I was able to sit up it was quite nice having morphine every six hours. I didn't watch TV at all. I just meditated the whole time. I was quite comfortable. I hope your surgery recovery went smoothly too. I'm nervous bc I might be going in for a stomach surgery. I'll have to recover again. Lots of meditating. Anyways, when you talk about top surgery it puts me in mind of the cozy drug induced sleep I was having last year. Peace! (I love your channel). Be yourself. You may be anything you want to be!

[@rhysguillerme2893]

Well, being 8 days post-op I'm discovering right now that typing wouldn't have been a T-rex's strong suit. Great vid, I very much relate to the fridge and the many Nipple Scares.

[@okimlistening2u]

Jammi, smelly or not, I bet you were an excellent patient. Thanks for the smiles and positive attitude........Ray

[@jordanblount8403]

I love your videos sooo much and they keep me going. You are like the light at the end of the tunnel for me thank you for doing what you are doing thankyou

[@disguisedzoroark]

Wow, it's so nice to see people be able to talk about this stuff. You must've been really glad to get this off your chest Get it?

[@haymitchabernathy5958]

I'll be able to have top surgery in 7 1/2 years, so...yay?

[@Christina-yd6dx]

Haymitch Abernathy Stay strong! I'm saving for the surgery for the next 5 years or something I know you can do it! >:3👍🏻

[@Immortalbeats7]

Haymitch Abernathy I'm 5 years away.....*sigh* R.I.P us

[@MaxWell-fi7rc]

Ugh mood. I can’t until after high school and probably college. We’ll pull through this together my brother.

[@Eli-ou8sq]

Stand Up why would you bother commenting that

[@magicpigeon_]

Haymitch Abernathy 5 more years for me :(

[@thatonemoonboy]

I want to get rid of my dysphoria but at the same time I'm so scared.. If heard horror stories about surgery!

[@alirwin4956]

Consultation in four days. I’m so excited

[@thinkcorgi]

i remember watching this video right after i had just come out, about 4 years ago. today im almost a week post op and it feels really good :,) i never thought id be able to get to this point but im glad i did

[@anonymous-io5gv]

My top surgery is in 26 days!! I am so so incredibly excited and keep watching people's blogs about it aaaaah

[@StarBlazer124]

Thank you for the video! I'm going to be having top surgery this summer and this both helped me feel prepared, as well as made me laugh and ease the anxiety a bit. This was a really funny way of helping people and I love it!

[@ozzy7109]

Watching this in 2022 getting ready for my top surgery in a month... finally after 9 years of binding.. can't wait!

[@Pixelhoarder4life]

I love how lighthearted this video is, watching your reenactment of struggling to get out of bed or get a snack from the fridge was hilarious. Surgery is always terrifying and I think its great your able to look back at the recovery process and laugh. Btw thank you for making all these informational videos, i'm new to your channel and have really been enjoying them. I'm also going to be ordering your book and can't wait to read it.

[@luvnotvideos]

Thank you this was super informative. I get my surgery in September '22, and am watching as many recovery videos as possible. Truly enjoyed this.

[@hellyeah6432]

I just had top surgery today! Even my surgeon called then "t Rex arms." The worst thing is definitely the tubes.

[@oneheckinchonkerthiccboidu9761]

Hey man! How’s the 2 years post op going?

[@apollo6326]

I’m 5 days post op and have these stupid drains in for another 4 days and can’t wait to have them out, the tubes are so gross

[@leaf2424]

When I watched this for the first time years ago I did not imagine coming back to compare our experiences like I am now. I appreciate all the information and advice 😁

[@kyleeashton4155]

I need to say, it was so adorable when he was getting the apple from the fridge.

[@sydneykroll988]

suggestion: invest in "No rinse body wash", they use it in hospitals for sponge baths and it surprisingly works well.

[@lionelkrauss5476]

i remember watching this as a kid and now almost 10 years later i can finally relate to what you're talking about

[@ThatSpoonieTransGuy]

Thanks for the cheery but still realistic view on this omg, I'm 11 days post op and I really needed this.

[@justjake9469]

You're great, man! I love your video's! I had a akward experience myself: the urge to show everyone how flat my chest is. Friends helped me relise that's not very nice/polite/normal, to try to take your shirt off. ;) The T-rex suit is awesome!

[@Jammidodger]

Thank you! :) Haha I used to walk around shirtless constantly at home, and showed my friends my chest etc. I then realised, that although they were happy for me, they maybe weren't quite as enthusiastic about the look of my chest as I was :P

[@yikesitsconnor]

my first consultation is this week. I'm lowkey terrified, but so excited.

[@livelongandprospermary8796]

My aunt has had leg surgeries and used no rinse soaps, purchased at medical stores/ supplied by the hospital.

[@phantom-thief]

Thanks for this! My surgery is in 9 days and I'm both excited and terrified. I'm going on my own 😭

[@phantom-thief]

@J. .K thank you so much! 🥺❤️

[@boopboopb]

I LOVE YOUR T-REX ONSIE SM WHERE DID YOU GET IT

[@Jammidodger]

I got in on eBay! Lots of people seem to really like it, I might do a giveaway of a new one in the future :D

[@boopboopb]

That would be awesome!

[@andyp5067]

My surgery is tomorrow and I’m binge watching a bunch of related videos!!! I’m so excited!!

[@tehsacredeggo-4519]

I have my first gender clinic appointment in less than 2 weeks, and top surgery is my main goal. Thank you for making this!

[@igorcaeiro9558]

I'm recovering from my top surgery now (only 3 days post-op) and the video was 2000% relatable 😂 Thanks!!!

[@runeofnoweyr]

Okay so important things I've taken from this: -perfect wiggling out of bed without arm usage -figure out how to wipe self (I think there are tools for seniors that could help) -body wipes for non bathing time!

[@Old_World_Nobility]

My top surgery is this Thursday. Thank you for all your helpful videos.

[@chrisrelhard]

i stayed with my parents while i was recovering, and they had me staying in my old childhood bed... which is about 3ft up to the mattress... i had to have a stool at the side of the bed in order to get in or out. also after the first 48 hours when your ass becomes perpetually sore for the rest of recovery because there's only one position you can lay in. also i wore a shirt home from the hospital, took it off on the second day so my mother could help me clean myself off a bit with baby wipes, and didn't put a shirt back on until i got the dressings off and drains out. lost all shame. to be fair, i probably should have brought some button up shirts with me rather than all tshirts. because there was no way i was getting those on. i also started thinking way too much about things and was contemplating what to do if i tripped. because no arms and stitched up chest. never did think up a solution, but thankfully it didn't happen. fun times, glad to be fully recovered now!

[@Lukabooga]

Just got top surgery this morning and watching this just in case!! Thank you :))

[@kazeboiii]

I absolutely love your dinosaur onsie, dude. 😂 Also, I just gotta say, watching your videos really brings a smile to my face and, generally, it's just nice seeing you talk about your experiences and make light of some of the harder things we go through. I'm still pre everything, but I'm hoping to be on T by the end of summer (crossing my fingers!). I'm still super nervous about talking to a gender therapist and all that nonsense, but I found one that seems super nice. Keep doing what you're doing! And I'm glad things have gone so well for you overall.

[@howlsaur]

Getting top surgery in a week! I'm so nervous but also so excited

[@gayroach2916]

omg the butt scootch is real. had the surgery a few days ago ive never had to use my lower body so much. im living the t rex life rn

[@crazycat1166]

I love the humour in the video 😁 it's so much more real than the info given to you by therapists and doctors. I hope to eventually get accepted for top surgery so this video was really helpful. I've now subscribed 😊

[@PhantomFandoms]

I just got my top surgery scheduled for December 18th and while my surgeon was talking about how I won't be able to lift my arms for 2 weeks at least all I could think about was this video, especially the trex onsie bit! Apart from that I'm so excited to become a trex for two weeks!

[@caelanoldacc]

That's great dude! Mine is next week, on the 11th and I'm just so so relieved. The time will fly until yours, I promise!!

[@ashton8289]

I’m getting top surgery in 9 hours and I’m so excited, thanks for the video cause I’ve been concerned about recovery!

[@ethanbonilla544]

Omg I just had top surgery and I'm in the recovery process for it and I can definitely relate to the nipple part I keep feeling around like "are they here or there" 😂

[@24drewtheshark]

Coming back to this video! I just had top surgery yesterday and I feel so lucky :)

[@cammiluna]

thank you so much for this video! My double incision top surgery is in two months and I'm absolutely terrified of being stinky and with limited arm movement for two weeks, but I know it'll be worth it in the end!

[@PhantomFandoms]

“Temporarily being a T-Rex” *does a dance in dinosaur onesie* LITERALLY MOOD XD

[@roryb771]

Thankyou so much!!! I've got top surgery tomorrow and I can't wait

[@woahreddit8985]

42 days till surgery. I'm so excited.

[@assortedhuman5168]

I was pretty good at figuring out where my nipples were. Also not only did I think I was going to lose a nipple by bending over, it felt like all the stitching was going to come undone. Luckily I'd bought a Gopher to grab things with and only forgot about it a couple times. The Gopher really helps out with the T-Rex arms. The worst part to me was the first point you made. Hard to get comfy and when you do you need to go to the toilet. :( Good luck to those going through this right now.

[@dangreen3868]

Can't wait for top surgery. I have to wait at least 3 years until I can start planning, and I'm just kinda dealing with the dysphoria right now.

[@doublejynx]

Just had top surgery yesterday, watching this while stranded on a recliner

[@griffinvongabriel9369]

I have top surgery on the 21st. I think the thing I'm gonna hate the most is not being able to shower. i hope I can shower as soon as possible. I'm supossed to have drains in for 2 weeks, hopefully she was just saying that so I dont have my hopes up for 1 week.

[@2sonsmommy]

I know this is really old but it brought back so many trex memories from when I had my double mastectomy for cancer. It was so frustrating but I can laugh and you made me laugh about it

[@Goofypoof]

Im two weeks post op, never watched these kinds of stuff honestly but i relate so hard 😂

[@TheLeastOfficialOfBros]

While I’m still pre-everything, it was nice to have an explanation/demonstration of what it’s like after having top surgery. Better to think about these kinds of things way in advance then to figure it out while everything else is going on

[@user-ev1uo7sb8n]

when at 2:41 jammi has dans onesie

[@TheGoblinClown]

I just had top-op, well eleven days ago, and well, i can really relate :P

[@maneshiyan2]

Note to self: gotta cook and freeze at least two weeks worth of food before top surgery. And possibly bribe a friend to help me around. I hadn't thought about not being able to use my hands despite having been in a (smaller) surgery when a lump was found in my armpit. Great info, thanks!

[@FrenchBagel]

"Oh god, I think my nipple just fell off..." That just killed me xD

[@UrFerbzz]

You can't use your arms? I never thought of that! I'm glad I watched this in hope to prepare myself.

[@ashton8289]

I’m getting top surgery on August 27! I’m only 15 and I’m so excited for this to happen.

[@LeBongFairy]

Just had mine the other day, and I'm on the mend ahead of schedule it seems..! Wish me luck, and thanks so much for this researched video

[@memomorph5375]

Just got top surgery in Seattle. One week in and I’ve figured out how to get out of bed by tucking my foot under the mattress and pull myself up with my leg lol

[@lukasskoe]

My surgery is in a week and I find myself watching all the post op videos I can find hahah. Thanks, this really helped! 🙌🏻

[@jaymesmcqueen2013]

Thank you Jamie for all the learning and teaching

[@jaymesmcqueen2013]

About to have top surgery