Gary Vee & Jay Shetty ON How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You | ON Purpose Podcast Ep.19

On this special episode of On Purpose, I got to sit down with my good friend Gary Vee.
Gary is an investor, a serial entrepreneur and a 5 time New York Times bestselling author.
We got to talk in depth about how to stop caring what people think about you, why you should focus on happiness not hustle and why you need to contextualize advice before you decide to listen to it.
There are so many teachable moments in this episode and I know you will learn so much!
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[@devsanghvi1183]

Hi Jay, can you interview keeanu Reeves?

[@darshshah79]

Dev Sanghvi he’s hungry for wrinkles

[@nippieart]

OMG IF THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@stephanieochia2173]

That would be cool🔥😍😍

[@milliepadmanabhan2540]

I am honestly so proud that Jay is winning on so many levels. As someone who always wanted a role model to look upto, bullied for being different and being Indian. Wow, we have come such a long way! Jay is adding so much value in the world spiritually, mentally and energetically. I can't even explain the amount of gratitude I feel. Thank you, Jay

[@saverio29]

Indian people are some the biggest bullies especially against black people

[@milliepadmanabhan2540]

@@saverio29 Yes, most of them are colourists. Like any other country which was colonised by foreigners. Still doesn't make it right, but things are slowly changing!

[@TristanDefeuilletVang]

Best feat on KZbin EVER 🙏🏽

[@osse1n]

*What others think of us is non of our business* Others opinions are just an air of nonsense. If you about those, you have no will, no life. Focus INWARDLY and compete with only yourself.

[@winnersneverquits2570]

🙏

[@edwarddonatus5888]

Gary Vee sounds like an inspirational fighter look his eyes and energy so powerful. Love him and Shetty so much

[@komalv9599]

How the Hell is G so calm in this. I mean he's always full of energy and enthusiasm, he still has it here but it's kinda calm. Feels like watching G meditate.

[@MindNow]

*If you want to succeed, you need to believe in what you do. You will always have haters no matter what you do* 🙏

[@studyme-selftaughtlife4958]

*Growth* comes from consistency.

[@matodzi01]

“Being thoughtful of everything you consume, not every advice is good advice.”

[@me2724]

Garry love you for being you who you are and not trying to impress people, but rather impact people. Great podcast jay. Love you both.

[@dhirajdarlami1542]

Thanks Jay for what you are doing its really amazing to see influential people like Gary vee in your show who are trying to bring amazing value in people's life.

[@HumansOfVR]

*_2 of my favorite KZbinrs!_*

[@darby_hudson]

Wow. The best interviewer who matches, if not more than matches Gary. Good work Jay. New fan

[@TanvirAhmed24]

Believe it or not, we're not that special. We go through our days thinking about how other people might be judging us. But the truth is-those people are thinking the exact same thing. No one in today's "smartphone-crazed" society has time in their schedule to think more than a brief second about us. The fact of the matter is, when we do have time get our thoughts straight, we're too busy thinking about ourselves and our own shortcomings-not others.

[@salmohooto2662]

Thanks a lot I really like you video

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@salmohooto2662 Thank you! :)

[@yustinushalim1146]

Yup! Got your point clear man! Thank you for your comment!

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@yustinushalim1146 Glad to be of help!

[@nicklewis1203]

Such an underrated comment!

[@nicoleefferson3188]

I love this video and I literally never comment on youtube videos. I appreciate the comfort that I feel as a 22 year old listening to this. A bit late to the game but I heard the newest version and decided this combination of business and spirituality would line perfectly with what iVe been seeking/looking for lately. Thank you 💛

[@TABLUXWOOD]

Positivity & Optimism , Everybody has a decision to make. Rewrite the next chapter of your life.

[@bliss6890]

I love this video BECAUSE of the contrast in message packaging, hits the different dynamics of my personality and the areas that I am feel weak in and strong in. Also such an important message in showing appreciation for each other even in their difference. Thank you both for this!

[@KJuniorfied]

Jay and Gary on the same wavelength. Love it.

[@rossbourgeois4394]

Gary and jay hit it on the head with the two diverse personalities when I seen both of pop up on a show together I stoped what I was doing and sat down to soak it in...iam a lot like Gary personality wise and two years ago I listened to jay for the first time and he completely changed my life in so many different ways I always wanted to become successful but until I learned from jay it was for all the wrong reasons.now that’s iam self aware of what iam trying to accomplish I’ve dove into Gary’s content and it just made my week seeing the two of you work together..highly recommend seeing more content from y’all collaborating!!

[@outhounazakaria6899]

two of the greatest men in the world in one place and one video, that's too much for me

[@nikhildommeti8128]

Gary and Jay you guys left me with a awestruck feeling in my heart at the end of the podcast. Came here to check if there will be anything that’s new to check out..find out so much to connect with i do resonate to most of the stuff you spoke about.

[@sagarmathers3821]

Gary-" Motherfucker" what he really saying- i am proud of you Love this guy...Grateful that i could watch this

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Coz of Gary I started following Jay!!! One Thing I learned from from both of you is Be urself 😝 😍 Yeah Focus on ur Strengths!!! Yeah I truly agree Show wht you truely are Rather than wht people want you to be.

[@shikharkapoor8165]

What if people don't accept you?

[@julietac298]

Ahahah!!! "Those f'ing eyes!" Killed me! 😂

[@1AmSwapnil]

This man is so full of energy, really liked this podcast

[@narcissistwhisperer]

It looks like they had a lot of fun doing this. I may need to watch it a few times to really catch everything. Vee is SOO hyper & speaks & moves so quickly.

[@YourTrustedRealtor1]

You two are soooo ON POINT!

[@djr_drums]

Gary has a unique way of embracing and externalising his ego and using it to love others by talking about himself......some people (myself included until listening to this), can't hang with that.

[@erinrty08]

So funny you talked about the differences between your audiences because when I saw this posted the first thing I said was “omg yes, 2 of my most favorite people!” 👏🏻❤️✌🏻

[@rishabhmittal7631]

Watching the two people that you look upto the most is the best thing ❤️

[@yahyazaroug3103]

You guys really did it for me together. I was consuming gary’s content for 2 years now and yours for under 1 year but when you spoke about entitlement i felt that and i realized the world shouldnt be as it is and it finally resonated how lucky we are to be living in this era. Thank you

[@joyfulsavage9905]

Jesus Gary let Jay finish a sentence man hahaha.

[@joellugo3490]

For real lol

[@Venancechiepodeu]

@@joellugo3490 Yoo i kept saying that LOL

[@mariahwisdom-peters6919]

Lol.

[@mizzzgiggles]

Joyful Savage 🤣🤣 could not agree more!!

[@spdadventurer1754]

bahahaha thats why Gary said in the end he wants to improve at not interrupting which btw he does when he only respects the person he is talking too .. to me i interrupt someone when i feel i will forget what m going to say lol

[@aloenottingham6163]

When GV said "Avengers Talk" my Kundalini / Internal Energy went nuts. 💚🙏🏾 #garyveeforpresident

[@bramberdon]

How I’m I just now finding this! My two favorite people combined! Awesome.

[@RohitKumar-xq6cx]

Already heard it ,now gonna watch it 🥰

[@mariahswt]

Gary's different around Jay. The comfort of being around the like-minded. It's beautiful to see.

[@sabrinabasile5603]

I can't even put all my thoughts into words. This was incredible to witness. The flow, sharing of ideas, the unique perspectives that literally squared and multiplied and evolved in this podcast. Wow. I think the advice to be reflective about the advice we receive and put in context, really understand it, analyze it, pick it apart, is SO important. It made me look at myself in the mirror and just say who even am I? Because I feel one mistake Ive made in the past is that I've built myself up on the advice of others that was good advice for them but might not be for me. And its so confusing to even think about because I and everyone else in the world is built on the work and love of other people. It definitely does take immense self awareness to take advice. I'm literally rethinking my life rn... also about to go purge my insta because I'm definitely subscribing to way too many ppl just in it for the dollars. Thank you for this amazing piece of yourselves you just shared with the world. Bravo.

[@lilyzemengist8091]

@11:43 The hand ever so slightly trying to remove the bag. 😁🧤

[@PowerfulU]

Gary has so much energy when he talks. Inspirational! Loved this.

[@aashidhaniya]

i am one of those kids who was born in one of those environments and to parents where my perspective is upside down and you've certainly been the biggest voice that has flipped it bruh thanks

[@phyllidaacworth5212]

I feel more focused about my own life, and thoughtful, watching Jay's videos almost to the extent that I miss some of what is being said. So inspiring!

[@krishnasanjay4343]

I'm so happy and grateful that this podcast exists with gary

[@siddhikachare7390]

I won't waste my time by saying thank you , etc rather spend my time thinking over the things that the society what's me to think is that even existing or not. You said right i have to go deeper into my thought process #thebestpodcast till date love from India

[@alimoon4723]

Holy shit. Wow. I can’t believe the breakthroughs I am getting from the way you both framed this conversation. It’s true magic, true intuition. This is golden. Love you both. I really feel like after all of this listening to you both... I am actually about to put thought to action. Thank you so much. So very much.

[@Venancechiepodeu]

Is Gary going to let Jay finish his sentence or naw ?? LOL

[@robertoddish]

Two of my favorite inspirational people! This is incredible!

[@wifiematerials2544]

This was remarkable - what hit home was the coming together for the greater good and really taking notes on who we listen/follow - intention. Those will be weeded out evenually. You two are power shifters - WoW!!! Thank you for #TRUTH

[@abdulrazak677]

Legends in one frame😬😬

[@billionairesbio]

Waiting for this my whole life..

[@mohamedashfaq9167]

2 of the most aspiring people ✨

[@diamond3529]

Gary is in love with hearing himself talk 😅

[@itsnanaberry]

I get it when you said "When I hear you speak I feel aligned and it's helped me gain conscious competence. Because that's how I felt when I really started hearing you speaking I felt the same way and I hear others too and mixed all that positive wisdom and inject that to my veins like if I was addicted to heroin. It helped me communicate better with my love ones. JUST wanted to say that you have made a HUGE difference with my life and now I'm spreading that wisdom with my son. But hey, I walk the talk I just don't give the advice I make it happen in action and I'm forever grateful. THANK YOU!!! I'm a huge FAN I know you know lol

[@utkarshkumar9144]

Damm, one of best interviews I ever watched on KZbin , two Gem of legends their sharing their Deep concepts in context of life for us ❤️❤️

[@097773]

These 2 great guys have already dent the universe with their content! Thanks for inspiring us! Thanks for existing! Peace ✌️

[@fatima.a.j717]

Omg sooo enthusiasm a series ....i love both them and their contents. 😃

[@renojanspectra4137]

This podcast is something else❤

[@sandram6913]

Another Wow!! And I have noticed your appreciation of your parents. There's a lot of that.

[@kimberlyb1286]

@garyvee - please consider mentioning things you "regret" or things you want to let others know so perhaps they parent better. e.g. I want to be sure to push my kids and let them know they can do anything; however, I don't want to push them so much that they don't have fun in their high school years (but at the same time don't FEEL entitled) That is the thing I never want them to feel. Love your insights, thank you! Also to Jay! Thank you!

[@abenyayapathi1083]

1:08:24 Gary is low-key Vedic AF, he always says it is about the process and not the actual end result of buying the Jets. In the Bhagavad Gita it says you should keep doing your Karm(work) without expecting results because that is the most sincere way of performing your duty.

[@angelab97]

Spot on. Thank you for the wisdom. I love and appreciate different perspectives. You are my daily mental vitamin. Thanks Jay!

[@nazilahussein9605]

Love this podcast!!

[@siyamulge7632]

You are my inspirer sir... Love you loads!

[@aminad9337]

Lol pressing like before watching 😌

[@gokuldevis1915]

Thank you big brother, I am from Kerala India, love what you do ❤️keep inspiring

[@srinidhi7140]

ನಾನು ಕರ್ನಾಟಕ ನಾಡು Hoy....... I'm from Karnataka ✋😅

[@mohammedjuniad1827]

Hi I'm from Tamil Nadu 😁

[@gokuldevis1915]

Thank you all for being here commenting on this content from different states ❤️🤙😎I am also a KZbinr but not a big on yet ,keep supporting works and inspiration like these to make the world a better place❤️🤙😎🙏😇

[@xy1877]

മലയാളി 😁😁😄

[@shamanthhs9022]

Jay you are awesome

[@ErikaK]

Don't forget that whoever is criticising you is a flawed and imperfect human being.

[@shikharkapoor8165]

Did you faced criticism?

[@ErikaK]

@@shikharkapoor8165 I think we all face criticism in life, there's always someone out there who criticises you and makes you feel you're not good enough :/ How about u? :)

[@viktiwari18]

Agree mam

[@shikharkapoor8165]

@@ErikaK I we should not bother our energy to correct those people or teach them a lesson. We should focus on what we are awesome at just as Gary said.

[@ErikaK]

@@viktiwari18 :)

[@jaynenxo8019]

I follow Gary AND Jay... literally love both of them! ❤

[@KaranAadeez]

It's going to my fav Podcast!! Gary + Jay = 🔥🔥

[@ronaldogomes9365]

When 2 legends r togather !

[@demetriosjoannou]

Please don't put ads in like that, very annoying. Great video, othewise.

[@pana71]

"please don't put in these short adverts which help you support yourself during this hour long free content I'm getting."

[@mizlagunesvary5077]

Such an awesome Podcast. Loved my 1.30 hours. I love Gary`s and your contents. It`s good to see you both sharing the same frame. Everything you guys discussed and shared are bubbling in my head. I`m taking personal time to reflect, digest and make decisions based on your thoughts and perception. It`s a good day!

[@priyaagarwal4448]

Much awaited 😍

[@puravsingh3758]

Thank you s much Jay ...Love from Jaipur India ❤. I'll meet you one day

[@RobertHollis]

Jay Thank you for being a blessing! Really love your podcasts and videos!

[@vriti2310]

Thank you jay ❤

[@earthynourish]

2 of my favourite people ♥️ I’ve been waiting for this, thank you for all that you guys do

[@uneducatedyogi3034]

Respectfully, 🙏🏾 Your questions fascinate me because how you execute entrepreneurship as a personality fascinates me 😊🙏🏾 ⁉️around @14:30 from @GaryVee what is the concept of letting go The concept of letting go is congruent with the concept of un-attachment in a spiritual sense...I think this comment section is not the best place to break this down but would love to chat via video, in person, call to discuss that lol 😅 Maybe I’m bold for saying this but I feel I come from a similar place that you and Jay Shetty is referring to. I simply call it experiencing life from its Oneness Self. Easy to understand but understanding it consciously has been a journey for me and from the look of Shetty’s content, him as well. I truly believe the world is changing in a big way and getting content like this out (I even stopped the video at 14 min) is key for the next generations health mentally, spiritually, and physically. Thank you Jay Shetty and Gary Vee 💙💪🏾🕉 My dream would be to treat you two Gentelman to lunch or dinner and discuss this topic ✊🏾🙏🏾💙 Maybe this is bold to some but I’m not confused of my talent, gift, and purpose. It’s to be sitting at tables with great people who aren’t afraid to change the world. Guess I’ll blame the “big talk” on growing up in the Chicago environment mixed in with serving 8 years of military and being a leader in three tours to Afghan Sincerely and respectfully, Blu Yogi 😊🙏🏾

[@jsp07411]

Huge Gary v fan. Great job jay u have a special gift. Thank you

[@sebastienbourgaultlive]

WOW !!!! Garyveeeee the MAN thanks Jay #askgaryvee #love #hustle

[@LukeSegreto]

Awesome conversation. Hit so many important points about not judging people, being yourself, and how collaboration is such a vital piece of creating more abundance. Thank you for this!

[@GuyFromSC]

Towards the end, I couldn't help but the think the sirens in the background were the Fire Dept coming to put out the 🔥🔥🔥 they set off in that room. Appreciate you both but y'all don't get it twisted that "Mic Drop" was for Jay. Everything mapped out and designed On Purpose! Wish nothing but the best for you both!

[@akhilsriramoji]

Now i am interested on PURPOSE. gary such a nice person........

[@dreamandsuccess6454]

Is there better than two big mindsets talk !!!!!!!

[@TrEndYWOrldviDeos]

Two of my favorite motivational speakers,,,loved it

[@denise3432]

Timing couldn’t more be perfect! 🙏🏾

[@rjnakamura1385]

the best podcast duo ever. ♥️

[@Cfor85]

Wow 2 of the people I look up to in the same video

[@AmandaKnownFirst]

Awesome video 😊😍

[@anupshastri2659]

This is too powerful man, loved the whole conversation...favourite part "you do have beautiful eyes"😁

[@tricia007100]

You two make me happy.💕💕

[@cashglobe4198]

Would like to hear Gary Vee and David Goggins chat. Gary Vee: hard work = success // David Goggins: hard work = success. \\ Gary Vee: do what you're good at, do shit you want to be doing \\ David Goggins: get good at what you hate to be doing. It would be such an interesting conversation, Gary would have such immense respect for Davids story and adversity, and I know David would really respect Gary for always spitting his truth to the world.

[@r.kchannel2914]

Good interesting

[@sanaganjoo2648]

GOLD -- been waiting for an interview to happen between these two for a long time. 🔥🙏🏼

[@HareKrishna-ff2kf]

Whoa! Two legends together....

[@rohitraina_yesofficer]

OMG my two favourite guys together

[@fpsFAMOUS]

Near the ending, I know what you were referring to. Glad you guys are aware of it/them. Let's stay pure.

[@mathysiva1425]

In the beginning of the podcast, i was following the positivity not even bothered his language. Later, kind of noisy. Influencing the negativity, seems like taking about others. By my nature I only look good on others, I don't complain about anything or anyone. I always being happy, love people. At the same time always wish why can every channel doesn't matter what media, focus on some simple clear message for all the people. Not confuse or influence others anything or any messages. Just let them be them, let them figure out... Jay, When I listen your voice, gives peace, devotion, love, life, gratitude. God gift for you.

[@CAM1296]

Bro I loved this podcast best people

[@akashsane6553]

Loved seeing you guys it was like watching Iron Man and Captain America having a conversation ❤

[@andrehammari4254]

Best Two ever♥️🔥