Respecting Gender Pronouns (2D)

At the end of the day, it all boils down to respect.
I don't expect people to put their beliefs aside and accept my way of life but if they're gonna interact with me, do it with some decency.
BTW, if y'all can hear my microphone moving, that's because the stand broke so I was holding it 😂😂
#genderidentity
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[@JelliesWorld]

I am curious though. How do y'all handle being misgendered or being called by your dead name?

[@dontrefertomethanks]

I usually have to shrug it off or risk outing myself. I kinda just sit and nod

[@Jadeyoshii]

In my school pronouns don't really exist you just call them buy the gender but iam actually go by the/them and people don't understand that i fell uncomfortable with he/him because thats not what i identify as i go by another name and i just tell people that my name is meiri.

[@FirstKingOfMushrooms]

I feel very uncomfortable being misgendered and called my deadname (though I haven't really thought of an actual name I would like to be called for the rest of my life so I'm just going by Charlie now so my friends don't get fussy -^-)

[@mightbeavampire]

if i know them and am comfy I'll correct them the first time after that I'll just give up because im weak if i barely know them ill either get a friend to correct them or disociate until the end of the interaction

[@axellmao197]

just hope they correct themselves and if i don’t i just don’t say anything i don’t wanna be annoying :,) then i go cry lol

[@majordelilah]

I sent an email to all of my teachers about my pronouns and only 2 people responded. Luckily they were very nice about it

[@lawrup]

I could always bring my camera

[@hinata8pamela]

I was really scared when I first started to publicly use “they/them” pronouns and subsequently having to explain that to my family as well, more scared than I was when I came out as asexual. So many mixed reactions but generally I feel better living openly like this and am so grateful to hear other NB aces happy living more openly too.

[@xxalexherexx1540]

Everyone in my school respect my name and pronouns, the only problem is that my mom says it’s disrespectful to her and the name she gave me, like “ no teachers don’t call my child by the name and pronouns they chose”

[@psychohuger3763]

I hope your situation gets better and your mom doesn't get how names and pronouns work. A name is what you feel is most comfortable to be called by, most people are comfortable with the name they were given at birth but there are a lot of people (like you) that are not and that's fine. Pronouns are how we socially address someone and there is no rule or say so that someone has to go by the pronouns that correspond with their sex at birth.

[@naazriin]

I like going by the name 'Ley' which is short for my deadname so it's just easier for others and i sorta like the name in general, when i told my mom and dad, ofc my mom had to comment "oh it's like you're getting laid" THE FUNNY THING IS THAT NO ONE EVER FUCKING QUESTIONED MY DEADNAME AND NEITHER HAS MY DAD. my dad actually tries and calls me Ley occasionally, and it means a lot to me that he's trying.

[@Kai-vq4qv]

⚠️*VENT* ⚠️ When I asked my mum to call me Kai instead of my dead name and her exact words were ‘that’s absolute bullshit’ I nearly cried and I was about to get my covid vaccine ( yes I know not the ideal time but I couldn’t hold it in for any longer ) she also mentioned how I was ‘ taking being non binary too far’ and ‘why can’t I just be myself?’ We had a huge argument on the way home and she nearly started crying when I said she was being close minded! While she was yelling at me for being trans while I was crying my eyes out!

[@kunigundeii9106]

You okay now? I'm here if you want to talk ^^

[@desi_156]

Hope it gets better, bud, keep living your truth and don't let uer stifle you

[@aynazchan2771]

“It’s ok if you don’t like lgbt, but you have no right to harass them, especially that they’re not hurting anyone”

[@sophiamacgregor2011]

Exactly

[@aynazchan2771]

Im a cis (is that what you call it?) straight woman, I’m not interested in these agender, trans gender, gender fluid, etc. but you know what? People can do whatever they want I don’t care 🤷‍♀️ it’s their life, not mine. I have no right to be tell them “do this don’t do that” I’m living my life minding my own business 🤷‍♀️ I like having a long hair, I don’t like short hair. Would it hurt me if another woman wants to have long hair? No. Then it’s non of my business.

[@sophiamacgregor2011]

@@aynazchan2771 exactly it's not a big deal if someone is different from you 👍

[@warriorspeace_kat4099]

@@aynazchan2771 Thank you for being decent. It's true! Everyone is different!

[@genderenigma8276]

What really pisses me off is when I came out to my mom as Genderfluid, and for my own sake and other's, I started using they/them, as even if I identify femininely or masculinly, "They/them" never felt wrong. So my mom knows that I"m genderfluid and that I use they/them. I have a trans friend that my mom uses correct pronouns with. and yet my mother stubbornly refuses to realize that i wish to be a gender enigma.

[@parisheidi3119]

How did you know you were genderfluid?

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

@@parisheidi3119 ...You need to learn how pronouns work.

[@parisheidi3119]

@@user-bk7kw4nh6m what did I do wrong?

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

@@parisheidi3119 Nothing. You just need to learn how pronouns work.

[@parisheidi3119]

@@user-bk7kw4nh6m If I need to know how pronouns work I must have used them wrong? So how did I use them wrong? I used plural/direct pronouns of "you" I asked op how they new somthing so I referred to them as you. Like would you explain how I need to understand pronouns? Saying I need to learn how pronouns work only to not explain why, really invalidate the reasoning for your first comment. If you have no explanation for why I need to learn pronouns why comment anything at all? My comment must have made you think I don't understand how pronouns work so please explain how the sentence " How did you know you were genderfluid" compelled you into commenting that I need to learn how pronouns work? I'm not an expert on Grammer so I'm willing to admit a wording mistake is someone can explain why it's wrong?

[@gabriellebraswell3306]

I just came out as bisexual to my family and they accept me for who i am 😊. No matter if you identify as male female non binary straight bi gay lesbian asexual trans or nothing at all . YOU ARE VALID YOU ARE AMAZING YOU ARE KINGS AND QUEENS AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN YOU ARE GORGEOUS !!!!!!!#SPREADLOVENOTHATE

[@geekchic8798]

In Scotland, men, women, and anyone in-between wear kilts

[@KomaedasOneTrueHope]

Misgendering sucks and I feel bad when I accidently do it to someone else😭😭😭 my friend goes by They/them and is Pan so I respect that. They call me She/her because those are my pronouns and they respect that I'm Demisexual 😅 its not that hard guys

[@TheVioletbaudelair]

Glad to see you are confident to share your pronouns with us Josh! I'm also loving your new LGBTQIA+ content! A warm hug from a non-binary asexual from Brazil

[@allistair9024]

Oh my gosh, a fellow ace! Also, I am genderfluid but have leaned towards male and nonbinary for quite awhile, so I prefer he/they. I hate being deadnamed and called she/her, but I deal with it since I am in the closet.

[@threepatches1318]

Your videos and LGBTQIA+ content have helped me find confidence in my gender and sexuality. Since I started watching your videos I've been able to ask people to call me by my pronouns and I was able to come out to my friends. Everyone has been pretty supportive and I'm so glad I did. Thank you so much, you are amazing

[@OLI_OIL]

I never really took being called by my dead name well. Once I was in math class, and a boy kept using my dead name over and over, and kept using she/her, and not she/they/it. He said that my dead name(and pronouns) would always stick to me, no matter if I legally changed it or not. Made me cry :')

[@rubymack4914]

I am so sorry,He needs to shut his mouth,You did not deserve that....💢

[@loser7331]

You’re mad because he was using she when one of your pronouns is she?

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

@@loser7331 Bro. Not only that, he called them by their dead name. They said whatever happens, your original name and pronouns will stick to you.

[@FirstKingOfMushrooms]

Hello =D I recently came out to my two friends that I use He/They pronouns and that I'm a demiboy =]

[@KHALI_SEAWEED]

I'm proud of you for coming out!

[@FirstKingOfMushrooms]

@@KHALI_SEAWEED Thx ^^

[@RosheenQuynh]

People who can't respect pronouns act like we're asking them to sacrifice their only child or something

[@Dio_Florian]

I'm Genderfuild so no one can disrespect my pronouns and I have not change my name

[@psychohuger3763]

Same except I'm pangender

[@azkn404]

@@psychohuger3763 what is pangender?

[@psychohuger3763]

@@azkn404 pan is a Greek prefix for all so pangender means all gender I am not one specific gender nor does my gender flow from one side to the next, I am all genders all the time

[@purplerose7236]

Seriously though why do homophobes always act like they have the right to control other's lives? It is none of their business how someone identifies or who they're attracted to. It has no weight on their own lives whatsoever. Yet they always feel the need to say something.

[@darkmist.4393]

As a genderfluid the struggles are real, I have female parts but wear male clothes and it's switches so unless there close to me I say my pronouns for older people or my Christian family I just. Go with whatever

[@AnonymousCheshire]

Josh, your channel helps me feel comfy as a young non-binary person. Thanks.

[@sophiamacgregor2011]

Thank you Josh for telling us about your preference of pronouns :)💕 I'm just really happy that people like you exist where you can give a good example to others and either help them or honestly tell them to screw off because it's not a big deal and frankly non of their business 😂 thank you 💗💗💗

[@dabread461]

Lol the oli london sign.

[@peterxyz3541]

Question: is there a pronoun in Malaysian language that’s non gender?

[@lynhart1610]

Malay uses genderless pronouns(even tho the country isn’t lgbt+ friendly) “Dia” is “they” in Malay and it is use for all gender. Even other pronouns such as I=saya, you=awak are all gender neutral Mandarin on the other hand is not(including this cause Malaysia is a multi culture country) 她 is for girls, while 他 tend to be for guys but I think it’s also gender neutral sometimes(I haven’t learn Mandarin for a long time I don’t know Tamil so I can’t answer it

[@peterxyz3541]

@@lynhart1610 Cantonese has a genderless “that person” equivalent

[@SkyeID]

@@peterxyz3541 old english has "thon" which means "the one".

[@peterxyz3541]

“What’s between your legs” Me “f-king magic!” 😂😂😂

[@limefroggzoned5112]

I’m SO happy that josh was super Brave enough to make this video ! We support you every step you take !! :)

[@chris6098]

Ooo sarung is also used in Indonesia! But I'm really sorry about the homophobic college you had, some are still closeted! Due to our religion (I'm aware of Malaysia's religion {Muslim} don't worry!) it's common to find people "disagreeing" LGTBQ, I really hope you're enjoying your life at the full best! -Trans bisexual man

[@MissBellaDark]

I'm always afraid of disrespecting someone without meaning to. In my language (German) there is a lot of discussion concerning gender correct grammar. I'm honestly often annoyed by it because you can never do it right. Someone is always offended. Making it so complicated also doesn't change a hater's mind to be more open minded. Luckily it's easier in English! :) So don't be afraid to correct someone like me if I accidently disrespect you. For me, everybody is equal. I don't care what identity and sexuality you label yourself with - as long as you are nice, I love your soul for who you are ♥

[@suisen._.]

Recently found your channel so proud who you are 🌈 love from India ~

[@beezaray4130]

ace flag let's gooo

[@justanotherhobbit7215]

@5:55 Okay so I learnt something today. For years I've thought I was a gay man , but after taking this test I was surprised, Apparently I am a lesbian. Learn something new everyday!

[@jah7278]

when i started going by she/they pronouns my parents had a very hard time to understand and when i told my friends they were very supportive and i'm glad

[@paranoid-v3q]

Hello, I'm an abro guy. I wanted to know exactly about neopronouns and neogenders. I've recently started to think that those customed pronouns and gender identities are sort of weird. Like legit, they don't make sense anymore nowadays. They seemed faked and not genuine. Example, "I go by slime/slimeself/slimer". Like, huh? There is a few more and they were serious about it. And I can't make up my mind about it, especially when my friend used to use neopronouns. They now use he/him or they/them because he started to think most neopronouns are ridiculous. Not really, but kind of what we both think. Edit, I forgot about this comment. Ngl, I don't quite understand until now, but I do understand that they just simply prefer it that way. So... Well, neopronouns may be weird but whatever. It's not gonna kill us.

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

Neopronouns are sometimes weird, but they are how people express themselves. No need to hate.

[@paranoid-v3q]

@@user-bk7kw4nh6m yeah, I am slowly accepting that. Lmfao

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

@@paranoid-v3q K just make sure this doesn't offend anyone LOL!

[@paranoid-v3q]

@@user-bk7kw4nh6m Oh yeah, now you've said it, this hecking sound offensive, doesn't it? LMFAO

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

@@paranoid-v3q Yeah lol.

[@bookscatsyaois4643]

I am laughing so much about this newspaper 😂😂😂😂, it's so fun and sad (dialectical, i know) how people can make little boxes for people, and when we are out of the box they don't understand... Thanks for the video, really love your work😍💓😊

[@reganregan2760]

Josh, I love your channel you are so funny and I understand now thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@treykoyawena4443]

I’ve met a non binary person where I worked and when they came out as non binary during a employee meeting I went up to them and I already knew that cause I notice your pin on your apron but because I never met anyone non binary it took me a while to use their pronouns and I’d apologize for not saying the right pronouns But later after they left a lot of the other workers started saying they didn’t want to call them by their pronouns and made me upset how hard is it to call someone b their pronouns

[@kodalinokuno4537]

Going to school my birth name was hard for people to pronounce so they, started calling me a nickname and I've been using that nickname since third grade, no one gave me backlash on that, so when I say I want to use a new name and pronouns in relation to my gender, I would expect people to respect my wishes then too.

[@SkyeID]

changing my name doesn't mean I don't love myself, it's evidence of the fact that I DO love myself!

[@samararahman5388]

my pronoun is.....AMERICA- no no no sorry its...FREEDOM- LIBERTY wait sorry its i

[@Chen-sm1og]

I go by she / her now Back In high school, I secretly put they / them pronoun on my instagram. Even the pronoun doesn’t give enough euphoria, at least it won’t give me dysphasia (anything but a boy!!) But No one really notice it.

[@aarti0240]

Great to hear you feel closer to us Josh. Your videos are the perfect end to my days

[@blueb7985]

Tyvm for this T^T!! Not sure what to comment but I really appreciate your video

[@TheSlipperyNUwUdle]

The weird thing is, people don’t expect others to respond to being called their birth name instead of their nicknames. Lol the people that hate using preferred pronouns don’t rage when a girl named Sam doesn’t want to be called Samantha. lol it’s the same logic to me. It’s basic respect.

[@Tellyouwhat777]

Proud of you, Josh! It definitely motivates me to see more lgbtq people able to speak our truths.

[@warriorspeace_kat4099]

Oh- I've been using they/he whenever referring to your channel. Sorry! And a fellow nonbinary ace :D

[@otaku-chan4888]

I'm really happy for you Josh! I was wondering for a long time if you were regretting opening up to your viewers, or whether you were uncomfortable when others would tell people you had they/them pronouns (since things like those attract the anti-LGBT braindead horde, and you didn't like the unpleasant attention) but I'm glad to see you're in a good place. I hope everyone in the LGBT+ coomunity can also come out painlessly! as a straight ally you all have my full support \(✿˃ᵕ˂)/

[@disturvans2000]

Thank you for another great vid. I'm glad u feel comfortable with us, cuz we love you very much. My thoughts exactly on the pronouns issue. Not really an issue but a lotta people like to paint it like that. Anyway. Just respect your fellow human and you'll be ok. 😘🏳️‍🌈

[@laurenevatt4442]

I'm glad you made this video. It makes me feel like I'm not alone 🥰

[@eliotoole4534]

5:46 and everywhere else. (Any/all)

[@mars_starz420]

I’m ace too!

[@makayla_702]

*i'm she/them :)*

[@idunnuoluwaabimbola2951]

They finally remembered their KZbin password 😂😂😂😂😂

[@naazriin]

All the LGBT videos on this channel comfort me aaaaaa

[@Joel-nu1ed]

Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you(i’ve been watching your videos for a short bit in your bit too good at being non-binary)

[@monica-mn2cd]

wow this vid is really educative, i use to think that people who wanted to be called they/them did it bc "it is what's popular right no" and it bothered me because they were "messing with the language" (like they/them is plural but its use to address a single person now) but I didn't know it was actually something that important to some people, and your right, it does not affect me in any way so why not just called people the way they want to be called. i feel like maybe our vocabulary lack so many words, maybe we should invent another pronounce to refer to non-binary person bc its a little weird (for me) to use a plural to refer to a single individual (but that's just something I gonna work on)

[@TheSlipperyNUwUdle]

It makes me happy you’re open to learning, friend. Unfortunately many would rather not listen and learn something. :( As someone that’s kind of an in the closet enby, I like they/them. I think it sounds nice. We do have pronouns people have invented (or have existed a while and aren’t well known) like “xe/xir” and they’re called neopronouns. Now, I’m not gonna tell another enby how to identify, as it’s not my business, but I don’t have a fondness for neopronouns in regards to myself. I would rather use “they/them”. If it makes any difference, I’m in my late twenties and to me it’s not going along with a trend. In fact, the area I live in the US isn’t exactly… that open to lgbt identities. They’re not the Deep South but they’re also not nice about it. So I’m definitely not doing it for social credit. Lol

[@kj6053]

They/them arent only plural pronouns tho

[@imaginee6236]

The Gintama references tho 😎👌

[@noa6700]

In germany we don’t have any neutral pronouns, meaning that most non-binary people just use all pronouns. But what happens is always that people will still call them their old pronouns, because that should be fine, when it’s all pronouns. When will people get that she/her is a part of all pronouns, but when you only use she her you just see them as a girl and don’t accept them?

[@Sillyfrog_Yippee]

Their little asexual egg is so cute lol!

[@lunaofhope2921]

Honestly, I find it so infuriating whenever someone misgenders my best friend. Even though he used to it I can not for the life of me stand it, I'll go out of my way to correct them. (I really don't care what pronouns people call me)

[@MamaDeathKitten]

me at work, there's a lot of guys who are assholes and pervs so i told them never to say I'm a female so one supervisor kept saying ladies and gentleman while the other refuses and keeps screaming out my name and calling me a female tho i told them i have no problem people mistaking me for a male and rather be mistaken for a male a lot of the times but she kept refusing and i told her to respect my choices but she went to the manger and told her i was giving attituded and when i explained it she was like "oh" and never spoke about it again tho thanks to that one supervisor one dude kept asking for me cause i was "pretty" i was dead pissed ready to fight and lose my job

[@anitanielsen1061]

I can lecture people for not using they/them for Demi, so I can do it for you, too!

[@emperorNB]

2:18 believe it or not, Indonesian thinks that it's the right thing to do. 5:26 see???

[@michellevanderbilt2923]

I watched your binding video a few years ago not really knowing what it was fast forward I have learned more and own a binder and am I happy I had a way to learn

[@Tanjinuki]

This is hands down one of the best videos I’ve ever seen I’m definitely going to start using that motto too thx for the amazing video👍

[@mothemelon3488]

I don't really had that much of a problem with my name. Where I come from its considered to be a boys name, when in reality it's more like for guys and girls. I do have a second name which makes my sex clear on paper tho. I hate that name. But I get misgendered quite often? If you can call it that because I genderfluid. I'm not out to a lot of people that interact with me on a day to day basis. But I like he/him they/them. Sadly there is not really a gender neutral pronoun where I live other than it. And it seems kinda dehumanizing to me. So I don't like it when people joke about that. To me it feels like they are not referring to a person. Oh sorry. I didn't mean it like in a bad way. If someone uses it as a pronoun I terribly sorry. That's just my personal opinion / how I feel about it.

[@janicerstone1872]

Humans, huh? They can never agree to just leave each other alone to be who they are. So sad.

[@imaniislander755]

Well I kind of guess you were non binary but congratulations

[@mysterious_phantom9970]

Someone tries to misgender me: "he he... why can't they understand the meaning any pronouns? Sillies."

[@yoursleepparalysisdemon2551]

Which manwha was Josh talking about? I think I read a little of it but I don't remember the title

[@r.l.e.9082]

This reminds me of something that happened recently: so I have online school and when we sign in to the online meetings we have the option of including our pronouns next to our displayed name so I always include she/her next to my name (note I am a cisgender girl). One day towards the end of class we can ask any questions about assignments either through voice or through the text box, just about everyone is pretty vocal but I prefer to type it out. I had a typo in mine but another student caught on to what I meant and voiced clarification: " I think he meant by the scoring system- I MEAN SHE--SHE, sorry." Now I want to give them the benefit of the doubt that it was an honest mistake and they weren't paying attention to my display name, but at the same time it felt a little weird.

[@EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE-n6o]

I relate to a lot of this because I'm Ace and agender

[@roshneebala3000]

I am gender fluid but I use she/her since I am biologically female and I don't care about pronouns at all. People can use whatever they want but I have decided to go with the official one. The problem comes when certain queers or even non-queers come and tell me that I should be using they/them if I am gender fluid cuz thats the appropriate pronoun in my case

[@krispxh]

Pronouns have nothing to do with gender and they shouldn’t try to put pronouns in you and I am genderfluid too :)

[@roshneebala3000]

@@krispxh Yeah, but it gets difficult for non binary people cuz only a few people understand :)

[@krispxh]

@@roshneebala3000 yeah sadly but it’s not a reason at first I didn’t understand but I respected the pronouns and didn’t fo "correcting" people

[@happytortoisee]

I'm genderfluid and use all pronouns lol

[@aynazchan2771]

I love josh ❤️

[@BobaT0]

dissanayake is a very common sri lankan name and my dad wear sarongs love your videos

[@simp8886]

"Are you a girl or a boy?" "No"

[@kordact]

5:52 indo here (sorry abt that girl btw) I COULD UNDERSTAND THAT ITS SO FKG FUNNY 😭😭😭😭😭

[@tipsytiptoes]

If u have to tlk to d ppl u have to RESPECT them 👍 What's the difference btw gender and identity? GENDER is between our legs and IDENTITY is btw our ears (brain) 😌 Ppl should b aware abt that 😍🧡💙🤍 And I have a teddy like u have ellie. It really hugs me well when my inner self is tired. Ahem... not dramatic just FRAGILE 😉

[@sumaiya.alansar]

Yesss yess! Finally josh..we love you!!

[@axelkitten3189]

A while ago, I finally became confident enough to tell ppl abt my preferred name. Before this, I would only tell ppl who were very close to me or ppl who I just met (as in, I would tell ppl that my name is * preffered name; aka Axel* and not tell them my birth name). My other friends who weren't all that close to me didn't know about it And then one day, I finally announce it to everyone but my family. But that was when all my fears came true... people came to me and said that they weren't going to call me by my preffered name bcuz THEY preferred my birth name. I acted like that didn't bother me and just brushed it off but secretly, I started to feel a bit insecure bc I really felt like my preffered name suited me perfectly while my birth name felt far from it. It felt as if they weren't accepting me as a person and it hurt when they didn't respect my choices. I might be going on abt this a bit dramatically but it still hurt...especially when one of my friends who is like a younger brother to me tried changing from saying my preffered name to my birth name. When we first met, I told him that my name was Axel and he had no problem with it but when I finally told him the truth, he tried to call me by my birth name more. But eventually, he just kept calling me by my preffered name and idk if it's bc he forgot or he actually saw how important it was to respect someone's preferred name just like when he respects their pronouns. Welp, at least I don't have to constantly lay my ears on my dead name from him

[@popstel2286]

Dang people really try to go out of their way to hurt other people. lt's kinda dumb how uneducated they are tbh

[@axelkitten3189]

@@popstel2286 very true. Like I rlly don't understand what's so hard abt respecting someone's choices tbh...

[@popstel2286]

@@axelkitten3189 yeah people are cruel sometimes... At least the lnternet got our back lol

[@axelkitten3189]

@@popstel2286 at least yush. Josh makes me feel so much better whenever I watch a vid ngl

[@fyddahophthehawaiianseal7144]

I know what pronoun you are. I've always known don't worry. Plus I've always liked your voice. Respect from Fyddahoph The Hawaiian Monk Seal.

[@rossmccord2835]

I'm mean, I'm Scottish and we wear kilts to special occasions. Ironically, I've only wore kilts in the last few years in England.

[@mystandwonder]

1,000th liker! I really was spamming that button

[@doublec3]

Being misgendered is very annoying, I still get mad at a resturaunt waiter if they say sir. That kind of stuff needs to go! whenever i meet someone, i try to be respectful of their pronouns even before i ask about them. People in general suck.

[@rodux_s]

Josh : Men can't wear skirts, but they can still wear sarongs. Also Josh several pictures later : Shows Javanese jarit

[@Carimews]

i go by he/they/it :3 i'm a afab trans demi-boy!

[@LukaMgDraws]

I didn't see your QNA, good to know! I'm a demi boy, I'm okay with he and they, but not she. I've always liked to hear personal experiences when it comes to this stuff, as I first identified as non binary before I realised I leant, but not completely to wards masculine. I really like your videos, and I hope the supporters drown out the haters!

[@dexstewart862]

Im a big hairy dude, so I'm he/him, regardless. I'm gender passive, so i don't really care. If I were to be called she/her I'd think it was odd, but i wouldn't care.

[@Oliver-fn6oz]

my classmates thought i was a boy and use he/him/his pronouns on me i dont understand tho my pronouns is they/them/their

[@user-bk7kw4nh6m]

I love how they just cry onto an unamused bird who holds up a sign that says they are fragile lmao

[@tipsytiptoes]

I am they/them. Tooo🤗✌️😉

[@LunarMoonKitten]

My pronouns can be she/her or they/them

[@jessemarquez951]

Honestly. To me it's like whatever I am me and only me as long as they call my name that's all that matters. I'm ok with nicknames as long as I know they are talking to me it's fine.

[@ANXIETYPRIMEISUNCANCELABLE]

Okay, but you asking why it's so difficult to accept people's identity is my mind 24/7.

[@17timesSmoother]

gotta fight the negativity! is we fill comments with good and positivity there will be less neg

[@madhatter7072]

*panic screaming inside in genderfluidflux and hetero-demi*

[@gabrielakamenikova4477]

Well, i just like use any pronouns, don't really care what is it. I'm demigirl (or at least i think) and completely looking like a boy. So when people call me he/him, i go along with that. I sometimes even speak like a boy. (In my language, women and men speak a little different. Hell, we can't even use they/them pronouns properly) Thinking about it, maybe i should declare myself as an agender.

[@purplefrog3069]

I love this video, I relate to this so much, I'm non binary and use they/them but I'm nervous obout being open in school cause people openly misgender me, weather it be on purpose or not I never have the guts to correct them on my pronouns, I was lucky to have a relatively unusual name that is gender neutral so I don't have to worry about being dead named, however specifically my year group is "all girls" so the teachers say things like girls and young ladys to address us as a group, I don't think they should do this as there are multiple trans kids in my year and they are aware of that. I hope that in the future people will learn to use more gender neutral language and use specific pronouns when people tell them as it would make so many people feel more comfortable

[@purplefrog3069]

Sorry for the long comment, I had a decent amount to say there

[@ilovepochaccoandchococatsm]

What manhwa were you thinking about?

[@CairnsG]

4:58 Is that a Scottish flag?

[@kaseylirious2612]

I'm an lgbt+ Malaysian too. I'm bi and non-binary (genderfluid) I dislike my birth name so when introducing myself in university, I asked to be called by a different name. Thankfully, everyone was pretty chill about it. Even some of my teachers call me by the name I prefer I also told them I dislike feminine callings like saying someone is "beautiful" I prefer to be called "handsome" I explained to some people who I know are LGBT friendly that I prefer they/them or he/him but I know it's not easy for them to op to it so I don't mind if they want to call me by she/her For legal documents obviously, I have to go with my birth gender I don't expect people to correctly gender me so usually i ignore it but when people refer me properly, I get happy I prefer to look masculine. I dislike looking feminine and frail Me and my friend would often confuse people for fun where I pretend I am her boyfriend. One of the best things I like to do The part about the newspaper where it said "how to spot LGBT people" is the most bs thing I have ever seen Can't believe I grew up in such a dumb environment

[@Biteme_meow]

Well I don't really care about my pronouns and yes i look like a female but still for me pronouns arn't important but i do respect those who care abt it

[@yoanamariakrasteva3392]

7:20- Pinoko. Did anyone notice?