Why We Need Gender-Neutral Toilets! (2D)

[@kentiniguess7939]

We need gender-neutral toilets soooooo badly! I also hold my pee like for hours because I don't wanna get stares from others in the toilet. I'm a trans-male but I don't pass to well as a guy to go to the boys bathroom, but I pass well enough to make the girls in the bathroom uncomfortable and giving me weird stares. Geez just let me pee in peace!!

[@doublecircus]

kinda same lol, i feel like an intruder in womens toilets but i feel like ill get beat up if i go to the mens

[@dionysus_adores]

Some places i go to have gender neutral bathrooms however they're always locked. I'm like welp looks like I need to go home then comeback

[@junisjill8199]

Same- *i feel like if I where to go into the males bathroom I would need to wear a mask and put my hood up*

[@AbsolutelyAri1]

wait if ur a trans male how do you even pee in the boys toilet

[@doublecircus]

@@AbsolutelyAri1 stalls, and stp, and some trans men have pp lol

[@thegamingbear4307]

I'm cis, and even I have trouble using a public bathroom (strange anxiety I know, probably cause my countrys bathroom door has a big enough gap for a child to crawl through with ease), I can't imagine what it must be like for the trans and non binary community. Just give people their own bathroom for peep sake!

[@ceruleantear1]

I really want to smack the person who designed bathroom stalls. Why is the gap so big?! Sometimes, I'll see toilet paper hanging down to cover the gap. It's a waste of paper, but I get it.

[@marabou6958]

In Sweden we often have separate bathrooms(not bathroom stalls), especially in school. Sometimes they’re for all genders, sometimes they’re still female&male-bathrooms. i’m really thankful that you can do your business alone here though lol

[@ceruleantear1]

@Larissa Brisa Ger Konoplyov The gaps on the bottom, I understand. I'm frustrated with the gaps between the door and the walls. It's not uncommon for children to peek into stalls when their mom's not paying attention.

[@jamjar9853]

i once got stuck in a bathroom and had to get picked up by my dad and his friend over the door to get out of the stall, for the record, i was in the female bathroom and the entire party knew i got stuck, so, pick your poinson i guess

[@keissupercool2]

I'm cisgender and I understand the idea, I would advise going in the stalls that match ur gender, but I'm not trans or non binary or anything, so I dont understand too well, but I know where they're coming from

[@rottofox]

As an Agender person who lives in the UK: There are not enough gender neutral toilets. I've never seen one personally and just heard about some at universities

[@sleepy-emerald]

As an enby in the USA: We don’t have enough here either... Edit: Fixed a spelling error-

[@mhenderson7673]

Yeah, the only time i've seen gender neutral toilets is if there's only like one or two toilets and they're like individual room type things. Kinda like disabled toilets, but anyone can use it

[@skootergirl22]

Not calling anyone disabled here but I'm just going to point out disabled toilets are gender neutral, some are locked and needs a key

[@freshwater5544]

From the UK too and I've only ever seen one besides from disabled toilets but disabled people actually need them and it's not fair on them if nb or androgynous people are forced to use them

[@butterflyexists]

i see them in disabled toilets, and in small cafes, but not really anywhere else

[@chubbybunny6975]

We have gender-neutral toilets in Canada too! Almost every store near me has either male, female, AND gender neutral toilets, or all the toilets are gender neutral. It's so nice to see. My local grocery store converted both of their toilets into gender-neutral ones with a sign on the door saying "All persons from all walks of life can use this bathroom"

[@kittykatpratt]

Really? I have not seen one O.o

[@chubbybunny6975]

@@kittykatpratt I’m in Nova Scotia, so that’s probably why I’ve seen quite a few. We’re a pretty inclusive province!

[@kittykatpratt]

@@chubbybunny6975 Makes sense. I'm in a province further west. None of this is ever discussed and we've never seen drag. Though there are organizations that help support the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.

[@EvanMMD3939]

@@kittykatpratt *lgbtq+

[@freshwater5544]

Guess I know where I'm going

[@oliverreckt]

"I peed with a lot of joy that day" I never thought I would hear that sentence. But no seriously why are there no genderneutral toilets? It would be easier for everyone.

[@Itsang_ham]

For real, it would not let me regretting it later on.

[@slavishentity6705]

Replace toilet door signs with a sign that says toilet.

[@suyitecno]

Because society has to change first, sadly

[@MissBellaDark]

Seeing you in the bathroom wouldn't bother me at all! Also I've often seen men go to the ladies room with their little daughters so I don't understand why someone would make such a big deal out of it...

[@anonymouscat3772]

Right, my dad would take me (afab) into the men's until I was like 7. Nobody cares.

[@PH3NNYLEN]

My mom takes my brother to the girls bathroom when my dad or any male family member or friend can take him to the male bathroom

[@simplyuntitled679]

Wait, they have gender-neutral toilets in Europe? Where?! The amount of times I've had to go in the baby change or disabled toilets-

[@therainbowziege2317]

Well, I’ve seen it when I go camping and sometimes in supermarkets or schools

[@aperson9597]

i live in the netherlands and i haven't seen a single neutral toilet my entire damn life and we claim to be the ''one of the most inclusive'' countries, yeahhh sure

[@maya07_11]

i live in Europe and we don't have it- (in my country at least)

[@isabeli.9481]

Most countries with gender neutral toilets laws are going back to sex-segregated toilets. Women dont use gender neutral toilets as much as sex segregated toilets, and since the laws passed more UTI were recorder. So now those countries are forcing buildings to have sex segregated facilities for women to use.

[@ゆきろろ]

for me they are in…. schools. my school. im going back to asia soon, so. uhm IM NOT READY

[@zackotlowski2365]

I'm a trans man myself, and I've been using the men's restroom for a while now. The cleanliness of the bathroom can very (never use the men's bathroom at a gas station). I haven't had any problems yet, guys seem to be more understanding, or they just don't care. So if you have a mail friend with you next time, ask them to go to the men's bathroom with you so you can see what it's like, and see if you feel more comfortable in that bathroom.

[@illuminatesbigeye]

It would be so nice if we could just go to the bathroom in peace

[@bluem9559]

Nice pfp

[@cherryheartssz]

Nice pfp

[@cameront6911]

Mean pfp

[@grahamherbert3612]

Stay at home then.

[@Moimoioh]

As a non binary I can agree with the title I wear baggy clothes and a bra that makes my chest flatter it's not a binder I just forgot on how you spell it though I also have short hair so sometimes I get refered to as a boy sometimes I wear skirts because f gender roles plus it makes me really uncomfortable when people refer to me as a girl or a boy I can never seem to find gender neutral clothes for my age it's either for babies or adults so sometimes I choose "girl" clothes because they look somewhat gender neutral but if someone knows the brand that it's from they'll think I'm girl this is why I usually a oversized hoodie that's black with my school name with shorts and some knee high socks because I looks like im not male or female but of course people either assume I'm a boy or a girl it's really annoying to me thankfully if I'm with my friends they'll correct the people who assume I'm male or female because they know I'm to scared to do it

[@allistair9024]

The bra that makes your chest flatter, do you mean a compression top? I have one of those.

[@Moimoioh]

@@allistair9024 yeah that's it

[@morbrick1572]

I can't imagine myself having short hair because I have tonsurephobia

[@morbrick1572]

@D R 3 4 M C 0 R 3 C 4 T The fear of getting my hairs cutted

[@ghost_lad08]

I'm not binary but I use more female clothes and like to personalize my fashion so I don't really have these problems, it's kinda sad when no one rll respects my pronouns because I choose to look more like my assigned at birth gender tho

[@amee6840]

I am a girl and i have once used men's toilet and i am traumatized to this day. It wasn't actually filled with pee or anything it was a clean toilet and all the stalls in there was but the traumatizing part is the writings i found in the door and walls of the toilet. The writings in there made me extremely uncomfortable like it was written ....sister's hot,porn links, names etc etc things. 😖😖

[@Ash_NuggTato]

What bathroom did you go to a club one? A school one? Because that sounds like a school bathroom stall, I went in the men's bathroom because I had to pee and the women's was getting cleaned and nobody was around and I didn't care, and it was cleaner and nicer than the women's which be looking disgusting

[@roxypoxy3742]

I remember this One case I saw in my country’s News where Someone litrally called the cops because a trans woman entered the woman’s bathroom, the trans woman suggested that they should just get their own bathrooms, WHICH IS REASONABLE. But people was mad about it. Till this day the case hasnt been approve.

[@Bucherviews]

Honestly, seeing as you pee in a stall anyway, segregating toilets by gender this way doesn't really make any sense... as a fellow enby, I feel your pain Josh (also loving how much more straightfoward/open you are about your identity lately! Proud of you, man

[@anonymouscat3772]

Although many toilets in the US have huge gaps in the door, large enough for someone creepy to look through.

[@DinosaurNick]

Yeah also I never understood urinals? Can men not just pee in the toilet?

[@lavenderrbooks]

​@@DinosaurNick like they do it at their house? why not do it in public bathrooms?

[@doublec3]

It’s 2022 and about bloody time this shit changed. I’m fed up with this segregation crap too. There’s too many conservatives, those who don’t support our transgender types.

[@doublec3]

Thank you.

[@farter555]

I'm nonbinary (they pronouns) and i live in england and ive used both men's bathrooms and women's bathrooms when there is no other option (there are gender neutral bathrooms in a few of the buildings at my university actually) and i haven't personally noticed men's bathrooms or women's bathrooms being better or worse in terms of cleanliness. I have indeed seen puddles of pee in some men's bathrooms, but ive also seen used menstrual products overflowing from some bins in women's bathrooms.

[@vampexia4eva]

I've been hit many times for going into womens restrooms. I'm tired of holding it. I literally have made people run out with their children and get kicked. but i'm scared of going into the men's(every time i walk past it my head goes straight to hate crimes) I go by he/they(born female) and I haven't gotten any type of surgery so it's hard for people to know?? I lost my only binder so now I have to make due with a bunch of tight bras🤠👍 WE NEED GENDER NEUTRAL RESTROOMS

[@oboroshirakumo188]

That’s not healthy for you please bind safely and I will tell you a something you can damage your body like that p.s. not telling you not to bind just do it safely I myself am gender fluid so please don’t think I’m telling you not to bind 💗🤍💜💙🖤

[@gr0tesxc]

I don't have a binder but I'm not toO BiG

[@simramohammed4269]

Bruh, girly, go to the female one- its not that hard

[@vampexia4eva]

@@simramohammed4269 I just stopped going into public restrooms if it's not a 1 person restroom. I sometimes do go into the men's, I just have to tell my brain to suck it up and hope for the best🏃‍♂️

[@vampexia4eva]

@@simramohammed4269 also, if you read the first part of it you would understand why, and I am extremely uncomfortable going into them.

[@alllittlethingzz]

as non binary person we need more gender neutral bathrooms in school and I’m so glad I’m going to college soon and turns out they have gender neutral bathrooms

[@eiffiedarkness649]

I was super lucky going to a school that had multiple ones the only floor that didn’t was the third floor so I’d have to take the stairs and I’d miss a bit of class

[@luccaustico]

i'm not enby but i do support gender neutral bathrooms bc even as a binary trans boy i'm underage pre-T and still working on passing socially, so i usually use the male's bathroom (i never had problems using it) but, when with family members that don't know or don't support my transition, i have to go to the female's and that has caused a considerable amount of embarrassing situations.. >>gender neutral bathrooms can make it easier to everybody

[@grahamherbert3612]

Seek psychiatric help before you destroy your life.

[@funkykitty797]

@@grahamherbert3612 wgat

[@kazumi219]

The only gender neutral toilets we have are the disabled toilets but you don't really use them ( were I'm from)

[@c.a.fontaine1074]

In the U.S. most gas gas stations have single toilets and any gender can go in because it's just for one person.

[@kazumi219]

@@c.a.fontaine1074 in the UK we just have disable toilets for anyone to go in but it's mainly for disabled people

[@skootergirl22]

Some need a key to use and apparently only people in wheelchairs have a key

[@kazumi219]

@@skootergirl22 oh they do I didn't know that every store I been to they don't have a key you have to push the door but thank you for telling me😄

[@kazumi219]

@@skootergirl22 how are you ?😄

[@ragefulhobbit]

Hello, Josh! I feel the same about toilets. MORE GENDER NEUTRAL BATHROOMS ARE NEEDED. The dance studio I work at has gender neutral bathrooms, and it's FANTASTIC. I'm really grateful to have those toilets.

[@peacefulleopard8016]

My school doesn’t have boy/girl toilets, all the bathrooms we have are gender neutral. I’m very lucky to go to the school I do.

[@vanman4826]

my arts school i go to has womens, men’s, and gender neutral bathrooms, it’s really cool :D

[@gigglesanxietydevil7266]

Boi/Girt! I feel you! We need gender neutral toilet! We can’t let these basic girl or boy toilets cause our bladders like this forever! I’m hoping America on my side finally puts more gender neutral toilets to this day! This is basically torture to wait to get home at all when every world should have gender neutral toilets!!!

[@kiyazombi]

The public toilets we currently have confuse me so much 😩

[@rainbowdemon5033]

Fun Fact! Gender Neutral Toilets are even rare in Europe. I saw one once in London in a Gay Club. and that's it. Not even my University in Austria has one :(

[@NOT_a_YT_Channel]

It's sad that that's true. I am from Portugal, Europe, and gender neutral toilets are rare, very rare. Usually it's almost impossible to have them in schools. In public spaces is almost impossible too. And only some malls in our country have gender neutral bathrooms. Sad

[@Montismice]

Oh boy, I had mothers look at me and take their children and run 🏃‍♀️. A lot of grandmas would glare.

[@mossy_milo]

As a trans guy who doesn’t pass I can relate, gender neutral toilets NEED to be thing everywhere

[@lucajambor3514]

Sameeee and I agree, it just makes things more easy

[@grahamherbert3612]

You're just a very confused little boy.

[@electroskates2434]

What happened to the disabled one?

[@censored2051]

The same thing happens to me a lot. I'm a enby and I always use the men's since I was born male. People almost always get my gender wrong because I have long hair (I know!) But I'm used to a lot of cis men staring at me with a slightly confused look. PS:To all the people who've never used the men's it's not as bad as you might think.

[@bloodymary9404]

There’s also a big debate about this in the US. I don’t really know why because, we have stalls in women’s restrooms so no one can really see you. I guess it would be weirder for men since they don’t have stalls for urinals and everyone can see them pee but, all they would have to do is make stalls ceiling to floor for all the toilets/urinals and it should solve itself.

[@kaleziahadden354]

The women and men that see you go in the restrooms are the problem

[@ManWithTheMagic]

As a closeted gender fluid I feel so uncomfortable in the woman's restroom, I'm biology female and have long hair , but I still feel uncomfortable

[@Poko14]

I'm a trans man and same, it just doesn't feel right to me but I can't do anything to hide my appearance since my parents don't support trans

[@Bin_rat_bex]

I normally just go in the boys toilets the most I'll get is a glance up and down but yes I do agree we do need gender neutral bathrooms

[@itsmeehe]

Alternative tile: asking ppl to stop questioning my gender every time i pee.

[@0R4NG3_AQU4]

Me:catgender Ppl when i tell them:u use LItTaRBoX :0 eww Me:ew no. ^-_-^

[@RaiverMiran]

I relate ro this! I'm non-binary and it's honestly kinda funny when I hear people ask "is that a girl or boy?" I get equally happy everytime :) It's also kinda awkward when everyone is starting at me when I'm in a public bathroom ;-;

[@isaak1748]

As a trans guy I relate so much... Because here's the thing... I don't pass. I'm not even out so even though I dress as masculine as possible I technically still look like a girl. So I can't go into the male's restroom because they will look weird at me. But going into the girls restroom gives me dysphoria so I just have to hold it in :/

[@aloiscline2869]

Man, I relate to what you said. It doesn't help that I literally can't afford a binder or HRT.

[@isaak1748]

@@aloiscline2869 Same here, honestly I just wear sports bras that are way smaller than my size. But I don't encourage that because it's probably not safe.

[@Poko14]

Exactly the same

[@Poko14]

@@aloiscline2869 I could get one but my parents don't support me so im just forced to deal with it and it makes me really upset

[@thekarlshow_tm]

Personally I've never had this problem as a demigirl who presents themself as more feminine but I totally agree that there should be gender nuetral bathrooms because yall deserve to pee in peace too

[@cameront6911]

demi god

[@alleskunst5747]

In my country we don't really have a gender neutral bathroom but we sometimes have a bathroom for disabled people and there is usually just one so it's gender neutral. And you can use it when there isn't a disabled person on sight that might need it

[@ashdoesstuff5544]

I am nonbinary, and personally for me, i feel comfortable in a single person bathroom where I can feel fully comfortable. I can use the women’s restroom bc i pass as female (unfortunately) but it makes me feel invalidated. As for men's restrooms, i don't feel comfortable there either.

[@mysteriz_madi]

I think establishments should divide bathrooms by Urinals and Toilets.

[@Ash_NuggTato]

I don't, I'm not going to the bathroom with anybody, I'm going with people that's the same gender as me

[@Mythochist]

As a trans non-binary student who uses the men's toilets and lives in a place in the US that isn't excepting I agree that we need gender neutral toilets.

[@cameront6911]

as a shardfard xd lmao super quirky woop woop yes no person, i can agree

[@elca_liza7297]

Am I the the only one who rewinds too much cause I find everything funny or adorable?

[@freshwater5544]

No

[@lonelymoonchildtired]

Yes

[@ameliaharmer4850]

In my school we ONLY have gender neutral toilets and it’s so great, many student in the school (including myself) are gender nonconforming and though many of the girls in my school find it weird it just makes life so much simpler and better

[@grahamherbert3612]

You are a very confused young person. You are a minority, and you're being appeased by cultural Marxist degenerates. It will not end well.

[@elca_liza7297]

I need to take this seriously but you're not making it easy for me Josh.

[@chainera7569]

my summer camp actually had non-binary toilets and even tho I'm not non-binary I still appreciated it a lot

[@Itsang_ham]

Omg that’s so cool.

[@chainera7569]

@@Itsang_ham ikr-

[@grahamherbert3612]

Why ?

[@notCinnamonroll]

I'm non- binary and I agree! it's so embarrassing when I need to go to the bathroom and I get weird looks from girls and boys.

[@littleyvietnam]

This is such a relatable situation as a Non binary peep, we're struggling through this together 😔✋

[@grahamherbert3612]

You're a confused child. All will become clear as you mature.

[@keshyschronicles]

As a feminine presenting cis woman I didn't Know the amount of privilege I have to just go to a toilet without feeling scared I'm sorry that society is so dumb

[@frog_freak8719]

“Cuz I know in Europe they have gender neutral toilets” Me, from Europe: They do?

[@wolfkitty42]

I’m really glad that my school does have one gender neutral bathroom. It’s a little annoying though because it’s all the way across the school, so if you have a class on the upper floor... You’re screwed. Hopefully though one of the other bathrooms will be converted into a gender neutral one though cause people were talking about it last year.

[@jennydonelly8261]

I work in mcdonalds and suprisingly men's toilet is always cleaner than women's (I know because I clean them). The only thing that is true is the smell, the women's toilet smells better but generally men keep the space more tidy and cleaner.

[@zipporian1491]

I'm AFAB enby living in the US. I just the bathroom based on what gender I think I am being perceived as, & I will confirm: THE WOMENS RESTROOM IS SO MUCH CLEANER-----------

[@TheMasterM98]

Even if I can't relate because I'm not trans/nonbinary/etc, I still believe that one big toilet for everyone is a good idea. The only thing that prevent us to adopt this system is the force of habit probably. Btw male bathrooms are not that dirty ahahah, with the right manteinance every bathroom can be clean (and women I know had tell me so many horror stories of what they found in the toilets 😰)

[@burningfiregames6015]

I know this comment is 7 months old but it's not about habit, it's about safety, letting anybody walk into a large toilet room is a really, really bad idea. it would lead to less awkward situations but it's a massive safety concern

[@thea5952]

My school was SOOOOO close to a gender neutral bathroom, we had a petition and everything but then covid happened.. we are gonna re try again this year tho :)

[@grahamherbert3612]

Why ?

[@confusedwhale]

Eating disorders have a control aspect. Like, "my body doesn't dictate when and what I eat.". Especially when a person feels like they don't have control of they life in other ways. So, you holding your urine might have some roots in your need for control.

[@skootergirl22]

Holding in pee for a long time can cause problems and UTIs or kidney stones

[@anon1011]

This has nothing to do with them having a disorder of some kind, it has to do with them not being able to use neither women's nor men's bathroom safely.

[@LunarMoonKitten]

this is why i don't use public toilets

[@idkfu2781]

WE NEED THESE!!! I’m Gender fluid, I don’t feel comfortable going into either. ‘Cause I don’t wanna go in the female toilets ‘cause I don’t wanna feel uncomfortable, and I don’t wanna go in the male toilets ‘cause I don’t feel uncomfortable. 😭😭😭

[@sarahp6554]

In 2nd grade, while on a field trip to the zoo, one of the girls in my class tried to go to the ladies room, and a man thinking she was a boy said, “No. no, son. That’s the wrong room.” He then tried to take her into the men’s room. This led to 70+ elementary school kids screaming. We were yelling at him, yelling at the teachers, just making all the stranger danger noise we could. The poor girl had super short hair and was so scared that she couldn’t talk.

[@luke_the_falcon6885]

Man... This gives me flashbacks when I was in middle school... It was a quite chilly autumn day, when it's cold I usually wear my clothing combo: Big Red hoodie and Black Sweatpants Anyway, during break I had to go to the toilet so like every normal girl I go into women's restroom and I got greeted with a screams: "it's a girls restroom" "get out" and even one girl throwed a toilet paper in my direction And I just look at them and with the calmest voice and face I said "But I'm a girl" And they just look at me with 'No way' face

[@Cami_P]

I think we should have those bathroom were only one person can go at a time (it’s just one toilet) so then all of the same genders can go.

[@Jake-kt7ws]

as a trans guy getting ready to go to school for the first time in over a year i have been thinking a lot about bathrooms because the amount of anxiety i have as someone who doesn't pass as male with transphobic parents, it is horrifying. so yeah this is a very relatable video because i don't wanna go in the men's room because they'll obviously think i'm a girl because even though i dress in a way that i could pass i was not very lucky with how my chest developed and if i bought a binder my parents would probably beat the shit out of me. yet also if i go in the women's bathroom because it's just me in there the whole time thinking about how i look like a girl and internally dying so yeah, give us our gender neutral toilet, america. public toilets are very scary for a trans person in a mostly republican state

[@bizzarchi767]

i just wanted to say that sometimes at my country there’s a child/disabled/gender neutral toilets-

[@eleonorazannelli6597]

Even in UE it dipends, not just by the cuntry, but even by the city and the place. It's not that obvious😅 And I'm talking as an UE citisen

[@rae3460]

No but seriously when I find a gender neutral toilet I’m so relieved.

[@IrfanDoesWhat]

Why did I feel the uneasiness of holding my pee from this video XD

[@cryyuni]

Same 😂😂

[@elca_liza7297]

Your way of story telling will always be my favorite josh.

[@idkifitsblueorgrey]

I can really relate, buddy. But now, my mom won't let me get too short hair, so I pass easily as a girl. Still, it makes me feel out of place, when there is a bit of a crowd in there. I just get around doing my thing as fast as possible, 'cause I'm not t great at holding it in anymore. (My bladder is a very weak, and after hearing this, I really need to pee.) (•﹏•)

[@April0503]

I’m Swedish… in schools we don’t have genderd bathrooms. But in public in the open or in maybe a theme park or a airport there is gendered bathrooms but in stores we just have like three bathrooms to pick of or wait for people to get done three sinks and that’s it, not gendered! Amazing…

[@robynabbott7849]

Jellie:talks about gender neutral toilets. Me:*gasp* where can I find one of those! 😍😍✨✨

[@juliaithinal4835]

You would like our library, it’s got 3 small bathrooms instead of public stall ones,

[@soggyeggos5093]

I'm non-binary genderfluid I would love that

[@JHopReloadedGoAnimate]

No Man or Boy would care if a Woman or Girl came into the bathroom. It’s the opposite where a Man or Boy would walk into the woman’s restroom.

[@yourfaveartist7974]

I talked about this with my non-binary friend yesterday. I asked them “isn’t it embarrassing getting confused as a boy going into the women’s bathroom?” And they said they enjoyed it. I also enjoy being confused as a boy, tho idk why coz I get embarrassed and socially awkward at the slightest of things. But nope, not this.

[@grahamherbert3612]

They enjoy it, because they're a self obsessed infantile exhibitionist.

[@yourfaveartist7974]

I get confused for a boy too sometimes lol But normally when I’m wearing a mask becoz I kinda have a gender neutral face but it leans towards feminine more

[@princessmae89]

Josh, I'm sorry to hear that your having issues like this but sometimes we're just going to utilized what's already available or maybe you can use the toilets for the handicaps - that is if your not really comfortable yet you need to relief yourself.

[@derpyliciousmiku]

That wasn't the point of the video tho

[@margaretalexander7629]

I have held in for 3 hours. I was at a camp and didn't want to use a porta potty. So-

[@jagoda3714]

I see your points but at the same time, I would be scared of using one same toilet with men, because I see them as potential threats 😬 I think it should be an option, so 3 toilets instead of two, women's, men's and neutral.

[@grahamherbert3612]

That's because you're unwell, and not because Men are a threat.

[@PunkyOPossum]

As a generous person who has used both women's and men's bathroom, can say that in my high school at least, your depiction of the men's room was pretty accurate. I'm sorry that you have to go through this, fortunately in the U.S., Many places do provide gender neutral bathrooms. It breaks my heart that there.are places in the world that are not supportive of their LGBT+ citizens

[@Mikazuki_augus544]

Anyday josh uploads is a good day 😊

[@Kayzx.1]

I agree as a genderfluid person no matter which toilet I go to I will always feel uncomfortable because of these people mistaking me

[@Level_of_violence]

As a trans male I just stand in front of the men's bathroom like: "will they know?" *Paranoia intensifies*

[@dorianlenoroc908]

I recently experienced this when I went in a target bathroom. They kept looking at me and it made me stressed and anxious. I went in to wash my hands but there was a woman there so I went into the stalls and pretend to use the toilet.

[@agaa647]

As a female I do know wish to use a toilet with male !Sorry its about privacy!This is just too much

[@Pearlzzzz]

Though I’m bigender I still stand in front of the toilet in confusion but eventually I just hold it

[@em9rt]

AYO SAME COUNTRY IM FROM MALAYSIA TOO :D

[@mand6377]

"I know that in Europe they have these gender-neutral toilets" cries is Polish

[@majordelilah]

my comfort youtuber

[@N1ghtmareCharlie]

This is relatable on so many levels for me because of my school. There’s only two gender neutral bathrooms in the whole school. The worst part being that it’s in the building that only has three classes. One of the science classes, drama, and art. I’m a trans male and it’s fricking awkward. Plus, I hate going to the bathroom in public that I’ve just learned to hold it in. I don’t even pass as a boy. I’m just saying they should really make more gender neutral restrooms just in general. It’s kinda hard when you need to use the restroom and you can’t-

[@hollyclough6761]

Do you no how many sexual assults happened to women before male's and females were separated? This is insane

[@kamiharumi4560]

My school actually has one, but we need to walk through hallways to get through it and it only fits one person in it.

[@Anonymous-py1sf]

No. Women and men are different. Let's accept it. People ARE different.

[@Nimatoir]

Bro, I just randomly got recommended your channel after years! The last time I watched your videos I thought I was cis (it was the binding video and the top surgery video)

[@tateyui]

Hell yeah I'm early 😆

[@Amethiist143]

This shouldn’t even need be a conversation tho, like comon!! We must get these, we need themmmm!!!

[@roshnipatil4325]

First 🥇🥇

[@DeianiraJax]

Actually first

[@mylifeisajokeloljk6323]

Okay????

[@roshnipatil4325]

😅😅

[@acharachteryoureattachedto]

5:55 this is completely 100% accurate.

[@itssaaaiiiii]

first

[@ariesdork5283]

MY SCHOOL HAS GENDER NEUTRAL BATHROOMS AND THE TEACHERS ALWAYS ASK FOR YOUR PREFERRED PRONOUNS 😭 I’m so proud

[@lenalenasabri]

CAN I MOVE THERE?

[@skittles9744]

Mostly in Europe they sometimes have just 1 bathroom that only has one toilet and one sink. So you can be whatever gender u want to and still go to any toilet. You just go in which one is available. Like in resterrqunts or stores. But in most pleases like 65/100 there are just two bathrooms that says female/male. But a lot of people in Europe don’t criticise you for what bathroom u go in. Unless ur a very feminine person and u hi into the guys bathroom, then u get stared at.

[@smush4635]

I am a trans demiboy, and in the school I’m in currently, the only gender neutral bathroom is in the nurse’s office, and whenever I go in there, people think it’s that time of the month.

[@cheapcoffeeat3am463]

4:15 C R E E P Y M I N I H U M A N S

[@Vipanen03]

As a trans guy (pre-everything) I agree. I always get weird stares if I go to the womens restroom and I am still very terrified of going into the mens restroom. I really hope my new school has gender neutral bathrooms or that they at least specify for me what bathrooms I can use.

[@oxeyedaisy6779]

As a trans man I can relate because I don't pass well so when I'm at school I stare at the bathrooms trying to figure out which one to enter because for one thing going in the girls bathroom gives me gender dysphoria and I sometimes have panic attacks and if I go in the boys bathroom everyone will look at me weird so I just hold it till I go home

[@polarplague1348]

where i live at stores they usually have this "family" restrooms people prolly use them if their kid is too scared to go to the bathroom by themselves they are like one toilet one sink one family aloud in there at a time kind of thing but if i were u i would try using one of those but idk if they have them wherever u are in the world so if you find one consider trying it