5 Practices To Get Out of Toxic Parents Programming & Rewire Your Mind

[@jerrywise]

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[@pinkposey8134]

Thank you, needed this as I would rather isolate and not interact with people. This is not allowing me to advance in the world.

[@leonama6876]

Unfortunately, I was a told by the toxic individual that my persona gives mean vibes. This is right after I provided an assertive comment. It is tough to deal with these people. Their lack of empathy and self awareness make them seem like psychopaths.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Maturing can be the best way to heal things more than just time.

[@MacSwan]

So true

[@jennylynn82173]

Jerry, Thank you once again... Your influence has made such a difference in my whole life. I truly cannot thank you enough for all that you do to contribute to wellness and wholeness in this world.

[@4Beats4Me]

A refreshing viewpoint, a friendly voice, some room to breathe at last. Thank you.

[@i.m.watching5536]

Another excellent video, Jerry! You are so good at what you do.❤

[@jerrywise]

I’m glad you enjoyed the video, thank you for watching 😊

[@godfirst4964]

That is a great technique! Thank you! I never know how to deal with people like that. I feel bad when I don’t help so that gives me a less direct way to respond. Love it!

[@jerrywise]

Glad it was helpful!

[@SB_McCollum]

...liking those shirts with the contrasting binding. Very cool.

[@jerrywise]

Thank you :)

[@pamelaruth7400]

I always enjoy learning from your videos.

[@jerrywise]

I’m glad my videos are helping you Pamela, thank you for watching

[@Goldenheart2911]

Phenomenal video as always Jerry. Your analogy with the fly and examples of the church addicts is so relatable and spot on. This is why learning to set healthy inner and outer boundaries and applying them in real life situations is so important. I saw this amazing movie called the Good Person. It really made me appreciate and feel so beyond grateful for how far I have come in my healing for not only myself, but my children as well.💛 Thank you for always sharing all of your wisdom and insight Jerry. Your teachings have helped me beyond words and I am humbly grateful.🙏

[@darinsmith2458]

i do like how you describe narcissists or dysfunction

[@rochellecaffee1417]

I AM SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE WHO FEEL LIKE A CULT. MY TROUBLE IS THAT MY PROBLEM GOES WITH ME WHEREVER I MIGHT ESCAPE TO.

[@rochellecaffee1417]

Right now, Jerry, i am just tired of caring. I am going to take a long break from everything and everybody, today. My family of origin is Who??? That’s always my 1st question…

[@trudibarraclough478]

I know just what you mean! Take care of yourself

[@MylonMoses]

You have the power! Even if you are not ready to change you have the power! It is not how it is when?

[@55937]

Thanks!

[@55937]

my name is kelly. thank you so much for everything you do

[@jerrywise]

You are very welcome Kelly, I’m glad my work is helping you. Thank you for watching

[@Denise-y2c]

So much to think about. Thank you for giving me more information in 2 videos, today. Need to listen to each again, then practice, and Im sure some feelings will be there to deal with. God Bless.

[@kareemmohammed5270]

much appreciated as always Jerry for your deep insights.

[@billymoretz2292]

Thanks ❤

[@jerrywise]

You’re very welcome!

[@nancyP7448]

Your videos are always enjoyable in a healing since. Thank you.

[@trudibarraclough478]

Thankyou for the validation. I did this with my sister on a trip last year. She then sent me a poisonous letter by snail-mail saying I bullied her. It was just the message I needed to go gray rock.

[@Crystal_Seeker71]

Thank you Jerry

[@Denise-y2c]

Needed this!!!!!!!

[@MylonMoses]

Thank you Jerry!

[@jerrywise]

So welcome! 🙂

[@lauraj8429]

I love this video. I’ve taken notes!

[@jerrywise]

Glad it was helpful!

[@erockfreedom6399]

Thank you for helping me frame things in a type of way that makes all this madness feel more palpable. I always get something from your videos ? I think I have a narcissistic therapist *or* he is really, really reminding me of a family abuser with his speech and mannerisms. Why would he not be hearing my no? I'm just not going to go forward with him, since I already opted out. I just find myself going back on my own boundaries...

[@rainbowgryphon]

I hear you. I have a therapist who's helped me in many ways, but she clearly doesn't understand personality disorders. She consistently resists validating my interpretation of my family's behavior and tries to convince me that my view of them is distorted. I've accepted that she can't help me in dealing with my family, but thankfully there are lots of resources out there to help, including, of course, Jerry's videos. I stay with her but only discuss things she can help me with. When it comes to dealing with my difficult family members, I follow the advice of people who understand and my own intuition. Trust yourself! A therapist should be there to support and help us grow, not to make us feel bad.

[@burkaboy1]

A lot of them, if not most, are Narcs

[@getnetalemu4427]

Thank you.

[@FaisalAhmed-kg6ep]

Thank you Jerry You mention in 8:04 there are couple of authors who talk about that. Can you share their names please ? As I do deal with difficult people and looking for skills to handle them.

[@jerrywise]

Edwin Friedman, Murray Bowen, Peter Titleman, if you go to my website, you can get my reading list at jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

[@capricornweather8102]

Anyone know any programs in Georgia or support group. Things have not got better in my situation and I’m trapped since Covid

[@Denise-y2c]

Wondering if you found any support??

[@tanyakashyap6944]

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