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[@unngjerde5064]

Pearl is doing literally anything in her power to be the most pick me girl who's ever pick meed.

[@hailey8941]

And despite that…no ones picked her yet.

[@catrakitten]

​@@hailey8941 The irony. XD!! 🤣

[@07Flash11MRC]

Ain't nobody gonna pick her: By her own logic she's about to hit the wall. She's walking, talking rotten meat.

[@worldsbiggestholdthegirlfan]

Definitely grifting

[@lordghetsisofficial]

she can be in a competition with blaire white

[@ruby-fx2eo]

I've known so many men who say they're "solely driven by logic, and women are the emotional ones", and then smash holes in the wall, beat me over a tiny mistake, break their things (and other's things), pick fights, etc. While I'm over here, running through entire pros and cons lists about every, single decision I make. But, no, I'm the emotional ones, bc I'm a woman

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

That why i don't loke it when people view women are form venus and men are form mars because men and women aren't really different from each other is it wasn't for misogyny and patriarchy that existed for so long tehir would be way more men who will be i to fashion as women are and more women who are willing to be pilots or mechanic than airline stewardesss

[@RajetsuKiba]

I once read this thing which really resonated with me, it went something like "the greatest marketing ploy in history was convincing people that anger is not an emotion" Which is so accurate.. somehow when men show anger it is not seen as an emotion the same way (if even) a woman crying is. Which is why they were able to uphold this narrative for such a long time..

[@audreydoyle5268]

Not so fun fact: after former prime minister of Australia, Tony Abbott, was voted out of parliament entirely (this was a while after he was voted out of the PM role) he went into the office of the woman who was to replace him and punched the wall about two inches from her head. But had the gall to say in an interview with a man named Stavros years prior, mentioned in Julia Gillard's "Not Now, Not Ever" speech as a take down quote, "... but what if men are by physiology or temperament more adapted to exercise authority or to issue command?" He was a pinnacle example of this double standard in the reception by society regarding the expression of emotions by male leaders as opposed to female leaders.

[@Daydream_N]

My brother says shit like this but then screams and cries and smashes his Playstation controller into pieces bc he lost in call of duty

[@Nat_778]

Being emotional is also a good thing that doesn't have to be at odds with logic. Sometimes having a little cry or screaming in a pillow helps me get the feelings out so I can think things over with a clear head

[@indigothecat]

Pearl's entire online persona at this point is just, "Women suck and are the worst, amirite guys? 😬😬😬😬😬 (Why don't guys date me?)" I don't think she even believes half of the stuff she says, she's just rage-baiting.

[@07Flash11MRC]

According to Pearl's ex-best-friend none of what P says is her own true believe. She just does it to make money off of incels, colored pillers and the rest of the manosphere.

[@lL338]

She's a hypocrite.

[@Nick-tj9cr]

Narcissists don't believe in the same way the rest of us do. They believe that they should just say whatever they think is a good idea in the moment. If it contradicts something they said before, it doesn't matter, they'll say something else.

[@andpeg]

I don’t think she believes it either, she’s just using the grifting skills her girlboss mother taught her 😂

[@lilhedgehog8576]

Rage~baiting is pretty common nowadays.

[@elfdragon1227]

Also, Pearl is just straight factually incorrect about chivalry. Chivalry was a code of conduct intended to keep rich dudes with horses (where the word even comes from) and weapons in check. A lot of the fanciful, idealistic, and romantic tales were written to hopefully inspire the thugs with horses, swords, and plate armor to be better people. Even then, those ideals typically applied to their fellow rich person. A knight who practiced chivalry was not likely to treat some common farmer's daughter with the same courtesy that he treated a lady-in-waiting.

[@AdaireKrickets]

The girl and her audience can't even handle the thought of gender oppression. Anything more nuanced, like how class plays into those those roles, is far above their critical thinking skills. Even if she was rage baiting, I'm not convince that the subscribers aren't bot bought by her dad to keep her out of his hair tbh.

[@elfdragon1227]

@@AdaireKrickets I certainly wouldn't be surprised!

[@TheOracleAtDelphinetlyNot]

Oh! so chivalry comes from the french word "cheval" which means horse! that actually makes a lot of sense!

[@NachtKaiser666]

​​@@AdaireKricketsthey do believe in gender-based oppression... But they believe "ackshually, men are the oppressed ones!"

[@SLYKM]

People need to remember that "lady" was the female version of "lord" right?

[@crawdaddy2004]

Pearl should really see a gastroenterologist. I’d be very worried about myself if I was able to pull that much crap out of my butt.

[@TheybyBaby47]

Especially considering how far up there she has her head.

[@5und43]

😂

[@audreydoyle5268]

Refuse comes out both sides of her mouth

[@missgolightly5488]

😂😂😂😂

[@lollygag161]

8:27 It’s crazy how she uses “we” to lump herself in with the men, but hasn’t used it to identify as a woman? Like she’s really deluded herself into not being as oppressed as the rest of us?

[@Reed5016]

Maybe, she’s secretly a trans man, but she hasn’t come to terms with it due to internalized transphobia since she’s conservative.

[@captaincaspian42]

Wait this is so true, this reminds me of misogynistic trans guys who are demeaning to women as a way to distance themselves from their agab.

[@lordghetsisofficial]

@@captaincaspian42 i used to know someone like that. god

[@sevans8784]

@@captaincaspian42 Literally came here to comment about this. I don't want to be making wild assumptions, but I'll put it this way: I'm a trans dude who definitely had a brief (but cringey) "pick me" phase before I figured out that I'm not a girl. We often do wild mental gymnastics to try and figure out why we feel wrong, and never seem to fit in with our agab. I know there are plenty of other explanations why Pearl could accidentally says "we" when talking about men, and "they" or "females" to talk about women. But it makes me wonder. Doesn't excuse the behavior or the damage done, of course, but frankly this person has baffled me for ages, and I would love for even a brief glimpse into their head. Of course, I have a tendency to head cannon transness onto all sorts of people, so I could just be projecting lol

[@Nicole-zh7pl]

Freudian shlip...maybe?

[@z_hydra_z9]

“You are able to exist as a single, adult woman because of women fighting for equality throughout history.” 👏E-XAC-TLY👏 THANK YOU! Women like Pearl need to face the truth, they need to hear this!

[@pinkeysherbet7249]

Furthermore, her wealth came from HER MOTHER. Her mother is a business owner with a fortune Pearl will inherit yet she’s doing this shit. It’s WILD.

[@z_hydra_z9]

⁠@@pinkeysherbet7249That’s ABSOLUTELY fucking crazy. I’m fifteen and yet I don’t act like this shit. Imagine being a woman and being so AGAINST feminism💀

[@WilliamBrowning]

She has climbed a ladder that was built by women and she intends to kick the ladder down behind her.

[@ShaunHensley]

Incorrect. You are able to survive independently because of all the surplus skilled labor men collectively contribute to society.

[@ThatFont]

@@ShaunHensley Wouldn’t that be communism? North America and UK are not communist. Where are you from

[@NearsightedNarhwal]

“Cant lose an argument if you don’t let the other person talk!”

[@CabbitPatchKiddo]

Idk I’ve definitely won a few arguments with my face but that’s because I can pull off a strong mom face

[@spurred_ladybird]

People who say men aren't emotional haven't experienced a mic'd public game lobby

[@mimarin7578]

Underrated comment

[@heavensgate2245]

I'm a guy and the amount of bigotry I see on online games is depressing It's the main reason why I switched over to singleplayer stuff

[@darkstarr984]

They haven’t witnessed a man playing a single player game and dying 20 times to the same boss, then screaming curses at it, only to try the 21st time and cheer that he finally beat it. I have watched that scenario many, many times.

[@squash6497]

Or been in a pub when the local sports team loses.

[@ricochetrivr]

Dnd is the only multiplayer game ive played that wasnt toxic af

[@pinkeysherbet7249]

“I just started to think about stuff” girl you can thank feminism for that 😂

[@penneylane123]

just pearly things? no, just pesky things

[@Zeffer32]

Just Pick-Me Things

[@NearsightedNarhwal]

Put her back in her clam

[@hannahegner5040]

just pointless things LOL

[@t.78d]

Just lonely things 😊

[@cuppachar201]

I love how PG this roast is

[@madalice5134]

Of course, she would think better of arranged marriages as opposed to romantic love. An arranged marriage would make her more likely to "be picked," especially as she comes from a wealthy family.

[@Lunakitty1234]

Also men would make their underage daughters marry older men. It’s creepy

[@nataliyanabakova7419]

getting asked "do you read feminist books, do you listen to lectures" and then responding "i talk to feminists" is sooooo wild

[@Nina-hz9vv]

She must be trolling. There is no way an adult woman can say things she says and be serious. This has to be some form of attention seeking or something, there is just no way her opinions are real.

[@kodamaspirit9298]

Trust me, that grifter claiming that women have never been oppressed ever does NOT sound like you made it up. I'm in fact absolutely not surprised that she did. After all, women can often go to clubs for free, and creeps buy them drinks, right?/s

[@juliaboskamp9666]

She also tried to be one of the guys by saying that 16 year old girls are hotter that 26 year old women. She did delete that post off Twitter but it was scary how many people liked it and said things like "16 year old are already grandma like you mean 12 year olds" like i don't want to have eyes annymore

[@Ironcorgi2]

I really wish people would tell Pearl no one should listen to her using her logic that she’s a woman and she doesn’t have children despite being over 25.

[@JamieLBW]

I've seen videos of her on podcasts with men being absolutely horrible to her, and basically calling her out on her hypocrisy in the grossest way. Like we'd never marry you, but we like that you'll agree with any outrageous thing we say

[@stephnicole3078]

Pearl just comes off as exceptionally insecure to me and I think that’s the crux of why she leans into all this craziness.

[@amandaveiga6719]

🎯

[@jigsawpiece8690]

She did say in a video idk if that still on the internet the only reason why she started to listen and believe this red pill stuff is from insecurity which probs gotten worse cause shes become the thing these red pill men say they want but is still single

[@jamiekamihachi3135]

J Aubrey had a video on her where she straight up admits she deeply insecure and is part of the reason she’s in the red pill community.

[@marcie5610]

I hope she takes a break and then comes back as a feminist queer hippie I feel like that would be fun

[@t.78d]

She's a lost cause

[@viiranen]

girl would absolutely grift off that as well

[@baby.nay.]

Laughed so hard I needed that thenk u babe

[@Ryan-wx1bi]

She will go with whatever gets her more views.

[@khoitrannhat6075]

so pretty much just that aryan hippe on twitter ?

[@tessahatchett]

if Pearl doesn't believe women should have a voice, why does she keep talking 😭

[@acedomm5343]

When she was talking about how men kneel to women and how it’s not right really sounds like she is saying women should propose which is surprisingly liberal and feminist of her

[@zoey2421]

"Men used to kneel to kings, now *we* kneel to women" - Just 🥚 Things

[@teamduality7962]

Zoey stfu and pay attention

[@cyreneB]

she comes from a rich home, was able to get debt free education, doesn't have to be worried about her bills, could anything she wants anytime and this is what she chose? confused tm

[@t.78d]

She's a los3r

[@t.78d]

She's a los3r

[@chickensarethebest3477]

She’s literally not sane. it blows my mind I thought it was just for views, but it’s getting to the point that the sh!t she says is just past the point where I think that can be true.

[@UberNoodle]

Reminds me of when in one of my classes at uni a group of students were debating about gender inequality in their respective countries. Two of the male students were from the same place, and they were adamant that in their country there was no gender discrimination in terms of jobs. None at all. But the female students were from their country too, and they said "of course there is!" Then, one of the male students quickly replied: "No! There are jobs for men and they're a jobs for women. It's equal!"

[@DAsrada]

I'm a bisexual masculine guy and I wouldn't date Pearl because I don't want to go down to the farm and potentially be fed to alligators.

[@littlebugp]

No kidding. There are so many red flags here...

[@Your.Casual.Buddy_AS]

Good to see people from my community, especially after being shamed by both straight and gay people irl😭

[@sanjanahari2669]

As long as you don't own a theatre, you should be fine

[@ricochetrivr]

Watch out for her pitchfork

[@Wonderoddity]

Actually the kneeling when proposing thing originated from the kneeling to royalty thing, but it’s a sign of devotion and loyalty to your partner. Oh the horror!! What world are we living in where women have to be LOYAL to the woman they MARRY?!?! /J

[@samanthaw3845]

Ok as someone who has a degree in MEDIEVAL AND EARLY MODERN HISTORY (specifically, my focus was Europe from the mid-800s through mid-1600s, although I do have some academic background in the Mongols due to my thesis focusing on the evolution of horse tack and its influence on mounted combat), Pearl’s thoughts on history are WILD. “Romantic love used to be banned 1000 years ago” THAT IS NOT EVEN A LITTLE BIT TRUE WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK. Courtly love, founded on the ideals of nobility and chivalry, has been traced back even further than freaking Eleanor of Aquitaine (1100s). There was already an entire GENRE of these literary works by the time Chrétien de Troyes wrote his Arthurian romances in the 1170s??? I’m just baffled by this. Edit: I’m sorry does she honestly believe Ancient Greece had no romance stories?? Orpheus and Eurydice? Hero and Leander? Romulus and Hersilia, if you want Rome instead? Heliodoros of Emesa’s Aithiopika??

[@djtigerteeth]

Supposedly Pearl has a college degree, but it really amazes me how uneducated she seems….. I just watched the video of her talking about choosing a religion and clearly having no knowledge of the Bible or the history of Christianity. She talks about history like a child. It’s really strange. She seems really confused about everything in general and lost about her personal direction in life. I mean, according to her own standards she’s a “low value” woman failing to fulfill her life’s purpose.

[@RealSigmaQueen]

LOL 😆. My big issue is that most people only learn history from the perspective of the nobility class. Not the working class. Very different.

[@mr.wiggles7135]

“Men use to kneel to kings, now they kneel to women” ok correct me if im wrong but they also use to kneel to the queen back then too? Since the queen is also considered royalty???!!?!?

[@shamedgeeky]

As someone who grew up in a Christian conservative cult, the only reason she can advocate for this lifestyle is because she’s never suffered under it in a way that would make her understand. Once I had the experience of having my credit ruined by my older husband when I was a teenager, I could never go back. The actual women in the culture who practice that don’t say that it’s not devastating, they just justify it as being gods will and being a “trial” for their faith.

[@JennaGetsCreative]

I don't feel like it's fair to confidently state that Isaac Newton died a virgin. He died having never married. He did claim to be engaged at some point. We can't ever know for sure that he stayed abstinent with that fiancé or any flings. It's possible the fiancé existed and they didn't wait. It's possible he made use of some one time services. It's possible he was gay. It's also possible that he was asexual. Not even the last one guarantees he did, in fact, "die a virgin."

[@UGNPFU]

Pearl's "Wealth" came from her family, especially her Mother's business

[@squash6497]

RIP Sigmeund Freud, you would have loved Pearl

[@JamieLBW]

Pearl seems to me like a rich girl who can't understand why she isn't happy. She could look deeply inward and figure out why and how to become happier and a better person. But that's hard. Much easier to decide all woman are awful and so it's not her fault if she's awful!

[@warlocket5326]

JustPearlyThings: The most unwantable pick me girl who also didn’t grow out of her high school bully phase

[@crawdaddy2004]

In America, it wasn’t required to have women participate in meditation studies until the 1990s. Women were specifically excluded from meditation studies in America until the 1970s. I am a Millennial (1986), and it wasn’t until after I was in school that it became REQUIRED.

[@katyj6058]

1993!!! I looked this up earlier and lost it

[@indigothecat]

Oh, and scientifically, there are only 4 (technically 5) Emotional States. Joy, Gloom, Anger, Shock, and Neutral/Calm. Happy and Love both fall under Joy. Shame and Sadness both fall under Gloom. Disgust and Rage both fall under Anger. Fear, Anxiety, and Surprise all fall under Shock. The more you know!

[@samuell.foxton4177]

I spent a year reading emotional psychology for my (abandoned) PhD, and there are a lot of different frameworks for classifying emotions (I classified the frameworks!), which have between 4 and 12 “basic” emotions

[@The-Garden-Library]

thank you for the comment i was wondering about that! though just a slight correction, disgust is caused by fear, more accurately it is a form of fear. and this isnt something im sure of but isnt neutral/calm a lack of emotion not an emotion in its own rights? also i hope you have a lovely day^^

[@De_Selby]

​@@samuell.foxton4177 just curious to know, why did you abandon it?

[@samuell.foxton4177]

@@De_Selby a number of reasons, mainly poor mental health and an unsupportive supervisor (the two are probably connected) The research was on the psychological impact of urban form on pedestrians

[@indigothecat]

@The-Garden-Library Essentially I see it as being like a big X or + sign, with Calm/Neutral in the middle, and all of the other 4 extremes off at the ends, or maybe looking at it as Quadrants on a graph, with point "0, 0" being 100% Neutral. I think that some of the feeling terms we use can fall under more than one category depending on context, but I think what throws a lot of people off is the Shock category. Physiologically, the body's reaction to genuine "surprise" or "fear" is not all that different. (Hence why a common joke in sitcoms is people trying to throw someone a surprise party, but it backfires because they are terrified.) I think Surprise can loosely be seen as an initially anxious reaction with increased adrenaline and heart-rate, but the individual quickly shifts into a Joyous reaction (or Happy). If you don't understand what's going on, frighten easily, and it takes time to calm you down, you remain in Shock, which is the body trying to put you in fight or flight mode. This is just my conjecture though, so take it with as much salt as needed.

[@brattygrl81]

Maybe the most conservatives in OTHER countries believe that feminism isn't necessary anymore. Maybe those conservatives are willing to acknowledge that at one point in time women actually were oppressed. But Kiwi, these are conservative AMERICANS! These are the same people who openly oppose public healthcare systems, public transportation systems, raising minimum wage to the actual living wage. These are the same people who claim ownership of a country that was taken by brutal force from the indigenous Americans that were already here. It's disgusting but also sad and true. These are the real thoughts and views of conservative Americans.

[@YIPPEE3969]

just pearly things? No, just pickme things.

[@pakkuxpanda8106]

Pearl just sounds like someone so deperate to be relevant, that she'll say the most ridiculous things just to get a reaction

[@SaplingsCo]

Why does puppyM look like he’s behind a sensor bar and not wearing shorts 😭😭

[@lillianwhittle1467]

6:40 The interesting thing is she's actually right about the love thing. The idea of romantic love being necessary in marriage, or even something that was highly desirable, (at least, in Europe - I have no background in the history of this in other places) came into popularity during and just after the medieval period with poets like Marie de France. Before this period, marriage was seen almost exclusively as a transactional contract between families (for nobility and peasantry alike) and not something that involved love at all. However, with the rise in literacy beyond just the clergy members, romantic poetry became a kind of fad in the court. From that, the idea of romantic love in marriage trickled down from the nobility (who were still mostly marrying for contract purposes, but now more often kept secret lovers outside of marriage) down to the peasantry, who started marrying for love sooner than the nobility. One of the most popular examples of love stories from this time period (and one of my favorites) is that of Tristian and Isolde.

[@lillianwhittle1467]

PS: Without feminism, I would never have been able to go to college to learn this! Nor would I have been able to write a college paper on the history of feminism, a subject about which, if she truly studied it at a level beyond simply repeating propaganda, I think she would feel very differently.

[@resintom852]

I can appreciate your very nuanced point, and you’re likely right-but I can’t help but to fear that she literally meant that she thinks the idea of human romance *at all* was invented 1,000 years ago. Which is just kinda funny to think about because like, where did all the babies come from throughout time? 😂 I don’t think it was some central planning for births that helped our species survive. It wouldn’t shock me if she meant either way though lmao

[@Your.Casual.Buddy_AS]

​​​@@lillianwhittle1467ya u r right and what's even more disheartening is that it was true for the people of my country as recently as the early 1920s... I've read some books on how both the male and female parties merely saw marriage as a duty to be fulfilled whether they liked it or not which ended in unfortunate and disgusting disasters like the brides getting killed, grooms committing suicides and children getting ignored and hated. Not to mention child marriage (particularly of children with sex assigned females at the time of their births) was also prevalent at that time here making everything even worse

[@enolicannoli]

havent watched the whole video yet so sorry if this was already said but I saw a great tiktok the other day saying that the reason pearl herself isn't married or engaged or even has a man, is because these men who want a "submissive" and subservient woman don't one who is already "submissive", they want one they can break and beat down emotionally. they want the "conquest" feeling. pearl is actually "unappealing" to the men shes trying to appeal to bc shes trying too hard to put herself down and be subservient when these men that want that kind of woman, really want to break someone down themselves.

[@mystilindsey9986]

She talks too much for them, they want us silent

[@EieiExamplEeiEi]

Sounds like something my ex did to me.

[@Honor_Knight]

Every time I hear “women don’t think logically, they think emotionally”, I know that’s not true simply by my existence 😂 I’ve always thought more logically, and it’s not often that my emotions lead my decisions.

[@Dutch3DMaster]

And at the same time, she has been siding with the manosphere which claims that women are unreliable because of their emotional instability, but men are the better part...while also saying that men can't see a woman tying up her hair in a bun without thinking about sex... Like, who is the emotional sex in that regard?

[@nikobaehr3638]

I think the funniest part is her complete misrepresentation of chivalry. To call chivalry feminist, because she thinks its only about respecting women is even funnier. I think if she actually understood chivalry, she would probably agree with it.

[@nikobaehr3638]

Nothing about chivalry says "respect women" or "put women above yourself" the closest thing in chivalry that could be interpreted as "respect women" is "respect all who are weak, and constitute yourself the protector of them"

[@matiasyannuzzi9655]

I'm all for turning Pearl into the lolcowest lolcow to ever crawl out of the internet.

[@KiriMorning]

She does it herself 😂

[@Captain_Commenter]

I'm a straight male and even I don't want to date her, if she doesn't even respect her own gender she'd never respect me.

[@jeyineftv1656]

You sound so bent. That’s one of the most g@y3st s8it I’ve heard in a long time

[@josiea.3855]

I literally saw Pearl recently make a point that men should be allowed to file for divorce but women shouldn't. Initially she was of the "opinion" that divorce should be illegal altogether, but she's leveled up her misogyny so much that she decided divorce is ok, but only if men do it. That is actually the most insane statement I've ever heard from her lmao. I understand it's likely ragebait, but it's so wild of a statement that it's actually laughable 😭

[@emmamartin4045]

What’s wild is the quantity of men that share her opinion. Be safe out there, ladies. They’re dangerous.

[@t.78d]

Pearl is a s4d and desp3r4te person who is trying to be relevant

[@t.78d]

Pearl is s-a-d and des-pe-r-ate person who is trying to be relevant

[@soupsalamamder]

she says "we" when referring to men as a whole but "them" for women as a whole?

[@innuwu152]

Chivalry wasn't invented by feminists, it was invented by the church because knights kept getting into fights and beating people up all the damn time. Wtf is she even on about, this physically hurts me to hear.

[@Lizalieu]

Chivalry was a code of conduct created by knights for knights. Pearl knows less than nothing about anything.

[@frogsbongs]

I feel like pearl would love to live in a world like the handmaid's tale

[@mariahclaar7915]

She reminds me of a version of Serena Joy. Her and Phyllis Schlafly.

[@SparkieUwU]

9:06 "the more I'm thinking" You sure? 😂

[@TheOracleAtDelphinetlyNot]

Pearl shitting on makeup is really ironic because it looks very much like she's wearing mascara... as a blond girly myself, I gotta say, my lashes don't show up like that without mascara...

[@traceymcintyre6265]

She wears makeup. Not all the time, but she does wear it. I've seen videos of hers where she is applying it.

[@awfuldynne]

Pearl says >women have never been oppressed, ever And yet, everything in _A Handmaid's Tale_ is something women have historically been subjected to, because Margaret Atwood wanted to have something to point to to prove people wrong when they inevitably said "this is unrealistic. it could never happen."

[@awfuldynne]

I might be mixing up anti-feminist women, but IIRC Pearl is part of a religious movement where "A man's place is to serve God; a woman's place is to serve her husband," and people in this movement tend to say or assume that everything wrong in your life is because you aren't subjugating yourself hard enough to your proper master. So yeah, "women have never been oppressed" in her opinion because her religious denomination ostensibly says their proper place in the "natural hierarchy" is basically slavery.

[@resintom852]

“Romance was invented 1,000 years ago” Helen of Troy called. Mythological or not. 🙄

[@tilkikiz]

You know it’s bad when Kiwi has to give context for 6 MINUTES lmaoooo

[@alexisskelly4073]

The last time a man kneeled to me was at Nordstrom’s. He was measuring my feet for new shoes. It was literally his job.I was 10. he also kneeled to measure boys feet too.😅

[@user-im7xc7cg7k]

Wow pearly is truly a wonderful inspiration for pick-me’s everywhere!!

[@matthewbarrowcliffe1091]

I like this men all being involved in chivalric gay romance while women all marry each other and fix the world idea.

[@snowbird1236]

Its amazing how Pearl was given EVERY advantage in life including having rich parents that pay for everything yet she still turns out a failure.

[@elllennn717]

If Pearl actually starting dating the men she is trying appeal to within one month she would no longer be allowed to have her youtube channel.

[@user-tb5rw5qt2f]

8:36 Us lesbians kneel to to women. They're just so fucking gorgeous 🥰

[@Ch1ldh0rder]

Real🫶

[@vikavolt4]

I SAW THIS TITLE AND ASKED HOW TF CAN SHE GET WORSE.

[@nenerosey]

she never fails to terrify me. honestly.

[@sophiastargazer]

The fact that she keeps saying "I've really been thinking about this thing" and then follows it up with the most nonreflective, factually incorrect and intellectually dishonest nonsense is really something, eh? It's like she (or maybe it's just the persona she puts on for right-wing men's attention) has the curiosity of a grape and the verbal impulse control of a toddler.

[@carlisleh]

is it out of pocket for me to believe Pearl wants to be a man

[@manda_musings8459]

Nope. You are spot on. She does.

[@5und43]

I think that's exactly it 😅

[@traceymcintyre6265]

She said she was brought up a boy. She is also a 6 feet 1 inch basketball player. Maybe she feels masculine.

[@PumpkinQueenFlorence]

I don’t know if she wants to be a man, but I believe that she HATES being a woman

[@jrstrande4890]

She is the Temu version of Phyllis Schlafly

[@HanneMary]

I literally just watches Michelle McDaniels video on her, where someone put it perfectly. She so desperately wants to be picked, but they don't want her. They like hearing her say this shit, but at the end of the day they want someone they can break down and slowly twist in the version they want. I cannot with her. It's as if I'm watching reality/trash tv, I just can't because I get ashamed for the way people are getting portrayed even though that's herself doing it on her own. Well at least she's rich, maybe someone will graciously bow down to her to give her the 15 children and all the housework she so desperately seems to want. Pearl get of the internet.

[@riley.k9906]

I think Pearl might forget that she is included when she talks about women.

[@MissyLKS8]

I'm sure she's just grifting. I doubt she fully believes anything that comes out of her mouth. She loves the attention and of course, the money.

[@LordMarcus]

8:26 UM, EXCUSE ME?? I kneel before kings AND QUEENS, thank you very much. #feminism

[@Merifian]

Hold up... "Men used to kneel to kings, now **WE** kneel to women."

[@strawberrysolar9086]

who’s pearl kneeling for? 😏🤨

[@actuallyrubyleaf]

So let me get this straight… Women like men they can serve and don't like it when men do things for them. But also women want to be worshipped and treated as lords without having to do anything for them… Girl what?

[@FzuuyWzuuy]

I love how the pick-me'est self-hating woman in the world still has yet for some man to pick her.

[@Corey_Blue03]

When she said kneeling to women, that men are kneeling to women, my first thought was that women are kneeling to women lol

[@cloudyskyz2237]

She also grouped herself with men in that scenario 🤔

[@Omi-gk4wd]

My husband had a crappy job when we met. He became a lot more motivated to find better work when we married and started a family. Not because I asked, but because he wanted to give me and our kids a comfortable life. I chose to stay home, and keep a handle on the household so he can run a business he started. I’m really proud of all his accomplishments, and neither of us would be where we are without the other. These trad-con men do owe a lot to their wives, and should honor them. And vise versa. I don’t think anyone on either side of the political spectrum really like or agree with Pearl. Mostly incel types and young men still finding their way. The rest of her views come from hate watchers.

[@wren7309]

i’m here … first … how odd. i haven’t been early for something since 1927

[@garnet1223]

I'm so obsessed with the trainwreck that is pearl, ngl. I almost wonder if its her goal. Like, any publicity is good publicity vibes. I understand a person with unhealthy cope could end up this way but, there's no way its 100% real. Right??

[@Langwidere903]

Oh, absolutely. There’s no way she believes all of the shit she says

[@lL338]

I think fear and loneliness are painful experiences that are cruel to capitalize on in combination, even if that puts food on the table. She alienates her audience and dehumanizes everyone.

[@88QueenOfHearts]

28:38 Her boy toy Blessings most likely deleted the videos. She has been cleaning up her channel and "trying" to pivot in a new direction to get remonetized. Her last attempt seems to have failed.

[@88QueenOfHearts]

The videos were put on a pay to watch site, but I can not remember which one.🤷

[@ChristaBlack-gn8ys]

4:36 The stuffies, everytime 😂

[@leggi_bois4eva]

Your blazer is my absolute favorite color! It looks amazing on you! 🧡🧡🧡

[@hannahforys4730]

She seems like the type of person who doesn’t know why she believes what she believes. A lot of conservative women at least have some basis for why they believe what they believe, be it religion or whatever, but she doesn’t seem to know why she believes what she believes. I think that’s why she gets so tripped up when she is confronted with actual facts and logic because she’s never taken the time to unpack why she believes any of what she’s saying

[@daviawyliefinch3017]

JustPickMeThings is more like.

[@kirapainter9382]

I love how openly she says “I’m probably butchering this” anytime she brings up any actual history or facts but that just does not in any way stop her.

[@davidross8242]

“Women are just so cringy and wanted romantic plays, cuz romance isn’t a thing” yeah, we just had William Shakespeare writing plays about romance and having men play all the parts, dressing up as women, kissing… yes Pearl, it was women that wanted that 😅 love as a human emotion, void of discrimination or need for heteronormativity is so lost on people like this it’s unreal

[@LavendowaGrawitacja]

theres very high chance Newton was gay

[@sumatrannos]

She probably wanted to delete her other stuff because she's affraid people gonna look them up and calling her out and she can't debate so what's why she got only 65 left of 10000

[@reykaye6096]

Pearl accidentally being an ace-spectrum supporter is fuckin beautiful

[@jentheaxolotl]

It’s always so weird when justpearlythings is “popular” ig cause everyone just refers to her as Pearl and there’s a certain Minecraft KZbinr named Pearl and my brain defaults to her everytime anyone says the word

[@paulinahafer7185]

The thing that gets me is the question of what she even wants because the way she phrases things, even just men *thanking* their wives, which is such a miniscule thing, as something women are somehow undeserving of, makes me think she wants women to be literally enslaved.

[@jefferyjones8399]

She’s so lazy. She just films herself saying outrageous things with no effort. It’s quite a grift.

[@ImoLP]

"I was thinking" - no Pearl, you weren't.

[@blackheart8665]

As someone who studies history at a Maters level, and hopefully at a higher level in the future. People like this hurt me personally. The lack of nuance, research and effort this woman puts into her "historical" stories (because they're literally a fantasy story at this point) is painful. Women have fought since the sixties and seventies to make women's history more visible, she wouldn't even have the ability to look into the history of women if feminists didn't exist. A lot of history was written by men, and we have lost a lot of work that was by women. We are still breaking down those walls now. Absolutely shocking conclusions with no evidence but "I took one fact and made up the rest".

[@Shiann444]

There’s been an interview of pearl resurfacing where she talks about her losing her v card to a man in college who ended up leaving her and marrying an older woman….. it explains so much. That girl is HURT

[@rubrikduck]

How have I never seen you in a blazer before 😭 it looks great on you!

[@cnreidy]

The wedding vows literally have the man say as well; 'I, _____, take you, _____, to be my lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death take us apart.' So if the wife is richer or poorer, that must mean she's able to work. To love and to cherish, that doesn't mean simping and treating your wife like a God. Pearl is so bitter that she is undateable, that she's made it her mission to scare all these impressionable and lost men away from sex and marriage. I guess to her misery loves company

[@Aireze_]

5:16 IF YOU'RE ALREADY CLIPPING IT, CLIP THAT OFF TOO????? OMG????? Like, I understand if there's a tech barrier to cutting out a piece in the middle. Absolutely. But making the clip shorter by 5 minutes at the beginning is something that Facebook Messsenger video recording allows. COME ON NOW.

[@drgnfsh9006]

Did. Did she just say that *women* say "nice guys finish last"??????? I wasn't aware that the incels on r/niceguys are not just women but women that speak for all women

[@angelinafischer4632]

Wow isn’t Pearl just a ray of sunshine 😀💀💀😭

[@cloudyskyz2237]

She’s the ray of sunshine that gives you cancer

[@RPGLover87]

Something I appreciate in the Croods movies that you might as well is that the family exist as a unit - they all do all the things and aren't separated by gender. They all hunt together, they all sleep together, and all travel together. Grugg has a complex about protecting the family because he happens to be the leader of the pack, but his wife Uga is able to challenge his decisions and he listens to her. Also while his definition of family starts very small, by the second movie he's already started expanding his definition of "his pack" to include his daughter's boyfriend - Guy is part of his pack now, whether he likes it or not at times, and he doesn't have any issues in the second one with Eep and Guy dating, his problem comes because they keep letting their crush distract them. Even his primary motivation in the first movie isn't JUST "This boy wants to date MY daughter?!" (although because of his other issues with Guy it does come out that way at times, but he's doing that because of the primary thing, which is a distrust of Guy because in his world New = Bad/Dangerous) it's "My pack are wanting to follow this complete stranger and they're abandoning me because I can't adapt!"

[@Disney_fan2020]

Unpopular opinion: Kiwi's shirt looks like the end credits background in Spongebob.