What she's saying is use your brain. This applies to everwhere in the world. And for both men and women.If dating interacially or interculturally then you must use your brain 100 times more as the risk is higher..
@jiminswriter42093 ай бұрын
The risk is not higher unless you think other cultures have more bad people.
@m.m.71833 ай бұрын
@@jiminswriter4209it depends. I think Asian women should be careful for Western men looking for a meek Asian woman in Asian countries. I have seen abuse to these women who were brought to Europe.
@Waridi233 ай бұрын
@@jiminswriter4209 the risk is higher because you're more vulnerable hence easier to be tricked by the bad people in those other cultures. Hence why you need to use your brain 100 more times
@willfungusman86662 ай бұрын
That's not what she's saying
@shelbyw61352 ай бұрын
Race has nothing to do with it 🥴
@almeidareisАй бұрын
That is a smart suggestion...to have arguments to see how they react
@MrYega-zq7rz22 күн бұрын
I agree. I met a lot of women gaslighting and not knowing how to handle arguments. They just ignore, never say sorry and become cold. It's like the worst. If you cant love even when angry then it's pointless to be with them.
@hemantmarmath668921 күн бұрын
Yeah that's what i thought 😄
@B1LLBILL17 күн бұрын
Don’t women do that anyway?🤨🤨
@lspence681015 күн бұрын
NOT ON PURPOSE. That’s childish.
@PolineChan14 күн бұрын
You have to keep this mentality when arguing with women "Either she's right or she's right"
@malachitestorm3 ай бұрын
What an intelligent person, and stunning too!
@bi.fruitsalad2 ай бұрын
Exactly ❤❤
@woodmanmorning12342 ай бұрын
That’s beyond stunning that’s charming, gorgeous
@sara.cbc922 ай бұрын
she was dumped by her bf lol
@sara.cbc922 ай бұрын
you may need to check ur eyes
@TheFoofoo86Ай бұрын
It smells like jealousy 😂😂@@sara.cbc92
@Burn1432 ай бұрын
Her name is Anna Lee btw and she has a KZbin channel. She gives good advice.💯
@ramsaycobbler84992 ай бұрын
This was a random encounter?
@Burn1432 ай бұрын
@@ramsaycobbler8499 Honestly idk. It could be possible he just randomly saw her on the street, or he called her up for a video since many of these interviews are planned. Either way, she gives pretty good advice usually haha.💯😁
@user-ns2dt3le1e2 ай бұрын
Ok
@user-m__Ай бұрын
@@ramsaycobbler8499 I think he always brings one sort of celebrity, and others are random people passing by
@aaawwweeeeАй бұрын
Yeah her channel is very good and she is really levelheaded. highly recommend.
@toxiknao88262 ай бұрын
Idk why people are saying "she's so wise" this is common sense most people should think this way.
@user-cp1co5vl7m2 ай бұрын
A lot of people don't though
@Raven744082 ай бұрын
Compared to some of the brain dead advice we've heard in this series like "don't date people who are friends with the opposite sex" this is much more intelligent. 😂
@ventaliq2 ай бұрын
fr
@sofiya6941Ай бұрын
It is but people tend to ignore the common sense
@user-jo7kf2bj9sАй бұрын
Exactly! Most people shrug off the " weird instict,or gut feeling" the first sense that pops up when you meet someone. They re-think it and convince themselves that the " feeling or sense" is wrong.
@mkay0630Ай бұрын
What she's saying about seeing how they react to arguments makes so much sense. It's better to fake an argument early on just to see their reaction (for safety reasons) rather than potentially wait however long, when you're already invested and the relationship gets serious, because by that point you're probably less likely to drop the person. I don't know if there's a term for this, but the more familiar a person is to you, the less likely you are to call them out when they say/do something toxic in order to "keep the peace." I'm talking about situations without a power imbalance (which you're obviously much less likely to leave the relationship for a myriad of reasons.)
@stevegfromnc34823 ай бұрын
If you haven't had some disagreements about something, you probably haven't spent enough time together. Or someone is totally letting the other make all the decisions and totally refusing to say what they think when they don't agree.
@TheDreamFairy439Ай бұрын
Pretty common in the beginning of a relationship (agreeing with everything) and then later, we regret it lol. She's right. It is better to voice your opinion and argue it out.
@clockeat13003 ай бұрын
its anna lee giving smart advice
@Burn1432 ай бұрын
Per usual😌
@james_l4337Ай бұрын
Make sure no marriage
@jasonlee02902 ай бұрын
Thats right! Not every guy you meet in Korea do those extreme things. Lots of good people to know both Korean guys and girls.
@yoyaserdx2 ай бұрын
그냥 맘대로 생각하게 내비두셈 ㅋㅋ
@lisab18542 ай бұрын
"Before you get married, at least have a couple of arguments with them to see how they are when they get angry and how you resolve conflicts together..." 🤔 Wow. I'm in UK. I've dated a few people but it never lasted long at all. So I don't consider myself experienced in relationships. We never argued (maybe that was the problem?) - except one guy who argued with me... 🤔 Come to think of it now, I'd add: be smart enough to recognise a bad situation, strong enough to walk away, and have the confidence enough to break it off when it's not right. I was shy and timid then. He was cruel and I should've left then and there. He left me shortly afterwards so it worked out. Thank you to this pretty lady! Her advice is gold ✨
@Kai-gom883 ай бұрын
Whooa..😮 she's so smart and a well spoken pretty girl😊
@fisherprice60122 ай бұрын
I love ppl from other countries.. you can learn so much from a simple conversation
@zzzmisun3 ай бұрын
ANNA LEE, you are the BEST 😊👍
@chinadjunior2 ай бұрын
She's wise. WISE!!!!!!!!!
@nicolejones368622 күн бұрын
See, this is why is you don't marry people straight way instead of knowing them first 😒 Arguments help you see what type of person your with, they could only hide that for so long 😊😏
@samleigh34953 ай бұрын
I need this girl as my life coach lol
@jojojoan6310Ай бұрын
She looks gorgeous
@bi.fruitsalad2 ай бұрын
She’s stating facts
@Feministt2 ай бұрын
Obviously, she is correct!
@HonestThoughts-bq8fs2 ай бұрын
That’s too funny since Anna is both arrogant and stubborn amongst shady 😂
@Kitana20202 ай бұрын
She's absolutely right. For me personally, I would like to see videos of Korean people speaking about how foreigners behave in their country.
@yogyal2923 ай бұрын
Finally someone who can speak 😢 tired of small minded ones ❤
@dr.sunflower63362 ай бұрын
Yes she's totally right. You said have at least a couple of arguements and fights to see if that person is willing to resolve things with you.
@LordTitus72 ай бұрын
She totally didn’t answer the second question at all
@RedThunderSP2 ай бұрын
Surprised you ran into Anna Lee on the street! Her story is very interesting. Great video!
@michelleprestegard72842 ай бұрын
They are friends
@makeupbyashley8282 ай бұрын
First of all I love her! Second, your hair looks amazing in every video!
@rhera6 күн бұрын
Ooohh she ia so right about argument part 😮!
@vikramdutta55575 күн бұрын
She's a good example of "Beauty with brain" ✨️
@nisansalabandara75692 ай бұрын
👍🏼👏🏼 I Should Listen To This Every Day 😊
@heididay63642 ай бұрын
I can tell she have a smart good personality. I am from Australia and live Aussie life but I definitely agree with every word she said and it makes me feel less alone in this world thank you girl and high five 🙌🏼
@user-jo7kf2bj9sАй бұрын
Always, always use your gut. Instinct is spot on, and if you feel something or someone isn't what they seem, then generally, thats correct.
@SAGEEDITZ242 ай бұрын
She just provided some really great information for people when they’re courting.
@nirikshab2006Ай бұрын
Honestly...this is only one korean woman,I have seen who is actually confident 😊😂❤
@SupremeMaster-he4rc2 ай бұрын
This lady is Anna Lee. She has a successful channel on KZbin. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ThePeasentMonarchАй бұрын
Her accent is throwing me off, sounds Korean and British. Pretty dope
@WolffBlurr11 күн бұрын
Oh, wasn’t expecting to stumble across the KPC here 🇰🇷🍕
@marialanagoldsworthy86702 ай бұрын
She’s 100% correct about how you should at least have a couple arguments with your s/o before taking them very seriously or moving in, and of course do these things and move in together before marriage.
@michellemckinney46782 ай бұрын
Awe Anna and Jerry! Friends in my head!
@sshhxxuКүн бұрын
very wise and spot-on relationship advice!!
@jiminswriter42093 ай бұрын
He's really digging for stereotypes about Korean men after she said all that. There are no "certain traits to watch out for" in Korean men compared to other men.
@Eli-pt9ft3 ай бұрын
Well it is mainly because people think Korean men are from a kdrama when in fact they are just like any other dude in the world.
@mystictraveler86423 ай бұрын
@Eli-pt9ft korean heart and romance is better than the tv shows in kdrama. But kdrama is a reflection of korean society.
@mystictraveler86423 ай бұрын
@user-dk9xr4ry3w What you speak of is true, but it's very superficial With what you are talking about, because it's on social media. But you don't really no. The deeper underlying fabric of korean society. There's nothing to keep up with the rapid changes. Korean drama's been around forever. Even after the war in the nineteen fifties. And bullying has been around in korean schools forever. The internet and social media has changed not only in korea but the whole world. Each country has their own version of change. The korean people and their heart is still so centered. The american entertainment capitalist do try to pollute Korea with a lot of cunning P. R devices.
@slee26952 ай бұрын
@Eli-pt9ft do most people think US men are like Hollywood?
@user-sm1jp4en9uАй бұрын
@@Eli-pt9ftisn't it those women's fault then ?
@ChrisBartleyLeo2 күн бұрын
That’s great advice.
@tambourinedmbКүн бұрын
have a couple arguments to see if he’s the type of guy you can push around
@XinkgsАй бұрын
She is on point with it
@KennethPriceRainfordIII2 ай бұрын
I am a military brat so i missed out on going to China but there's so many little china's nowadays.i love steamed pork bun steamed veggie bun steammed sweet bun. Now a days I'll settle for link in Illinois i feel ruined by mindy but cultural difference are the children that grew up with samurai pizza cats.
@jamesmckeon913914 күн бұрын
Chick seems like she argues to argue
@kdramaluvr991620 күн бұрын
I love her! ❤
@mojoeherb32802 ай бұрын
I can hear an English accent but I would date her, she's beautiful 😊
@ugonneeugenes91822 ай бұрын
She spoke wonderfully❤
@caleb0388Күн бұрын
My bros hair is on point though
@anudamodaran19Ай бұрын
Very well said
@winonna6132 ай бұрын
She’s definitely right.❤
@njskyline9762 ай бұрын
OMG, love her answer, very smart and realistic
@tornadocrossfire54419 күн бұрын
I swear I'ma say something that will make you think I'm dangerous even though I'm not LOL
@chcc39342 ай бұрын
such a great advise
@daveondiekaaron220413 күн бұрын
SHE IS VERY SWEET AND HONEST ❤️💯
@Meley07Ай бұрын
Couple arguments sounds about right
@gabriellep98662 ай бұрын
She offers good advice!👏👏👏
@jimbogipson19912 күн бұрын
What a wise soul bless you love
@ozzieovb2 сағат бұрын
You need to avoid her😂
@Precious685Ай бұрын
Yes i love how she stated it clear, bad pesons exists everywhere.
@WSPC711526 күн бұрын
Yes she is right
@morgannavel455213 күн бұрын
I'm kind of stubborn and she is too ㅋㅋㅋㅋ. When we have conflicts usually it's not big ones, but when it does happen it gets better over time cause at the end we love each other. I know it seams too easy to be true, but I assure you that sometimes you just need to wait until it resolve it. This kind of experience reenforced our love because she confessed to me her fear and her pov so I could understand. Understand the why before figuring out the how.
@Miraken812 ай бұрын
I agree 100%. She's totally right from my opinion.
@keithprice892317 сағат бұрын
Best comment I’ve heard in years that actually makes sense hopefully everyone will get it.
@acexae24112 сағат бұрын
Very true and fair
@wengo442 ай бұрын
to fight fair is not easy so having an argument with a partner to see how they behave sounds like a good plan.
@GIJoe-zm3yp5 күн бұрын
Her English vocabulary tho
@ekaterini29572 ай бұрын
Anna Lee! The voice of reason! :)))
@ndychung0073 ай бұрын
Hi, Anna.
@tommothedogКүн бұрын
We know what she means by compromise dont we boys! Haha 😂
@FedorSTR2 ай бұрын
This is very wise! The only thing which I`d add to it is- listen very carefully what a person is telling about former boyfriend/ girlfriend becouse, probably, the next his/ her botfriend/ girlfriend will hear the same about you. Some people are not able to keep themselves within the bounds of decency and after disputing with them you will not be able to communicate with them anymore. So the earlier you find it out the better.
@gingerslush63012 ай бұрын
I agree...those who are arrogant and stubborn wouldn't make a good partner
@priyanshu-jais2 ай бұрын
She is so pretty 😻
@Lyxs4s2 ай бұрын
People are treated the way they allow others to.
@iiirenee35742 ай бұрын
Hi, Anna....go preach, girl!!!!
@bellastyles456_21 күн бұрын
Smart smart women 💘
@S-bz1hqАй бұрын
I know her. She has that show Netflix and chill.
@StayMinaa16 күн бұрын
She looks a bit like Suzy Bae ❤😊
@teesaayegnala76892 ай бұрын
Facts queen
@kerrycolin57836 күн бұрын
Beautiful smile 😊
@yuiii2712 ай бұрын
Best advice 😅
@MadelineCahrie19 күн бұрын
She has a beautiful smile ❤
@nancymatsika86903 ай бұрын
❤
@theofficialpeterkim2 ай бұрын
Nice to see Anna here.
@PanHan992 ай бұрын
Facts!!!
@emanuelaguirre57402 ай бұрын
Good thing they call me Mr.Compromise
@wmelendez1331Ай бұрын
She smart!
@milindvrs49546 күн бұрын
She is lot more Indian than Korean.
@mrs.441423 күн бұрын
He said, "I am heaven and you are land"it means he is higher and i am lower which literally means slave
@ladybirdlee30582 ай бұрын
Love Anna. Everyone follow her channel!
@starothesea2 ай бұрын
annaaaa!!!!! my cool girl in seoul
@BIGALEX_DRDOOM15 күн бұрын
I Always put people to the test and ringer. Sometimes be an a hole to see how they react. 🙏🏾🤷🏾🤣
@lexyschu2 ай бұрын
Oh my goood Anna ❤ Gorgeous 😍
@TheyDontLuvJay2 ай бұрын
Subbed
@MegaMaverickManАй бұрын
She Looks Good In That Black Leather Jacket!
@S-bz1hqАй бұрын
She has that show Netflix and chill . I like her.
@user-qm2qv2gi8hАй бұрын
By whose standards should we judge a man whether he's arrogant or stubborn? Women!
@MrTobi0132 ай бұрын
Hey it's Anna! Now that's an intelligent lady right there!
@1Techdrawer2 ай бұрын
The beautiful woman said it best. Make them angry on purpose and see what they do.😊