Killer Gets Help from Local Police to Hide Girlfriend's Murder | Carrie Culberson Case Analysis

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[@aquarius5461]

What a control freak Vincent was, it is inevitable the girl was going to be murdered!! He still holds the key of where her body has been buried! Heartbreaking for her parents! Thanks Dr Grande.

[@maureenobrien4807]

I would not wait for his ,"truth".

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

@@maureenobrien4807. I’m not holding my breath either, sadly. 😞

[@MusMasi]

water board till he reveals where she is for her families sake.

[@asiam1528]

When you can’t find anything meaningful to watch on tv there is always Dr Grande to the rescue 😊

[@jackiegrice714]

It’s important for our own safety in selecting romantic partners to remember : If they’re not in diapers, we’re not gonna change em’. Thanks for covering this Dr. Grande.

[@dreamscape405]

And be careful of friends too. Way too many delusional people nowdays, which can be dangerous.

[@jackiegrice714]

@@dreamscape405 true

[@spiralsausage]

​@@dreamscape405 so true! One of the most damaging people to my life was a friend (who ended up romantically obsessed eventually anyway)

[@ceilconstante640]

In the past we didn't have access to the info Dr. Grande and others provide. We should encourage younger people to watch and learn. We can't change or fix anyone!

[@FatherSonSpirit1]

Great comment, we can only hope others change as we also change. God bless America

[@answerman9933]

@@FatherSonSpirit1 But Ceil Constante(OP) stated, and I quote, "We can't change or fix anyone". So you seem to be in opposition of the OP.

[@toolegittoquit_001]

The best we can do is warn and, if necessary, punish

[@gregrice1354]

Like all self-dentified "atheists", you miss the obvious point, and the clear facts, despite the seeming unpopular facts. What had Dr. Grande's career been about, as all good therapists, if not helping people???? You are insulting The creator of the video you are moved by, and imagine your comment is in tune with him Listen to your own thoughts and words. They reveal your iown self contradiction, despite your belief you are thinking in congruity.

[@magicsamart2343]

@@gregrice1354I’m sure dr. Grade bases all his decisions on a fake story book super god in the sky and not on factual evidence

[@ValkyrieofNOLA]

Ladies, and Gents too, if you’re with someone who has the tendency to recklessly accelerate out a parking lot (or wherever) in an expression of anger, leave. Especially if they’re driving a vehicle that is far from considered “high performance,” LOL. If ya boy squeals the tires of his 2003 Nissan Sentra because he’s pissed… nope. He obviously doesn’t realize how ridiculous he looks and that’s not something you want to deal with

[@Koozomec]

It's odly specific and i agree. Impulsivity is a bad sign. I'll add slaming doors to the list.

[@S-nyc]

Yes, so true. My psycho ex would throw tantrums and throw stuff around and kick things whenever he got upset. Which was often. And for dumb, minor reasons. Red flags. Violent people who will turn to hitting you.

[@jerz2dc]

Wouldn't this be a case of women who make similar decisions in the men they allow in their lives. Some choose the pound of cure bad boy over the ounce of prevention good nice guy. Their are exceptions to the rule, but it is a small town so I think she already knew what kind of guy he was to begin with.

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

Or jacks that 2003 Nissan up, add mags and a racing stripe.😮😅😂😂😂 You gave a great visual, thought I’d spice it up.😉

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@S-nyc Yeah, I think any adult who throws a tantrum is someone to keep well away from.

[@wiseone1013]

"He wanted to prove that he was a defiant and intimidating individual" 😂

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

❤😂😂😂❤

[@powlperc]

People who squeal their own tires or slam on their own brakes due to anger or immaturity…. 🙄

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

Right? Sounds like a guy I dated once when I was 15. When your ice and finances are that intertwined with someone else’s, though, it’s hard to get away. That’s why most abusers don’t show that side until they’ve got you where they want you. Been there!

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@oscarleijontoft If you can afford it, yes.

[@Sputterbugz]

sounds like most people on American highways

[@RyDawg084]

I think I remember this case being featured on Unsolved Mysteries. The neighbor witnessed her being chased and punched in the face and didn’t call 911??? Thats crazy! On a good note I heard a dog bit vincents face off in prison!

[@kellykane7586]

Yes it's crazy. I'm not one to call police ... however when a person is screaming for help, that's a whole nother story

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

@@kellykane7586. My sentiments, exactly. Even actual gangsters I’ve known have told me domestic violence and child abuse calls are not “snitching.” Unless it’s, like, Karen calls. “CPS? I saw a spot of dirt on Jimmy’s mom’s rug.” FBI, I’m a certified CD counselor…mmmkay? Confidentiality.

[@CountessKitten]

A lot of times, neighbors, good samaritans or passers by don't get involved in domestic arguments for good reasons. I had a neighbor at the house I grew up in, and he was a nice, loving, and kind man. He had a Harley and he often went out to the motorcycle bars around town. He was a tough looking, bigger guy. His name was Jimmy. He was out one night on his Harley and was cruising and wound up at a bar. He overheard a man and a woman fighting, and finally he ended up seeing the man punch the woman several times and the woman cowering in a corner after. The man continued to hit the woman and finally Jimmy walked over and started getting on the man, and asking the woman if she was okay and if he could help her. The man stabbed Jimmy, killing him. And the worst part, in my opinion, is when Jimmy first went up to them, the woman started talking smack to Jimmy. He tried to rescue her and lost his life over it. I know this information so well because his brother, who also lived in the house next door, was there with him and later told us all that had happened. So so tragic

[@mbryson2899]

It's a village of 4,200 people. The Chief of Police was crooked. Many small town departments are not worth calling because memories are long and you may end up being harassed and investigated. Add in the fact that some PDs still downplay domestic abuse and I can completely understand why she did not call.

[@wmdkitty]

@@sciencenotstigma9534 Yep. There's two things I will snitch out, DV and abuse of a child (or vulnerable adult). Anything else? I saw nothing.

[@danrothenhoefer4634]

This case falls into a classic pattern of domestic violence. There's no doubt in my mind that this guy murdered his girlfriend.

[@RoyalWatcher1985]

These murders are evil. No justification for them.

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

@@RoyalWatcher1985. Domestic Violence is an explanation, but never a justification!

[@peasantambition]

All about power and control. He could not control her and it ercked him THAT much.

[@S-nyc]

@@peasantambition yup. They go nuts when they can't control you

[@ciobalina7445]

Yeah, but he was enabled by the community. His family and even the police chief tried to help him avoid responsibility for murder. That boggles my mind...

[@renee1961]

I remember this Case! He's So Cruel! Carrie's Family has Suffered So Much! All these years later, and still No Answers! I can't imagine the Pain they've been Suffering for so long! My Precious Auntie was Murdered,and we've Never recovered, but I can visit her Grave! And her killer died in Prison.

[@louise2467]

Having had a violent relationship many years ago, sometimes when you do “wake up” to the facts, getting away from them is extremely difficult, sometimes impossible. Even without kids (thankfully) the protagonist will stalk, threaten, destroy what you like/love, purely to intimidate you into a nervous wreck. Luckily for me, I got away, but not unscathed. I still look over my shoulder and have some anxiety issues around other people. However, I did get far away and I’m ever thankful for that. Violent people are not toys, fixable or ever any much fun to be around. Violent people that use substances, alcohol are like playing with fire. Choose your romantic partners (and friends) VERY CAREFULLY, or be prepared to get far, far away from the start, just incase. There is so much crime going on the police just can’t cope and crimes against a person, can slip through the cracks.

[@chewiechips4986]

Same here. After I finally got away I was stalked for 13 years. I'm lucky to be alive and still somewhat sane. I also have a hard time trusting and being at ease around people. Those scars and fears don't fade much. It can change you. But I have to be greatfull I'm still here. ❤️

[@eligreen7925]

Yes and if you do have children with them. It's a terrible thing they will try to turn the children Against you if they are narcissistic.

[@nakazul1]

This case made me mad and sad at the same time. Vincent seemed like a truly evil person.

[@schneir5]

I'll never forget this case; I remember seeing it on the local news back when it happened, when I was a kid. I grew up and still live about ten minutes away from where it happened. I think this was one of the reasons I'm interested in true crime still today.

[@audreyforrest8764]

I’ve always been a huge fan of yours Dr. Grande! This case hits quite literally home- it happened in my hometown and I remember it really well. Carrie’s cousin was my third grade teacher and I remember her spending many hours a day crying at her desk. Vincent’s father was a very well connected man and sort of ran a small town mafia to where no one crossed him. It’s rumored that he said “she’s in so many different places, they’ll never find her”. Not sure how true this is but everyone has their theories about what happened to Carrie. It’s a heart breaking story and I appreciate you covering it!!

[@bruisersdilemma354]

Once again, Dr. Grande...The hardest working man on You Tube...

[@PennelopeWhitmore]

Please. Sitting in front of a camera talking is hard work? You've never lived on a farm then.

[@carlitosortiz2870]

Yea try again, this comes all too easy for Dr. Grande.....yawn

[@evascordato2673]

Dr. Grande, congratulations for the background cactuses, they are really beautiful.

[@eileenbauer4601]

“When Carrie looked at Vincent, she saw someone other than who he really was.” Words to ponder, thanks Dr. Grande.

[@HeatherHolt]

People sadly see what they want to see.

[@esteemedmortal5917]

Denial is a powerful motivator

[@orionspur]

Carrie disappeared only to reappear in a sequence of unlikely, unverifiable sightings in multiple remote areas. Just like Bigfoot. 🤔

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

Love this! 😂

[@jenanne31]

Hey, Bigfoot's real, lol!

[@edgybarbie77]

I remember this. All the sightings ended up contradicting each other.

[@Sir_Typesalot]

„after he struck her in the head with a space heater (…) one could argue that Vincent’s behaviour gives a new meaning to the phrase 'in the heat of the moment'." Every time I listen to Dr. Grande, the CSI: Miami intro plays in the back of my head.

[@georgiasmith4950]

I thought it was in poor taste to try to create levity with that comment

[@cyndigooch1162]

​​@@georgiasmith4950 I'm so glad you wrote this because I thought that as well and it seemed like I was the only one. I'm very aware that people can use what used to be called black humour as a way of coping with traumatic issues and don't know how Dr Grande handles it at times. I had to stop watching most of his videos, along with some True Crime ones (I got involved in the horrendous case of the four students who were murdered in Idaho), because it was way too much to deal with! I've also noticed that many other people mention that they enjoy the videos, which is their choice, but I'm wondering if a lot of them have become desensitised. 🙁

[@CarisaWest]

Carrie was my cousin. Thank you for covering this. It breaks my heart that she had never been found.

[@lnc-to4ku]

What a brilliant video, Dr. Grande! I feel so deeply sad for Carrie and her family, and when you stressed the point of a woman who thinks she can "fix" a terrible man- it reminds me so much of my sister....beautiful person, but such a dangerous belief. But, in spite of this dark story, you still made me laugh several times! ;D

[@billysgirl1001]

I went to school with both of them. Its so sad, I wish he would give up her body, so her family can bury her remains. I pray for this family, that they have found peace....

[@timmojennings]

I went to Hooewell Elementary with these guys and Eppersons… nothing guys but I was not afraid of them… they were only tough around each other… one of there older brother beat my ass one day in front of Kroger on rt42… circa 1977-1978

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

It’s quite interesting how some people select romantic partners. Instead of looking at traits that makes a good partner such as consistency, reliability, kindness and empathy, the focus is heavily placed on physical attractiveness and other superficial qualities. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, Dr. Grande. I hope you have a phenomenal Sunday.❤

[@moonstruck562]

Beautifully said. I think self esteem is a big factor. Not recognizing your worth & value, one settles down for less than qualifying partner. By the time you do recognize, sadly you're in too deep. Unfortunately that's perhaps what happened here.

[@Mainecoon_Izzy]

Wouldn’t it be lovely if life were that simple and made that much sense❓🙌🏾 Too bad so sad….. life can be extremely complicated, not simple, cut and dry

[@puspavelai8353]

The reason(s) this mad man wanted the victim, mind boggling! Reminded of a Dog that was 'craving' and seeking out it's favourite chew toy!

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

Love the comment, especially because Vincent ended up being a chew toy. Training dogs in prison, one dog took offense then tried to take his whole face. Hear the dog got a good part of his nose.😂. Gotta love these feel good stories.🥰

[@queenmab1999]

I wonder if thats the same as slamming down a rotary phone? Or slamming a door... or slamming a beer down on the table.... total badarse lol

[@Mainecoon_Izzy]

So glad you covered this case Dr. G Especially love the point you made at the end; the ‘rescuer’ should never put themselves in danger (or something similar)♥️ I had an abusive boyfriend when I was 19, & I do believe he is schizophrenic, if even still alive. He started by calling me names, & quickly escalated to physical abuse. So heartbreaking to witness someone treating you like a princess one day, and the next, you’re his nemesis…. My family definitely intervened, & probably saved my life….. I never looked back, ever & still gives me ‘the creeps’ to this day.

[@rickbrenner6079]

Glad you’re safe now😊.

[@PrincessofPower84]

I feel so bad for her and her family. How awful that she has been missing and likely deceased more years than she lived. Rest in peace, Carrie.

[@mattgrelee2199]

I still can't believe women used to rock that fuzzy ass hair in the early 90s. Lol

[@TheBOG3]

Most didn't.

[@jasmincampbell8105]

Exactly what does a person have to be doing to you for a "witness" to call the police immediately

[@SEABIRDSYMPHONY]

This makes a woman terrified of ever dating again.

[@shawnstatzer95]

I personally knew Vincent and Carrie. I still have the graphite from a broken pencil that he had stabbed into the side of my head. I am not saying that he tried to kill me, we just had a small fight in class that got out of hand. The village has divided because of this case. I love your videos, so I will report back here to respond just how accurate your assessment is... Edit: you left out Michael Fogt (Whom I also knew), which most people are not aware about the connection between him and Vincent. Carrie also stayed with him, because as mean as he was, he was as equally nice. You really seem spot on. Your craft now has me shocked.

[@whatthefunction9140]

Sounds like a whole lot of winners 🏆 👏

[@lenymitchell]

I bought your book and love it as much as I love watching your content. Thank you!

[@wendybaryl6867]

Excellent analysis... Thanks for sharing your time and talent

[@elizabethwarman9028]

Good morning Dr Grande, excellent analysis. No one can change another person. Only the person themselves can change. As always I learn something new from your videos. Have a wonderful day

[@HeatherHolt]

It’s so sad to think doing the right thing, calling the cops on an abusive boyfriend, ends up so often with a death. And sadly you don’t pickup on people’s personality quirks quickly until you get into at least your late 20s/30s, i believe, if EVER, to protect yourself from bad people. And sometimes they hide so well even dr grande couldn’t see it in them.

[@joan-lisa-smith]

First! Damn, back when I first started watching Dr. Grande with 30,000 subs that was so much easier, lol.

[@joan-lisa-smith]

@@maryjanerx Lol :) thanks

[@rosiedadabo2095]

Remember this local murder well

[@joan-lisa-smith]

@@rosiedadabo2095 What's that got to do with my basking in my moment of glory here?

[@berkslaw]

As always: KUDOS to you on your humor, Dr. Grande! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Good stuff !

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

Yes! People who think Dr. Grande is poking fun at these cases are silly. He’s roasting the perpetrators…as they well deserve!

[@mrsr003]

That police chief should have been charged with more than dereliction of duties! So heartbreaking for Carrie and her family! Vincent is a POS! Glad he was still charged and is rotting in prison for life! His half brother and his father didn't get what they deserved!

[@ekelly1642]

"in the heat of the moment" 😅 uuugh doc, i just cant with your jokes 🤣

[@zenawarrior7442]

Great points again for us, always interesting and learning. Thanks Dr G😊💙💚

[@mickserful]

Dr Grande, you seem extra critical of the police when compared to other true crime channels. In the past have you had negative encounters with the police?

[@salliebaker5314]

Ah! 😍 Thanks Dr. Grande! Vincent is guilty as sin!

[@mamaduck9370]

"he wanted to prove he was a defiant and intimidating individual... By pushing an accelerator" was just too relatable. I can file that one away under "memories of boys I knew I shouldn't have dated but felt sure they just needed love and understanding when what they needed was counselling,." Lucky I'm still here, frankly.

[@virginiaviola5097]

Ditto.

[@mimiii1788]

Counselling won't change them.

[@janemiettinen5176]

Im lucky, I dated only one and well before he had drivers license, but I had few friends like this. We can form a club: “Narcissist survivors”.. and what a huge club that would be, thats the really sad part!

[@mamaduck9370]

@@mimiii1788 depends. CBT successful often. I worked in a counselling agency where DV perps were sent by court order. There was a great counsellor in the program who changed crims with restraining orders and deadbeat Dads into decent, remorseful but positive men. Low rate of recidivism. But I agree, most are recalcitrant and can't accept reality or responsibility.

[@milliewoo337]

@@janemiettinen5176 make jackets and I’ll order one

[@rckhnt]

I lived 5 miles from Blanchester during this time...He definitely killed that poor girl, her family still lives there and has a angel statue in their front yard.

[@otzey]

Billie Jo Brown decided not to immediately report to the police what she witnessed. Why not, Billie Jo???

[@olilumgbalu5653]

Her husband convinced her not to.

[@otzey]

@@olilumgbalu5653 Billie Jo should have been better.

[@MusMasi]

@@otzey her husband as well.

[@angelalakes6630]

She lied and her husband admitted it. She did not see Vincent not Carrie that night. It was other neighbors that were fighting but she decided to add to the story

[@abitoffcenter383]

Doesn't surprise me in the slightest. I was married to the niece of the deputy chief of police of a town in Oklahoma. Plus she decided to have an affair with a tribal police officer. Plus her aunt worked at the county courthouse and knew all the judges and the DA. Well needless to say I was arrested in our house AFTER an argument. Which was COMPLETELY verbal!!! I was arrested for domestic violence. Which I can prove if a judge would allow me to. (This all happened more than 20 years ago.) I was also unaware that my attorney was friends with her mother. Which I found out AFTER taking a plea. I took the plea because I ran out of money for an attorney and after being gone and out of her and our children's lives for about six months. She wanted me to come home. Which tbh was all I wanted at the time. I just wanted my family back!!! The plea was the fastest way to get back home. Obviously everything fell apart again. But now I've lost ALL my 2A rights. Which is BS. I'm NOT a felon!! The plea was for a misdemeanor and the DA said my 2A rights were lost ONLY while I was on probation and didn't get into any further trouble. Which was a year, and I didn't get into any trouble with anyone during that time, or since tbh. Anyway, that's why nothing surprises me anymore. I hope all this made sense. I apologize for any typing errors.

[@wmluna381]

Oof, that sucks.

[@abitoffcenter383]

@@wmluna381 Yeah it does!! I just wish I could get a judge to force the police to hand over the original arrest report. They refuse to give it to me. Because I know for a fact the last sentence is "She shows no sign of any injuries and refused any and all medical attention." That doesn't sound like someone who just got "beat up" by their husband!!

[@PyrPupMom]

Get a lawyer now

[@abitoffcenter383]

@@PyrPupMom Now that I have my home and property all paid off. I do have plans to. After talking to my attorney here in Texas, I wasn't aware that after 5 years I could have requested a hearing to get my 2A rights. But I don't just want that, I want my record wiped clean. That plea is the ONLY thing I have on my record. Aside from a couple traffic tickets, that I have paid.

[@lilmoo7682]

Biggest case of my childhood.. being from the Cincinnati area.

[@manewland1]

Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande; saving this video for tomorrow's morning coffee.

[@markbarret6836]

I always look forward to Dr. Grande's observations.

[@beachboy0505]

Excellent video 📹 ..THE BALANCE OF PROBABILITY

[@robertwasinger8193]

Nice office! It’s been a while since I have been here! Missing my Dr appointments !

[@renee1961]

The title itself is Disturbing! How Heartbreaking for Carrie, and her Family! 🥀🥀🥀💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🕊️🕊️🕊️ Losing a Loved One to Murder is Heart Shattering, but not being able to lay them to Rest is Beyond Cruel!

[@dissidentfairy4264]

Vincent was a violent abuser. Why Carrie would continue to see a guy like that is beyond me. The neighbor who witnessed the abuse was remiss in not calling the police, and the police themselves were corrupt. What a pathetic story!

[@lauriestump7134]

Why? Because leaving someone like him is very dangerous. As Carrie’s case shows yet again. She was trying to leave him and that’s why he unalived her.

[@dissidentfairy4264]

​@@lauriestump7134 I completely understand why it's hard to flee from an abuser. One reason could be financial, maybe there is a great imbalance, maybe the victim feels she can't survive on her own. Another reason could be fear of the unknown, maybe she feels it's better to stay where she is rather than procure a room with strangers. Another reason could be confusion and a misguided sense of love. Some abusers are very apologetic and charismatic and possess a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde persona confusing the victims conflicting emotions. In other words, when things are good they are good, when they are bad they are bad. I've only touched on a few reasons, but I get it, and yes, danger associated with leaving is a huge factor. Most control freaks don't take the victim trying to escape very well. So the victim feels trapped.

[@clausdobermann2931]

You always hit the important detail. Thanks Dr. Grande

[@GuitarPlayerNoah]

On a positive note, at least this is one story where a police officer actually assisted someone.

[@SirenaSpades]

They rarely help stalkers/domestic assaults and never do anything to enforce restraining orders

[@esteemedmortal5917]

Not before allowing a likely crime scene to be compromised

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

Yes, at every turn the cops gave the killer and his minions every opportunity to get away with murder. Lucky for the family the killer was so inept.

[@StaceyF254]

Thank you for an awesome Saturday!

[@itwasntme1876]

I work in the prison Vincent is at- He still talks about it to this day claiming his innocence. He claims they offered to take his life sentence and lower it if he told where the body is- he claims he is doing life because he cannot answer that because he didn’t do it. His mother and step father drive hours to see him still to this day. Very sweet woman.

[@samunthank5982]

He told me the same and I also seen an interview with the prosecutor and he even said they offered the deal. So with that why wouldn’t he say. His father has passed so no need to use that as a reason to stay silent. Crazy. Or maybe he really didn’t do it.

[@tammyjohnson7401]

The last part of what you said made me think of OJ Simpson and Nicole Brown.

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

Can’t wait to hear your take on this, Dr. Grande! ❤

[@jasmincampbell8105]

I'm impressed by these officers who were able to detain a perpetrator who opened fire at police officers in a police station; without killing or putting one bullet in the perpetrator💯

[@jericho7640]

Vincent's face was mauled by a dog while in prison. This was according to a video ( Three Murderers Collide with Karma, by Criminally Listed)

[@Blissfulnessence]

👍- for algorithm. Thanks Dr Grande, always enjoy listening to your take on things. I hope you and yours have a restful night.

[@DavidDeeble]

Ah the days when you could buy beer with loose change from your ashtray…

[@renee1961]

I just love your background! It's Soothing to me!

[@dalepointer9414]

People you never really know. While living in Reno, Nevada I knew an interesting and polite man ( at times ) in his mid twenties. He was charming, handsome, a very good dancer and had several on-and-off girlfriends. He took a liking toward my wife, she was a good friend of his parents. She was like a second mother. There was something about him that made me not like him, like his bravado, his untamed lies, claiming he done everything under the sun. One day he asked why I did not like him, and I said your just an arrogant, self- centered person, without understanding of love and friendship. Your just empty. He smiled. That's me. But nobody believes it. He was found guilty of rape and murder of mother of two. He stabbed her 19 times in the neck and chest, leaving her body near the university. I saw him that morning after the murder. He looked dazed, his eyes glassy. He was throwing clothes into a dumpster. I figured he had been out drinking all night. I went on to work. Three days later he was arrested. He was also charged with numerous rapes he confessed too. He received life in prison.

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

Your story is well-written and creates a clear picture. My stepdad counseled people just like him, in prisons. One really got him believing he had made progress with him, and that he was reformed. My stepdad felt good, seeing him at the grocery store with his wife, who had stood by him, after he was let out. Within 3 weeks, the parolee SA’d and took the life of a young mother in his apartment complex, in front of her small daughter. It’s chilling, who we don’t know we know. My stepdad related this story as dinner table conversation, when I was a teen. It made a lasting impression but, sadly, our kids do need to know.

[@pamcornelius9122]

Hopefully life without parole!

[@olilumgbalu5653]

@@sciencenotstigma9534 You mean "who we don't know we don't know" or maybe "who we think we know but don't really".

[@mmps18]

Will you please analyse the situation with Allan Kassenoff and Catherine Kassenoff?

[@MackenzieCorkern17]

Neighbor didn't think she should've call police after what she saw. Poor girl many people let her down.

[@dlc5166]

Always the victim who is expected to pick up and leave their life, friends and family behind to get away. How about charging the guy with multiple assaults when there were so many instances reported by family and friends and pluck the offender out of society far, far away. If local police don't listen - report to the next level and the next until something is done about it. If we're taking time here to read about these things, and as professional people, why are we not providing a path forward to victims and asking for changes in our system when we get the chance instead of just reporting the gory details? Probably kind of like why neighbors didn't call 911 - good story but it stops there and no one else's responsibility to try to make changes/do something about these things? A violent partner is in the process of "murdering" the other partner the first time they offend against that partner and during the entire process of doing everything in their power to take the other person's freedom away. The definition of murder is, "kill (someone) unlawfully and with premeditation." Does not killing someone's spirit count because that's what is being done in these circumstances.

[@tommygoode9644]

Vincent is guilty. People don't just up and disappear. She's got to be somewhere. He did it. It's pretty clear.

[@lenasamzelius5530]

I've always wanted to prove that I'm intimidating, and now I finally know how: "He wanted to prove that he was a defiant and intimidating individual by pushing an accelerator down quickly." Better start saving up for a vehicle with an accelerator and tires, and then... Just you wait! Thanks, Dr. Grande!

[@jerrysdancer3769]

Bad boy, Bad karma. Steer clear ☠️

[@jillruben8924]

This man most definitely murder Carrie. I can’t understand why the Chief of Police allowed him to move her body. I would love to know why. Great job as always Dr. Grande for delivering this case.

[@birdworldist]

Yesss king go offf

[@carlyrennae3963]

❤

[@birdworldist]

@@carlyrennae3963 hug 🫂

[@billflipper1130]

Yessssss

[@carlyrennae3963]

Back at you buddeeee ! Lols I like seeing your yessss king comments 🤴 cause indeed he is and indeed he does ! Woot woot 🙌

[@SPINNINGMYWHEELS777]

Vincent had his Nose bitten off by a Guard Dog during a training programme he was part of in 2013 in prison. He won a settlement lawsuit.

[@therev6730]

Yet another tragic story about domestic violence & how it takes a village to perpetuate the horror.

[@anjachan2]

You can't change a person. Thats why I don't want contact a person until he got help from a professional.

[@MatthewMS.]

❤ From New Jersey

[@AleksLazar]

Yeah junkyard that’s like right out of a movie

[@aeptacon]

When I was in 6th grade, my friend who was a tomboy punched me in the stomache for no reason. She had a twisted sense of humor. She played basketball. When I was in 1st grade one of my other tomboy friends took ramen from the trashcan and told me to eat it and kept pulling my hair. When I told on her to the teacher she was butthurt and we were no longer friends lol.

[@sariedixon8965]

You said butt

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

I’m glad you can see the red flags 🚩🚩🚩 and avoid further contact, when necessary!

[@CountessKitten]

They were both "tomboys, huh? 🤔

[@aethrya]

Damn

[@jimcronin2043]

The major piece of evidence was the incident witnessed by the neighbor.

[@btetschner]

"One could argue that Vincent's behavior gives new meaning to the phrase in the heat of the moment" - Hahaha! That is a winner! Bad things are expected to happen in those types of toxic relationships. Curious on how investigators tend to ranked suspects in order for placing more emphasis on certain ones.

[@EasrterRising1fan]

I don't blame Carrie for not leaving him, I could never understand why women would return to these creeps. But now I know, you get emotionally addicted to someone. He probably love bombed her before he got possessive and violent.

[@Neilsowards]

It is also a very dangerous time when someone leaves someone like this.

[@istateyourname4710]

That is the first phase of the classic narcissistic pattern.

[@EasrterRising1fan]

@@istateyourname4710 I wonder, but I think often people who have borderline do it as well and I don't think they are narcissistic, just unable to regulate their emotions. So at the beginning of the relationship you are the greatest person to ever exist, but by the end they have feasted so much on the negative stimuli in their brains they haven't learned to just dismiss, that they have devalued you into the enemy that wishes to destroy them.

[@neenaj365]

People, don’t waste your time with violent partners who do not acknowledge their problems and do not seek or benefit from help!! I say this because some go to therapy and claim the therapist says they are justified in what they do. They use it to further gaslight victims. One way or another, you will suffer greatly for no benefit. Surround yourself with nice people, even if that means there is only one person!

[@olilumgbalu5653]

If someone claims a therapist said something which is hard to believe, ask to speak with the therapist or accompany them to a therapy session.

[@neenaj365]

@@olilumgbalu5653 It doesn’t work like that. The therapist will not disclose what is said privately between therapist and client. In addition to this, the contract is between the client and therapist and the therapist is unlikely to allow the partner to accompany them due to it interfering with the therapy and making the situation more complicated. If you choose family therapy, this is a different matter, but the therapist undertaking family therapy will not enter into a contract of the situation is likely to become difficult and emotionally out of control in sessions.

[@Sputterbugz]

don't waste your time with them even if they are in therapy, especially if they're violent

[@kimberlysmith7311]

❤ your analysis Dr. Grande as always you have a way of saying things that is empathetic to everyone involved

[@helpyourcattodrive]

Wow. Very interesting story. Thanks you, Grande.❤

[@cynthiarowley719]

Predatory behaviors

[@MDWD]

Well done Dr. Grande. You really should have a hotel line. I'd definitely use it

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

😺👍🏻. Great idea 💡! The Grande Hotel 🏨.

[@janeoleary8454]

What does that mean

[@Mainecoon_Izzy]

❓

[@Truecrimenut]

I lived in the area and remember this well. The area is known for “the good ole boys” law enforcement.

[@edwardlthompson]

"In the heat of the moment". LMFAO!!!

[@americanassociationagainst7981]

This case got me so emotional. It’s like looking in the mirror at myself trying to be a “fixer” somehow I made it out. Praise God❣️

[@Raidoven]

Ayyo dr grande you outta pocket with dat heat of the moment joke lmaoooo 😂

[@eligreen7925]

I am curious...are peaple in prison given psychological evaluations iafter arriving in prison?

[@ea8269]

Winston killed her and got rid of her body. Yes.

[@haroldcampos9661]

Dr.Grande never gets agitated but sometimes he cringes a little bit...

[@Flamsterette]

Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.

[@wanya_telborn]

You’re the best doc ❤

[@sarasullivan4897]

Great video!

[@brontesegard8305]

The neighbour didn't call the police about the assault in the front yard or the cars?!

[@CaseyUnderCovers]

With this case in mind I think of Tracy Thurman. I would love to see Dr. Grande's analysis on that case.