Mindsets You Need to Live Your Best Life ⭐️

[@lavendaire]

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1. Believe in yourself 2.Take responsibility in your life 3. cultivate a growth mindset 4. be in tune with what brings you joy 5. It's all about energy 6. Learn to set boundaries 7. Trust in the timing and guidance of the universe 8. Life is the journey of learning to be more fully, truly, yourself

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Thank you, this helps a lot💛💛💛💛

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Also do and be your best to bring in win -win situation to all as all is one and one is all ... Love and light from Lebanon to the world...

[@waelfaraj6705]

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[@worldsucks3456]

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[@mitalishinde6843]

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[@NathalieLazo]

Thank you for re-sharing this quote! I'll remember this for next time! :)

When things change inside you, things will change outside you 💚

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[@KatjaGotYa]

This is EVERYTHING 💚

[@jastine935]

the moment she said, “Yes I may be this way now but I can change. I can evolve over time.” whoa!!! this is what I really need to hear right now. ✨manifesting the better version of myself✨

[@lavendaire]

❤️❤️

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[@HIXHAM]

“Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success." 🤙🏾❤️

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[@notavailable708]

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[@estrellasjournal]

" *visualize your highest self and start showing up as them* "

[@lavendaire]

yessss

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[@estrellasjournal]

" *If you **_see_** it in your mind , you will **_hold_** it in your hand* " ❤️

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[@Connectingthedots.]

Mindset is so important. With the right mindset, you can accomplish almost anything. 🙌🏼🎆💫

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[@blusandia]

mind and heart!

[@teaspoonful973]

“Don’t be so tied to a certain outcome.” I really need that on my wall

[@moonycanwatch]

Me tooo

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@@mitalishinde6843 thanks

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[@estrellasjournal]

I really liked the second mindset. I find myself knowing exactly what I want but subconsciously avoiding acting on them because of my circumstances. But it's important to remember that my circumstances don't define me and I am deserving of success and abundance. If I make mistakes along the way, it is part of the process so the best way is to make myself accountable and continue evolving into my best self! Thank you for this video

[@lavendaire]

YES!!! sending love your way~

[@estrellasjournal]

@@lavendaire aw thank you! sending you high vibrations

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[@am4nhays]

"don't do too much" really hits me

[@sritharshinni]

I felt that too..

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[@stephperezrivera7481]

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL! YES! This is something I learned from my partner that I now constantly tell myself.

[@sushmasuman17]

Her voice is so angelic and so her words

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[@JournalingWithNadia]

YES! THIS IS OUR TIME TO START BELIEVING IN OURSELVES! 💕 I used to take this advice lightly until I realized how much I was self sabotaging myself! This can come in a form of self-doubt, analysis paralysis, procrastination, etc. Only now I realize how much not believing in yourself can really hold you back

[@lavendaire]

YES IT IS!!

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[@nicoleonfeels]

Mindsets are everything! If you have any confusion as to where you are and where you’re going in life, the answer’s always within you 🧠

[@lavendaire]

definitely!!

[@TheMediumChannel]

Thank you. I firmly believe this too. and that mindsets are largely programmed by society, especially the negative ones and that we have the power to reprogram ourselves.

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[@LucyHunt]

so powerful 💫💃

[@freshmint34xx32]

This last year -I am happier -I love myself more -I have become more mature -I learned more about myself🌱

[@positivevibes7769]

World make me feel lonely and dead but you motivates me and give a new excuse to live happily 😊 Love you♥️♥️♥️

[@PilgrimKat]

The second point resonates with me so much. The other day I sat and brain dumped everything that was making me feel stressed. Then, I split those into two categories - the things I can control and the things I can't. It gave me a clear list of what I should actually be focusing on and helped me feel so much calmer about things :) Thanks for another awesome video!

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[@st-hl5zx]

"Trust in the timing and guidance of the universe" really resonated with me since I get impatient and anxious about the future. I know this from my inner wisdom but it felt good hearing it back to me

[@athomeimmum2247]

Since having my children I've explored so many new aspects of life that give me joy and pleasure. It's different for everyone, but the sudden significant reduction in 'free' time around my spouse, children and career means I had to be very intentional with my relaxation time and hobbies...and that really works for me.

[@Rachael_mm]

Learn to set boundaries to protect your energy... amazing ✨

[@everydaycareercoach7798]

Nothing moves more mountains then positive energy and setting the right boundaries!

[@VerenaSatriani]

So refreshing watching Aileen in my Sunday morning. Her energy infuses me with positivity.

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[@SamFournier]

I’m really working on myself this year with self love and taking care of my mental health. Thank you for sharing this aesthetically pleasing video filled with so much goodness💕

[@kaffeine9398]

My fave was "life is the journey of learning to be more fully, truly, myself" ✨✨✨

[@estrellasjournal]

I think a lot of times the things that make us the happiest (relationships, hobbies, etc.) *don't* align with the goals that we are chasing. It seems obvious to do what makes us happy yet there's a disconnect between our enjoyment and goals. Thought that would be a good idea to add onto the video.

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[@smiledestinee6807]

I think the mindset of finding what bring me joy is the most important for me, because I find it causes me to put into practice a lot of the other important mindsets as well! If I am going to make my life about the joyful moments, it increases my vibration and positivity in the world, which gives me a greater mindset. Once I feel more filled with joy, i have more confidence in myself, more boldness to go after what I want and not listen to the negativity of others about my dreams! Going after joy in my life means I have to say no to things that do not give me joy or are harmful to me and others, which exercises my boundaries! One important thing I find in the joyful things is that often what brings me most joy are the moments shared with other people, are “giving back” to the world, or put me out of my comfort zone in a way that causes growth! We are all connected in this world, and I can’t truly find joy if I’m not bringing joy to the world 😘

[@MamaMentality]

Learning to set boundaries has been something I’m constantly trying to improve and I am thankful for how far I’ve come. Relearning how I view relationships has been huge for me because I used to believe self-sacrifice was necessary but it absolutely is not. Thank you for the reminders, I enjoy your videos so much!! ✨

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[@DrBiohack]

💕Growth mindset and taking responsibility are fundamental to long term behaviour change 💫

[@LaurenVacula]

believing in yourself is so 🔑. it took me years to understand this and i finally feel like i am to harness the power of this- after so many years of questioning myself. it makes such a difference!

[@rhymemajotra3205]

I'm in such a dark place in my life right now but you help me❤️

[@24AngelChild68]

‘Do YOUR best, let go of the rest and love well’ I love your channel! Super life changing.

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Do true! Focus on what you can control!

[@estrellasjournal]

yea law of attraction really works if you trust in divine timing, have good energy and let go _period_

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[@toetovocaloid]

One of the greatest lessons I've learned last year was to let go of expectations. It's so necessary to learn how to adapt instead of expecting things to "go a certain way". Thank you for the lovely video Aileen ❤️

[@claudiamassetti2547]

probably the greatest mindset i needed to hear was about the things we can control, kinda opened my eyes, because most of the times i get obsessed about things that i can't control (maybe related to other people) and this really hurts and also make me lose the focus on myself, so yeah, thank you so much for remind this :)

[@SteAndRach]

Ahh totally agree, focusing on what is in our control has really changed our life for the better! We actually made a video about the 5 stoic hacks to reduce stress and this was the first one! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@HIXHAM]

Becoming is better than being 🙌🏾❤️

[@TheMediumChannel]

Mindsets are everything...the mindsets we have in most cases are programmed mindsets by society, the mind works in programs and if you change the programs you change your mindset and you change your life. I'm changing my programming and cultivate strong self-belief, take responsibility mind set and raising my base vibration to joy and happiness and it's changing my life.

[@CoachSarahNicoleB]

A mindset that I strive for every day is to be open-minded - open-minded to learning new things, new ways of thinking, that I could be wrong, that I might enjoy something new. It's important not to apply this to things that are truly a 'no' for you (boundaries) but I think a degree of open-mindedness ties into a growth mindset.

[@shanikpakeer]

Love the mindset about being in sync with what sparks joy. It's truly liberating

[@seemranhoro]

Great things never came from comfort zones.

[@SamElle]

YES TO FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL! You can go crazy trying to control external factors and it just doesn’t make life fun to live

[@lavendaire]

yessss 2020 def taught me that!

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[@rudig5698]

I love your puppy!🥺❤️ And you’ve kinda inspired me for starting my own KZbin channel about mental health and personal growth, thank you Aileen!🙏🏻❤️

[@lavendaire]

beautiful!!

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[@rocioportillo692]

My mindset is that all the people helps me grow and they have a lot of calm, beauty, love and I have it too💕

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

That's awesome, Rocio!

[@hardbassQueennn]

Every time I watch your video I get really fascinated how wise you are, and how poetic your language is. Thank you!!!!

[@chebrrrrr]

i'll try to follow "focus on what you can control". i think it's really meaningful for me cause when i'm watching news or reading about global problems i feel a pressure. my mood drops sharply. thank you for this useful mindsets!

[@SteAndRach]

This change in mindset really changed our life for the better! We actually made a video about the 5 stoic philosophies to reduce stress and boost happiness and this was the first lesson! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@diananguyen524]

yes, i love the growth mindset and the energy mindset! It is important to know that we have the choice and capability to evolve to become the best version of ourselves and to know our worth and that we all deserve the life that we want.

[@wanjikumucai]

"Living a happy life is all about surrendering.' is incredibly powerful. This video was so necessary, thank you.

[@crushitwithkris]

Happy new year! Having the right mindset is critical. I want peace too 😊

[@suzykeleher2484]

My other mindset is Live and let live. Let people be who they are. We are here to love ❤️. I love all your points but especially “be in tune with what brings you joy”. 🌹

[@huyenkanS2]

I love the mindset: life is the journey of learning to be more fully, trully, yourself. And love you so so much♥️♥️♥️

[@SteAndRach]

That is amazing, one of our favorite quotes is: "Being yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you someone else is the biggest accomplishment you can achieve!". I think being authentically yourself is one of the biggest keys to happiness! Aileen's reminders are always such a blessing! She actually inspired us to start a KZbin channel with the mission to make self improvement fun! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@huyenkanS2]

I did subscribe your channel. Thank you so much. I believe your channel is great

[@RashNClank]

I feel surrendering is the most important, rather than controlling. Letting go for it to flow is a lot more soothing than trying to perfect everything.

[@radiaaaaaaa]

This is crazy how i don't skip through the sponsoring and partnering parts in Aileen's video whereas i do it in all other videos. She has such a calming voice that makes it really worth listening to.

[@keshiathompson-simplehealt5013]

Aileen, you look stunning girl! I love your hair! Hi to your adorable puppy! Thank you for talking about mindsets, yes believe in yourself, sometimes it's hard and you're right it is a process and journey. YES stop blaming external factors, take accountability for your own actions and life. I'm working on the boundary thing, last year I started to not care what people think and people please, thank you for talking about this too. Yes protect your energy!! Become your fullest, truest self, so powerful and true. Thank you for this real and inspiring video. If anyone sees my comment, I'm sending you positive vibes and wishing you all the happiness and success!

[@lavendaire]

yes to everything!! thanks girl. sending you so much love!

[@SamElle]

I got your workbook for a lot of my friends for Christmas and they all LOVED IT!!!!!

[@lavendaire]

yay!! thank you for your support!!

[@NatalieMarte]

This is the first year ever where I’m prioritizing myself and my future rather than other people. I’m really excited to see how this year goes for me

[@sarzysheart428]

Live your best life, one of my favorite reminder everyday. I even bought a huge frame last year saying “Live your best life” and placed it in my home office. One mindset that I learned to live my best life , is to focus on what I have and make me happy and not focus on what I do not have or if what went wrong.

[@strawverymilktae1280]

I actually needed this, which is why I'm very down: "don't do too much just to prove your worth to people. it doesn't matter as much as you think it does. and in the end, your the one that gets hurt the most." which is so true because I experienced this a day ago

[@KokeeJane]

Thank you, so much The people pleasing part really hit home, I was scared that people would hate me because I never really showed them my true self Just the person who was there whenever and wherever, but now I’m willing to cut of people that don’t serve me, And I won’t be serving them

[@SteAndRach]

This is such a big lesson for us too! Being yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you someone else is the biggest accomplishment you can achieve! It's so important to let go of people who don't accept you for who you are! Aileen 's reminders are always such a blessing! She actually inspired us to start a KZbin channel with the mission to make self improvement fun! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@AlyssaCeline]

"your inner world reflects your outer world" 🌏✨

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[@자폐증의시대]

Don't hurt yourself for others This is what I've done for a long time especially during my school periods It touches me

[@musikhamster01]

I discovered all of these mindest over the last year as part of my mental health journey. I'm happy to say that working to acquire them and continuously working on them brought me so much joy over the last year that I honestly can't believe it!

[@sofiechanida919]

I seriously can’t get enough of your content, you’ve helped me so much throughout my journey, and you still are. Honestly, just... thank you. And can we just talk about how distractingly GORGEOUS you look. LIKE THE HAIRRRR OMG😻❤️

[@SteAndRach]

So true, Aileen is amazing and all her videos are such a blessing! She actually inspired us to start a KZbin channel with the mission to make self improvement fun! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@savi3165]

Did anyone else notice that Aileen is getting more and more beautiful day by day. And also, I literally LOVEE your videos. They are really inspiring. Thank you so much for your hardwork❤️

[@vickyjwalters]

Just so important to believe in yourself ❤️

[@olwethuntiyane3059]

You have changed my life for the better with this channel, I am turning 20 this year and I feel like this video was made for me and directly addresses all my fears and thoughts, thank you so much.

My number 1 goal for 2021 is to develop a growth mindset!

[@ttaliabarak]

Another great mindset that you need to have to live your best life is that We are all imperfect, but that is what makes us perfect. Understanding that We all have flaws and we should embrace them as they are a part of who we are. No two humans are completely alike so there is not a specific way to do certain things or a specific way to be. we are all unique, we all have different journeys and none of us is perfect. If we were perfect we had no obstacles, nothing to learn, nowhere to strive to, we were all the same, perfect. And that is why being imperfect is so perfect, we can grow, learn, and become better.

[@trisha1220]

My life was miserable when you went hiatus, and now Im back on my ground again Lavendaire thank you for reminding 💜🌞

[@itsbrinda5113]

I know it seem like "anything" but seriously, whenever I feel low I just come to your videos and I feel much much better.. you're like the best..❤

[@candiceamt]

Happy new year to you too! Sending you lots of love 💕😘

[@TrueStature]

My favorite mindset... The universe has your back! Thank you for another great video.

[@raniswaroop7058]

*pursuit what you want, with what you have, with what you know from where you are.*

[@ren7056]

"If it's not okay then it's not the end" THIS IS SUCH AN AMAZING QUOTE

[@SuccessOsato]

Your picture is in my vision board because you had such a positive impact in my life last year, and you remind me to work towards living my dream life.Love you Aileen...from Nigeria❤🌻

[@aaliyahs9594]

Thank you for making this beautiful video. I had to learn that I can’t stress over anything I can control and yes protecting energy is very important ! With a strong mindset anything is possible ❤️

[@Sojourn07-b3y]

If it's not okay then it's not the end! ☺ touched my soul ❤ Aileen

[@priyavk157]

Omg😍I am really down..lot of burden in my ❤️ I thank God for showing this video at right time..full of positive vibes...thank u so much😘love you

[@christinecarbajal]

You helped me so much, Aileen 😭 you are truly an angel in human form

[@SteAndRach]

Ahh, we can totally relate- Aileen is amazing and all her videos are such a blessing! She actually inspired us to start a KZbin channel with the mission to make self improvement fun! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@jenniferg4297]

I think believe in yourself is the most important mindset because when you believe in yourself when no one else does, that make you a winner out there.

[@claireweekly8681]

MY FAVORITE IS, it all starts with the mind. Everything around us started with a thought. It's important to put ourselves first because really, when you finally get to say "NO" to someone, you'll never know if after that, they're gonna think bad of who you are. People often will ONLY see the wrong things you do. And how crazy that saying "NO" can be a form of self-care too? 💋 IT'S A WAY TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM PEOPLE THAT ARE BEING THERE "JUST" BECAUSE THEY GET BENEFIT FROM YOU - not because they love you.

[@eaceves]

"You don't have to hurt yourself for others". My heart sank when you said that. Now I realize I have been doing that...

[@nataljajensen9819]

2020 was so hard and I really just needed a new start and you have really motivated me this year

[@marwella5632]

One of the things that I'm always grateful for is that I meet your channel keep shining

[@sarahbhg7233]

What I learned along the way is that I no longer necessarily strive happiness. Because life is full of ups and downs, you can't realistically be happy and cheerful all the time. I learned that while trying to be happy constantly, I started suppressing feelings like anger, sadness, exhaustion. These emotions might seem negative and don't feel very comfortable but they are here to help me. Help me perceive the world realistically and I want to embrace even the darker side of myself, for it's inside me for a reason. Why fight and surpress feelings instead of giving myself time to feel them? What I started actually chasing instead, is a state of serenity and acceptance, tolerance. I've noticed that peacefulness has grown to be the most important thing for me personally.

[@veggiemegroll9220]

I’ve done a lot of inner work this last year and sometimes people don’t understand it because they are used to your old you, so one mindset I’d suggest is that you don’t need the opinion of others on whether or not you’ve made changes to validate it if you can feel it yourself, idk if it’s great advice or makes sense, but just something I’ve come to notice 😅

[@nezhahsnikwah2873]

Thank you so much I'm so glad that I found your channel. I really needed to honestly here this. Thank you for taking the time to share with us. Stay positive & safe .😊

[@Mymakermovie77]

Protecting my energy is definitely a big one! And making time for myself, it is okay to take and make time for ME

[@SteAndRach]

Ahh I totally relate to this, making time for myself has become a non-negotiable! I'm planning to make a video about it on our channel too- our mission is to make self improvement fun and creative! Would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person! Hope it can spread some extra positivity ☺️💛

[@SteAndRach]

PS: "True Friends are a gift" is such a beautiful name and we couldn't agree more with that statement!

[@Mymakermovie77]

@@SteAndRach that’s so sweet of you! I’m curious about your video! 💓🌟

[@MINDFULMULTIVERSE]

Mindfulness is a way of befriending ourselves and our experience.

[@indiradyaldominguez]

Connecting is the four step method (Connect, Listen, Trust, Act) that teaches you how to disengage your mind to access the intuitive part of you, called your Self. In the practice of Connecting, you learn how to connect to the Self. You eliminate the feelings and emotions that come from the mind and keep you from having the results for the life you want

[@ttaliabarak]

You are so pretty, inside and out. I love you, may you take as much time as you need to create a more peaceful life, you deserve it. I love all of these mindsets they are all so important and valuable, for where I am on my journey, I think my favorite mindset is to trust in the universe and understand that everything is happening for my greatest good, in perfect timing and way: even if there are moment where I don't see it, it all works out for me. thank you so much for reminding me that, and for this beautiful calming video, Sending so much love, Talia.

[@ViniLaggad]

My favorite mindsets are •set boundaries •trust the timing of universe •growth mindset is important... Thank you 😊 for this fabulous video !:)

[@crystalc6358]

You broke it down. Keeping life simple and balanced.

[@carlozcali]

You are an angel, always with the best advices ever. I'm grateful to the moon

[@Simpals19]

Your videos your love. So much of positivity. Thank you so much. Also i wanted to share this about my family members constantly criticising me. Its like whatever i do is never enough for them. My eldest literally everyday finds faults in me in anything and fights with me over small matters but with others she is kind and all.

[@gracielaglows]

I know what you mean!! It feels like a mountain at first to raise your vibration from a low vibration, but it is so worth it! Loving this video thank you xx

[@kazeyuu161]

you are literally a blessing to the world