what to do when you feel like doing nothing (unmotivated, burnt out, unproductive)

[@lavendaire]

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[@elijah0208]

Very grateful for this vid of yours! It brings me comfort and support)

[@kartgal]

The crying while saying I literally want to do nothing. Is the realest thing I’ve ever seen on KZbin.

[@jowanzeerak9728]

exactly

[@n_ikka]

Same😧

[@intentionalliving7326]

Yep! “ mama said there will be days like this...”

[@cassettetape7643]

Sometimes you just gotta let it out

[@arfa6924]

Ikkk

[@Mayaanillusion]

I feel so bad that we live in a world where we are so focused on productivity that just not feeling like doing things can make us feel unworthy. I am speaking from my personal experience.

[@katie1511]

well said

[@sabrinarachel6053]

you're very right :(.

[@lmaoaims]

This is me rn I moved to a new school and I have a lot to catch up on but I’m so exhausted but yet I feel sm pressure to do well because I missed a lot of work💔

[@melaniemartinez8898]

Capitalism. Unfortunately.

[@xroshamariex]

capitalism. but more people are waking up to it

[@KCUARISMA]

To the person reading this: You did a great job today even if all you did was get out of bed. Im so proud of you. Especially for giving your body a break.

[@lowkey_babe77]

🙌🏾

[@stopsubscribingtothischann394]

Thank you so much

[@intentionalliving7326]

Amen sistah 🌸 some days are tough ☀️

[@nadianalaoshi7061]

Thank you I needed that

[@princesslacson6291]

thank you

[@HuissOng]

I cried 5 seconds into the video. Been struggling, feeling like I’ve been underperforming at work. You made me feel like there’s people who understand me.

[@linabingbing3881]

Gracious we must be sisters in some way I cried a few seconds in too ❤❤

[@Francesca_CactusBlossom]

You really shouldn't get too emotional about what she says. The purpose of these videos is to earn from the Betterhelp sponsor

[@angieeheheheh]

Same

[@apekshaa2003]

Me too

[@mamoon7619]

Hi just wanna check in on you - how you doing now?

[@AhmetKaan]

“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” *―C. S. Lewis*

[@Sunflower_that_loves_you]

Exactly buddy !

[@falgunipatel2284]

Okie man, i see ur comments on majorly every vid of lavendaire and i wanna say thank you for your every cmts bcz that lifts me up!!

[@Sunflower_that_loves_you]

@@falgunipatel2284 Falguni check out his channel , he is so underrated!! His quality content and video quality , both are great ! :))

[@lumusjessica]

Thanks for sharing this quote.😻

[@AhmetKaan]

@@Sunflower_that_loves_you I really appreciate that :)))

[@venus-yx6hc]

i feel so useless. my motivation is gone, and i do not see a future for myself. negativity and laziness has consumed me after beginning college. i cannot express how much i want to study, focus and complete my assignments, yet i cannot do it. thank you for the advice, i hope i will get out of this slump soon💗

[@Chickadeebunny]

I felt that so much when I was trying to go to school too. Maybe school isn’t for you right now, I know I couldn’t do it.

[@butcjesaaa143]

Same I don't have motivation anymore especially my brother will graduate while im so lazy and no motivation at all

[@kaiipop4762]

Same I’m a second year uni student and I’m so burnt out omg

[@ashp7613]

You will make it, don’t give up. Keep going

[@ashp7613]

@@butcjesaaa143 keep going, you will do well😊

[@imesae3436]

When she started crying at "I literally want to do nothing" I immediately cried, too. It felt so surreal that I'm seeing someone else experience the burden I'm feeling. My family has always had a strong personality and I've always been a very emotional person. I placed such high expectations on myself because they did the grind and they turned out fine. What's wrong with me? I did so much yet I'm getting nowhere. I didn't realize that everything just piled up and I couldn't take it anymore. Just like Lavendaire said we need to accept our feminine side too. We all need rest to be more in tune with ourselves.

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

Yes, balance is key. Wish you the best 🤗❤️✌️

[@jessicajovel8194]

I was always hard on myself too. My family also, not that much but enough that I can tell, are the grinding type. But this quarintine (that I'm still voluntarily under) is taking such a toll, I couldn't handle stressful situations, so I ended up quitting two classes. Now I'll be in university another year. I was so angry and dissapointed I hadn't put up with them, but the moment I didn't attend to that class, I felt so freed and relieved. Whatever you stopped doing to rest, I congratulate you. Just as it is important to find strenght to continue, is even more important to have the strengh to stop.

[@Sam-oq5cq]

SAAAAAAMEEEEE

[@analizabernabe838]

@islandfox po 9

[@everykelmemeiscanon3437]

I can relate big time......

[@jinglejamble6858]

It’s been 3 years but I still come back to this video. Just allowing myself to rest.

[@micaela-cd5ch]

I’ve been afraid of taking breaks because I feel like I’m wasting time but I can’t do anything because I’m so tired mentally and physically. I will take your advice. Thank you so much

[@rizalyngarcia8418]

Samee:

[@myleered2101]

Exactly the same...

[@littlerussianvikky4188]

Same, sweeties:'(

[@deepak88701]

exactly , I feel the same. due to this my routine has become mess

[@itsherlifee]

I feel exactly same ...

[@xfaroutzx3637]

This made me so emotional...i didn't realise that the reason I'm struggling to keep routines is because of the expectations I have of myself and how far away I feel am from what I think my life should be like. I don't appreciate the progress, I'm always thinking I need to improve.

[@maimunaali3072]

Honestly same here 😢

[@vrushtikulkarni8205]

same dude :)

[@chee6720]

Exactly 😶

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

Me too ❤️‍🩹

[@syedaarshi1553]

More power to you..God bless

[@oiqueleria]

Her: If you feel like this, slow down College: Nope Me: dies

[@midekuts]

That's the sad truth...felt unmotivated yesterday and felt like doing nothing but school work won't slow down for you to 'recover'

[@oiqueleria]

@@midekuts I know. And it’s sad because I really like what I am studying but at this point I am so burnt out that I am not able to enjoy it anymore :(

[@nellawithonel24]

@@oiqueleria omg i totally understand you. I started my masters degree during this pandemic, haven’t even met the people I’m studying with because Zoom lol and my exam weeks start next week and I can’t even make myself get up from bed 😞 and teachers don’t even care that it’s stressful to be studying online for a year already without any interaction

[@ellililo]

i feel so lazy. i have like 10 unfinished assignments and some are from last year ): i feel like everyone else in my class manages just fine, and im so ashamed of myself.. i really want to get good grades to get my dream job, but i constantly lose faith in myself.. it sucks

[@androidsentbycyberl1fe]

@@ellililo dang, that does suck :( i hope you'll be able to relax and recharge sometime really soon so you can enjoy your classes and get everything done. and don't worry or beat yourself up, the people in your class aren't managing everything perfectly all the time. celebrate your small victories and baby steps, and don't be ashamed of needing time to heal :)

[@MrEOM41]

Everything feels like a chore lately.

[@MkUltra-pf4kv]

Hope everything is good now, and much respect gecko

[@malissahyatt2425]

Especially the chores. Laundry and dishes. Why can't I get myself to do them???

[@loverofeverything.]

i really needed to hear this rn… i didn’t realize how badly the expectations i had for myself were burdening me and i felt terrible for feeling burnt out. thank you !!

[@palesamphatsoe959]

samee😔 I'm not even enjoying life anymore. when something good happens I can't even celebrate it coz I just feel so empty

[@silviam.9224]

Same

[@brookemolitor5866]

@@palesamphatsoe959 pull yourself by your boottraps and be productive.

[@kpotato2617]

honestly the vid didnt help i stil wanna do what ii had to do

[@heystella1511]

@@palesamphatsoe959 same.

[@nishtha9562]

"Instead of focusing on what’s going wrong in your life, focus on what is still going RIGHT." ~ Lavendaire

[@sam4drita]

Nothing is going right in my life😓

[@charl3ne]

@@sam4dritait may seem like that but everything happens for a reason

[@leiladerose]

Man we're too young to feel like this

[@ernestohernandez9370]

excalty that is what I tell myself I just turn 36 and I feel soo unmotivated to do much of anything. I hate that feeling I don't really have any friends or a gf 😕. I don't talk to anyone really. and if anyone calls me it's usually just to use me. I use to be full of energy and motivation when I was younger going to school,working, working out at the gym I had quite a few friends. now all I do is go to work and come home and repeat the cycle. I do have a 9 yr old boy.

[@wanderingbutterfly435]

fr :(( too young to let the world wreck us

[@urfav_ana3mic398]

@Clasic Man Midlife is 50.

[@Sarah-N709]

Not even 30 🥺😫

[@biantecloete244]

15 year old right here!✋

[@angelomusicmeditation]

"Accept ourselves as we are, RIGTH NOW" -- I love it. Thank you Aileen for all the inspiration!

[@lavendaire]

thank you! 💜

[@cloud.watcher.]

wait why was I on the exact time the video played that when I read your comment😂

[@hugabear99]

This is exactly how I felt since the beginning of the pandemic. I recently deleted my Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook. My mental health feels like it has gotten a little bit better. I want to be at peace within myself. I want to experience more things in life instead of scrolling away on social media. We all deserve happiness.

[@b.lloydreese2030]

Ive felt this way for 10 to 20 years

[@ifrahjama2215]

Same

[@alliyahsmith9779]

We have to focus on how we feel after scrolling through social media, it's all very toxic and can leave us feeling like we're not good enough

[@kreisti2726]

“i want to experience more things in life instead of scrolling away on soc med” THIS

[@estelleartzz3976]

I cant uninstall facebook because we need school account for our online class, to check for some announcement in our school page 😭😭😥

[@moonycanwatch]

I went through one of the worst phases of my life in January and I just wanna say I'm glad to be here. Glad I'm doing better. Everything *will* be okay. If you're reading this, you'll get through this.

[@tatistone3218]

thank you ❤️

[@lavendaire]

proud of you

[@moqnlaine9932]

thank you 😩💛

[@shilparamanaryan3652]

Yeah .. But I've been in this slump since lockdown... But I'm in such a better place than that time.. Everything she told in the video in absolutely trueee.. You go gurrrlll

[@elizat3892]

I am proud of you❤ thank you for staying💖💝

[@LanaBlakely]

I needed this. xx

[@chocolatechick729]

Sending you love 💗

[@ttigbybtm]

Sending u love, Lana. ❤

[@Khajere_]

The topic, and the message, this video reminded me a lot of yours ❤️

[@cinthiaonaneyrodrigueztapi9909]

Lana!

[@hebahesham6502]

You both are awesome.

[@gummyrabbit1099]

I am even too tired to finish the whole video. It’s okay. Watching the start already helped me a lot.

[@Thevortexway]

THIS VIDEO IS PURE GOOOOOLD GIRL. Thanks for that.

[@befreebeyou33]

A Lave and Vortex way fan over here 💫 sending loooveee

[@guadamartellotta4731]

I'm really grateful for your amazing KZbin channel. You helped me more than you could ever imagine. I wish you nothing but the very best thing in the world.

[@camilatobar1755]

Te amo

[@amethyst7942]

aaaa no me imaginaba encontrarte acá Alexx

[@student69741]

Absolutely correct. 😢😢😢

[@serena.life.and.design]

I started crying while watching this. What sucks is that I live with my Asian parents. I can’t even cry out all my feelings because they always end up making me feel bad even though they have good intentions with trying to help me. I wish I lived alone so that I could heal alone, but I could never do that when I’m stuck with my parents. It’s an endless cycle for me: if I don’t get the space I need to heal, I won’t have a clear mind to be my best self. I can’t perform as well as I need to in order to get a job, and that means I can’t move out.

[@kriyakale2692]

I can understand through what you are going and how you feeling because I'm going from the same situation. Just give it a some time,everything is gonna be okay 👍

[@saumiyasrivastava6485]

I can totally understand and relate to you. You can try something which is literally helpful for me: 1. Do self love (positive) by looking at yourself in the mirror 2. If you want to cry, go to the bathroom and cry 3. In order to clear your mind you can do journaling (pen down your feelings) 4. Either you try to wake up one hour before your parents or sleep after your parents have fallen asleep and at this time you can do meditation (basically focus on your breath) or you can do some yoga or positive self talk 5. Read one motivational quote everyday and keep recalling that motivational quote throughout the day Just chill, everything gonna be okay. You can do whatever you wish if you have clear mind and goal 👍🏻

[@ninnn0___917]

I physically can't cry. I am okey, I hope you, too

[@notjohndoe6878]

I feel the lack of work is what's causing alot of the terrible feelings you have. After being jobless for a while I truly understand just how important it is to have something that'll get you out of bed in the morning or out into the world. Do your best and even if the job isn't much, give it a go and no joke, try to stay busy

[@serena.life.and.design]

@@saumiyasrivastava6485 thank you for your supportive suggestions

[@saltNpepper952]

What's even more frustrating is the feeling of being guilty of not being productive, and thinking that you could have done more or given yourself a better life if you have better time management skills. And even that itself causes demotivation, and the fact that it causes ypu to be lazy makes you even more depressed. Lol idk if that makes sense

[@anonymoushuman7353]

It makes sense , In fact this is the reason why most people cant take rest/give themselves more time to relax . The same thing kinda happened to me but in different way btw have a good day :)

[@erikita2095]

omg this is exaclty how i feel 🥺

[@miyaken3173]

That's me now :'D

[@milanimariavaz4283]

Soo truee😶😶

[@fpadilla5819]

It does

[@athenacallahan5136]

You have no idea how much this helped me. I thought I was crazy and my mental health was spinning out of control. I thought I was broken and I could never reach my goals. Now I have a new perspective and rather than pushing myself past my limits I’m going to focus on taking things one step at a time. Thank you ❤️

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

Virtual hugs people. I feel you ❤️‍🩹

[@Alexorwhateverr]

Agreed. This video was a blessing

[@ariosyawal1469]

God dang you good bro?

[@andrewtaylor1996]

Keep smiling ✌🕊🙏

[@itsherlifee]

I'm feeling the same right now. I actually stumbled on this video and I hope fortunately it'll help me. Btw,How are you now ?

[@sammylove14]

It is so natural for me to WANT to rest and allow my feelings to heal. But others are so pushy and tell me to get up and get outside and get some sun and be productive and it makes me feel so much worse.

[@apl-h3q]

I’m so sorry for that. I can only imagine that makes it worse

[@thisisemanuelm]

Same!! I know the feeling it sucks!!!!!

[@student69741]

I can understand that. I push myself everyday. I feel worse!

[@zizzyjay5961]

I’m going through the exact same thing. I want to relax and take things slow, achieving my goals bit by bit but my parents keep telling me to stop being lazy and go outside. It’s all this pressure and expectation they have on me that’s effecting my mental health. They don’t realise that I’m trying my best and how difficult my situation is. I dislike society’s expectation on young people, how your suppose to be at this stage at this age etc. When everyone’s journey in life is different.

[@beccaseara6498]

i think im crying because i feel so understood. this is the first video that has really spoke TO me.

[@student69741]

Yes. Absolutely correct.

[@wushU_0]

🥺

[@myunwantedopinion]

I know, right!

[@danilaabigail6251]

True

[@shimmer410-o2i]

I'm so glad so many people found this video

[@shimmer410-o2i]

111!

[@rvnxj]

The online classes and staying at home has been really getting to my mental health. I need socializing and going out, but most importantly traveling... Let’s all pray for this to end soon 😭💜

[@akshatisharma9047]

Same here 😪

[@jennys9043]

more and more people are getting their vaccines and we are closer than ever. hang in there

[@stopsubscribingtothischann394]

Hi army

[@rvnxj]

@@stopsubscribingtothischann394 Hey there ARMY❤️

[@shreya24jul]

Couldn't relate any better😭💜

[@TheBlissBean]

I want to cry - thank you for this ❤️

[@abelrodriguez2656]

OMG bliss bean it's here😍

[@prinssesarwa7946]

It's ok to cry it'll make you feel better. (Btw love your channel)

[@amanda_bliss]

Omg Beatrice! I love your channel!

[@Tieseclothesandotheroddments]

I did cry 😭❤

[@kairisponyta961]

Me too :(

[@fuzz2353]

I've been crying, feel useless, and unmotivated because of unemployment. Every day, just stare at my inbox, waiting for a reply, but nothing but glad I found your channel. It eases me a bit about life. Thank you. I need this.

[@nurtured-channel2953]

Hey, 💖 try to get a coach, someone that will help you to improve on some skills. Also is a good idea to volunteer. You are not alone...don't be to hard on yourself.

[@Levi_Ackerman25]

Omg. The situation you go through same like me. My age turn 26 this year. But still i did not have a stable job. I feel like im useless to my family. And it distracted me all the time stuck in my brain. I was depressed thinking of that

[@jeyaindhu8188]

You will get a more stable job.. hang on there buddy, be patient.. don't lose hope.. just fix ur dream position and run towards it.. am also unemployed i did nothing for past 3 years bcz of breakup. Now i set something and i working for that.. so i know ur feelings.. just wait and hope.. keep working ❤

[@princessmariena]

I am so tired of everything in this world I'm just stressed about the future I don't even know and I was just doing good a couple of weeks ago

[@rachellebrown9830]

How are you doing today?

[@Yehengswife___]

She’s the only person , that cares because other than her video all the videos we’re calling me lazy and unmotivated and I really feel understood when she said “burnt out “ ,I’m in my final year of Med school and I feel exactly that , thank you ❤️

[@noorejannat7811]

Hey, I too am in final year of med school and here I found your comment

[@starkey7851]

1.let yourself rest 2.give yourself love 3.shift your focus 4.stop consuming contents that makes you feel worse 5.accept yourself as you are 6.go into nature 7.understand that life happens in cycles 8.start with baby steps 😇💗 9.Find gratitude 💕💫

[@gaganagarwal7218]

Thank you Star key for summing up all the points here! ❤️😇

[@PUNITbbx]

school / study is the content 😢😂

[@paulinanowak7925]

doesnt help such a bullshit

[@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64]

I'm grateful for this video which describes exactly how I feel today. I plan to do exactly 2 things to help myself feel better. Exercise, ( I will walk outside, which stimulates endorphins and gives me some natural Vitamin D ) and wash my hair. Self care is very important. I also plan to eat little and lightly. Not overburdening an already stressed body is another way to feel better. Thanks so much for the encouragement. My oldest cat, ( I bred him and saw him come into the world,) he was 15, died about 10 days ago. Plus I'm dealing with a possible torn Rotator Cuff injury so I'm not feeling stellar. I was encouraged by this though. Thank you!❤

[@b-rabbitgaming280]

Thankyou

[@annaebojic]

I just had therapy, been crying for so long and I feel so extremely depressed and everything feels pointless... life feels pointless. and this is the first thing that popped up. thank you, Aileen.

[@sharmilaguna2666]

Looks like you have been guided to something you need 😉

[@sourgreendolly7685]

You’re not alone

[@catherinebertini9935]

Everything will be alright 😍😍... God bless you.. May you get all the love and blessings you deserve

[@tatistone3218]

even if i dont know you, I love you.

[@pumpkinwaffles7569]

I feel the same

[@sophiasteinhardt2168]

Oh gosh, I was honestly expecting advice like "make a to do list", "eat healthy", "work out", .... but this is so much more insightful! Your advice in this video feels so relatable, comforting and actionable. This is so needed and hits the spot exactly. I feel so understood and I appreciate you for sharing this so much! Thank you!

[@Jy.2812]

Yesss I'm so tired of listening to the same advice 😔

[@bubbletearabbit]

Numbing ourselves in social media and scrolling through videos

[@leila4208]

so real.

[@krutika6769]

Most of us are feeling this way, but we got this!

[@abbye5794]

Yes, yes!

[@IshaSharma11]

True

[@soulful_poetry]

Same here🤯

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

So true, sending you loads of love, blessings and hugs lovely!! I feel you !! ❤️❤️✨

[@fireflieswishes]

Same

[@baileyhepburn]

I literally spent all day doing nothing and just layed in my bed all day. I was feeling so guilty and blaming myself for being so lazy. Thanks for changing my perspective! I really needed this.

[@darioam3329]

I can't believe this showed up when i needed it the most. Miracles are real

[@lavendaire]

yes they are

[@akshata3710]

Me too😭😭

[@kymmiehush]

My goals are way too high, breaking them into smaller bits. I realized I actually accomplished a lot

[@CorynB]

The problem with me is that I never do anything. I started homeschooling at the start of this year. I haven't done anything. Recently I have been in the house all the time and struggling to get work done. Literally exhausted from doing nothing. My anxiety has been through the roof this past week. Feeling like I'm failing everything. Scared for my future cos of how low my confidence is and how unmotivated I am. Hopefully I can pull myself together soon

[@_littleangel_]

I think that you are not doing anything because you are overwhelmed with all the things that you need to do, I recommend finding ways to motivate yourself to do really little things so you can build confidence again, focusing on how you feel and why you feel a certain way (ask yourself really specific questions so you can understand what your body is trying to tell you) and reassuring you that everything will fall into place no matter what. Of course I know that this might be difficult at first and that it's not going to completely change your life, but it's a way to start building a new routine slowly and learn things by yourself, you've got this

[@mandeep3.14]

Your future you will really thank you for what you do now. Try not to fall into that long-term comfort for some discomfort. I’d say try to positively encourage yourself and trick your brain in to trying it for 10 mins so that you at least get started and of course the usual, take a break every now and then, take care of yourself, etc. All the best, you’ve got this ✊🏼

[@CorynB]

@@_littleangel_ thank you so much for that. I really needed it ❤️

[@CorynB]

@@mandeep3.14 thank you so much❤️

[@sapphics4hozier]

im in a similar situation and i can’t express how much this comment made me feel less alone; although i don’t have much advice but i do recommend setting small goals and working yourself up to the bigger things,, please be kind to yourself and take it easy

[@DanaM18129]

The sad part about this is that I feel like that every week. I don't have much energy.

[@alexandra4real360]

It might be something in your life (like your job) draining your energy or you might be dealing with depression. Maybe consider therapy.

[@vedzyo6666]

I hate my job, I had applied for master's this year, but failed to get in, made a portfolio with the best of my ability...but it sucks! Everyone around me is moving forward! I'm just a lump in bed doing nothing & even if I want to...I'm unable to do anything. Like there's a never ending blank! I feel like I'm wasting my 20s away! :(

[@MixSonaProductions]

the other sad part? is the deadline

[@MixSonaProductions]

@@vedzyo6666 dude, at least you have a job, other people find it too hard to get a job. You don't need a master, you need CPA, CFA, and other certifications. anyway, master is easy to get in, you're doing it wrong. they need your money anyway

[@vedzyo6666]

@@MixSonaProductions Just because someone has a job doesn't mean their problems go away... Also, didn't really get your point about CPA, CFA, etc. I'm in the architecture field....so a master's is quite essential!

[@raspatidewimulyaningsih9516]

I've been running away from my research, delaying my study schedules, etc. last year of college (hopefully) has been very difficult, stressing, and putting myself in my lowest state. I know running away from it is bad and in the end I still have to face it. I tried to get on my laptop, opened the important file, but I had my phone in my hand scrolling through youtube. Thanks youtube for popping this video on among the search results. I can't lie I cried cause all the words were relatable and true, I need to heal before I get ready to face it again. Love, x Update: on May 31st, I gained my judicium and now expecting the graduation ceremony in 2 months🥰

[@thuanh6047]

I feel the same way too. Thank you for sharing! Warm wishes!

[@tikkidupaincheng3230]

As she said it's a cycle...Without the lows you won't appreciate the highs and that nothing's going to stay the same !

[@catherinechong8007]

me too 😭😭😭 now literally at the end of my degree and like ..... how do i do this 😭 tomorrow is my viva dy 😭😭😭😭😭 i am scared that i will fail and then having to repeat

[@chickenontheocean]

Me too. How can I finally escape this. It doesn't feel like life

[@windriw7685]

Keep your head up!

[@ahmedalkhatib4406]

I've been feeling unmotivated for a long time and honestly at first i thought that people just push forward and accomplish things even when they're down, but you made me realize that you have to take care of yourself, relax and try to heal inorder to move forward which we don't pay attention when feeling low. Thank you for making this video! It helps a lot and i also enjoyed it and liked the filming of nature. I wish you well ❤

[@Tzamahairo]

"A small effort is still an effort". That helps me sooo much, thank you!

[@AhmetKaan]

*"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time."* I believe in you my friend, never give up...

[@mochidiary]

Awee yeah that's a sweet reminder!

[@dyogiiibear]

When you said "if you don't know what your intuition is telling you so maybe you need a break before it tells you what to do next" resonated so much for me. I've been forcing answers out of myself instead of giving myself time and space to breathe. I will try to trust that in the peace, the answers will reveal themselves.

[@kinyamutai4052]

You so spoke for me. I have been forcing God to give me direction.

[@itsherlifee]

Well, that's the same thing I'm going through rn. How are you now? I hope you are doing well.

[@Dzptt23]

Literally me right now so grateful we want to find better ❤️

[@healingforanewlife1]

I have had burnout lately with life and working in mental health care. As you may pour yourself into others, you have to pour into yourself too. I love how you said you have to practice unconditional love and to practice forgiveness. We all need to practice self love.

[@0hari01]

I literally searched - "burnout and unable to do anything" and found this. It was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you! 🙏😓

[@legendgaming1728]

Do you feel like you don't get happy anymore doing stuff you loved to do once? Or doing anything at all?

[@SB_471]

@@legendgaming1728 yes I feel the same !

[@elizabethmelendez193]

This has hit me right in my core. I have been feeling so unmotivated, sad, lost with searching for a purpose to move on. It's hard to let go and rest without feeling guilt.

[@priscillaleung3585]

You are not alone

[@harshitapant1897]

You are not alone, I am going through the exact same thing.

[@glazzeddonut3317]

Going thru this now and being emotionally tired...

[@shalinimishra2623]

@@harshitapant1897 hey hy

[@harshitapant1897]

@@shalinimishra2623 hey

[@rebefait61]

The problem is getting out of the “doing nothing” for me

[@Rosalinth]

I feel the same way for 3 years. I feel like I am stuck, I am constantly running away from every problem and I am feeling extremely unmotivated to do anything. I fight with fear of failing and my mind keeps telling me that I am not good enough. So when I tried to find new hobby (bc I don't have one), I instantly gave up, bc I didn't believe in myself...And the hardest part is that I really don't know what to do to feel and be better and how to change my life and my thinking...I feel trapped and helpless...

[@cami3402]

Same and i feel like we really need help.

[@thuanh6047]

@@Rosalinth I am experiencing this feeling too. It just lasts for years and I don’t know how to get out of it. I just feel terrible!

[@Ana.Raquel.1]

Maybe the app she presented can help you :) sometimes we need someone else to remind us of the truth about ourselves

[@robinhoeven3248]

@@Rosalinth have you red the book "Can't hurt my" by David Goggins. It's a real life changer!!

[@savyisofficial]

Man this made me cry because I’m nervous, scared, excited too but more fear energy than usual for my future. I’m a 23 year old entrepreneur that feels sooooo drained ever since last December. I feel like I’m not excited as I used to be, I feel like I’m in derealization mode like I’m not really living i have a view of just autopilot and feeling that I’m not in control/ it’s so weird but I just wanna ask for this KZbin community to pray for me. I may post videos like I’m fine but no deep down I’m trying to heal , I love yall always especially those that go through this 🖤 thank you for this video

[@ms_owiti]

♥️♥️

[@t.brothers]

1. let yourself rest 2. give yourself love 3. shift your focus 4. stop consuming content that makes you feel worse 5. understand that life happens in cycles 6. start with baby steps 7. find gratitude

[@steph6453]

It was a very good video. The biggest thing that changed my life though was cleaning up my health...eating better (fruits and veggies give natural energy) and taking supplements for vitamin deficiency (good to get this checked out by a doctor). Also, going to the doctor and taking care of health issues....Some people have ongoing infections, bacterial or fungal, and don't even realize it. I had one for years after living in a moldy house. Mold can make you very sick! I had to change my environment. A photocatalytic air purifier was very helpful. Also, decluttering my house (clutter can zap your brain energy). Drink plenty of good water and breath in clean air! Deep breathing is wonderful. Also, and here's a big one--don't ignore your spiritual life. God can and wants to help you...He loves you and answers prayer. :) Reading a devotional and prayer in the morning changes my whole day and gives me positive energy! Peace to everyone.

[@miketaiwanwalkcity6355]

Thank you for the main points

[@t.brothers]

@@miketaiwanwalkcity6355 np

[@t.brothers]

@@steph6453 that’s really dope, hope you continue with your successful journey and thanks for the tips

[@steph6453]

@@t.brothers Hey, thanks, and you, too! :)

[@brainstew2690]

Your intro made me cry, because i can relate to it. I feel like im useless. your voice and your advice and sharing your experience to help people in need to those who feel the same way are so relaxing and make me feel good. but at the end of the day, that worst feeling comes back again.

[@jenme7926]

I think a lot of the time we need to distract ourselves from our emotions and being caught up in them. I am a very emotional person and sometimes they consume me. I am going to try and learn mindfulness and DBT. best wishes, you are not alone! 💜

[@jenniferrumbuc2236]

that is me right now

[@mullergabrielle1059]

if you are feeling bad every time you are not distracted from it, you might need a therapist. Feeling useless all the time is a signal that something is wrong and If it's lasting for a while, it means you need some help from a professional, take it seriously !

[@Behappy62]

Hello, be kind to your self and in time you can be happy again

[@clau_sing_]

"a small effort is still an effort"💕

[@sylviamacalincag9920]

The pressures of society can be overwhelming...

[@Livvvvv21]

The fact that she watched herself crying while editing the video and yet didn't cut it down was so empowering You're so strong It takes so much strength to do that I would never imagine myself doing it

[@lilithorvenus]

i don't get why society wants us to hide negative emotions. i feel guilty whenever I'm expressing complaint about my feeling unwell in that moment, overwhelmed or unmotivated etc, cause i feel judged to be someone who complains or lazy or else, I don't get why we aren't allowed to feel this way and express it when it's in our human nature. i hate this.

[@TacTar]

It's easier to grant yourself the need to ''do nothing" when you have a good balance of a work and social life. But if youre someone who regularly is unmotivated and almost daily does nothing, then "doing nothing" becomes torturous. Instead, you're in four walls of enclosed anxiety and rumination, but you just can't motivate yourself to get out of your room to do something about it.

[@cathyhowell1294]

I completely understand! I was thinking the same thing as I watched this video. As a young adult I was stuck for years but then I stumbled upon my purpose in life and everything changed. For 25 years I was so busy fulfilling that purpose that I didn't even have time to question if I felt like doing anything. Then I suffered a huge trauma and my life came to a halt. It's been 7 years since then and I haven't felt able to do the simplest things. Just taking a shower and shaving my legs seems like an insurmountable task! To make matters worse, my sister who is 3 years older is going through the same thing and we live together. I think I may have a fear that if and when I do get back into a productive life, I will be so busy and won't have the luxury of slowing down when I'm not feeling up to it. You can't just drop in and out of your responsibilities whenever you just don't feel like getting out of bed! That's probably why I stay in this state of paralysis. I'm afraid to do nothing and even more afraid to do something.....

[@farahelhebeishy8656]

@@cathyhowell1294 It's been four weeks since you wrote this. I sincerely hope you're feeling better. If you're not tho, read this. I get that the luxury of not doing anything isn't really there all the time. I know how hard the pressure can be. What I'm getting at is, since you're already feeling the paralysis and are unable to do anything... how about not pressuring yourself. I think the reason you're unable to get out of this is because you're adding to the pressure instead of lifting it, and you need to lift it. So stop feeling guilty that you're not doing anything. Start seeing this period of not doing stuff as a mechanical spring; once completely charged, it'll give you a huge boost towards the "productivity" you're looking for. I wish you all the best.

[@ashlee7831]

The rumination itself is the fighting against “doing nothing”. You are not “doing nothing”. You are still mentally resisting it.

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

@@padmasai5433 yeah, it’s too much for me as well

[@TellitTay]

@@ashlee7831 wow well said, that’s exactly what’s going on. Allowing yourself to relax without the guilt helps you recharge to motivation; otherwise, you’re defeating the purpose of “doing nothing”.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

I needed this today without realizing it. Thank you!

[@priscillajimenez27]

Vera! 💚🌿

[@SimpleHappyZen]

@@priscillajimenez27 Hi! 🤗

[@halsey6541]

Here I am watching this video again after a year, so much has changed for me now, I'm much more stable and happy now, and I'm so glad I kept going. Stay strong & hang in there y’all💗

[@jd6331]

Thank you for the hope 🙏🌸

[@halsey6541]

@@jd6331 It will get better 🤍

[@SamElle]

this was literally me all of this week. I did nothing and just read a lot, went on walks and took many showers. I think I'm reaching burn out and I definitely needed this week to relax and stop go-go-going

[@kristenm2962]

I’m actually reading Burnout - The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski, PhD & Amelia Nagoski, DMA. I got it at Target for 15% off. So far I’m really liking it & taking a TON of notes!

[@SamElle]

@@kristenm2962 Thank you for the recommendation!!! Im going to go get this book!!

[@Sana-qx7tc]

Seeing you cry broke my heart.💔 You have changed millions of lives and brought smiles on so many faces. You are enough,Aileen.You are a role model for me and many others.Take care.❤️❤️We love you.

[@simranpunia9863]

YES SO TRUE

[@lavendaire]

love you

[@gwenmonteiro1927]

I'm crying watching this because I feel like such a failure and have lost control of my career, mental health, relationships, and all I want to do is sleep most times. I have a love/hate relationship with myself

[@taliamechli9853]

@@hurtsoul7398 I love how even as you go through all of these things, you still ask how others are doing! You are so brave and so strong and always remember: with challenge comes change! So with all the challenges, change will happen, and it ALWAYS leads to something better! Life will always put you through tough times in order to being you to even better times than before! You all got this!❤❤❤

[@hae4345]

Since I graduated high school and got into uni, I became so unmotivated. I always have the feeling that I want to do nothing and whenever I want to study I can’t, I feel so empty with no purpose in life. I just don’t know what’s going on with me, I keep on thinking of dropping out but I know it’s not the right thing to do.

[@Clannah]

Same with me

[@luckyjuniortsimana2848]

Same

[@WonwooSehun29]

Same 😓

[@kreisti2726]

same here, been feeling this since pandemic. Got job with good salary but still it felt empty, and i beat myself because i felt so ungrateful

[@hae4345]

@@kreisti2726 I hope things get better for you and I as well as everyone who’s feeling the same way and don’t harm yourself, we all go through those times but we will get through it🤍

[@PeachpandaDiaries]

when you're on a 9 to 5 job.. I just get so burned out after work and don't want to do anything. even during weekends I'm just so drained that I wasn't able to achieve anything I don't even pursue my hobbies anymore.

[@priscillajimenez27]

Yeah it's difficult. I have an 8-5 as well and an evening job 6-12 as well including weekends (6-8 he shifts). Idk how to slow down now since my time is taken to work and still trying to perfect meal planning to save money and eat. I hope things get easier.

[@journeytofire1832]

Same.... i just want to be in bed....kids full time job sidehustle. Useless husband. I am so sick of life.

[@Diaryofaqueen777]

I’ve never related to anything more than this. I want to cry.

[@Sapphireemberss]

Yes, I completely relate. It’s tough because I know I could do so much more than what I am doing. I self sabotage because I beat myself up so bad for procrastinating, to the point where I do absolutely nothing rather than try and potentially failing. I failed my classes because of this mindset; I went from a straight A student to not even going to class for months. I can’t handle all this stress. I know it’s all in my mind and I know none of what I’m telling myself is true, which makes it even more frustrating. I’m the poster child of a gifted overachiever child, who let all the praise manifest into strict expectations of myself. SIGH

[@jclyntoledo]

Omgosh... why is this me? I struggle so much, I feel like every other week is a dramatic change especially the weekend. It'll either be I'm doing all my hobbies I like but couldn't go outside because that's a lot and the commute to work is too much so I just don't wanna travel. I tried to get ppl to remind me or dare me once but they just forgot and I didn't wanna go in detail about how much I needed external motivation so I said it's okay but it wasn't. Then other weekends I try and maybe I'll get part of the morning good but then I feel like I go very hard on escapism. Then I get sad because I feel so disconnected from everyone and idk where my life is going because it feels like it's one step forward and two steps back *sigh* But like Taylor said, "at least I'm trying"...

[@sawahx0]

this made me feel way less guilty for having zero energy this entire past week, thank you

[@elenagrossi4414]

This really saved me today and I believe will save me plenty more times in the future. Thanks Aileen! I do fall for the trap of blaming myself for 'not doing' when I am in this state, and that definitely makes me feel worse, as I end up tired AND angry at myself. You are a bright light and I am so grateful I found your channel 🙏🙏🙏

[@lavendaire]

thanks for your support 💖

[@brittanyfloyd2674]

You are appreciated and so is everyone reading this. Also, I miss seeing beautiful faces! I'm so tired of masks. To whoever reading this, you are deeply and unconditionally loved. Thank you for being born.

[@Sana-qx7tc]

The person who has written this is worthy of all of the love for spreading this much love in a judgemental world.Thanks for being a light.❤️

[@joannegreene2351]

Thank you so much. I truly needed this,because school has really been destroying my mental health and hormones don't help and honestly sometimes I struggle but my confidence can sometimes come back and and makes me feel better but I don't always feel happy sometimes I just feel sad and unhappy and feeling like I shouldn't be on this Earth,but then I end up having fun and then I realise that I shouldn't let one moment of sadness ruin my whole mindset for a couple of minutes.

[@brittanyfloyd2674]

@@joannegreene2351 we all have moments like that. We are all human. Thank you for your raw honesty. When life gives us challenges, it's to make you stronger for the task ahead. I know it doesn't feel like that in the moment, but one day you will look back and know that you are a champion in every aspect of your life because you try.

[@joannegreene2351]

@@brittanyfloyd2674 Thank you so much I wasn't expecting anyone to reply back to that but yes absolutely your right but again thank you so so much! :)

[@rayvonrogers3018]

Aw thank you angel! I really needed to see this message today, I really did! Love and Light 💖🌌

[@uno1r]

I quit my job a few weeks ago I was feeling so drained and anxious I couldn't handle it anymore and I decided to leave that toxic place and just take care of myself but now I'm feeling scared.. I have bills to pay and living in the unknown is very exhausting. thank you for sharing your beautiful content with us the broken ones 💚

[@madj7152]

Going through the same thing right now. Ive been feeling down lately. Feeling lazy and unmotivated.. Quit my job for a month now and Im scared of the bills..

[@Carol_43]

Also going through the same. I quit my job 2months ago. Have been doing online writing, but I'm barely able to pay bills. Makes me super anxious, the online jobs are also quite demanding and recently I've been feeling like my system is shutting down. Today I'd started doing laundry but found myself drift from it. Started crocheting, felt sleepy, slept, and yet I have pending writingwork that I really don't feel like doing at the moment. That is when I realized I really don't feel like doing anything. It is not just the writing work

[@Anto_81]

Same. I got signed off for burnout, eventually left the job, staying at my mum's and hoping to recover from the bullying but also hoping to stay positive. It's not easy.

[@tomatocat56]

same here

[@oliviajade777]

I definitely relate to this. I left my night shift job after I was burnt out. i’d drive to the parking lot and couldn’t get myself to go in. I got a new job but I’m struggling to pay my bills let alone having money to buy food. the cabinets are very bare right now. It feels comforting to relate and not feel alone

[@leeraxd]

The point about STOP CONSUMING CONTENT THAT MAKES YOU FEEL WORSE is super key here imo, because oftentimes it is content we consume all the time or are even our favorite content creators. For me, when I'm feeling this period of lows, I have to stop watching content about productivity and hustling. The only thing I can really watch without feeling any pressure is ASMR. Being in tech, I would constantly watch tech videos and I realized that I felt like I was being so useless and unproductive compared to these KZbinrs. Just a reminder that sometimes your fav channels may be bad for you in a state of low. I would try out ASMR, slow living, and peaceful living type videos. But just be careful not to compare your life with others.

[@Nicole-fb6fr]

This is so true!

[@misssparkle6421]

You're right. I didn't realize how my vision board/motivation board is causing me all this anxiety. Looking at it constantly only reminds me what a piece of trash I am that's rotting away. Thank you.

[@ladymindpalace7787]

So true! I haven't notice but yes, even the most inspiring videos and even the content that isn't about productivity as such is causing me some kind of FOMO. Thoughts like "I shouln't just consume, but make content too" etc. are constantly with me while browsing my bubble on Social Media. Like a never ending battle of myself against time while the motivation to get started is getting lower and lower due to this pressure. I really enjoyed this video and reading your comment. It made me realize some really important things. Thank you

[@bassibernie]

So right

[@mimimillenial]

i clicked on this bc i feel like crying most mornings. i have adhd, when my alarm goes off its like i'm clinically depressed. thanks for this video, i needed this !

[@tsholoseeletso6116]

Having high expectations and not meeting them I can extremely relate, I'm a student and I had high expectations with my school grades and I never met them and now I'm so unmotivated, always discouraged and lazy to study, anyways I love what you doing and just keep on doing it ❤️

[@imhotashell9459]

Hi same study is really the reason you got these lots of love❤️

[@itsherlifee]

Well, I feel the same. Btw, how are you now?

[@Alyxlightqxstar]

@@itsherlifee I just wanted to say that it's really sweet you asked that to a random person. Hope you're also doing okay :))

[@itsherlifee]

@@Alyxlightqxstar Yeah , I kinda am doing well . Hope you are doing well too. Have great day .

[@pearlnightwalker4568]

“Just exist” I feel like I’ve neglected that so much without even realising it. Before this, I think my only two options I subconsciously allowed was to either be on top of the world, or be hidden from it. The sentences before that, to me, were kind of just coming in one ear and going out of the other, since I just couldn’t take it in. It was hard to accept that it’s okay to just rest, to just take it in - but that last line really, really got to me. Thank you so much for this, I already know this’ll be an everlasting thought in my mind. :)

[@yoongi_pyz4781]

2 days ago i felt so motivated and productive , I studied so well and was so excited all the time. I know i can do anything if I’m comfortable, confident and happy. But the point is I can never be like that. Yesterday i could be happy but today I feel depressed and there’s a hollow in my heart. I don’t even know why.. i’m scared and feel like everything is unfair. I hate the fact that I can’t be satisfied with everything im having right now. And im envious of ppl who feel content, know and accept who they are. I can’t be like that...

[@annmariestephens4285]

Jesus can fill that in your heart. I've felt that way before, and God is the only way I know that can make me feel content for longer than a few moments.

[@ayshafareed4935]

@@annmariestephens4285 that does not work for many people. What works for you does not work for someone else. Alot of religion is built on NOT accepting yourself. Relgious women in particular seem very unhappy, but try to hide it.

[@lejla3018]

I felt like that too... I still do..

[@steph6453]

I was going to say Jesus also! He loves you and made us to have a relationship with Him.

[@steph6453]

​@@ayshafareed4935 There's a difference between man-made religion and spirituality, a relationship with Jesus. :) A lot of religious people don't even have a relationship with God, because they're too focused on their own works. When He was on earth, Jesus even spoke out against the religious spirit...His concern is a relationship with us, not praying to statues or counting prayer beads. There's a saying: "Religion is belief in someone else's experiences. Spirituality is having your own experience." No one else can have your spiritual experience with God but you. :) And if you don't engage with Him, how will you even know what that relationship is like? You'll know what you've been missing. I sure did. God bless you! :)

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

i love that you mentioned that while media can be entertaining it ultimately subconsciously makes you feel bad about yourself

[@vagalumevolatil]

I call my depression the "doing nothing" state. When lasts long enough is so bad, nothing is important anymore, even the things we used to like. It is indeed a state that I fight everyday to overcome, with treatment and self observation. Understand why I am feeling what I am feeling. I do think that I need more rest than other people. But...these moments of rest give me the energy so I can continue and have a "normal" life: job, responsabilities, home etc. Specially here in Brazil where the pandemic is never over and with have so many bad news everyday...it is overwhelming... I really liked this video. I always say, I always do my best, even though, sometimes, my best is doing the bare minimum. Hugs.

[@Rosalinth]

I feel the same way for 3 years. I feel like I am stuck, I am constantly running away from every problem and I am feeling extremely unmotivated to do anything. I fight with fear of failing and my mind keeps telling me that I am not good enough. So when I tried to find new hobby (bc I don't have one), I instantly gave up, bc I didn't believe in myself...And the hardest part is that I really don't know what to do to feel and be better and how to change my life and my thinking...I feel trapped and helpless...

[@lavendaire]

I'm sending you lots of love, and reminding you to give love to yourself too. Please, don't feel guilty for slowing down, taking a break or doing less. It's okay. You are loved and worthy regardless. 💜 We need to normalize balancing our masculine & feminine energies. Who agrees?

[@notavailable708]

But what if just what if. Someone has been feeling this way since almost 3 years. And have not been productive since than?

[@notavailable708]

How is it balance'then? They have been anxious about being unproductive and that's what they've been? Should they go work or rest well? Without resistance?

[@niceskindays]

The reminder we all need sometimes ❤️

[@lavendaire]

@@notavailable708 you need to heal your mindset that is telling you you’re not productive. Why is what you’re doing “not enough”? Let go of high expectations and lean into love & acceptance ❤️ it’s a shift in mindset. Hope that helps.

[@keivahummel]

Sending you loving care, Aileen. Thank you for your words, wisdom, and kindness - always. Hoping you and the rest of the Lavi loves are finding peace and that we can all create the space we need to nourish our spirits. xo

[@annewilson834]

Even though this is over a year old, I really needed this today. I went into work bitter and unmotivated. I have so much to be thankful for. Thank you

[@scp-682-cu6]

Me too. I'm really tired. I hope we both find peace

[@R.E.E.S]

​@@scp-682-cu6 yeah bro me too. I hate this feeling bro😢

[@srschill44]

You probably will not see this as this is an old video. I want to say thank you for posting this video. I can’t begin to explain how much I needed to hear this video.

[@Lilih-f6k]

Sometimes it's hard to take a break, when you have a anxious mind

[@zamaarriahajenkins2928]

I broke down within the 1st minute. The high expectations hit my soul ✨

[@claudiangcw]

I literally went on KZbin and typed "feeling drained" and this was one of the things that popped up. I am so grateful your video popped up for me because I feel so much better after watching the whole thing. I needed this today. Thank you.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Keep going. The path opens up with each day 🙂

[@saragamez8525]

My boyfriend and I of 3 years and a few months broke up last Monday. I’ve been crying every day since because it added on to my depression. He was my greatest love. I’m truly struggling and this video helped me so much. Thank you.

[@annechorix]

Sending you love ❤️

[@katie1511]

i love you! you can get through this for sure :D

[@Anna-yl2lp]

Aw I know how horrible it feels, be easy on yourself, and know that every time you cry about it is like a block that gets you closer to healing, I know it might feel like it's too many times but it's ok, sending lots of love

[@daniellesanders870]

Hang in there! Praying things get better. Take time to heal!

[@kenzas5896]

i know how it feels dude its so painful im so proud of you for handling all of this everything get better ❤️❤️ dont give up

[@flykarasunohigh68]

It's a lot of pressure to achieve things at a young age because a lot of ppl around my age already are successful. I often feel bad for not doing anything. But watching this video feels like a relief to know that it is okay to not do anything and heal first.

[@AlyssaVierneza]

omg we’re all struggling so bad rn this is needed ❤️

[@IshaSharma11]

True

[@SethuChandra]

how did she know how I was feeling? 😭

[@alexandratrese4425]

honestly same ;-;

[@shedaydream6739]

Sameeee

[@XiomaraThaGoddessMeow]

Because that's the energy we are all feeling collectively. Many transformations are taking place, right now.

[@ritaaaaaaa]

rightttt i-

[@soulful_poetry]

Same here😂

[@Clips_iess]

Thank you so much for this I was literally struggling with having a panic attack this helped me alot and you came to me as a angel pull me through it I'm having so much more calm after listening to you Thank you again keep doing what you do ❤❤

[@Groovyliving]

I’m in bed chilling after 1pm after a stressful few weeks. The algorithms read my mind. Take it easy. Namaste.

[@hristinastoimenovska5048]

My mom died suddenly last month at age 48. :( Yesterday should be her 49 birthday. Thank you for this video, I found it yesterday, but for some reason, my comments didn't work. I was feeling very low yesterday, I feel low today too. Thank you for understanding. I have so much work to do and "to do" things on my list, but I can't do anything.

[@Mockduck2020]

I’m so sorry for your loss 😢

[@annechorix]

Sending you love ❤️

[@Storystein]

I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. All I can say, is that internet strangers here want to show their mental support. I'm so so sorry for your loss

[@levernis5753]

I'm sorry for your loss I love you stay strong 🤗

[@fred3935]

I am sorry to hear about your mum & send you strength blessings & LoVe 🌸

[@emmajarek-simard1942]

This came at the perfect time 💕 Sending so much love to everyone reading this 🥰

[@ArahGasfar]

I thought I was the only one who felt this way 😭 thank you

[@lavendaire]

you're not alone love 💖

[@marycole434]

I haven’t watched the whole video yet, but I just want to applaud you for showing the world an authentic, vulnerable cry. It’s so unexpected and refreshing to see the real and human side of someone like you on this demanding public platform. Keep doing what you’re doing, please!

[@-Crissi_]

"it's okay to do nothing" - man I teared up at this.. I need a rest so so bad, but I have to work (I don't have any sick days) and write on my bachelor thesis..I am so burned out and can't wait for rest to come :(

[@essymwende1203]

Sending you love ❣️

[@-Crissi_]

@@essymwende1203 thanks, much appreciated

[@dajanayaskew2740]

I'm a PhD student and the pressures of academia always make me feel extremely overwhelmed and stressed to the point where I become unmotivated and feel like a failure. Thank you for sharing this 🙏

[@jl-rk1vy]

i’m only a master student and i feel the same. i never thought that doing research is such a tiring journey

[@nala6846]

@@jl-rk1vy i'm only an undergrad student and feel this way 😭 That said, the most liberating realization that I've come to is that I no longer have to be "perfect" all the time or get the perfect grade. C's get degrees after all

[@kaitlinhussey2838]

I’m taking a class in my undergrad that’s so so difficult for me. I had a test Thursday and today I feel drained bc of all the anxiety and tension I held for this test! The world of academia really can challenge even the most mentally stable!

[@meriemblh7411]

It just really hurts cause i was just about to find myself but i suddenly lost it again and i hope i and anyone suffering will make it and restore what they lost during the hardtimes each one of us faced...

[@jd6331]

Same. I felt things were slowly improving, and I was so hopeful for this year, but then in early February my boyfriend broke up with me. It set me back so much, and I just feel anxious and depressed everyday.... I feel so lost and hopeless. 😔 We were planning to move in together in a few months, spoke about getting engaged, and planned to start trying for a family in the next year. Now I feel like everything is gone. 💔 I'm in my late 30s so it's hard to start again... I'm just heartbroken, and I feel like I'm frozen in this state where simple tasks seem so difficult, and it's hard to stay focused at work. I'm so grateful I found this video... I feel a little less alone. I hope we're all able to get back to where we were and on a healthier, happier path. 🩷

[@SC-xf2ks]

"Instead of focusing on what is hard try focusing on what is easy..." Lavendaire | 19.03.2021

[@ThePinkbarbiexoxo]

I can’t belive this just popped up on my phone. I needed this!!!! Thank you

[@btsarmy244]

Yaaah i needed this too😭😭

[@sarahmlwny]

sammmmeee

[@IshaSharma11]

True, she reads our mind

[@shre9]

I did exactly this today. Tried to listen to my body and slept through the entire afternoon and I feel slightly better. Need this so badly. Thank you so much ❤️

[@doodlekat1]

I just went on yt looking for a vid like this 🤍 Love you!!

[@CristinaB228]

I have the highest expectations of myself and SO freaking MUCH on my plate right now. When I try to slow down, I feel guilty for not working on my thesis or studying. Letting go is so hard!

[@Niki_musical3]

I can relate so much. Do you want to stay in touch to deal with it? May be sharing it with someone that understands can help

[@sachisavant5101]

Same. An architecture student here. The course is 5 years long and here I'm at the last semester i.e the thesis and I find myself just so burned out doing this since the past 5 years that I have zero motivation to work...

[@letslive3782]

@@sachisavant5101 I'm preparing for my coding interview. I set a goal to solve 100 problems this month which is overestimated. But I only solved 35 after 19 days. Now I feel lost and unmotivated, tensed, stressed. My brain's getting foggy.