The Pain Of Loosing My Mother

[@lizwaceke3636]

First born daughters let's gather here and show Dr. Zippy love.

[@Nancybits123]

Am here,I have cried oh my

[@dr.zippyokoth9630]

Thanks for sharing my story. A day at a time. A day at a time.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thank YOU for sharing your story with us Zippy! And that's true, one step at a time!

[@jumabrenda7309]

Mama was selfless and extremely generous. The brand ambassor for girl child education, especially the arts. I still miss her dearly. God gives us the grace to overcome grief.

[@kadzo6614]

Pole Zippy..my former school mate. Asumbi girls represented.

[@dianarose754]

Love you sis.

[@wisdomlife]

You are strong indeed, I have never mastered the courage to talk about my experience with grief on my KZbin channel, I just posted on my status on 12th May that I missed her, then the next day my dad passes on 😭😭😭

[@AbubakarSeif]

This is a moving testimony. The old lady lived the true gospel.

[@MariaNjoroge-VA]

And she was called Dorcas Onyango. Then a hilarious laughter. I never get enough of this podcast, watching for the 10th time now.

[@khavetsaaudrey572]

I lost my mum in 2007, I was 10 years,a first born in a family of five...my mum was never sick. I refuse to believe that she was sick for a period of one day😢.She fell sick on a Saturday and died the following day,Sunday, at 7 AM,28th October, 2007.May her soul rest easy. Life has never been the same.It never gets better.You get used to the pain. Hugs❤

[@margaretomidoh5998]

Ifeel u dear

[@mavoelly1704]

How she talks about the dining table being empty and saying "i cried" while laughing...☹️☹️...i dont know how you define strength...but thats strength to me

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So so true!

[@esthernjoki7131]

This girl is so beautiful and has such an infectious smile, I smiled and cried throughout the video. And the mom challenged me to be a better person, really. May she rest in peace!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True! Thanks for watching!

[@lydiakavata1271]

Thanks zippy for sharing.This has been the story of my life from August 2023 when I lost the only parent I had; my dearest mom.

[@kap849]

Aww take heart ❤️. I lost my mum a year ago. The pain gets lighter with time but sometimes it feels so fresh. Praying that God holds your hand as you mourn and heal. Mothers are special ❤.

[@sheilagrace9042]

Very emotional, Zippy I laughed and cried with you throughout this narration. Loved this sooo much.. Continue resting in peace Dorcas Anyango.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Zippy is so wonderful! Thanks for watching Sheila!

[@hopevalentinemiriti2097]

Zippy is such a bubbly soul. Listening to her talk about her beautiful and very fashionable Mum Dorcas radiated so much and love and positivity

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is everything! We love her energy!

[@I.am.human26]

The way she smiles through her tears is so humbling.

[@faithmusoga653]

This episode is so nice and sad too.... and hopeful at the same time. Zippy is such a presence. May God come through for her in amazing ways to continue and keep going and going and going.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Zippy's energy is so beautiful! Thanks for watching Faith!

[@estherjumatv544]

Loosing a mum is very painful,as you speak you're unconsciously hiding the pain with a smile and a laugh here and there,this is a sign that the pain is still very heavy and I pray that God gives you the strength to process this pain,thanks very much for sharing and allowing us to listen to your loss, you've encouraged and inspired someone however it's not easy!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So so true! Thanks for sharing and watching!

[@sellesaadhiambo6855]

I can't hold my tears, Zippy you a blessing to many of us. Strong lady, bless you. May your mom's soul rest with Angels.

[@zilpaleah]

This Reid's me of my dad and each time I open my gallery and see his picture,I do cry like I have just received the news of his demise RIP japuonj babana

[@sallylimo6442]

Hugs Doc...I feel and understand your pain and emptiness after mum's loss. Peace of God be with you 🙏

[@lydialuyo8910]

15th December 2020 ,l lost my mother.I have never been the same since but grace keeps me going.It is well. I pray grace keeps you going too.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Oh sending you love Lydia!

[@margaretomidoh5998]

It's so hard to come to terms with death dear,but the grace is sufficient

[@_risingphoenix]

Zippy has such a beautiful and an infectious smile and laughter. What a beautiful tribute to your mom. I pray that the good Lord may continue to comfort your heart.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Her energy is everything. Thanks for watching!

[@_Sharon_J]

You are so bubbly, even while speaking of loss. Thank you for sharing your mother's life with us. Dorcus sounds like such an amazing all round woman! ❤️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true! Thanks for watching Sharon!

[@daisykapolonto8034]

You've made us laugh even if it's a sad life but we celebrate her for living life. I can relate to your story because I have experienced that last year when my father passed on and life can never be the same. He too was so selfless like your mum and I understand all the preparation he made for us as well after he passed on.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Sending you love Daisy!

[@mamawatorotalks8208]

Beautiful inside out she brought so much in her life. I pray for you to keep getting what you need to put one foot in front of another. Beautifully designed and made for everyone she knew

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Such a kind message. Thanks for watching too!

[@wisdomlife]

I am listening to you so deeply, as much as you have moments of laughter, I can feel that void.... lost mum in 2019 in a road accident, buried dad just this month on 13th... I feel like my world is crashing on me...

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Oh sending you strength and love!

[@elevatenursing]

She is so bubbly and warm. It is beautiful to watch her articulate the deep emotions with such grace. Thank you for sharing!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She has the best energy honestly! Thanks for watching!

[@Sarastefy0]

Zippy is such a lovely an bubbly lady. The way you embody grace is really admirable. Thank you for sharing a part of your mom's life with us. May she rest in power 😇

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is bubbly! Thanks for watching Wangari!

[@nelimawafula5290]

Just stumbling into this and I am amazed at how much I resonate with your story. We are 4 siblings but we have always been more than 7 people in the house because of the many people our mother supported. I am the first born and to be honest, I sometimes feel like I have not accepted that she is no more

[@Noah_Kyalo]

Thank you so much for sharing the beauty of your mother's life Zippy.

[@kaharalilian9065]

Such a beautiful story…. Beautiful, sad, inspiring and hopeful. She indeed was larger than life ♥️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True!

[@emmaoduge8145]

I can't believe how similar your mum was to mine 😢 wonderful

[@margaretomidoh5998]

I can feel ur pain dear.Mine went through that,and gone,just like that forever.

[@faustineatieno5826]

I have listened to this lady so many times in many podcasts i love her , eloquence,poise and mostly her contagious laugh if you've had her laugh oh jeez.🍂❣️

[@iluv_debz]

This episode has made me cry and laugh at the same time 😢so emotional 😢

[@aluha]

May God continue to give you and your family strength. Thank you for sharing your Mum's life with us

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching and the kind words Tina!

[@petronilahkadima9575]

Waaa waaa Zippy, we share the same notes. My mama planned for her death too and told us everything! My sister and i. Hugs girl ❤

[@perismwangi3425]

Such an amazing tribute.. so emotional. Hugs to everyone who is undergoing grief

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True. Thanks for watching Peris!

[@gracesylvia7182]

Oh Zippy, this is a heartfelt tribute....emotional in all ways.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True! Thanks for watching Grace!

[@marynjuguna8172]

Nothing prepares us for the loss of a parent. Such a beautiful tribute

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true Mary!

[@margaretomidoh5998]

Ooooh dear,even if asked to prepare, no one can get there Itell u,loosing aparent especially mum,no way.

[@scolajoseph3959]

Peace Zippy. You are Loved🌹. I am learning the hard way dealing with loss of Loved ones.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Its not easy, grief! Sending you strength Joseph!

[@clairenicole1639]

Hey Zippy, I am so sorry for your loss. You are soo beautiful. Adele thank you for bringing her. This has come with really mixed emotions. Grief of a loved one can be tough...having gone through the exact same loss, I am happy she is dealing with her grief positively. Itakuwa sawa Zippy ❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true! Thanks for watching Claire!

[@phylismboi7559]

So very Sorry for your loss, I saw your Mom in Church "Kasarwa" throughout my childhood never knew much at a personal level, but for fashion, oh my that lady could dress so elgantly. May you find peace in Christ get closer to Him He will guide your paths

[@estherbwire]

Hugs Zippy. I lost mum in 2021 I can relate to your story

[@phennyomondi965]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I can only imagine how much strength it takes to share this very delicate part of your life with us. More strength and grace to you and your family, Daktari!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So so true! Thanks for watching Phenny!

[@Lolwe-cf5bn]

What a phenomenal woman. What a phenomenal daughter

[@angelaachieng2738]

Hugs mama its not easy you made me cry as well, as you were narrating. We only have 1 mother and no one can fill that void. I know in dholuo your aunties tell you am here and am like your mum it doesn't and will never be the same. Love you ❤gal

[@lornathesewist]

May God continue to comfort you all and may her legacy continue to live through you. [Your mum reminds me so much of mine who passed 16years ago, she also went suddenly and she was also a giver, loved by people and sacrificed alot for her. The beauty of her legacy is that it has granted us favor with people because of her kindness, till date. I'm sure it'll be the same for you. May we do the same for the next generation]

[@dr.zippyokoth9630]

My deepest condolences to you Lorna

[@lornathesewist]

@@dr.zippyokoth9630 thank you

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So sorry for your loss Lorna!

[@lornathesewist]

@@LegallyCluelessAfrica thank you

[@florenceojowa7706]

Zippy, from your story, your mother was a beautiful person in and out, and tried to love her life according to Christ’s teaching. May the good Lord rest her soul in peace and grant her family that peace too.

[@joanirungu2778]

You have such an amazing personality!Your voice is beautiful

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really has a brilliant personality!

[@JudyTobero]

I can't believe I have cried all through this video.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Oh! Thanks for watching Judy!

[@oliviahongere]

It's true what you said Zippy no one really understands what you feel as an individual especially the pain of loosing a loved one. We all deal with it differently the best thing someone can do is just be there for you.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

That part - so true! Thanks for watching Oliviah!

[@kenmusumba]

A real life story, told with authenticity, of an otherwise ordinary Kenyan woman, who raised an otherwise Ordinary daughter, yet both with extraordinary achievements in their wake!

[@rizikimichelle5885]

You are so beautiful . I love your smile . I can relate to what you’re saying . I Lost my mom when I was 13 I’m 26 now . There’s such a big void. She missed the most important events in my life and sometimes I cry because I miss her so much . But I learnt that death is Spiritual not Emotional.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So sorry for your loss Michelle!

[@redemptabisangwa8483]

Ahh so many mixed emotions in this story. I pray for more grace for you and your family. 😍

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Such kind words!

[@dorachristine5509]

Crying and smiling and laughing at the same time, 😢❤❤❤❤, may God heal you Zipy

[@normadnurse43]

You are such a beautiful woman with infectious smile even know you are tearing up. I believe you are just like your late mother.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is!

[@nancy4106-9]

Only you know how you feel. After losing someone close to you. Even me still to date I 🥲🥲 whenever I think of him(Babana) It's good to share makes me feel I am not alone on the journey of healing.🙏

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yes. These stories can really be comforting. Sorry for your loss Nancy!

[@nancy4106-9]

@@LegallyCluelessAfrica Thanks very much and keep it up 👍

[@lidyasash7212]

I lost my Dad 2018 but the pain is unbearable...Have never healed..Hugs mum

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Sorry for your loss!

[@margaretomidoh5998]

Sending u hugs dear

[@muthoniwaweru2260]

awww thank you for sharing such a wonderful story! God rest her soul in peace ♥

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Muthoni!

[@teopistorsind9874]

May God grant you healing.

[@aliceochuka951]

This story really touched me reminded me of my Grandmother.

[@alfinsjoshua8098]

Nyar asego I pray for you and family.God 's grace in abundance over your family.You have celebrated mama well.Ket mana chir And again mama was pretty.Pole Sana nyamin Sheila kod Winnie.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

This is very kind. Thanks for watching!

[@MichellMukami]

May you find real peace within your heart you are just awesome

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Eva!

[@valentinemartha5739]

Here from Instagram....I love your mum's faith

[@pamelaotieno857]

I feel your pain Daktari. Sorry for your loss baby girl.

[@wanguink3912]

My mum passed away last year in August and we buried her in 72 hours (COVID protocols). I totally relate to your tribute.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Oh dear so sorry for your loss Wangui!

[@roseyatuwa7405]

Lost mum due to covid,pain still unbearable

[@winniekariuki3596]

I have never related so much to a story. This was literally my grandmother who raised me in kirinyaga. It was very difficult for me to finish watching this video because it reminded me so much of her. She passed on in 2017. May their souls rest in eternal peace. They live in us forever ❤. Fyi even the mad people coming to eat at our home, I relate to that too.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Hang in there we're so sorry for your loss!

[@NjambiKiburio]

Our mothers taught us everything except for how to live without them! My mum rests but everyday there is a lingering emptiness of her absence.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true!

[@estheradem]

Beautifully told ♥️♥️♥️ Condolences to you and your family

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Esther!

[@hellenkirui1052]

Pole Sana. May God comfort you and your family!

[@wambuir7297]

Such a beautiful tribute and she told it so gracefuly ❤️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely! Thanks for watching!

[@cyrillaayoma5549]

Pushing back tears

[@cyrillaayoma5549]

Now I am just fully crying May she rest in peace

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Crying is absolutely ok, good for the spirit & soul :)

[@leahwachera4715]

Lots of hugs❤ So inspiring.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Leah!

[@emmaoduge8145]

I cried so hard as I listened ohhh.

[@samsonodhiambo2953]

If you still have your mum please praise God 100 times embrace her and respect her you wont believe what people without mu go through until you became one.

[@paulineoketch9848]

I have learnt a lot. Thanks for sharing.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Glad you have! Thanks for watching Pauline!

[@whitneynamwaka9755]

My mother passed too a day after yours. And our experiences are so similar that it just can't be a coincidence.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So sorry for your loss Whitney!

[@millionairess9680]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching.

[@amerudi111]

You are amazing God bless

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is!

[@celesteke7806]

Wow! Amazing!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Celeste!

[@raphaelorimba5048]

Pole sana daktari for the loss of your mum

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@atienoolangfamily3010]

Pole Sana zipy God is in control

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Oh hey Atieno!! We're just editing your story for our next audio episode!

[@dorcaslotaba1921]

Sorry zippy

[@matildaabwok4529]

Pole Agatha.....mos.....🫂🫂

[@kadzo6614]

Pole sana Agatha..❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching

[@awuorogollo5628]

The loss of a mother.... I still get goosebumps Mother's should be immortal Pole mama may God be your strength

[@ruthlagat8711]

It is a journey....and it will be okay

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True!

[@rachaelkibuku6512]

I am so sorry Dr Zippy. Ooooooh I didn't know that part of your life. Take heart and be comforted by Christ Jesus the greatest comforter

[@lidyasash7212]

From tiktok to here

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Welcome!

[@vivianarango4364]

Zippy you talk and i feel you talk about my mother . comfort comfort my sister. this pain does not go away wahhh pain of loosing a mummy is real