Lyn Lapid - The Outsider (Lyric Video)

[@sd.sophie6337]

this hits hard. my ex best friend, who I was so close to for years, drifted away from me during covid. i still think about her all the time. she posts about the people she loves, her new group of friends having so much fun. going out to the mall, just like we used to do. taking funny pictures. enjoying life. i guess she doesn’t need me anymore

[@lolo-ce9lb]

i had almost the exact situation although me and my ex best friend didn't exactly drift apart there's a lot to the story to be honest but it wasn't pretty i'll just say that... after a few months though i still had her on my mind and texted her and i just want to tell you that more often than your think people around you probably want to make up and if not that at least get some closure so don't be afraid to reach out although things aren't the same with me and my friend things are good and we don't hang out as often as we used to but we're both happy

[@sriramyasmruthi1326]

Its ok.. shes not for you you'll find someone much muh better :')

[@kimso1240]

It's ok dear, I can understand how it's felt like when you have a bestie, who promised to stay by ur side but...went somewhere with someone else it's fine hope you'll have someone in ur future who always stay with you 😊 ☺

[@eeshalsfairyworld4581]

awh same! One of my friends who i have been friends for 4 or 5 years just left to another country,i miss her like so much! we dont talk that often and meet each other,i feel your pain

[@frazzllz]

her loss

[@boor1to]

Lyn never fails to provide amazing music.

[@ibrahimabdurahman7229]

Facts

[@xxx-im7hv]

For sure 🔥

[@codillaxyz4296]

💯 this guy is a genius my fav song is in my mind like this or reply if its urs aswell 😁😁

[@クレイジースイカ]

Facts

[@Its_Aliyahhh]

Fr, this song has been stuck in my head

[@liahmizu2315]

When you realized you're not that important to the person you considered your best friend and you're easy to replace.

[@bhavanaparagas8703]

You literally took the words out of my mouth....

[@heyits_eli]

This happened to me a couple months ago.❤

[@the_cashow2256]

you're literally one of the few artists i immediately listen to once a new song is out and it's so worth it

[@sarahmathai1166]

same!!

[@izzycheuk4572]

fr, for me it's her and isaac dunbar

[@jewww_21]

samee

[@vansh7046]

Sameeeeee here!!!!

[@StellarPebbles]

Same...

[@olanimp3]

Lyn is an incredible singer but her lyrics? Absolutely amazing she was made to do this

[@nallyaaaaaa]

this hits different when your friend is moving away and it's the last two years of secondary school. i can't even meet her because of covid. will we stay friends forever? is this just a phase? i thought 'i guess this was goodbye' was sad, this made me sob instead. the lyrics are perfect. regardless of what happens, at least i have the memories to hold on to, and this song to listen to when i feel down.

[@Crystal_Sky_]

Oh this comment 🥺 I can relate to it so much. The memories we have make us feel the happiness but the sadness of loosing the time and people too.💜

[@hamiragrace518]

same my best friend moved across the world and its hard to keep in touch when we're 14 hours apart, im just jealous that her and her new friends are so close when they've only known her for like 6 months and i've know her for 8 years

[@zzzzzz-ns9zx]

hi allya 👀

[@katieyimm]

my crush left and he promised to come back and visit his friends and i but i feel like he wont so i relate so much

[@jiminiepabo7653]

I cried while reading this because this is exactly what I was thinking. Leaving a friend is a different kind of pain and I do not know if I could handle it. Been thinking of not telling it to any of my friends and just casually leave because I think that saying goodbye to them would be too difficult to do.

[@lilyboulineau3850]

The fact that I relate to every single line of this song scares me. It just describes exactly how it feels to be the left out friend. This is my first time listening and I’m in tears. It’s also just such a good song, I can’t 😭👍

[@vickyancheta9582]

I relate to this too much. Being a senior sometimes means losing all your closest friends.

[@suraya_]

ANOTHER BANGER lyn you are amazing - your lyrics always make me wanna bawl my eyes out and this song makes me feel like the main character i'm sobbing I love this

[@suraya_]

no one cares but I've been listening to this on repeat for the past few days, it makes me smile so much but also sad at the same time?? lyn really out spoiling us with so many releases lately

[@jooniesbonsai4064]

Uh ik it's late but i care 🙋

[@suraya_]

@@jooniesbonsai4064 thanks haha and I love ur pfp♡♡

[@emaalexis]

"Now you're laughing with someone new, doing things that we used to do" just hits different

[@subscribetomystic_k4495]

This gives going on a summer road trip vibes kdrama scene just being happy on the streets without heels and on a rainy night

[@webjis]

THIS SONG IS SO GOOD LOOPING THIS FOREVER

[@mrzvlrs5794]

the fact that i relate in this song in the friendship type is so painful and lonely to deal with people who forgets you easily and moves on saying 'they're a better friend than you.'

[@pjm2413]

lyn is so incredible. she’s definitely going to achieve bigger things and that’s exactly what she deserves. gonna stream this for sure

[@waffle4804]

Now that I’m listening to this song again after a while I realize how much I’m relating to this. My friend who I knew almost a year has been starting to drift from me. The only time we talk is when we need to ask something from each other. Ive always there when she needs to rant about things like her bf. Though during practice they would hang out with a group of friends to which I know almost all of them. They mostly hang out with my ex a lot (we are still friends though). Now I sometimes feel like my ex replaced me. The group is really extroverted and they have a lot of energy and I feel like the odd one out. I don’t have the same energy as them. I just see them hanging out with each other and have fun and take pictures of each other. We also had these spirit things each week for practice and the friend group that my friend was in would be matching and I wasn’t aware of it. They would also walk past me whenever we are near. Now I just feel invisible to them but I know that I’m not alone because of these comments. I also want to thank Lyn for helping me out right now. I’ve never ranted like this on KZbin but music has been with me throughout my life and I feel like I just need to say it. To anyone reading this and got this far, I just want you to know that you have amazing taste in music and I wish you luck in any goals or situations that you are going through right now 💕

[@BobTheSnail759]

Lyn is so smart with her words, captures every emotion perfectly

[@seoulologyy]

She’s too underrated. She’s amazing and I wish more people knew her. 😭💜

[@starstickermars]

I can already relate too much to.just the title so this is gonna be a good one 👌

[@harperrae8247]

i kid you not, lyn, every single time i hear one of your songs, i smile. it's so crazy how you put these normally indescribable feelings into amazing words. thank you so much for all you do!

[@KittyCat-co8fs]

I usually don't fall in love with songs at first listen but Lyn's songs are the exception

[@aditi4349]

How can someone produce such beautiful lyrics I just- this hit me hard 😭😭😭 stan lyn

[@muskaanmehta]

THE OUTSIDER OF AN INSIDE JOKE WTF KILL ME THIS IS SO GOOD 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I just went through a breakup and i think about our jokes so much . Omg this song has my heart 💗🥺

[@lee4111]

*THIS ARTIST LITERALLY DOESN'T HAVE ANY BAD SONG* loveyouuu

[@Boyedec]

Lyn has such a beautiful voice and writes incredible lyrics And Overall does an amazing job with her songs

[@alexsghostcookie7911]

all her songs are absolutely amazing❤😭

[@anaa309]

This lyrics hurts so bad! Thank you Lyn for write exactly what i'm feeling right now ❤️😭

[@kryptonissoupy4669]

She has an ✨Amazing✨ voice on every song

[@ninalynguevarra3522]

I needed to hear this so much, like I just moved from all my friends. This is exactly what I’m feeling, but I couldn’t find the words to describe it until this. Lyn, you a literally just an inspiration

[@oswald7899]

You’re one of my favorite artists ❤️ can’t wait to hear the new song :)

[@goaditi6616]

This really hits different when you’ve lost some friends and moved away from people and lost contact

[@hannahgracelucnagan8203]

Lyn's music is always giving me chills and I'm not disappointed. She never disappoints me.

[@lenorapierce4198]

This is amazing, really got me in my feels since I haven't seen my friends in like 7 months and I keep seeing them posting photos of them hanging out without me :/

[@tanlee_matro]

I relate to the lyrics so much. Eugh I'm always being treated as an outcast /outsider to every group/person.

[@finalspace297]

Same I hate it but like it

[@knzs]

same it feels really bad especially when they talk behind your back yet ask you for homework 💀

[@unicornspoon]

I feel like this is the only place I can get this out, this song hits too hard for me not to. Keep scrolling if you don't wanna read a long vent. I go to a special school, so the classes there are tiny. Like 13 people maximum. Now to most people, a small class would sound like a dream; not many people, it's quiet, you can study loads... It's not like that, at all. I used to think big classes were nightmares, there are so many people to keep track of and the teacher barely has any time to help you individually. The problem with a small class is that you're always stuck with the same people, every day, for six and a half hours. You don't ever get a break, you can't go hang out with other people, it's just you, crammed with nine other people. It's hell. But with my class, it isn't just a matter of it being so small, it's also the actual people. When I first joined, I became best friends with this girl who lost her own best friend because she left the school. We had a great friendship, it was super wholesome and cute for the first few years. A girl I'm really good friends with joined our group but soon left when a new girl joined our class. She moved on. Over the years two more people joined us, and we became a group of four. Our friendship at first was strong, it was funny, we were super nice to each other and all that. But now, over the past two years, our friendship, or *my* friendship with these girls has become a fucking hell. An *incredibly* toxic girl in the year above us hung around our group for a while, that's what lead to them growing such toxic personalities. It started with petty insults where they were "just joking" but I knew they weren't. Then the horrible gossip and lying started. It's gotten to a point where the rest of the class and SCHOOL stay away from them. Every staff member in the school knows how shitty they are. I've had staff actually apologize to me because of how horrible they are and how I hang out with them. But because it's a special school the staff can only do the bare minimum and email their parents. They don't understand and think I can just go talk to other people when I can't. Yet I'm not one of them. I have to pretend to be a shitty person because I don't fit in with the rest of the class. From a young age I've never been confident at all, and no matter how many times I put my foot down against these people I ultimately hang around them again. I can't get away because of how small the class is. I used to think something was wrong with me because I cared way too much and didn't find any of their horrible comments funny. But the funny thing is, despite staying with the most toxic people in the school, I'm always seen as a "goodie goodie". They are always getting into trouble, and it's a running joke now that I "have a gift" of not getting into trouble. I hate it. I'm always their prime source of entertainment. They collectively insult me and jokingly bully me in text and real life. They always joke about things I don't understand, and I'm a hundred percent sure they have a separate group chat to talk shit about me. I notice a lot of micro-aggression from one of them. I think she's jealous I was friends with our group's "leader" first. Whenever they whisper something and I ask them to repeat it, they always get angry and say "I'll tell you later" when it's bullshit. They always do things *together* and without me. And even though I much rather stay home than go out with them, just seeing them do stuff *without* me just... hurts. I don't know why little things like abandoning me to go to lunch early or not telling me they're having a sleepover together get so emotional. I can barely understand their "inside" jokes. I keep telling our teacher but she isn't doing anything. I have no idea what to do except wait until June is over. These girls are bad people, and yet I still stay with them. Staff ask me all the time why I still hang around, and I don't know the answer. In some weird twisted way, I still see my friends there. I don't have the heart to leave them when I only have a few months left in this school. Now all I can focus on is getting through the day with them and counting down the days before we all leave. I found a college that's far away from all of them and hope I'm accepted there. This song hits home on a personal level, I am writing this here so that n the future I can look back and see how I've changed without them. Thank you.

[@japjotkaur1423]

The day she released the demo on insta I was like "I NEED THIS RN LIKE RN THE FULL SONG".

[@waytolazytomakeayoutubenam5090]

I'm so happy for you Lyn!! I love your music and I'm so happy I found your tiktok *Producer man* I've been looking up to you since. You're amazing!!

[@fkn.Dakoda]

the fact lyn keeps going up 2k subs every day is truly a sight to behold. We all watched you come so far lyn. To 1 mil subs soon, were all so proud.

[@austinjohnson2977]

This is how I feel with everyone around me.. I talk to someone for 5-10 minutes, conversation goes awkward, they find someone else to talk to, and I’m never talked to from them ever again. Sports get me to be forced with the same group, but even then I am just standing on the outside of the friend circle, and listening. I have no input, ever. You can say “oh just talk” sir, I mean it when I say I can’t talk to the majority of this world. I don’t understand half of what they’re saying, not because of a language barrier, not because I’m hard of hearing, because my brain works much differently than the rest of the world. They laugh at some things, and I just sit there, confused, before fake laughing to fit in. What makes them happy I can never figure out why, or why certain conversations are started. With my friends, family, past lovers, everyone seems to want me to leave, or to change who I am… What is wrong with me? Why can’t I function in this blue ball of ground and water?

[@andrewbobat]

I'm not trying to mean or rude but you might be on the spectrum. I've had friends on the spectrum who just don't understand what I'm saying even though what I'm saying is clear to me and clear to others. And it's hard to communicate with them, and the person just has to be willing to listen to anything the friend on the spectrum has to say even if they can't understand it. I really struggle trying to understand my friend or sometimes it feels like she's not even there when I'm talking to her, but she visits me at work all the time, and puts in the effort to wanting to spend time with me even though I have no idea what she's saying or thinking about, but this is where actions speak louder than words, and i can't deny that she is a good friend no matter the interaction barrier

[@paulinal3147]

i feel like i can say this for everyone: this song hits different- like i can relate to this so much that it hurts. i had a best friend for like almost 8 years, we were practically like sisters. but now we rarely get to talk or hangout as we used too. now she has these other group of friends doing all the things we used to do and when i see them together having fun and stuff and i see how happy she is. it hurts and sometimes i just wanna cry right then and there but i know that wouldn't get me my best friend back. apparently i just wasn't good enough anymore. ( its okay if you forget me ill forgive and still love you. i hope you are happier then ever)

[@robloxfoxes]

“The outsider of an inside joke” that just shocked my soul.. SOO GOOD🤍💘 I’m very of Lyn👏✨

[@marijajaneska2438]

I am very excited.... This is one of those times where a minute lasts an hour

[@k_96]

I already love it Lyn🥰 (I saw the lyrics in the description box)you are such an amazing writer and I’m so excited to hear it❤️❤️

[@taco8960]

I love your voice lyn! Keep up the great work!!!💖💖

[@kiera_manjoo]

Why are all her songs so relatable?? 😭 This is my new favourite song.

[@annekhersa1243]

So so excited for this one.Can’t wait :))

[@misstaylor1594]

Incredibly good and full of emotions. I love it so much. 💖

[@angelicawiliana270]

loving this so much! describes so many layers of emotions

[@addisongail5127]

I AM IN LOVE OMG ALL OF UR SONGS ARE JUST *CHEF’S KISS*

[@OzzyIDV]

This song encompasses my feelings perfectly right now. about 4-5 months ago a friend ive known since the start of middle school (7-8 year long friendship) messaged me after not doing so for 7 months. he told me he was going through so much shit, he went to the hospital for an attempt and almost died from and ED. through all of him telling me this i beat myself up for not being there even though i never knew it was happening. one of the things he said when he came back was that i was the first person he wanted to talk to, he told me how important our friendship was to him and that he was sorry. and for the 4-5 months hes been back we hung out in person once, not talking voice to voice except when we did hang out. when we do text we almost always decide we need to hang out or just do something as friends soon and without fail i end up seeing him online playing games that we said we should play together soon, we talked about hanging out in person more often and i never get invites to go anywhere. I tried to be a rock for you dude and it feels like im just ignored untill you need me. im too scared to bring my feelings about our friendship up to him in fear that he would take it the wrong way or be thrown back into a dark place because of it. Im happy if hes happy, but i cant know if he is if he doesnt communicate at all.

[@girl-x7643]

I love this song so much. It’s so honest and relatable, and her voice singing it is just perfect.

[@arielcarmen91]

When I watched your personal videos years ago, I was so amazed by your talent. And I KNEW some day you'd be heard by a LOT more people! I'm so happy for you!

[@jayrielgwapocabarrubias]

gosh lyn, u never failed to make me cry with ur amazing music talent. i love u

[@ronnznx]

Her voice is just *chefs kiss* and the song is absolute banger

[@savannahstevens7911]

Lyn's taking over my spotify

[@ratboyactivities]

this song is just so pretty. her voice really tells a story

[@soapie053]

Wow. This is exactly how it feels to lose your bf"f" . Funny, everyone that has lost their bff have been calling them the wrong label. Because it wasn't forever. I lost my ex bff and these lyrics were my same thoughts. Thanks Lyn :)

[@izuyuh]

lyn always delivers with her songs istg

[@thesupremecheeselord]

I am SO amazed at this!!! Lyn Lapid had grown so much in her music, and it really shows! Keep up the good work!

[@nallyaaaaaa]

i'm so excited for this!

[@fwmaryjane]

ayyee i saw u in the live chat! ✨🌈

[@nashcrowe2182]

thank you for this song. it's so unbelievable good

[@emunahmunoz9847]

This song is helping me with a situation I'm in rn. So perfect

[@dianaproclaim]

I love that you're actively making music now and your song writing is superrrrbbbb ❤️

[@tbd4801]

I LOVE THIS THE LYRICS ARE A WORK OF ART

[@Emma-wg5uv]

as someone who's been replaced by so many friend groups, this really hits hard. I love the song, such amazing work as always Lyn!

[@beepbop041]

AAA I WAS WAITING FOR THIS ONE!! literally already know the whole chorus already from looping that tiktok!! so excited that this is finally released. streaming rn!! love u lyn

[@tif.f4nyyy]

I LOVE LYNLAPID SO SO SO MUCH. I HAVE BEEN HERE IN THE BEGINNING AND I LOVE THE WAY SHE IMPROVES WITH HER MUSIC AND I LOVE EVERY SINGLE SONG SHE HAS EVER MADE!!!!!

[@crust7551]

You can change the whole atmosphere with your amazing music

[@mirrorball.tdiiii]

this hits hard. for years me and my friends were really close and i could actually be myself around them but then as soon as the summer started, they all ghosted me and currently hang out without me.

[@lvviseq_9002]

i listened to this with the tiktok live open at the same time it was so fun listening to it while lyn yelled some of the lyrics and chat was here too. it felt like watching it with friends ❤❤😭

[@kentreynald]

THIS SONG REMINDS me and my friend who went some “things” on the last years. It was literally like me and her only living in the world, but as things faded out, she washes her hands and told me everything was just a joke, -a humor from me that she did just hop into (go with the flow). It pains me thinking between “did she loved me then now pretended she didn’t?” OR “did I just fool myself?”. I also found out that a guy she “used-to” tell me; who she describes as her nothing but past, is the same guy she really still loves, and she only went to me to heal for a moment or make me as a rebound to show that other guy up. Indeed side characters end up alone. And it bleeds to see her chose a character like me in her games. Xie, if you read this, always know that IT’S ALWAYS YOU. ❤️

[@carolinle]

use me as a “I keep coming back for this” button ⚡️

[@Julie_And_I]

This is something I really related to my best friend is slowly drifting toward a different friend which I don’t think she should hang out with and when we all three hang out together it just gets really awkward and they start talking and running off I also related to the song detached Lyn came out with not only do I love Lyn for her music but also how relatable it is

[@diamondzieman5508]

Her voice is so clear that I literally can't comprehend it. Her song her very unique too I think

[@カピバラ-z1e]

I know little about music, but I LOVE your lazy voice. It soothe my sharpness peak of daily anxiety.

[@mauriceedwards4298]

Not sure how I've *NEVER HEARD YOU* before today... love it!!!

[@delobellilou]

Lyn thank you for giving so many people songs to relate to, scream and sing together we love youuu

[@Trixiewin]

I'm ready!

[@elevelyn.]

lyn never ever disappoints :)

[@estelaferrer7995]

Wow!! Napakagandang pakinggan!

[@leilymusic3070]

I cannot comprehend how underrated you are...

[@sansugar871]

THANKYOU FOR MAKING MUSIC LYN, YOUR MUSIC SAVED ME

[@HEEIXHEI]

Lyn never fail us to make a nostalgic songs👌👌..

[@recall5344]

Lyn please don’t stop producing music, your music is out of this world !!! Keep it up ❤️❤️

[@hanitrinialaa5572]

i will never be disappointed by lyn. never

[@princessmendoza4342]

u did a good job, lyn. so proud of you!🤍🤍

[@hatelovers3325]

I can always find myself in your sóng. This actually makes me cry a lot, but thank you, your songs do set me free from my sadness

[@HumanlyGhost]

So hyped for the new song rn! :)

[@Serina.2026]

no

[@moonys0]

@@Serina.2026 what?

[@Serina.2026]

@@moonys0 nothing~ We just got in a Argument 😌

[@jmv1308]

Just went through a breakup and this song hits hard. Love your music so much. 💙 Thank you!

[@thedevastatedangels978]

#lynsarmy LETS GOOO CAN’T WAIT

[@SapphireJD]

Lyn I absolutely love your music! I have never related more to a song ever… i lost all of my friends quarantine during and I felt so sad I had never described it but this was how it felt and still feels to this day… I love your music you are so talented!

[@patriciacastro7797]

“Was forgetting me not really that hard” is one of the many lines in this song that really got me 😭

[@angelinalozano7924]

Yuusss this is so amazing

[@lolo-ce9lb]

lyn has such a talent of creating music that people can relate to very easily in a way that brings people together rather than making individuals feel all on their own if that makes sense anyways i love you lyn and thank you for another beautiful song

[@ainluyy]

i love this song so much, i discovered ur channel today and i love ur voice so much lyn!!

[@jojoboyaaaaa169]

every lyn's song is masterpiece

[@quynhnhuhoang7645]

I can feel it :( I had a best friend and I thought that we'll be like this until we old but our friendship ends just a month after she move to another place

[@alexandrakatemorante1626]

I'm really happy to watch you grow as a singer, from making covers to making your own songs.

[@shruthis4515]

Thank you so much for this song love you lyn❤️🥺

[@ayanastone1524]

This made me think about my bestie friend we have been friends since 2nd grade and we would always hang out but she moved and this song made me replay the time when we used to hang out. I miss her.

[@renzrendon637]

THIS IS PERFECTION✨✨✨