You REALLY Want to Date a Chinese Girl? Listen to This Chinese GUY First! - Intermediate Chinese

Sometimes, dating a Chinese girl is not all moonlight and roses, at least not according to our Audio Podcast guest, Jonas!
Jonas outline 8 major complaints that many Chinese guys have about dating Chinese girls:
1. Girls are domineering
2. Girls are clingy
3. Girls always expect guys to consider their emotions
4. Girls accuse guys of being “straight men”
5. Girls like to escalate a minor problem into a bigger one
6. Girls mess with other guys whom they say are just friends
7. Girls always want a gift on festivals
8. Girls always doubt guys’ loyalty
Music: Blue Skies by Silent Partner
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[@tungmaxx5000]

So good! The fact that this video came out right in the International Woman's Day is hilarious!

[@dompretcloud2]

38 (international women's day date|) is slang for a b**ch in Chinese slang. Perhaps it's not a coincidence.

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*Eight Complaints Many Chinese Guys Have About Dating Chinese Girls:* 1. Girls are domineering 2. Girls are clingy 3. Girls always expect guys to consider their emotions 4. Girls accuse guys of being “straight men” 5. Girls like to escalate a minor problem into a bigger one 6. Girls mess with other guys whom they say are just friends 7. Girls always want a gift on festivals8. Girls always doubt guys’ loyalty

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This all bad news!! 😧

[@stalker21able]

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[@zyx7478]

我的妻子是山東人她沒有這些毛病

[@KiDxScReam]

@@zyx7478 那必须解释你为什么嫁给她 😅

[@maxhope7691]

8. Girls always want a gift or money even on regular days.

[@pokerdesire]

I don't learn Chinese language, but I find your videos very interesting to watch and to learn about Chinese culture and different topics in general. Congratulations with 100k subscribers.

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This channel is the best for learning Chinese 👌

[@cahlelammon2846]

It really is. I love the host. Great sense of humour!

[@erturtemirbaev5207]

Yes

[@mandarinjourneyswithnanno]

说得好

[@philipsimmonds1103]

Is Chinese a language

[@slam5]

@@philipsimmonds1103 LOL

[@jdfromparis6230]

All these girls/women sound like a nightmare to me. I'm French and this behavior wouldn't fly here passed middle school. The lack of maturity is terrible. I just feel like you can just communicate with people (no matter who they are) in a respectful manner and try to solve conflicts or problems. No need for unnecessary drama. I'd never date someone like this...

[@andytang8679]

lol this is a language vid lol... im glad you got so sucked in to the roleplay lol... im sure these types of people exist too lol

[@geoffreycurrie5949]

it's horrendous.

[@lavenderd0ll]

Complètement d’accord et je pense pas que ca passerait aupres des hommes en France haha..

[@reigninblood123]

I would say it's the gender imbalance problem. Women, especially beautiful women, are able to make demands

[@geoffreycurrie5949]

@@reigninblood123 ya but telling them to bugger off is fun

[@pozloadescobar]

I'm not learning Mandarin, I just enjoy these lessons on Chinese culture. Very interesting, thank you!

[@philiplindenblatt3376]

wow. Great GREAT video. The guest is funny, the content is well structured, great amount of useful vocabulary. These dialouges are just awesome!!!

[@mr.t5610]

Quite funny ! Felt sorry for the guy when he went to the shop with his girlfriend 😂.

[@JJ-wz5sx]

OMG thats a real thing, my GF is Chinese and going shopping is a torture you don't know what to say and you just stand there and sweat.. Specially when she sees some clothes and asks you 你觉得这件合适我吗？ 我艹。。别来问我这些好不好。

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[@ranulfdoswell]

哈哈, 他说 “该死的问题他妈又来了” 的时候，我笑死了！

[@SrChatty]

Göteborrrrrg änna!!! 👌👍

[@peeradechl79]

This topic has brought me back 10 years ago when a relationship was like playing the game of love. Every day full of testing and trying to be on top of each other.

[@liza6162]

Hilarious! Can’t wait for the girl’s complaints next

[@estherandherlittleworld7821]

Me toooo

[@GeoScorpion]

Yup! Would love to hear the other side! You'll have to find a woman with that kind of deadpan, dry humor. LOL!

[@vulpesregis]

No need. The whole world knows about girls complaints. It's what you do most. *drops mic*

[@AJLangford]

@@vulpesregis Haha Well said. Very true.

[@vulpesregis]

@@GeoScorpion*AwkwardWhiteKnight666* joined the chat. - wtf was that you weirdo. It's a joke, take a hint will you. Presumptuous little man.

[@MagnaAnima]

This interview was hilarious, omg I was laughing the whole time. Thanks!! and learned lots of colloquial sayings to put in flash cards

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Congratulations on 100 k subscribers. You are the best!

[@dkennell998]

Eileen, I love so much that you tell us the accents of your guests. Thank you for doing that!

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This podcast is so funny. I laughed a lot 😂😂😂 Eileen please invite him again to do a podcast. He is so funny

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Good idea!

[@cloudsrain8753]

@@MandarinCorner2 This guy is a genius. I have Chinese wife and I have a reality check now. Wow, he is spot on while being caring for gf or wife as a person. Kutos to him and me!

[@saeedadam8397]

100K subs, congratulations! This is the best intermediate Chinese learning channel ever!

[@mannaporanna2678]

Well, my impression (thank God!!!!) is that Eileen does not do it for "subs". And I hope it will always remain like this :)

[@FilipP88]

Congratulations on 100k subs ! thank you for another amazing podcast they are my favorite content

[@evrshuzzen8]

I should say my Chinese husband is sooo perfect to me. He always wants to do something good for me, sometimes it is too annoying. In the past he had relationship with Chinese girl and may be it affected him 😂

[@jayjay53313]

If you don't mind, may I know what is your ethnic or country?

[@jotarothedixieboo3435]

Likely so, sadly for me, listening to my parents advice about relationships made me screw things up. I listened to my friends and thats when things worked better. I feel like chinese view of relationships tend to be too invasive of a person's self autonomy and personal space. Your a queen for understanding your husband and staying by his side

[@illrational44]

Well trained .......

[@artemiosnicola523]

I haven't listened to the podcast yet, but I met a Sichuan girl yesterday and chatted with her in Chinese. I was charmed, she wasn't.. :p

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Congratulations to 100 000 subscribers !! You did it! Well done! Great work! You’re the best! Keep going !!

[@nilocblue]

I dated a chinese girl for 8 months, and I'm a caucasian (french) canadian. She was great, but there was definitely some cultural things I had to learn. She was much wealthier than me, but still expected me to pay for many things and to take her out. Also to hold her bags when shopping, which took forever. She also wasn't super affectionate, and whenever we were in public we had to be super "proper" and could only hold hands and nothing else. Other than that though, she was pretty awesome :) It just didn't work out because in the end we weren't super compatible.

[@ivanivan5511]

Imo...bills should be paid 50/50. Holding her bags is fine, I can cooperate if she's cooperative too. Being proper in public is mature to me, people here act as though they're teenagers who've found their first gf/bf and wanna show them off everyone just like a kid showing their toys.

[@samalford8923]

对我来说, 在KZbin上，这是最好的教汉语的频道。每个视频都有正宗的汉语，每次看完后感觉我学到了很多。谢谢您！

[@samalford8923]

我不敢在这里公共抱怨我女朋友！

[@bigtimbolim]

16:35 LOL whoever came up with that is genius!

[@Thao_Mirror]

Thank you so much for your great video. I love the guy in this conversion. He is humorous in every sentence with his expressing, lol.

[@Jari44]

Wow this guy is amazing. You need to get him back for another episode. I loved it

[@ambreenkhan6340]

I enjoyed this video a lot. The guy is sooo funny and has elaborated the issues meticulously with examples. Although this was aired 2 years ago I just came across it as I recently started learning mandarin. I would like to see Jonas talk more on other topics like this too.

[@RiDankulous]

Very good presentation, thanks. The amount of work for the translation shows clearly and raises the value of the video considerably, at least to those who are studying the language. I think it goes both ways, some of the complaints. Some men can be controlling, of course. I bet the complaints can in many cases have another side that can in fact be justified, so it can be confusing to interpret at face value. So some complaints are about issues intrinsic in any relationship but can still be grating, like sacrifice of enjoyable activities to benefit the significant other. Communication is a big issue, too, and mood.

[@Sycokay]

That happens when you have more males than females in a country, it's also true the other way around. The less "competition" you have, the more entitled you can behave.

[@patrickfain9318]

The answer to this problem is to enjoy your life as a single man and then you can spend your time watching these videos learning Chinese or anything else you want to do and be super happy that none of this mentioned in the video will happen to you but to some other poor schmuck

[@bushy9780]

No greater pleasure than freedom and self-sovereignty. There really is no need to fall into the trap of tradition if you don't want to have a kid.

[@pnksmigge5324]

If you end up with a decent person, you can do it together and not worry about the nonsense either.

[@aoeu256]

@@pnksmigge5324 你找到那个好的人吗? or are you talking about hypotheticals?

[@pnksmigge5324]

不是，我和我的女朋友一起很高兴的生活 @@aoeu256

[@genghiskhan6688]

Understand Eileen at normal speed is doable, but Jonas is too hard. Watching on 0.75 speed makes it much easier!

[@MandarinCorner2]

@mike hennessy One of the obvious accent Jiangxi people have is that they replace R sound with L sound. So, he probably pronounced ranhou as lanhou.

[@peterfireflylund]

@@MandarinCorner2 sometimes it even sounded like "laou" with no (or almost no) nasalization of the 'a' vowel and an 'h' so weak I couldn't hear it. Quite interesting! Great guest, btw :)

[@predrag-peterilich900]

In China, in Italy, or another culture....growing up as a single child, a mamma-boy or a daddy-princess, will shape you into a person more self-centered and less willing to share and give, a person constantly demanding attention. It takes a strong character and an engaging society to ameliorate these traits.

[@alexlei2235]

That's a rather large generalization. The one-child policy (they've raised it to two now) and general upbringing culture in China definitely causes a higher rate of these cases, but you can see with one-child families in any country that it is not the sole deciding factor, and there is a significant number of single children that grow up to be perfectly fine, though they must rely more on their peer relationships to develop interpersonal skills and principles. The other main factor besides being a single child is ultimately the parenting, and I think that should be focused on a little more. There's a culture of grandparents spoiling and parents being strict with children, which may contribute to people developing self-centered behavior and high expectations of others. Women are also a rather strong force culturally in a Chinese household, which is what the man in the video was talking about. Even with that, his words can be taken with a grain of salt, as the anecdotes he brings are just anecdotes: subjective accounts based on one side of the story. We don't know how good of a boyfriend these guys are or if the stories have been modified, though the general trends of their complaints can be surmised.

[@predrag-peterilich900]

@@alexlei2235 I agree and I have changed and toned down my comment. Yet I have directly experienced at least two such people in my life. There is a clear pattern of behavior in these people though the whole issue is a more complex one. And no, it's not a "Chinese phenomenon".

[@benji4402]

the line of divorce is actually longer than the happy day red books😂

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My congrats on 100K subscribers. Great video as always.

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[@fredmakoto318]

i really like this video , the guy is really amazing and understand many things : we can resume this video : how to became gentleman ( good words with good attitude ) not so easy :) ^^

[@Kxz716]

"As a girl ,I certainly have no right to speak". That's some crazy asian stuff.

[@polako215]

Wow this video was eye opening, I am married to a Chinese women and everything this man said fits the bill to a tea. I thought I was the only one, but it seams like this is common behavior for Chinese women.

[@wouterdegruijl4303]

Congratulations with 100k subscribers. I have been a big fan for a long time. This is amazing content. Thank you so much Eileen!

[@dkxc324e]

he has a view and variety perspective.. nice to hear his idea

[@ausmo1308]

Excellent video. I am still HSK1 level or even more novice than that. But it was a topic I was curious about. And I found out that the downside to dating Chinese women is the downside to dating women from any culture or country. I think these traits are common with all women regardless of where they are from. If you deeply care about the woman you are dating, then I think the guy will tolerate your flaws and focus on remaining loyal to her. All the other things don't matter as much for him

[@MrNothingButAir]

my cousin who is chinese american acts like this way too even though and she was born in US . She watches a lot of chinese dramams. I think all those chinese shows have a similar portrayal of relationships w/ chinese women and she picked it up the culture from her mom and the shows

[@nowenglish2573]

Great Eileen!! Loved so much!

[@ted6462]

This was fun and educational! Thank you.

[@kieranmcdermott27]

This was great educational content but I think the descriptions about women are big generalizations. He basically focuses on negative traits women have as if they are a liability. Let's look past these stereotypes of which gender is better or worse. All humans can have positive or negative traits, it's up to the individual to improve themselves and become a better person. I understand he is poking fun with some topics, but when people start to think groups of people all act and behave a certain way, this leads to problems in society.

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I really enjoyed the conversation and the humor, great video! Although I have a doubt about the label "Intermediate Chinese", since it appeared to be full speed and advanced level.

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1) You can use the KZbin speed controls to slow down the video. It is the gear icon on the lower right of the video frame. 2) Yes, we aware that the level is advanced but, the reason we still say this is suitable for intermediates is because we provide full hanzi, pinyin and English translations. Our videos are for intermediates who seek for a way to consume advanced content.

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@@MandarinCorner2 I love all your videos, they are some of the best on KZbin. I can tell that you put a lot of work into them.

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"Maybe the fact that you were born was a mistake" 🤣

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I love the interviews they are so funny!

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“宝宝要抱抱”😂

[@Mi-yj2pp]

I am sure not all of the chinese girls are all the same like this. for example you look someone not like this eillein thanks for the video :)

[@Grem305]

Dead pan sense of humour. Good video. I guess it is pretty much the same story everywhere. French girls are also far from perfect and some boys are also shallow and lack psychology when it comes to dealing with girls. Fair is Fair. keep up the good work with your great videos

[@bingsterc7621]

Damn...good thing they haven't forced them to kneel on LEGOS.

[@evadesc]

100% yes. I dated and met quite a few in college and they were pretty independent but maybe they're different since they're willing to travel outside their homeland and comfort zone. Pretty sure there are a good number of high maintenance or difficult women in every country.

[@jotarothedixieboo3435]

Doesnt matter, they will still pull all the sajiao crap on ya xD as someone whose ethnically chinese theres a reason why i have a dating policy of "no chinese girls"

[@dureremu5897]

Single life for me! Also congrats on a well-deserved 100k!

[@LoneDWolf]

I am currently dating a Chinese woman, I am American by the way learning Chinese for both our sake, and she is like this somewhat but I adorable her regardless of her childish streak lol. I actually welcome it.

[@yannlusala2242]

哈喽Eileen老师, thanks,you're the best and you deserve more subscribers!

[@anthonythames430]

YES!!!!!I pray for a chance to be in that type of energy and again YES absolutely, love to.

[@giacomomartinelli5185]

You should have answered her:" You're too beautiful to wear that thing"

[@cecilabbey2955]

我很喜欢你的频道。说到内容的话，很丰富啊

[@murdockbarakus9753]

The great culprit of all is the lack of money.

[@seth1455]

i don't think some of those issues would go away, even if money was plentiful. It's lack of self esteem / insecurity, growing up without respect for others and not having a good sense of what is of value

[@murdockbarakus9753]

@@seth1455 All you say is related to what I said. Unfortunately, women of all ages (and cultures) measure the value of a man based on their financial situation. If they see or think that a man will not satisfy their, let's say wishes or expectations, then that man is not worth it. Think about it... Even those women that say that money is not an issue, sooner than later will say otherwise. Women have fought quite hard for a long time to be equal to men. Sadly, they fail to understand the concept of equality. In any case, that's my humble and out of own experience opinion.

[@alanchen8272]

True. If you have enough money, there will be no such problems.

[@f4ptr989]

So nice to see women are the same in every culture.

[@ricardocontreras9766]

Wow more than 100000 subscribers congrats. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@USMiner]

Your videos are such an interesting look into real people and culture in China. I am seeing some similar videos in Russia too. We never get this perspective of some foreign countries here in the US and it's very interesting to watch and learn after so many years of mystery - even if I am not good with learning other languages. Thanks for the videos and insight into China and it's people! It makes me want to learn the language and visit some day just to see in person and talk to people.

[@alexandreandrade2858]

really nice work! I loved this format 👏👏

[@alexfrank5331]

There's a Chinese saying "男人不坏，女人不爱" it's basically the same as nice guys finish last, and girls love bad boys. The root issue is that if the man is soft and a pushover, he won't be respected, and will be less attractive. In a society of gender equality, man and woman has EQUAL right to do what makes them happy. If the man doesn't stand up to defend his right, then that's the most unattractive type of man. The relationship is doom to fail because one day the man will burn out and instead of being dominated, they'll just divorce or in some cases he might do something regrettable.

[@zyx7478]

Chinese people just like any other ethnic group are diverse. The culture and behavioral modes of people in mainland China, Taiwan, and Hong Kong are very different. 他們的風俗習慣都不一樣，差別很大

[@tdwebste]

If the girl likes you. You should date her. I am married to a Chinese girl from HK, first love was a mixed Chinese girl from Singapore. Mandarin speaking Chinese from Singapore, Taiwan, Hong Kong, and China are all quite different. I gea

[@wethekhasis4635]

Yeah I really wanted to Date with Chinese girls 👫 From North East India 🤗

[@christianmarionespenilla2690]

Yes. Filipino guy, btw.

[@SilverC3ll]

Laoshi, do you believe Confucianism has traditionally damaged the harmony between men and women, and that modern Chinese society is presently experiencing the aftermath? As in, is man/woman harmony a bit of a new concept to modern Chinese society?

[@javiermoreno772]

That guy sounds so funny that it makes me laugh even though I can barely understand what he is saying.

[@20centswortht91]

Its called INSECURITY and it comes in many forms.... its very common in women and is also easy to see in many wimpy men.... its easier to be happy and if someone wants to be with you then its their choice ... that way its unconditional - not conditional because as we just saw - anything with conditions is really just attempts to satiate insecurities !!!!!

[@ELA33520]

Any tipps for girls on how to date a chinese guy ? please? ;) :D

[@jznn8218]

Be honest, be considered, be understanding, be caring, the most important is be BRAVE since a lot of Chinese guys are too shy and not confident to express their feelings to girls especially those beautiful ones. Note: It's not necessary to have all of those characters, but if you do, that's perfect. BTW, I am a Chinese guy in my mid 20s.

[@ELA33520]

@@jznn8218 oh, thanks , I think I could honestly be all this, I am quite brave - whispers plus I can cook :)

[@jznn8218]

@@ELA33520 If what you said is true then you are attractive to most Chinese guys, also I want to say if a girl can cook and is willing to cook, which is a advantage. Because nowadays many Chinese girls don't know how to cook and they don't want to learn it, basically they just depend on their boyfriends or takeouts. I don't mean they are lazy or something, but their attitudes toward cooking or food really piss some Chinese guys off, including me...Anyway, wish you good luck to meet and date a decent Chinese guy. :)

[@ELA33520]

@@jznn8218多谢, of course its true - I am even willing to learn the language , and that is quite a task :D I wish for you as well - may you find a nice girl that will like to cook for you and pamper and spoil you a tiny bit :D . JIA YOU 加油

[@alanchen8272]

@@jznn8218 Guys can also do cooking, I don't think it's a big deal. In young generation, many man can cook and will share housework. They are no big deal for me. But I prefer girl who have a job and can feed the family together, instead of a housewife.

[@Jianju69]

Run, don't walk. Run for your life. Ignore me at your peril.

[@ruttolomeo1987]

If you've watched more than 3 minutes, please, remember you are not alone. Ask for help, we can talk you out of your troubles

[@muzikizfun]

It's not that I would go out of my way to date a Chinese girl, but I wouldn't avoid it either. There are always cultural differences that can cause misunderstandings, but if you are open minded and learn about that culture, most misunderstandings can be minimized. Plus, each person is different, and we should treat everyone as an individual, not as a stereotype.

[@KVSulinom]

Interesting to listen 😂, but in my opinion eastern guy mindset might be different compared to western guy (no matter european or asian) mindset. Domineering is not a good sign but 2 ways communication and respect each other is very important, I love to share my feeling (happy, sad or anger) to my partner or children and I expect they do the same, therefore we will be able to know each other more. but my opinion, the key of good relationship is 1. Respect each other and 2. Communicate well.

[@savesch]

I have married one! Best thing you can do in your life✌🏻

[@stalker21able]

Great job, Eileen. 有趣！

[@lavenderd0ll]

Hinata🥺

[@chamroeunrattanak6650]

非常拭目以待你所有的视频。☺️☺️

[@Littleybrid]

Good thing it's just girlfriend and boyfriend. Once you're married, it's worst and you can't break up, unlike gf and bf.

[@stephanwaldmann4611]

Cool and funny ! Your tongue-in-cheek presentation may be a caricature of certain chinese girls, but those "gongzhu" exist all over the planet, be assured..

[@Levatomu]

8:00 我他妈找了个儿子 hahahaha. I don't think Eileen saw that coming.

[@prestonhiew1899]

I did not expect that on this channel lmao

[@LawrenceAaronLuther]

awesome that she just let this convo happen freely

[@ranulfdoswell]

That's the point when she realises the video will be demonetised!

[@andrejshutilin6815]

Спасибо! Поздравляю с 8 Марта! Счастья!

[@fai0396]

What did he say doesn't represent my own thought.. :(

[@kazi1]

Congrats on 100k

[@paulcooper1704]

i would much prefer to date a Taiwanese RoC girl than a PRC girl. Taiwanese girls are much better, more open minded, better English skills, and the RoC is the real "China" without any of the past 71 years of problems. Taiwan RoC is what the PRC could be without the CCP

[@briant9966]

this is really good . subscribed

[@AJLangford]

These observations are hilarious. And universal. Chinese women aren't that much different to women everywhere. There are some cultural differences but a lot of these complaints are normal behaviors. You would expect this conduct from mostly younger women but I have dated some Chinese women in their thirties and I was surprised by the lack of maturity shown. I think this is a cultural attitude, perhaps due to being spoilt. When I was travelling in China I saw many young women hanging off their mothers as though they were young children. You don't see this to the same extent elsewhere. This attitude seems to have passed over into adult relationships. I feel for my Chinese brothers. They have their work cut out for them. Haha But don't imagine for a moment that it's a lot better in other countries. Relationships are hard work in any language.

[@jotarothedixieboo3435]

Trust me, its alot better in other countries. Im of chinese descent, and through my experience and observation, western women are so much better than chinese women

[@mluisaforatini7261]

Hi Eileen🐿️! I'm very happy to see you again! How are you? Where did you go to find this new guest of yours? Straight into the belly of a whale 🐳passing by in the 🌊Pacific🌊 Ocean?....😁 That'why his pronunciation is.. 比较 （tongue smack!).... not familiar! (I still long for 东北读音！）I'm going to listen to you both today night! (我会听到你们两今晚!) 拜拜

[@jeffreyandrews]

Why not?

[@lbb2rfarangkiinok]

采访的内容很有趣，谢谢你们的努力!

[@ArnTodd1337]

Interesting 👍👍

[@MPAnderfeldt]

I think we all know girls who behave like those mentioned in the video. In my opinion, it doesn't have to do much with nationality, but rather age and maturity (or lack of). I had (German and Spanish) girlfriends in my early twenties who behaved very much like the "princesses" described in the video and I know a very mature Chinese lady who is not at all like that. I think age and - maybe - hardships make people grow.

[@unknownuser31792]

Not sure why you guys think this is only limited to chinese. Learning to cook, clean. Earn money, work hard for family, take care of gf. These are all shared things in every country. You should see chinese girls really are not any different than normal girls everywhere else.

[@aliqaimi1630]

this vidoe is very funny I like it

[@rodgerspenda3207]

哇靠，这个视频上传了还是不久。看了这几次，非我留言。但是说个人的事情之前，我先要认出被采访的‘大哥’。这个人真的让我笑死了，他太值了😂😂。他里面说‘有些人真没问老婆’，我看主播之人愣了一下啊，要消化他的意思。我暂停一会儿，才看得出来他的意思。他举的例子都可笑并很现实。说到这头，那我个人的问题。其实感情这事是很复杂的，一个人无论多钻研都不能代替人家。因为每个人的经验都是不一样的。如果说外-内国之关，可能会有差异的。他人提到的所有都能见，其实我们男人有时候会怕女人不太可靠。一会说东，一会说西，特别在我们这时代，每个人都要标出来自己的感情甚至犯罪。我最讨厌的是滔滔不绝，啰嗦，喜欢讲闲话的那些女人。还有没有方向的的，我们住在一个变动的世界，无方向的女人都会被甩在·后面，无方向之意就是那些不知道自己要什么，一听闺蜜说了这个，就要去做，但她没有对闺蜜说了什么.难道是收音机吗？。Another reason, 人家不干伸手，整天在家说‘我会找男朋友，他会帮我找钱’，这样不仅危险你一个人的生活并且会加你的男朋友的压力(如果你真会找到一个)。第二是没有耐力，很多女人缺少这个，不知道是跟自然有关还是什么，但这个是一个大题。因为感觉自己还年轻，快老，就想到处玩，比比皆是。有个男朋友却·说‘我要找个男朋友’‘，像你说的一样（备胎）。岂有此理！！难道男人是物品，你应该备马？岂她们觉得在淘宝mai东西，在刷男人是不? 说这个男人品不太可靠，所以我买两个。特别是那些可谓漂亮的女人，只认耍人。jianpan bu da zhongwenzi. haishi ting zai zher ba

[@ProphetTLK]

Been with a Chinese girl for 3 years and it's great. My life has never been better

[@Re3iRtH]

They are the best

[@papigeng614]

if you are kidnapped, just blink your eyes

[@icephoenix3565]

Are you a mayo?

[@demneptune]

1:46 can anyone tell me, is "chayi" normally used as an adjective? My dictionary says it is only a noun, but here it appears to be an adjective. Or is "yousou" the verb, and "chayi" the noun? Can you say "... ye hui chayi"?

[@MandarinCorner2]

It is a noun. So you suo cha yi means, it has difference, thus, different.

[@wishicouldshowmyname5815]

Maybe you say the same think, but what initially attracts a mate eventually makes them reject them. Is this the same? Maybe universal.

[@davidplenderleith4176]

Yes I do

[@marcelhobma9497]

Thanks for uploading! Small question: where does Jonas' accent originate from? It sounds quite southern to me but I have trouble locating it