How to Pick up Indonesian Girls - Successful Tips✅🇮🇩

How do you approach and pick up Indonesian girls? In this video, I give you some very useful tips. Spoiler alert: No need to throw cash at the girls!
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[@nathanbutcher7720]

My initial experiences of trying to date women in Indonesia was very difficult. It's not as if they didn't want to hook up, but they felt the pressure of their culture and religion bearing down on them and it led into a bunch of frustrating situations. The major problem being the "bule" target on my head and the woman's drive to try and change my religion and get married before getting to any of the fun stuff. They're so family oriented that they want to make you part of the family - but I was after fun and not a new family. In the end I just had to put my foot down and tell them that I wasn't interested in religion or getting married, which made a few girls who were seemingly really into me to run away - made even harder by the fact that they were being really nice to me up until that point. In the end I learnt that it's just to be upfront, honest, and direct about what you want from the very start so they don't build their marriage hopes up and you get to the point as soon as possible - and that's the most respectful thing to do.... and if possible - meet them anywhere but in their home country where the social pressure isn't there. Like any woman, if they want you enough, they'll find a way to make all their society's rules "not count"

[@MinimalistNomad]

That's what we want to hear! Different perspectives based on own personal experiences. Thanks for sharing! Yes, Indonesian girls are family oriented. They don't really care if you are not Muslim because when you marry them you have to convert anyway, by law 😂. (But just on paper 😉). Yeah, all cards on the table and communicate your intentions clearly to the women!

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@MinimalistNomad Yes you have to be upfront and to the point. Indonesian women are mostly passive so you'll need to make all the moves, but they're usually open to them when you go for it. I'll also point out that Bali has been a great "neutral ground" in Indonesia given it's tourist credentials. As with many tourist traps, what happens on tour stays on tour - especially in enclosed hotels - and hence there's not much social pressure there either (also for White western women who love going there for the beach boys!). Also worth mentioning that the far eastern islands of Indonesia are majority Christian, so sexual taboos common across Indonesia don't really apply to the extent that they do over there. The islands out there are often ignored by tourists - but if you're looking for nice women it's an absolute goldmine you'll have mostly all to yourself.

[@HR_8035_YEA]

Thanks for the information. I was just deciding between North Sulawesi and Sumatra as my travel destination for a couple of months. I think you've sold me on Sulawesi.

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@HR_8035_YEA Best places in Sulawesi would be North Sulawesi (Manado) and Tanah Toraja. Toraja is particularly interesting and has a unique culture. After Bali, one of my favourite places in Indonesia.

[@koufax174]

@@nathanbutcher7720Which Islands? English spoken? Thank you

[@T.A.M1478]

Saran saya sebagai orang Indonesia Jika anda hanya menginginkan Sex yang tidak perlu adanya komitmen Pernikahan maka carilah seorang wanita penghibur untuk menemani anda & Jangan gunakan alasan mencari kekasih hanya untuk memuaskan kebutuhan biologis anda di negara lain jadi jangan merusak masa depan anak gadis orang & membuat dia melanggar aturan agamanya hanya demi nafsu & Kesenangan sesaat kecuali anda benar2 cinta & Serius ingin Memilikinya sebagai istri

[@tokoebookseputarcinta]

Pendapat Anda bagus, tapi dia ga ngerti bhs Indonesia kan? hihihi

[@T.A.M1478]

@@tokoebookseputarcinta Sudah saya kasih komen dlm bhs inggris jg sy bkn anti pernikahan internasional tp yg sy benci byk dr mereka hny sekedar memanfaatkan wanita INA yg baik2 hny demi Sex bkn u/serius dinikahi kesannya wanita2 di asia tenggara Murahan semua mudah u/dibuat Easy come Easy go

[@climber222]

Indeed, it's not right or fair to take advantage. Most of us western men already have great advantages in life. Yet some/many feel entitled to take advantage of noble women with good intentions. I know that I would not like to be in love only to be discarded like wrapping paper because it's easy for my partner to hook up with another. Always treat others as you would like to be treated

[@T.A.M1478]

@@climber222 It doesn't matter if it's a female sex worker, but if a good woman is made to just be a sex object in the name of fake love, you've clearly damaged her future as well as her religious beliefs & many of them are irresponsible if a pregnancy occurs like what happened to many girls in the Philippines

[@dr-ng8te]

Very good statement 😮

[@AlexCVPI]

Hey Man , thank you for these great videos. I met my LDR Indonesian girlfriend at a nightclub in bali. One thing I remember she told me that made her even more attracted to me was that I did not try to pick her up or anything like that I just played it cool and relaxed. I'm Australian and I'm flying back to see her in a couple of months.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yeah, exactly mate. You figured it out! No need to play that "Hey, I am the big guy with the big dig" farce. Just calm down, relax and enjoy some beautiful girl's company. Only fools can mess that up. Enjoy your trip back 👍

[@endrisk1513]

​@@MinimalistNomadI talked u I wand information how to pick up virgin indonesian women u didn't respond to my answer u very rude German person u have to respect your subscriber and show the minimum respect shame on u

[@andyreiben]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and tips to better approach and manage a relationship with an Indonesian woman. For my part, I prefer the long term with a woman who has solid values ​​and who knows how to respect her husband to build something together. From what I have seen on your channel, Indonesian women seem to meet my expectations. For this, I would rather head towards the East of the country where there are more Christian women (Flores, Manado, Bitung, Tomohon)

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment!👍 Sounds all reasonable and logical. Eastern Indonesia is definitely worth exploring. It is not on the radar of many foreigners.

[@KEKWPog-k5s]

Arrived in Bali (my second time), i was talking with 10+ girls before coming here. 9 out of 10 turn out to be freelancers. Im thinking of just leaving indonesia for philippines lol

[@Frankojinevin]

Hey, thanks for these great information. Please make some videos about dating in China and about Chinese women, like your videos about Indonesia, thank you.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Too little dating experience with Chinese women. When I lived in Hong Kong I mainly dated Filipinas and Indonesians 😂 But perhaps I am going to tell the story of a girl I dated which came from Jiangmen in Mainland China...(no English, looked completely different than her online dating pic and used my kitchen floor for chopping chicken).😆

[@Frankojinevin]

@@MinimalistNomad looks great, thank you.

[@P99-v6n]

Indonesian women are the best in the world!

[@amirhamzahamzawazir3875]

🤔

[@Tukangladeninhaters12]

😂

[@mu_fa]

16:05 Bule = in javanes language it's mean albino = just for caucassian/ white people because they have skin like an albino

[@kimphilley621]

Good job. Thank you for the straight talk about Indonesian women

[@MinimalistNomad]

You are welcome mate👍

[@MrTiomanisland]

I think it would be good if you make your videos max 12 minutes long. More views.

[@KYFHOme]

Excellent content! And you are making great progress on the women (wim-en) vs. woman (wo-man) thing. I appreciate the info. So going to Indonesia as a older "bulli" is probably not good due to the repression. Better to look for countries where they go as workers. This is a great tip!

[@rave69jamma51]

And do you think being from North Africa I will have a good chance😅?when I come to Indonesia?

[@MinimalistNomad]

If you are a Muslim then I am positive.

[@rave69jamma51]

I like your videos, and would be coming end October and needs some tips where to find a real nice pretty girl friend ? Any way to dm in private

[@MinimalistNomad]

Sure, you can email me here: [e-mail]

[@tsmoe]

Excellent pieces of information. On a different note. I am leaving Da Nang. Too wet and cool for me. Is Nha Trang any drier and hotter?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Have you checked "The Weather Channel"? This is what I do to get information on the weather. But I would assume that Nha Trang is dryer than Da Nang during this time of the year. But I remember being in Nha Trang in December 2022 to January 2023 and it was cool and sometimes rainy as well.

[@tsmoe]

Rain is never a problem because I have chosen to live in "the humid climes" 😜. I guess I need to check Indonesia. Next stops Surabaya, Bandung, and Bandung.@@MinimalistNomad

[@kris13iam]

How's the dating scene in Da Nang?

[@MinimalistNomad]

@kris13iam I have not dated much there. I would say there is some opportunity but not much. You need time and patience.

[@jorgetoloza269]

Good stuff here Dude...I just subscribed..going to the Phillipines in less than a year. Just seen some of ur videos on Phillipines

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks mate👍. Good luck with your endeavours!

[@FirstLast-lq4xf]

Anyone been manado What is your experience

[@davida.4933]

Beach/dive resorts are ok, but the city is really rough/traffic/pollution.

[@blokeabouttown2490]

How do you meet these women if you hate clubs?

[@MinimalistNomad]

That was the time when I was still going to the clubs. Now I use different tactics and approaches. Online dating sites can be an alternative in Indonesia. They aren't riddled with scammers as much as in the Philippines it seems. You want to be alert although!

[@blokeabouttown2490]

@@MinimalistNomad Have you ever approached Indonesian ladies that you meet out and about, such as in a store, restaurant or other public place?

[@davehough8777]

​@@blokeabouttown2490 that's how my sister met her husband. The American husband, in the beginning only asked my sister for time. And He asked the location of one famous restaurant. But then, they met again in a Catholic Church, after the English service... So they exchanged numbers... Now they are very happy with 3 beautiful children, who live in US.

[@engineero73]

@@MinimalistNomadWhich websites do you recommend?

[@MinimalistNomad]

@engineero73 Try "Indonesiancupid.com" There are others but I never tried them.

[@diyahariyani2005]

Surabaya... ❤❤❤

[@javlontuymanov5038]

Great video. Thank you

[@MinimalistNomad]

Right on👍

[@thomassmallwood2728]

Sir, did you have a better dating experience in Jakarta or Bali?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Jakarta is better because there are way more girls available.

[@thomassmallwood2728]

@MinimalistNomad Thank you sir.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@thomassmallwood2728 👍

[@mohamedfiraz7041]

Good vidio What do u do for living

[@MinimalistNomad]

I am in the hospitality industry.

[@mohamedfiraz7041]

@@MinimalistNomad Thats nice Iam urgent need of finance for medical help me

[@johnabrah8065]

I love Indonesia woman but I am living at usa do they travel?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Many of them don't have the means to travel. If you want to meet them you have to travel to Indonesia.

[@davehough8777]

First meet, i think you need to come here...

[@leigh8926]

You must be converting to moslem first they're devoted to husband

[@saintluke2nd]

How are Indonesian women with age gap relationships ? Is it similar to Philippines?

[@MinimalistNomad]

The age gaps in Indonesia between a foreigner and a local woman range between 5 to 20 years in my experience.

[@rhuning2875]

Indonesian girl don't want to

[@davehough8777]

I don't know many foreigners want to date Indonesian women....

[@kamel3d]

I want to date one of them

[@islandboy1492]

Thanks

[@MinimalistNomad]

Appreciated Mate, thanks 👍

[@islandboy1492]

@@MinimalistNomadsure great content. I've lived in Indonesia and find your videos accurate.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@islandboy1492 Thanks for verifying👍

[@islandboy1492]

@@MinimalistNomad if you offering paid Zoom calls, I would like to get in contact with you for some SEA travel advice, if so please let me know how to reach you

[@johngrauerholz-mr.mean-spi9603]

Pertama, jika Anda ingin berkencan dengan wanita Indonesia yang berkualitas, maka Anda perlu bisa berbicara bahasa daerah. Anda tidak harus bisa berbahasa Indonesia dengan lancar, namun Anda harus bisa memahami apa yang disampaikan kepada Anda. Kedua, untuk semua tujuan praktis, Anda harus tampil sebagai seorang Muslim. Anda sebenarnya tidak perlu pindah agama, tetapi Anda harus memiliki cukup pengetahuan tentang agama untuk berpura-pura menjadi Muslim. Ketiga, Anda butuh uang. Banyak uang.

[@jasond9401]

​ @MinimalistNomad What are the best dating sites for Indonesia?

[@MinimalistNomad]

I used Indonesian Cupid.