9 Ways to Simplify Your Life Today | MINIMALISM

[@dawnm5834]

I grew up with parents who were financially irresponsible. A lot of times we had to wait for things like shoes and jackets etc. It’s created an unhealthy relationship with things for me in the past. I over compensate for my kids and their needs so they don’t ever feel like they’re lacking. We’ve had to scale back and as I teach them, I teach myself as well, all our needs are met. We only buy things we need. It’s ok to acknowledge we’ve been irresponsible and bought too much. In the future we will do better. Clutter causes me so much stress, yet I’m usually the only who introduces the new items to our home. Life is complicated but I’m thankful for videos like this that remind me why I’m choosing simple, slow living.

[@foxyred1015]

Love it’ “ Simple, slow living”. Our scociety puts so much pressure on us. If you are not busy every single second of your day it feels wrong. I am learning how to slow down and not have my kids in 10 afterschool activities, because it causes anxiety for me and my children.

[@holysimplicity]

This was so beautifully said. Thank you.

[@margaretmatheny]

I had to unlearn a lot too in my adulthood. I'm the same way, clutter and mess stress me out so badly! I wanted a solution so that's how I got here...and I just want to keep learning and evolving because of what I've experienced. Life is complicated, but gosh we're so capable of changing our cards. Thanks for sharing this

[@EasyNaturalLiving]

Sounds a lot like me, I am dealing with the same problems and that means I have to declutter and recover from my hoarding. I am working on it for 3 years now and was making really good progress, almost down ro only what we need and use. Now my mother-in-law died and we have to take care for her stuff also. I feel like the last 3 years were just exercising for the big mess we are in right now 🙈but I keep going as good as I can and hope it will get better soon 🙏🏻😪

[@debiulmer3672]

I am a 61-year-old woman that loves decorating. I have my entire adult life. So consequently I have duplicates, triplicates and quadruples of many of the same thing just slightly different. After watching your channel I decided that I would take the extras of my front porch decorations, some I’ve had for 30 years, and decorate some of the neighbors front porches! I’m not sure who is more excited myself or my neighbors. It is so awesome to look out my front window and see my old beloved decorations being utilized by my neighbors. I feel truly blessed having so many extras and being able to share them. Thank you for teaching us the simple and true meaning of life.

[@NikkiSchumacherOfficial]

That’s cool. I’d love to be your neighbor 😆 I hated decorations and thought of them as clutter UNTIL I realized my little daughters LOVE them and feel more at home when our home is decorated seasonally. A neighbor offering to decorate the porch is such a sweet gesture. Some neighbors may not like it but most probably would!!

[@moirahenriksen3527]

I just found you. I’m a nearly 66 year old lady in Australia. It’s so lovely to listen to a young mother who wants and is living simple. I look forward to following your vlogs.

[@meganwright2541]

The little kiddo interuption was what this mama needed :) because it was darling and having 4 I lived a life interupted but sometimes I forget that they are the most important interruptions

[@margaretmatheny]

YES!

[@-living4jesus4ever-]

Your channel is my FAVORITE! It exudes such calm and peace and intentionality, especially because you always point life back to how it’s all about living wholeheartedly for Jesus! In Him we live and move and have our being-He’s why we are forever grateful and forever content in Him. Bless you, Sis in Christ. 😊💗🙏

[@margaretmatheny]

Ah so touched to read this. Thank you!! Working on my deep satisfaction in the Lord daily. Thanks for sharing these encouraging words.

[@staceypennington919]

I am loving decluttering my house and cleaning out. I have not missed ONE THING we have sold or donated. I am so appreciative to Dawn from The Minimal Mom for sparking this in me. I love the phone idea. I should start putting mine on silent when I am home. I need to go in and delete contacts. I am working on getting the photos off the phone too.

[@margaretmatheny]

Wow, amazing!! Dawn is such a great resource, one of my favorites too!

[@sandhyastudyvlog8474]

I am from India n i m really greatfull to have such people like you who share there ups n down n showing that not only luxury matters but being good human beings is very important thank you so much n may god bless you i m just 16 but i love to watch and learn good habits from you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BallroomJenni]

I love the notion of writing down needs and wants. We as a society have become so absorbed with instant gratification, and delaying those needs is such a great idea! It helps in so many ways, with budgets, entitlement, helping give ideas for people for gift giving... I am going to work on that for the rest of this season. Thank you

[@ThisLifeFromScratch]

I found this tip so helpful as well!🤗 I'll be working on that too... Thanks Margaret!

[@brandyclark6641]

I have used the list system for a long time. I also have lists for my husband and rest of my family so that I can gift intentionally as well. I find too that sometimes when I review my want list that things I have listed I no longer want to have. I am working at developing a better schedule to fit in things that are healthier for me such as journaling, bible, tea time and stretching/yoga and a 30 minute walk. I need those things for myself but I am struggling to get them to fit into my day. It’s hit and miss more than I like😕so happy to see your video today and just as excited for the next one. Thank you!

[@heathersantiago9845]

Not only are your videos calming to watch I love your message. I am actively working on simplifying, minimizing and staying present. As I was listening to the video I was clearing out a little kitchen clutter. ❤ sometimes it helps too to know you’re not the only one going through the process. Appreciate you!

[@margaretmatheny]

Thanks, Heather. These words are so kind!

[@sarahjustice2416]

Love this. I’ve just started getting my youngest son to write 3 things each day he is grateful for. It is genuinely one of my favourite parts of the day x

[@margaretmatheny]

So beautiful. When my kids can write, we are going to do that too. Great idea!

[@boomshine87]

I'm paraphrasing but I loved when you said you'd rather live in gratitude than live in a state of want. So powerful.

[@womenofgodunited]

Did your son just say, “yes ma’am?” 😢 so much respect ❤❤❤

[@katie3700]

I felt led recently to look up what the Bible means to "die to self" and find this fits so well with it - while tI don't believe there is anything inherently wrong with consuming some things of this world that we actually need (as well as having some wants as well!) - when we overconsume anything, we start to make things of this world more than what they were ever intended to be - we miss out on all the wonderful things that a true and close relationship with God can be , as well as knowing that the most important job as a parent is to get our children there as well (PS if you have never read Scared Parenting, do!) - I have been so convicted of this recently and have refocused - a simple life makes this possible and so much clearer! Always inspired by you! Hope you are doing well!

[@margaretmatheny]

Wow, so beautiful. I'll read that for sure, sounds like it right up my alley!

[@jamiekelly717]

Great video! Like sitting with a best friend 💚 Loving the blouse! Beautiful!

[@Kelfieb]

My morning routine for years no matter how busy, brush your teeth, eat your breakfast, has helped me so much.

[@michellesparling8850]

Trying to transform from a super consumer to more of a minimalist. I'm taking baby steps; it's going to take me awhile. Compared to other decluttering videos, I find your voice calming. Watching some of them can hype me up, but your voice is calming. Great Job!

[@juststeph6940]

I just found your channel and I have been binge watching your videos. I am working towards a more minimal, simple and intentional living. So far I have made 5 car loads of donations and we have been taking more walks.

[@margaretmatheny]

Wow, so so great!! So glad you're here!

[@ThisLifeFromScratch]

Margaret, you spoke so many truth on this video! Absolutely one of the best video on how to better ourselves! keep going sweet lady! You are truly inspiring us! 🤗

[@margaretmatheny]

🥺Wow, thank you. These words are so incredibly humbling and encouraging!!

[@kacieberry6101]

Love this! I created a running list on my phone for household/personal needs vs wants. When it comes to the wants- if I delay a purchase a lot of time the desire fades and it saves so much money. It’s instant gratification we’re after. But when it comes to the lists themselves, I feel less like a basket case when it comes to the actual “needs” of everyone and budgeting!

[@margaretmatheny]

Amazing!

[@evalindell2757]

I bought a book with blank pages and started to write a sort of journal with at least one thing I am grateful for, almost every day. I also write my workouts & physiotherapy, what I am reading and a to do list for the day, but try to write only 3 things to do on it. It all started because of you and the inspiration you gave me with your beautiful videos! Thank You 🙏 My mornings now starts, after walking the dog (🥶), with candle light and my gratitude and that includes you sweet Margaret ❤️

[@ThisLifeFromScratch]

Margaret, I feel like each of these tips needed a video of their own! Honestly, sooo many good points!

[@chloebeth4975]

Finally doing it. Ive heard you talk about putting your phone away from your bed when you go to bed. Finally bought an alarm clock and going to start doing it tonight. Im one that falls asleep to a movie on my phone so this will be a big change for my night routine. 👍 love your videos! Feels purposeful to spend time on youtube when watching then versus just scrolling through. ❤

[@-living4jesus4ever-]

Do you have an alarm clock you like? I can’t find one that’s peaceful 😅

[@margaretmatheny]

Mudita is a great option!

[@jennylhenry78]

1. Get to know myself! What do I like? What ticks me off? What makes me feel really happy? What makes me smile? What makes me calm down? What do I enjoy doing?

[@bethcampbell3988]

Preach!! Great advice and encouragement

[@alannahollier2719]

Perfect video for today, I absolutely love your content! Started the day off just feeling stressed from when the alarm went off, also coming down with a cold, and a child on antibiotics. So thank you so much for sharing this!

[@alannahollier2719]

Also your hair looks gorgeous today!

[@margaretmatheny]

Ah, I'm so so glad. Wish you could see my face! So touched that I could help you get through the day.

[@margaretmatheny]

haha thank you!!

[@jennylhenry78]

5. Get rid of any clothes that don't fit me. Removes the pressure of feeling that the present me needs to do better.

[@soulsamlove]

Once again , dropping gems from the heart. Thank you!

[@amelia944]

Beautiful video as always!

[@rockyduck9133]

I'm working on simplifying by not only editing out apps on my phone but also unsubscribing to old YT channels, people, and groups that no longer serve me well. To get to know myself I am turning off the tv and radio and setting my phone down.

[@margaretmatheny]

amazing!!

[@glui2001]

Great tips to try. Thx!

[@audramichie3129]

Love your video as usual! I’ve been working towards (not very successfully) the phone things you brought up. It’s been a quick fix crutch for stress that I know isn’t the best for me. Thanks for the encouragement! ❤

[@mam5420]

Thank you for your videos. This one made me emotional. Life is meant to be this way, thanks for the reminder.

[@margaretmatheny]

So welcome

[@alanagrieve1444]

Great video ❤from New Zealand

[@katiehamilton3915]

“I’ll get to it when I’m ready” 👏🏻🔥 YES! “With kids it doesn’t really work that way...!” Thank you for acknowledging this 💜 Your videos are always so calming 😊 Also, Ohmygosh was that your husband on a cereal box?!

[@raylaklein4255]

This video was so helpful. The best advice I’ve gotten being a new mom and wanting to slow life down :) thank you! ❤❤

[@margaretmatheny]

Ah really? Wow, I'm so touched and glad my words could support you in this stage of life

[@ddcjenn]

I loved this video….I loved it so much that I made notes and watched it twice. Thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@aliyamathiesen7290]

You reading Douglas Wilson had me subscribed 😂

[@heidiwhite6068]

This is simply brilliant, thank you for sharing girl 💜

[@angelamelum4304]

Need to work on numbers one and two. Started a gratitude journal this week actually, but I’m not allowed to light candles. 🤣

[@Nadjma111]

New subscriber here ! Thank you very much. Love from France.

[@DizziestLizziest]

i loved these tips, easy and practical and so worth it! 🤗👏🏽

[@sidneyfox4625]

Lovely!❤

[@John83118]

This is pure genius. I recently read a book with a similar topic, and it was truly captivating. "The Joy of Less: A Minimalist Living Guide" by Matthew Cove

[@amandadavis5658]

These are all great tips except for getting rid of duplicate scissors, lol! My kids take them consistently!!! Extras save my sanity 😉😉😉

[@margaretmatheny]

hahaha, so fair! My children do that too, lol.

[@justathought1971]

Just keep searching until you find those little things that make a big difference. Those babies have good little manners too momma … #respectmatters

[@veggied4life]

Have you found any non-toxic reusable kitchen napkins? I keep seeing ones with toxic flame retardants.

[@margaretmatheny]

OMG, I didn't know they were sprayed! I'll look out for that.

[@barborapetrujova8593]

Thank you for so much inspiring video! ♥️

[@jennylhenry78]

2. Control my phone. Turn off notifications; Delete excess apps; Plug phone in in a different room at night.

[@kicshiakicshia1374]

I needed to hear this…..Thank you

[@debrahiers1073]

Great job and great tips. Thank you. 🌸🌿

[@grahamchan4266]

Another tip is to not place a TV in your bedroom. Being deliberate about what I put into my sleep space. 😊 😊😊😊

[@jennylhenry78]

9. Simplify my kitchen. Keep only what we use.

[@ksplash-d4q]

A fellow Doug Wilson reader, I knew I liked you hehe :)

[@karinelaroche9266]

Would you do a minimal house tour soon? 🥰

[@jessietaylor7706]

Loved this

[@jennylhenry78]

4. Gratitude and a simplified life go hand in hand. Text someone 3 things I am grateful for every single day. My mind shift will change. It will change my life!

[@ggandara]

With the holidays coming up do you think you would be able to do a family gift guide? I am struggling this year on what to get people since I want it to be meaningful and non toxic. 😩

[@margaretmatheny]

YES! I'll get right on it!

[@lilianpoberezny4933]

Just 2 words.........Love it xx

[@Sophie-pi4ov]

Your channel is so heartwarming 🥰

[@margaretmatheny]

Thats so kind of you to say. Thank you!

[@cherllc7226]

Even the comments are thought provoking... :)

[@dpdeagles]

❤️ What if you knew it was good right now ❤️

[@ritabartasiute]

Simplifying tip - only have one type of socks. No more pairing socks!

[@margaretmatheny]

Oh yes, love it! Agree too!

[@robynr4384]

Love this so much! Thank you!!

[@peterhaydon1883]

Keep walking in the other direction, love it

[@KidPrimeTv]

Also the thing is, they don’t make things like they used to. And everything is like sooooo expensive now. Not only way more expensive but super low quality 🤦🏻‍♀️ that’s been my reason why I haven’t gotten rid of things.

[@paigeajamieson]

Love this!

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

're clothes my weight fluctuates so I always have to keep clothes that don't fit. Because I'm always having to go back to them. I've just had to dig out some smaller leggings because I've lost weight again.

[@FFlores79]

Except for the duplicate laundry basket 🤣

[@aioter]

Hope CurBot can bring you more creative inspiration and make your life better

[@l.gibson6422]

❤️

[@jennylhenry78]

8. Change my shopping. Finding ethically made items helps me to shop specifically. Write down my needs and my wants.

[@jennylhenry78]

7. Light candles! Slow down.

[@madeleinevonwielligh5931]

❤❤

[@jennylhenry78]

6. Add in simple routines.

[@jrb1737]

your pretty ❤️

[@reginafisher9919]

I'm going to try to buy nothing this year except what I have to have and maybe some plants, I've already started keeping every single receipt and writing every single thing down, I'm trying to have a no spend year so I can pay off my car. After that all I have is my mortgage and only $30,000, and I'm free. I will never get another house and I'm going to try to make this car lasts until I'm dead.

[@20032003felix]

You are so beautiful, Felix from Switzerland 🇨🇭😀

[@Haiokbai]

Humans have a natural hunting instinct. Go to a bookstore like Barnes and noble. If you want, get a tea or coffee and then indulge in reading books and magazines for free! Your mind will feel invigorated and your pocket still full.

[@jennylhenry78]

3. Get rid of doubles.

[@mariolorbes2936]

DON’T TELL ME WHAT TO DO….!

[@fatmaalzahraa9141]

🤍🤍🤍

[@healthylifeingredients6211]

Hey Margaret! By chance do you follow Elli Hurst on YT? She's a young, minimalist mom like you. I think you'd resonate with her. Enjoy... Leslie