How to spot a rationalization

[@tdbtdbthedeadbunny]

Couch in perfect focus.

[@freeman6231]

XD

[@smexyapman]

XD

[@StoutProper]

It's a nice couch

[@gickygackers]

@@StoutProper how to spot a couch

[@STaSHZILLA420]

This timeless comment is now in 2nd grade.

[@bryanb.386]

Eating all the cookies so they don't tempt you in the future, definitely is a good move.

[@mrsudarshan6249]

And move on to the bakery ...

[@darshandhabale143]

@Will.J U serious? Y tho, I think regular small doses of cookies are better

[@Barfriedrich12]

@@darshandhabale143 Whoosh

[@leewseea]

hahahaha

[@wacky.racoon]

Both are good moves depending on what the ultimate goal is.

[@allanmigdal3593]

This is the second video by Julia Galef I've watched, and as an attorney (though not a litigator), I find her insights particularly valuable for courtroom settings. Her analysis on how people rationalize their thought processes could be a powerful tool in litigation, especially in addressing the implicit biases that jurors-and even judges-may bring into the courtroom. By encouraging jurors to question how they interpret evidence, we can help them become aware of potential biases that might cloud their judgment. For instance, asking the jury to consider whether they would perceive the case differently if the defendant were a family member or someone they cared about can prompt a deeper level of self-reflection. This type of question could help uncover whether their inclinations are genuinely rooted in the facts of the case or influenced by subconscious preferences. A subtle appeal like this might not only foster a fairer judgment but also encourage jurors to weigh evidence more impartially, leading to decisions based more closely on facts than assumptions or predispositions.

[@Skiddla]

"Hi i'm julia." yeah sure, keep telling yourself that.

[@qqqmyes4509]

Haha

[@5frogfrenzy]

shaco no!!!

[@GaganSingh-nx2yv]

Lol

[@Nelex5000]

ahahahha

[@ksterlings197]

After a long life of hard work and a 3 year mentorship with several coaches and advisors I can now proudly call myself a registered Julia.

[@Sk0lzky]

Rationalisation is when I click on this video and convince myself I'm not a simp

[@diegobotto6245]

Lol same

[@spearshaker7974]

Damnit your right. But I didn’t listen to anything she said I just ran to comments. Plus this is like a decade old video so the wall done wrecked it I bet.

[@Sk0lzky]

@Dude Sweet I actually watched (well, listened to) her videos for several hours cuz they were interesting and informative lol

[@djoakeydoakey1076]

@@Sk0lzky If she was a man, would you still have clicked on the thumbnail doe? I don't think I would have. My rational brain is going "Yes this sounds interesting to learn". My lizard brain is going "HHUUHHHH PREETTYY WUUMANN",

[@Sk0lzky]

@@djoakeydoakey1076 Of course not, I clicked specifically to leave this comment xD Other videos were far more interesting though

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more not to be fool as a person who automatically Googling the words that are unfamiliar through Google translator... Vs Think more but to always remind to self that each new word I discovered the meaning, I should never forget once I recorded in my memory

[@theprotractor0379]

Can you stop fucking spamming this shit on every SINGLE one of her videos please

[@Thedarkknight2244]

I love how "old youtube" this video is. The camera quality, and the unrefined vlog style make this video seem so wholesome for some reason.

[@tommynobaka]

Because its back to basics. Its not trying to be somethings it not. It may not be as polished, but shines with honesty and getting to the point.

[@Algernon7]

Which is funny because I can remember being in 2011, reminiscing about the 'old youtube' as well.

[@markzuckerbread1865]

100% presentation skills 0% videography skills, the good ol days

[@sunkintree]

No cartoonishly exaggerated mannerisms, no fake painted smiles, no stupid faces, no "I made a dumb mistake, look at me, so relatable", no stupid edits

[@TheMathSorcerer]

This showed up on my recommended, I actually watched the whole thing, good video:)

[@sigmundfreud4472]

Hello :D.

[@ambientscience2951]

hi i am your subscriber .

[@Winterkingdom1]

Same!

[@hectorg362]

Same. It's weird because I haven't even watched videos about these topics.

[@dondankleberg4965]

the whole thing, its 4 minutes dude work on your attention span ._.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as a person who can handle the worse situation in life.. Vs Think more like you know the ups and downs in life is a life lesson that most of us don't learn at all

[@Mmxxaamm]

The algorithm has chosen you, all hail the almighty algorithm!

[@bandaro1234]

I wonder as whom the algorithm makes me classified. Was that cause I click a lot of scientific videos? Or maybe because algorithm thinks I'm simp and pretty face and an ok topic is all I need?

[@Mmxxaamm]

@@bandaro1234 Definitely the second one.

[@ancientdragon6049]

@@Mmxxaamm lol

[@catman1353]

I have been chosen brother... no more rationalization for me and that is a rationalization

[@jonatanc7491]

The youtube algorithm for suggestions has improved so much lately though it's quite interesting.

[@davidbrisbane7206]

Hey Julia, "Want to go out with me?" Julia replies, "No loser." Me rationalising. "I'm really not in to her. I was only trying to impove her self-esteem by asking her out."

[@amoral_minority]

omg, please never say or try to "improve someone's self-esteem", that's just awful haha

[@SeledBeats]

@@amoral_minority what

[@LukePalmer]

@@amoral_minority yeah like my biggest fear is that when people say nice things about me they are doing it to "help me" -- you know, as opposed to meaning what they say.

[@g.gaston3302]

@@amoral_minority Not only awful but also inaccurate. It's called SELF-esteem because it has nothing to do with what other people think of you, only what you think of yourself.

[@L30N4tER]

lul

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more the Hardest way with why we used element, when we define lists with bullets Vs Think more the Hardest way as how an ordered list creates a Numbered list

[@MM-vs2et]

How does she maintain that level of eye contact. It's intriguing

[@Wasabiofip]

You just put some tape over the camera's eyes so they don't psych you out as much

[@UrAWizard]

she's not looking into anyones eyes lol

[@Superkirbeh]

"intriguing" Shes turning you on bro. Dont kid yourself

[@MM-vs2et]

@@Superkirbeh That's obvious, but she's done ted talks and shit, so I'm guessing shes very experienced in public speaking, and informing

[@fucker9002]

@@Superkirbeh lmao

[@dmtgallardo]

I'm so happy for Julia and the fact that the algorithm is showing her work more and more.

[@simplenough]

It’s scary how that works though, innit? A society run by algorithms.

[@Willty64]

@@simplenough its almost as scary as a society run by people.

[@metametodo]

Are you? Or is it another rationalization? ;)

[@ThePro100DK]

Lol it's just because you've seen her videos and maybe liked it, yt adds a lot of her vids to you directly, not to everyone

[@s.aslahahmadfaizi4687]

@@ThePro100DK I doubt that. I had never heard of her and recieved a 9 year old vid. Also most of the comments are either 1 week or less old, or a few ywars old, which definitely implies something.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as one simple rule I learnt from you that nobody can't copying.. Vs Think more it's the only medicine that heals my spirit of being real

[@markmalinowski5951]

I applied this advice and I asked her out (my wife, not Julia) after overcoming my rationalizations... 11 years ago... and we've been married for 9. Best decision I've ever made. Rationalization is just a nice way of defeating yourself.

[@JonathanFetzerMagic]

Me too.

[@smallbluemachine]

Congratulations, Julia is a terrific catch!

[@markmalinowski5951]

@@smallbluemachine I'm not married to Julia, but my wife is also a smart hottie

[@smallbluemachine]

@@markmalinowski5951 My mistake, carry on.

[@ertyiopas1514]

but rationalisation is supposed to be rational. If you're rational enough then you see the solution to your problems. The term "rationalisation" used in this video is basically false excuses.

[@yahdood6015]

Rationalization: I'm watching this to learn how to spot a rationalization Reality: I'm watching because Julia is a beaut

[@gordo_careta]

simp

[@Mohtellawi]

@@gordo_careta Spitting facts is not simping

[@gordo_careta]

@@Mohtellawi ⚠️🚨 another simp spotted🚨⚠️

[@Tuguldur]

@@gordo_careta it's ok to be simp

[@Jehannum2000]

@@gordo_careta 2020 called. They want their buzzword back.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more till 07:21 PM with remaining 419 minutes of Tuesday... Vs Think more when I'm clear enough to left no dark spot in my mind

[@tiagoabreu7025]

"Imagine you're at a party" it's 2021 and I'm personnally offended my this

[@RESURRECT2]

I am offended on your behalf.

[@yellowdragon101]

i am a shut in and i am personally offended by this

[@masternerd64]

@@RESURRECT2 I am offended that you are offended on his behalf

[@guilhermetomas1595]

I live in Brazil

[@baskhemjingmutlyngdohmarsh925]

keyword 'imagine'

[@fourdoorsmoresmores]

This video radiates early youtube energy

[@Justacommentor777]

It is an early youtube video, its from 2011.

[@Sammysapphira]

@@Justacommentor777 2011 ain't early lmao More like KZbin before it became corporate garbage and overproduced videos

[@Justacommentor777]

@@Sammysapphira true

[@anthonylangston23]

This is such a stupid comment

[@KunjaBihariKrishna]

Yeah like wtf is that setting and light quality. Back then people hadn't really integrated computers into their lives yet. They put them in a weird room like this.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more this is how I overcomed Virtually Deceptions, no matter how effective the virtual Deceptions are... Vs Think more as wise with my daily hand photo updating like how I offer you to not letting it go and hold it as wise as your close companion who was there for you wherever you go

[@hiranmoyghosh6959]

The level of maintaining the eye contact is unmatched

[@breakingthemasks]

Wow this girl's been making videos for 10 years. So interesting to watch the years roll by.

[@zaknefain100]

She doesn't age.

[@AndreCoelhoSa]

This boy has made a patronizing comment.

[@guitaristssuck8979]

Stop rationalizing

[@Shadow77999]

@@zaknefain100 she did and its fucking depressing

[@evannibbe9375]

@@Shadow77999 How so? She looks exactly the same.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think less the highest form of Knowledge is Kindness... Vs Think less the wisdom is the right use of knowledge

[@perryabruz6846]

she put effort in this video and y'all aren't even interested in what she saying because of her legitemely good appearence.

[@shinobix4925]

Honestly I clicked this video because I had no idea what a "rationalisation" was but it sounded interesting. At first I thought I was an idiot for not just working out the meaning based on the word alone, but now I just feel proud I actually came here to learn something as intended rather than to just be a simp

[@perryabruz6846]

@@shinobix4925 same💖

[@shinobix4925]

@@perryabruz6846 Hell yeah, normal people unite 🙏

[@Slickdown]

tbf i clicked for the thumbnail but stayed for the content

[@perryabruz6846]

@@Slickdown that's legit at least

[@CairoQuinn]

Posted on 4/20, length 4:20. I see what you did there.

[@addibro4284]

Wow. I noticed the video length and thought "ah funny number but probably just a coincidence", but with the date too? That's too much, man!

[@garrettmathews3901]

I thought no one else would mention it

[@era1442]

Some stoner reading this comment and rationalizing: "That's a perfectly good reason to smoke right now"

[@addibro4284]

@Carlos Moscoso Yeah I’d think so. The devils lettuce has been around a while.

[@g.gaston3302]

@Carlos Moscoso I remember it from 2008.

[@Onlyiniran]

Hi Julia, you explain rationality very interestingly. I think I need to change my field of study

[@TransparentLabyrinth]

You covered most of the examples that popped into my head. I'd add that emotions tend to be tied directly into rationalizations. Fear is probably the biggest source of rationalizations, with some of its success being rooted in legitimate reasons to be afraid, i.e. it's a bad idea to step in front of a moving car, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't walk in parking lots because a car might back out. The "if I finish these cookies now, I won't be tempted to eat them later" rationalization (I'm definitely familiar with that one) can be rooted in the fear of dealing with the stress of resisting eating those cookies. Or the fear that by having them now and later, you'll solidify an addiction to eating them. In both cases, the reasons are sort of legitimate, but the problem is with assuming that your only option is to eat all the cookies now or eat them later. There is also the third option: Throw them out. Or even a fourth and fifth (hide them or give them to someone else). Politics love to play on that kind of thinking with the dichotomous issues they present. Pro life / pro choice, etc., with no third option or beyond. So I'd suggest an additional technique: If you're rationalizing between option A and option B, look for a C, D, or E because you probably have more choices than you think.

[@gayathrivengatesan6571]

Can you give some advertisements as example for rationalization ?

[@jackbicknell4711]

Interesting, cheers 👍🏻

[@esser50k]

I'm getting all your videos recommended. They are so good and timeless. Most of your videos are actually teaching people how to think and spot holes in their thought process.

[@bawahtanah4705]

i hope i found this video since its uploaded , thanks julia.

[@crazymexicandope]

It's so damn refreshing to listen to rationality pour out of someone's mouth. Music to my ears

[@joshuamunoz3310]

Simp

[@iiXchan]

a 20 year old calling someone else a simp @@joshuamunoz3310 ... lol dude

[@etherheaded]

Weirdo

[@selenaivanovic2348]

@@joshuamunoz3310 why? cause liking a video made by a women makes you a simp? i srsly don't understand this comment section. i clicked bc i like hearing something about psychology, and everyone is like: SHE PRETYYYY. U SIMP! NO U SIMP! like wtf people, chill a little... this makes me wish you could filter videos out of your recommended based on people who comment on it.

[@countbopula7513]

This is literally something I've been thinking about a lot, and the algorithm giveth fruit. Thank you, Julia.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more here's the point since 2011... Vs Think more as a person whom I can only feel matching to reveal anything that have in my heart

[@emanergza6383]

I'm rationalizing why I clicked this video without coming to a conclusion that I did it because you're pretty.

[@soffren]

this is the highest wisdom i've found in this comments section

[@mighty_zero]

Same, honestly...

[@zachariahtuttle3543]

same

[@zeuxlaught2797]

nothing wrong if you got quite an insight on rationalization because of her being pretty

[@louiselincoln]

@mist crypt - a better question might be, why did you stay and listen?

[@andyzhang7890]

Simp/algorithm comments aside, this is genuinely a good lesson.

[@TG-wg4tw]

I really just cant concentrate at what she said. And of course I'm not a simp, I think...

[@JimnesstarLyngdohNonglait]

Think more the quickest intuitively way as wise as how I know, what makes me sticking to you on a regular intuitive pattern even when you're not wishing me to do so... Vs Think more the quickest intuitively way as wise as how I repeatedly admired you for one reason, for whatever instructions you made available for me is a reflection of what you see inside me, and continuously filtering my way of living

[@MrDrProfJMF]

*eats all cookies to make future self healthier* This is what is known as a pro-gamer move

[@marcellgyurjan5055]

similar to me smoking the whole pack of cigs so i can run out of cigs faster

[@ValleyData]

I like how you elaborated so smoothly on this subject. Perfect timing too, Thanks for sharing.

[@SeventhQuark]

this video is so old, i'd love to hear a general overview of some important things you feel like you've learned since then

[@greenman5255]

"Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive...ourselves."

[@rjamsbury1]

Above all things be true unto thine ownself

[@qqqmyes4509]

Thanks for the beautiful couplet

[@arande3]

It's trippy to see a younger-than-me Julia here from a different era. Julia's ideas were a big part of my reality during that era, remember emailing her a bit questioning these ideas. Seemed crazy that you could just talk to anyone back then, now it's more normal it seems.

[@greggeverman5578]

A blast from the past.

[@alexandria5758]

What kind of ideas are you into these days?

[@arande3]

@@alexandria5758 Well I'm thinking about how to make music more emotional and how to experience it more deeply, and exploring all the things it can mean. More deeply I'm studying emotions, shame, feeling "good enough" and so on 😉☺

[@GL-GildedLining]

@@arande3 If you haven't yet, I recommend looking into Manfred Clynes. There's a Brain Pickings article from 2011 called "Sentics: Emotional Healing Through Music and Touch" which may be of interest to you. Unfortunately, he has passed away and his websites (I can't link directly without the spam filter freaking out) senticcycles org and microsoundmusic com are offline now, but Wayback Machine still has them. Lots to learn from there! Good luck!

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more by speaking to it until it's gone... Vs Think more by condemning to it until every one realise

[@bobzone09]

These videos have been insanely useful to me, and I really appreciate you taking the time to share your ideas on a public forum. I'm constantly looking for ways to outsmart myself outsmarting myself (smartception?) so that I can figure out how I really feel and when I'm making a rationalization.

[@SluggishSlooge]

Its impossible to be objective without understanding your own rationalizations. Definitely critical to understand.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more if you're still managed to find the dark spot in me... Vs Think more yet you can't always expect me to be as good as you wanted me to be

[@davidmurphy563]

Huh, what an interesting recommendation and from an ancient video too.

[@trollop_7]

When are you going to realize that you are the product?

[@davidmurphy563]

@@trollop_7 Tell me how much you're offering and we'll talk.

[@trollop_7]

@@davidmurphy563 I only offer enlightenment.

[@davidmurphy563]

@@trollop_7 Nah, already got one of those in the loft somewhere. If you have a brake light for a 2016 Nissan Leaf then you can have my soul on the second Wednesday in June. Work for you?

[@trollop_7]

@@davidmurphy563 I have a box of bulbs for the Datsun Cherry (1984). How bout that?

[@heller166]

random youtube recommendation that turned out to be something I needed to hear haha

[@Sc-so6od]

Perhaps not so random...

[@benkleschinsky]

Lol. Why did KZbin recommend this to me?

[@oSLOTHo]

@@benkleschinsky Because you needed to hear it xD so did I.

[@revi.talose.8643]

@@benkleschinsky KZbin works in mysterious ways

[@XuyenaFire]

It's learning more and more about you

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more not to happily happy interfering other's businesses... Vs Think more but to rationalise the un-picked treasure I usually encountered as deadline time chaser

[@mememan3279]

i could rewind the time 10 years back and ask this lady out, but then i rationalised she ain't gonna take a 12 year old seriously

[@rgarlinyc]

Honestly, you're one of the most interesting and intelligent persons I've ever been fortunate enough to stumble across. I could listen to you argue/explain/ educate... all day! Thank you immensely.💝 (P.s.. I don't know why I sometimes find the need to start sentences with "honestly".😄🤦🏻‍♂️)

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more the hardest way to always have a mind that knowing how to be still... Think more the hardest way to carry on with what I'm specifically live by everyday

[@UteChewb]

Love your work, Julia. Your vids are carefully thought out and succinct.

[@clownsleftjokersright7027]

If her vid was thought out, she would have straighten up the couch.

[@zeoneous]

@@clownsleftjokersright7027 But that the point, it's not about the couch.

[@BANKO007]

The cookie rationalization is one I use all the time.

[@Competitive_Antagonist]

I always rationalise it because my life is very stressful. Though this over eating just makes my life even more stressful. I've managed to give up smoking to improve my stress levels, I just need to control my vaping and snusing more. I need to apply the same logic to my eating.

[@sandorski56]

How is it a Rationalization when it is True? The cookies beckon you to fulfill their destiny....

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more to always deal with one originally old you as new you every day... Vs Think more it's the only path of knowledge that no one can copy from me

[@whaith1359]

eleven days from now this video will be 10 years old and for some reason it is a yt recommendation

[@garysquarepants898]

Nostalgia, that's what i feel seeing how spontaneous is this video

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more to always be accurate while I pointing out to others... Vs Think more like I know I didn't like to get myself in trouble with others all the time

[@otiebrown9999]

Rationalization: Why am I watching this - 9 years later? Julia is truly the, "it", girl in terms of good looks, and her Philosophy of beliefs!

[@Cristian-tl9tt]

This unbroken eye contact and intellectually stimulating conversation is doing things for me...

[@twinbruisesonmyshins]

weird

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more to teach others a good lesson... Vs Think more the best part to be a good exampler

[@cerealkellah3947]

Nobody: [10 years later] This video: "Allow me to introduce myself..."

[@fullmetaltheorist]

I know I'm not the only man who clicked in this cause I'm a simp and not learn about rationalization.

[@NoeyVI]

Yeah you're not the only one

[@BitchChill]

Do you guys even know the definition of a simp?

[@chickenflavor9880]

@@BitchChill exactly being attracted to a women doesn't mean simp fucking normies.

[@cobi617]

@@chickenflavor9880 fuCkInG nOrMiEs

[@ohlesi910]

@@cobi617 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[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as wise as possible with for one reason that made everyone to meet each other from far or short distance relatives.. Vs Think less as bride's bed that welcomed the groom on first wedding night

[@kennethara2034]

I feel like there's gonna be a jump scare any second in the video

[@AshbyManson]

I've just enjoyed a number of your videos. Thank you! I have a small quibble with this one- I think you can also rationalize to support things that are true or good. It is a specious, flawed, or motivated form of reasoning (or the illusion of reasoning), but its use is not limited to supporting irrational beliefs or justifying self indulgence. Fallacious reasoning implies (but does not require) a false conclusion. Noble cause corruption would probably make extensive use of rationalizations. Thanks for the videos! Love the one on Bayesian logic.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more till 10:04PM Vs Think more as a person who repeatedly commented your videos from first till last video every days

[@HaZZb97]

This has made me realize how much bs I tell myself in my day to day life and how many opportunities it has cost me holy shit

[@tariqo16]

so finally after almost 10 years youtube thought it was a goood idea to let this video pop up , anyway it was good

[@abimon76]

so eloquent, honestly aspirational

[@buildinasentry1046]

Holy shit the one about putting school before a relationship is genuinely what i do.

[@metaljugger]

Well I don't think the example given about not respecting a girl for going home with a guy on the first night isn't so irrational. I don't respect anyone I don't know, too often respect is conflated with common courtesy and people seem to think they are owed respect for merely introducing themselves. Common courtesy is the fake smile and meek apology I give when i pass someone in the frozen foods section of Tesco, respect is mutual understanding and trust derived from the personal experience of both parties. A first date isn't going to make me trust you and it sure as shit doesn't make me respect you. A friend I have chosen to spend years getting to know and trusting because we share mutual experience that lets both of us know the principles and flaws of each over is not something you're going to even graze by smiling at me. I can chat absolute shit at someone I respect, insult their mother, insist that I fucked their sister and whatever, because when the chips are down both of us know that we have each other's backs. Some random girl I met on tinder? Fuck no. Their coming home with me on the first night shows that they're loose and in this only for sexual gratification, which is fine if they're just looking for that, but don't expect me to salute them for their bravery. They're not my friend and they mean nothing to me beyond tonight's lay, this has nothing to do with respect. If my friend did something that made me lose trust him, it would hurt and I would have to think long and hard about what I must do in response, this will make me lose some respect for him but I would rather seek to rekindle it. If a girl I met on tinder a month ago walks out on me, I won't make lose a second of sleep over it. I am prepared to defend that this isn't rationalization, its commitment to my own principles. People I don't know are not worthy of my respect, that is something that we both earn.

[@user-zv7yb4yp9g]

yeah

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as I walked from home till a 252m distance tiny hut, as I passed through 2 parked light vehicles, a jungle four-wheeler truck that delivered the sawmill cutted furnituring woods to a 12 wheelers National Permit truck... Vs Think more as 5-6 moving vehicles that passed through after I reach the roadside tiny hut

[@genepozniak]

"I defy you to get through one day without having to make at least one big fat juicy rationalization." -Jeff Goldblum's character in The Big Chill.

[@mapsinanutshell]

Yes, everyone else is getting this in their recommended now after 9 years too.

[@jardel_lucca]

That's obviously because she was ahead of her time :)

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as honest me secondly within the night Vs Think more like you know what makes me sleepless and what makes me to sleep a deep slee

[@casualsatanist5808]

Ah yes, the reason why i decided to click on this video was NOT because of the attractive female in the thumbnail...oh no no, RATHER it was because i was genuinely quite interested in the topic of the video!

[@brianellisiscool5875]

Sounds like a rationalization

[@OrchestrationOnline]

Thanks, Julia, terrific video!

[@lacanian1500]

whoa, hello

[@OrchestrationOnline]

@@lacanian1500 Hi there. 😊

[@lacanian1500]

@@OrchestrationOnline I wasn't expecting you here

[@RungWorks]

Awesome video. I feel like I can have total control already

[@anchiit]

This is some 'MKBHD reviewing a HP Laptop Media Remote' level of old school recommendation

[@geoffroymb]

My problem is that I know perfectly well my actions are unreasonable, and I still do them, because... well, that's another topic.

[@palitov6175]

just rationalize about that; why do you prefer unreasonable actions more than the reasonable ones?

[@boylain8481]

me too it feels like i just lose control of myself or some pesty thoughts get over me, but then after i do the bad thing i instantly regret and think"how was i so dumb to do that"

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more how to behave when visiting a friend's, neighbour's, relative's, classmate's, colleagues's, teacher's, sibling's house... Vs Think while they're watching TV, cooking, washing, busying, phone talking, reading etc

[@emilrode9383]

The guy she noticed checking her out at a party and not talking to her when he sees this video: :o

[@gelfrecs]

Big brain comment

[@zodlord5669]

I think in your friend's example you actually neglected the fact that your guy friend said "Stranger,"

[@aeggeska1]

Yeah. Going home to a stranger the first time you meet, is really fucking weird behavior imo.

[@zodlord5669]

@Noah Copeland I don't think it's about respect, it's more about fear.

[@zodlord5669]

@Noah Copeland Ok I understand but context and social expectations could really blur that line. I'm sure if you had a friend who is a big man go home with a unknown woman you wouldn't have a second thought about it but if you're small girlfriend went home with the big man she just met one the first date you might think twice. That said I'm sure there are women who lose respect for men if they saw that he went home with a stranger. Perspective is important.

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

@Noah Copeland Why would he care if his male friend went home with a stranger? I think the whole point is the guy is saying he would not take a woman seriously who goes home with a strange man after one interaction. I am assuming the friend is heterosexual, so it means he would not respect her as a mate. Most heterosexual dudes won't care what other men are doing with their sexual lives cause they are not trying to date or procreate with those men, very different mentality.

[@bee-ep9qz]

@@nostalgicbliss5547 The point was that it was a rationalisation, not the real reason he disrespected those women. He didn't lose respect for the woman based on the *_riskiness_* of her decision, since he didn't lose respect for other people like his male friends based on whether they took similarly risky decisions (if he had answered that yes, he does lose respect for his male friends in this case, then it would not be a rationalisation, just truth). He loses respect based on other factors, probably related to purity (or maybe not, I just said probably). Again, if he had said he loses respect for people in other situations who make similarly risky choices, it would not be a rationalisation. And to be even more precise, if he doesn't lose respect for his male friends when they make similarly risky sexual decisions, then it was just a rationalization that it was the *_riskiness_* of her decision that made him lose respect, and not something else. Whether he's justified in his judgment of those women is besides the point, it's just that the reason he gave for disrespecting them is not the real reason. Another way to poke a hole in that is just to ask, if she was a trained martial artist who went home with a guy on the first date, would he still lose respect for her? If he still thinks she shouldn't have said yes on the first date to going home, then it's something else that's making him judge her.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more to rationalise my anger behaviour to you automatically... Vs Think more as it comes from my love and care feeling but not from my double standard mind

[@r.t.5767]

I see everyone is getting it in their recommendations right now Good video though

[@julzabro]

Excellent! I wish more people would consider this stuff!

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more not even wanted to talk about it "me"... Vs Think more yet still wanted not to cancel what I already said "me"

[@MadSheogorath]

Yup. Always did the same to myself. Besides. Fears are never about something you should avoid. It's just about something you should think about and analyze. It's an indicator. Tool.

[@tima5033]

Very well put. I really like that idea of fears being an opportunity to analyze. I have a lot of social fears and anxiety and I think this way of thinking could be very useful. Scares me to consider really using this way of thinking about my fears haha

[@goldmoogle]

A 4:20 video posted on 4/20? Coincidental? Unlikely

[@thisisbob1001]

Illuminati!

[@Username-ei4ff]

She’s that into weed.

[@bp56789]

Julia likes weed? I guess I can keep using it then.

[@Sir.Rollback]

your profile pic gave me instant depression

[@goldmoogle]

@@Sir.Rollback well aren't you just a delightfully cheery person; sorry cigarettes have such an effect on your mood

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more when I'm wise enough to know to whom I was talking to... Vs Think more it doesn't mean I sold my soul to someone who wasn't you neither who wasn't me either

[@thegoodthebadandtheugly579]

So, this video was posted only 10 years ago. Julia is a grown up woman now :) youtube is such a weird place.. I can imagine how weird it will be when people in the next generation of KZbin will be watching all of these videos of old or dead people when they were young and all the way to their last posts.. 🤔

[@cesardiezv]

And, will dead people in old videos be called catacombers?

[@thegoodthebadandtheugly579]

@@cesardiezv maybe You-Tombers

[@cesardiezv]

@@thegoodthebadandtheugly579 I think I like it. 😂

[@ahnrho]

Yeah.

[@jamesupton4996]

We're always watching dead people: just watch movies.

[@Nifava]

Our entire life is already a constant stream of random decisions. It's enough hard already to complicate things further by second guessing yourself on every small choice. Keep it for the big important ones.

[@jardel_lucca]

Good point!

[@blackguythompson]

It’s always someone named Marc who says something logical.

[@Bratjuuc]

There's no reason you should not try to do reasonable choices even if they are small ones.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more as imperfect hand Vs Think more because of imperfect eyes that urge the mind to tempt it's soul

[@nextgenfootball69420]

thing is I know when I'm rationalizing something but I do it anyways, how does one stop that now

[@stp479]

Perfecting this would starve our confirmation bias.

[@jimnesstarlyngdohnonglait3468]

Think more if you wanted to prove how good you are as a person to me... Vs Think more if you think I'm not good enough to you by such Honesty that I constantly reminded you

[@MashZ]

bruh I just took a philosophy course in college and this showed up in my recommendations. algorithm knows it all

[@JetsuVEVO]

Me: wow shes cute imma just click on this video *after the video* Me: wow im so happy i clicked on this video to spot a rationalization

[@ReadingDave]

I have shared these eating rationalizations. Thanks for the understandings and practices.

[@JAYDUBYAH29]

Awww it’s baby Julia! ❤️