i am happy being who i am. everyone should, as long as we are not hurting people
@tobygraham95648 жыл бұрын
This was like a frickin rom-com or something. All the drama! XD
@TiaNEVERTamera10 жыл бұрын
"omg id turn gay if i had sex with that too har har har" dude. seriously? are you even watching? i was still with him after that. the names are uncalled for. keep the hate to yourselves tyvm. i didnt ask to get put on youtube for all of you to critize my body, i did NOT give up on myself. prescription medication made me gain a ton of weight and i had no metabolism or motivation to fix it. so instead of critizising me maybe you should look at yourself in the mirror and ask why you have to go on youtube and make extremely hateful comments about peoples appeareance. cus i know i dont have to do that to make myself feel better.
@Sarahdactile10 жыл бұрын
You go girl hot damn
@LiveloveRosexo10 жыл бұрын
Girl it's better for you not to look at all the hate better yet the comments, you know people are going to talk regardless, skinny, fat, tall, and short
@TiaNEVERTamera10 жыл бұрын
who wouldnt read commentson youtube? think about it. it wouldnt let anyone feel better about yourself either. think about it
@colbyjackqueso10 жыл бұрын
Tia Dickerson I understand where you're coming from, I LOVE reading comments on youtube, but you have to understand - over the internet, people are douchebags. People will try to belittle somebody over the smallest comments, I'm pretty sure if you keep reading comments - it's even hate comments toward Tyra. Human nature for some - can't help it, just gotta brush it off, and understand. On another note - I applaud you for giving all these gay men a chance. I'm bisexual myself, and it was hard for me to ever find girlfriends who are okay with my lifestyle. I know it wasn't your intent to help them figure themselves out, and you were actually looking for love - but you actually helped these guys out. I'm sorry to say, but they are both gay (I'm not even going with the bisexual card here), they both seem like nice guys, and honestly ..I mean I don't know the situation, but I think they'd do well with each other. Keep them as friends and search for a relationship where you don't have to give it your all, you deserve to be spoiled and treated like a Queen, not the other way around.
@lovelyloser297210 жыл бұрын
You tell em gurl! You are beautiful! Just remember curvy or skinny you have a beautiful smile! :D
@UltraNinjaMZ8 жыл бұрын
She got friend-zoned on live tv
@SocialClout22 сағат бұрын
gay-zoned
@Dee8M12 жыл бұрын
tyra is so gorgeous !
@xXTiana123Xx9 жыл бұрын
i think that shane dude is asexual but he doesn't know it bc he was never educated about it this is why children should be taught about sexuality in school at some point in their lives it's so important
@jendergirlos8 жыл бұрын
He isn't asexual, he wrote on here and he knows what asexuality is he still calls himself gay.
@bodoorgeest6 жыл бұрын
@@jendergirlos, you can be gay and a-sexual.
@MisterCrowley2711 жыл бұрын
American society and culture has really fucked these people up. We live in a place where people say that men are supposed to be a certain way and women are supposed to be a certain way, and there are no exceptions. People need to learn that they can just be the way they are, and that identity is not carved in stone. There are an infinite number of variations among humanity, and that's what makes us great. We don't have to fall into certain stereotypes, or abide by societal norms.
@mygoat060411 жыл бұрын
The least thing I would want, in Gregg's shoes, would be my auntie pushing me into the gay community. Nontheless, it's really nice of her to have a good heart and an open mind and the willingness to really put them into action, and luckily it worked out well for Gregg.
@Kanjese12 жыл бұрын
I think the thing is that Gregg doesn't HATE that he's gay, he just doesn't know how or what's it like to be gay.
@abhy987610 жыл бұрын
I shall be a straight when I turn 100.
@GreatBlueKnight10 жыл бұрын
I'll be gay when I turn 200.
@abhy98769 жыл бұрын
***** Gay means happy. You will never be happy :p
@MrTrinifather13 жыл бұрын
Tia's face when Skyler said he has no feelings for Tia :(
@jesswise18638 ай бұрын
Isn’t skyler gay ?
@KailashCiaran10 жыл бұрын
I love Tyra
@ValravnPrince11 жыл бұрын
I love how people think being gay is a choice. I'm a straight guy, I can acknowledge a good looking guy but I couldn't have sex with them. it's the same with gay people, forcing them to 'love' and have sex with the opposite sex is wrong and is unnatural. You love who you love. Have sex with who ever you want as long as it's legal and not hurting anyone.
@philipsmog12 жыл бұрын
Gregg is smart cute and genuine
@alejandrosifuentes24233 жыл бұрын
It's society they make it harder for us with jokes, harassment, making fun of you, bothering you, it's hell for me I'm bisexual but I don't want to be
@KailashCiaran10 жыл бұрын
Skyler is kinda cute
@sercho1811 жыл бұрын
OMG! Skyler so cute!!!
@haozi297810 жыл бұрын
Totally
@jesswise18638 ай бұрын
He’s adorable, I wouldn’t give him up
@gypsygypsy131311 жыл бұрын
I love having my period. It's magical and potent!!
@tania087410 жыл бұрын
?
@DonnieVision7235 жыл бұрын
The fuck
@Mrperson66212 жыл бұрын
change---> "I just want to be like everyone else and be happy" to---> "I just want to be myself and be happy"
@2020Bookworm12 жыл бұрын
I would never go on tv and put it all out there for the whole world to listen to.
@Olivia-ny6nl4 жыл бұрын
"11 years from now" that's 2020, so question is did shane go straight in 2020 lol?
@Feliciatanktop3 жыл бұрын
Chile I’m tryna find out lmao wish I could find his @
@callumdolten74863 жыл бұрын
Thats what i said
@jesswise18638 ай бұрын
I’m curious about that too
@BlakeGildaphish7611 жыл бұрын
i had my deadline too. i used to tell myself that if i couldn't find a man to settle down with by 35, i'd try my hand at women. only because it was SO difficult to find a non-bullshit guy.
@tania087410 жыл бұрын
Did you tried to be with a woman?
@BlakeGildaphish7610 жыл бұрын
tania0874 no. i turn 30 this year, so i've got 5 more years. i'm hoping that if/ when i *do* try women, i'll fall in love and live a comfortable, quiet and decent life.
@tania087410 жыл бұрын
Blake I really hope you find that comfortable, quite, and decent life, meanwhile I hope that you find peace before those 5 years. I'm not a wacko just a Christian that will pray for you. Please take care of yourself. . (Delight yourself in the Lord,and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4). I venture to write this to you (I do not mean to pry) because God has safe me from ending my life, and now I have a husband, and two children, a girl and a boy. If He helped me, that I did not deserve it, He will help you too, just seek Him. May the Lord bless you.
@BlakeGildaphish7610 жыл бұрын
tania0874 thank you so much, Tania. i do delight in the Lord, and he has blessed my life immensely. though i complain about loneliness, depression and other small inconveniences, my 29 years on this earth have been sweet. sometimes i just think having a partner would make it blissful.
@DavidKen8789 жыл бұрын
An 11 year deadline to become straight because you think it's a phase? Dude get the hell out of here. That doesn't even make sense.
@yahney-marie6 жыл бұрын
I adore tias personality tbh
@ArtsiesPres5511 жыл бұрын
Anyone else just wanna shake the sense back into these guys xD?!?! I'm dying over here...
@katsuicide53378 жыл бұрын
Skylers hot...😍
@Bloodbreakfast7 жыл бұрын
I think that the real problem here are gender roles and how the society is made up. We all should be valued as individual person, not according with what we have between our legs, even if it's a cave lol
@Thenotsotuff8 жыл бұрын
god im a gay guy named skylar as well
@pepsiifan1412 жыл бұрын
WILL AND GRACE! love it! one of my favorites!
@candygir8752812 жыл бұрын
tyra has the best topics
@itbarthur4u10 жыл бұрын
Who taught Shane to hate himself?
@brycefleming635110 жыл бұрын
wtf im gay and happy with my self
@ryanbeev9 жыл бұрын
bryce fleming want a medal?
@marquishodgson84028 жыл бұрын
Me too
@txx0xxt10 жыл бұрын
skylar's hot haha
@mariasolano98377 жыл бұрын
Miss Tia looking stunning!!
@MasterJudicator12 жыл бұрын
A MOMENT OF SILENCE FOR OUR SISTA IN THE FRIENDZONE.
@milexiangyangli566610 жыл бұрын
TYRA BANKS - You ROCK Girl ! This is A GOOD OPPORTUNITY for PEOPLE from SMALL TOWNS to Get In Touch with Themselves - Their REAL SELVES ! That they are NOT ALONE ! They are NORMAL - Even Being GAY ! That is Their GIVEN DISPOSITION !
@Svengalish000012 жыл бұрын
being straight is not easy, trust me :)
@VYDZER7 жыл бұрын
The difference between Shane and Gregg is Shane wants to be straight and thinks he can become straight but Gregg has fully accepted who he is which is very brave
@faizyaoifaiz986810 жыл бұрын
I support Shane. Thanks for upload this video.
@atheistsrnumber19 жыл бұрын
Faizyaoi Faiz how can you support any of these liars?
@Mitton45612 жыл бұрын
Tyra is soooo HOOTTT
@ailoveutoo168011 жыл бұрын
tia is beautiful!!! and giiirl if he dont know what he want i know a lot of other men DO!! your beautiful and saving yourself so that this "confused" boy can find and figure out what he wants is NOT fair for you
@PhantomWolf9512 жыл бұрын
I miss Will & Grace, it was my favorite show :')
@Dissuagge10 жыл бұрын
"I just wanna be like everbody else"!?!?!? Hey man, you can not instead you take a REAL decision.
@fabul0u51912 жыл бұрын
i understand how that other guy feels. that fear of your own people and lack of confedence, i was surprised to see that he felt the way he did. it's depressing....fear, no confedence, and some depression pretty much explains how i live. it's cool how they showed him around. it made him feel better. probably made me feel a little better to.
@YoItsMeBillLe10 жыл бұрын
saying that you're suddenly going to be straight at 30 or try to be is like me saying I'm going to try to be black when I'm 30 or try to.
@jesswise18638 ай бұрын
It breaks my heart so much that these guys have so much self hatred, I hope they can get to a point where they can accept and love themselves for who they are, because they will only be miserable pretending to be something they’re not, trust me, I’ve been there
@scottydog4evaryo12 жыл бұрын
They all have FABULOUS shoes...
@mrtinabean12 жыл бұрын
I have loved my boyfriend for 10 years and sometimes it is hard for me because I am a lesbian. But I love him so much and I do want a family someday. Sometimes I wish I was just straight but I know I need to just embrace who I am.
@faraoanthony12 жыл бұрын
I love this video it was awesome
@omidawoud812 жыл бұрын
"Tia is one of my bestfriends" FRIENDZONED HARD
@themagicalfox63 жыл бұрын
I get Asexual vibes off Shane
@MrIdinaMenzel12 жыл бұрын
That poor girl Tia is sooooo insecure! HUNTY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU DESERVE BETTER!!
@similishprincess836412 жыл бұрын
I lovee gay people, like friends. they are usually such happy people and are so interesting!
@Adeikov11 жыл бұрын
1) Forget everything you ever thought you knew. Never hold fixed beliefs. 2) Read a science book, feel comfortable in the feeling of not knowing everything, and question, contradict and evaluate your understanding constantly. 3) Learn the power of detachment, so you can extract youself from your environment and be at peace. 4) Take up a hobby, forget the big questions, and learn to live in the sensation of the present. I think if you followed this, you would be close to being an atheist.
@Bjorkadmirer13 жыл бұрын
I HAVE A CAVE-Mwahahahaha!!!!! Hahahaha....silly kids.
@holydemon8412 жыл бұрын
that guy accepted himself well done
@UncannyCal12 жыл бұрын
I agree man, I'm gay, people say it's a disorder and that we chose to live this way, who would chose to be discriminated against all the time.
@AntonioJelaca12 жыл бұрын
im crying here
@beatriz835611 жыл бұрын
SKYLAR IS ADORABLE!!! :3
@SuperWind9213 жыл бұрын
And what I ment with writing about my friend was that just because you're gay you can still be a person that people can stand having around them.
@TheEmofreak33311 жыл бұрын
I completely understand what they are going through. It took me years to come out, and I still haven't completely come out as a lesbian to my family. I did years ago, but they flipped out on me and called me every name in the book. Ever since, I have just kinda gone back into the closet around them. Its hard.. It really is. Especially growing up with a family who hate gay people. Its one of the hardest things anyone would ever have to go through.
@ToryAlesana12 жыл бұрын
AMAZINGPHIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@jessmjfan9897 жыл бұрын
Has anyone ever watched the gay romance movie "eating out?" Is about A Gay guy and a straight girl who are best friends, the girl always dated guys who turned gay after they were with her until her best friend meets another guy and he pretends to be straight just to be around him, and the gurl plays as match maker for them? ....for some reason i saw resemblence in this show lol because they both have kissed the same girl and they all are friends...
@GirlsGottaHaveGum12 жыл бұрын
OMG and the jpop stars and the kpop stars are so cute >.
@dianamars47339 жыл бұрын
Tbh when I was little I was scared of gay people, for some weird reason. Like scared to go near them. Now I have a bunch of gay friends and I'm not scared .
@alr586611 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to bully's! You're beautiful inside and out. :)
@fergaleecious12 жыл бұрын
Proud of you! :) stay proud of who you are.
@mannytrumpet11 жыл бұрын
You go TIA!
@haute0311 жыл бұрын
Tia seems like such a sweetie. I kind of feel bad for her.
@HeyZhore12 жыл бұрын
Poor Skylar, he loves Shane so much.
@leyahmallett67412 жыл бұрын
@ 1;45 " What Are Your Feelings Toward... Tia, Skyler..?" Lol "Tortilla."
@moretwocome2111 жыл бұрын
Your conscious never lies
@jaysons146511 жыл бұрын
I'm glad Greg was able to change his mind some. People don't realize that positive imagery and exposure goes really far. Who ever you are you need to see people like you that are in a positive light no matter if it is race, color, sexuality, religion, male, female...whatever.
@deandreDRE3612 жыл бұрын
i just noticed how much Tyra blinks....
@TheBlahblahblahahaha12 жыл бұрын
I think that if he learns to release his hatred and disgust for gay men, he just might find happiness. Often times, when you hate yourself for liking something you've been raised to look down upon, you end up pushing away any enjoyment you could possibly gain. Sometimes in life, you have to learn to let things go.
@seanfish114111 жыл бұрын
Claiming someone else's marriage is against your religion is like being angry at someone for eating a donut because you're on a diet.
@archieishii12 жыл бұрын
shane is so beautiful
@DoodleTaffy12 жыл бұрын
If someone isn't happy with who they are then ppl should talk w/them about it and then if they still aren't happy with themselves, allow and help them to change. Don't try to make them embrace themselves just because you want more people like that in your life.
@MrTiannaRawr12 жыл бұрын
my personal opinion is that these men are just so convinced, brainwashed and/or raised to believe that being gay is bad, that they're setting this deadline because they dont like hearing that its bad. they're just in denial. they should be who they are and be proud :)
@WadePittman112 жыл бұрын
Was that Alex Wong from so you think you can dance in that gay bar cut scene?? I think it was!!!
@p0ckypenguin11 жыл бұрын
omg i just noticed too...did not expect that haha
@jamey42412 жыл бұрын
Thank You!
@AarBearCares12 жыл бұрын
I don't know if anyone notices this, but the Asian guy at 05:45 ( I forgot his name) , was on So You Think You Can Dance.
@Lautnerbubbles12 жыл бұрын
hell, i will call Tyra and have her make that a show, there are SOO many girls out there who LOVE gay guys, i happen to be one of them lol(:
@purplypinkpixi2112 жыл бұрын
What a great Aunt!
@terraliken11 жыл бұрын
Ignore people that are rude online. They are the epitome of cowards because they blurt out hate to people but remain anonymous. They say stuff that they wouldn't have the balls to say in real life.
@kitanakahn10111 жыл бұрын
'You Know' like thousands times
@MrFallior11 жыл бұрын
Well the fact that these gay people themselves are saying they weren't born that way, they just STARTED to have feeling for the opposite sex kinda proves you wrong.
@Lyn.isGrey9 жыл бұрын
That girl who is roomies with the first guy is probably more attracted because she doesn't see other men as competition in the same way as how female competition can be. She'll probably fare better with a bisexual male who is more in touch with himself.
@SeanShimamoto5 жыл бұрын
These guys contribute to the horrible stereotypes for us gay men. I’m going to be 46 in a few months and I get hit on regularly by guys in their early 20’s, but I have ZERO attraction for younger men...none whatsoever. I understand not wanting to be gay, because it’s so socially unaccepted...but I’m very proud of being gay ‘cause I have so much creativity, I have a great heart, I have a ton of empathy ‘cause of all the hatred I’ve experienced, and I think that gay people teach the world about strength and acceptance. 😁🏳️🌈🤙🏽 It’s been 10 years since this video...and I hope that they’re progressed since then! I love that his Aunty loves him enough to try and get him to open up and realize that we’re just like every other person. 👍🏽
@BTV36013 жыл бұрын
@123kujer finally there's someone with some brains on youtube.
@whatuhhidk212 жыл бұрын
The second guy was wonderful. He's so rational. I hope Skylar goes straight, not because I think there's anything wrong with him being gay, but because he's hot and I want a chance.
@goodgir18812 жыл бұрын
Shane is adorible!
@Caribbeanprincess112 жыл бұрын
TRUE STATEMENT!
@WHOYOUCALLINGSHORT3312 жыл бұрын
i guess i can kinda relate to how these guys feel, within this last year i have finally stopped trying to hide or deny the fact that i am bisexual......i dont want to be this way....but i can't change who i am attracked to, i am intimidated and scared by other people who are bi/gay. if i could change the way i am, i would....it would make my life so much easier for me...and my family. :(
@ANNNAMICHELLE12 жыл бұрын
shane: ill have kids with you honey!! you are gorgeous
@hunkysociologist13 жыл бұрын
These are just kids figuring out their sexualities and navigating through the millions of conflicting messages we throw at them about acceptability, deviance, choice, difference. At 19, we were all the same way - none of us knew where life would lead us in 11 years time. I, for one, am certainly not the same person I was when I was 19.
@fioralauren70778 жыл бұрын
I can't focus cause of 'Skylar's' hair 😂
@WilleVillei11 жыл бұрын
5:45 was that Alex Wong from So You Think You Can Dance?:o