Men - The forgotten gender | Deepika Bhardwaj | TEDxIIFTDelhi

Deepika talks about the how men in the Indian society are suffering due to the draconian Indian Penal Code which is made for the protection of women but ignores men and their issues. She addresses the Indian Dowry Act from the perspective of men. Deepika talks of men who are victimised and sustematically abused by laws that are made for women but are abused to victimise men.
Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj is a Journalist, Anchor and a Documentary Filmmaker. Her first documentary ‘Gramin Dak Sevak’ was Jeevika All Asia Livelihood Film Festival 2009, student film winner. Her second documentary ‘Youth Count’ was broadcast on India’s leading News channel NDTV 24x7. Her third project ‘Garima’ was a commissioned, short documentary film by USAID and Counterpart International. A software engineer turned Journalist, she was one of the ten media professionals selected from around the world for ‘Future Media Leaders Course’ conducted by Thomson Foundation, UK. She is currently making documentary called “Martyrs of Marriage” which is a commentary on the issue of Men’s right and abuse of one-sided gender centric laws in the Indian Penal Code.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@surajshaw9703]

I once told few women about all of this, and they started laughing... Men committing suicide and families being destroyed was amusing to them.

[@atallsteve]

@@Miikudo Isn't it for you?* I'm sorry, i had to do it.

[@ensietankado678]

Satirical laugh, crying.. These are weapons women use for whatever it is against them.

[@nidhiudi8215]

woman's are ruthless

[@mireillelebeau2513]

@@anikeshmidya4882 Well some are incapable but a lot are capable.

[@raheelbelal5848]

@@mireillelebeau2513 nope, almost all of them. A women is a worse enemy to women more than a man.

[@OmKar-fd7xv]

"It's about men so I have to give you some evidence cause when it's about women you don't need any evidence"- sums up the situation.

[@saucegodnas7318]

She's a beast for saying that.

[@meghanachauhan9380]

That is actually legit

[@ParulSharma-bv1kn]

Men are guilty until proven inoscent and women are inoscent until proven guilty 😑😑😑

[@aperson5411]

Yup you got it

[@SHADOWGaming-ks5rc]

@@ParulSharma-bv1kn though women are proven guilty still they are welcomed in society. No matter how much dirt they have in their mind. Have you heard about any women being sent to jail for filing a false case against a man.

[@leodevanand9546]

women: * cries * society: * cries * men: * Cries * society: * laughs *

[@maheshijt4433]

👀

[@justnormal4818]

That's so true

[@ska4666]

Toxic masculinity right there

[@JAI----]

@@ska4666 what

[@ashiyanakapoor5118]

Universal truth

[@aquahorns8995]

*Only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. A man is loved only under the condition that he provides something* --Chris Rock

[@apurvadamdhare9541]

Unfortunately this is true😔

[@poojashivaani3628]

Apurva Damdhare its not true! Wouldnt we love our father, brothers or boyfriend even if they have nothing to provide us?!

[@poojashivaani3628]

Aqua Horns chris rock is wrong

[@abhijeetranjan_neetwala]

@@poojashivaani3628 and that's the limit . World shows more sympathy towards and women , pets etc than men .

[@poojashivaani3628]

@Lone Wolf no. Even if my father does no work (ie, he remains at home and does household work) my love and respect will not shatter. Same goes for my brother. This is the stereotype that must change..the stereotype that says *men must work in office for their family*

[@ricknmoortiii4734]

Imagine this talk being given by a man .(thnk you everyone . My Most liked comment ever .)😘😘😁😁

[@anikets4699]

KZbin will remove that video due to obscene contente! 🤣🤣😂😄

[@Pred00]

Then no one would give f. about

[@LoneWolf-fx9lm]

Feminists will start his character assassination

[@doccock2115]

🚔🚔🚔🚨🚨🚨

[@strikeforcealpha3652]

You would be considered a misogynist 😂😂

[@lawrence1369]

It is sad to notice that a woman had to tell that, in order to be listened.

[@feminist098]

lawrence I gave you the hundredth like !

[@feminist098]

I gave 1st like to you !!

[@tathoikosban]

Why it is sad!!!? There have been so many nice deeds men did in history along with the malicious deeds. There are men who fought for women's right to education or right to vote. We don't indicate those actions as sad, right? We all are proud of such men in history who stood for women when they were caved and away from access to any basic rights. We should be happy to see women fight for men. We should not be sad about that. We should be happy as this indicates that good heart & minds from both the gender and sexes care for both. They are believers of equality who will be there for each other. That is going to be the true companionship as well. I am proud that individuals are fighting for justice and not just for gender.

[@tathoikosban]

oooh... denouncing gender studies? How does that help? Gender studies is not something only about women. Then why do we need to denounce? Curious to understand the reasons you might have.

[@feminist098]

Tathagata Basu well said !

[@fantafanatykow9144]

It’s gotten so bad that we need a woman to speak for us, because we aren’t allowed to speak up for ourselves.

[@angriboi]

You are allowed, but nobody will listen if you're a man.

[@VishnuAnilkumar1]

I dont think this is true... Men are not considered masculine if we show our emotions. And this is a very emotional topic, so most men dont talk about it, or cant talk about it effectively, unless they faced the issue themselves. When I discussed this fear with friends, they laughed it off, as if its not real. when I discussed about the issue being at our doorstep and not a far away event (since multiple men I personally know faced it), the response was "oh well, it is their fate". I am glad a woman spoke for us, since they can convey emotions properly. IMO, what we need are statisticians to get us data, if we have that, men can talk, But indian govt sux at collecting statistics. Until then, I dont think men can address this issue effectively, Only women will be able to and I am glad she did. After watching this video, I feel lucky that I didnt get a girl when I was looking for an alliance. I had decided not to marry before watching this video, but this video confirmed that my fears are true and valid.

[@bradleysimpson2288]

@@VishnuAnilkumar1 blame the PATRIARCHY that you support 🥰🥰

[@xavier4919]

@@bradleysimpson2288 This so called "Patriarchy" pampers women. Patriarchy tells men to sink with the Titanic, while women are making a safe way out with the children. Patriarchy is no friend of men, has never been.

[@darthmaul8278]

@Glory ForFreedom his source is fact

[@bhavanashahri2925]

Really proud of women like you, who believe in equality for everyone

[@Clintsessentials]

❤️

[@anirbanmukherjee489]

One of the very few women who commented on this video!! Thank you.

[@Shady-he1ei]

Really proud of u guyz too

[@crookshanks9848]

Yesss

[@andreasracha8185]

Really proud of you to

[@ananyanarayan8585]

I've seen men talk about these issues all the time but it's disappointing that it's taken seriously only when a woman talks about it.

[@wahmenrespector4666]

Listen if we talk women will compare their sufferings and try to shut us up.

[@huna5923]

@@ifyourreadingthisurahugeth2810 so what u want medal

[@tarungusain7501]

@@ifyourreadingthisurahugeth2810 they are the reason in first place too

[@ananthakrishnan5184]

Ananya Narayan If we talk about this the society will term us as male chauvinist..

[@KingKhan-123]

Because people just don't want to believe it.

[@akshaystark1936]

Respect for Deepika padukone ---- 0% Respect for THIS LADY ---- 100%

[@tathoikosban]

simplified... haha...

[@firey227writer7]

Akshay Stark dude, 100% respect. I respect her 105%

[@rameshkrishnamurthy8867]

Agree totally with Akshay's comment.

[@mkschoch9388]

Draco 21102 zzz

[@kylecorreia4919]

Whos this? Deepika padukone

[@abhinavsingh2432]

After a long usage of social media, I have finally found a real women.

[@notsure1232]

This one woman might be able to change the world by creating her own dating app😄

[@Rah1381]

Camille Paglia and Karen Straughn are both great too. It's hard to find but women do fight for men, and some have been for decades, media just doesnt highlight them.

[@bigbull8582]

Mee too

[@hughgraham317]

"Legal terrorism against men" - touches a nerve.

[@harshkamat2287]

Deepika Padukone : My body My choice Deepika Bhardwaj: MEN - The forgotten gender RESPECT 100000 👏👏👏👏

[@elifali7882]

What is bad about saying my body my choice? Isn't it good to have the rights of your body? Not only for women. We should stand up for men's rights as well, but not everything 'real'women say is wrong. I love men and accept their laws but I also think that it's my body and I have to make the chooses about it. Sorry for my English.

[@harshkamat2287]

@@elifali7882 The title message of the video correct in its description, however , when you hear each and every line , it's starts making less and less sense as the video progresses. It starts from feminism and ends at female domination

[@harshkamat2287]

@@elifali7882 The first comment on that video is by Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj(lady in this video),maybe you can read that and understand what's the problem.

[@derekd.4156]

9A2 11 Elif Ali I don’t think the comment was being sarcastic. I think they were applauding that she held both these views points since it’s shows maturity and that she can see both sides

[@---rf7tn]

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[@girlwriteswhat]

Thank you so very much, Deepika. Men need more women like you, who understand that justice and fairness, and most especially compassion, should be without gender. Swimming against the current can be difficult, but I hope the knowledge that your mere existence provides hope to so many gives you the strength and encouragement to keep going. Hugs to you.

[@chrisrus1965]

karen straughan This was amazing. Thanks for calling this to my attention by "liking" it. One thing I noticed that might be emulated by is the emphasis on specific legislation at the end of the talk. We would be well advised to follow that example by consistently focusing on specific legislation or other changes that we want/need in different countries. Once we've agreed on that, we've can plan and mount campaigns. Where on the internet is there a list or some such thing where specific legislation or other such changes advocated by the MRM are housed? I'm frustrated by a lack of specific legislative or other such changes and clear strategies and goals within the MRM.

[@lavkumar420]

thanks karen , you have influenced a lot of people and presented a counter theory to the patriarchy theory which is just wonderful. Glad to see men and women standing up for each other. Cheers

[@stasto6070]

Lav Kumar Karen Straughan has attempted to EXTORT FIVE HUNDRED DOLLARS from her critics. She also tried to CENSOR the same critic. Look up the video "Karen Straughan vs Manhood Academy" on youtube. You will see evidence of her censorship and extortion attempts in emails she sent to the academy. She is a coward and a liar.

[@girlwriteswhat]

***** Oh for god's sake. Are you monitoring my KZbin feed? Less than an hour, and you're here on a video replying to my comment with your "proof" of who knows what. Even lunatics like Deb Magiell and Mancheeze aren't that dedicated. Also, everyone knows that Sta Sto (below, commenting 4 minutes after you) is one of your alt accounts. It's really kind of pathetic that it took you 4 whole minutes to log out of your main account and into your alt to try to convince people that you have support from others. Also, stop sending me emails and PMs on reddit pretending to be random people asking me to debate you. You're starting to come across as a stalker.

[@girlwriteswhat]

***** HEYYY! It only took you two minutes to log out of your alt account and back into your main one this time! Bravo! You're getting better.

[@samuelrahulpeter]

Dear men, a government that doesn't even care about our justice enough to change some laws, does not deserve our hardwork or taxes.

[@casualgerm]

Agreed

[@remiborgen8925]

Brilliant said I'll keep this as a quote 👍

[@altairya40]

A new Gandhi's revolution must be done around the globe

[@albertvick3410]

Damn straight

[@Ashish_Singh2595]

@@altairya40 not Gandhi but Shaheed Bhagat Singh's way

[@LaughLounge11]

during fire "Let the Women and Kids out first" during war "Poor kids and womens dying" during in line "Women and Kids First" no men even disagreed to that, we understand that men should be last in that situation but now that women r asking more and abusing what men gave to them. it angers me.

[@mbangroo]

But we will still keep saving them. Just because its who we are. Men :)

[@defender240]

@@mbangroo True but maybes its its time to save these;lves for us Men we have given everything they wanted but in this society, women need to do stuff themselves and stop relying on us men all the time.i have seen it countless times that in this society no one cares about men unless they have something that matters to society.

[@BG-eh3gm]

Even in Titanic

[@defender240]

@@BG-eh3gm Yeah and in the end it may not even matter about what you contribute you can easily lose it all just like the Titanic.

[@chasemaster...5454]

Exactly...And if we don't do that we will be considered as a coward.......

[@ashwitauikey1889]

This is one of my favourite Ted Talk. She showed other side of coin which is almost hidden in our country. I agree with her 100%. Huge Respect. 🙏

[@saurabhshankhdhar6614]

You are a great lady too if u are even able to think in right direction

[@mohdazhar9932]

Really you are very great tooo

[@huna5923]

Good

[@kushagrawal104]

You, my friend are the type of woman India needs today, who thinks about others' pains too. You are no less than the woman in the video. Hats off to u!! I bow in your respect.

[@tommypettersson5433]

This happened to me with an Indian wife. The laws were totally against me but I was lucky to get help to get a divorce and leave the country. But I lost my daughter.

[@johntravis3463]

Glad you could escape. But sad that your daughter is not with you..

[@71gaurav]

We are with you.

[@amlanadityamallickamlanadi7399]

Tell me who is your daughter? Her age and location so that we can avoid her. Single moms are the worst.

[@arthurmorgan6358]

Damn, that's sad.

[@mayanksharma3278]

Never ever get married to an Indian woman. All Unmarried Indian woman r Jihadi. They come to their sense in their 40s when they breed a son. Then they start repenting how much damage they have done to the society !!

[@BluesbyPriyanka]

We must act fast to bring proper justice to men. Unfortunately, very few women accept the fact that men are victims too. It's a shame.

[@ItachixUchiha-]

Atleast we have some women like u :)

[@bobbyboi7742]

I've seen people say this but videos that talk about men's problems are oppressing women and degrading womens problems

[@captainmacruff1893]

Thank you for your comments

[@athribhat2243]

Hats off

[@hobbithallows]

All are victims of same society rules and norms. But instead of thinking of better solutions they are resorting to downgrade others rights. Don’t get me wrong I totally support what lady said and towards men’s struggles and their lack of choice which I acknowledge and believe in since long back. I feel many women are retaliating to privileged people terms like ‘feminazi’ or ‘cancer’/‘cult’ when feminism talks are going on. These privileged people don’t realise their fight is causing heavy damage to those who need it. A comprehensive approach needs to be taken to co exist and to evolve laws better suited to those who need it and not for people who misuse it. But unfortunately privileged people are too busy dragging each other down to make any change.

[@kallepikku4991]

This happens daily in my country, Finland, and the consequences to men are exactly like you described here. Yet nobody cares. Your speech really touched me. I almost cried watching this video. Deepika, you're doing a great and important job. Keep up your wonderful work.

[@Clintsessentials]

Sad, isn't it?

[@kalyugon]

Finland is considered to happiest country in world

[@rahulsharma8940]

@Technical Hub nah it would still be less than India

[@kallepikku4991]

@Technical Hub Finland has highest suicide rate differential between men and women in the world. About 6-to-1, and no-one gives a damn. Imagine just how depressed men have to be to have that high suicide rates.

[@Unknownguy060]

Feminism is cancer for our society and world....... ...

[@aarushigupta2071]

Sadly this is the truth.There is no justice for men.And if someone makes a movie on injustice with men in India it's probably gonna be banned cause apparently It's hurting some women .Man this video touched my heart.And a huge respect to this woman.

[@aarushigupta2071]

radjanvar How the fuck do you know I don't care bout men.Why would I even pretend to care and waste my time writing this comment.I genuinely feel bad for the injustice happening in India towards men.And by writing this comment you want all the attention on you,so stop craving for it.And before jumping to any conclusions use your fucking brain dude.

[@aarushigupta2071]

radjanvar that's what you say when you don't have anything sensible to say.Well in that case fuck you too.

[@aarushigupta2071]

Kishan Verma Then why don't you do something instead of just speaking shit.What have you done to bring a difference??You guys are such fake ass people.

[@aarushigupta2071]

Kishan Verma and nobody has the right to abuse anyone .Women shouldn't abuse men and men shouldn't abuse women.

[@aarushigupta2071]

Kishan Verma And I know there is no justice for men in India.And it's really disgusting to see how girls are taking advantages of these laws.And I am totally against all of these things.I just wanted to share how I feel on KZbin and I got so much hate for it.

[@Lat1111]

Being a woman myself, you dont know how much I feel proud of you. Mistake is a mistake. Nobody has the right to destroy anybody's life no matter what. We have to take care of our men also. Kudos.

[@ananthakrishnan5184]

Latha 111 Its hopeful to know women like you still exist... you are blessed with commonsense to understand the exact situation Impartially

[@mayanksharma3278]

Men will take care of himself. If u want to do help us at all then do one thing Don't frame frivolous charges against a man. Other than that we seriously don't need ur help!!

[@31kiloradioraven63]

Break the spirit of a man and you have nothing, build up the spirit of a man and you have everything. 🙏

[@thischannelhad40subscriber51]

Ur a true women

[@mbangroo]

@@mayanksharma3278 you're a chad. 😎

[@errol484]

7:59 "Now, because I told you in the beginning that whatever I'm going to talk about I'll have to give a lot of evidences for it because I'm talking about men. When we talk about women, we don't really need to give evidences." - Deepika Bhardwaj Did she really just say this? To understand just how powerful this sentiment is, did anyone really take the time to let those words simmer in their thoughts? Deepika Bhardwaj, thank you 👏

[@basundharapradhan9871]

It's scary when she talked about the police saying the man that they have no rules to protect the man. I have a younger brother and I'm horrified of this thing too.

[@divyanshujaani]

Don't worry god is always with use

[@timhoward5]

If their isn't then these men better stop committing suicide and start protecting themselves, getting into the laws, or leaving the country to other non-western country.

[@timhoward5]

@55 years ago What happened 55 years ago?

[@ankitdebnath2781]

You have to worry sister.If anything happens wrong the society and the people will not support your younger brother because he is a boy .And boys are always wrong. Only girls are right.

[@Resentius]

As a man, I thank you.

[@HatimCyclewala]

Absolutely stunned, didn't know such things even took place in the country and to such extent. No media ever reports these cases.

[@HatimCyclewala]

Kit Bit to speak the truth, this changes my perception of marriage. I'm introduced to another side of it where your SO might backstab you

[@coolpras26]

It's time to wake up. Open your eyes and mind to the ACTUAL FACTS. I'm surprised you didn't know about all this. Noob much?

[@HatimCyclewala]

coolpras26 I partly blame the media for being uninformed. I watch the news with my family almost every evening and they downgrade the men involved in cases of "violence against women" to such a low extent that I sit there in deep thought and doubt the country's future. I'm confused over taking these reporters seriously, not once have they glorified innocence

[@coolpras26]

Hatim Cyclewala I know. Whatever happened to journalism ethics? Basically, the media wants sensationalism. They want to appeal to the masses, spread mass hysteria to get TRPs. How can they do that? By saying all politically correct, uber liberal, factually incorrect shit. Female pandering. I use my brain and knowledge when I'm watching news or reading something. I don't blindly believe anything. They glorify victimhood and suffering as people are drawn more to that. It's all a TRP game for the media

[@sammichheist8261]

The media intentionally hide those things. Just think on how they reported and still report on the Ray Rice case generally omitting that she yelled at him, spat on him, then hit him before he finally got fed up. How they ignored Hope Solo and in some cases have reframed it instead as her being attacked by her nephew (who's a minor) and paint her as the victim.

[@manishyadav-gr3dj]

When I was 15 year old my classmate girl complained to the teacher that he's abusing and touching me ....she did this because I was laughing when her friends were making jokes on her

[@KABIGON4445]

Once a thing happened in my tution While returning from school i came across a girl who was in same tution as me i called girl " Namaste didi " Because she was older than me And what she did can you imagine After returning home i ate food and i gone for tution And for my surprise I was being accused of harassment She said " Ki isne ( me) muje pareshaan kiya " Soch a bad way And i got punished in very painful position worse than "murga bnna " Litterly for 30+ min I just cried the whole time And now i hate that girl and tution wali didi and tuition wali didi's mom I just feel like (🔪🔪) them maybe some guys will think it's very small thing but how i was being portrayed in my whole mohalla ( area) worse memories

[@manishyadav-gr3dj]

@@KABIGON4445 in the end we're all alone my friend

[@KABIGON4445]

@@manishyadav-gr3dj yeah vro actually in true event 5 people complained about me on tha same day to the same tution I was a funny guy likes to joke And that was my mistake

[@rockymental4150]

@@KABIGON4445 yea broo...I'm also changed now.. just wait that girl will be punished in God's court ...

[@mbangroo]

@@rockymental4150:(

[@parupally6862]

Her husband is and always proud

[@omkarchavan5410]

@@joelmathew993 me too

[@sreeramm9080]

I was abused by a 16 yr old girl when I was only 5 and I tell everyone now, they say " awesome bruh". But the moment was still hurting whenever I think of it.

[@Panium.]

Damn.

[@sreeramm9080]

@okay but I DON'T KNOW Thank u.👍

[@arsalantaj2509]

Whoa!!! File a case mate

[@5TimesWCC]

@@arsalantaj2509 she is a girl and when she did that she was also a minor. Nothing is gonna happen to her now

[@Prasad-kf3rh]

Chutya hai tu abhi bhi mtlb. Ro raha hai social media pe. Usne meri maari pr muze ab bhi dukhta hai. Likes chahiye sirf.

[@sayyidsahal4533]

5 years after nothing has changed.

[@Bishhh777]

You are right abhi toh aur barh raha hai😌

[@iamadityashekhar]

My neighbor is suffering some same when we see him we feel very bad

[@melbourneopera]

Bcos victimhood aka feminism is a powerful tools to control men.

[@cmdrtianyilin8107]

5 years is too narrow slice of time, given that the 3rd wave feminism started after WWII and accelerated in 70's, it will take long time to take change. Plus, there is a social and political backlashes from the left.

[@kollurubharathsimha539]

So true still one innocent kid took suicide in lacket room vedio footage case after five nothing changed and men sufferinv has been increased

[@justRedDevil]

Women like this are genuine hero's. This talk isn't something a man could do, he'd be jeered off the stage. So many men desperately need her voice to be heard.

[@benisonmassala6346]

I am just a guy who is trying to show empathy to my Indian brother straight From Africa(Angola). I really admire this country, the culture, learned from the movies, and what she said was very unexpected to me, but back then. 6 years after I am wondering how India now, are there already laws protecting men´s rights, or nothing changed? Keep fighting, it might take longer but you are going to win.

[@tbys1416]

Things got worse

[@nischaymiglani2617]

Now things got worse. Now laws in India became very much biased and mainly in the favour of women. Now According to biased judicial laws, Man is guilty until proved innocent. Woman is innocent until proved guilty. And these type of laws have been oftenly misused by women in India.

[@Anirudh.thakur]

Now things got worse more strict laws are made

[@manubhat2922]

It got worse.

[@MrEstrax]

7:56 "..because I told you in the beginning. Whatever I'm going to talk about, I'll have to give a lot of evidences for it, because I'm talking about men. When we talk about women we don't really need to give evidences.." Yeah, that sounds about right.

[@aravindhanveeramani6142]

MrEstrax that sums up the word third wave feminism

[@bryanwoods3373]

And even then, you have to print out the articles and cite your sources with proper notation. Not that it matters anyways. It just goes to "well, I feel like this is happening." I can't help that how you feel is wrong and completely contradictory to reality. And as another person said, a lot of feminism is doing the opposite of its intent. How does being fearful of every person you pass on the street empower you as a woman? How is being angry all the time making your life better?

[@MegamikazeMoriko]

well because women can get away with lying

[@AVGyerra22]

True on all sides

[@1650tigameplay]

Someone give this woman a NOBEL PEACE PRIZE ALREADY

[@robinsonwright9623]

Nobel prize is for frauds.

[@meghanachauhan9380]

@@robinsonwright9623 This.

[@TAPriceCTR]

I applaud her, but what elevates her above the honey badger bregade? I say give one to Karen straughan first. Then the other badgers and prim. Then this woman.

[@exterminator4808]

Peace? Equality is not peace.

[@shadowbannedmgtowman9045]

Women just need to open their ears

[@BoboTMC]

That video of the man before his suicide made me genuinely cry. This is a real problem.

[@riturajsinghbais]

I was framed in a fake harassment case during my 12th boards because the girl I liked from my class's boyfriend drunk called her father using my name and threatened her father in ODIA.. fun fact.. I can't speak odia, she knew it, her parents knew it.. she actually knew who that person was, but still didn't say a word and let me get arrested (my own father thrashed and took me to the cops, so you get the kind of morally straight family I come from).. I couldn't write my exams... Had to retake my exams a year later. This was all 14 years ago, but the wounds are still fresh. I still don't trust any woman nor do I intend to ever. No one can take that experience away from me. No one can convince me to move on, I have been scarred for life. Today that family is all jolly and happy. The girl is now married to some other guy and living in London with him, while I still can't have a conversation with my parents because even though the cops and her family finally figured out that I was innocent they all conveniently forgot to tell my parents that. My parents still believe that I was let go coz I was a kid. 😅 Some life huh? Oh and did I mention the part where my father was humiliated publicly by her father during his retirement ? Can't blame my father either... Had never seen my father cry up until that day. No wonder he hates me. No wonder whatever I do won't ever compensate for the shame he had to endure because of me. At this point I am just dead from the insides, but can't leave my parents alone either. Guess God is great huh? 😀

[@tbys1416]

Leave them. Live seperately

[@maulipatel2946]

I don’t know what to says …but bro I genuinely feels that you are strong guy😄

[@vinayjaiswal1387]

Hope you get better bro.

[@visarg9628]

Don't worry this material world is meant for darkness and suffering. These are reactions of your past karmas, hope rises with a new day. Chant Hare Krsna n Be Happy!

[@212letliveonearth]

bro i do think you should talk to your parents ...again its your choice but dont blame yourself for something you haven't done and as for the girl , trust me she will get her karma . and not all women are like that but i understand your mistrust and its ohk to not believe , its your personal choice ..just try to keep an open mind about people around you ... i hope you stay happy n healthy and your relationship with your parents improve

[@swapnull_in]

I really respect women like you. Men's life is also valuable as much women's.

[@Kaypop5199]

+Swapnil Godambe 101% right... Crime and criminals have nothing to do with the gender. A #Rapist can be a #women too.. Bitter, but truth of our gender biased society.

[@Kami-Sama197]

+Varsa Kujur well I'm an egalitarian and a man from India a Hindu. I was raped when was 5 years old by w 15 year old girl when i used to live in North East. We went to the police to complain. Nothing happened and they just laughed at me and my parents. Now after 15 years nothing has much changed. It's sad that how those trying to tell the reality and truth are told to shut up.

[@meowsaran]

Swapnil: very nicely said :)

[@climberisjack]

Nobody deserves respect just for their existance

[@climberisjack]

Swapnil nobody deserves respect just for existance

[@Menelik.videos]

I always assumed men's rights violations were only in the Western world. Boy was I wrong.

[@madmax3399]

I always thought the other way😂

[@k9cobra728]

If I ruled a country then we'd be getting revenge

[@k9cobra728]

@Welcome Your Wish ikr Tats what ruins this speech for me is that a speech for men has to be spoken about by a woman for it to even be noticed and I don't like that

[@soumyaoruganti9990]

@@k9cobra728 well just think of it this way. The speaker is more of 'a person who noticed the vulnerabilities of men and the crimes committed against in the guise of achieving justice and someone who sympathizes and believe this must change' than just a 'woman'. I'm just happy someone is finally speaking up for men.

[@shravansivakumar8706]

@Mahesh K Welp it's just that feminism didn't become radical or affect the Indian society I guess I hear less about violence against men here

[@mageshgopi3594]

On behalf of all the innocent men who suffered under this fake justice system, I would like to give her a big virtual hug. This world deserves more people like her.

[@rounitbaran5371]

"when we talk about men ...we have to give evidences"....this hits hard

[@dibyendudas6288]

There is actually no law for men... eventually men will stop getting married, if this law goes on

[@raheelbelal5848]

Eventually? Most already have and gone MGTOW

[@jimreimers4213]

It's called MGTOW.

[@lkshpnd69]

MGTOW

[@Supiragon1998]

@@raheelbelal5848 Most is a big exaggeration.

[@zenmonk29]

Raheel Belal yep

[@JoachimEriksson]

Had no idea this was happening in India. I think laws to protect women are important, but these Dowry laws do not seem fair.

[@alienzenx]

Joachim Eriksson Why are laws to protect women important? I mean more important than a law to protect any human being? Laws should seek to protect the accused, not just the accuser. A person falsely accused of a crime is also a victim.

[@zubindarbari4717]

***** We are not talking about 1st world country here so please don't do this.

[@zubindarbari4717]

***** Show me one video where you have discussed legal terminalogies for people who are suffering which can seriously help them. Society is different there and here. Ask a girl out sexual harrasement case, hold onto something so that you do not fall and if that is by anyway connected to a woman sexual harrasement case. In India all cards are given to women and men don't have anything. If you are so interested in changing, make a petition on change.org and ask all your followers to sign and make a movement all of those here will support you. % of bitches in India are quite less than other countries [atleast in my experience] thats why I had a nice childhood with both my parents. All countries? Seriously? In UAE and ISIS region they are treated like things and if you think they should be treated that way you can go there too, we won't miss you.

[@kawrno5396]

Dowry laws are similar to rape laws around the world. So...

[@zubindarbari4717]

Well they aren't taken prima facie and you cannot drag a grandparents who are bedridden, kids [2 month old baby], relatives who don't live there, people who aren't present there nor dogs. [Yes even a dog is arrested for dowry law case]

[@yvtctc5161]

I don't know wether you have experienced or not but we men were pressured by society during our teenage days

[@sreekar.b.m4175]

Yes bro, but can't do anything about it, we have to accept and move on

[@suchandramukherjee6049]

As I girl I know the importance of strong men in our life,they basically lay their lives down for us... And yet this is the hard truth. Thank you for saying this out loud.

[@sandy4013]

We want men rights too like women save innocent men and boys 😭🙏

[@mgtowmonk7044]

This brainwashing should stop , strong men should not sacrifice themselves for anyone, strong men should live for themselves and let the society crumble , men should be indifferent

[@NiteshKumar-mb1ni]

@@mgtowmonk7044 absolutely bro ... I suggest all good men not to get involved in saving any women as they are capable enough to do it themselves, apart from old ones. If you see women asking help when their tyres get flat, if they met with an accident, if they can’t lift heavy object , please don’t help.

[@sandy4013]

@@mgtowmonk7044 but this won't happen in reality more than 90% of strong men sacrifice everything for their family including their passion and dreams they don't even live for themselves

[@mgtowmonk7044]

@@sandy4013 Dude this situation can chage if people want , people just have to become more selfish and there is nothing wrong in being selfish , I'm gonna live a lifestyle without any women in my life , still 18 though but gonna study hard and get a good job and live for myself and my parents that's it and gonna enjoy the money

[@VastKnowledge2023]

It's funny how men stood up for women and changed things for women, eg abolish sati etc and now women stand up for men! Good karma I guess! Respect! Deepika Bhardwaj!

[@hackerbhau1709]

It's not about men or women it's about being human and In this greedy society there are very few left.

[@tycoon8796]

@@hackerbhau1709 hindustani bhai ka fan equality pe baat kra h? Nice 😀👍

[@hideouslyugly8917]

@@tycoon8796 😂😂😂

[@Watch102]

@@pranavvaishnave7648 yes u r right

[@o5-12redacted9]

@@pranavvaishnave7648 I have now collected enough information on you: You are Indian. You watch videos related to men's issue. you are a meme lover.

[@warrengouldthorpe5091]

This is one of the reasons why I will never get married

[@_prash]

😂😂

[@flinggonza5688]

Just because there are a few bad women, doesnt mean all of them are

[@bigmeatymemes3632]

Fling Gonza still, I’m with em. I am not getting married because how are we supposed to know what kind of women it is? How are we supposed to know that she isn’t some gold digger?

[@M0nst3rGamingyt]

Me neither

[@jackhudson551]

u r super intelligent

[@KingKhan-bi7kb]

A women like her in a marriage would make the life heaven for the family.

[@moMdaD-fm3ng]

Yes agree with U 👍 A Man will be lucky to get a Woman like Deepika Ma'am , really she's💎

[@payaldey8366]

Such a heartbreaking video. This is not equality or feminism. We need a gender equal society not a society ruled by women. We need justice for all the genders. Madam, you are doing a great job.

[@moMdaD-fm3ng]

Payal Dey thanks sister, at least there are some girls who understands men's problems, I wish more girls are like U, God Bless U ❤️🙏

[@deeptibandi7963]

OK don't worry you you are already in men's world.Dont worry if someone asks you dowry and if someone abuse you and your parents only for the reason that you are a girl and if someone tell you not to look after your parents and you are born to look after his parents ,even though you are taken for granted, and if he doesn't even care for your parent.Finally Don't complain if they tell you to beget only boy child and even u work you can't

[@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826]

@deepti bandi Brush up on your english before using it next lol.

[@kohinoorbose3056]

In India nothing will change female will fight like faminism is most important and men's will for patriarchy and one they will mess up and die

[@eyeguy5679]

@Divya Ahlawat its totally pathetic how selfish you all are Mgr merrko pta h tum logo ki psychology kaisi h Toh doesnt matter Try respecting a men rather than comparing like "Uffc Men... Oh yeah whatever"

[@Priyadarshan_Nag]

Savage moment - 8:06 “When we talk about women, we don’t need to give much evidence” 👌 One of the best Ted talks I have ever watched! Every man needs to watch this and be cautioned about the misuse of the Dowry Law. Keep up the good work sister. 👍🏻

[@nehalsingh3094]

I guess more women should see it

[@nehalsingh3094]

@Mai ek angel hu aur main aasman se aaya hu no I meant that the women should also know about these topics..

[@Supiragon1998]

@@nehalsingh3094 Most of them won't care.

[@kuttysrank5]

Unless it's Swami Chinmayanand, you don't need to give much evidence

[@graceomalleygrimm9776]

@Mai ek angel hu aur main aasman se aaya hu you're wrong. There are women who care. I'm just in a different country and unable to help you. I can only stand up for my own countryMEN.

[@peterweb]

As a lawyer , i would like a big salute to you.

[@aclevercookie]

NOVEMBER 19th is INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY... I REPEAT 19TH OF NOVEMBER IS INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY.. REMEMBER AND MAKE OTHERS REMEMBER IT AS WELL❤️

[@apurvanair2056]

Is it? Fuck....I as a man didn't know this 🥲

[@oofbruh6149]

@@apurvanair2056 dude me neither like during women's day everyone tells you it's women's day but why not in men's days

[@apurvanair2056]

@@oofbruh6149 It's actually getting cringe bro. The manosphere is growing day by day and that's a good sign! So I feel our future generations will not have to face this nonsense. It has become slightly late but people are realising so that's a positive.

[@pulkit0g]

That's an example of Women, Society deserves. Sheer Respect!

[@Kaypop5199]

Hats off to u Madam... I'm a girl, I'm proud of myself... but I'm not a feminist. We really need gender neutrality in our gender biased judiciary system. I have seen my brother, and many of my male friends crying for being accused of what they have not done. And who says you are anti-women, you are against crime and criminals, who are being protected in the name of gender. India needs women like u. So that men and women together can fight against crime and criminals. Women who are "HUMAN" and not so called "FEMINIST" will surely appreciate you and your initiative after watching this video.

[@climberisjack]

I agree with you women who truly want gender equality/neutrailty will appreciate this video and those women who want female dominance in the name of feminism will not

[@timserious7678]

Varsa Kujur .... thanks a lot ... i guess there are a few sane women in india.

[@bashg8556]

Varsa Kujur exactly

[@sayanghosh5462]

Varsa kujur 'Feminism' means equality There's absolutely nothing wrong in feminism. But people misusing this term which is really sad

[@shivamdaskuldeep9711]

@@sayanghosh5462 : feminism don't care about men

[@swaraj1]

she could make things more clearer , I mean the situation is worse ,I have heard many Indian men saying that they don't want to get married only because of these laws like 498A

[@vinayake7961]

agree that a lots of Indians do NOT want to marry... but still far too many ARE marrying and that's why nothing is changing !! :-(

[@coolpras26]

Ganga Din That's sad and stupid too. Marriage market? Nieces and nephews? unmarried weirdo? Really? None of that makes sense. Marriage is a personal decision and should be only between a man and a woman. No one else. Sure, others can be consulted. But they can't force you. But yes, India is a different ball game altogether. People have a problem with someone not getting married, BUT they are ok with false allegations and people either committing suicide or spending their life in jail WITHOUT having done any crime at all.

[@coweatsman]

Ganga Din Still India has a history of spiritual leaders virtually going ghost, at least for a while.

[@coolpras26]

Ganga Din I'm afraid I don't know anything about India. Been living in India for quarter of a century. I know nothing I'm afraid. Awwww

[@darknight651]

+SS_war Even animals have sex and live happily with their pair.these feminazis have spoiled india.in india you cant get laid and you not even marry.

[@DRDOGGO-iu4yd]

Single men : When will I get married. Abused married man: Boy u are lucky.

[@siddharthagautam9763]

😂😂😂😂

[@ariheready28]

*married man

[@erosennin2162]

True

[@ilovetzuyufromtwice2803]

Same with women

[@ronnie-qh7nc]

@@ilovetzuyufromtwice2803 but you have whole media , justice system with you afterall you are the oppressed section of the society........men have nothing .....

[@poohwithtimbs7027]

Now this is an empowering, independent woman. God bless her 🙏

[@feminist098]

Thank god I found and outspoken lady for the first time who is talking facts and truth. thank you mam

[@Edbrad]

For the first time? Look into Karen Straughan, The Honey Badgers, Cassie Jaye

[@bluerose615]

For the first time - could you be anymore insulting to women?

[@truegamer_007]

M Pinchers He said it's the first time HE found. I think you can forgive ignorance, yes?

[@feminist098]

M Pinchers I didn't mean it literally!come on man. And see all you end up taking womens side and finding my comment insulting to them ? bravo ! you are very pusillanimous ..

[@RomanGabayIL]

vivek patil I think pinchers is... trolling. :P

[@ashwinthirumurthy1940]

This made me cry. Brave women are not the one who files wrong cases, they are the one who are should be neutral and prepares to speak the downsides of the rule that supports them. Hats off to you ma'am.

[@Skwod0392jebxnwo]

No one is lol tbh

[@ShivamKumar-yt4nt]

It made me cry too

[@hackerbhau1709]

@@Skwod0392jebxnwo wait Being binod ur commenting other then BINOD that's illegal.

[@akhilnair502]

Women like you are the sole mirror of women empowerment who are willfully fighting against the attrocities done on men. Huge respect mam 🙏.

[@aymankhanvlogs8868]

A man is loved by only 2 people in this world who is Mom&Dad💗

[@izack367]

@The Destroyed yes way!!

[@OuroborosChoked]

Ah... that's why Western Feminism isn't needed in India: it's already there.

[@Kami-Sama197]

yeah. And currently MRA have also started in India. Soon i guess in 10 to 20 years with continuous efforts, India will finally be egalitarian 😊😂😂 so much fucking time

[@OuroborosChoked]

***** Me or Kami? If me: no. I don't have any idea who that is. Unless someone was pretending to be me...

[@Kami-Sama197]

***** what interview??

[@annanussecke9251]

Haha

[@MrLDS]

U r truly ,a woman which a society needs. I SALUTE U

[@arthurmorgan6358]

She should be the next American president.

[@nandhakishor2659]

@@arthurmorgan6358 y not India?

[@Watch102]

mee too

[@joshithaa5596]

*a true human which society needs

[@judeknowles2319]

@nandhakishor2659 Why not the world

[@bighneshbhoi]

"It's about men, so I have to give you some evidence...cause when it's about women, you don't need any evidence" Practicality : 2021

[@babulalyogi1952]

Today I feel bad because I saw this video after so many years..... Hats off to you sister...🙏🙏🙏

[@VelkPwnsAll]

I thought laws in America on men were bad. I mean we get a royally bad deal here, but I never realized our brothers in India man got it way worse. I wish I had had a woman like Deepika to speak up for me when I needed it most and learning what I just learned in this video I only hope she can make a difference in other peoples lives in India so atleast no more families suffer from this injustice anymore.

[@santoshjain5696]

stay MGTOW

[@rajeshsharmajaipur]

We Indian Mens too are victim of Feminazzis....

[@diannal2277]

@Shivam Nyati Wow

[@andysibaja8666]

it's world wide bro, wherever there is feminism, there is a deal more of pseudo-feminism

[@p.stephen5032]

Most women from India that I know of have everyone thinking they have it so terrible as a woman. Even had me fooled 😳

[@Shivangi1524]

Men really do suffer a lot. They just don't speak up. But they really need to do it now.

[@shivamdaskuldeep9711]

When we do, women call it mansplaining

[@bigtoblerone8446]

They speak up, they just never get taken seriously becuz most people are effected by media bias like she explained.

[@devolishash3946]

Speak up to whom ? It is a fact that women, in general, do not want to listen to men's pain and suffering. Women may say they want to but they really don't. They see men who are suffering as whinners, weak, unreliable, dependent.... . That is why men are confused nowadays, we criticize and shame them and tell them it is because of their toxic masculinity that they do not open up, but when they try to speak up no one wants to listen to them. Watch the 'red pill raw files' (with the psychologist one).

[@hainleysimpson1507]

No one cares or listens what's the point when no one listens? I've lost all trust or faith in any authority.

[@bigtoblerone8446]

@@devolishash3946 that's absolutely true too. I've seen the Red Pill documentary twice now, but i haven't watched all those extra interviews not in the movie, only some of them. I might have already seen the one you are talking about, but if not, link please? :)

[@cemera1599]

What a brave woman. As a man i just cant thank you enough. Nowdays we need a woman to talk for us, because if we do, society doesn't take it seriously.

[@urmichatterjee8127]

My bro has suffered the same terror. I know what it feels

[@rockymental4150]

Is he fine now

[@andrewshort133]

Women never realize men trials and tribulations until it effects them personally or I.e. Her Family

[@mjhplayers6896]

Well sir, some do and some don't.. 😊

[@brianbay370]

+Andrew Short Unless they are victim's mothers they are benefiting from these laws so i will say most of the women won't respond for men's right. I respect Deepika Bhardwaj.

[@nasanasa8470]

It's not just women. It's men as well. If a man in India complains about rape, men laugh at him!

[@stephaniejade7056]

This talk is so biased.

[@stephaniejade7056]

Andrew: maybe buck the man-box patriarchal system and being communicating in non-violent ways so people can hear you? Why does it feel so good to blame women for your silence, oh right, because patriarchy dictates the you should. Very sad indeed.

[@Ruby543ify]

I had witnessed a scene in a bus in Hyderabad. A 30-40 year old woman was talking rudely to an elderly man who obviously had difficulty standing for even a minute. The old man felt insulted and he gave up the fight while she went on dragging the issue. As a woman, I felt "What would a man do if he is being polite only to get insulted in return? Does he really deserve that?" I told her there are other places where young women are seated and she could take one of those seats and leave the seat reserved for the elderly. She said "You better keep out of it kiddo". What do we do in such circumstances? I felt petite because not even one woman standing next to me spoke in my support. Instead, they asked me to avoid it. That day I realized why men and women in our society hate to even look into each others' eyes and have friendly conversations and sadly, we don't even greet each other. Aren't we supposed to feel "They're our fellow citizens" or simply... "They're human beings"! This is just a small incident which could have been solved immediately. I'm sure that the old man would have dreaded next time to even ask for a seat! Times have changed and so should the laws. Wasn't justice supposed to be in favor of the right?

[@ROHANDHARESH]

Rabia S @2010 We are born in a society where marriage is treated as sacrosanct, something which was fixed in heaven. It is a relationship valid not only in this life but also in lives yet to come. Nevertheless, this relationship is changing and law has played a very important role in altering this relationship. The legislature drafted these laws to protect the vulnerable women in the relationship, but while doing that didn’t keep in consideration abuse of these laws by not so vulnerable women. The judiciary, while sympathizing with the tears of women, didn’t recognize the fact that these may be crocodile tears. Due to these reasons these laws has become a tool to harass husbands, extort money from husbands and their family, to torture hapless women of the husbands family. In short, these laws have made marriage more a legal relationship than a social relationship. The law presumes, everybody knows laws. Marriage is a voluntary relationship, in the sense that till this point of time there is no law which can compel a man to marry (although in practice some women have compel men to marry them by leveling false allegation of rape against them. The recent case of suicide by an ex-Army officer is a cse in point where the man committed suicide due to pressure to marriage and in case of denial threat of false cases.). Thus every man must know the legal provisions before he enters into the legal relationship of marriage. If he enters without knowing these provisions, he cannot blame any other persons for that. However, it is the duty of legal practitioners and social workers to make tem aware of these laws so that nobody enters into a legal relationship of marriage without knowing its implications. Slowly and steadily the number of law governing the relationship between husband and wife is increasing. One thing is common in all laws- they are prejudiced and biased against the men in the sense that they give rights only to the wives and imposes duties only to the husband. Further the language of the law is such that it facilitates abuse of these laws against the husband and his family members. And in fact also the wives are systematically abusing these laws. These laws were primarily designed to protect the vulnerable women in our society but the working of these laws suggest that they have become more a weapon of harassment and extortion in the hand of not so vulnerable women. The Hindu Marriage Act and the Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act impose a duty upon the husband to maintain their wife. However a person can claim maintenance only if he/she is not able to maintain himself/herself. The term is ability or potential to maintain and not mere inability to maintain at any point of time. However, a survey of the judgments will clearly shows that even when the wife was able bodies and educated then also the courts have granted maintenance. Further, these two Acts are not sufficient and the Criminal Court is empowered to grant maintenance as per section 125 of the Code of Criminal Procedure. More Acts for the same relief means that the wife has more avenues to harass a husband through the process of Court. We can see that a wife has a right to maintenance- but what is her duty. Law says nothing. If she abuses the husband, then also she can claim maintenance. If she beats her mother-in-law, then also she can claim maintenance. Thus a wife has no duty, only rights. Just maintenance is not something to be very worried about. What is more important that the wife has been given power to send the husband and his family members to the prison at wish? Under section 498A of the Indian Penal Code a wife can complain that she has been treated with cruelty for dowry and name anybody in the relatives of the husband. What is cruelty or what is dowry, nobody knows. A gift to husband is dowry but a gift to wife is streedhan. A husband should not demand any consideration for marriage, but a girl has a right to look for a wealthy husband with a fat pay packet; it is not dowry, it is pragmatism. The law says giving dowry is as criminal as taking dowry, the wife screams that she has given dowry, but the law does not take any action against her- this is women empowerment. Under this Section octogenarian grand mom of husbands are being prosecuted for harassment- this is power of wife. Just these are not sufficient. If your wife commits suicide, invariably you will be prosecuted under Section 304B of the IPC. Here, even the prosecution has not prove many thing, Section 113A is there in the Evidence Act to presume your guilt. When men commit suicide, the law is silent. After all men can commit suicide for so many reasons- wife can commit suicide only after harassment by husband and his family. So what, the suicide statistics shows that more men commit suicide. Once any of these cases are registered against you few things are certain-like you are likely to loose your job. You will be merely suspended if you are in government service. You will spend a couple of months in jail before the bail. In jail too you will have full company of your family members. Finally, you will be granted bail and the trial begins. What will happen in trial, I don’t know. Indian Criminal Justice system is totally biased against the accused. That is why making allegation in India has become an industry. It is a tool of legal extortion in the hand of police and false accusers. Well, the purpose of this article is merely informing the worse half of the population the legal consequence of marriage and their vulnerably, if they decide to marry. Difficult to imagine-even now men marry. In any case old habits die hard. There is no solution. We are living in Rule of Law and when the law is tyrannical and prejudiced, you cannot have a solution. But, the risk can be reduced by taking recourse to written contract at the time of marriage. It is a good idea to enter into written contract at the time of marriage with your would be wife. No law prohibits such type of contract. The contract can make provisions for expenses of marriage ceremony, list of gifts received, the couple decision regarding maintenance, child custody and all other items, which the couple feels necessary to incorporate in the written contract. It may seem nauseating to introduce the idea of contract in marriage, but it is better as law has already entered into marriage. Written contract is just one mutually agreed way to reduce the rigor of falsehood in deposition before the court. It is better to catch up a lawyer before the police catch up with you.

[@ethbaha6166]

Rabia S it is surprising to see some women r not selfish and speak for the rights of men. people think nothing is needed for men. it went too far to a level rights of men as a human being r totally ignored. i personally like all women who speak for men. u r boy friend is lucky

[@ankanbads]

I've been commuting on public busses for more than 10 years and never I've seen a woman gave her seat up for an elderly man. In fact they proudly claim their 'ladies' privileged seat from an elderly man if there is one.

[@weirdverma]

AnkG EXACTLY!

[@stephaniejade7056]

Deepika has done nothing with this talk but fuel woman-bashing. Congratulations Deepaki.

[@mylomodi5677]

Brought tears to my eyes ... Tnk u mam . Its not everyday we see people talk about us .. We r alwys thought to b bold hearted and yes we r but that is what we r taught since childhood ... But nobody knows what we go through in order to act brave in order to prove ourselves as a strong man .. Its hard to b a man . Man also needs protection and support... Man also wants to feel special.

[@amarendramijhar8936]

Girls: we need more humans like her Ladies: Nah! WE need to be like her

[@CyberPunkBadGuy]

Wont happen all talk anyways women tend to do nothing but complain or only talk to look good or then get men to do something, they dont really care unless they are benefitting and they are not benefitting from men not suffering.

[@eyeguy5679]

Mast joke maara re

[@eliasperez5693]

I never knew of this problem India. I’ve heard of it in America, but it’s so much worse there. Thank you to deepika for showing the way laws are used to hurt men, and women too for that matter.

[@hadsha]

Even I was accused by my maternal aunt under this 498 A .. I was just 10 years old then. She accused whole of my family of 14 members under this law .. among them there were senior citizens ageing around 85 - 90 year old and kids from 5 - 14 year old. Thank god a social activist stepped in and saved us from getting behind bars.

[@hadsha]

'' A cry of wolf is made too often ., assistance and protection may not appear wen actual wolf appears ''

[@aprilfraser3818]

Wow. I'm glad someone stepped in to help you guys.

[@sololife1909]

Hello I am now fully enjoying freedom, earning money, spending it For travel, no one bothers me.i am experiencing MGTOW is the best ever lifestyle after broken 7year of married relationship.

[@amitanand6683]

1.3m views only 50k likes that explains how much care is given to this subject!! And you are right, 95% viewers are men!!

[@chinmayihegde-jss1398]

She is the first person I have come across who has raised a topic like this! If a woman is abused by a man an outrage breaks out, but if a woman abuses a man there are just murmurs of it. Abuse is abuse, no matter the gender. Bcs of the stereotype that women are generally weaker than men, even the person completely on the side of gender equality will have this in their mind unknowingly, you can't get rid of it. It is drilled in our minds by the society. Most don't take in to consideration that men can be weak too. Weaker than women. Women can be be strong too. Stronger than men. This that she is speaking about, _that_ is gender equality. In the name of gender equality, don't you also think we've gone a bit far in partially supporting women alone? Don't get me wrong, all the efforts for women equality was worth it. Some women to date face discrimination too. But I fell we have mostly overlooked the true meaning of the term _equality_. Don't judge me, I'm a 13 yr old girl. I'm not male, and neither is the speaker, Deepika Bharadwaj.

[@Rey-Nolds]

Women won't get until it happens to their sons, and some still won't care even then. It's good to know a quality thinking individual as you are is speaking loudly.

[@classydays43]

"oh no.. even my own son is a worthless animal! If I had a daughter, none of this would have happened!"

[@classydays43]

@krishna op I was... Making a hypothetical quote based on Rey's original comment...

[@anti-school6771]

@@classydays43 why its so similar to what my mother said bruh

[@classydays43]

@@anti-school6771 F

[@pianoslayer2516]

My mom certainly wouldn't care, so even for a son it isn't enough.

[@hallelujah1236]

Everyone should be respected whether man or woman. Period.

[@DhirajKumar-do5mp]

Man or Woman or Animal. Every living species mUST be respected equally.

[@bakusatou7214]

@@DhirajKumar-do5mp So if an animal kills a person or another animal they should be put down? If an animal enters in a store they should be treated like a men or a women? If an animal like some speacies out there that like shiny things or are trained for stealing actually steals something they should be in court being judge and waiting for a sentence? Also their rights and i know there are animal rights but you are saying all equally rights? So an animal can have a job and get payed, an animal can be judge, an animal can get married, an animal can have a right to vote an animal can have the right of living in a society with others, all animals can have the same rights as we right? Im not against animals btw i love animals but we gotta be realistic here not thinking that its all sunshine and rainbows. Also about Men and Women are totaly different both physically and mentaly, thats why certain jobs or activities are better for Men and others are better for Women, there will be always a difference and it doesn't matter if we change the laws or the system, Men and Women will always be different, we can sure be treated equally and i also defend that but at the end we will always have a barrier that seperates both and that can't be changed.

[@LoneWolf-fx9lm]

Respect is EARNED,not Given

[@niaj9341]

Or anybody who identifies as neither* just trying to be inclusive of EVERYBODY!

[@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964]

@@LoneWolf-fx9lm You are talking about a different kind of respect. The OP talks about the basic respect of existing as a human being.

[@swatit6394]

I stand for the wonderful, husbands, working men, boyfriends, fathers, brothers, sons, male friends. You are precious for us. To all the Woman who are working, who are housewives, mothers, female friends, daughters sisters and girlfriends. I condemn man with loose thinking who objectify woman. I condemn Woman who are toxic, who mentally abuse their partners by false allegations. By pressurising their partners for more money to satisfy personal luxuries. lets make laws which adress man's safety, so they don't fear of false allegations. Lets work for everyone's progress by adressing their concerns, so none is left behind. Lets not degrade the other in order to keep one at higher pedestal.

[@signorriccio9848]

Excellently spoken!

[@Yash-vh3ns]

Wow, beautifully drafted

[@hrishikeshananth8996]

In my school, Our principal and teachers always tease, abuse and in front of everyone tell us that we are not trustworthy and insult us by calling us idiots compared to girls, Right now we had completed our ICSE 10 and most of the boys including me got more than 90%, and only one girl got, 93% but when our school released their annual book, in that they only mentioned names if the girls as toppers who got less than us! One of my friend got 98% yet his name was not there and I got 95%! Please help women don't curse for things we have not done!

[@scarface1974]

Brother I was in icse too it has happened in my school as well once there was this girl who called me a terrorist she said I looked like kasab that really hurt me but what could I hve done

[@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964]

That's sad but first off, ICSE 2020 was a huge mass of confusion. Secondly, girls do score more than boys in ICSE.

[@toma4474]

@@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 they’re given marks only for being girls. Female teachers always facilitate female students and for male teacher it’s out of their control.

[@music_994]

When Any Bronchure is made about schools in front page you will Find the pictures of girls as it shows That They are More educated and Are talent. in the same way when A Re-exam Is going to be held They show the Photo of boys Like they are failure.?

[@methcat5005]

Wow what school is this? How can they do this so openly? I mean if they did this here all the kids would have vandalized the whole school.

[@vijaymelodies]

Thanks Deepika, You should be the next prime minister of India. Thanks for showing Gender equality. A True women of India. God bless you.

[@stephaniejade7056]

Gender equality??? There is no gender war except the ones males believe in. Blame your patriarchal fathers if you have even an ounce of courage to do so.

[@naochahk2629]

Stephanie Jade patriarcy was prevalent cause its was a war time where women need protction from men ..... were no contraceptics prevailed where women need dependent from man in every step

[@monkeymind3067]

Stephanie Jade patriarchy is the foundation of Society Your gender equality lacks family and fertility rate Every great Society starts with Patriarchcy and collapses with gender equality

[@monkeymind3067]

Fairness is very expensive illusion created by pulling men down , when men fed up , gov will run out of money and the illusion disappears life will re-asserts itself Patriarchcal Society is human nature Society

[@nathanbarucha3944]

Idiotics like Stephanie Jade is the reason why women have hard time accepting the fact that gender equality is almost achieved from women's perspective.

[@trexpaddock]

Welcome to the 'radical notion' that men are people too.

[@vgloveforlife]

You'll have to convince other men of that. Women have known it always.

[@bashg8556]

trexpaddock Men are humans to

[@GamingTranceSeer]

Just compare the number of shelters that exist just for women versus the ones just for men in the United States. Last I checked it was 2200+ to 1(which was heavily protested, and eventually shut down). How does that show Western society thinks men really are people?

[@twinkbreaker_]

Car H ha

[@amlanadityamallickamlanadi7399]

@@vgloveforlife Nah, you treated us worse than animals in 70 years, I saw it all.

[@antaripbiswas3783]

Stay Single. Stay Safe!

[@swissgear8103]

Best.....

[@Wartah20]

Stay $ane

[@user-yq4sc1xe3u]

Beteeee le bete moj kardi apne

[@blackbootylicker]

best mantra

[@arnavkulkarni8457]

Respect💓💯

[@adityaprabhakar7368]

yeah she nailed it. law should punish the person who did the crime not the "GENDER".

[@ukdave472]

I am 41 and I must say this video is as true as the sun. Appreciate her initiative

[@sd4534alfa]

Its very shameful for Indian people that not a single women have written any comment here or share there views after seeing this videos.

[@jonathansmall4573]

sourav dey One Ms. Renu Sharma wrote a comment. But she has tried to discredit everything that Deepika said and also has disabled the reply option. :P

[@jonathansmall4573]

***** I shared this in my FB page. Not a single woman has yet commented. A few guys have liked it though. I even tried tagging my feminist female friends. Usually when I post something about men's rights and tag them, they come and attack me vehemently and try to discredit everything shown in the video. But this time it is an Indian woman in the video and the feminazis don't have anything to say.

[@mercyritz1311]

I'm a woman (18 years, but still) from India. I'm a 100% with Deepika on this issue. If you're in the wrong, then you must be punished for it regardless of your gender. I have to thank Deepika for enlightening me on this issue as I have fallen trap to the thinking of how women have it worse in India than men (media outlets regurgitate this). I feel extremely bad for the men and their families who have had to go through such an ordeal and may those who have committed suicide rest in peace (although it doesn't offer much help). I support any human being who has actually been wronged in their fight for justice. I am disappointed that so many women have misused the law. At this point, the word feminism seems to have lost its meaning to me and regardless of what it stands for in definition, a more gender-neutral term must be used. We should definitely spread more awareness about this video and its message.

[@wisdomworshipper2666]

There is a reason why misandry is becoming prevalent throughout the world, google this ( Gender Differences in Automatic In-Group Bias: Why Do Women Like Women More Than Men Like Men?) also watch this in youtube (How feminism conned society, and other not-so-tall tales) it is from karen straughan. There is also a very good reason why the mgtow philosophy is spreading like a wildfire in the western hemisphere. Översätt

[@prabhakylas2499]

Mercyritz13 "a more gender-neutral term must be used..." how about humanism?

[@shiva.r.b]

I m completely in support with Deepika mam👍🙏

[@hobbithallows]

Empowering one section of society doesn’t mean threatening other part. Much needed video 👏👏 If goal is empowerment, then empowering should be done. Dragging others right for rebellion is empowering no one, benefits no one. High time laws should be evolved, which considers everyone. It should be blind with respect to who is asking for justice.

[@priyarajansamberi4085]

Some women crying in comments section for this video.... But it is sad truth they can't digest truth 😄

[@rohitbhushan8855]

Lucky is the guy who's gonna get to spend his life with her...

[@lloydgush]

The guys... Family and friends also count.... Besides the men who work with her.

[@drew230]

@@lloydgush then she hits a full 180 and joins the other side

[@lloydgush]

@@drew230 Nah, doesn't like she did.

[@drew230]

@@lloydgush human nature is unpredictable,people change.

[@cvhgx]

Spit out the blue pill SIMP

[@vasant85]

Welcome to India, 99% feminist women, 0.9% other kind, 0.1% good,wise,understanding women (about 6 million?)

[@climberisjack]

I agree with you , as an indian man i have also observed that most of the women in india are not moderate feminist but radical feminist .

[@vgloveforlife]

Like I explained, it is directly connected to the type of the men in a country. There is always that balance between genders. Where you find good men, you find good women. Where you find bad men, you will find women who stand up against them (feminists).

[@rohitbhushan8855]

Car H As I said that you were one clueless girl who has no idea what she is talking about. Also, your clever attempt of glorifying feminists as some sorta strong women is spotted right on!!

[@imon3434]

man can change it easy.......just change tha law

[@MaheshVR117]

Another issue is you cannot visually differentiate Cancer cells from normal cells here in India

[@asesane]

Omg I needed this ❤️❤️❤️ Just joined the men’s rights movement groups .. I’m joining the fight 💪🏼

[@abettertruth1198]

No body talk about men's pain.. He can be ur brother or someone's.. Can they return their dignity of men their families..

[@DabirAffan]

The real woman made for the rights of men. Respect, hats off... full support to you.

[@anthonyc70]

I am not in a relationship. I hear these stories..and more and more each day...I'm avoiding them. I swear I will never get involved. Such relationships are costly. Money, assets...reputation...and yes even the burden weighed upon their relaives. What has happened to us as a society?

[@roshanverma4678]

Neha dhupiya: its her choice. Who gave you the f**king right ro slap her And neha dhupiya on another conservation. Neha dhupia: so you had two boyfriends? Girl: no these were those whom i hit / slap and i had many boyfriends. Neha dhupiya:hahahaha

[@4thwall880]

Neha chutiya

[@mgtow-strongandindependent7416]

more like neha chootiya

[@tasin6459]

She is a killer of masculine salvation. 😑😑😑

[@tangocharlieize]

Lol....I feel so sorry for her husband

[@Unknownguy060]

Neha dhupia is sick girl no one likes her........

[@harindranath5321]

Prahlad is always born in rakshas family to correct the wrong doings of the rakshasas. The same way Deepika is fighting for men's rights being a woman. Thank you Deepika ji. Keep it up. God bless you.

[@WonderTechie]

Even celebrities like Hrithik Roshan a Bollywood actor suffered like this. His wife asked the court to make him pay 400 crores in the case of divorce.

[@mrrattrap1488]

He cheated dude. Let him pay the price. Take another example.

[@mrrattrap1488]

Listen guys, atleast i got this frm an article. What do you have?? If you have proof on the otherwise, show it. You r entitiled to your opinion. Atleast give a valid example. Om Puri was a better example.

[@desi_feminist84]

It was a false accusation and if it was true I believe 400 crore was too much to ask for and especially considering the fact that she had her own business, if I am not wrong.

[@desi_feminist84]

down2earth Dude. All I said was, she has her own business she has no need to get money from her husband but if she insists on getting alimony for staying with him and rearing their children 400 cr was too much to ask for. For an independent woman like her she doesn't need to beg and if she has begged, I feel sorry for her and we are no one to pass the judgement as we have no clue what happened between them. And what makes u think she didn't buy that house on her own money?

[@jaglinuxmint]

down2earth better be celibate than sorry! Only celibacy will save men and their honor. Even still there is no guarantee, but the journey of celibacy will be like a train ride, a kid enjoys in an amusement park.

[@canadianaja8030]

Indian men need a Tom Leykis 101 course. Stop marrying period until the laws change.

[@wonderhemi]

U r shit.

[@jordanhart2910]

9-5? What world are you in? Try 6am-9pm. Have fun.

[@bodob280]

Men shouldn't marry Even the low is nutral. It's like deth sentence

[@MrLDS]

😂😂😂😂

[@amoghverma3108]

God never made men and women for competition. He made men and women for collaboration 😇 Edit: But unfortunately the society loves to differentiate and discriminate between the two🥺

[@Agent-ik1ui]

Stay single and adopt children

[@JimmySpace69]

@@Agent-ik1ui kudos to those guys who adopted children and made their future bright :)

[@madmax5841]

"God never made men and women for competition." BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@amoghverma3108]

@@madmax5841 right! But the society does 'me too', 'feminism' etc...

[@iamme4882]

Yea

[@abhinavsingh2432]

The best woman I have ever known after my mother is Deepika Mam.