HOW TO FIGURE OUT YOUR SEXUALITY

[@MsDickerz]

Hey Dutchy fam!! Thanks for the support in this crazy time, I hope you’re all doing alright! If you’re aware of it, what’s your sexuality? Or do you choose not to label yourself? ❤️❤️

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

Ik it doesn't work this way but.. I'm adopting you as my mum!! What time do I have to go to sleep?? Lollll

[@marieex4183]

Dutchy im bisexual but i’m mostly attracted to girls, tho i wouldn’t mind if a boy ever hits on me i guess🤷🏻‍♀️ but i’m struggling if i really am attracted to my crush or not and i clearly need help...🤦🏻‍♀️

[@bluesclues9086]

Dutchy can you help me get a career 😂🙌

[@bluesclues9086]

Dutchy your the best which we where friends 😂👋

[@knox6493]

I'm lesbian

[@mushroom_grl6055]

She’s like a cousin that you could tell anything to

[@MsDickerz]

Mj Cheer aww that’s so sweet, thank you!

[@michellelohde8729]

@@MsDickerz im lesbain i just came out my mum and dad apcet me why ? plus they hate gays woman and men ,

[@hi-rq9lr]

I agree

[@mushroom_grl6055]

Dutchy you’re one of my heroes

[@ozzy3364]

Mj Cheer OMG she is

[@miles-lk7po]

Okay, but like, hear me out. Imagine people putting their differences aside and just accepting that people like girls, guys and anyone who identifies in between??! :)

[@e.mcintyre9489]

I'm hoping this happens in my lifetime Honestly pls

[@MsDickerz]

Red I wish for this every single day ❤️

[@beetlelad]

What that’s insane! Because we all know there are two genders. Attack helicopter and toaster. And I guess the whole girls and guys and in between sounds good too... :)

[@maggieo1683]

Preach!! 🏳️‍🌈

[@aswxaii]

Just vibeeeeee 😎

[@pavlinapashova9769]

My sexuallity is the most confusing thing i have ever faced. This will be hella helpful. Thank you! 💞

[@felixarchives8424]

oof you're not alone there. lt hurts my brain, eventhough its pretty much staring me in the face; i like a girl why can i still not accept im bi?!

[@MsDickerz]

TSIlenceBUL Here for you always! I’m so glad 💖

[@khadija5473]

idk if i'm bi or pan ??? help ???

[@kaylithorsen7017]

Sophia Roux I know right! It’s like, I like girls and guys and yet I still have trouble calling myself bi for some reason?

[@pip_a_doodle2175]

s a m e o m l

[@chloegildea8990]

Glad there's accounts like this where every one just accepts each other rather than descriminating

[@MsDickerz]

Chloe Gildea That’s all I ever want this channel to be 🥰

[@KC-cr2xw]

I love how after an entire darn year of questioning this angel pops up in my recommended 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@MsDickerz]

Casey the Artiste oh my gosh that’s incredible! I’m so glad 🥰🥰

[@aspenlol4244]

The LGBTQ+ haven't even been mentioned in my school, so this helps a lot.

[@e.mcintyre9489]

Omg ikr It's just like it doesn't exist Like whenever teachers talk about relationships it always hetero And I don't know 1 LGBTQ+ person :(

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@e.mcintyre9489 It was mostly like that for me. It was nearly a decade ago when I was in high school thou.

[@MsDickerz]

that’s no good at all, I hope my videos can really help explain a lot of things for you xx

[@sofiekrogh5289]

It has been in my school, by 13 year old boys calling things gay

[@e.mcintyre9489]

@@sofiekrogh5289 ha lol same

[@airbearsarrow3426]

My friend has the holy trinity of A’s: Agender, Asexual, Aromantic.

[@originalusername3958]

I must defeat your friend- there can only be one.

[@endercat1707]

AirBearsArrow I am Non binary but I am Aroace too I would say I am Agender but I just don’t know...😐

[@airbearsarrow3426]

Original username I guess you can say that’s AAA battery.

[@ruetistic]

Just like that vine: *ahem* AAA

[@airbearsarrow3426]

Ace means asexual.

[@grrrltv]

me: **knows i’m pansexual** also me: **watches juuust in case**

[@Itssyirahhhh]

Lol same

[@FattRatt]

Dutchy gives me big sister vibes, I feel like she's the kind of person who you have a chat to over a coffee

[@rihasbloodybruises]

When you really should be sleeping but dutchy is premiering and you will do absolutely anything to watch it , hehe. love ya dutchyyy❤️

[@MsDickerz]

Rianne Fontes LOVE YOU ❤️

[@rihasbloodybruises]

@@MsDickerz omgg I love you moreee❤️

[@gabbyf4281]

I love waking up and seeing that Dutchy is coming out with a new video. Definitely a good distraction from everything else going on. Sending love and positive vibes your way.

[@MsDickerz]

Gabby F Gab 🥰🥰

[@_.sock75._72]

I just wanna say something: One of the definitions was ‘fluid’ It states that the individual’s sexuality doesn’t stay the same between the course of their life. I also think that when people figure out they might be a different gender. Back when I thought I was a cis female, I was never interested finding relationships, I just wanted to chill. But once I realized I’m actually non-binary, I’ve started to become more open towards love and stuff. I feel like for me, since it would’ve been a straight relationship, I didn’t wanna come off as a girl in any relationship. Now, since I know my place in a relationship and my identity, it seems more appealing. Now I know I’m pan and proud. 💚💚

[@galatic-gamer9944]

This might sound weird but this helped because I can never figure out if I’m am gay or just want to be (that probably just sounds stupid )

[@MsDickerz]

aww it doesn't sound weird at all!! glad I could help in some way :)

[@maddiep5963]

Galatic-gamer Broski i know exactly how you feel. I’ve had feelings before but I’m not sure if I’m making them up? And it doesn’t help that there’s nobody I can talk to. I don’t want anyone to feel the same way. If u ever need to talk I’m here :)

[@evangelianickolas6850]

Me too! It's so confusing to figure out

[@jeanbates9595]

@@maddiep5963 Aye same here, there're pressures on both sides for me. If I'm straight, the media will blame me for everything, but if I'm gay, my inner family isn't that accepting. You how that is hehe.

[@horrificreader4084]

same I feel like that I’m just faking everything for attention. Even though I’ve never said anything about it.

[@airbearsarrow3426]

In the live chat, Stanley Hurrell says that their mother has COVID-19. My heart goes out to you, buddy. I hope she gets well soon.

[@skylarkester242]

i have a whole friend group who are all gay, lesbian, bi or just like everything. I am a lesbian but also asexual and non-binary.

[@ivans.5959]

You and Georgia Bridgers are my favorites

[@Jozlyn_Rain_Ilmestys]

hey! i just wanted to say that the “fluid” term you were describing can also be referred to as abrosexual, abrosexuality is a fluid sexuality, but some people say their sexuality is just fluid for example bisexual people could like women for a month and then men for a month etc. whilst abrosexual is for example feeling pan sometimes and then lesbian and then bi etc. just thought i’d inform you because a lot of people don’t know about the term and i feel like it could be helpful for a lot of people :)

[@astronoteek1512]

It's 01:50 in France but nevermind, I'm still watching Dutchy! I figured out I was not straight when I entered high school (I'm French so I don't know how it works in USA but here we start high school at 15-16 years old) last year. I met this girl who quickly became my best friend and I started catching feelings. It was really weird for me as I'm more like the girl funny but also really focused on study and I had never show any type of interest before. So it took me 6 months to realise and accept that I was actually in love. I came in and out the same day while I was talking about her with a friend. For the summer holliday, she was going in her family in eastern Europe with a guy, a friend, who was really... Interested but could destroy her. I was really mad at him and my friend was like... What? So I basically told her "You might be wondering why I'm defending her that hard, that's because I think I love her". I didn't even thought but she took it really well, turns out qhe is queer to. Anyway, I came out to my close friends in september, including her and later this month, I told her I had feelings for her. She told me she was not aware of her sexuality yet so basically I had to wait untill christmas. I think it was like 3 days before Christmas, she confesed that she knew since the very begining that she had no feelings for me. She told me she tried to catch some because she really likes me and feels close to me but couldn't. Of course I was sad but not too much because I suffered a lot between september and december. But anyway, I was not mad at her because she was so sweat like, try to catch feeling so that I wouldn't be hurt... We are still friends now and it's cool. But since June, I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality and now I'm confused. Im am gay? Bi? Pan? Sapiosexual? I just educate myself by reading stuff about the LGBTQ+ community and try to analyze my feelings. I would most likely date girls and only experienced same sex love so I think I might be lesbian but I don't really know. Time will teach me... Here is my journey not yet over, I hope you enjoyed it. What you must no is that I'm French (don't hesitate to correct my mistakes, I'm still learning!) and here, the LGBTQ+ community is pretty silent so I feel lonely. That's why your content is helping me so much, also because it improves my English! Thank you for being there during these hard times (it's been 7 days we are stuck home there). Love you all the fam, see ya!

[@MsDickerz]

Oh my goodness thank you for sharing your story with us lovely!!! Love you so much!

[@unicorntomboy9736]

What's Sapiosexual?

[@ffolympia]

Tu n'es pas seule~ :)

[@stardropboy]

to anyone here: can i ask for some advice? my close friend recently has been copying everything that i do because she wants to have my style and interact with people in the same way that i do. she even started new hobbies that are exactly the same as mine, i am sure that she doesn’t enjoy them but only wants them for more guys interaction, and i’m concerned. also she lately thinks that she is bi as well and idk...she could be a femme bi but she’s only ever shown interest in guys...i’m concerned for her but one last problem. she’s hella cute

[@unicorntomboy9736]

Do you think there are masculine bisexual men out there? Because I prefer that.

[@stardropboy]

Gentleman Gamer i think there definitely is, and you’ll find the right guy eventually.

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@stardropboy I want to say that, even as a bisexual man, I had never heard of some of these new sexual lingo, like 'Androsexual', before.

[@danisha4114]

um I don't want to necessarily get your hopes up and be the type of person to say "oOh she's into you!!!", but to be fair, she might be. I mean copying someone is really often something you do when you like someone, and maybe you also caused her to realise that she is bi? Or already knew but wants to make that clear to you _wink wonk_ . Though you did say that she told you that it is to get more attention from guys, maybe that's not completely true and more of an excuse to still cover up her crush on you-? But if you're very very sure this isn't the case (please don't use the gay dumb bitch disease card lmao-), then talk to her about it, that it isn't good for her to copy you too much and be her own person, because I can see how that's annoying. Hope this helped a bit, and that you too mayybe are secretly crushing on eachother ^^, good luck hon!

[@stardropboy]

• Danisha • thanks for the reply heheh. so i’ve talked with one of my other friends, and he’s concerned as well. he also feels that it’s gone overboard and she’s becoming less of her own person. then i talked to the friend about it, just casually and she says that she’s confused. i talked her through some sexuality shit but then asked her, maybe, would she ever want to experiment with me? (honestly i still think she’s straight but here we are) she said she would always want to be with a guy and wouldn’t be able to give me 100%. but she thinks i’m cute :p edit: she likes me

[@thecraziestcrayon]

I was questioning my sexuality for a while. I'd only ever dated boys, but found myself having "dreams" and "thoughts" about girls and finding girls very attractive. i started taking quizzes online like "Am I gay?" or "what is my sexuality?" Finally, I sat down and had a long chat with myself. I talked through what I wanted, if I could see myself with a girl, was I still in to guys. After a long 2am ted talk, I came to the conclusion that I am bisexual. I watch your videos all the time for advice and gay content. Love you girl!

[@MsDickerz]

I am so proud of you for doing that! So important to sit down with yourself and your feelings :) love ya so much!!

[@shannonthomas7951]

Idk if anyone will see this but I have had a crush on one of my really close friends for almost 4 years now. At first I pushed my feelings away and just kinda shut everything down. I recently came to terms with myself even though I’m not entirely sure what my sexuality is. I thought I might be against having sex but still having a romantic relationship but I don’t know if it’s because I’m scared/nervous for having sex or if it’s just because I’m simply not ready yet. I just got out of a really horrible relationship with a guy that I forced myself to like because my family told me liking girls was wrong and I have now figured out that that isn’t right to do to myself so now I am focusing on myself and making sure I keep in touch with my feelings. I’m still growing as a person and I hope that once I can come out to my family I will be able to feel more free. Thank you Dutchy for posting these videos they’ve really helped me come to terms with myself so thank you so much

[@alissawilliams1767]

Feel like dutchy became my older bisexual sister I needed. I learn something new everyone of your videos. Thank you dutchy💚

[@MsDickerz]

Aww Alissa that's so sweeet, thank you! So much love

[@ravioliravioli118]

I really just wanted to thank you for going over both asexuality and aromanticism, we very rarely get recognized. Super bonus points for mentioning demi and grayace/grayaro as well! xoxo

[@MsDickerz]

liz craft Aww of course, I think it’s important to bring attention to lesser known sexualities! Hehe yes! Xx

[@kayleighjames4612]

I was figuring my sexuality out when in secondary school close to exams, and it really distracted me. to this day I still remember freaking out thinking that I NEED to figure my sexuality out asap as I felt I needed I label. I did find that label but I put myself through hell to do so. please try and avoid this to anyone who is till figuring things out, don't rush yourself. stay true to yourself and know you don't need a label. love ya videos dutchy!

[@pineapple_sunscreen2684]

When you said you felt relieved when you came out I completely understand what you mean. I’m not completely out but I came out to three of my closest friends this week and my confidence has shot up so much.

[@MsDickerz]

Yessss!!! I'm so glad to hear that :)

[@suhanikshah]

I think I’m hetroflexible(mostly straight but sometimes attracted to the same gender)

[@amyarcher8689]

Some people knowing their sexualities... then there's me... thanks Dutchy! This video helped clarify a few things!!!😁

[@MsDickerz]

Glad to help! :D

[@ariadnegeorgiou4854]

Ok guys, I'm a bit confused... like I was pretty sure that I'm a lesbian and I do feel pretty gay and honestly, girls are amazing. They are beautiful and sweet, they always smell so damn good. Just adorable. But there was this guy, a friend of mine and I kind of developed a crush on him? He knew that I was gay, and he was kind of questioning his Sexuality too. I don't know how this happened, but we made out a few times. At first I thought I might be only romantically attracted to him... though I might even have wanted to be more intimate with him but... I'm not really attracted to his body... but to his character? That doesn't even make any sense. Am I the only one feeling that way? However there was a lot of stuff going on and now we're not talking anymore and that's pretty sad because he used to be a great friend but he said he couldn't really deal with that stuff rn and that he's sorry. Anyway, here I am questioning my Sexuality after being sure that I was gay and still actually only being attracted to girls and that guy but I don't know in what way... And now I just want us to be friends again... And I'm a bit screwed. Send help please...😂😂 Also, love your videos Dutchy, that really saved my day once again.🌈❤

[@oolbgoolb7542]

idk, it could be possible that you're bisexual and lean more towards girls? however it turns out, you are valid and i love you :)

[@taishis3000]

i'm questioning right now. i came out as bi to my best friend at 17. then at 19 got my first bf, we broke up a month later. a year later got my now bf and we have been together for a year now. but recently ive been questioning if i'm a lesbian. it's rly heart breaking for me because i love this man with all my heart and soul but i can't shake the feeling of not rly knowing if i'm actually a lesbian or not because i have never been with a girl. I've seen lots of women come out as lesbians after dating, marrying and even having kids with men they say they love. So i feel i can't rly hold to the feeling of love as a proof that i am indeed bisexual. This has been a really scary and awful journey for me. I wish i could just already know even tho in the bottom of my heart i wish i am in fact bisexual just so i could stay with my bf forever

[@rihasbloodybruises]

Aww You'll figure things out , lots of love :)

[@emelynnthompson3437]

I hope u figure it out good luck 💕💕

[@prometheus_78]

I feel the same way cus I have a gf and I'm questioning my sexuality I feel straight but my this has been happening for 6 weeks I don't wanna necessarily be a bisexual cus I love my gf so much I just want an answer to this crap😒

[@alliswell.7003]

Have you figured things out yet? I hope everything is going well for you

[@chillcat1454]

Hey Dutchy!I just found your channel and you seem like a big help.So for like 5 months I have been questioning my sexuality,and I thought I was being dramatic since I'm only 9 and I don't know any 9 year old who is questioning.I told myself I was straight my whole life since I only liked boys and my parents sorta forced me into believing that since they are religious.But lately,I can't help but think about this girl in my class (shes straight).She is basically everything I could ask for.Shes stubborn,shy at times,nice,extremely funny,and she knows when to be serious.She is the only thing that has been on my mind for like 3 months. But the problem here is that I have religious parents.They think that lgbtq+ people deserve no rights.And most of my family are religious too so I'm screwed.What should I do,talk to them about this or just push my thoughts away?

[@sh9323]

Wow, I think if I would have seen this video 2 years ago when I had a struggle with finding out what I like, it would have been a big help! These are the reasons why I think this is a good video: 1. You mention that labeling is not a must and that sexuality is fluid. 🌈 2. You try to explain the sexualities one could identify with (although it can be much information in a very short time, but you can replay) And after that, the most important thing (in my opinion): you give us questions everyone can ask himself when he or she is struggling.. because I have the impression that those questions like "why am I attracted to my crush?" are much more open for possible answers than the one-sided and generalized questions from those "Am I gay?"-tests that probably everyone here did to find out their sexuality. ;D So thank you Dutchy for your help, it's still needed! And one last advice for all people out there who are restlessly trying to find out who they are: calm down, find a place where you feel safe. Accept yourself, without any conditions, love yourself. And then ask yourself the questions Dutchy gives us and be honest. ❤️

[@sophieshutyourgob4778]

If you need me, I’ll be sitting, staring at my phone for the next 9 hours waiting for the to premiere 👍🏽

[@mushroom_grl6055]

If only I could do that I have to do homework

[@MsDickerz]

Bless up 💖

[@keeperofkeys3186]

Just in time. Can’t wait to see this. Dutchy always cheers me up. And I really needed this video because I’ve been identifying as bisexual for 2 years but I feel like now I’m a lesbian.

[@MsDickerz]

Amy Bailey ❤️❤️❤️

[@tea.earl.grey.hot.45]

Thank you for including a-spec identities. Sometimes we’re invisible

[@rayofsunshine101]

As soon as u put this on here, I questioned my sexuality even more🤣

[@maggiedink6715]

Well, im still a BImyself cis Buutttt..... Masculine lesbians are the *BEST*

[@MsDickerz]

YES

[@ameliakreitz5369]

I agree ❤️👉👈

[@macyrogers9641]

Thanks for making these videos! I know they'll be helping me and so many others! Love your videos!

[@izissakhan]

Thank you for being so inspirational! Your videos really help and thank you for always being there for us all! Stay safe from Covid-19!

[@bandanasingh6034]

Ahh for me i was so confused how the hell i liked a girl then started to like a dude, i thought i was the weird one as i am not a lesbian nor straight, not knowing what bisexuality is while being one was terrifying as heck

[@cowboylikeana]

ahhhh sorry i’m late because i was watching jessie’s video! but i’m super grateful for you uploading bc i really need a distraction. love you so much dutchy 💜

[@KB-tj3hq]

This was certainly eye opening, I think I'm starting to realize my sexuality. I thought I knew what I was but I didn't realize that there was more to it. Thank you, Dutchy, this really helped me.

[@rozaSkroza]

I really really like you, the warmth, friendliness, practicality and intelligence.

[@MsDickerz]

awww

[@mikehoffman7055]

Dutchy, this is the most helpful thing I've watched all year. Thank you so much for all the happiness, love, and support that you give to everyone to cheer up their day!😊🌈🌻✨👌🏼

[@MsDickerz]

Aww Mike i'm so glad to hear that!! You are so so welcome! Thanks so much for the constant support :D

[@Ronson_Lau]

My Quote : " Just like you don't keep analysing your skin colour or hair colour , so you don't need to analyse your sexual orientation That's just stupid because you are born the way you are and that's GOD's design Some people like to tell you they know you more than you know yourself and that is obviously stupid You should be thinking about how to make your life meaningful "

[@Kay-bu3fl]

Can’t wait! Love her videos!!

[@tomtenisse823]

Thank you for including asexuality! I consider myself to be panromantic asexual. But I'm out to (some) as pansexual, since basically everyone knows what bisexuality is at least. - Which is similar enough to pansexuality. Saying I'm asexual just confuses people. Asexuality definitely needs more visibility!

[@bekismith432]

She’s like a mix of my cousins and I love it

[@MsDickerz]

Leaf Wing 🥰🥰🥰

[@Lilpeepfss]

I'm so excited 😁 I love you dutchy I'm fairly new to your channel but I found you and you helped me find me thank you for that also your one dislike Is someone pressing the wrong button

[@starshineearehart7567]

i love this video. I have already figured out my sexuality, but i think this could be very helpful to a lot of people. I just wanted to put out there that romantic and sexual attraction are two different things. so don't base it all on looks.

[@knox6493]

Thank you so much for this video! I'm stuck at home in the closet now :(, and this really helped me feel better.

[@Ash-lp8dj]

I didn't pay much attention to sexuality in grade school, so I just assumed myself straight. But now that I'm older I found out I'm in the lgbtq+ community but still questioning. Cuz there's really not a specific enough sexuality for how I feel. I feel that my sexuality is more than one. Also some of the sexualities you mentioned i didn't even know existed until you said them. Thank you for making this video, it was helpful.

[@vibesinqueer5103]

I already knew that I was a lesbian but I watched it anyways lmao LOVE YOU DUTCHY 💗🌈🌈😄

[@MsDickerz]

秘Xx_DEAD_xX LOVE YOU SO MUCH 🥰

[@TRAITDANGER]

ill be here at 4:00 when it premieres!

[@maddie3731]

As the only person that I know of that is lgbtq+, I feel like your channel is so helpful like thank you sm

[@teaganelizabeth6752]

Finally not working when a Dutchy Video Premieres. Not sneaking out of work today 🤣

[@MsDickerz]

Teagan Elizabeth How exciting!! 🥰🥰

[@Leo-cv5mh]

I’m straight, yet I’m still here.

[@Rain_MG]

The beginning of the video made me tear up, I live in the middle east and in most areas it's very religious and homophobic here, and I sometimes get this feeling that I'm "lying" to myself about my sexuality Thank you so much for your kind words, I think I'm bi or I fall on the bi spectrum, again thanks for being the awesome person you are

[@soup5057]

Can I just say thank you you definitely helped me to realize I’m bisexual I finally told someone close to me and they support me and love me and I am still worried about my parents but at least my sister will support me

[@georgiaig2785]

I’m really stressed because I don’t know if I’m bi, lesbian or straight. I can not see myself as a straight person but I also can’t see myself as a lesbian. I just don’t know if I’m bi or not.

[@soren3709]

Same here 😥 I'm also confused about my sexuality. I can't see myself as a straight girl similarly I just can't see myself as a lesbian . I feel sometimes I'm lesbian but I can't accept it coz its hurts my family .

[@lonelystar4495]

Any update?

[@unicorntomboy9736]

I love your content. You really do help a lot of people and make a difference.

[@Zanderren]

Hello I thought I should give your comments some love 😁😁

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@Zanderren Hey

[@Zanderren]

Gentleman Gamer how are you

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@Zanderren ok

[@e.mcintyre9489]

@@unicorntomboy9736 we meet again :)

[@iggysdinners7092]

Im a simple man. I see Dutchy, I click.

[@ShanaeJaydienne]

Love youuu anddd yooouuurr viidddsss ❤️💕

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

You're valid!! 💖💛💙 -A weird pan (me) ~

[@Glitch_Voice]

Dutchy, you are like family to me, it’s like I could talk to you about anything! Thanks for making all your vids!! ❤️👍😁

[@gachachan7387]

I've identified myself as Aromantic and Asexual, I've never had a crush before, I don't know if I have one now or not. But I've been inside for majority of the time, since March of last year, and I decided to talk on discord a lot, and it's got me questioning some things. So as of now, 2 people are flirting with me, one a male, the other a female, I acknowledge it and allow it, as I normally don't feel anything if anyone trys to flirt with me. But lately, my heart races every time I talk with the male, and whenever the female attempts to flirt (not the best but still adorable). Some other information about me, I've always seen woman as pretty, I thought I just liked their clothing, and I sometimes seen men as cute, but I've never thought of anyone as beautiful (besides my mother of course UvU) or handsome. I've also had dreams in which I have a life in a relationship with both a male and a female. I never thought much about it until recently, as I only feel strangely ecstatic whenever I talk to the 2 specific people mentioned above. I can't tell if I'm still Aromantic and Aroace, if I'm straight, or if I'm Bi. I don't have anyone I can talk to that I'm comfortable with and I've never been one to wonder what my sexuality is. (I suck at explaining things ;-;)

[@rayofsunshine101]

Edit: I don't like labels but I just found out my sexual identity and I prefer keep it that way😌 Identity crisis!

[@ashrose3180]

I miss my friends so much because of covid-19 so watching ur videos has made me happy thx so much for supporting everyone it means alot to us we love u

[@maya2805]

Thanks for this video, very helpful. Stay safe everyone and I love you QUEEN x 💜💛

[@Zanderren]

Oh I might discover something new about myself I am in notifications are on❤️😂

[@killjoytw1nk]

Hey ❤️

[@Zanderren]

Hey bff ❤️

[@MsDickerz]

Ellie Nichols Hehe yay!!! ❤️❤️

[@MaximeFortin]

I just came out to myself as bisexual and found your content here and on tiktok, i love seeing a bi girl on here!💗💜💙

[@ethantucker92838]

She educates on lgbt topics more than the entire european and american education system

[@unicorntomboy9736]

The UK will be making it law this year

[@ethantucker92838]

@@unicorntomboy9736 good. I hope america catches up on that among several other things

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@ethantucker92838 www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/lgbt-sex-education-schools-2020-16891100 Here is my source.

[@ethantucker92838]

@@unicorntomboy9736 thank you

[@e.mcintyre9489]

@@unicorntomboy9736 omg yesssss

[@milenagelein1496]

One you missed was omnisexual. It’s like pansexual, where the individual is attracted to all genders but gender plays a role in their attraction and they have a preference

[@aceofflame5938]

Love the video! It's nice having someone to watch when I'm bored half the day. 😂 ❤🔥

[@MsDickerz]

Thanks lovely! Haha yes very true :D

[@aceofflame5938]

@@MsDickerz no prob dutchy! ☺

[@hiworldiexist]

I just had a memory from when I was 12 and had first realized my own sexuality. I was watching an episode of some show and this kid was starting to realize that he was gay, and my mom was next to me. She said to me, I wonder if it’s hard for gay people to realize they’re gay. In my head at that moment, I was just thinking *yes bich, it’s so f*cking hard* but I wasn’t gonna say that to her, I was, and still am very closeted. But she just kept going on about what she thought it must be like, she just thought is was this easy process where it sort of just happens and I was so not for that, but my closeted ass was not gonna say anything. Theeeennn she said you know by your age you must know, like you don’t have feelings for girls at all right? I was just kind of scared at that point like sh*t does she know I’m bi? But I just kind of stuttered and said well, no. So I just had that flashback, and I 100% understand why I buried that memory way deep down because I was really starting to get ready to come out at that time, but after that, I just went all the way back to square 1, and I’m still building myself back up to that point, hopefully, I won’t be pushed back here again when I get there.

[@friendlyfrog8319]

Heck yes imma hang out with y’all on this channel!!

[@bluesclues9086]

Love you bro you the highlight of this tragic pandemic 😂😭😭😭

[@emmaismyname2681]

Hey Dutchy, this was a very helpful video. I’m really confused about what gender I’m attracted to though. I don’t know if I should even put a label on myself though. Also, I love your videos! ❤️

[@pixwings8742]

If I could just throw out there, bi and pan are not typically interchangeable, my pan and bi friends will tell you that. For some people think that the definitions are super close and may use them interchangeable, but they are separate labels, if they were the same they would be called the same thing

[@SageHellborn]

So I started questioning my sexuality a while back. Questioned it when I was younger, but never looked into it until I started my relationship with my bisexual girlfriend. I have talked to my family, but not many of them seem to understand or accept that I am doing so. I have only ever been in a total of two relationships in my life and wish to find out more. So far two of my family members have been understanding, unfortunately I can't talk to either one of my parents because I lost them both last year. Both of my parents were bisexual, but I don't think I have an attraction to males. I feel as though I might be gynosexual, but I honestly don't know.

[@sage_musicc6966]

Thank you Dutchy for this video. Iv'e been questioning my sexuality for like 6 months and its been extremely confusing. I'm now trying to figure out if I am lesbian or bi. Love you!!🥰😍💞

[@MsDickerz]

You're so welcome :) aww I'm glad, always here for you!

[@Zlh737]

I struggle to work out if I have a crush on someone and I think that it is because I have a habit of repressing my emotions, anyone have any advice?

[@fluffywhiteclouds7933]

I also have a problem with distiguishing between: if I like someone platonicly, of I want to be in a platonic relationship with them or a crush. I don't really repress my emotions but I do doubt if they are true of if I am just making them up. It may be because you are repressing your emotions, as you know you are doing it, you are second guessing what you think you know about yourself and others. I would just suggest to try and stop doubting yourself in whether what you think about your emotions is really what you feel, or if you are just making it up ,and or spending more time to just think about the indervidual/individuals you surround yourself with, to compare how you feel about them. I cannot really give you good advise on the subject has your situation is seems is a little different but I hope it helped. (I Hope This Made Sense) ❤

[@Zlh737]

Peachy Tea thank you for your advise I will try to ❤️

[@netfilxbae857]

Me: bi- confused Also me: yes I’m bi ALSO me: yk what I’m still confused lets watch this

[@shazziemurage5758]

I love you so much Dutchy...you are the big sister I've always wanted and still do...this has been of great help because at times I feel like I don't really know who I am

[@Judicial_Gloom]

TIME, time is definitely what i need, there is no rush i am just a teen, i need to give myself time

[@kyramiller_]

I NEEDED THIS!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH. 💗💗💗

[@tahlialuhrs4666]

My sexuality is probably the most confusing thing ive ever encountered so i hope this will help me learn some more about it Also love your vids and ive watched every single one of your vids😊💙

[@MsDickerz]

it can be a very confusing time :) aww thank you so much girly

[@adriannafleckenstein981]

I love you and your videos dutchy you have helped me out A LOT😍💖

[@skyethinkstheirafairy]

This was so helpful, thank you 😊

[@ellieanderson68]

I know this is a while ago so you probably won't see it but ther is Omnisexual meaning like all everybody regardless of the gender but with preferences!

[@athegrey]

I already know that I am bi but I had to watch it it’s DUTCHY and I did learn some thing so thanks for the awesome video Dutchy💗💜💙

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe bless, thanks so much for the support!! Thank you :D xx

[@killjoytw1nk]

I've already figured it out, but it's Dutchy, so I'll watch it anyway ❤️❤️

[@Zanderren]

• Mara • yep my closet sits in the corner and does nothing anymore❤️😂

[@killjoytw1nk]

@@Zanderren Same 😂

[@Zanderren]

• Mara • 😂😂😂

[@Zanderren]

OMG we haven’t talked forever how are you❤️

[@killjoytw1nk]

@@Zanderren I'm stuck at home, just like the rest of the planet, bored af. How are you?

[@snoopydoggy1]

Our bisexual queen!💖💜💙

[@kyramiller_]

y’all need to turn your notifications on!!! PERIOD🖤

[@PuppyGems]

As of my age now in late 20s I find I have always been Demisexual. I honeslty need a bond with a person to think of them in a more romantic way. I like to just cuddle my person:) and I like both guys and girls, so I guess im Bi-Demisexual. im not sure if it real, but it relates to me. Sex is not a main focus for me at all. I just want a healthy relationship. This was a good vid :)

[@MsDickerz]

It's great that you've learnt that about yourself :) demisexuality makes so much sense!!

[@nathanm8475]

Seriously I’m struggling, like I can’t tell if I’m bi or gay. I think I like guys but even seeing pictures of ripped men really doesn’t do it for me but when they’re like someone with a good personality or friendly or outgoing I kinda like that. Also I really don’t know if it’s a phase because I’ve went through it before, I’m just very unsure. Lastly the thought of marring a guy or being in a relationship with him when I’m older honestly doesn’t suit me in the slightest, would that not make me gay or would I still be? Does anyone have advice for me? 😭

[@iluvsubliminals]

I'm honestly so confused with my sexuality. My parents, especially my father has been teaching me and my sister about how "wrong" homosexuality was. He even threatened to disown either one of us if we ever dated another female. Despite the fact that I started liking boys at the age of 11, I've always looked at other females in a special way that NO straight girl would ever do. I've always been very aesthetically and even sexually attracted to them as well. I never ever found men or boys to be attractive *at all* and I still don't. I struggle with latent (repressed) homosexuality though. But since I believe in the law of attraction, I am definitely going to listen to subliminals to get rid of those limits

[@Iminacoffin]

When you already know you’re a lesbian but you watch the video anyways because Dutchy is awesome👌👌👌

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe love you!!!

[@emxtionalgaming6340]

I’m pansexual and demisexual! Edit: I’m now abroseuxal and demisexual !

[@saulgoodman8912]

Me too!!

[@animalcrackersinmysoup4760]

YAY! you answerd my question!😄💗