What's Wrong With My Outfit? | Going from Frumpy to Fabulous!

[@susandennison5945]

My concern with some of these looks is the impact of fast fashion on the workers and the environment. I know clothes are expensive, but I wonder if we are better off with less of high quality and ethically sourced clothes instead of a $50 blazer from Walmart. I have a very tiny condo with a tiny closet, so when I buy something (which isn't very often) it has to be a classic and it has to last.

[@margaret77494]

Marnie, this video where you explained how to take an outfit from frumpy to fabulous is such a great idea! This honestly should be a series- I think many of us have clothes but don’t know how to style them. It is especially irritating when i buy new pieces that look good by themselves but I have a tough time making them look “right” when I wear them out. It would be helpful to see how to wear the new straight leg pant style with shoes and look current not like we stepped out of the 90’s.

[@MsGoldgirl]

There will definitely be more videos like this in the future!

[@deborahhaberer7276]

This was excellent. I’m worn out on the product videos. The how-to, technique emphasis is so strong. The new along for the ride us the way to go. Well done.

[@kirstenherbert5143]

Those jeans on you!!! I was blown away by how they elongate your legs - comparing the jogger style jeans, then the faux leather joggers and then those jeans - it looked like you had been put on a stretching rack! I love all the looks and love how you trust your instinct and you dissect the why of when it doesn’t work and when it does. Well done Marnie!

[@MsGoldgirl]

It will be hard to go back to "regular" jeans!

[@carolfinn4027]

Something can fit perfectly but yet be uncomfortable because it's not you. Thanks for explaining that.

[@idahernandez9362]

This video showed at the right moment, I was wondering why some of my outfits though I like every single piece didn't work together as well as I imagined. I actually feel relief. I spend quite some time working an outfit, sometimes I'm not successful either but now I have a bit more knowledge. Relief comes from knowing is not just me. Thank you for sharing.

[@MsGoldgirl]

It’s definitely not just you!!

[@lisastabfurth5448]

I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m 5’3.5 “. I have short arms and legs. My inseam is 30. When I married I was a 6, still couldn’t really style myself. Now 33 years later I’m a 16 almost in 14. I’m becoming more adventurous in clothing choices because your videos have inspired me. Thank you !!!

[@KC-js5ut]

You may be my twin!

[@rebeccabaca559]

I just recently found you. You are likeable, pleasant and realistic. Your context actually has value vs other insta type influencers where they just post how cute and skinny they are and don’t give anything relatable or constructive. I like your planned out helpful content and not just being a show off like most of them are!!

[@trennaberry1938]

Marnie I loved this!! I’m so tired of product videos and of spending money I don’t need to spend! This was so fun, didn’t cost me a fortune, and was actually super helpful! Keep them coming, girl💞!!

[@colleenhoffman2817]

I totally agree about the skinny jeans being so much easier to style with so many shoes!!! I will wear my skinny jeans no matter what the trend is!!!

[@AngelaHoodWritesSavannahRose]

Very useful tips. I work in an office at our local college (business casual). This video gave me some ideas to change up my usual work wear (blazers, etc) and weekend wear. Thanks!

[@home_editor_18chriseldagar12]

OMG, you + hot pink is 🔥!!! Love that last look on you, Marnie! Soooo pretty! Loved this video so much! Thanks, for all the tips!

[@tracygray7574]

This was great and you made some great points about choosing wisely and not spending money when you don’t need to!

[@pammalin9188]

Such a great video. This exact thing happens to me all the time. Learning what flatters us is sometimes so hard. Please keep doing this, I love seeing how you fix a look to be more flattering and feel more confident.

[@karenn993]

I agree about the front tuck. Though for me I've found it all depends on how high the rise is. If the rise is too low it can be a no-go for me. Also, the front tuck is so great for any elastic waist or drawstring waist pants. Really de-frumps the whole thing.

[@MsGoldgirl]

And sometimes the full tuck is the way to go! It’s always good to have some definition at the waist line.

[@shogo8995]

You’re absolutely right. I’m a huge fan of the tucked in and bloused button front or t-shirt. It always makes my tummy look smaller. Sometimes it is only a front tuck, and sometimes you can see my belt buckle, but I almost always blouse the front out a little

[@MsGoldgirl]

YES! I know it makes us uncomfortable to think our stomach is "exposed", but it makes a big difference!

[@deedsh6280]

More videos like this! I really like seeing the evolution (and honesty) of when you start with an outfit and determine it's not working, whether color, proportion, shoe, or even fit like the last blazer (which did indeed look great on you, but rather than let looks trump function or comfort, you flat out said it didn't feel good being restricted and opted for one that looked just as good BUT you felt much better in. (Chuckled when you mentioned your pooch 'is what it is'. ) Keeping it real. TY

[@michellewiggins-worthy3619]

You are so right about the blazer. Nothing will ruin my day faster than a jacket that feels like a straight jacket or makes me hot. I find I avoid wearing most of my blazers and I have a closet full of them because they feel like I’m wearing a wet blanket.

[@rjkimms4121]

Fantastic video! So great to see how you updated your outfits usually realize how better mine could have been after I get home. Thanks for sharing 😮

[@MsGoldgirl]

We always think of how to do it better after the fact!!!

[@reneel2502]

This video was SO helpful! I really hope you do more of these!!

[@alisonschooley5459]

You do such a good job explaining everything and encouraging me to get out of my comfort zone. Thank you

[@MsGoldgirl]

I'm so glad!

[@CkCmilliemoo]

My favorite was the last outfit. LOVE the whole set up and you look fab in it. Love this video. Thank you🌸👍

[@CkCmilliemoo]

Oh, I think that last outfit is Instagram worthy👏👏👏 Yep, photo just holding your phone and living life at its best 😊

[@sruss5634]

I love all your videos- but really loved this! My biggest issue when I walk into my closet is putting together pieces that look like they should really go together- and I do not feel comfortable- or confident in the result....completely along the lines of what you shared today! Would love to see more videos like this in the future- SO helpful!

[@annette0027]

Great video! This happens to me nearly every day! Please make this a series.

[@MsGoldgirl]

I will!!

[@traceysparks243]

LOVE LOVE LOVE this video! I often feel the same trying to put outfits together and then end up feeling frumpy because I just give up!! Thank you doing this and I’d love to see more!!!!

[@lorrainewilkins1032]

Great video Marnie! This happens to me all the time. This is why I always try on outfits prior to packing for a trip.

[@SIMARSONG]

What a great video, Marnie! I love seeing and hearing the reasons for the transition in outfits! Thank you, and please do more as they are most helpful. Enjoyed watching and re=thinking some of my "outfit" configurations.

[@sweeteliz]

I love that you made the point that if you feel good in your outfit, you will stand taller and walk out the door smiling-- this is so true for me and I even walk a little faster and with a little kick in my step! It makes all the difference! Also agree with giving the front tuck a try-- I am in the process of losing weight (down 50lb but more to go) -- my belly does protrude more than I want and the front tuck balances it and actually makes me look thinner and shows off my weight loss.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Yes! Thank you!

[@2CorgiMom]

Interesting video, thanks for filling us in on your thought process for improving your look. I noticed some of the tops are too long in the torso and sleeves. I’m only 5’1” and know how frustrating this is, especially when petites are not available in a jacket or top I like. I finally tired of rolling up my sleeves, which IMO makes me look frumpy. In Sept I gathered up a bunch of jackets and took them to a local tailor to shorten the sleeves. What a difference that made in how I look and feel in these jackets. Torso length is still an issue, but picking the right pieces can help.

[@katkat521]

Loved this video! I, too, have clothes staring angrily at me and this gives me inspiration to try alternatives!

[@tammiepulley7167]

I love the second blazer you put on. The pink with the jeans.

[@sharonledford498]

This was so helpful. So often a piece is beautiful, but I don't feel good in it for whatever reason. So, I'm glad I'm not the only one this happens to and I'm grateful for the tips on correcting the problem.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Glad it was helpful!

[@beckylisenko5311]

Thank you for being realistic in your fashion sense. It's makes me feel normal with my struggles.

[@barbiec4312]

This was fun, loved all the tips. Also loved the reminder to walk out the door with a smile and standing up straight. I need that too and even sitting here and putting a smile on my face helps me feel good.

[@MsGoldgirl]

A smile just changes everything!!

[@emilycunningham8653]

Great video! I often struggle with feeling frumpy even when I like each individual piece. Your before and Afters really made a big difference.

[@maryroth2368]

Love ❤ Love this type of video to demonstrate what and how to fix an outfit!!! Thanks for explaining!!!

[@zt7911]

You knocked it out of the park with this one. This was Fantastic, please do more. Thank you

[@MsGoldgirl]

Thank you!!

[@kelliesondrini6327]

Love love the bright pink jacket!

[@cjc6507]

I love this type of video, it makes me think more about my own clothing options. I’m so glad you pointed out how the fit can so affect your mood and how your day goes when you are in something constricting and uncomfortable.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Jentri421]

What a helpful video!! I like the new location, but agree with the other comments about the choosing a different tv art for the background. I love hearing you breakdown what most of us think while we are getting dressed and something doesn’t work. It’s nice to hear the “science” behind it. 😂

[@MsGoldgirl]

Looking for new art as we speak!

[@teresasanner-fecto3690]

I find this specific format very helpful. This happens to me all the time...I can't always put my finger on it... but I can tell when something isn't working. Next time I'll give you a call to help me trouble shoot. Lol!

[@glambysophie1]

I loved this video, I also struggle sometimes with putting togheter an outfit. Love the background by the way. Thank you for doing these videos😘

[@madchenleenerts9559]

I really appreciate your twist on this style of video. It felt less accusatory than some others I have seen. Love the positivity 😊

[@MsGoldgirl]

We're all in this together!

[@valiaudet3415]

I always feel better when wearing longer jeans/pants than as short as you wear them

[@aprillogan4528]

Loved this video, very helpful tips. Please keep making more of this style…also liked the new backdrop!

[@WhatMatttersMost]

Great job! How to make the outfit come together and "fix" what isn't working is super helpful!! Outfit #1 with white sneakers would be cute too.

[@paigeprice3781]

Love this video! Change of scenery is nice too. Would love more how to videos about what/how to wear pieces.

[@cheryls3136]

Thanks for keeping it real, Marnie, and helping me find great looks without combing through the racks, which I never have time to do with a full-time job and family. Bought the denim joggers. Those awesome boot cut jeans are sold out in my size. They look terrific on you.

[@dianebanke3439]

This was great! It’s good to see that even “Marnie” looks back and thinks what was I thinking! Loved the last look and your observation that we all know what to wear with skinny jeans and get stuck with the new styles!

[@MsGoldgirl]

I’m just like everyone else-just a little crazy for choosing to share it publicly. 🤣

[@jeannepiper7383]

Hi Marnie, You're a genius!! This video was a great idea! I really hope you do more of them. I know they must be a bit more involved to put together. I can't tell you how many times I have an outfit that just doesn't look right and I don't know what to do to fix it. This video was unique in that it is a helpful problem solver instead of just lots of beautiful outfits I never seem to quite pull off. Thanks so much . I'll be watching this one again. Its a great tutorial.

[@MsGoldgirl]

It took a little more planning but it was also so much more fun to film!!

[@Alicepicklesandpop]

This is the video I never knew I needed. You look amazing in everything but I love how you talk through the outfit...that was so incredibly helpful. Love the setup too.

[@lilycloy]

❤ The flare Jeans! You looked like you were 20 lbs less! The best look ever :)

[@karendobbs8153]

She doesn’t need to look 20 pounds less, or any pounds less. She looks perfect.

[@kristycapotosta3995]

Really good video. I think all normal ladies struggle with “why doesn’t this outfit look right?”. It’s good to know someone like you, who is SO stylish and beautiful, have the same issues. I hope that doesn’t sound unkind, I don’t intend it to be. It makes me feel more normal to know even fashion influencers can have the same problems. Thanks for sharing, I hope you’ll do some more of these. I love all your content, keep it coming!!

[@MsGoldgirl]

We're all just like you!!

[@cparker7431]

That sparkly top looks fantastic with those jeans!!! That pink jacket is stunning!! Great on us blondes! That's my go to kind of dress up outfit 😍 With the acception of size.....I'd ❤️ to raid your closet!!! I'm a bit heavier, working on that😁

[@bruce12347]

This was very helpful, great video. I like the new cabinet in the living room.

[@dianneh2816]

Brilliant video, thank you. I often struggle with the outfit that’s perfect on paper but not in reality. Some good tips shared. 😊

[@karoncrickmore2093]

Great info! Can’t wait for more!!, FYI - I bought the shoe laces for my sneakers last year when I first saw them on your site- love them.

[@QuinceyG]

Love the changes you made, and the tips. I stay so far away from tucking in my shirts, but maybe will give it a try as you said. I always feel it does not flatter my short frame 😂 I also ADORE the sparkly peplum top

[@SarahsAtticOfTreasures]

I can't wear my shirt tucked in either.

[@QuinceyG]

@@SarahsAtticOfTreasures I am not sure if it is just me. It if I really can’t, so I need to try :)

[@MsGoldgirl]

Obviously we all have different body types, but just try it at home. If you hate it, no one will have seen it!!

[@sandybenson608]

Loved all the 2nd options you had. They looked really good. Thanks for sharing. Love your videos😊

[@estellecoetzee1430]

Fantastic video. You also look fabulous in those jeans. They really fit you like a glove.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Oh thank you!

[@Katmom40]

Thanks for helping us fix our frump!! I thought the last “wrong” outfit was still really great (skinny jeans, blazer, heels) 🤩. The first outfit looked like something I’d try and then be like…no. 😂

[@bluegumbo6014]

Have you been watching me get dressed??? This happens to me almost every day. Please make this a series.

[@gcat4399]

I really like this video idea! We all question outfits and this helps. Love it

[@stephaniekaufman1830]

Love this style video Marnie. It was helpful on how changing shoes or a piece of the clothing makes the outfit better. I agree with others that the picture was distracting. Enjoy your weekend !❤

[@MsGoldgirl]

Glad it was helpful-and I'm going to change the art ASAP!!

[@carrieb9106]

I am so glad you said what you said about wearing a tight top if you're wearing loose bottoms. I heard that suggestion or line of thought a while ago and have tried to follow that "rule" , and it definitely does not work for me everytime! Plus, I'm smk on top and a tighter fit isn't very flattering. It's good to challenge the rules of thumb sometimes. Thanks Marnie. 🌟

[@samanthahudgins7696]

loved this video! thanks for walking us through how to change up those outfits!

[@dianemilligan7370]

This was really fun! And, what a difference a simple change can make! You looked great in all the outfits and that last outfit and the jeans on you - perfect!

[@missyann7744]

Loved this! So true how we put together an outfit in our mind that seems like it’ll look great, but then put it on & the looks falls flat. I thought you were right on point when you said no matter what the trends/fashions are WE have to like what we see when we look in the mirror or we won’t feel good in the outfit.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Absolutely!!

[@jenk6475]

Absolutely ❤❤this video. So informative and fun. If you are taking any suggestions I would possibly change out your tv art for something darker so it isn’t so washed out behind you.

[@lindawoolbright1960]

As soon as I originally saw your reel with the black corduroy outfit, I ordered it for myself in the pink. Love the comfort & feel of it, but I’m thin and petite. It looks ridiculous on me, but I still kept it. I did wear it with a tank, but buttoned jacket back up. I’ll try unbuttoned. I’m definitely going to keep wearing it. It’s SO comfortable, but I will be more conscious of WHERE I’m wearing it. 😂 Thanks, Marnie!

[@carolynk1170]

Love this kind of video! I love learning the "process"!! The best!

[@epbluestar3732]

Great video. Aggh I feel like I go through this routine every morning. I learned so much!

[@MsGoldgirl]

You got this!

[@MB-km5hh]

Such a pretty room! This seemed much more positive so I liked this format. Those black pants are cute but I am sure we are all going to regret the front tuck in a decade.

[@NYEmma]

Geez, I hoe the front tuck doesn't last for a decade. I can hear our granddaughters laughing right now.

[@MB-km5hh]

@@StylewithSerena I think it looks quite messy and just weird, especially from the side. Just have a shirt that hit closer to your waist or wear a longer layering piece if you don’t feel comfortable (weather dependent of course)

[@melissawilliams2460]

Love this format. Please do more like this. 😀

[@sipsalot6087]

Loved this video. Now I trust my own eye instead of hard and fast rules. Thanks!

[@StannaMcDougal]

Great topic - always trying to figure this out! Thank you.

[@strikkelises]

This is so relatable. Do make more like this.

[@brookehazard2049]

Really enjoyed this video. Really helpful. Make it a series, please. Those jeans look great on you. Very flattering .

[@MsGoldgirl]

Thank you! Will do!

[@jilldion5970]

This is one of the most helpful videos you have ever made! Thank you!

[@MsGoldgirl]

Oh wow!! Thank you so much!

[@clarissaherren7475]

Enjoyed this video so much! Great change from product videos. Loved the location as it really helped showcase all the looks. I personally loved the bright pink blazer! It’s colorful, comfortable without being slouchy and just looks fun to wear. Definitely my favorite outfit, modern, fun, stylish and so put together! Haven’t been a subscriber long but I’m throughly enjoying your videos.

[@debbiem73]

I love this demo! Small changes, huge impact!

[@deborahneat5523]

Loved this video! Really helpful

[@sharronwolfe7711]

Great job! You made wonderful changes in some awkward outfits! You look great!

[@MsGoldgirl]

Thank you so much!!

[@wendychen2828]

I love these types of videos!!! This happens to me alot too!! And more often then not then I just default to the same three outfits I wear these days.....but I totally need to utilize more of my closet!! This is great!!

[@MsGoldgirl]

I do that a lot too!

[@peggyekena9966]

I really enjoyed this video format. As women, we all struggle to put an outfit together that looks great and is comfortable. I think that you really improved on the original outfits and I think you looked especially pretty in the black peplum top and blue jean. And, you have nothing to worry about when it comes to your tummy! You look great the way you are. 💗

[@annspires8380]

My favorite was your very last outfit. I think the medium blazer makes you look skinnier. I have the same problem with fitted shirts and jackets; I have large shoulders. Love your demonstrations.

[@loriefulton4496]

This so real world! Thanks for sharing with us!

[@juliediehl4895]

Excellent video! This happens to me ALL THE TIME!! I think out what I’m going to wear and it just is missing the mark.

[@elisabethdarcy1985]

New sub! Love these! I am 52, very short and curvy. Work with lots of younger people and always feel matronly. Thank you for all this information!

[@MsGoldgirl]

Rock those curves!! You’re ultra feminine!!

[@debbiesokoloff1991]

I liked this video and enjoyed the process you went through to “fix” each outfit; helpful and fun!

[@traciminter7962]

I love that you’re talking through what works and doesn’t for an outfit. Thank you! I agree with your choices. I think your room (though beautiful) is too busy for your outfits. A plain background would be better.

[@rspice999]

Great video!! This was super helpful. It really shows the that getting dressed can be a bit of a process but its worth it. Thanks for the tips.

[@MsGoldgirl]

Glad it was helpful!

[@waterdragon2224]

I like the last outfit a lot. That hot pink jacket with the neutral accessories looked very pretty.

[@teresaosborne8483]

I am 62 and am from a generation that felt elastic or a drawstring waist is a sign that you had just given up🤣. Just can't embrace wearing them for anything other than exercise or lounging (I own a couple pair). I stick with denim or a casual trouser, maybe cargo pant without the drawstring. You can even find pairs with hidden elastic in the back for comfort.

[@MsGoldgirl]

I understand that perspective. My favorite pant type is the one that has snaps and a zipper in front, hidden elastic in back.

[@Randis-vv5hg]

Completely agree, Teresa! I love these videos and not trying to be mean but the problem with the first outfit is the jeans. Hands down.

[@rasberryco]

Agreed- most of the time there’s no hope when you start with a bad foundation

[@cparker7431]

Good morning beautiful!! I liked the lighter boots with the first outfit, loops aside lifting the pants. It's amazing how just changing the top looked more symmetrical top to bottom. Haha my girlfriend calls the pooch fupa. That's what bugs me with the tuck. You hsve to be strategic with the tuck. You nailed it!! Re-tucking after visiting the restroom is hard to get it right🤪

[@paigegreen571]

I like the light pink blazer better. The bright pink makes you look shorter. I love the flares. I'd probably do the white shirt, light pink blazer, flares and purple shoes. But you always look awesome! I'm the one who is short-phobic!

[@MsGoldgirl]

If I didn't feel so squeezed in the light pink blazer I think it would have been perfect.

[@JodieLang-LHR]

Love the family room! I'm trying with a very similar entertainment cabinet!! Thank you for the video! When I leave for work, on days I think I look OK, I know something is off! Change it out so much, that I turn it into something completely different!

[@maddworld3317]

Very true that if you don't feel good in something you're wearing, it'll affect you the entire time you're in it. :(

[@MsGoldgirl]

That’s the most important accessory!!

[@stephaniepurcell2245]

Started watching you a few months ago and really enjoy your take on things. I ordered the Treasure and Bond Rails dupe from your site and love it but it felt frumpy over a long sleeved tee and straight legged jeans. I am going to try tucking it in today.

[@MsGoldgirl]

It’s definitely meant to be tucked in!

[@debif3230]

ps I love this fun girlfriendy format your changes on the outfit’s were great! 🥰

[@MsGoldgirl]

Thanks Debi! It was really fun for me to film this!!

[@kelli255]

This was great! If I'm fussing with my clothes, I'm not comfortable or confident. Wouldn't mind seeing more ideas on how to get it right 😉