Our Autism Re-Evaluation Experience (Parent Perspective) | Autism Mom VLOG

Today I'm sharing my experience being present for my 4-year-old's autism re-evaluation at her pediatric neurologist's office. She was initially diagnosed with ASD at 18-months-old and has since been involved in full-time Speech, OT and ABA therapy with a great team. She's made a TON of progress over the years and we are so grateful for that. A child who once could not utter a single word is now responding to her name, singing songs, communicating wants and needs and making some eye contact with family and friends. She has come a long way but our journey has just begun. We're so proud of you Annie Boo Boo! If you'd like to learn more about the caregiver perspective of mothering autism, check out more of my videos here: bit.ly/2NwJEkj
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[@paulinephilyaw7599]

Your transparency is helping so many... keep going! You were hand picked by God for Anne. I pray for your strength when you feel weak.

[@heartscorpio2922]

He gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers ❤️ You’re doing amazing Vaughn

[@daphnechristopher7397]

When your MOM arrived, the weight was totally lifted. A loving, caring mother is a Blessing. Ann is alright...God has a plan for her life.

[@thisismebea]

My youngest son is Anne’s age and his autism re-evaluation is coming up. It can be stressful but it’s all for the better like you were saying. I have an older son (almost 12 years old) that has Autism and therapy really helped him. So I know the benefits of it all. He has thrived in school and he even does public speaking. God is so good!!

[@Telletell]

I’m a school psychologist who does 3 year reevaluations for a living (not ADOS at this time). I’m also a mother to a son whose been identified with a disability. I know how difficult this is for you on both ends. I see you, I respect you, and I get it!

[@petrinajones583]

My daughter is on the spectrum and is now 23 years old. I thank God for her progress and some things have gotten easier but she still has challenges. Within the last 5 years, it's almost like a light switch was turned on and she is reasoning and articulating her feelings. It's a daily walk. thanks for sharing and praying for your strength.❤️

[@meganokuesa6433]

My twins were diagnosed at university of Chicago last month, I understand exactly how those emotions felt. I was in tears when they were formally diagnosed because I’m a single parent and it’s so overwhelming knowing the long road we have ahead. I actually didn’t know they have to be reevaluated every 3 years so I’m glad I clicked the video!

[@jenherring]

I know the feeling. I have two little girls on the spectrum. One is high functioning and my 4 year old is non-verbal. It’s always emotional but you are doing an amazing job. 💙

[@erikarichardson4065]

Grandmothers are the absolute best.

[@candithecosmo]

I get emotional everytime that I have to fill out a questionnaire. It makes you realize what your child "doesn't do" by the book.

[@janetgarrett249]

Vaughn I just want to say it takes courage to share this part of your reality. When we have children so much of our worth can be tied to our children. We get excited with all of the accomplishments. It’s the same when we feel like they are not “measuring up” to what we would like. However, you removing yourself and living in the moment helps. You allowing yourself to feel those feet and release the anxiety of it all is 100% kudos to you! Scream, cry and yell if you have to but release and keep trucking. Which you are. You have an awesome support system and you are a GREAT mom!! Keep ya head up! Anne is advancing wonderfully!💕💕

[@marychapman3252]

Hi Vaughn, I am an RBT, try not to worry too much about some of the behaviors you saw in clinic. Everyone is trained to manage behaviors and we all know that our kiddos get tired as the day goes on and we may see new behaviors when introducing something new or increasing demands. It is hard but you and Anthony are doing a good job.

[@pamelaprescott4498]

U are a very loving, patient , good moma, I’m so glad I found your channel , my grandson has Austim too, and it is very hard on my daughter, but I told her about your channel and now she watches u too, u really give her strength!!😘😘 I just want to say u are doing very good!

[@sugarspiceandeverythingnic4803]

My son is 11 and was diagnosed when he was 5. I didn't qualify for alot if programs because he was older. I feel you on everything you've said. Luckily with God's direction I am able to get him some help and therapy outside of what they do in his school. You got this Vaughn! God bless you all.

[@desiraedoingthemost5339]

This video took me back to where my emotions were 20 years ago. My daughter was evaluated at UIC and TUH THIS DAY I still don't want to drive by that area. My husband was with me for the evaluation, but I was by myself when they gave me the diagnosis so I knew exactly what you meant!. But believe me, you are blessing somebody with this content!

[@halomathomas4638]

You are extremely blessed to have your mom's support. She's the best kind of mother and grandmother.

[@Iamrahcole]

My sister is in the early stages of diagnosis for my niece. This blog series has been very helpful and showing me how I can better support her. Thx!

[@VondessaJ]

Vaughn you are one outstanding Mother. I have a son that is deaf and the appointments use to be so much and I was a single parent. God has blessed me for him to grad from high school and college. Ann is just so pretty. How I wish we was living closer to each other. I was also a Special Service teacher in South Carolina for over 6 years til I moved to Georgia. My mom taught Special Services for 33 years. I just love their personality. Awesome Mom!!!

[@ladysoloist]

Wow, i didn’t know it was this much. Thank you for this video as it’s so educational for us parents (whether or not we have a child with autism). This is a lot and overwhelming for you Vaughn. She’s such a beautiful little girl and so full of love and life. Prayers for your continued strength, mama.

[@IamBrianaMcCarthy]

I TOTALLY get it. I used to cry every time we'd have evaluations for my son. I still leave pretty sad when we have our quarterly IEP meetings because its a reminder of how far behind he is. He has made A LOT of progress so I just choose to focus on that.