My Editor Tried to SCAM Me & My Unexpected Diagnosis! | Life Update GRWM

[@Alexandria-Ryan]

Hey guys! Long time no see! I hate to upload two life update GRWMs back to back but with all the chaos going on in the past few days I haven't been able to film much and I already had this video filled a couple days ago so I thought I would go ahead and share it with you guys! I do want to be clear it wasn't the editor themselves who tried to pull on over on me, but the editing website as a whole who tried to scam me out of my money or make me take down my video! I obviously need help with making my videos look better and thats why I sought out a professional but I'm going to have to look into other options now! We will be back to unboxings, product reviews, and other videos soon! Love ya💖

[@promise3333]

Hire a subscriber!!!! Someone who knows and watches your channel and knows your content. Some times we know our favorite channels the most when it comes to editing style. My sister just dealt with that. From alcohol. She’s doing it again. We’re sending her to rehab. Also go mediterranean, I love it and I go back and forth from that to keto. I’m down 8 lbs. was taking zepbound till all the law suits and illness.

[@auntrowdy]

So basically you are telling us that you are not going to be doing any cookie or chocolate subscription boxes any time soon? 😂 I hope you get healthy as fast as possible. We want to keep you around! ❤

[@bluestartx8027]

Girl, I have little experience and I know how to do the basics.

[@lisat9013]

We don’t care as long as we get a little love 😂❤

[@mgparis]

Gald to hear from you Alexandria, thanks for the update. I'm also struggling with health issues (I actually might have non-fatty liver disease too or similar!). Best wishes to you - and to everyone else struggling with health issues!

[@jenniferp7497]

Alexandria, I hope you see this. I am not an attorney, but as someone who handles legal cases and arbitration against insurance companies for a living, I want to give you a bit of guidance for the future: If you are in a dispute, asking to cancel a contract, or asking for a refund, never apologize or frame your wording in a way that sounds like an apology. NEVER qualify your statements with saying or inferring that the issues may be personal preference. Clearly state the issues, item by item. Then politely demand what you think expect to rectify the situation. Do NOT open yourself up to them turning things around on you. Make them aware that you have kept ALL documentation and correspondence, should anyone in management request verification. Lastly, this does not apply in this case, but never conduct business of this sort on the phone. Keep it to email only, certified mail if necessary, and NEVER open yourself up to a he said/she said circumstance. I'm glad you were able to get that handled!!

[@Tina758]

Great advice. I see she has a natural inclination toward being apologetic and appeasing, but that is the worst thing you can do in these situations.

[@sillypiratehooker]

I am an attorney, and everything above is absolutely accurate. Also - save all correspondence, screenshots, documents, contracts, etc. Save everything.

[@ashperez72]

Thank you for the free legal advice! 😂😊

[@musclesmountainsandmascara]

Have an audition. I suspect that more than a few of your followers have enough editing experience... plus they follow you and so they know what your style is... Could be a good option ?! ❤️❤️❤️

[@SarahTM2TS]

That's what I was going to suggest, as well. I know that's what Laurdiy did when she found her editor :D

[@kitsindel7884]

Was also going to suggest this make a inbox for submissions and a video.

[@malyssa_]

Definitely a good idea. I'm an editor and that experience - wowsa. That shouldn't happen. Auditions with a short bit of sample material would be a fun way to find a good match.

[@BuinidhMoChridheDoAlba]

Kind if a good idea. But for security reasons, followers should be kept at a distance, because people can be crazy. Obviously not every follower is that kind of person, but Alexandria can't know who is or isn't

[@musclesmountainsandmascara]

@BuinidhMoChridheDoAlba yes understandable, but there are ways to look into people, background checks, and through an interview process. Clearly she had a bad experience through a "service" so there are always risks, but I think that it's still a good way to find some help. More than likely she will be helping someone build their resume for bigger jobs in the future. I would do it for a minimal cost if I had the experience. But I've only done one editing project for a class so. I'm probably not the best option.

[@nfcapps]

@Alexandria-Ryan no, lovely. You film a mock video, post the uncut footage to wherever you want to, and then announce to your audience that they can download it and edit it into a video for you and THAT is the job application. You must specify that this video will not be posted, it's only for you and them to see as the interview process for an editor. And it might cost you the same per month, but at least you know you are getting what you pay for. Add in whatever other steps you like to protect your video. Let you dad write up the contract. Be blessed!

[@kittiepride7772]

Great idea!!

[@silentmuse6660]

This. This is a pretty good way to get the scams, the lazy works, and the people who are way too confident in their skills out of the way. If you pay a lot of money for something, it should be equal quality of the value.

[@hayleymariemills]

I suggested she reach out to Annie Elise also because she recently hired for editing and other positions and it was on her community post. She most likely had more people than she could hire and got to know a few of them and vetted them!

[@ashleystephens6613]

❤❤❤

[@ThatBetchEllie]

Exactly!!! I was surprised she didn't go to the audience for an editor to begin with hope she does this time

[@CarrieTells]

Nobody at my doctor's office called me in the last YEAR before my most recent appointment to let me know that my *pacemaker battery* had gone dead. No calls, texts, messages through their portal, nothing. I'm having the battery replaced on Wednesday. Doctors are so adamant we keep them informed of everything, yet some don't want to do the same for us. Anyway, best of luck in finding your new editor, and I'm glad you stood your ground with the service you tried to use. Always advocate for yourself, in any situation, not just medical!

[@madison1715]

I'm still trying to pick my jaw up! Your literal pacemaker wasn't pacemaking! Omg

[@MamaMOB]

Wow! I'm so glad you're okay!

[@SwimmerChick1821]

That is completely unacceptable! I am so glad you're OK.

[@susan2120]

Dont you have to send in at home reports? I have to do that every 3 months and then see them in person yearly (this wednesday in fact!). My report i get back when i do the at home scan always tells me my battery like (>8 years right now). Good luck!!

[@CarrieTells]

@@susan2120 I have an at home monitor, but I also didn't realize/wasn't told that my pacemaker wasn't connecting correctly, so reports weren't being sent. It's been a mess that will hopefully resolve after Wednesday when I have my replacement surgery.

[@the-king-of-poland5618]

A "cooking with Alexandria: Mediterranean diet edition" series for the vlog channel would be awesome

[@charleyanne]

Awesome idea ❤

[@elaniarkady7351]

Omg yes

[@frogmimi]

I would love this 💜

[@dianaw4072]

Yesss!! I’ve been told by a few of my drs that I need to do Mediterranean diet. Was told I probably have fatty liver too. Fun.

[@MikiraAliason]

I would love it too, especially since I've also just been diagnosed with this same condition. I also don't drink. Which makes me wonder what is in the food we're eating.

[@christirichardson1830]

Same thing happened to me with my Neurologist! I happened to call to verify my appointment and found out he "retired" and I couldn't see another doctor at that facility due to non-competes? I mean it's the SAME location! He left, had nothing to do with me quitting. But nope, and then I tried to call around in my area to see if I could get a new doctor, and shocker NO ONE around here will take me because they've been flooded with his other patients. I was like but you are taking new patients right? Yes. But I can't go there because I had a doctor that retired? Correct. WHAT IN THE WORLD?!?! Doctor community is WEIRD!

[@TheFifthWorld22]

Trust that there is a worldwide healing and there's a bunch of weird symptoms but all is well

[@zenmaster9195]

Our health care system is a joke.

[@nfcapps]

It's not the doctor community. It's the insurance and drug companies. Why do private companies get to decide who, how, and when we can see a physician? That's the actual problem.

[@bcgrote]

I read that non-competes will now be illegal! The FTC ruled in April that they are not good, so stop!

[@nfcapps]

@@bcgrote yes, you are correct about that court ruling. But what are you saying "stop" to?

[@Chipster724]

Sounds like they were trying to have you pay $900 to teach an editing class Your response was epic!!!! I paused the video to make sure i could read the full email!! 👏👏👏 so proud of you for standing your ground!!!💪

[@johnnamiller5]

I am nurse and I tell my patients to be an advocate for their healthcare. My husband was having some health problems and would bring them up to his doctor and the doctor would not listen to him. This went on for over 7 months. Finally, I told him to demand for a referral to a specialist. The doctor got mad about it, but did make the referral. Long story short, my husband was diagnosed with Stage 3 colon cancer. Had I not had urged him to demand for his referral, his cancer would have gone undiagnosed, and would have progressed to Stage 4 (which has an extremely low survival rate). He is currently on chemo every other week and we are hoping that his CT scan in a few weeks will show no signs of cancer, but will still have another cycle of chemo after this current cycle finishes (for a total of 6 months of chemo). And BTW, he no longer see this doctor and has since changed doctors. Everyone should be screened for colon cancer starting at age 45. More and more people are being diagnosed around age 45. Most symptoms don't start showing up until the cancer has progressed to Stage 3.

[@StLsalsagirl]

YES! My mom has stage 4 metastatic ovarian cancer because her primary doc, a woman, kept blowing her off. It's criminal.

[@dianaw4072]

I’m so sorry for both of you! How scary! My sister had the same thing happen with her husband. They blew him off for months and she had to get ugly with them. Sure enough, stage 3 cancer in his stomach. He’s doing ok now but still fighting. Just started radiation after doing chemo. ❤

[@StLsalsagirl]

@dianaw4072 I am so sorry that your family is going through this too. It's so stressful! I am glad that we are talking about cancer and symptoms. Maybe open discussion will help save other families.

[@jenniferp7497]

This happened to my BIL as well. He was actually a doctor himself, which was all the more shocking. He had bloodwork done, and apparently there were clear signs of leukemia, but the doctor never followed up to give him the results, so he thought everything was fine. He continued to feel tired and "off". Less than 6 months after he married my sister, he went in again for labs because he was exhausted all the time. By then, he was Stage 4 and passed away shortly after.

[@boosted_babe07]

My father was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer back in 2009 when I was in high-school, he had chemo radiation, a colostomy bag for awhile, and a surgery to removed alot of his colon BUT he beat it and is about to be 62! 🎉 THERE IS HOPE! I really hope your husband beats this and keeps his hopes up! Believing you can beat it is half the battle! Prayers for you both!

[@Abigail_Wyatt]

Girl I AM SO FREAKING PROUD OF YOU!!! That email to the editing company was AWESOME!!!🤯😁🫶🏻🎉

[@jjusttlistenn]

Make sure you have a GI doc and possibly a licensed dietician (not a nutritionist!). They can help you set up a sustainable diet. I'm so happy that you're getting answers! It must be such a relief in a way. I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself and advocating for yourself.

[@michellemccarron6089]

I felt the email 100%. I get fired up and send off a detailed email and then the fear takes over. There is nothing wrong with slamming with facts, but it doesn't stop the anxiety.

[@AnoukiMorgenstern]

I had 2 semesters of video editing at university when I studied design and even with that basic knowledge I would nail stuff like lighting and color balance...because I have EYES. That service sounds super scammy and unprofessional, so sorry you had to deal with all of that Dx

[@MamaMOB]

I had to take editing 101 for my visual communication degree. Even I know that stuff and I'm just a graphic designer.

[@paris5768]

they offer video eiditing courses at uni? Things have most certainely changed since my uni days lol! Don't mind if I go back to uni to take some of these courses.

[@MaskedReviews]

It feels like the 'editor' was just typing prompts into an AI. That clip looks like the enhance option on google photos

[@MarielWhalley]

I KNOW RIGHT

[@ivy5554]

If you have any KZbinr friends/acquaintances it seems like it's usually best to hire someone that can be vouched for/friends have used and hire a person directly and not through these companies.

[@cjaneg97]

Fatty liver is common in people with undiagnosed celiac disease. So are all the other symptoms you've listed the reflux, nausea, painful joints, face flushing, rapid weight gain, hair loss, all symptoms I had that led to a diagnoses. Untreated celiac disease also increases your risk of other autoimmune diseases like lupus. When you get the scope get them to take biopsies for celiac. I've been gluten free for 6 months and feel slightly better but it can take month or years to fully heal so giving up gluten for a few weeks often isn't enough to notice a difference. Whatever it is I hope you get answers and can start feeling better.

[@KimbaLoveAdams]

Girl who cares if they are mad at you or not. Let them be mad! They are in the wrong and that is YOUR money. You cannot care about their feelings. You said what you said and you were right to say it. Enough of the back and forth. Sometimes you have to put your foot down and not let people walk all over you be they were not going to give you ur money back without you doing exactly what you did. Be proud of yourself. And stop worrying about who is mad at you. Especially when you are in the right. You did absolutely nothing wrong. You said nothing wrong. And I’m extremely proud of you. ❤❤❤❤

[@Creativelyme21]

Definitely make sure you have a GI doctor. My GI doctor is helping me monitor and combat my fatty liver.

[@MyCatIsADonut]

Ayy fellow fatty liver friendo. Good luck on your journey!

[@nfcapps]

You should all probably find a functional medicine practitioner and cure it instead of only treating the symptoms.

[@nfcapps]

Functional medicine practitioner. Full health. Thyroid. Cortisol insufficiency. Stop the Thyroid Madness. It's a book.

[@MyCatIsADonut]

@nfcapps I mean I already do have a functional practitioner and have moved miles along my health journey but thanks for the unsolicited advice, I guess 🤷‍♀️

[@nfcapps]

@@MyCatIsADonut your welcome. This is the internet. Maybe you can get your functional medicine practitioner to help you grow a thicker skin and not be a passive aggressive old biddy.

[@summerlandgirl8058]

I was also diagnosed with non alcoholic fatty liver. Things I’ve done that are sustainable for me are aiming for 30 different fruits/veg/seeds/nuts per week, eliminating over half the added sugars from my diet (not from fruit, refined sugars), found an exercise I actually enjoy (rebounding/mini trampoline), upped lean protein …still attempting to get 100 grams a day (it’s hard for me), added more Whole Foods whole cutting out ultra processed foods. Small changes over time. I started making changes in march. I don’t use a scale, but three inches have come off my waist. June 7th I go back for blood work and a progress report. Wishing you all the best. You’ve got this!

[@SkwithOv]

hey cool, i have a rebounder too! it's really fun, i got mine about a year ago and love it good luck ♥

[@BambiBryant]

Protein shakes help get protein in your diet. Coffee flavored ones are great for the morning! Dessert style ones are great after dinner. In the lifting community, we aim to get our goal weight in protein a day.

[@Rose-jz6sx]

Getting enough protein is so hard! And protein shakes are mostly not great. Protein water is good though which surprised me.

[@summerlandgirl8058]

I must agree that most protein shakes are pretty gross. I e recently been intrigued by the over night oats all over social media with 20g protein. Has anyone tried them?

[@carriehart1497]

@@summerlandgirl8058pick up limes has a great make at home option. I make theirs then and add a scoop of unflavored protein powder and premier protein for milk.

[@bryceleake1932]

That same primary care doctor issue happened to me too! I had no idea that the doctor I had been referred to was a primary care doctor and going to that doctor would void my primary care with my current doctor. AND my when I showed up to an appointment with the doctor I thought was my primary, her nursing staff was INCREDIBLY rude to me. I was like wait, I’ve received the text reminder, was checked in at the desk and now I have no appointment? The nurse basically told me I was a liar for not knowing the other doctor had just became my primary and told me that I was just “shopping around” for the medicine I wanted. I was just trying to get a b-12 shot because I was incredibly low and couldn’t get it at her office because her schedule was so weird. Turns out I was misdiagnosed by that doctor as it was and I have in fact found out the correct diagnosis (genetic syndrome that she never once considered). So it did work out for the best but doctor things can be so dramatic and hard to navigate.

[@wildcat1227]

I... what? Theyre saying you can only see one general practitioner? What??? (To be clear, I believe you. I can't believe someone is saying this but I believe your experience. ❤) I would blow their minds. I have three. Two are in my preferred office. My primary GP, who handles my chronic illness and all its friends. Then also in that office, I've establisbed with a second doctor who has same day appointments open pretty regularly. I see her for urgent stuff that I'd rather not have to go to urgent care for or doesn't rise to that level but also can't wait 2 weeks for my GP to fit me in. And then number 3 is at an alternate office so I can access their "member only" urgent care. I see him once a year to wave hi so he can receive my after visit follow-ups when his urgent care has the shorter time. And what is it with nursea and accusing patients of drug seeking for the most random drugs these days? I got hit with it over a muscle relaxer I hadn't filled in over a year. My friend got it from a nurse for her meloxicam (long acting anti-inflammatory, definitely not addictive or abusable) when she'd been stable on it for 8 years. And now you getting it for B12??? I don't understand. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You deserved better, more compassionate care. I'm glad you were able to get a diagnosis in the end, and hope you're doing well ❤

[@Hereforthelaughss]

As a girlie with chronic health issues, IBS included, I completely understand the roller coaster that getting diagnosed/properly diagnosed causes. It took years to get properly diagnosed, and that's still not including any treatment. I'm kind of surprised that it hasn't been suggested that maybe your new meds are contributing to the nausea. For me, with gut issues, if a side effect is nausea, I usually get it. Either way, I'm happy to hear about your journey, I hope everything is smooth sailing from here!😅

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

You could talk to Charlotte dobre, her editors are fantastic! Also! Don't google lol as a chronically ill and disabled woman and a retired nurse, dont ever google your diagnosis unless its to look for support groups. FLD is less about weight and more genetics also, im over 250lb, I have a mixed diet, an allergy to fructose and I lost the genetic lottery and I don't have FLD, my mother is over 700lb and doesn't have it. It's not just about weight honey, try not to fixate on that. ALSO!!! be very careful taking metoclopromide anti sickness medication!!! People with endometriosis who use metoclopromide can develop hyperprolactinemia and it can affect our pituitary gland, I take it for travel sickness and chronic migraine related nausea and I ended up with prolactin in the 5000s! You also want to check for crohns disease and IBS as these can mimic and also be issues with FLD (comorbidity) im so glad you're getting the right medical help though hun! As a woman i know how hard it is getting the right care as women especially as we are regularly medically gaslit

[@Palitato]

I can't have fructose either, and I barely weigh 130! Weight has nothing to do with GI disorders most of the time! Fructose free diet is so hard.

[@whatdeyadoes]

I love charlotte dobre ❤i second this opinion

[@StLsalsagirl]

I respectfully disagree about Google. Research is never a bad thing. If you know something is wrong, but you don't know where to begin, Google can be a jumping off point. Obviously, stick to sites like Mayo Clinic, NIH, and other reputable organizations. Also, look for any diagnostic tests that may be needed. If your doc orders tests that aren't used to diagnose a particular issue, it will do you no good.

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

@StLsalsagirl there's a big difference between googling support groups, tests etc and googling symptoms and horror stories. Anyone with common sense knows what I meant and knows I was on about googling symptoms and worst case scenarios. Maybe I should've mentioned english is not my native language and maybe I could've worded it better but I didnt

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

@Palitato yup! I'm overweight due to medication and I have crohns disease, took me a decade to get a diagnosis because "fat people can't have that" doesn't matter that I wasn't fat at the time of my diagnosis but hey ho 😆🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ unfortunately for us women everything is either our periods, our womb, our mental health or our weight. Medical gaslighting is so effing real and cruel

[@nikitatavernitilitvynova]

I eat a Mediterranean diet as an italian woman. It's absolutely magic. I have a few good indicators for that. When it comes to pasta make sure you make your own sauce rather than buy it pre made. A lot of italian food is based around being partially processed. Like we get tomato sauce at the store but we garnish it ourselves with olive oil, salt, pepper, garlic or onion and a other herbs to taste. We also eat loads of veggies. Either baked or boiled. And some meat or a nice slice of salmon in a pan. All I use is white wine, a bit of water, garlic put the salmon on there add salt and pepper then cover it with a lid and flip it over every once in a while on a low heat. Tastes really good. Also the Mediterranean diet is full of good fats. Such as lots of olive oil. Also we use spices to garnish dishes rather than some kind of dip.

[@Paige-xd1yv]

I'm so proud of you!! Sticking up for yourself is so hard! (I'm still figuring it out myself) Taking care of your finances and YT channel AND your health. Self- advocacy is, I swear, the hardest skill of all to learn especially for women and people pleasers. I'm a teacher and it's one of the most vital skills I try to teach my students (through lots of trial and error)

[@nicholefischer]

This is what terrifies me as a content creator and even thinking about getting an editor, it is hard enough to release that type of control on what your audience sees... but seriously, it's why I just do it all myself too... especially for THAT price!! Ugh. It's so hard when you have a full-time job and are a content creator. I feel you, sister

[@dawngoaley5115]

Hi Alexandria! Please take care of yourself and fight for the care you need. Healthcare is getting ridiculous. I told my physician about some chest pain I had been having, I have heart disease and a family history, and she told me if it was a heart attack I would be dead by now and dismissed me. I have Stage IV ovarian cancer and just want you to keep an eye on your nausea, heartburn etc. If you are having bloating, feeling full etc. don't be afraid to get a CT scan. I love your videos! You are such a sweet, genuine person 😊😊😊

[@StLsalsagirl]

Oh! My mom was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic ovarian cancer at the end of March. She had surgery, removed two buckets of tumors, and is now on round 3 of chemo. Her doc blew her off for a year with: eat more fiber and drink more water. FIGHT LIKE A GIRL! 💙🫂

[@DKCesia]

I'm an editor, before going to higher education, I used to work at an agency and to me the concept of "unlimited revisions" sounds like a scam lol It is frustrating on both ends when that happens because as a costumer you get in an endless cycle of perfectioning the video and as an editor it is a living nightmare. We used to charge $150 per hr and charge extra after 3 cycles of revisions. Of course color correction and audio are fundamentals and I can't believe how bad that edit turned out, specially when the footage is well shot. Glad you are getting a full refund.

[@SophiaRester]

I've had a fatty liver for years, lost 100 lbs, still had a fatty liver. My GI doctor monitors my liver levels and a MRI lead to a diagnosis of PSC (narrowing of the bile ducts). My levels have been stable thanks to additional weight loss (full disclosure, I was put on one of the weight loss injections because of the additional health issue - the one I am currently taking has research saying it may help fatty liver disease 🤞🏼)

[@MamaMOB]

Good luck!

[@Tina758]

This. GLP1 medications are supposed to be amazing for fatty liver. If you can use those at all, I'd go for it.

[@sillypiratehooker]

Yikes. Now I'm wondering if I shouldn't get mine checked? Best of luck in staying healthy. Our bodies just turn against us sometimes, eh?

[@Cloudy_SkieZ1]

Aliiiii, love you girl. Please please please speak to the dr before going on keto or paleo. Google NEVER yields correct information but you should say exactly to your Dr what you’re saying to us, “I’ve been reading that low fat items have a higher sugar content so doesn’t the liver have to process that sugar which then turns into fat?” Or they meant you need to “cut back” on higher fat items meaning to “lower your fat consumption” bc sometimes drs say shit that they think we understand that we don’t. And no. Keto isn’t a long term thing. We did it for a year (lost 200 lbs between the both of us) but the second Id even smell bread I’d gain weight, lol

[@vickycolman6455]

Omg Alex, i have been checking your community tab to see updates, can't believe they tried to scam you,

[@idlestar5906]

Good for you Alexandria! 🎉 These companies shouldn’t be allowed to bully and scam people ❤

[@laurenw8269]

Hi!! Not a doctor here so take my word with a grain of salt! As an ultrasound tech in the south I see TONS of fatty livers, usually they’re asymptomatic. It’s still very possible that your gallbladder isn’t functioning properly, even without stones!! A HIDA scan may be beneficial for you to rule out gallbladder disease, your symptoms really do line up with a sick gallbladder! Just something to consider ☺️

[@la8717]

I agree see a gi specialist. I work for a GI office and most times Ultrasound doesn't yield any results, but if our patiens are still having symptoms we due a HIDA. Alot of times that shows that the gallbladder is not functioning correctly and it is most likely the cause. Biliary diskinsia is a possibility.

[@la8717]

Also i swear a majority of patients have fatty liver.

[@aimeesaye7717]

Hey Cute Lady! I don't usually leave comments but I just wanted to let you know that as a 52 year old mama, I truly look forward to your videos. They are literally a bright spot in my day and I really look forward to your videos, especially advent/after advent calendar season. I just adore your honestly and your bubbly personality and how much you invite us into your life. Keep up you awesome job and never think we, as your friendly viewers, that we don't love and appreciate you and the joy you bring my days. Thank you 💕💕

[@txkimmi08]

Oh girl, I wish I lived there, I’d have you show me how you wanted things done, AND, I’d love to come get you all organized and keep you that way like a personal assistant. I have no anxiety about putting someone in their place. I’m a mama bear when it comes to somewhere I work and my friends and family. Never, ever, feel bad or anxious for advocating for yourself.

[@margieryne6220]

My older sister has fatty liver disease & the doctor ask her daughter if she drank & she told her no she never did drink so she didn’t understand either! I’d be more than happy to watch you whether you’re edited or not because I just love to watch you even if you’re on a rant! I get so tired of the way the medical system operates, they’ll stick it to you any way they can! I’m glad you’re finally getting some things straightened out! I would listen to you any day any time so don’t worry about please! So happy about Tater, that is awesome news! Keep hanging in there sweet girl & it will all eventually work out! Really enjoyed seeing you today! Sending prayers, love & hugs! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🐾🐾❤️

[@SheriLynNut]

I have been wondering how you’ve been ❤ glad for an update! I have lupus and I really do recommend getting a rheumatologist on board to help manage your symptoms. You are 100% correct about advocating for yourself. You’re in my prayers - hugs!

[@teri2466]

It might be worth seeing a specialist - a nutritionist - after your tests are complete. They'll look at all your health issues, including your skin & ADHD. Diet can make such a difference. Good luck! 💖

[@jayg3242]

Please don't apologize for talking to much! Girl we are here because we love hearing you talk. ❤️

[@sacgeekgirl]

*hugs* got a fatty liver warning for me myself as well couple years ago. Went 18+ yrs with gall stones before I finally found a doctor who listened to me and got me diagnosed & surgery.

[@stacib1992]

Im glad you figured out whats wrong physically! Fatty liver disease is very strange. Both of my parents have it. It sucks about the editing program people but i think you do a great job editing! I love watching the videos you make! Thats very frustrating about the doctors offices not communicating with you. Im glad the pups are doing good! I hope everything continues to go well!

[@amandaeubanks8010]

So proud of you for standing up for yourself even with your anxiety that was a big step for you but you deserve to not be taken advantage of. Also glad they finally figured out what is going on with you health wise so you can now start getting better and being on top of that. Praying for you!

[@fizbanhandmadejewelry3537]

I had non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, but my liver is now normal. I did a bit of research and found that the only things that can help it are strenuous exercise and/or 2 cups of good quality coffee daily. I'm disabled so the strenuous exercise was out, but I did the coffee thing and within a year, my liver was normal again. The key is supposed to be drinking the best quality coffee you can afford. Best of luck to you hun.

[@Creativelyme21]

I have NAFLD (non-alcoholic fatty liver disease) too!

[@marymacdonald805]

The editing story really helped me realize how much work goes into your videos which seem so easygoing and welcoming.

[@noradiaz4923]

My advice into Mediterranean diet is, to go to actual Mediterranean restaurants first, try out their bowls and other dishes, and THEN replicate them at home 🥹🏡 to be really honest, I went through my favorite bowls from CAVA and bought the ingredients at Whole Foods, and that made my journey easier. You can do this 💪🏻☺️💛

[@KendrykWynn13]

Thats a smart idea! Trying recipes without reference of how theyre supposed to work/taste can definitely be daunting

[@user-fs2lc7md9q]

Hi! Im a student studying my second year in nutrition. Thank you for sharing your experience im sure it must be hard. I wanted to say that reading about what things to eat or not eat on the internet can become a headache and cause further stress. Anyone out there with any metabolic or endocrine disorder should take their time to see a real dietitian or nutritionist so they can get personalized diets. youd be surprized by how much "easier to follow" a dietitians plan is compared to the diets recommended by people on the internet :) dont give up and best of luck!

[@mamadell5723]

Patientship made me giggle, from now on that's what I'm calling it. ❤❤❤❤

[@AliceyDufeal]

Truly know the struggles of having an unknown sickness....going through a medical problem for 3 yrs and still every doctor doesn't know what causing it or what it is....every test and stuff done is always good, nothing wrong is just stressful and yes it makes you emotional

[@connyc.5346]

I'm also on a weight loss journey at the moment. Working out at home with my body weight. Lost a bit already, and I am glad you take your illness seriously. At first it can be a bit daunting to be told 'hey, you have X disease and you have to do X things to get rid of it', in the end if we follow the advice from the doc we will get better. In Germany we have a word for the lack of motivation to finally do something and lose or exercise: the inner pigdog 😅 If you can kick this one in the butt, you can do anything. When I was 26 I was diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease and rheumatoid arthritis. Hashimoto's disease is a thyroid disease that has an affect on hair, nails, sleep quality, weight loss and/or gain, joints, digestive system, skin etc. Since I take L-thyroxin I feel a lot better. I hope you will too. Love your videos and your honesty ❤

[@marid2891]

I feel like a super proud parent!! She actually send an angry email demanding her rights!!! That is awesome!!!!

[@happycamper4thewin]

I’m so sorry you had to fire your editor! I am so terrible at telling people they need to change things 😢. I do find it odd that she didn’t watch some of your other videos to sort of copy your style

[@bronteharris5174]

This editor situation reminds me of something that happened to me recently. My apartment offices essentially scammed my roommate and I, it was rough. I also pulled out my laptop and went clicking-clack and sent multiple emails. They continued to call me stupid in the most condescending ways. Never let people condescend to you!!

[@teri2466]

Did she not look at any of your videos?! Good for you, standing up for yourself! 😘

[@AC-pm3mc]

Yay Alexandria! Look at you standing up for yourself! So proud! Spite the anxiety you totally did the right thing! 👏👏👏

[@spinstercatlady]

I have RA, autoimmune diseases, and fatty liver. My rheumatologist told me the *ONLY* diet plan that's worth doing is the Mediterranean bc it's very well balanced. So you're on the right track! DEFINITELY see a rheumatologist!! The hot facial flushing was my very first symptom (my BFF called it my scarlet fever lol), in addition to high CRP and Sed Rate. Hope you're able to get answers ❤

[@StLsalsagirl]

Flushing is a sign of RA?

[@TalenynWren]

So proud of you for how you handled both the editor and the dr situations. I know both were uncomfortable but I enjoyed hearing you speak up for yourself

[@tanyapoe5490]

My mom had fatty liver disease and she had a healthy balanced diet. Her issue was that she was also diabetic so finding was to eat without the sugars and such was hard to do. Im sorry that youre dealing with this.

[@ToastontheEastCoast]

I can't speak for anyone else, only myself, when I say I don't mind the longer videos, especially when you're giving us updates on how things have been going in your life. It's kind of like catching up with a friend that you haven't seen in a bit, you don't want to rush through the conversation because you actually care about the things your friend has been dealing with in their life.

[@FakeItTilYaMakeIt]

Love your videos, definitely makes me want to start pivoting my channel to include more vlogs/more personal videos! I’m so sorry this happened!

[@lynneforesman1647]

You Go Girl! I totally feel sick every time I have to confront people that are like that.

[@louiseb6111]

Aww sweetheart, I've actually had you in my thoughts the past couple of days. That feels weird to say, lol, but it's true. 😬🤦🏼‍♀️ It's been a bit of a time for you lately, to say the very least, and you never seem to get a moment. I haven't even watched the video yet and I'm already rambling! 😂

[@aolsweetsew]

I'm so proud of you! Great job standing up for yourself! You go, Girl! I, too, have a very unhealthy relationship with food. So, you're not alone. The Mediterranean Diet is a great diet. I've never done it, but several friends have and feel great. Thank you for sharing. You are such a sweet woman, and I'm praying for you. You are probably helping a lot of people with your honesty.

[@meaganmakiej]

I think you should look into either Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome or Dysautonomia/POTS. Often times someone who has one of these will get misdiagnosed with lupus. And if you're having issues with your joints, EDS is something that could make sense. And the facial flushing could be a Dysautonomia or POTS thing. I have both, and the amount of doctors appointments you've had is very relatable to me.

[@rhoward295]

I second this!

[@Iriestine]

I was thinking this as well. I have HSD, hypotension, & Dysautonomia/POTS.

[@Little.MissDiagnosed]

Fifteen! I have been saying this. Sounds like zebra! Could be not. But rule it out!!!

[@StLsalsagirl]

​@@Little.MissDiagnosedhaha! A friend was finally diagnosed with POTS and EDS. She wears a zebra jumper to her appointments now 😂

[@haleyp9986]

It’s so comforting and validating when you share your experiences with us! When you mentioned the extreme red facial flushing, I felt so seen because I also have dealt with this most of my life. Thank you for feeling comfortable enough to share these things with us.

[@merrbeee]

Mediterranean diet is amazing! It’s basically what I’ve eaten my entire life. I’ve also done keto but making Mediterranean food is so much easier/funner.

[@Mollyrae0607]

Omg paused what I was watching to jump over here cause of that title lol. I hope you’re doing ok and the boys 💜

[@MsHardysgirl]

I did the same thing.

[@taermina8907]

Hi Alexandria 💕 glad to see you back, and sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I agree with other people suggesting you hold an editing audition - although I'm not an editor myself so i have no idea how difficult that would be to set up! I'm happy to hear Tater is doing better as well 💕

[@lunaxnova2920]

You are better off putting it out on you socials and hiring a personal editor that you can see their work and negotiate price. There are a ton of great freelancers.

[@daydreamsinpastels]

That's so crazy about the editor, I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I think I have to agree with many comments that you have such wonderful followers who could help you out. I do applaud you for what you did, I think that was brave. I would be so nervous and anxious and I would have backed out. I hope others will follow your example if they come across this issue. I wish you all the best with the updated medical diagnosis. Please make sure you are seeing a GI doctor and a licensed dietitian.

[@Kimberly_Sparkles]

I'm going to be honest, I edit my own short films. If you're using someone's work, they should be paid. I don't consider it a scam to pay for work you used. $350 for 8 hours of work in NYC isn't wildly out of pocket for a day of editing. Unlimited revisions IS amazing. And it sounds like they did do a day of work. Now, the service is undoubtedly paying that editor $20/hr and pocketing the rest as a middleman. So they could have offered their middleman fees back. That is what I would target in the future. My advice would be to reach out to the local university, and see if a communications or radio/web-tv-film major does editing and can work for you. In fact the advantage of hiring a local would be you sitting next to them and walking it through your decision making once. Would be the least confrontational way to onboard an editor. Also, get really comfortable with detailed instructions or maybe providing a link to your 5 most "Alexandria" videos. As a director, I expect to sit next to my editor working with them hand-in-hand and providing detailed guidance and debate over the choices that get made. especially the first round. You have preferences, but you don't like expressing them and that will never work out in a collaboration. You would not want to turn the tone of your channel over to the editor, and that's kind of what you're expecting if you don't expect to provide a lot of handholding at the beginning. I do think you'd be helped with an editor and I hope you take these comments in the spirit given. I'd like to see you succeed. I love watching your channel and all of this is from a place of love. ETA: I'm not a fan of hiring fans because if they aren't working as an editor, they may not know what's appropriate in the industry. it can lead to exploitation and the influencer will never come out well if accused of exploiting a fan.

[@carrielankford4036]

I love these videos where you just chat with us and talk about what's going on with you.

[@jilly5001]

I’m so early in commenting. I love Tater!

[@Alexandria-Ryan]

Aww thank you💖

[@morganronayne388]

I was diagnosed with mild fatty liver as well but also in the process of a diagnosis for auto immune hepatitis. The discomfort that it cause and just how you feel definitely affects all aspects of your health. I have was diagnosed with MS at 18 and reynauds at 12. It definitely helps mentally when you have an answer. I hope that your health gets better and you start feeling better. I love watching you and will continue to for as long as you post❤

[@blugreen123]

If you're paying a "professional" for a service, you shouldn't have to walk them through the basics of performing that service. 😒

[@Alexandria-Ryan]

That’s what I was thinking! I was excited to have someone who would know how to make my videos look more elevated because I struggle with color and lighting. I assumed since they were a professional and had professional programs for editing my videos would look and sound better but that wasn’t the case!

[@tigereyes5879]

I've been dealing with a lot health issues too. Just this year I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, a muscle spasm in my neck, and chronic migraines. It's a grueling process to not only get diagnosed but then manage it. I hope your doctors can get to the bottom of it all so you can start feeling better.

[@mish_elle1450]

As a dietitian, please look up the Mediterranean diet, not keto diet. It is the only science based diet to have worked towards Nafld

[@Alexandria-Ryan]

That’s what I have been doing the past few days! Glad to know you recommend it!

[@mish_elle1450]

@@Alexandria-Ryan I'm glad to hear and you are right with not following a low fat diet (based on medical training back in the 70s) as well as not trying the keto diet as it's can lead to high cholesterol issues in many of those that have followed this approach. Just remember, don't overcomplicate or overthink - difficult to do (I also have ADHD so the struggle is real) and just eat more fruit (has fructose but is high in fibre, antioxidants and vitamins so is essential in any diet), vegies, lean meat, fish and it'll get easier over time and will become second nature (after 4-6 weeks) Good luck Alexandria!

[@cinnfulsweets115]

I'm so glad to know they figure it out before it got worse! We found out my boyfriend has the same issue earlier this year. It took us by surprise but we had to do what we had to do. We drastically changed our diet. His doctor recommended wild caught salmon. After a few months his levels tested way better! I understand weight gain and loss. It's been my whole existence. I'm here for you and your new journey! You got this girl! One step at a time, don't get overwhelmed ❤

[@macnspeech]

Would love to hear more about your adhd diagnosis! When were you actually diagnosed? I’m going to finally bring up my potential adhd concerns to my doctor but I too find it really scary to bring up. Love how open and honest you have been in your videos lately 💜 love you!!

[@bevmulroy5877]

One of my favorite parts was Alexandria's strongly worded message, and then ends it with "I hope you understand" ☺. For the record, I am SO happy for you standing up for yourself 🥳. Also if you want help editing, I do have a PC with editing software. I have made videos for local charities, and personal family videos. I may not be a professional, but as a disabled Grandma, I got nothing but time on my hands LOL. If you tell me where to find your email, I can send you a sample. Besides I work CHEAP, trade for products 😁

[@barbarafetherolf4007]

Glad you have a diagnosis! Sometimes that’s the hardest part. Good luck with the upcoming lifestyle change. ❤❤

[@Jacqueline7]

Girl we are in the exact same boat! I have had all the exact same symptoms my whole life also, and the wieght loss and gain randomly, the sickness at all times, and i am now doing a Gall Bladder Diet and it is very much like the Mediterranean diet and i havent felt this good in my whole life! I am very glad you found a DR to help you find the issue and you can start feeling better!

[@NicoleCamp88]

I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. I fully understand the feelings of anxiety afterwards but you did the right thing.

[@thatgirlchelsea2085]

Alexandria! At the beginning of 2020, I was diagnosed with non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. I worked with a holistic doctor who put me on a food sensitivities diet while eating low carb and avoiding sugar (outside of fresh fruit). With the addition of some supplements for liver and gallbladder support, I completely reversed my NAFLD in about a year. I highly recommend!

[@ams2773]

I was going through a bunch of GI issues awhile back and my GI doctor and their staff was so unhelpful. I was told everything that WASN'T wrong, but given no direction or useful feedback. I finally looked into a Registered Dietician (not a nutritionist), and she helped me tremendously. I would recommend that route if dietary changes are necessary because of the sheer amount of information out there along with the amount of misinformation out there. I hope you find some relief soon!

[@TheSilly82]

Also, that anxiety response to assertiveness is so freaking relatable; thank you for sharing what you go through. It feels better knowing I'm not alone lol

[@TarinaRose-Watson]

I, too, have NAFLD. I have been off work for over a year from a fall and gained extra pounds because it hurts to exercise when you hurt all over. Also being on a steroid doesn’t help. I literally think of food all the time. Add the extra depression and potential job loss, it just piles on. I decided to cut out sugar first. It took a solid two-three weeks. I felt like I was dying. All enjoyment I had went away. Then I stopped with the complex carbs, like white pasta and breads. Once again, life was joyless. Next intermittent fasting. I’ve lost about 30 pounds and need to lose about 30 more. I’ve started talking to a therapist who believes I have 30 years of job PTSD. It’s amazing how we suppress trauma. My primary care doctor thinks I have fibromyalgia but getting in to see a rheumatologist is practically impossible. I have widespread pain that doesn’t seem to go away. I spend most of my days in bed or at doctor appointments. Something is wrong but finding out what, has been the challenge. Please continue seeking medical care. It’s not all in our heads. We just need answers.

[@amberf801]

Thank you for opening up!! You’re an inspiration to so many of us!! Yes go to rheumatologist!! That was the best decision for me! They were able to diagnose my RA and got me on a treatment plan. I’ve learned this last year you have to advocate for yourself. You know your body and don’t stop until it gets better!

[@SandieMitchell]

Yahoo, you now know what is making you feel ill! This is great because now you know what to address. Thank heavens! Slow and steady wins the game; eat healthily, and you're correct; low-fat foods put in extra salts and sugars, a huge no-no. So happy you kicked the editor to the curb; what they tried to do was straight-up wrong. As for litter Tatter, bless his little self and all his new fur; you are a fantastic fur mom! Everything is falling into place.🤗

[@ObsidianNebula00]

Ooh I am SO proud of you for sending that standing up for yourself in that strongly-worded email! You knew your rights and you stood firm! I hope you feel proud of yourself too because you deserve to!

[@charrussell5774]

trying to work with the health care system today is a nightmare on a good day let alone ask them for anything new, different or complicated. glad you have a direction to focus on helping yourself.

[@jojomart]

You go girl! I used to let people walk over me for years ... until I started caring for my mom full time. I turned into a momma bear! Nobody gets anything over on me now. You'll get used to it honey, and it will make you feel amazing!

[@jillynnesena6616]

Loved the update-I missed you. I applaud your handling of the “editing” situation; not easy to do when you are a nice person. It seems very unprofessional of that doctor to drop you as a patient, let alone fail to communicate with you about your appointment. Happy to hear little Tater is doing better.

[@CrankyMama44]

I am so so proud of you. Its crazy how similar we are (anxiety) and how I KNOW I would've puked. But Ill be darned if you scam me or screw me over without me speaking up about it! Too many companies take advantage of others. Thank you for spreading awareness about this, and other scammy scams in the past. 😊

[@cindyboyette9782]

Never allow anyone to take your worth from you. You are such a beautiful young lady inside and out. We would always straighten each others crowns.

[@MaddieMadMoo1]

I am so sorry you got scammed and the company were so unprofessional. I always watch your videos and the bring a lot of smiles and happy moments for me. I have a very close friend who is a professional film maker and editior, and is also a total sweeheart and who has been looking for some extra work so was a little cheeky and shared your video with him to see if can email you and if nothing else he might be able to give you a few pointers of services who won't rip you off.

[@andreasimpson1018]

I’ve done keto and paleo, and you are right. It’s not long term. I’m doing the Mediterranean diet right now and loooove it! I need to have some experience of joy when I eat and this definitely does it. Best of luck on your journey and I’m so sorry you had to deal with additional stress on top of health issues.

[@louisejohnson6057]

Alexandria, that letter was perfect. You clearly stated the facts, you were firm but always polite. You were in no way rude. In fact, you were much nicer than I might have been under these circumstances, and I'm Canadian! Everyone is always saying how nice we are. You are so nice dear Alexandria, that you could be an honorary Canadian! 😁 ✌️& 🫶 from 🇨🇦

[@teridoster5840]

So happy Tater’s skin and coat are improving!! It’s about time the sweet little guy got a win 💜

[@nicolewalker6894]

I'm so happy that you are at least getting answers. That is so weird about your PCP. That us bulls*it. I got a Healthcare app for all of my regulars (birth control, antidepressants, etc). It has been a game changer. Highly recommend. Keep us updated on your journey. We are here to support!!!

[@TwiggyHetfield27]

As someone who LOVES strongly worded emails & have written many & not gotten the desired outcome... you did the right thing. AND you got your money back! My mom had ordered things online where they provide the tracking info only for it to be delivered to another STATE. And they blame US for, & I quote, "not typing the correct shipping address" only to provide them with the invoice with the correct address... The strongly worded emails I've sent just go ignored & mom loses her money 💸

[@geminigrlize]

We all wish you well on your new healthier lifestyle!