Narcissism and Feminism's Shocking Similarities EXPOSED

[@john-griffin]

Here are the answers to the video! All of the traits that I read during the video were from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for Narcissism. So, all the behaviors were technically those of a Narcissist. However, as you probably noticed it is hard to tell them apart. So, I guess there really are no wrong answers!

[@-MakeItGood-]

Yes, I guessed this as none of these are feminist tenants

[@johnnyjohn-johnson7738]

Feminism is Collective Narcissism. Look up the latter term, Wikipedia has an excellent article on the phenomenon.

[@mikejames9642]

I answered all narcissist traits with occasional overlap with feminism. All women in my life have had narcissistic traits. Women are f’ng so complicated. You have to absolutely write a business plan on how to try to keep them happy while absorbing frequent abuse.

[@JeremySayers38]

"It depends on how you define a feminist" as a modern woman would say. Feminism means different things to different people blah blah blah. How Feminism was allowed is baffling to me. If it was for equality why was it not called equality not no we got Feminism which is the promotion of female, no ifs no buts and this open sexism is legal and defended by society.

[@Dexian-j9m]

@@johnnyjohn-johnson7738 hive mind

[@zrunner240Z]

To ANGER a MAN..... LIE to Him...to ANGER a WOMAN...Tell her THE TRUTH!!

[@mr.Noshadow]

Needs way more 👍 's!!

[@iamrasheedjones]

🎉🎉🎉

[@greener8116]

My sister is both a feminist, a narcissist, and a lawyer. Also, very gregarious, athletic, and good-looking. She never married as no man was good enough for her. Her idea of compromise was having her way.

[@gehanoates885]

Does she still not understand that feminism played. All that anger, where did it get her. 😂😂

[@Falconlibrary]

My older sister is 64 and divorced three times. Because she absolutely refused to make any compromises in any of her marriages. Even my mom, who was a lifelong enabler for my sister, said "It's her way or the highway." I do know happily married couples, and they're not "happy wife, happy life". They both value one another and prioritize the marriage and family over individual needs. Unfortunately, most happily married couples I know are over fifty; the younger folks, especially the women, are afflicted by excessive individualism and narcissism. You can blame feminism or social media or something else, but there's no denying this is our new reality. Marriage is a dying institution in the West.

[@YoMamashouse770]

Wow

[@91722854]

damn, was arguing with a narcissitic feminist that was a lawyer on reddit a few days ago

[@arrowhead455]

What’s her number? 😂

[@ActualSighs]

I'm thinking, all narcissists are not necessarily feminists, but all feminists are narcissists.

[@NatureGod369]

You are a big relief in the world of fake psychologists and fake marriage counselors.

[@davidpitchford6510]

Therapy is nothing but absolution for horrible modern women; modern day indulgences for cash.

[@clintpot8521]

Agreed. Psychology is largely in place as an industry to guide people into big pharma profits and the divorce industry. For real advice on healing and the psyche, I've found much healthier approaches rooted in chinese holistic medicine and buddhist teachings than from anything coming from the west, where humans are fractured into fake parts like body, mind and soul, which in reality do not exist in a holistic framework.

[@noname-hu1vo]

All I know is that no women will ever love me as much as I want to love them.

[@monicaspector2388]

❤

[@Fajar-cl3ru]

That is nice way to put it!

[@mchard2810]

Pack narcissism and feminism together, and you got the "modern" woman.

[@christopherrobin361]

Yep. In a nutshell.

[@lawrencelawrence3920]

@@mchard2810 and Canadian Prime Minister Trudeau

[@peace.quiet.freedom6675]

True

[@zafarnaqvi5961]

💯

[@TriJV]

This comment says it all......

[@chipjohnson9283]

Another trait of both: They ignore and destroy any boundaries others put forth, but demand others bow down to their own boundaries.

[@christopherrobin361]

Exactly. Feminism and hubris go hand in hand.

[@PrinceoftheVioletFlame]

They say that Lucifer was the most BEAUTIFUL angel and they rebelled against god and wanted to be god. In my opinion Lucifer is a women. And the rebellion against god is a rebellion of women against men.

[@Falconlibrary]

Dear women: astronomers have located the center of the Universe. It's not you.

[@deadman12078]

You darn dirty dangler! How dare you!?!?! ~Bernard Chapin

[@Retroguy818]

@@Falconlibrary someone has to tell them.

[@Falconlibrary]

@@Retroguy818 They won't listen. They're always right, haven't you noticed that?

[@Retroguy818]

@@Falconlibrary ignorance

[@kryticaldepth5220]

What if the center of the galaxy is a Black Hole ??

[@davel7014]

“Schrödinger’s Feminism: A woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most.”

[@john-griffin]

That’s an excellent analogy

[@handsomeX]

🎯💯

[@GeraldJackson-o4s]

I am no psychiatrist but I was raised by a malignant narcissist and I have yet to meet a woman that would not be diagnosed with NPD.

[@forlies]

Reflecting on my mother, wife and daughters.... ticked every statement. There is a reason the ancients warned us about female behavior in all the writings they left to guide humanity. The female brain is fundamental flawed.We were supposed to be partners, not competitors.

[@EE12CSVT]

I have, but that was before 2000

[@thevindictive6145]

Same here, dated psychopaths, BPD, narcissist, ......for some reason we are attracted to them.

[@James-dt7ky]

I answered "woman" to all of the questions.

[@1530f]

Yep, I was thinking this isn't just feminists, this is just most women in general

[@SL004]

Facts brother

[@ВладиславВладислав-т1ж]

Sigma

[@tonyromano6220]

lol or yes.

[@Late60sMusicFan]

Sigmund Freud said once to Marie Bonaparte: 'The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is "What does a woman want?”

[@stewartwatling4221]

Two wings of the same bird

[@john-griffin]

👍

[@thomasjdm7388]

Saw a beautiful girl I used to work with post about the importance of DEI in hiring ( she is HR). then she recently posted that a sexist man said she only has her position because she is a woman. That's what happens when you abandoned meritocracy

[@basemanawakens6089]

Did meritocracy exists when only white men were hired?

[@7fall]

12:35 “This is the video they (freminists) will play before executing me” LOL

[@SL004]

Hypergamy= Selfish Hypogamy = Selfless The selfish will always hate the sefless Gentlemen I have summed it up for you .

[@john-griffin]

That’s perfect. Thanks.

[@ColinNew-pf5ix]

And evil will always be antagonistic towards pure/good spirits.

[@SL004]

@@ColinNew-pf5ix absolutely right my brother

[@Richard-v4s4y]

Feminism , Narcissism, Solipsism are synonyms in Western Culture. Why do we even listen to them anymore???

[@joeyzacher9296]

I'm also going to say that a feminist is a narcissist or vice versa

[@john-griffin]

Good answer

[@sk3ffingtonai]

The similarities between feminism and narcissism are not shocking. They are synonymous.

[@martinbeland9342]

Another one, they think their pain and suffering is greater than that of others.

[@DavidSmith-xr8js]

I love your mischievous laugh while filming this!

[@Professorclown]

There are SO many narcissists out there - the worst ones are covert/malignant. Awesome channel, John. 👌😎

[@Warp75]

Me & friends been saying the same thing last 6 years especially. We are living in the age of narc it’s epidemic & it’s carnage out there.

[@ColinNew-pf5ix]

Please research the Kali Yuga. Every culture talks about it. We are living in the spiritual Iron Age. Please don't think this is just a Hindu philosophy, it's multiple cultures have all spoken about these cycles. In Kali Yuga one of the things they say there will be rampant narcissism.

[@Warp75]

@ I know we talk about it.

[@RocKnDiesel]

Most of the pretty women know it too well in 2024 and have that annoying narcissist body attitude 🙄

[@thomasmichaels6850]

The prettier she is, the higher the level of entitlement.

[@quasimode9038]

Contact with such broads end in misery. James Caan experienced this brutally in the movie "Misery". It sends shivers down your spine to watch it...

[@slowbutstilllearning9938]

Need part 2, next time will be prepared with cold beer and mead for a grand laughing time!

[@LeGwiP72]

All fair observations. Thanks for putting the time into this and presenting it, had a few laughs and smiles along the way!

[@john-griffin]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Nick-su3vf]

60 years ago, the word, narcissistic and feminist did not exist in society. All your questions are related to both narcissistic and feminist tendencies.

[@bradgraystock5966]

At least when I'm on trial I'll know what my defence will be "John made me say it"

[@john-griffin]

I’ll be the sacrificial lamb for the whole group

[@PricelessSpits]

John ❤ one of my favorites ! My ex wife was a yes to your comparison 99% of the time. My brother’s ex wife was 100% 😂. I’ve met women in the past that go out of the way to tell me they are the matriarch of their family. Entitlement and narcissism for sure. I wish I was born in the 1700s because then I wouldn’t have to deal with these feminist women.

[@john-griffin]

You’re not alone.

[@adamsnelson4689]

It's men that give women their power in modern times & it's up to men to remove it

[@ColinNew-pf5ix]

Come on people, 9+K views, yet only 800 likes. Give John a like.

[@john-griffin]

Thanks

[@davidpitchford6510]

Every woman has three inner triplets: Faye Kerr, Taye Kerr and Brea Kerr.

[@akaroth7542]

"These are the same picture."

[@john-griffin]

Smart man

[@akwall47]

John!! Thanks for posting the vid brother!

[@OK-jn4wn]

Someone mentioned reverse parking in your last video, which was hilarious. So I'm keeping up the tradition 'Which one can't reverse park, narcissist or feminist?'

[@Chris-m8x4d]

Hi John, bn listening to your channel for a while & enjoy EVERY talk, spot on, thank you! This is first time have ever commented on a channel; here I wish to support your supporting us! Good on you. It's a crazy world.

[@john-griffin]

I appreciate your support. Thanks

[@lightningstrikes7314]

It's basically a Venn diagram with every characteristic in the overlap in the middle.

[@78JCarter]

The reason the word narcissist seems watered down and overused today is because narcissists traits are considered normal female nature.

[@darren5835]

Brilliant episode!!

[@RJG340]

My Ex-Wife was not a Narcissist or a Feminist, and despit being Catholic and very involved with the church, Man listening to John's descriptions of Feminist/Narcissist she was the opposite she spent like 3 years in Texas working with Somolian refugees and the job was an unpaid job, but despit these good qualities in her and there were many, it still didn't stop her from having a boyfriend and blowing our marriage apart!!!

[@racebannon96]

Narcissists are capable of wearing a mask for decades to hide their real personality.

[@MVProfits]

I get what you are saying. My last GF was definitely a "good gal with values". So? Hypergamy won out in the end anyway, and she could discard what we had built so easily. In today's climate women can do what they want with no accountability. It's way more depressing a case like yours or mine than when it happens with more typical "modern" woman. They can do no wrong! Even when their inner circle disapproves of their actions, "toleration" runs supreme and there's no real pushback at all.

[@IvannaNukya]

That's human, women are human and do really bad things, make mistakes etc. The big problem in our society is how the female worship protects and enables this behavior and does little to protect men. The laws, every institution is hyper feminized to discriminate against men

[@dolphmilitia]

RJG volunteer work with refugees is a massive red flag as a narcissist/ feminist. I’m surprised you see that as a positive trait.

[@dolphmilitia]

RJG volunteer work with refugees is a massive red flag as a narcissist/ feminist. I’m surprised you see that as a positive trait.

[@ellenroehl6022]

I assumed "both A and B" was the correct answer for all of them.

[@donaldthompson2319]

All your videos are excellent. Keep up the good work.

[@john-griffin]

Thanks! I appreciate it.

[@geraldtabu-or2jr]

Winston Churchill once said you should learn to say NO .if you feel the relationship isn't working you notify your partner leave.

[@john-griffin]

That is great advice!

[@wmhhealth2018]

90% of men in relationships should heed this advice because it's very likely they are with a narcissistic woman.

[@arrowhead455]

Agreed on all points (for my ex - she’s a narc, her mom’s a feminist). I would propose an addition: on the phone for hours and hours every day, for the continuous validation and approval.

[@arrowhead455]

Oh, and to be clear, these were not hours with me - after all, I was the accountability ogre!

[@hrayrarutyunyan2963]

Truth is Truth.... can't hide it anymore

[@john-griffin]

This is true!

[@kingsix2000]

According to professor Sam Vaknin, who is one of the leading authorities in Narcissism, there is a very very big overlap between Woke culture and Feminism. If you use a narcissistic scorecard it is as you said very difficult to distinguish the two.

[@Korschtal]

This makes sense as "Wokism" is based on Critical Theory which was developed by F_minists, amongst others.

[@latecheckout11]

you don't need a genius to come to these conclusions.

[@kingsix2000]

@Korschtal yes, and wokeism and feminism is designed around "look at meeee I am the most 'specialest' victim, but at the same time the best". This is so utterly narcissistic. Narcissistic people will not necessarily try to be the best, at at least the most 'special' to garner attention.

[@basemanawakens6089]

Woke in it original definition has nothing to do with feminism.

[@kingsix2000]

@basemanawakens6089 it has a lot to do with it even if not in the text definition connected. 'Woke' is an umbrella term for the general thought to hold "structures" accountable for failures of protecting different classes that are disfranchised. Women, i.e. feminism is one of the classes that are singled out. Feminism predates the woke culture, but they are part of the same mindset of victim mentality.

[@lawrencelawrence3920]

That was easy. I just look at the traits of Canada's self proclaimed feminist Prime Minister Trudeau and he fits in all the slots of being chief narcissist.

[@Falconlibrary]

The only person on Earth who doesn't think he's a narcissist is Trudeau himself. The man's self-awareness is zero.

[@alexkuieh1565]

This video confirms my suspicion. Thank you!

[@buildfireforchrist]

Anyone who has been with a true Cluster B will know.. these monsters a jekyll and hyde

[@gorge464]

I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. But one can imagine a number of women who already had a proclivity to narcissism and adopt feminism because one will empower the other.

[@johnbeyerle2464]

sounds like all the politicians we elect in our so-called "democracy"

[@Lavazza81]

Female narcissism = Feminism... It started with a narc recruiting narcs

[@hughjanis6439]

That was good John. I like how you continue to come up with new content. Well thought out and presented.

[@john-griffin]

Thanks!

[@RonGlasgow-s7l]

If anyone gets upset with you in this episode, they would be a narcissist...they cannot handle the facts that narcissists actually have little ability to reasonably conclude an opposition view and associated analysis of the questionable behavior or thought process.

[@gadget1473]

Ha ! Good grief ! Again 100 percent dead on . I'm @ work with this video on two woman listening in are furious . To me this explains modern woman in USA . Thanks again !

[@john-griffin]

You're welcome!

[@freeze9000]

Excellent video! Not mean at all, just facts! Make more of these 💯

[@john-griffin]

I appreciate it, thanks!

[@lordjim3109]

The two groups clearly overlap.

[@kriskringle9245]

Maybe you should warn the boys of "cuffing season" and the time around the holidays when women dress in their cutest outfits in need of a gump for pictures, family get togethers and all the above. Shout out to CGA

[@TuerlingsTim]

I totally agree with you. I am coming from a narcissistic family and when I compare it with relationships is very the same 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 that is why I divorced and after some short relationships now just peaceful single

[@john-griffin]

Well said!

[@davegayaldo]

Three questions into it I realize they’re both the same

[@john-griffin]

Smart guy!

[@notsure7060]

Yes its the water ... the reflexion of self and how good you look . Narces died like that

[@rickjensen2717]

I think people mix up psychopaths and narcissists. A narcissist has essentially an over inflated ego whereas a psychopath is a dangerous mental disorder.

[@Korschtal]

Narcissism is also considered a mental disorder. Broadly speaking, if you have narcissistic tendencies you can become aware of them, but a disorder is when you aren't aware that you are in any way unusual, or that what you are doing is wrong.

[@tapiolautavaara9532]

Feminism is the most dangerous and destructive mental disorder that has ever afflicted mankind. Narcissim has been around forever, but feminism turned it into a contagious disease aka pestilence, a plaque only curable via death.

[@DF-jh8bj]

The odd question I thought could be almost anyone but most are a 100% match between narcissistic character traits / extreme feminism. I think that you’re telling the truth and trying to create awareness.

[@livewires8637]

Thank you for making this video John. Your approach was well done. It’s unfortunate that the modern woman is indistinguishable from a highly narcissistic individual. I’ll say it again the education and validation you’re giving to those affected by either is invaluable.

[@john-griffin]

Thanks for the kind words!

[@sofakinggood5829]

I find it fascinating that all of those traits are narcissistic and feminist.

[@jeffreypmitchell]

Honesty is the only way to live.

[@corbal09]

Perfect!!! The comparison is very insightful. It's too bad you attempted to protect yourself by calling this humorous. This comparison is so truthful that I would have preferred you to call it what it is: a layman's comparison of Narcissism and Feminism-the massive similarities. Come on, John. Couching truth for an audience to avoid heat is weak-kneed. You've done this on occasion but this instance is blaring. I understand you want viewership. I prefer in-your-face honesty. That would be refreshing.

[@hrayrarutyunyan2963]

Your/men's life's experience is a good teacher 😅

[@stephenkilpatrick807]

Agree about narcissism being the mental problem du jour. I hear the word narcissism every other day watching KZbin videos.

[@stuartloggins3691]

My ex, her mother, and my sister in law all tried to control me. Then when that didnt work they tried to destroy me. Somehow i broke all 3 of those monsters. But i haven't let my guard down. As long as they live ill never let my guard down. Those kinds of people are very dangerous so watch out.

[@ItalNico]

My wife scored 100%...feminist. Six on one hand, half a dozen on the other.

[@ICFUBAR]

We can hang together or separately, we'd all be in good company together. My score was 10 for feminism and 7 for narcissism but could have gone either way on several of those. In this age of the big "ME" POS poisonaliities seem everywhere once you scratch the surface, especially modern social media women.

[@alexkuieh1565]

This is a brave and creative man!

[@CaliforniatoWestAfrica]

This was a great moment in psychology😂❤

[@chillikoala]

1000% CORRECT, John. I've also made this association for some time now.

[@john-griffin]

Thank you for watching.

[@ttocselbag5054]

Lobbin’ some serious cannon balls there brother John! 😆👊😆

[@uenmm4745]

I made this comparison almost a decade ago with the result of many of my so called friends friends won't have anything to do with me. Some of them are starting to come around though. I think its the unofficial leader types in political fringe groups. They set the agenda, and all their "sisters" have been fooled and are now acting as their "flying monkeys". Me myself was hanging out in such circles sometimes here in Sweden. The stockholm and Gothenburg scene is full of these types.

[@tylerhatch8962]

I love the way you put this together

[@john-griffin]

Thanks

[@octaviusmigtonius2965]

1. Both 2. Both 3. Both 4. Both 5. Both 6. Both 7. Both 8. Both 9. Both 10. Both 11. Feminism. It's quite possible for a narcissist to be indifferent to society at large. They may only be concerned with their personal life. 12. Both 13. Both 14. Both 15. Both 16. Both 17. Both 18. Both 19. Both 20. Both 21. Both

[@john-griffin]

A+

[@dieuwer5370]

The answer to every question in the video is.....BOTH. :)

[@john-griffin]

Exactly 👍

[@davegayaldo]

same , same

[@puppets.and.muppets]

my ex wife went bald 5 years after we split. i had to laugh. is that narcissism ?

[@johnhawke3131]

😂😂😂

[@john-griffin]

I think that’s called karma

[@lovalonband]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Paul-oe9sy]

Contempt is a commonality. Arrogant disgust.

[@TheRobloxFamilyNow]

Spot on 👍

[@stevenstorey1945]

John, the two are all one in the same! Bingo!!!

[@douglaslarue4264]

John: It all has to be said and put out on the table. Maybe too late. Maybe too soon, but not too far. And you did source your story. It is so good Men, and some women are speaking out finally. We all need to encourage others to be more outwardly focused and considerate of other people. Take it from somebody that had to have their Wife committed. Happily, ecstatically happily Divorced over 30 years. 58, single and "Lifting weights until it hurts"! Laughing so hard (With you) I may not have to do Abs tonight Happy Holidays to you. Love what you are doing!

[@john-griffin]

I’m really glad you liked it. Thanks.

[@hendrix9087]

Keep them coming brother 💪🏽👍🏽

[@john-griffin]

Will do!!

[@Earthhasnolove]

Spotty reputation? Lol 😂 that's a good sign my friend that's a victory! Be proud

[@john-griffin]

Thanks!

[@GeoffreyGambier-mg9tx]

Yeah I'm no rocket surgeon but I'm going with all of the above sir.

[@DUNEATV]

Jon , this video cracked me up!

[@john-griffin]

Thanks

[@BibleFakeNews]

Both men and women be careful. VALUES and MORALS count. If they have not worked as hard as you be VERY careful.

[@zafarnaqvi5961]

John this is a very intelligent analysis you did on this channel. I agree 💯they both are the same thing.

[@markinvt]

Felt like I was in high school again, totally lost and just guessing, N or F?

[@john-griffin]

All the test questions are trick questions! There are no wrong answers

[@dews3340]

Good morning 🌄 it's raining here. Just sharing Hall of Famer Randy Moss stepping away from ESPN for an extended time to deal with health 😮 issue, Dec 2024. Stay healthy guys....... Off to the gym this morning in the rain

[@END-THE-FED]

IMO Narcissism has gotten so prevalent because people are more and more stressed and in fight or flight mode because of so much uncertainty about the present and especially the future.

[@Chris-zh9nd]

That is a decent point. I feel like half that stress is social narratives manufacturing a society of fear. It's my feeling that we became too much a protest and fault finding society. Glass half empty all the time. So, for someone to feel like they can be acceptable in society people may feel a need to project via virtue signal declaring how messed up everything else is.

[@EE12CSVT]

No, it's because of being pampered by society

[@mikebingham9700]

I think most of these conditions belong to both Narcists and Feminists

[@ir8228]

Thank you for telling the truth 😂

[@arrowhead455]

I love your intro… 😂😂😂😂

[@john-griffin]

Thanks

[@benhartart9487]

Haha I had 16/20 questions equaling Narcissistic 😅