Narcissists Are Masters Of Betrayal

One of the most damaging aspects of being associated with narcissists is their inclination toward betrayal. Dr. Les Carter describes what it is like when you had hopes or desires that were dashed because you learned that the narcissist was only using you. It can leave you feeling greatly disillusioned. Over time, you can recover, but it requires you to rethink who you can trust.
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Narcissist would often state in a jovial manner quote..”I’m always right”.

[@Nancy-yw1rr]

Their complete lack of remorse for these behaviors is almost as damaging as the actual behaviors. The idea that a person chooses to be so manipulative and destructive with another person's life is mind blowing. I think this is the definition of evil.

[@tmt8268]

Pathologically jealous. They can't love you unless you're fawning all over them. Once you decide to do your own thing or if you get more attention than them, they will pull the betrayal card. Life owes them you see.

[@shelley7975]

There is no loyalty in them, therefore, betrayal is like air to them.

[@tedschmitt178]

Their betrayal is just another piece of their false selves, lying, and abuse. My ex wife of 31 years is/was guilty of it all: lying, cheating multiple times, gaslighting, emotional abuse, financial abuse, EVERYTHING.

[@jonnyblade46]

They're not committed to anyone but themselves. Betrayal is always an option.

[@skinnyway]

they will throw you under the bus in a heartbeat to make themselves look good, stay out of trouble or whatever.

[@arthurshat7793]

Here’s a confidence boost for anyone who has been hurt and broken down by a narcissist. Remember, no matter how many individuals they manipulate, use and toss aside, they can NEVER fill the empty void that is themselves. And they never will. They are truly that low.

[@camuyana]

Disloyalty and betrayal is part of their nature. That is why I am divorcing.

[@MurphyFreelance]

So relatable wasted 10 years of my life and Dr. Carter’s videos are what helped me get out of it. Unfortunately the narc is still a part of my life as we have a child, but thankfully I have my head in the right space and I’ve made boundaries; all thanks to these videos and our amazing Dr. Carter ❤️💪

[@shelley7975]

I've had too many people like this in my life. Friends and family. It's heartbreaking to be a loyal person only to be stomped on by a narcissist. They deserve to be left to themselves and their twisted little worlds.

[@guylamullins3602]

They will betray you and then when you walk away from their rabbit holes they blame you for betrayal.

[@smallsushicat]

I'm 100% certain these videos save lives. Thanks Dr. C.

[@ImCheryl5784]

" I don't want to filter my beliefs about me through that troubled individual" 🔥🔥 Thank you.

[@ollia]

The most frustrating thing is that when setting a boundary with them after their horrible behaviour, they call this personal boundary of yours a betrayal of them. They have no concept of self it seems and think they own everyone by default..

[@jacquelinefroehle3583]

It seems the older they get the more they lie and have covert abusive intentions.

[@Meowminx]

Dr. Carter, I have been following you for about three years now, and I have nothing but respect and gratitude for you and for all the help and guidance you have given us. Thank you so much 🙏

[@lisarochwarg4707]

You're never a friend to a narcissist, you're a competitor, or a tool. Someone to be manipulated and used, and then thrown away.

[@steviecrow914]

In their betrayal, they think they are choosing a better deal but they actually sell themselves short. Rarely does a game focused on short-term rewards yield the best long term returns.

[@observationsincars5083]

Whether it's romantic or a friendship, they enjoy changing the terms and conditions/boundaries when you least expect it, just so they can slap you in the hand for doing something which before was acceptable but all of a sudden it's the greatest violation of trust for them.

[@tbird4027]

They live a LIE…all of it. And IT IS ALL ABOUT THEM….All of IT!