the amount of value you give away for free is criminal, mad respect
@hearoafrica941421 күн бұрын
Absolutely true.
@pecpudim24 күн бұрын
i literally had a college presentation yesterday and i fumbled so bad. Forget what i was supposed to say, went silent for a whole minute, said all in a rush...it was a horrible time
@Aurowa24 күн бұрын
😔
@СтояСтоева24 күн бұрын
Oohh man, don't give up on courage. You will do better next time, brother. Go back and learn from your mistakes. I believe in you!
@creepbustas103824 күн бұрын
lol I spoke in front of my church and got so nervous. I had a Joe Biden moment
@Raynecandunk24 күн бұрын
same :(
@AlphaMacho23 күн бұрын
@@creepbustas1038baptised ?
@pmo432517 күн бұрын
Good tips! I would also add, practice, PRACTICE, *PRACTICE!* Practice in front of a mirror, practice in front of your pets, practice while standing on one leg with your eyes closed. It's exposure therapy without the exposure
@phanquocanh756114 күн бұрын
I have this mental trick that kinda work for me. Personally, I practiced martial art ( Muay Thai/ Kich Boxing) for over 3 years, and I kinda good at that. So basically, when even I have to present or speak in front of people, I speak to myself that I can easily whoop these guys' ass in the fight, consequently, this way of thought helps me to be confident and not to be afraid anymore ( it's like having a sense of overpower when I have something that I'm confident to do, compared to others)
@phanquocanh756114 күн бұрын
anyway, huge fan of you Vinh, love form Vietnam
@dailydoseofk-pop981912 күн бұрын
It works kinda cause in school I too used this as I was the topper so I was like I am the smartest here so they can't defy me
@Juzzi924 күн бұрын
Slower rate of speech was a game changer for me
@alexlevinson862918 күн бұрын
That’s my biggest issue. I just commented that I go into high pressure situations regularly at work. I’m 33 and have to convince entire C-suites to trust my firm and I to allow full access to their books/records/personnel, but when I’m in a room of 20 people I’m training, I’m 5 million words a second, making ridiculous hand gestures, and you can see my heart beat through my shirt from the ISS
@Juzzi918 күн бұрын
@@alexlevinson8629 31 here. Ah yeah, slower rate of speed gets me talking in situations where im overly nervous and couldnt do it otherwise. Then if im in the nervous-but-manageable zone, i also revert to too fast.
@alexlevinson862918 күн бұрын
@@Juzzi9 I always thought that with expertise and reputation would come confidence. I could do a recording that I knew was going to be seen by every person on earth and nail it. As soon as there’s more than 15 20yr olds who I’ll never see before, my nuts are in my chest and I become the speed reader from ‘Africa’s got talent’
@Juzzi918 күн бұрын
@@alexlevinson8629 xDD good analogy. Sometimes what helps me, is reframing the nervousness. Butterflies in the stomach dont mean im full of anxiety, they mean im full of excitement, full of adrenaline to tackle the task with my best capabilities. I only manage to do this is certain nervousness levels, but i practice it as i believe that really is the key. Some world class performers do say the nervousness never goes fully away after all. There are more people on youtube who talk about this reframing in further detail.
@chery_verma17 күн бұрын
I've written all the key points from this video and honestly when I started i didn't think I'd feel any different but I actually do and it's amazing what few changes can do and how they can affect how you behave. Thank you for your great work!
@migi_dk432424 күн бұрын
You are so great, I really appreciate all the free advice
@reeva622 күн бұрын
Your videos give me courage and confidence. Thank you so much!
@Videoskull18 күн бұрын
My king you drop this 👑
@messy858424 күн бұрын
Another great video! This should be part of every student’s educational journey on Earth. Can you imagine a world where everyone knows how to communicate and feels confident in the presence of others? Thank you!
@SarahSpence-p4v8 күн бұрын
I speak so fast without breathing when im nervous and forget to breath in work environments so this is a game changer
@amalmed97537 күн бұрын
The thing that helps me the most is acting. I imagine like i'm an actor in a theater play and my role is an orator. It gets my mind out of my sense of self to focus on the material at hand
@ggmochie26159 күн бұрын
Method 2 the one piano recital i did okay in, and i actually enjoyed it a bit, was the one where i thought "i'm here so the audience can enjoy this piano piece as much as i do. I want to convey this music to them." That was the one time my mind wasn't thinking "I CAN'T MESS UP"
@adilmuhammad607820 күн бұрын
I'm a part of your students Vinh! Please keep making video like this! Really thankful to see one like this 😁😁
@ermiyastamrat237924 күн бұрын
thank you vin it's so much helpful
@alexlevinson862918 күн бұрын
I do this as well. I’m a closer for a relatively large M&A firm. With 4-5 people, I can be the center of attention and run the room and the process, getting a room of 50+ year old C-Suite members to trust me with their entire business. In a group of 20 trainees who have no idea what they’re doing, I speak 2.346 million miles an hour and repeat myself.
@bbsnipergg39695 күн бұрын
Such a great advice!
@BroTheRetro14 күн бұрын
stand in an online meeting is super powerfull!
@apscafe4 сағат бұрын
Master class ❤
@kartikeya3024 күн бұрын
Sir, the quality of your content improved, hope we keep growing ❤
@AlainLaguipo22 күн бұрын
the last one is gold! thank you!
@blackcatz-y6i20 күн бұрын
this is gold
@pinkbubble611323 күн бұрын
Amazing content!! I’ve been binge watching and practicing your tips past few days and already see a difference!! Thank youuuu
@eghanshith48147 күн бұрын
Control Your Body: Use box breathing (inhale, hold, exhale, hold) to relax and prevent trembling. Shift Your Mindset: Focus on serving the audience rather than self-consciousness. Slow Down Your Speech: Speaking too fast increases nervousness; consciously slow down. Manage Adrenaline: Do brisk exercise to reduce excess adrenaline. Desensitize Fear: Gradually expose yourself small groups before speaking to public speaking situations and build confidence.
@snehallovekorean907324 күн бұрын
I do box breading but it still sometimes makes me anxious . I will try other methods thanks for this.
@C0srudaGaming24 күн бұрын
I remember just 1-2 months ago i had to give a presentation infront of principle about something. And i had to do it all by myself because my group was absent. I delivered the presentation smoothly no mistake no nothing and it was my first time presenting something by myself. After all of the presentation was done the principle said all the presentations were neat and presentable this line gave me a sigh of relief 😌
@ArijitRoy-m5j15 күн бұрын
Very helpful video..thank you ❤
@cindybriden37224 күн бұрын
Great advice! Thank you!
@maikeleliseipredica243224 күн бұрын
Thaks I neded that
@shubhajitdas552224 күн бұрын
Hey Vinh, I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you.
@Idkhfkrfs15 күн бұрын
I recommended this dude to my friend that has stage fright.
@esauponce975917 күн бұрын
You are awesome! 🙌💯
@berthachomba31698 күн бұрын
I'm a bad speaker 😢 the last time I spoke infront of a room full of people my whole body began to shiver which was evident because I was holding the mic.
@muhammadfarhan-vs24 күн бұрын
i subscribed you today and i am very happy about this because you and your communication skills are actually wonderful and one more thing you know what i am thinking why didn't i find your channel earlier 😊😊😊keep doing good work....👍👍👏
@RehanKhan-xf3ml10 күн бұрын
At first i love you! You’ve changed my life. does food matters for presentations etc?
@awakened.potential14 күн бұрын
Knowledge without action is just hallucinations, so make sure to apply this golden tips immediately!!
@funfreshco24 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@hero.ambition24 күн бұрын
Bro, you're legend❤
@prace781224 күн бұрын
Can you give some rhetorical advices/tips for teachers?
@IzeDesu24 күн бұрын
Amazing video!!! i love how this man teaches while using himself and his situations as example :) are you planning on making videos about communication frameworks? cause the ones you use are super amazing
@Juniperberrie2523 күн бұрын
Thank you Vinh, could you please give us tips for what to do when we are put on the spot to give a speech and you don’t have the time to do the breathing exercises etc. E.g. at a work event and the speaker mentions your name and asks you to come up and give a few words about yourself or a project?
@sebastianpinto651410 күн бұрын
2 seconds in hits like button
@HudaShahzad-r3s2 күн бұрын
Same❤
@Iliketostoryodia19 күн бұрын
I am a story teller but I am troubling how to a narrate a story wheather it is a faceless KZbin chhanel, I am troubling with 1) which pitch I should talk , in which word should louder and where should slow the pitch 2) where to be take pause , how long the pauses should. 3) my voice is ruder always it's not sweet whenever I talk even a calm situation it's sounds rude and it's became very rude whenever I talk like negotiations or anything special dissatisfied with someone's particular behaviour. How to solve it ? I am from India , help me 😢
@katkairakumar541323 күн бұрын
Everyone knows the roadmap but no one going to first try
@JohnCatt17 күн бұрын
Vinh! Big fan from Philippines. Do I need to learn singing to be a better communicator?
@aftabshahat16 күн бұрын
I like your vedio
@sorakuzunoha10824 күн бұрын
I wish I could have known you earlier.
@PalakAgrawal120624 күн бұрын
Pls reply to my query Basically i am confident in my speech but sometimes it feels like people arent interested or they aren't listening. And that moment when i feel this, makes me nervous and fumble. Also am really comfortable when i have some sources or page or slide to look onto and deliver but when its generally about normal public speaking I become clueless or feel out of words How to cope up with these things
@NdzLost19 күн бұрын
Well i dont know if it helps but i think you talk about everday situations where u are nervous and feeling clueless. Well if it is a normal conversation or public speech without any requierements of knowledge (Holding a weeding speech or talking infornt of q Group about the weather) u dont need to know data, diagrams or studies in this topic. And if it is a topic you are not educated in, be open about and Show intrested in learning from perplex that know Mode about the topic the you. I hope that helps
@PalakAgrawal120619 күн бұрын
@@NdzLost Noted. Thankyou so much
@nitinshanker14294 күн бұрын
How to control the volume and preventing it from becoming too low or too loud
@Sunwu-h9m16 күн бұрын
Facts 1:35
@spondzi123924 күн бұрын
Cool tips, but remember if you have a hand in a fire, instead of pouring it with water, putting bandages over it etc. and asking what now? Ask why? And that's what you have to face.
@muingee745124 күн бұрын
Stay hard
@marcusivanatienza806124 күн бұрын
I will subscribe you next time.
@AnkitKumarSharma-h7c16 күн бұрын
Hey vinh , Today my school teacher randomly picked me to out rate the thought of the poem And I know the whole poem but at the time I hold the mic I was forgetting everything Can you help me out ❤❤❤ from India
@NgocanhNguyen-xi7lv14 күн бұрын
You are vietnamese ?
@AffectionateChocolateStr-mi9dk23 күн бұрын
That's not helping someone like me, because I feel scared and nervous if I just went outside home,I can't even walk alone in the street 😖
@arifbykr455220 күн бұрын
Start by meeting with a friend and ask if they could bring along one of their friends. Use this opportunity to get to know their friend better, talk about mutual interests, and see if you have any shared hobbies or passions. This approach can help you make new connections through your existing friendships. If you don’t have a friend to meet with, consider joining a club or group related to your interests. People often form friendships with others who share similar passions. I hope this helps!
@soloblimp189510 күн бұрын
No offense but if it’s really that bad then you need to go see a professional.
@Hirtsaa24 күн бұрын
Gut
@marcelanderer517724 күн бұрын
I mean everyone has a standing desk these days so you have the " I don't want to sit as much"
@NgocanhNguyen-xi7lv14 күн бұрын
Anh là ng việt mà
@ajkhalifa284317 күн бұрын
What camera settings are you using?
@youtubeuser487822 күн бұрын
I tried box breathing while riding a bike. I almost suffocated 😅
@alialadawi18 күн бұрын
Lol why would you such thing during biking? Biking is already box breathering 😅
@SanjeevKumar-hn2ml24 күн бұрын
0:43 😅😅😅😅
@I_AM_HIMel23 күн бұрын
2:37
@JustinR-p4u17 күн бұрын
😅😮
@LovingPeopleAlways24 күн бұрын
❤🌞❤️
@heavenlygenius256424 күн бұрын
Vhin I think it's okay to not take your course because I already gain more knowledge and learnings about you video content
@heavenlygenius256424 күн бұрын
When I see thing greatful video I admitted and realize that I was taking your course of being good communicator and speaker. That's why thank you so much vinh @Vinh