“STEPHAN SPEAKS REVEALS THE SECRETS TO WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL” (EP. 94)

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Ep. 94) “STEPHAN SPEAKS REVEALS THE SECRETS TO WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL” (EP. 94)
Arguably the most anticipated episode that we’ve ever had, we listened to you all and got Stephan Speaks to come chill with us! Multi-book author, speaker and certified relationship coach came on and SPOKE! When we talk about game, gems and jewels dropped in one episode, this is that ONE! Believe us when we say we asked Stephan everything you ever thought about asking him and then some! We dove into personal accountability within your own failed relationships and even touched on UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, if Stephan believes in it and what it means to him. This episode was one for the ages, a description will never be able to sum up the amount of value you’ll receive from this one!
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@duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon
Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

[@MissAlomo]

Stephen did NOT hold back! He usually tip toes around to not be offensive, but he gave it STRAIGHT, NO CHASER!

[@Elkawong]

Stephan’s been my guidance through my hard times right now, I am the one with a man that grew a career but didn’t want to grow with the family anymore even with kids and just walked away. Stephan’s helping me heal. Thank you.

[@cwy685]

Great interview. Please birng Tony Gaskins on too!!!

[@daniellecoleman3308]

Steph not with the bull but no how to love. That's what we need

[@mslove2913]

Many are called few are chosen😇 I honestly believe people should be lead to Christ first, the "Ultimate Healer," who can show you "Self Love" like no other. Everything is a choice once one become of age. God Bless All ❣️

[@Kiaajordan]

Amen

[@TheKingme21]

Wayment… I fw the new intro…. But I like seeing y’all jam to the song playing in the beginning before y’all start 😌👌🏽

[@danipage2057]

Yesss! It was so fun and original ☺️ I’ll miss jigging with em

[@rugezajoyeuse5664]

You are right. I loved it

[@marybutidk]

Saaaaameee!! I liked that part lol

[@avnisuri9901]

Definitely miss the song 🥹

[@tpagel1992]

For me as a women I didn't want to change me. Kids, Divorce happened. Then I met someone and it made me want to heal my pass to be completely healed so that I could be fully ready to love him and only him.

[@MillionaireLid]

I will continue to watch this episode over and over again. THIS is the advice that young men need to hear to start to build the foundation of a healthy relationship.

[@dericrush]

Yo. This entire episode was nothing but GEMS 💎. Salute for this🫡

[@albertontanda5413]

Oh the price going up this season. Elite guests so far. 📈

[@kendraanderson4656]

This was an awesome episode! Too many gems to name. Loved the segments on unconditional love and love vs fear

[@KillaCam2534]

One word to describe this episode: beneficial. 🙏🏾💯

[@xincindyxu6963]

Stephen is really the best of the best.

[@DHenny]

Wow hit the nail on the head with the affection omg …

[@its-dynaisha]

The interview I’ve been waiting for. A lot of gems dropped and healthy male perspective ❤

[@menaj2954]

Please have RC Blakes and Tony Gaskins. Both have great wisdom and are married!!!!

[@CalmRelaxTranquil]

Sooo funny. I made a comment requesting Tony Gaskins and flipped through the comments just to find this comment. How cool is that?

[@menaj2954]

@@CalmRelaxTranquil Hey great minds think alike. Secondly there is wisdom in men and women who are married and happy. Those are the voices that I am most interested in hearing. This podcast had Omar' s coach who is married and was a powerful episode.

[@vanessal.7637]

Bring a married relationship coach on. I’d recommend Tony Gaskins!

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Jesus was the greatest teacher Was he married ?? What exactly are u trying to imply Gravitate to the MESSAGE Not the MESSENGER

[@AngelaElikya]

​​​​@@user-fh1tr9zp3l Jesus was God in human form , he knows it all because he created all don't compare him to human who don't even live the married lifestyle. Thank you. To convinced people of the message the messager need to prove the validity of his message by being the message/living the message.

[@AngelaElikya]

​​@@Effort.lyss__ Thank you ! That man has whole ✝️ tattooed on his arm and publicly said he don't read God's words😳 matter of the fact he spoke about God and we still don't know what God or spirit he's lead by/he's talking about. Wicked people are lead by a spirit/god too.

[@Wendurphy689]

⁠@@user-fh1tr9zp3lthe difference with Jesus giving messages from God and being single, was that He was not in wanton fornication like Stephan Speaks. Stephan breaks celibacy because he believes his societal position makes him above fighting temptation and above obedience to a Holy God. He hires atheists to write on behalf of a God they don’t even believe in, then he thanks God for the monetary blessings that come as a result. At this point it’s really clear where Stephan’s heart is and what spirit he is led by. Let’s just put it this way, the one true God is nowhere near this messenger.

[@Thatgirlmoee_]

Omgggg yasssss this episode is everything and I’m only 20 mins in !!!!!!! ❤❤

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Consistent is better than crazy for sure. I’ve been following you forever Stephan!

[@LeeyahTheMuse]

THIS WAS THE EPISODE I WAS WAITING FORRRRRR AHHHHH

[@goodtrouble841]

great ep! Stephan’s so consistent & sound w/ his logic throughout his work which is refreshing. can we get @Jason Wilson next??? 🖤

[@miyawood4106]

Would love to have seen Mr.Gaskins

[@BeautyBrains-bk7ik]

Asap

[@user-bp5fe6ce8s]

This interview with Mr. Stephan Speaks & other gentleman on the platform is so informative. Only God can pour into a willing vessel like Mr. Speaks who truly takes his instructions from God and stay committed to display such profound output. However, with all his efforts, it is our responsibility to do the work and pray fully gain your growth through the same God that Mr. Speaks talks about in his interviews, his books and his shared transparent experiences. I am a Christian woman and I can relate to everything he is saying, I personally feel that if you have not healed from a relationship, you should not move into another relationship until you get the full healing and gained spiritual growth. But, most importantly ask God for your Person and wait until he reveal that person to you. God works on both ends. Ladies let the man lead, even if you get the revelation first from God. Wait for his approach. Connection is key 😉

[@janahamilton3]

“Love is unconditional, but relationships are not” 👏 👏 👏

[@tariquefrancis6375]

Love the Podcast fellas! This was a great episode. Keep it up!

[@anovchkaa]

listening while i hit cardio❤️‍🔥 yall never miss!

[@mellowrose427]

Love this for ya’ll. I remember listening to the episode where you wanted him on the show.

[@johannajo1359]

On fire, Stephan. ❤️‍🔥

[@nicki919]

i cannot emphasize enough how much i needed this episode !! thank you so much, i can’t wait for the next one already

[@dionaisej]

Omgg Im so happy this collab needed to happen.

[@wendibekoe8072]

I haven't even started the episode yet and I'm ridiculously excited!

[@Spic3gurl]

Instead of fear I'd call it respect

[@19nvo]

Exactly thoughts, its a such thing as healthy fear which in turn is respect

[@tmuun]

Love the new setup and love the new intro. Really rooting for you guys! I also loved Stephan’s episode on Jay Shetty’s podcast, glad you had him on 💌

[@intentionalevolution3653]

This was really amazing. Thank you all for sharing.

[@DHenny]

Love the new intro I’m overwhelmed by intelligent men my favorite guys I love Stephen speaks soooo knowledgeable this is so good . I hope my future husband somewhere watching this and taking notes

[@mainevale]

Man I really needed this. What im experiencing right now is very difficult and hearing what all of you had to say really allows for me to have more confidence in the decisions im making. Thank you

[@viciouslove9383]

Great to see Stephan on this podcast with you all! Hope to see more of him on your shows. All of this content definitely helps put things in a different perspective, much needed. Bless up!

[@sacampbr1]

Super powerful conversation! Thanks Y’all🙏🏾❤️

[@mthom1106]

such a remarkable episode!

[@scj984]

Loved the entire segment. Definitely will be applying this information to all my relationships (self love, parent to child connection, family & friendships, current & past intimate bonds). ☝🏾 And it's very true, you don't need to always experience healing with the assistance of a therapist because I've done it already via reading a few of Stephan books and other motivational influencers. I just experienced NEW TRAUMA and forgot the steps on how to react and readjust due to distractions of the world causing me to be ungrounded. Thanks yall I really needed this reminder & conversation.

[@kiag1531]

This episode was absolutely on point!! Thank you Brothas!! ✊🏽🙌🏾

[@danaikajean3647]

This episode was so good ❤❤❤❤

[@M3ndezfamilia]

OMG thank you guys for amazing value and gems much blessing and abudance :)

[@neka8023]

Great episode!!

[@19nvo]

One of his best interviews!!!!

[@SweetSuccessDiaries]

This was amazing 🔥🔥🔥

[@alia9314]

Excellent episode! Packed with valuable information!!!

[@antoinettejohnson1565]

Love the new intro!!

[@user-ti6gz2pz4i]

Excellent conversation/interview! Loved it!!

[@farahadolphe8911]

This was an amazing episode !!

[@AminaKarimovna]

New intro is FIREEE

[@zarriyyahbrown2623]

yessssiiiirrrrr my favoritessssss including Stephan

[@tavonsanders8298]

Excellent!

[@saviourudobong2256]

This was super dope ! 👏🏾

[@LaudneyCharles]

Thank you for this!!!!!

[@francisw3456]

This was so good. It IS so simple, so why is it so hard sometimes? Sigh...❤ You fellas have amazing questions, I can't say enough how much I appreciate this pod. I'm learning more of the male perspective on a much deeper level and really enjoying the lessons.❤

[@marygranke204]

Thanks for the great episode.

[@YaBoyNick21]

New intro 🔥🔥🔥

[@Marie-vz2qp]

Enjoy that conversation.

[@wendymorris635]

Great episode

[@tonywilliams3916]

This definitely cuts deep man , it was a lot I did wrong in the relationship I was just in , could admit I changed ,but it was already too late .

[@cookie7241]

This was good !! ❤

[@Jstache23]

Love and fear combo 😮‍💨.

[@patriciamcduffie8329]

Great episode 🙏

[@alexmarie6776]

“what was the logic” = “why tf would she do that, I’m genuinely confused” LMAOOOOO

[@caliblue2]

I tried online dating and it was one crazy situation after another. Finally I realized I was being sent a divine message and I told God okay okay I get it.

[@khamillemuhammad9867]

im going thru a hard time and this spoke to my spirit, im sad but thankful i watched this so i can make some positive changes in my life. thank you.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

All in yes amen!❤❤❤

[@QueenOyinkan]

Great new intro!

[@tobeywan8331]

I see Stephan Speaks , I like the video

[@lashondadorn5486]

Have him back ❤

[@RhondaR4]

❤Stephan👑

[@StaySaneify]

Whewwwwwwwwwww!! Lowkey this would've been perfect for the 100th episode lolzz

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Stephan thanks for educating the entire universe This is devine You,re simply the BEST Second to NONE

[@denisejohnson3561]

Is Stephan still not in a relationship?

[@pinkkim2008]

I saw today Tesla had some recalls 👀 look into it. Anyway you look so pretty 😍

[@lani9571]

🙌🙌

[@waakkeuppp]

39:16 1 John 4:18 reads, “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.”

[@cryptocrazy1172]

wow

[@user-tj4bm8wv7y]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@missdime7433]

Duke is just pure hotness ❤

[@thomasbarbee3880]

Thought I was trippin how it started 😭

[@tarikelshiekh2005]

💎💎💎

[@FaithFamilyFriends21]

What makes me qualified to give advice on relationships? Well I'll let you decide if I'm qualified or not. Let me start with, I got married at 29 years old. Both my wife and I waited for marriage to be sexually active. Yes, we were both virgins in our 20s. We have been friends for more than 20 years, together for 13 years and married for 7 years. Since we married, I've been the provider, protector and a men of faith. Both of us have written a book on adoption and what God has done in our lives. We have two children boy and girl. Both of us are in our 30s. And both of us were adopted by different families from two different countries. Both my wife and I are considering bringing a podcast into life about relationships. Of corse we seek the answer of our Father first but just wanted your opinion. Thank you, and please be loving with your opinion.

[@MellyLutherking214]

Another great book is “How To Live With Another Person”

[@waakkeuppp]

18:34 😢 54:55 56:50

[@sharinaross1865]

I won't try online dating anymore.

[@AngelaElikya]

Please bring back the old intro 😢

[@andreatorluemke4982]

It is so hard for a woman to be in her feminine and be positive without masculine containment and support. Men have no idea. It’s still possible leaning on God just saying tho

[@odessapalms6415]

I think, as a young person, man or woman. Give yourself time when it comes to relationships. People change. They grow apart. They grow wiser. And some people grow desirous, especially if some leverage overpowers love and the importance of the relationship. Great episode!

[@BluntSpeaker]

53:53 But doesn’t sex make women fall in love?? What about those couples that have said they are in love when they were with their ex but never had a connection just thought they did cause of chemistry & having so much in common.

[@misunderstoodkj]

Bring Tony Gaskins. He is happily married. I want to hear his perspective on everything, especially with relationship advice.

[@BluntSpeaker]

55:56 What if ur just uncomfortable with a lot of touching. No trauma or rape in the past, it’s just not ur love language??

[@c0cochan3l29]

Are these ppl in relationships

[@amandajunior1604]

This dude is single😂. Better if he sorts himself out n lead as an example - as a married man to a woman!

[@sherefawhyte8311]

I pray one day soon he will be blessed with the right woman for him. Being single doesn't mean he can't speak on relationships. Coaches don't play.

[@Wendurphy689]

@@sherefawhyte8311neither does God. And God ain’t playing with Stephan Speaks. He’s in wanton fornication talking about God and hiring atheists who don’t even believe in God, writing on behalf of God. This man is a tidy mess. Go figure.

[@williamholloway5789]

Stop with bitcoin meme crap $20/ wk is $1040/yr if u put $40 away or $2080/yr for 40 yrs U will have enough for retirement in the right investments an S&P 500 index fund that’s it!! You’ll be ok.. remember S&P 500 index fund has returned over 10.5% over 38 yrs facts!! U only need 8% for 40 yrs

[@user-pw2vy2xh6d]

He is not married, but y'all are taking his advice. Lmao funny

[@michellereeves3337]

He addressed that he is single, yet he understands people and relationship dynamics well. People approach priests all the time with marriage issues and priests aren't married.

[@user-pw2vy2xh6d]

@@michellereeves3337 priests shouldn't be approached either. Lol

[@amyavanessa19]

Mann I love y’all videos, this really got me thinking forreal🤎.

[@greathieghts3314]

Great episode