Nobody can help you | J. Krishnamurti

Nobody can help you | J. Krishnamurti
Extract from Public Discussion #1, Brockwood Park, UK, 1969
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TRANSCRIPT: What have I learnt this morning? I have learnt - I am learning, rather - that deeply nobody can help me. That’s a tremendous realisation. The helper, whoever wants to help me, he is helping me according to his conditioning. He says, ‘I know better than you do, old boy, let me help you.’ Or, ‘I’ll help you, I’ll be your companion, to walk together. We’ll watch things together,’ which means I depend on him. I need someone to support me, in walking. And I have discovered, if I have to do something ultimately by myself, why don’t I begin right from the beginning, not wait? I can’t do it because I am frightened, I want support, I want security, I want somebody to tell me, ‘You’re doing very well, old boy, carry on.’ And I have seen that any form of resistance - any form, outwardly or inwardly - any form of resistance is a wastage of energy. I have an opinion about something or other - prime minister or the Labour Party, or I don’t know, whatever it is - I have an opinion - that there is or there is no God, that this is right, this is wrong - and I am unwilling to change it. That’s a resistance. And when you say something which is an opinion, your opinion, can I listen to it without resisting, and change because what you say is true? So I find… not to have opinions at all. So I see that where there is attention there is an abundance of energy. And that energy is attention, and that can look, observe without the observer. The observer is the conditioned entity, the reaction, the resistance. I’ve seen this very clearly, not intellectually but deeply - you know, feel it. Therefore I’m going to watch if there is any form of resistance creeping up, and I know what to do. Now I am free to listen. Free to listen and therefore free, all the time changing.

[@sravie1]

Thanks for this! Helps a lot.

[@ritviktyagi2971]

👍

[@martynblackburn1977]

Goethe was the first to realise this. Not so tremendous afterall, JK.

[@aliquran7535]

I have a question, I am doing research for school. I'm Not sure if you can answer the question? What was J Krishnamurti's look on inspiring? Does inspire or to be inspired create movement? Please respond. Thank you

[@Krishnamurtifrance]

❤

[@anantapoudel959]

Happy to know there are people who care to listen to what he has to say.

[@PuriGx]

❤️❤️

[@rahulyadav-ex8pu]

😅

[@sriyogamahsilksandtex294]

Sir Right is only one . Right thing for me is not right for another. But JK told us only what is the Right

[@manjunathr6902]

He is one of the greatest philosopher.

[@anoridinaryhumanbeing70]

@@manjunathr6902 he's not a philosopher. He's a seer. An attentive human being. Who loved totally. A mystic. Philosophy is an ugly phenomenon. It is not clarity, or awareness. Which K taught. It's a mind game. It is not liberating. Awareness is liberating. Don't be a philosopher. Watch. Wait. Halt. Learn. 🙏❤️

[@vijaysimhareddypalvai]

This man is pure intelligence, without any wooing or comforting anyone. Too straight forward and awakening

[@NghiaTuanLe]

agree. His speech is great

[@daotrananhduy]

He is the master of the intellect.

[@valsammajoseph421]

@@daotrananhduy thank you

[@DanielSquires]

*Stop waiting for someone else to save you and fix all your problems* Commit to becoming the hero you have been waiting for!

[@luxaeterna3246]

This is a SOFTWARE most of humanity, specially "religious" people, had implanted in the brains. It is a very dangerous software

[@mgs5169]

Where there is attention , there is abundance of energy....

[@user-jr8cl3tk2p]

Tell that to the child soldiers in DRC or those who are starving in North Korea . You are very privileged to believe in nonesense

[@simcode]

The observer is resistance. Energy can observe without the observer. I feel it.

[@mykverma]

Where there’s attention there’s energy. Great realization.

[@fitnessczech466]

where there is attention there is an abundance of energy

[@taxiinmadeira2170]

This man speaking makes me calm.

[@alloneword154]

I’m learning that our minds create reality

[@mathematicalninja2756]

True

[@TheCubecrafer]

Lern about water memory and you know why

[@jammasta]

Ελένη Σαμακλή it must be due to the inner child within all of us. i’ve been having this realization recently

[@digglerdsrecordings9680]

When we interact with the world we are interacting with our mind's representation of the world.

[@valsammajoseph421]

Creates or interprets

[@1life744]

No one can heal the trauma that i have inside of myself. Only I can. By forgiving myself and grieving the love that was never given to me. That pain has to be felt. By feeling I heal.

[@ranirathi3379]

you got it. absolutely. exactly. just this and only this. only feeling can help us accept, and acceptance makes the trauma lose its trigger/impact. then we see we are not as triggered by the same trauma as we were before we felt it. then we realize it is upto us to sow seeds of the life we want.

[@karanagrawal8499]

Accept what ? Nothing to accept there is fact only

[@leonardkobal7340]

When you don't judge things they get a new meaning☀️

[@kaysalchaar]

Keep your attention in the present, and when you're thinking, breath!... .

[@saurabh75prakash]

This!!!

[@bigfootmm]

In your opinion?

[@seeker6389]

I don't think krishnaji was saying or has ever said to focus on the breath

[@rshxbh]

Keeping your attention on the present, implies division and concentration. When you're thinking, be aware of what you're thinking rather than escaping it as if it were different from that who wants to move away from it by concentrating on breath. That which you want to move away from is not different from you who wants to move away.

[@vinayakkamat4832]

Thank you. Peaceful.

[@ramjaladi9451]

Thanks for the insights

[@kingofthecatnap5422]

Thank you.

[@viveksanyal2773]

Thank you

[@annabellacrewe8858]

An extremely wise teacher !!!🌹

[@user-ev1qb4ol3k]

1969... Wow, one of his earliest talks posted on this channel... JK's voice is so clear and energetic. Great work👍

[@olumideodeyemi9749]

This man was a blessing

[@user-hl5lc8eu1k]

THANKS!!!

[@mohammedbadr5528]

Incredible. Simple and true. Try it.

[@bluebee8164]

Great man ....,,great words spoken

[@techfeed596]

tysm sir for coming to my life

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

thank you

[@upnrunning4585]

Be light on to yourself!!!

[@Av-vi5vs]

Thx for upload sir,it makes my day,it is like sliver lining in the cloud.

[@Zocrates8]

This is genuinely clearer and clearer. Truth is crucially clearer when I'm blue, but when I'm in an equilibrium kind of state it's beautifully clear, and I sense peace in the realisation of truth, in this case that nobody can help me, I'm blue, those are hard times we live in, and this is brutally clear for me.

[@henkknaap8781]

I love listening to this wonderful man, I know I am not far developed but Krishnamurti does not make me scared for this, on the contrary Listening to him makes me calm. I love this man.

[@gautamkaur2527]

Marvellous

[@devsarkar9571]

The moment it came!

[@manaoharsam4211]

Very True.

[@valdirbergamobergamo5396]

Excellent

[@francisxavier5084]

Through His talks Truth says " I Am ", whoever has Ears to Listen, let them listen.

[@mskrishnact5546]

Good job sir

[@DrHridoyWhatilearnToday]

You are great sir ...

[@surindersingh-uq4vl]

In the video, the speaker has uttered the word " I" number of times. I am learning, i am seeing etc But where there is"I" there can be no learning Man is just a speck in the whole existence . He can't analyse this vastness that surrounds us. The role of sublime company (association) can never be rejected which k does everytime. Definitely good company inspires us to get rid of our shortcomings and limitations. The whole job of self transformation is done by man himself, but good company acts as a stimulator. It makes him reflect upon his real behaviour. It gives him a push to move forward After all what are your video meant for. They also compel man to look within You can't nullify the role of great company.

[@sumenthrirao8489]

So true

[@shrirangdhawale7831]

the program being tremendously aware of its being programmed is the greatest program of awakening of intelligence the the intelligence itself is trying to tell you k is nothing but the medium of intelligence

[@migatocomeoscuridad]

so hard to understand fully what he talks about but I understand some things and you can tell he is a very wise man

[@soomi35]

He is The Great I AM as we all are!! He is an example for what we can become!🙏😇

[@GOD999MODE]

I love this channel. His talks are so important to me. Whenever I'm feeling down and stuck in my head, a few excerpts from his lectures and it puts things in perspective. Thanks to the uploaders and J. Krishnamurti for all his wisdom 🙏

[@subbannar7319]

Yes, my sadness is reduced while watching the video

[@durlavboruah4034]

Cool

[@mariamarques6532]

Tenho vivido a experiência de aprender e captar os ensinamentos deste ser extraordinário tenho me posto numa situação que saí de um estado mas não cheguei a outro agradeço a oportunidade que me está a ser dada de investigar e meditar a minha medida e exclusivamente a minha forma por agora é isto

[@akashpatil7765]

There is who can teach ,help, guide ,motivate , inspired, analysis of your but they dont make you realise your true self. All transformation ,change and revolution are done through your self becoz in you is only you so only you who decide how your life should be.

[@dear_darling]

💕

[@BamBhole1]

👌

[@cmanjularao9833]

K........ ❤️

[@hitendradivakar656]

Truth needs no introduction.

[@basavarajagoudapatil8329]

So many people's in india are not think and act like jiddu sir,his love for humanity made him to teach lifelong.world at present don't need person like this,but need followers who not blindly believe what he says instead with practicality of his thoughts or teaching.

[@thanmayi4126]

We all actually know this deep inside but there is also a false Ray of hope that shines brighter

[@randomawareness5952]

❤️

[@mvijaysairao1]

Never can his thought process be appreciated enough . If only I could (somehow) have a conversation with the man.

[@sundaramkr1295]

He is conversing with us, still we're not listening...

[@dushyantsingh2067]

He will not tell you anything that you dont already know His entire mission in life was to make a man enquire within himself

[@anushaeditz]

Love u master.....😘😘😘😘

[@anoridinaryhumanbeing70]

You are your own master. 🙏❤️

[@Shunya_Advait]

🙏

[@ToBeKing]

Rip

[@gentiantafa4619]

at every question we respond "nothing" when we don't want to answer, but nobody knows what "nothing " is ! 🙏😄💥🤣😅😉🙃

[@lisarochwarg4707]

So much for the medical profession.

[@powerofone1645]

People help people all the time.

[@shivahoo]

You want to listen to the "truth" ..This is the closest words and intelligence can reach

[@krishivihgarcia8348]

Ojala traducieran mas al español las palabras de el maravilloso krishnamurti

[@AnthonyHoward-ru8su]

I would say Krishnamurti does help me

[@grahaminglis4242]

The last sentence revealed that freedom to observe is always changing in and of itself, therefore it is not something static that you can form an opinion around, and seeing that as a fact destroys the minds psychological conditioning instantly.

[@gauranshkumar9674]

🔥

[@thanislausm4288]

THE MOST STRONGEST MAN IS HE STANDS MOST ALONE....IBSEN.

[@thanislausm4288]

THIS IS WHAT J.K IS TEACHING.

[@antygoniusz]

why are you shouting at me old man?

[@gnpantulu1919]

@@antygoniusz , Did your father never shout at you ?

[@elikaracho5537]

❤🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️❤

[@powerofone1645]

A good self isolation talk.............. :)

[@riddikssaga]

Lol

[@antygoniusz]

is anyone really self-isolating? Aren't we all forced to live with our own self since birth? There is no escape. So why can't we just accept it and learn to love ourselves... Something to think about.

[@anoridinaryhumanbeing70]

You have come alone ,, and you'll go alone. You cannot take anybody,, at the moment of death!! So a little "alone" time or isolation won't hurt, dear. Infact, truth dawns only in aloneness. If you can't be alone,, you can't be loving towards other fellow human beings either. 🙏❤️

[@OspreyFlyer]

👍

[@VGLV888]

☑️☑️

[@testsubject5029]

if someone is enlightened and has power definately you can help someone

[@rushardedward]

Did you watch the video?

[@handycamlady]

Thanks for sharing. Could you pl caption this?

[@ajaymahankar1838]

Sep 20 , 2021.

[@irishelk3]

I think Krisnamurti was great, in another talk he gave, he spoke about observing without thought, now, i can manage that, but observing without feeling is another matter, especially for those of us who have trauma and i might be wrong but i'm not sure trauma was his specialist subject, or if he ever spoke of it. I become afraid in so many social situations that i can't enjoy a simple moment with people, my own gender or the opposite sex, my feelings are always fight or flight and great as these teachings are, such matters are up to psychiatrists or even in some cultures, shamans; and most psychiatrists don't really specialize in such things, so when you're young (28) and you have anxiety from trauma and depression, ocd and shyness and unemployed and no girlfriend and so and so on, life, really is difficult and even the best people, it seems, cannot even help. I'm not hopeless, in fact i'm not even a very heavy guy, paradoxically i have an upbeat outlook on life, i am not a very serious person and i always laugh, but at the same time i do have these very difficult feelings

[@nanex_7726]

Your problem is then not feeling it is in actual fact your state of mind. All those things you have mentioned are influencing your thoughts.. So then you cannot yet observe without thought because if you could, a great realization will happen within you that all the trauma is caused by your lack of self confidence, confidence in your own ability and yet that ability means nothing and so anyone else's ability also really means nothing, so what is there to be afraid of or worried about?

[@JPMonstie]

Peter O'Toole You just described what it’s like to live in fear (the hell of fear). The error is that you’re believing that feelings (the past) can occur without thought. All ‘feelings’ have an associated thought, which is what maintains the past, or suffering in you. Give up thought or the addiction to thinking, and the feelings/fear will begin to dissolve and your life circumstances will improve. How do I give up identifying with my feelings/thinking? Simply practice feeling (note the subtle but important difference between feelings and feeling) the sensations (especially the good feeling) in the body. Simple, but not easy. Part of humanity’s ignorance is that I doesn’t get that the brain/mind amplifies everything in it. What I acknowledge, I grow or get more of. Most people acknowledge negativity constantly or cyclicly. This is essential Universal Law. Acknowledge only the good, and that is what will grow in your life.

[@yourlife04]

I totally get what you mean.

[@ananths5905]

@@nanex_7726 op's comment was relatable but your comment is gold! Thank you!

[@amakrid]

@RamblingRyan First find a job. And then start trying some form of therapy. You don't need a psychiatrist - you need a therapist. And you can help yourself by adding to the therapy some process (massage, tai-chi, even homeopathy) that would help you "open up" and let all that accumulated fear express itself wholly and exit your body. Listening to K.'s videos won't help you where you are. When your house is on fire you don't look at your thoughts: You take the water hose. Don't waist your time; it is precious.

[@hs0022]

HAHAHAHA!!! I had a good laugh when he started not because he is right but because I realized that most of humanity is helpless and dependent on his or her fellow human being! Some people just encourage this notion to others that they need help to fulfill their own agenda. That’s how businesses thrive!

[@TeacupChinese]

[@johnburman966]

Nobody can help by addition, Krishnamurti helps by deconstructing - it's different. Blake called conditioning our "mind forged manacles".

[@grandpamy1450]

Man is a social animal .,he cannot live alone,,

[@Dushyantgiri]

Short extract from larger portion of speech/talk could lead to wrong understand...it is a good try for todays world but the same human will forget it or would not internalize it...

[@IndulgentSamurai]

So many people giving accolades to JK's insight, without giving an iota of attention to where he is pointing...the collective unconscious lives on...hehe

[@residentize]

I iam alone

[@discordlivlua]

Hello Sir/Madam, Can we have a text version of this video's talk? Thank you really much in advance,i appreciate it,because reading it fits better for me.

[@doctordilanka]

It's posted/pinned at the very top

[@jameslynn3702]

Correct me if I am wrong. In "Meditation", just observe, look with all your senses, with no comment. Because "Meditation is all there is.

[@jessicaramos9661]

Portuguese please🙏🙏🙏

[@aaronbaraiya3692]

1st

[@lifechoices6643]

children as well as old people need some help.

[@krisbudiyantoh6400]

do you have the full version?

[@godsgraciousgift9566]

I don't understand can someone please explain to me?

[@devaa.sounds5730]

why after knowing you i have made enemies yet i feel free ?

[@raksha6057]

cuz you're autentic

[@oldkidsjonge]

proof that clickbait existed before the internet

[@winterapplegamingYT203]

What do you mean?

[@archana2433]

Why it takes so long for the mind to be free from it's conditiong??

[@sanekabc]

"therefore I’m going to watch any form of resistance creeping up and I will know what to do." What will you do?

[@syedahmad5390]

Observe the resistance without trying to avoid it. Just be in a passive awareness and flow in the moment

[@syedahmad5390]

Then the intelligence will guide you not the memory....

[@anthonybalduzzi]

Relax and melt into it the experience. There was never anything to resist (or a resistor) in the first place :)

[@iPlay_Violin]

Where there is total attention . "i" is not there.observer. No thought , anything, just observing.only attention

[@woowoowool1]

How to describe this man? ?

[@aquaimmy]

In one word? Fearless.

[@Enavor]

It's like an equation. You + teacher or helper = selfish. Selfish = Ego ≠ truth. Y+H=S, where S≡E and E≠T.

[@WhoKnowPaper]

What did he say at: 3:29?

[@autounionofmiami7301]

The observer in nature is etc...

[@Yogakshema_vahamyaham]

Nobody can help me. Is it good or bad?

[@JPMonstie]

yogesh thakur Neither. The judgement of what is happening is not relevant to what is happening.

[@seeuathebeach]

It's good, if you're seeking truth. It's bad, if you're seeking convenience.

[@edu.monstrik]

Neither of both. If you apply your mind to figure it out if it's "good" or "bad" you're lost. It's a fact. That's all.

[@klaasparlevliet2952]

Why is he holding these beautiful talks....? There is somewhat a contradictionairy thing about it for me....it seems he is doing it to entourage people to be attentive, conscious themselves and realise they ultamately 'need' no help...I consider this whole thing as him helping with his talks that people just observe the present moment/themselves....

[@sanjoykumarsarker6136]

Depressed? Confused of daily doing? Ok Work consciously 17-16 hrs a day. U yourself will get directions needed

[@Mk3hgg]

So why am I listening to your conditioning, because its better then my conditioning or his or hers

[@ArticMiner]

Knowing that sun will rise tomorrow is it a conditioning or a fact. And to someone who never seen it.. it wouldn't be both. Thought and conditioning is helping to make sentences, cleverly. With layers in words. Once it was learning to speek, now its conditioning, as time goes on. If one is not aware of his work, knowledge on which work depends becomes conditioning.

[@AshishKumar-iy3gg]

@@ArticMiner I agree with you

[@michaeljones7372]

Hello from another Mike Jones lol

[@kalouplb5288]

Close youtub and live trully life in peace

[@user-jr8cl3tk2p]

From all his talks,I've realised this man has never experienced or seen suffering. That's why he can sit there for years and mumble incoherent nonesense without making any impact in the world.