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@thebeamli2 жыл бұрын
I'm a giver and a nurturer but if it's not reciprocated, byeeeee
@jayc57562 жыл бұрын
FR
@tamiallen22042 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mythoughtsarenothisthoughts2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Reshme772 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Kearng2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Correct
@aholm2872 жыл бұрын
This is also one of the biggest qualities women love in men!
@bellakim94042 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree, yet at the same time, let's not forget, men are men and they are hunters by nature. Give, yet not 100% because they will take you for granted.
@AlondraO72 жыл бұрын
Facts
@gabrielnadia10852 жыл бұрын
That is why a woman should try to be a prey every now and then and she will be praised everyday.
@mirelarajic5792 жыл бұрын
Give as much as they give. 🙂
@prophetdr.danareece37482 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights. I agree that a woman should be in her feminine energy; and feminine energy is actually receptive energy that is based on being open and receptive to a man, and stems from self love and self care, as well as being healed from childhood trauma. Over giving and mothering a man actually stems from masculine energy, not feminine. I’ve observed that most women already know how to give - they need to learn to be open and receive more. What closes women down is not being open or receptive - or not knowing how to let a man initiate and lead. Women should lean back and receive from a man, and then give back in proportion to what they are receiving. I’ve observed that when women are healed from feelings of unworthiness, they can lean back and receive and be freed from the need to over work for love; or to over give to a man in order to prove their worthiness, or to secure his love. A healed woman knows that she is worthy of real love, without the need to convince a man to love her; and she will exude feminine radiance and have strong boundaries.
@tamjamtv2 жыл бұрын
Stephan...yes we possess these qualities as women. However these qualities are reserved for men who have demonstrated that they're eligible to access these finer qualities. It definitely isn't automatic....why am I being attentive, nurturing & considerate to a significant degree to a man I'm just getting to know....he has to lead & create the environment that inspires that behavior.
@IndigoSeeress_Yaa72 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@blue856102 жыл бұрын
Good point Stephan. I observed my partner's mother has a woman's inutition and she would advise him based on her gut feeling. And my partner doesnt necessarily agree all of her opinions but he does consider it. Thats probably why he supports my intuition
@maryanndiamond16902 жыл бұрын
So basically women just be a woman... Society has harden us up. We won't allow that anymore.
@michelleadagbabiri2 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that, the mothers of these men aren't even like that with their own husbands.
@MalijahSerenity Жыл бұрын
Before you even said it I was like “watch how his mother is with him..” because that’s so true lol. A man loves to feel catered to.
@blue856102 жыл бұрын
You know a man loves when he treats you the same way he treats his mother. My partner drives his mother going to church, groceries, malls etc when she asks him a favour. It speaks volumes how he treats women
@hawaiigirl80892 жыл бұрын
As long as she is alive….😂😂😂you will be in the back seat or, the trunk! She stole the emotional bond meant to be yours LONG ago in his childhood. I bet you, his dad is absent, died, abandoned or unhappy marriage!!! Am I right? The mother uses the boy (dysfunctional) talks to him as an adult spouse when he’s a KID, he gets the idea his emotional place is NEXT to her. I married a guy like that. It gets worse with time. Every single disagreement- HE WILL RUN TO HER! Crying & blabbering all about how meanie you are. BEFORE you marry SCRUTINIZE their dynamic with a microscope 🔬! Read up on NARCISSISTS & Narc mothers/ son dynamic. Please I’m begging 🙏🏼 you! I’m divorcing now after 25 years of Torment
@janisdunbarakasugarlips56212 жыл бұрын
What if he was treated wrong by his mother my son lied on me it deep BOOK he said he was abused so how did you become an alpha male if your mom abused you LOL I sent him to his first fight Malik Jones said he get ran home from the bus everyday Son if you fight back you won't get in trouble Alpha Mom
@janisdunbarakasugarlips56212 жыл бұрын
Oh so they got me blocked I when in
@hawaiigirl80892 жыл бұрын
@@janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 love to understand this but I think, auto correct screwed up your grammar so badly it doesn’t make sense
@cutie135812 жыл бұрын
@@hawaiigirl8089 lol 😂
@kimberlysheppard17012 жыл бұрын
Ladies run from a mamas boy. You will never come first.
@jayc57562 жыл бұрын
FACTS!!!
@tamiallen22042 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@LyonHeart-bo3gx2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with that. I am female and I put my mum first but i know how to separate the two. And would never accept a man who will have a problem with my mother ever!
@whitneylawrence13372 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@akpenguin18592 жыл бұрын
Im with a mamas boy and this is false 😂 I am #1
@rondas7772 Жыл бұрын
Ladies stop thinking so hard and writing all these negative things. Fact is, just be your womanly feminine self. If he's for you, he'll like you. Just be naturally womanly, confident, happy, and secure! Don't forget to smile and be kind. Remember you want a masculine man, just like men want a feminine woman
@pureceeparis Жыл бұрын
That's it.
@lesliestrothers40552 жыл бұрын
What about men whose mothers are deceased? I never met her or was able to see their interaction. I do know that he loved her and cared for her in her final days from what he has shared with me.
@sunshinesunflowerz16472 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Carmen-us1ew Жыл бұрын
Maybe ask him about their relationship and the types of interactions they had. Ask if he was helping or by her side in the end. His answers should help you out.
@cocoleluz2 жыл бұрын
Is funny how men sometimes ask me why I’m mad. I’m like, what? I’m not even mad lol. I guess is my face 😂I don’t know what to do I guess I need a flower 🌸 on my head. 🤷🏽♀️
@cutie135812 жыл бұрын
lol 😂
@RhondaR42 жыл бұрын
Stephan, you’re in my head again! I was talking to GOD earlier about my kingdom husband’s mother!❤️
@dayanagzz73402 жыл бұрын
Thanks for share all this content, I love it. 🥰🇲🇽 Since I watch one of your videos months ago, I can’t stop and I’m always waiting for the new ones. God bless you. ✨
@pocahontas45832 жыл бұрын
The story about the model goes to show why presentation matters. However I see all these men on social media complaining about women dressing up and saying they don’t like hair done, makeup, etc. Her outcome sort of contradicts that.
@oBluePandaO2 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video to explain the difference between feeling like a nurturing attentive girlftriend and feeling like you treat your man like a child?
@cameraunjohnson6390 Жыл бұрын
You gonna have us all walking around with flowers in our hair😂
@adeleneguzzo74682 жыл бұрын
Very good 👍 but what about men having gentle man qualities to attract women?
@RhondaR42 жыл бұрын
The time of this video reminds me of the time I seen today at 5:24! I feel there is a strong connection!🤔
@sweetgoldenbrown2 жыл бұрын
I was all of this and I was drained and used for it.
@joannadziokan32672 жыл бұрын
And what if those qualities seem to be ‘conveniently’ ignored? If a man acknowledges that he would have to do something nice for me, yes? But if he pretends he sees nothing special then he is off the hook, right?
@nana2407852 жыл бұрын
Well my boyfriend doesn't have a mother in his life and was raised by single uncle...So what kind of feminine characteristics would he look for or that I should doing??? Thanks for sharing
@Reshme772 жыл бұрын
Good question
@rondas7772 Жыл бұрын
Just be yourself, if you're a feminine woman, be just that
@psalmistcelestedavid49562 жыл бұрын
Mr Speaks! Are you ready for what u prayed for? Can u honestly say, u r fully ready/prepared for it?
@juliedaly23812 жыл бұрын
Yes they do
@reginadavis10282 жыл бұрын
. My husband says one of the reasons he loves me so is because I'm so nurturing and his mother isn't.
@Mswinters19242 жыл бұрын
❤️ Facts 🙌🏽
@Imyellowcake2 жыл бұрын
I agree with this❤
@abigalestoll2 жыл бұрын
💯 agree ❤️❤️
@carmenelizabethchamorro86082 жыл бұрын
Pure facts 💯 🤩🩵👋🏽 Hey Stephan
@Carmen-us1ew Жыл бұрын
Hey we both have the same name!! 👍
@TrinekaClayton2 жыл бұрын
Though I understand, it's no excuse. Not because I made it up, the Bible says forsake your mother and father and cleave to your wife. I lose respect quick when I'm not priority. Bible believing Godly men who understand God's order typically don't struggle with this. Wife has place #1. Marriage doesn't work in second place. Ask people who have been happily and successfully married for 15 years or more. A good mother will teach him better and understand her new place. I'm a mother of two son's and I'm proactively teaching mine.
@Lily-uo6hp2 жыл бұрын
Wife is NUMBER 2. God is number 1 always.
@strawberrypancakes2438 Жыл бұрын
Yet he'll still cheat on you. Imma just be myself.
@keica6062 Жыл бұрын
I Totally agree that his mom will out due any woman! Especially if she didn't have it with the sons father. Therefore she'll bail him out! #HandsDownDevotedHelpMeet# I Digress... #NotTheMama# #TrendsetanistaExtrodineer#
@laneasiachance2 жыл бұрын
Do you think you can do a video on how to help with that? I have a son who is very clingy to me but even though he's just 2 I want to prevent this from happening when he gets older. I feel like it will give him trouble in relationships.
@rrnn64722 жыл бұрын
At 2 it's a developmental stage - at 22 that's another story, Lol. Anyway, I've seen children outgrow the clinging once they begin school. If you can (as your resources permit), enroll him in a half day / full day program when he's 3 or 4. The interaction with peers will make a difference.
@laneasiachance2 жыл бұрын
@@rrnn6472 Thank you so much for the advice, I actually just got him in daycare so that's a start
@rrnn64722 жыл бұрын
@Laneasia Chance Awesome to know! He'll be fine - and you will too!
@cutie135812 жыл бұрын
@@rrnn6472 :)
@IndigoSeeress_Yaa72 жыл бұрын
...enjoy your baby and love on him..this isn't the stage of his life for that🦋🤍
@lynettenorwood2864 Жыл бұрын
WOWWW
@LaTremendaChica Жыл бұрын
They are all mamas boys from my experience
@shawanahickman69522 жыл бұрын
I can and is all of these things
@dianawilde4172 жыл бұрын
I live in England. English men don’t ask women out full stop.
@Carmen-us1ew Жыл бұрын
What do they do?
@dianawilde417 Жыл бұрын
@@Carmen-us1ew the women have to pursue them 😩
@jjuice3327 Жыл бұрын
So true hun, I’m London and it’s the trenches here 😭
@talktosteph76362 жыл бұрын
You are very correct on this. Appreciate you as always. An eye opener for me. Though but more like it'' that men love bitches to the real lady woman.
@lisajones-franklin35742 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙌🏽❤
@mpalmer78002 жыл бұрын
No our black men don’t!!! They tell you they don’t need a second mother!!!
@suileniluizontrombetta6317 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏🥰🌻
@lydialinda7583 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are not talking anything about women even if we are considerate and nurturing they don’t need us and some won’t even value women if am not wrong am not sounding as if all men are like that NO there are men in this world 🌎 who can support and respect women even if we didn’t do nothing they can be considerate
@janisdunbarakasugarlips56212 жыл бұрын
I'm blocked I found out stuff
@jasminebrown8651 Жыл бұрын
?
@anonymous65942 жыл бұрын
Take care of a man like a son.
@Carmen-us1ew Жыл бұрын
Um, no. He's a man not a child. I can be attentive but I'm not catering.