Causing a Family Fallout

[@CarmBSNRN]

Good ole “I’ll pay you back when I get my income tax “

[@mnmgag]

❤ I heard that one before ❤

[@RachelLong]

They always say that you would think they would learn if they watched this show

[@cassandra6710]

Yeppp. Usually follows with " I didn't get my taxes yet or at all" Crazy how that works.

[@thebookwasbetter3650]

Never came but don't worry, I have a settlement coming up.

[@Jett007-z1b]

😂 right

[@BellaFelicia]

Family and money just don't mix.

[@cliffimages1785]

Exactly.

[@Incog3]

Never!!

[@YourExcellency]

Don’t loan money, GIVE if you can. Simple. Easy.

[@yayalux711]

Facts. Especially money that you expect to be re-paid.😅😅😅

[@karenwalters1211]

You give family money not lend. If you can’t gift it, don’t do it.

[@teeshante]

In and out of your life??? SIR?! She was 7 when you were 1… she owes you NOTHING! My God!

[@yourmom-hm1dd]

I can feel the frustration 😂😂😅

[@shayzie1853]

He's giving lazy boy energy. He did need this lesson. A discount that cost him NOTHING doesn't count as payback

[@KennuhWayne]

Like that lil funky phone discount was really something! 😂

[@teeshadixon2232]

😅😅😅

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Saving people money is NOT repaying a loan. He's a jerk!!!

[@shirleymlombo2913]

There is value. That value can be monitised.

[@guystevens5429]

@@shirleymlombo2913 I agree. His discount saved her money - there is value in that. He only said yes because she was family and knew she helped him out so he did the same thing. He could have said no and it would have cost her money. I guess he'll be saying no from now on. She also claims she only sued him because she's behind on bills with a baby on the way - so why the hell is she purchasing a new phone? I suspect she agreed to waive the debt for the discount and then realised she couldn't pay her bills so reneged and sued him.

[@tsukipon74]

​@shirleymlombo2913 only if it was agreed upon prior. You cant say it after the fact

[@ten1225]

​@@shirleymlombo2913that value can be assigned to her not charging him interest. Why burn a bridge...

[@trudypops]

At the end of the day, something has to be said. If you feel like you're saving me money then it might be in your best interest to say hey I saved you a few dollars can you deduct such and such from the loan. You don't just make that arrangement in your own mind and not talk to the other person about it.

[@rebekahmeegan8922]

What an ungrateful nephew who needs to grow up! Next time he needs help I hope his family reminds him of his dishonesty!!

[@bryanhenderson9637]

This dude got his tax return without issue. He just didn't want to give it to her because he thought that by him using his discount would absolve him of the debt.

[@autumnsantomauroganggang]

I will never get enough of the adoration, admiration, love, and respect Judge Marilyn and Judge Jon have for each other. After all these years especially!

[@denabee5232]

What?? She thinks the IRS is easy to get in touch with?? OMG, judge you are out to touch with reality.

[@galegibbs5946]

Yes she is

[@mabuhayPinay]

Nope. My mother received a letter from the IRS detailing how much money she owes. Clearly it was an error, nevertheless mom was anxious. We called IRS, waited perhaps 20 mins, got to talk to a real-life human being. She gave instructions and mom complied. Many weeks later, a second letter arrived, obviously the error was not corrected. Called IRS again and got through, no problem. Everything is fixed now. It's not that hard, people.

[@meeksluvspink9047]

She has people to do it for her. She's not like us normal people😅

[@katem3667]

Sorry you had that experience. I OTOH had nothing but good experiences with the IRS during a pretty horrible time where I owed a lot of money. Every contact was with a professional but very nice person on the other end, with very little wait time holding.

[@crystallc8871]

@@mabuhayPinayIt’s completely dependent on what time of the year you’re trying to contact them.

[@madmaxofspokane1691]

The Defendant is a disrespectful loser taking advantage of his own family. I guarantee that he's never helped anyone out but himself.

[@mashondaknight9132]

Never give anyone especially men family, boyfriends, husbands let them pay for their own things. They become to feel entitled to it.

[@SuperNoahsmom]

Cause men are worse than women at paying their debts?? The stupidity of this comment is astounding 🤣

[@YoungBlaze]

So does that include you as well?

[@mashondaknight9132]

@@YoungBlaze I don't ask anyone for money if I can work and get my own they can too

[@mabuhayPinay]

Word. Best comment for this case. Our eldest is a boy. To my parents, he was special, someone to carry the family name (whereas my sister and I would eventually marry and lose our family name). Entitlement is his game. Takers, not givers. Just because he can, he will. He got more money/inheritance when our parents died, with the collaboration of my mother before she passed. They basically lied to my sis and I so he can have more, under the guise of "everything divided equally". My sister took care of mom for 3 yrs; 17 yrs by me; 0 by brother. Now she's gone and the truth is out -- stings like hell. Women folk, know your value! Don't be taken for granted, don't coddle your men: bf, husband, son, nephew, grandson... Expect a lot from them because we women are givers, nurturers, carers, lovers. Even when we are empty, we will still give. Teaching this young man a lesson thru court is a good idea. He will return to the family, just a matter of time. He needs them.

[@francesharris7588]

Judge Milian confused on how the were related😂. Girl my middle daughter would have you second guessing me birthing her. She looks like her dad side

[@iheartdates]

I think it was more because of the aunt and nephew’s age.

[@francesharris7588]

I would agree if she didn't ask how they auntie and nephew even after she told them that was her nephew and had the prior knowledge of it. Also she was almost shocked when she found out mom was mom. Nothing negative she was just a little surprised is all

[@jamieleigh3481]

The IRS is not easy to get a hold of and when you do you get disconnected and it’s super frustrating

[@cassandra6710]

People change so fast once they receive help. Smh. Also, let me throw every little thing I've done for you, in your face. Lastly, "I never got my taxes" It's said that he continually defends himself, and really thinks he's not wrong.

[@mikesteele05]

So he wants his corporate employer to pay back his debt? Ten bucks says that employee discount doesn’t extend to aunts and he was actually stealing from his employer, too.

[@LisetteOlds]

The discounts are no longer discounts when you charge her for "the service".

[@Bishop545454]

This guy is so monotonous, like he has zero care or feeling on the matter.

[@VladmirPoopN]

Maybe he still has "some stuff going", like he mentioned when discussing crashing his car...

[@Julie-sl8ul]

I think he's lying about the amount of the loan. The eyes are telling.

[@ISayToMyself]

She and Grandma look just alike. Yall see the interview in the hallway.

[@willvanwinkle2238]

More like he'd rather spend other people's money first and not his own

[@loveyoutube2177]

The entitlement of this guy

[@paulthomas8066]

This case perfectly illustrates why mixing family and finances is often a recipe for disaster. The defendant, who at least had the decency to dress appropriately for court, made agreements and verbal contracts without properly involving the parties affected. Combining family with financial matters can lead to significant emotional turmoil and heartbreak when commitments are not honored, as vividly demonstrated here. The defendant seemed to believe that doing favors allowed him to unilaterally alter the agreement and absolve his debt. Additionally, his thought process led him to think that because he was going through hard times and didn't receive his tax return, he could change the contract at his whim. It's clear he took shameless advantage of his aunt, thinking he could walk away from his obligations without consequence. This situation is not only sad but entirely avoidable.

[@KAKE-26]

I have a question. How much do we think those red highlights the defendant has in hair cost him? 🤔

[@lavellecloud9413]

💯

[@t10events11]

About $7

[@Cantfindme2121]

About $100 😂

[@2LitProduction]

Less than $20. You think highlights are expensive?😂

[@ISayToMyself]

Grocery store hair dye.

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

He is TOTALLY lying about the IRS. They are very communicative. They even will call you back if the wait is too long

[@Amy-ej2px]

I believe him. Just bc you got through doesn't mean that he did. I've had good and bad experiences w them. It also depends on when and who you're trying to reach. A few yrs ago, they'd let you hold a long time and then tell you that they're ending the call bc of the long hold. That still hurts just thinking about it. 😭

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Since when?😂 I've been on hold for hours and never received a call back. The IRS is horrible in every way.

[@iris-nx1wt]

@@mrshappilymarried1 I call 1st thing in the morning...thats the best way to get in contact with all these companies. And remember nothing gets done on a Friday after 12pm. People are thinking about the weekend and not work.

[@RitaCannon-ef2sg]

No they aren't and you cant even get a person they owed me for over 2 years and nobody ever called me back even when they said it. It is not easy to communicate with them hence the people in Texas who went to the building for their refund 😂

[@emilybrown7224]

Who? Not IRS 🤣🤣😂

[@lizboard6833]

This guy is twisting himself into a pretzel trying to justify not paying her back. Wow. Talk about ungrateful smh

[@michaelcrandle1068]

The defendant is very confused 😕.

[@terrellrobinson3286]

I would've liked to know how much that discount was.

[@brandinelson7941]

Using his discount costs him absolutely zero and is not an equal value compensation

[@terrellrobinson3286]

@@brandinelson7941 Costs him zero, indeed. Did it save her $600 though?

[@Amy-ej2px]

The intro said $700...or maybe $600 like the other person said.

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

Happy Tuesday everyone!!!

[@madmaxofspokane1691]

Happy Tuesday to you as well!

[@coolguyallthetimez]

Never loan anyone more than you are prepared to lose. It's almost better that it's a gift

[@jamieleigh3481]

Never give what you can’t live without.

[@tryk9955]

He has a nice suit and a professional haircut. He has money, he just didn’t want to pay her.

[@Vloggingwithrosalyn]

12:15 everything is transactional with narcs. He’s literally going on and on thinking he right😂😂😂 PERSONALITY DISORDER

[@TheDB_Show]

He’s a weird Queen lol

[@meicolar1724]

These young people.....always throwing around PETTY....

[@bjohnson1149]

Entitlement at its finest.

[@robynwillis7711]

They throw delusional around alot to😂

[@adrianknight1406]

Never give shit to anyone and you'll be free and clear of ending up here in court.

[@Fribee83]

Guess it's easy to avoid ever giving shit to anyone when you're so toxic and bigoted that no one wants to be around you. Adrian's over here playing the long-game.

[@Meister_de_Nicts]

Giving and lending are quite different. Just because you've burned all your bridges doesn't mean the rest of us have!

[@tenikatucker8858]

I dont get how you sue some one and still want a relationship with them

[@cindymann3673]

Business is separate from personal for many.

[@DeuceSSS1845]

@@cindymann3673really though! And seeing that one have to sue to get money back is saying that the relationship is already messed up because one person couldn’t keep their word.

[@tiffanyderamus1194]

The defendant feels like what’s mines is mines and what’s theirs is mines. He’s selfish.

[@bjohnson1149]

"I'll pay you when I get my taxes." Age-old story. Age-old lie. If you fall for it, shame on you. Everything about this guy screams entitled and spoiled. The world owes him a living. I'm a grandmother and I'm not always mad. This "boy" has a lot to learn. I wonder who paid for that nice suit he's wearing, classy haircut and color, and the braces on his teeth.

[@mabuhayPinay]

Grandma should keep teaching this boy.

[@lovingcareheatingandair6794]

IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING PAYING BILLS, YOU DON’T GO AND HAVE A BABY. GET YOUR SH!T TOGETHER FIRST.

[@cobravids]

LIFE RULE REGARDING MONEY. Never loan money unless your willing to kiss it goodbye. Especially when dealing with family. I would rather kiss 1000 goodbye than bring my child to court.

[@priestessbrandi]

People , alert alert !!! They will not pay you back when they get their taxes !! 😂

[@tonyaadams2708]

The IRS is NOT easy to get a hold of. Seriously. What a lie

[@destinymiller6122]

You will be on hold for a hour or more but it is not hard to get answers from the irs

[@MomIrregardless]

poor judge!! she keeps trying to explain and teach people, and they just never get it......i feel her disappointment!!

[@6time686]

Ole boy using the barter system...

[@grrcat616]

I think in 2021 or 22 the IRS held my tax refund and their app didn't tell me why. The letter I received didn't tell me why. It was vague something like "We are unable to send you your return due to needing to do something." I received a letter later in the year which said the same useless info. I have no liens or anything like that. I did try to call them once but got to automative system which wasn't helpful, said the same thing. While I wanted my money I didn't want to take the time to call again. It wasn't make or break me amount of money. It's the IRS if they wanted to talk to me the letter would have said so. And since it's the IRS they are not going to run away with my money. I figured I would eventually get it or get a letter telling me when and where to come in. I did finally get my refund before it was time to file taxes the next year. I got interest on the money they held and then had to make sure the next year to put that interest as earnings on my taxes. Still don't know why it was held. So wildly enough his tax issue was probably legit. He still owes his aunt but if I hadn't gone through it myself I wouldn't believe him either about his tax return being held and not told why.

[@karenoconnor4180]

He looks like he just stepped straight out of the 80s ..

[@vicamur]

This guys personality has something that makes me uneasy.

[@mariettamb]

Communication young man

[@BonesTheProd]

Maaaaan sounds like he works at Apple and gave his FAMILY, a Friend & FAMILY discount, which doesn’t cost him anything to do.

[@honeybuzzard2843]

Love the defendents speaking voice... I could listen to his voice ALL DAY. WOW

[@ninosimone]

The way the plaintiff walked in the courtroom 😂😂😂

[@KamiiiKam]

He’s so cold hearted - that’s his grandma.

[@shirleymlombo2913]

Grandma had no business involving herself in this matter.

[@_Essentially_abena]

He’s pissing me off 😭

[@GigiRulesTheRoost]

is she nuts!? There is no way to get a hold of a live person at the IRS. Please. My daughter has been trying to talk to them for months and months and can't do anything online. Outrageous

[@BobBlumenfeld]

I love how some people agree to a contract, then procrastinate on holding up their end and finally declare, unilaterally, that they already have.

[@tonyrichardson5955]

The defendant is very very immature to say the least

[@alfreddavis9116]

He really can't afford to pay it back. Poverty creates so many problems.

[@Dove.Love.]

Trump2024!

[@jenelizabeth7822]

Budget. Delete Amazon. Pick up a 2nd job. Eat at home. We’ve all been through a Ramen noodle only phase.. there are ways to save money if you are really determined and watch every penny.

[@Nevaeh1]

@@jenelizabeth7822you can do all of that and still be unable to pay your bills

[@SuperNoahsmom]

@@Nevaeh1💯💯💯

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

He has highlighted hair

[@elizabethprouddolllover641]

Amazing how money will end the tightest bonds.

[@mabuhayPinay]

It's the disrespect, not the money itself. If he would've acknowledged his loan every once in a while or paid a little at a time, they would not be in court. If he had helped them with an attitude of gratitude, there wouldn't be a break in their relationship. It's not the money per se. It's like the person who is always late, they don't respect your time and agreement. I have a friend who is always late. She expects you to understand why she can't be there on time. She's wonderful as a human being; as a friend, you gotta stretch your patience.

[@vivianrodriguez2403]

JM: “that’s why my job was so much sexier.” 😂

[@zoeg7985]

I kind of like the defendant even though he owes them and is misguided about helping them makes them even

[@Amy-ej2px]

I like him, too. People are "complaining" that he's monotone (I don't think that they understand what that means) and soft-spoken. I see him as polite and courteous. Not everyone has to yell and be argumentative.

[@taralen1101]

@@Amy-ej2px Because people who leave comments on People's Court videos are ignorant. I'm Black and gay so I don't care anymore. I feel Aunt has some nerve to sue Nephew/family and I understand his point that usually family will allow you to repay debts in other ways/he helped her out with a phone etc. Judge Milian is also incorrect, IRS (as well as Social Security) is very difficult to get a hold of, and also why it's good to hire certified people to help with your taxes too.

[@botaktatasumo]

".....well you could've payed her back 😂" ded

[@superdavessubiandmore823]

You never borrow money to family or friends cause all it does is ruin relationships.

[@jamieleigh3481]

The giver loans money the taker borrows it. I am sure you already knew that and had a brain fart

[@spencerlincoln2428]

you can’t say no to family, you have to simply loan money and refuse to loan more if the initial loan wasn’t paid back

[@cubanindian]

The IRS did that to my son. It took him over 3 years to get them and those after. It was something on their end attached to his SS number, which they had to fix.

[@beej6658]

If i help you get a credit card, WE ARE EVEN!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sph1226]

lol “it is what it is for the most part”. Well what is it for the remaining part?

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

So he really wants to talk about family but he cant help her out without getting paid 🙄NOOO WOW.He has some nerve!!

[@monicadismuke9579]

Same to you....

[@zuritribe4844]

lol Harvey looks rough like he did nothing with his hair

[@zuritribe4844]

he said granny is always mad this boy is a mess

[@mekhahboohunter5694]

I can't get in touch with IRS...They never answer

[@SpanishRockstar]

The irs is the worse to get in contact with 😭

[@barbaraness4507]

Never “loan” money to family! If you want to help them give the money, and let them know you’d appreciate them paying it back. Don’t expect it though, or hard feelings could develop, and ruin the relationship.

[@KayB-l5h]

He such a pitiful person that he would lie about the 100 because thats just who he is. If the plaintiff was gonna lie she could've asked for more than 100 bucks extra. So ungrateful and entitled. Its obvious he never takes accountability.

[@MsSparklesNGlitter]

Never bite the hand that helps you, especially when that hand is from a family member. Next time the defendant should be told to fend for himself.

[@mabuhayPinay]

Love this. I've said this to my kids every now and again, as a reminder. Their young minds think that what parents provide came so easily. No sireee.

[@seanwaltonsr.7049]

🤔 what factory produces human beings with that level of unbelievable selfishness?

[@RileyCullen1]

What the hell is wrong with him?!?! Jerk! Hes not paying the discount. Unless he is, you cant use repayment that way. omfg did he just say hes charging her for him telling her if she’s getting a good price for a phone/plan?! Tell me he’s not that stupid!

[@barbaraness4507]

As a family member he should help family out because he wants to, and loves his family. He shouldn’t be keeping score.

[@EduardoGonzalez-qm2uk]

I would never sue my nephew but he wouldn’t get anymore!!

[@terezturner5068]

I wouldn't loan money to anyone if I needed it back.

[@DJMookieJukebox]

U can COLOR YOUR HAIR but you can’t pay me my MONEY ?!!!!!

[@oregontrailpickers3553]

Can’t get ahold of the IRS so he just doesn’t follow through with it ??

[@judithgeiger6992]

Why would the defendant want to do that to his hair? Someone needs to tell him how bad it looks.

[@girlypink3771]

He come off so lazy !!!!

[@aerotaken5357]

He borrowed $700-$800 then got her a $700 discount - so she'd get no benefit ftom the discount. Make it make sense - dude made himself look like a 🤡

[@ConfusedinJuly]

I was on the phone with the IRS for 2.5hrs and got hung up on 😢😅

[@sheriwilliams5027]

🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽defendant has no man training. Momma auntie grandma where’s the men showing that child how a man handles his 💰💰responsibilities🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽

[@LiveGrowRescue]

At least he speaks with respect and sounds educated so the women in his life are doing something right. He owes his auntie, no doubt about that but he was respectful in court.

[@johnnyb6151]

A man doesn't have to show another man to pay back a loan. You teach boys to raise the toilet seat. But you shouldn't have to teach them to pay their bills and debts.

[@ckells]

@@LiveGrowRescuethat’s the least he could be. It still doesn’t negate the fact that he needs to learn how to be responsible and stand on business

[@darriused1567]

Anyone can teach financial literacy, gender roles have nothing to with it. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Indeed 💔💔💔💔

[@TheeMichellesMind]

He’s an entitled bum. 🙄

[@Mizzshron82]

Doesn’t the IRS send letters when money is offset for a debt? They do because I’ve gotten one before along with other letters explaining things. He either is lying or he’s lying. He knows exactly what happened to that refund. He was banking on his aunt saying well forget it since you can’t reach the IRS.

[@ConfusedinJuly]

"It is what it is" No, it is what you make it

[@bricrenshaw2212]

Judge is always trying to tell somebody how smooth something went for her, girl the irs makes you jump through hoops to get a hold of them! He’s definitely wrong for not paying the Money back though.

[@SamanthaTotimeh]

His voice is so soft aww! But I hope they both learn from this.

[@luesgrandbaby]

DRT has entered the lexicon.

[@ryans413]

That guy lives by it is what it is that’s why he’s in this situation

[@dsmith1146]

The Judge's interests in the lineage is rather "interesting" given it has no bearing on the case....if looks could tell🤔 instead of testimony and evidence 🙄 No flowers for Defendant but, IYKYK ⚖️

[@oldageisdumb]

Holy crap, people. Just get a job and McDonald’s or Walmart. Work hard, be on time and pretty soon you’ll be in management. Live within your means. Don’t have kids out of wedlock. Why is this so hard?

[@snowboy82]

Although I agree with the judge, it is not easy to get in touch with the IRS. 30 min? No try 2hrs, that's how long it took me.

[@tjbooker9948]

The liar thief cousin would've gotten a letter from the IRS about the reason for withholding his money.

[@Lanie-sl9ne]

The attendance sheet is what's specific to the plaintiff. Not receipts which don't prove what they're saying. That only proves that at a certain time they paid him. But, it doesn't prove the plaintiff was paid for the dates question. Frankly, I believe these defendants are shady as 💩

[@sdays59]

Why does JM ask HOW is he her nephew??

[@91PHS10]

It makes a difference between blood and non-blood (married in)