Tossing It All Away

[@highlander666]

He's one angry, slow, little gremlin

[@tytyconway7682]

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[@jeromebass7878]

He's just frustrated 🥴 because his belongings & lively hood were disposed 📴

[@orca_634]

Yeah except gremlins have big eyes.

[@NoImBrandywine]

😂😂😂😂

[@taraminsalee6374]

😂

[@nikkisjeans]

The sad part is this lady's self esteem is in the toilet...stay up sis!

[@jenn_x.]

It really hurts to see. She seems defeated, both by her demeanor and in her voice when she speaks. Someone must've done a number on her at some point in order for her to give him a second glance - much less let him continue to disrespect her. I hope she's since realized she's worth more than this, and so are her children.

[@chendab.6125]

True but she is so beautiful ❤️

[@babycakebullock1662]

Yes you could definitely tell that it is 💔

[@WrestlingSuperstar83]

I agree and she thinks its cute, taking pictures like the black eye is a badge of honor! Its sad and dysfunctional! I hope she truly gets help she needs. Her children do not need to witness this abuse.

[@quanitaatkinson834]

😢

[@jordanwashington4662]

Guys like this tough to their girls, but won’t act like this with another man…

[@mandylynnhoff]

He's too small to try it with another man

[@tonilee2868]

Is the epitome of a man with Napoleon syndrome… Short temper to match his height

[@ZovaBe]

Yep!!!

[@Julie-sl8ul]

COWARD 😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@red_icee962]

He wouldn't act like that with a woman that kicked his short a$$ either!!

[@bitterscotchLove]

Omg, this dude is weird and dangerous. I havent even made it 5 minutes into this court case. He so rude and disrespectful

[@orca_634]

All he does is tsk, sigh, whine and complain.

[@SavageJunky]

And the worst... He think he is a victim...

[@taraminsalee6374]

Definitely dangerous.

[@allymaree8812]

Judge mathis woulda been checked that attitude like "you know been in court before!" 😂

[@moniquewhite2048]

He has autism and Asperger's.

[@Nm-pk6uh]

I wish he took this case to Judge Judy or Mathis with his rude ass, he wouldn’t be in court 5 seconds lol

[@sheldoncole1151]

Especially with Judge Judy

[@mooker217]

Mathis would have dogged him

[@spottertytyty]

Wait a minute..judge Milian is no slouch now .he just hasn't pissed her off enough.. He was getting there though..

[@Nm-pk6uh]

@@spottertytyty yea but judge Judy or judge Mathis would’ve kicked him out for contempt of court in 5 sec, judge Mathis kicks out ppl for the most petty reasons like rolling eyes once

[@diontatyrese2337]

Yeah the judge was reallllyyyt patient with him

[@Nevaeh1]

The reason why he never came to get his stuff or had his mail forwarded is because as long as it was there he could use it as an excuse to come by to harass and harm her

[@themadmillionaire]

Yep, they always keep a toe in the door

[@infinitylouis5891]

facts

[@kaisumpter1]

Yep and probably ain’t had nowhere else to go 🤧🤧🤧

[@chvsdee]

Exactly. I was coming to say this.

[@dawniipoo322]

Exactly,my ex did the same thing until I told him I was moving n didn't want to have that type of energy coming with me,he came to get his stuff and didn't even want it,I was so done with him after that

[@mysticalmuse333]

🗣️ This is the type of boy that will un alive you and show no remorse at the court date‼️‼️‼️

[@kandi668]

You right about that. He just seems angry.

[@finally97]

Right. And have the nerve to say that she made me do it or if she hadn't....

[@ShatorraMarie]

Yup

[@tashacampbell5826]

Baby you hit this on the head

[@tashacampbell5826]

Ain’t no way in hell. A man is going to beat on me. If he hit me that first that better be the end of me. Because I would doing life for overk$ll. I thank God my Father raised me to have self esteem and not to take ish from a man. Ain’t no way.

[@roxannemoreno2012]

Man talk about a walking red flag!! He is an angry aggressive person for sure. I hope he leaves her alone she's in real danger with that temper he has.

[@rubylimey7614]

For real in danger after this case outcome🙏🙏

[@AshleyHarris-id4ky]

Definitely! I pray she’ll be okay.

[@GoddessPower777]

she needs to stand on leaving him alone. Cutting all contact. She stops being a victim when she continues to dealing with him

[@ariannadshae]

@@GoddessPower777 but emotional and physical abuse literally alters your brain. the way you think, the choices you make. at some point you can start to believe that the abuse is your fault or that despite the abuse, this person loves you, etc. it’s not as easy as just walking away. we gotta keep that in mind. if it was, a lot of people wouldn’t be victims at all.

[@kimberlyc54]

He’s dead in the eyes , nonchalant disposition, and he seems to lack emotions . Psycho path qualities . Some people can only display emotions centered around anger .

[@allieb770]

He had a great deal of anger & only worried about himself. He's the only one being held accountable yet he's never been held accountable after 6 arrests!!!! Seriously!!!

[@jenniferalston1635]

Exactly, good observation

[@Sharonberry893]

He looks high as a kite

[@Gizzygal66]

I wonder…What was his pick up line to her?

[@SpanishRockstar]

He’s so short with a short temper 😭

[@Mishel33020]

S.M.S. Short man syndrome

[@blaq_betty]

😂

[@jenniferalston1635]

Most short men are angry because their short 😆

[@VettGirl66]

Dude has Napoleon complex and sis has low esteem.

[@VettGirl66]

@@jenniferalston1635💯🤭

[@MELINDADHERBERT]

He's the type to murder you and say it was your fault. Geez girl get up out that bottom pit!!!

[@theresacoringgray6885]

She needs to get out ASAP!!!

[@biancalathetravelerssoul]

This guy should be in jail!

[@OnlyOneAvana]

Facts! You can tell he’s an animal. And a bit slow

[@hottuna2006]

Jail doesn't help guys like that. He's broken and needs professional help.

[@Prettypinkpolish_]

This guy lived in jail

[@malikasampson7673]

He's so rude, playing the victim. She's not the one giving out blackeyes. Learn to control yourself.

[@tonyrichardson5955]

DUDE IS ABSOLUTELY UNBELIEVABLE..... He's a danger to society!!!

[@dingo1666]

I agree. I have seen more switched on lamps. He's dangerous because he doesn't compute what is going on and he is angry.

[@cousinsister69]

A weak angry little man can be very dangerous.

[@EChristian329]

That man really beat this woman down in so many ways! He is a piece of work!

[@keciareed7135]

Omg I wish this was in judge Mathis court 😂😂

[@Author_DeQuindra_Renea]

Mathis would’ve let his ass have it!

[@lala95j]

The case would've been dismissed ASAP

[@touchedbyyou4698]

He knew where to take it too

[@JoJo_B2]

Cause yk that black man DONT PLAY 🤣.

[@tonybluestar4954]

Dudes like this needs a black male judge!!

[@Emriv]

He’s like a little kid 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sheldoncole1151]

Literally 😂😂😂😂

[@curiousnarwhal]

Exactly! He was acting like a child. It was so strange to watch.

[@granitemoss1451]

Petulant like a toddler!

[@Mindurbusiness1234]

Don't insult kids like that 😩.

[@triofan9]

he looks like one too 😂

[@markandrew18]

He’s been arrested for domestic violence 6 TIMES!!! 🚩 🚩 🚩

[@Nevaeh1]

I hope other women see this before coming in contact with him

[@teacupmagick7030]

And that's just with this woman and doesn't include the times she didn't report him.

[@mary5305j]

Just with this woman! Think about all the other times outside this relationship! Arrested 6 times and never prosecuted!

[@shugaslimm1151]

6 times and has the nerve to be suing anybody smh

[@janicester]

And she kept taking him back. 🙄 Eventually, a woman has to own her part in the ongoing drama. Of course, it's his fault for being physically abusive but after the second time, I look at both of them as guilty.

[@K_L3n]

Why does his face look like it’s about to fall off the bone 😂

[@GodmadeJesussaves]

😂😂😂

[@missa1goins]

😂😂😂

[@mwenbel623]

Now I can’t unsee it!!!

[@t_onaysiaaa]

Bye 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lmao

[@Gizzygal66]

Droopy! Remember the cartoon from back in the day? The cute little dog with the sad droopy face and voice?

[@MrAlienmagnet]

He is a walking rage headline. You can bet she suffered some kind of revenge from him after this show.

[@symone1892]

Nope, I would have dismissed his case for being disrespectful. I wouldn't have made her pay half of a penny.

[@vonnam21n91]

She should have counter sued

[@quianawilliams2914]

Yep, as soon as he got out of pocket. Get outta my courtroom!!!

[@captainswifee6029]

​@@vonnam21n91Sis didn't have the energy for all that.....she wants to be done with everything.

[@vynneve]

you wouldn't be able to be a judge with that thinking 😂. despite him being absolutely awful, she is binded by the law. and she *admitted* to that money she awarded, she had to give it. The rest of the stuff she didn't, cuz he is awful haha. JM was just like "you should have picked it up"

[@vynneve]

but also you can take comfort in the fact that the show actually pays. she didn't pay a penny 👍

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

Oh my goodness dude is frightening Wowwww the disrespect Girl, run...move if needed He seems like he could be extremely volatile

[@themadmillionaire]

The fact that she already has children (plural) when she’s dating this loser says she’s desperate, Enjoys toxic drama and wants to stay in that low level vibrational place. He won’t change but she can.

[@elishamartin9863]

This little clown isn't frightening 😂😂😂 he reminds me of The Wizard of Oz and it was the little guy behind it all just pretending to be scary. He'd never try this with a man

[@nadeawilliams7749]

He's a pompous angry little guy!

[@Beautyenxs]

She’s so pretty. She needs to build herself up. You don’t deserve that sis!! ❤

[@gughiovhe01]

She is!

[@kandi668]

I agree. She seems so broken though. Reminds me of myself when I was in a toxic relationship. Peace look better than misery. I hope she gets her self-esteem up.

[@Ciindy513]

I agree She’s soooo beautiful I hope she knows it !

[@zmmmmkm]

THATS WHY ALL OF US WOMEN SHOULD STICK TOGETHER! WE ALL WE GOT!

[@tonyrichardson5955]

I certainly agree. She is a beautiful young lady

[@MzPrettyDimplez]

Hes one angry little leprechaun

[@teairathomas663]

Domestic violence is not a game and he did it in front of her kids and grandmother is nuts..The fact that he hasn't been put in prison serving time due to her not really pursuing it. He's never really gonna learn his lesson..Glad she done with him...

[@idiaakanbi3713]

I can't believe she did not report the last incidence; she also went back and loaned money from him according to her "recently". She is an enabler or a tough girl; he needs to learn his lesson. He deserves prison

[@teairathomas663]

@@idiaakanbi3713 exactly

[@TerriLew]

I hope the defendant gets help to make better decisions for her children and herself. I hope this guy doesn't hurt her.

[@lookatyou5809]

He has already hurt her!

[@keeper6458]

​@lookatyou5809 they're talking about retaliation after the case

[@yvettecruz6038]

He reminds me of a moody teenager. Very juvenile and immature. It’s like his maturity level is stunted. Really odd.

[@HayleysComet3]

I wouldn’t be surprised if his mom drank or drugged or both while pregnant.

[@kamaniflowers343]

“I didn’t think so” judge was feeling gangsta!😂😂

[@SavageJunky]

- He hit me and my grand mother... - But you throw the mail in my face... Mmmmkaayyyy...

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

He didn’t hit the grandmother. He hit her in front of the grandmother.

[@sheldoncole1151]

The plaintiff saying "mhm" at 9:51 Judge Judy would never 😂😂😂😂

[@mighty_Buttercup]

Im a little disappointed in the Judge for not giving him more of a dressing down. I have seen her come completely unglued because someone calls her ma'am instead of Judge or Your Honor but she let him be a complete a$$hole in open court with barely a blimp

[@thenewctc]

This is during the pandemic with fewer cases they have to stretch out for time so I understand her letting him "flow"

[@lookatyou5809]

Same, especially since she worked in DV court. She was losing it and yelling in a recent case that didn't even warrant it. Why was she allowing this abuser to interrupt and carry on. Judge Judy would have let him have it, and he would have left with ZERO!

[@tashasharp815]

If the judge flipped his lid he would take it out on his ex. I think she did enough dressing him down without engaging his rage to harm that lady more

[@lionelluva]

💯

[@brandinelson7941]

People make unfounded accusations and say Judge Millian is racist and treats black people rude (instead of recognizing the litigants are ignorant fools, regardless of color & should be called out) so I almost guarantee if she was rude to him, people would comment about how mean she is towards him because he's black (not because he's a small boy woman beater who deserves to be ridiculed)

[@seanhallahan9176]

He is a menace to society

[@jordanwashington4662]

He needs to have one of those special police interactions..

[@prettyrain2804]

Wow he’s vey dangerous

[@rubylimey7614]

Girl!!! You an your children/family dodged a bullet. This guy is unstable an after this verdict... PLEASE Get a restraining order of protection!! Praying for you🙏🙏🙏

[@zoendiayee9970]

His height (4ft) matches his age...4yrs

[@marysanders3380]

😂

[@freebiehughes9615]

And his IQ!

[@brendawelch6477]

He's a walking Red flag period

[@camarojai6832]

Red flag with flipping alarm bells

[@shaniquerobinson9011]

All that anger in that tiny body.. he’s too short to be that angry😂😂 pick a struggle bro

[@toigo-dn7on]

A

[@fallondavis747]

He’s gross 🤢

[@toigo-dn7on]

N

[@YoungBlaze]

"Side Note" Ive never seen a man wear those type of necklaces that spell out their name like that, ive only seen women wear those

[@missa1goins]

Riiight!

[@livinmabestlife]

😂😂 i never noticed

[@Gizzygal66]

Yeah….thought about the name chain as well. Hmmmm how u doin’?

[@MatthewAndrade-q3g]

Attitude is everything!! Glad our parents raised us to have respect…

[@Iamtheheadline31]

His lack of temperament and disrespect to the judge. Imagine what he's like behind closed doors

[@sheldoncole1151]

Judge Milan: "what did you say? What did you say?" Plaintiff: "i didn't say nothing" Judge Milan: "I didn't think so" He chilled out 😂😂😂😂

[@dingo1666]

It's a guy not used to a woman telling him off. This would be his mum's fault, who probably spoiled him rotten because he's a boy. Yet she raised a big baby.

[@sheenaperez1882]

​@@dingo1666and father's fault for not teaching him how to be a man.

[@Gizzygal66]

Sounds about right

[@ereal4850]

The plaintiff is just a miserable person and the defendant needs to stop being a punching bag!! Abusive behavior is not okay!!

[@davidsparrotcarechicago]

I can't wait to see how this turns out

[@leesal9753]

😮

[@mysticalmuse333]

His nasty energy has rubbed off on this girl … I know her grandmother is terrified for this girl!!

[@babycakebullock1662]

And a partridge in a pear tree!!! 💀😂 (But honestly im surprised she didnt ask for receipts for the stuff)

[@leticiajoquin813]

The reason he got any money because she admitted that she owed him money.

[@babycakebullock1662]

@@leticiajoquin813 yeah I understand that but he just had a paper with prices written down for the other stuff. Normally she asks for receipts of how much they costs. She don't usually just take their word! Yes I understand the 120 that was the loan but I'm talking about the other items!!!

[@leticiajoquin813]

That's good question why the judge didn't ask for receipts. 🤔

[@Reposadopapi]

I screamed 😂😂

[@sheldoncole1151]

The little baby seems upset and grouchy 😂😂😂😂

[@shawnrashall6323]

This guy isn't a red flag, he's the creator of red flags.

[@bhornannawindeedeigh5007]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏾

[@coooooool12342]

Lmao

[@jazzyjay767]

He got some nerves thinking she wanted to marry him after he done abused her. Judge Mathis or Judge Judy would of been dismissed his case with all of that slick talking.

[@Elteejay]

And the ring was $143! Engagement ring?! 😅

[@James-134]

Considering he got arrested 6 times cause of the abuse and she kept getting back with him... yeah I can see why he thought he could marry her, she was dumb too, he just happens to be dumber AND an abuser!

[@JonnyB78]

Stockholm syndrome. Being sued must have some how broken the cycle. Sometime only an external force will do it.

[@kandi668]

Zales don’t have no $143 engagement rings. Walmart does.

[@JayJay-me8zk]

Agreed, Judge Mathis would have come unglued on this guy!!!!

[@bethcarico7549]

He's such a drama queen with this theatrics. I've never heard a grown man sign and moan and groan so much.

[@StaceyBeryl]

He looks like maybe his mother was addicted to SOMETHING! Yikes!

[@karenoconnor4180]

Foetal Alcohol Syndrome for sure 🤔

[@theburntoutlighter1084]

Oh just flush them!!! 😂😅 Send them to college!!! 😂😂😂😂 Goodness gravy I almost woke up the whole house from laughing 😂😂😂

[@victoriaalexandra1958]

How does the plaintiff function in life?

[@bryannagomes8785]

He literally looks like a bum if I’ve ever seen one 😂

[@NotAsItSeems]

Is the plaintiff awake?

[@meadow8787]

Lol

[@sheldoncole1151]

Lmao

[@VettGirl66]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@danaspetrini8338]

How do you go to court high AF?! How disrespectful.

[@sheenaperez1882]

He's a professional victim, and he doesn't see anything he does wrong. Everything is everyone else's fault. He seems a little challenged as well. He's rude and unruly. I'm glad she got away. She should've pushed harder to have him put away. She looks tired and depleted.

[@KAKE-26]

I LOL’d over the Zales ring. 💍

[@missa1goins]

And JM reaction

[@Gizzygal66]

Facts

[@jasonmccann8023]

She don't have any brothers or cousins... Buddy would've felt something if she was related to me.

[@camarojai6832]

I’d even say a few girlfriends at this point…. Because there’s no way

[@Diva8204]

The plaintiff looks sleepy... Sleepwalking into court😂😂

[@VettGirl66]

Or high

[@karenoconnor4180]

I think its just his miserable unpleasant face

[@LadycookieK0304]

He is a complete fool

[@themadmillionaire]

Plaintiff doesn’t need yet another woman! He really needs therapy and healing…he’s extremely fragile and medication maybe needed 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@ayanamuhammad6870]

I’m surprised the judge was so lenient with his behavior. She could’ve thrown the whole case away based on his actions.

[@karenoconnor4180]

He wouldn’t have lasted 2 minutes on Judge Mathis he despises “ woman beaters “

[@lourdesr980]

He is BIG MAD 😂

[@Talk2FlowNow]

I don’t understand why she hadn’t thrown him out of court and dismissed his case. He’s nuts! She definitely needs to introduce him to her brothers and father. I guess she doesn’t have any because abusers normally don’t confront actual men. They only bully women. 😮

[@samisoesah8393]

This dude needs someone to meet his energy

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Listen to how he speaks to the JUDGE!!!!

[@Blueeyesbabygirl]

Domestic violence is bad he was physically abusive towards her he should be arrested and prosecuted. If he's not paying rent or any utilities he should leave the premises she's within her right to ask him to leave. Smh 🙄 Also I hate when people tell Doug at the end she (the judge) wouldn't listen yes she did.

[@R.C._Red-Velvet]

She really needs to get her life together, if not for her sakes, her children. The next time she goes back to him, he may kill her. This is really sad.

[@PrincessQuita86]

1:32, is his eyes closed?! 😂

[@meadow8787]

You said words to me, so i hit you?!?!?! Yeah, he is a psycho crazy scary dude. He can't even keep his eyes open in court. Despicable.

[@lizh6578]

She needs to get counseling to prevent herself and her children from getting a man like that again. It’s well known that boys become like the abuser. A girl looks for a man like the abuser. All need help now!

[@sheenaperez1882]

Not always, sometimes they also go for people that is nothing like the person because they don't want to be in a situation like that again. Not disagreeing with you, just saying it could go either way.

[@sheldoncole1151]

3:42 "can you listen to me" If only this was Judge Judy or Judge Mathis

[@GoddessPower777]

he has major problems. and she does to for continuing to deal with him. As big as she is to him, she needs to be doing damage.

[@het-herukhepra752]

Right!!

[@tjones617]

This case should have been giving to Judge Mathis

[@franklesser5655]

Plaintiff seems to be a gentleman of great intellect and charm.

[@small_joys2022]

😂

[@michaelm1377]

Oh, the sarcasm! 😂 A napoleon complex, victim mentality (of his own making), 6 DV cases against him (that we have knowledge of - me thinks there are more), disrespectful/can't form correct or valid responses in front of a judge, serious violent tendencies reeking from his half pint self... That guy's a nightmare.

[@kay22100]

😂😂😂

[@trekgirl65]

Plaintiff is showing his true colors to the Judge. I bet after the hearing, he was arrested for battery and DV.

[@Catloudan]

Judge Judy would never!! She let him get away with so much disrespect in the courtroom. He should have been dismissed and thrown out!

[@gaylewhauwhau3972]

Shes as crazy as him, she wont follow through with the assault cases, 😢

[@kgbrown5563]

If he isnt going to get time its not worth it.

[@virgo7956]

Can't tell someone how to tie up their laces when you're not walking in THEIR shoes!! Straight up!!

[@karternfamily]

She needs to move and make sure he does not have the address...smh

[@Praise.belongs.to.TMH_]

He’s mental for sure. The effects of poverty, not having the resources available for families and individuals to express themselves in a positive way.

[@prettyfacetarot]

He has such a short temper he can't even act right in court. So many issues.

[@johnsmith5922]

They look like a mother and son.

[@JustBree716]

He recently loaned her money????? Girllllll get out my court. She has kids for crying out loud. Give the man his stuff already. She may be a victim but she's also a participant in this toxicity. Shame shame shame

[@SweetandSassyRedhead]

This plaintiff is disgusting for not only hitting her but in front of her kids. Look how aggressive he is in court. And this lady needs self esteem to avoid these dirtbags.

[@JustBree716]

She should have told him to meet her at a police station to get his stuff and if he didn't show leave it at the police station and let them deal with him

[@taurussho86]

2nd hand embarrassment... omg Judge shouldve just through this out

[@veehuger-or7zq]

I can only imagine the type of person he really is smh. Red flag 🚩 red flag 🚩 red flag 🚩

[@jenn_x.]

Not sure why the defendant feels she needs to put up with that 🤡 for a second. Not only can she easily do better (and since he's a piece of 💩, that's really not saying much), but I have no doubt she could take him in a fight if she truly wanted. For her kids' sake - if not for her own - she needs to press charges, get a PPO, and be done with it.

[@ChelleysTelly]

Man, we need an update on shorty. I’d hate to see her on a crime doc smh.

[@Tayyay-ut8qu]

She should have counter sued for pain and suffering!

[@aliciaharriott1698]

This guy is triggering me! He’s going to do the same thing to the next person he dates! Someone needs to show up to court so he can stay behind bars!!!!

[@shynbryt11]

No amount of therapy would help this little guy. Whew…

[@Chopperman9]

I bet he lose that attitude real quick in jail he gets charged but never convicted what a loser he has no self control

[@kaykepop4084]

"Everyone considers me a bad guy!"...... Ummm, yeah! I see why they consider that! He can't even control himself in court and on national television! Sir, your problem with anger shines through clearly, and I hope you have or will get the help you need because no one needs to deal with an out of control adult.

[@corporateraider77]

What in the remedial is going on here. This dude belongs in a prison cell.

[@PetmyMogwai]

There was no way he could have faced Doug in the hallway and not got arrested.

[@kay22100]

He’s SLOWWWW! I’m glad she called the cops on him. Make sure his violence is documented. Something domestic violence victims don’t tend to do. I hope she didn’t get back with him. Especially since she has kids, women always let these idiots back in

[@sheldoncole1151]

Slow or not he need to chill out

[@kay22100]

@@sheldoncole1151Well that’s obvious.